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After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
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Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315
Mar 1601:08:31Tap to summarizeThis episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you can absolutely positively FUMBLE the one opportunity to break said dry spell. Ashley gets called ugly. Lizzy prefers gay men. FOLLOW SOFIE HAGEN: See them live on her WORLD TOUR now! Get tickets at https://www.sofiehagen.com/ Listen to “Sofieland” NOW on all platforms: https://www.sofiehagen.com/sofieland Check out her books: https://www.sofiehagen.com/books Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sofiehagendk/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sofie.hagen FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/WbjU37TrBOo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Jenny Zigrino: Queer History Can Be Found EVERYWHERE | WHGS Ep. 314
Mar 901:09:50Tap to summarizeThis episode is historic, listener! Jenny Zigrino (Conan, JFL, Don’t Tell) is a hilarious stand up comedian, writer, and performer that breaks boundaries, but today she’s in the apartment to thrust DEEP… into history. We discuss queer history in Colonial America, attraction to masculinity regardless of gender, drag, burlesque, and how bisexuals are pretty dang cool. Ashley has sex on a timer. Lizzy queens out with a taxi driver. FOLLOW JENNY ZIGRINO: Get tix to her show in Denver, 3/12: https://www.jennyzigrino.com/live Watch her special, “Jen-Z,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PY9_iOjf2qk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennyzigrino/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jennyzigrinocomedy FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/vU5DenTdDoE ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FEELD: Try reflections now at https://feeld.co/reflections Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Kylie Vincent Almost Died — And She STILL Pulls Like Crazy | WHGS Ep. 313
Mar 201:04:52Tap to summarizeIf you have the funds, Donate to Kylie’s GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kylie-kick-brain-lesion-ass (TW \\ SA; skip 42:44 - 49:33 to avoid) This episode is SICK, listener! Kylie Vincent is a stand up comedian, writer, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she’s phoning into the apartment fresh out of the hospital. Kylie got a freaking BRAIN LESION, so we take some time to check in on how she’s doing alongside Ashley’s girlfriend, Jen Davis. We discuss her trials and tribulations in the hospital, the American healthcare system, disabilities, Multiple Sclerosis, and how in spite of it all — Kylie’s STILL banging baddies. Ashley is grateful for Jen. Jen is poisoning her face with makeup. FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENTGoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kylie-kick-brain-lesion-ass Show & Tour Dates: https://beacons.ai/kylievincent Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/discover/kylie-vincent FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW JEN DAVIS @jenparkerdavis TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/VAc3EXEMLxQ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Get 50% OFF your 1st box + free breakfast with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off HERS: Visit https://www.forhers.com/gay to get personalized, affordable treatment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Chrissy Chlapecka’s Tips To Try Femme Topping (C.C.T.T.T.F.T.) | WHGS Ep. 312
Feb 2301:07:12Tap to summarizeThis episode is a POWER BOTTOM, listener! Chrissy Chlapecka is an enchanting musician, content creator, and activist that’s about to kick off a nation-wide tour, but today she’s returning to the apartment for some verse activity as an out-and-proud LESBIAN! We discuss topping as a high-femme lesbian, methods to approach that with your butch GF, overcoming comphet, and the best queer scenes across the US. Ashley power bottoms for the first time. Lizzy gets spat on. FOLLOW CHRISSY CHLAPECKA: She’s on tour! Get tickets in your city at: https://www.chrissychlapecka.com/shows-1 Listen to her new album: https://open.spotify.com/album/1fmhvHU2zF9Zcq4yibQMkh Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrissychlapecka/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chrissychlapecka Twitter: https://x.com/chrissychlapp FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/XqsCVp46XMI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Roz Hernandez Encounters An Unprecedented Ick | WHGS Ep. 311
Feb 1601:01:08Tap to summarizeThis episode is HORRIFIC, listener! Roz Hernandez is a mind-blowing stand up comedian, podcaster, actor, and paranormal export that has been sending people to the afterlife with laughter, but today she’s in the apartment to investigate the most GHASTLY ick she has ever encountered on a date! We discuss purposely being given the ick by people you’re trying to date, only dating queer people, identity, labels, and cruises. People try to make Ashley trans. Lizzy hooks up with a semi-famous celebrity. FOLLOW ROZ HERNANDEZ: Watch “Roz Hernandez: The Haunted Doll”: https://www.youtube.com/@rozhernandezthehaunteddoll Listen to “Ghosted”: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjln_dcebJgWyojV_PuPlDWHsqFaBfBW9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rozhernandez/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsrozhernandez Twitter: https://x.com/itsrozhernandez Tour Dates & Mailing List: https://linktr.ee/rozhernandez FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/zJBxz4p_Siw ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Kate Sisk Has Become an OF Connoisseur | WHGS Ep. 310
