Is it possible to date with purpose, passion, and purity—especially when you're serving in ministry?

In this fiery and faith-filled episode, I sit down with pastor Cesar Delgado and Sam Tenney of Revere Church, to unpack the real, raw, and sometimes ridiculous world of dating in the church. From awkward DMs to divine delays, we’re talking about what it means to pursue love while staying rooted in your calling.

Topics we dive into:

Dating while in ministry—what’s sacred, what’s messy, and what’s misunderstood
Why values alignment isn’t just cute—it’s critical
Communication, clarity, and calling: the triple threat for intentional relationships
Boundaries that protect your heart and your holiness
The beauty of waiting, healing, and letting God lead your love story

Whether you’re single, searching, or just spiritually curious, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you date, who you date, and why your relationship with God must come first. It’s spicy, it’s soulful, and it’s straight-up necessary.

Tune in, take notes, and tag your single besties—because this one’s too good to keep to yourself.

Show your appreciation to Sam and Cesar by tagging samuel_10e, @cesar_delgado, and me @biancajuarezofficial.

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Guests

Pastor Cesar Delgado, Associate Pastor, Revere Church

Sam Tenney, Guest Experience Director, Revere Church

Takeaways

The importance of being candid and real in conversations about dating.
Dating and relationships can be challenging, especially in ministry contexts.
Statistics can reveal the realities of the dating landscape.
Values alignment is crucial for successful relationships.
Clear communication is essential in dating.
Men often struggle with expressing their intentions clearly.
Women should also take responsibility for their dating expectations.
Dating should be approached with purpose and intention.
Personal values should guide relationship decisions.
Community support is vital in navigating dating challenges.

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