Podcast
We're Having Gay Sex
Hosted by Ashley Gavin & Studio71 · EN
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com
We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4
Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy
41episodes
Episodes
Newest firstAll episodes
Polyamory Will Save Your Relationships (w/ Neil Rubenstein) | WHGS 333
3w ago01:06:09Tap to summarizeThis episode is OPEN and HONEST, listener! Neil Rubenstein is an incredible pansexual comedian who regularly opens for Ashley on the road, but today they’re meeting in the HOTEL ROOM for something a bit more saucy… We discuss polyamory, its benefits & challenges, mental health & healing, sex vs. gender expression, hooking up with gay republicans, and falling in love with a poly granny. Ashley goes in-depth on being open. Neil goes gay on the road. FOLLOW NEIL RUBENSTEIN: He’s on tour! Sign up for his mailing list to find out where: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1ZtPjhYREDKcbpqAtJJS1ILEOjWhRLCPj_i56ckOLBvk/viewform?edit_requested=true Join his Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/NeilRubenstein TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsneilrubenstein Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neilrubenstein/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/fNA5VDox8_I ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Daylight: The Unlikely Secret for a Better Sex Life (w/ Caitlin Peluffo) | WHGS 332
4w ago01:10:39Tap to summarizeWatch Caitlin Peluffo’s new special, “Prosciutto Rose,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M5HKgLyjcI — If you like Ashley’s comedy, you’re gonna love Caitlin! This episode is making sexy choices, listener! Caitlin Peluffo is a fan-favorite stand up comedian HOT off her success on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF,” but today she’s returning to the apartment for the 4th time for some afternoon delight! We discuss making love in the middle of the day, energy vs. physical appearance, self-image when flirting, and going for the throat in a chicken fight. Ashley argues with homophobic gamers. Lizzy likes ‘em THICK. FOLLOW CAITLIN PELUFFO: She’s on tour! Get tickets here: https://punchup.live/caitlinpeluffo Watch her on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF” NOW: https://www.netflix.com/title/82054722 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@caitlinpeluffo Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caitlinpeluffo/ Twitter: https://x.com/caitlinpeluffo FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/_RhAymRBac8 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized and affordable treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →My GF (Jen Davis) and I Had a Relationship Ending Fight… | WHGS Ep. 331
Jul 601:08:20Tap to summarizeThis episode is FIGHTING, listener! Jen Davis is an incredible actor, content creator, and Ashley’s perfect girlfriend, but today she’s sitting on the couch to chew Ashley out — and NOT in that way, listener! We discuss hooking up with people out of the country, the beauty of a long-distance fling, drawing boundaries with your partner, and being cute even in your sleep. Ashley gets in serious hot water with Jen. Lizzy does domestic violence. FOLLOW JEN DAVIS: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/2OlG4Ngl09I ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF for 50% OFF and FREE daily greens at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Ali Kolbert’s Secret to Stopping Comphet | WHGS Ep. 330
Jun 2901:01:32Tap to summarizeThis episode is learning and growing, listener! It’s been a long time coming — a catch up with beloved comedian and friend of the show Ali Kolbert! It’s a duo episode today as we discuss what everyone’s been up to, straight propaganda in the New York Times, navigating comphet, disgustingly stinky ladies, and the three qualities you MUST have in order to get onto a boat. Also Ali made a VIRAL QUEER MOVIE?! You gotta tune in. SUPPORT ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert Watch her queer short film, “NO SEX,” now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpTo1U8ye-0 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/iX8aW5SdLYw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Gen Z Doesn’t Know How to Kiss w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 329
Jun 2201:03:53Tap to summarizeThis episode is smooching, listener! Beloved actor, comedian, writer, and friend Breanne Williamson RETURNS for the annual ASH-BRE CATCH-UP — and you best believe there is gonna be some kissing involved! We discuss the crisis of kissing in younger generations, Love Island, the mental illness of young men, European vs. American sense of humor, and whether or not “Belly” is sexy dirty talk. Ashley has her DIRTIEST sex yet (literally). Bre wants romance. FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/K21UJXAzr_I ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized & affordable care at https://www.forhers.com/gay HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Sabrina Wu’s WIERD Approach to Losing Their Queer Virginity | WHGS Ep. 328