Feb 900:52:48Tap to summarizeGo watch Kate’s NEW stand up special RIGHT NOW: http://Of.tv/lmaof130 or https://bio.site/KateSisk. Kate Sisk is a beloved comedian, writer, and the former co-host / “cancel coach” of WHGS! But today, he’s BACK in the apartment to make a movie…and it’s RATED X! We discuss watching queer adult content, bizarre videos, seeing your friends in said videos, & suckin’ self. Oh yeah, and the set may or may not completely fall apart. Ashley got too high. Lizzy’s queer vices get exposed. FOLLOW KATE SISK: Tour Dates & Mailing List: https://bio.site/KateSisk Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thekatesisk FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/2UtbvrHDwYQ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex HERS: Get a personalized & affordable health plan at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →I Hooked Up With Alayna Joy (Basically) | WHGS Ep. 309
Feb 201:08:08Tap to summarizeThis episode has been years in the making, listener! It’s a DUO episode today as we are joined by Alayna Joy, an incredible queer therapist, content creator, and co-host on Ashley’s other podcast, Chosen Family. However today she’s coming into the WHGS apartment, because Ashley banged her doppelganger?! In-between the details of this epic story, we discuss getting married after coming out 6 years ago, compulsory heterosexuality, discovering bisexuality on YouTube, and melatonin. Enjoy! FOLLOW ALAYNA JOY: Listen to their podcast, Sleeping Around: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sleeping-around/id1766365018 alayna Subscribe to their Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/AlaynaJoy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missfenderr/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@missfenderr YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrzizGkW-Dgv9sN9vVHAN4Q FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/qfP0u9uXbNg ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Use code “gay50off” to get 50% OFF + FREE Breakfast at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off DOWNLOAD HER! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Sarah Keyworth Enrolled in a Dominatrix School | WHGS Ep. 308
Jan 2601:05:23Tap to summarizeThis episode is trying new things, listener! Sarah Keyworth (they/them) is an award-winning stand up comedian & podcaster that’s been taking the UK by storm, but today they're in the apartment from across the pond to teach us naughty students a lesson! We discuss your friends taking dominatrix lessons in their 30s, coping with bad times, biking, gaming, and how 3D printing is a massive turn off. Ashley beefs with a homophobic troll while gaming. Bre can’t pee. FOLLOW SARAH KEYWORTH: See them live: https://www.sarahkeyworth.co.uk/ Listen to their gaming podcast, “Button Boys:” https://linktr.ee/buttonboys Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarah_keyworth/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahkeyworthcomedian FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/sarahkeyworthcomedian/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/h_Vh9V5gUiQ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Carson Olshansky A/B Tested The Best Finger For Bangin’ | WHGS Ep. 307
Jan 1901:07:38Tap to summarizeThis episode is running experiments, listener! Carson Olshansky (they/them) is a fantastic stand-up comedian, writer, and creator that you’ve seen blowing up your social media feeds, but today they’re in the apartment to fingerblast you so accurately you’ll scream “Eureka!” We discuss a/b testing the best finger for bangin’, finding sexual compatibility, dating mascs with a complicated identity, and having LEGITIMATE trauma from Jimmy Buffet’s “Margaritaville.” Ashley gets boob-honked HARD. Lizzy’s anniversary is nearly ruined. FOLLOW CARSON OLSHANSKY: Join their Substack, “Review Mode”: https://reviewmode.substack.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carsonolshansky/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carsonolshansky Twitter: https://x.com/carsonolshansky YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@carson-olshansky FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/wqBVoq6kSD4 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcribe →Become Bi — Because Lesbian Divorce Statistics are WILD w/ Emily Wilson | WHGS Ep. 272
May 12, 202501:09:48Tap to summarizeThis episode is bisexual as heck, listener! Emily Wilson is an amazing comedian, writer, and actor who was nominated for “Best Newcomer” at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’s in the apartment to be nominated for “Best CUMMER” with the LADIES! In addition, we are joined by the hilarious and whip-smart comedian Lizzy Cassidy while Maddie is out sick. We discuss maintaining your bisexuality in a long-term cishet relationship, getting married, straight vs. gay divorce statistics, and how one simple jacket can make you the mother of a trans child. Ashley gets punished by her professor. Lizzy challenges the “U-Hauling” stereotype. Follow Emily on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/therealemilywilson/ https://www.tiktok.com/@therealemilywilson And go watch her new special, “FIXED,” right now on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L9LL4lM3fbk Follow Lizzy on IG, Twitter/X, and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ https://x.com/lizzaster https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy And see her live on tour! Get tickets at: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/8GQ20SOIo1E FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide, plus a free bedding bundle with Luxe/Elite purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Use code gay50off to Get 50% OFF at https://www.factor75.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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