In this rich and honest conversation, Lantz Howard talks with longtime friend Dr. Matt Paden, co-author of the new USA Today bestselling book The Core. Matt shares the powerful story behind the book, his major life transitions over the past two years, and why great leadership is far more about who you are than what you can do.

They explore ego vs. humility, the power of vulnerability, leading for the good of others, and how to navigate seasons of massive change in leadership, marriage, and family life.

Character beats skills for long-term success. Skills get you the seat, but character keeps you there and sustains your influence.
Ego out of control leads to destruction. The story of Haman vs. Mordecai in the Book of Esther shows that two people can have the exact same job — but completely different outcomes based on their character.
Work for the good of your people. The best leaders focus on service over self-promotion. Ask: “Am I working for the good of the people I lead?”
Vulnerability is strength, not weakness. Pretending to know everything breeds cynicism and toxicity. Admitting what you don’t know builds trust and unleashes your team.
Leadership is messy, complex, and often lonely. Don’t try to do it alone — get a coach, build a trusted circle, and stay humble.
Seasons of massive change are normal. Matt’s transition from higher education executive to entrepreneur, author, and company founder shows that change, while hard, can lead to rich growth.
Strengthen your core first. When your inner life (character, humility, self-awareness) is healthy, everything else — team performance, marriage, family, and influence — improves.
Date nights and marriage rhythms still matter in busy seasons. Even high-achieving leaders must intentionally protect time with their spouse.

Resources Mentioned:

Buy the Book: The Core by Dr. Matt Paden & Dr. Ken Jones (USA Today Bestseller)
Learn more about Great Days Leadership – Coaching and Consulting organization
Subscribe to the podcast: Bad Days Leadership Podcast

Learn more about coaching with Lantz Howard at www.lantzhoward.com