Jun 1501:07:39Tap to summarize(TW // self harm discussion; 8:14 - 9:52) This episode is making awkward moves, listener! Sabrina Wu (they/them) is an unfathomably funny stand up comedian, writer, and actor who you've seen on Joy Ride, Murderbot, and Abbot Elementary — but today they’re in the apartment to pop their queer cherry! We discuss realizing you’re gay when young, the bizarre ways you explore at that age, genderqueer identity vs. perception, acting, and getting called a filthy little PIG. Ashley reconnects with a messy fling. Lizzy experiments with polyamory. SUPPORT SABRINA WU: Watch them LIVE on tour: https://linktr.ee/sabwu Watch Murderbot on Apple TV: https://tv.apple.com/us/show/murderbot/umc.cmc.5owrzntj9v1gpg31wshflud03 Watch Dying for Sex on Hulu: https://www.hulu.com/series/423f6320-b55b-453b-a85f-dea05bd495d9 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asabrinawu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asabrinawu/ Twitter: https://x.com/asabrinawu FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/TRhH8Wg4YEQ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: TOMBOYX: Use code GAY15 to get 15% OFF your order at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Zach Noe Towers Didn’t Watch “Heated Rivalry" — He LIVED It | WHGS Ep. 327
Jun 801:05:04Tap to summarizeThis episode is living through a real fantasy, listener! Zach Noe Towers is an endlessly lovable stand up comedian whose work has been featured on E!, Netflix, and Comedy Central, but today he’s in the apartment to showcase his work from GRINDR! We discuss having a LEGENDARY hookup straight out of “Heated Rivalry,” interpreting flirty body language, short & fiery flings, and big boy dumps. Ashley teaches a homophobic teen a lesson. Lizzy struggles for vacation sex. SUPPORT ZACH NOE TOWERS: Watch his special, “Twink Death,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmIxzOLtOQo See Him LIVE: https://punchup.live/zachnoetowers/tour Listen to “Good Morning, Sodomites” wherever you listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-morning-sodomites/id1533562889 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@zachnoetowers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zachnoetowers/ Twitter: https://x.com/ZachNoeTowers FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/XZocFdfkQxk ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex TOMBOYX: Use code GAY15 to get 15% OFF your order at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Rachel Karp Went to EVERY Lesbian Bar in America | WHGS Ep. 326
Jun 101:11:05Tap to summarizeThis episode is going out tonight, listener! Rachel Karp is a writer, producer, and lesbian bar expert who has been documenting the history of sapphic nightlife in America, but today she’s in the sapphic space of Ashley’s apartment — and we’re doin’ BODY SHOTS! We discuss lesbian history through the lens of queer bars, the characters and stories found in them, age-gap relationships, and kissing your wife for the first time at a queer sex party. Ashley realizes she can get head. Lizzy ponders queer vs. gay. SUPPORT RACHEL: Read “The Lesbian Bar Chronicles” right NOW: https://www.rachelbkarp.com/ Listen to her podcast, “Cruising,” wherever you listen: https://www.rachelbkarp.com/podcasts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachel.karp/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/SutaDh61tpQ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF to get 50% OFF + free daily greens at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off HERS: Get personalized and affordable care at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Dodie Writes Gay Anthems While Being Straight | WHGS Ep. 325
May 2501:05:02Tap to summarizeThis episode is musical, listener! WHGS is comin’ at you from ENGLAND with Dodie — an incredible singer, songwriter, and YouTuber with top-charting albums and a hit single, “She,” that took over Lesbian TikTok. We discuss writing queer anthems before knowing you’re queer, the odd ways you explore bisexuality before coming out, internalized homophobia, breakups, and being just like Zooey Deschanel — AKA, hot. Ashley needs sex for career accomplishments. Lizzy gets in quickies between childcare. FOLLOW DODIE: Listen to her new album, “Not For Lack Of Trying,” NOW: https://open.spotify.com/album/6ogKuILl7vFFCahzxHvFOi Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doddleoddle/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@doddleoddle Twitter: https://x.com/doddleoddle YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@doddleoddle Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.dodie.co/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/US_4IKSHyJA ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: TOMBOYX: Get 15% OFF your order with code GAY15 at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →I Made a Listener Trans (and Other Stories) | WHGS Ep. 324
May 1800:57:39Tap to summarizeGet the full versions of all these highlights, PLUS uncut episodes, live streams, live show tickets, and MORE at https://www.patreon.com/WHGS. Ashley has just wrapped up her 2026 tour in Europe (thanks to everyone who came out to a show), so to give her a week to recover, we have decided to release a bunch of highlights from our exclusive PATREON ONLY bonus series — You’re Having Gay Sex. We react to CRAZY sex stories submitted by YOU, our listeners, and in-between, we banter about a variety of topics too strange to put on the main episodes. Enjoy this free sample of the WHGS PATREON!!! FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/ FOLLOW JOSH JOHNSON Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.joshjohnsoncomedy.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshjohnsoncomedy/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JoshJohnsonComedy FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/O0sGXBdOsLU ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →