Loading summary
Marc Maron
By now you've heard about Airbnb and how you can make some extra money while you're away. But did you also know you can host on Airbnb and have someone else take care of all the details for you? If you're going away for a long trip, an Airbnb co host can handle all the hosting duties. These are high quality local co hosts who create the listing for you, manage your reservations and send messages to your guests. And you'll still make some cash while you're away. It's easier than ever. Find a co host@airbnb.com host lock the gate. All right, let's do this. How are you? What the fuckers? What the fuck, buddies? What the fuck? Knicks, what's happening? I'm Marc Maron. This is my podcast. Wtf. Welcome to it. I talked to you about a bit about some breakthrough I had last time I talked to you and I think I can give you more details. But first I will say this. Keith Urban is on the show today. Keith Urban, Grammy winning country singer and songwriter. He was a judge on American Idol as well as the Australian version of the Voice. He's got a new album out. It's his 11th studio album. Famously married to Nicole Kidman. I met him briefly when I did during COVID I interviewed Nicole and he was setting up her computer so we had a. Hey, that. That was. That was just Keith Urban. I. I'll be honest with you, I didn't know a lot about him going in, but I did do the. The listening. When I interview a musical act, I'll do the listening. Figured out where he started, where he went. And I'll be honest with you, and this isn't really necessarily a bad thing, but in a way, Keith Urban has been with me in spirit since the day he did the interview. I'll explain to you why I don't. Look, I am no one to judge anybody for wearing particular scents that make them feel good. Who am I to fucking judge? I've been wearing patchouli for at least 35 years from the same place, mind you. I've been buying my patchouli at Life in San Francisco on lower hate for 35 years, for a long time. But Keith came in here with his smell. Don't know what it was. It was specific. But I guess our smells fought it out. His particular scent, definitely one, because I can still smell it. And again, not a negative thing, but it's here and I don't know when it's going to go away. It's Not a bad smell, but I mean, after a certain point, you know, I interview a guy and, you know, I kind of move on with my life. But I have been unable to completely move on from Keith Urban. Again, not making a judgment. I wear patchouli, but. But in a way, in spirit or at the very least in smell, Keith has been with me. Again, not bad. Not saying anything bad about Keith. I'm just stating a fact. It's what's happening, and I imagine it'll pass. Maybe after I post this episode, the scent he was wearing will. Will leave. Maybe it's been waiting for this. I don't know. This Saturday, October 26th, I'll be at Dynasty Typewriter here in Los Angeles. The rest of my tour dates are scheduled for the next year. You can go to wtfpod.com tour to see all of them. So, look, I'll tell you what happened now that, you know, the cat's out of the bag in some ways. The cast of the movie I'm doing, In Memoriam, is kind of growing. And publicly, it was just announced that Sharon Stone and Lily Gladstone are on board. But the breakthrough I was talking about that happened was with Sharon. Now, I've interviewed Sharon Stone here on the show years ago, and it was great. She's great. And you, anytime you hang out at all for any amount of time with Sharon Stone, you're like, holy fuck, this person's a electric person. She's an electric person, an inspired electric person. And if you know her work, you're like, she's a fucking great actress. One of the best fucking movie star. So she's in the movie and I got this big scene with her now in this scene. And I've known this for months before I knew Sharon Stone was going to be in it. It calls for crying. And I was fucking nervous about it. There's like two or three scenes in this movie. I'm not going to tell you the scenes. I'm not going to spoil the movie or really give you the story. But there's a few scenes in this movie that require a level of acting that I just didn't have confidence in myself to be able to do. But I wanted to rise to the challenge. But I was hung up on this crying business. Even though I know, I know in a lot of movies they just spray some menthol or smear some menthol fall under their eyes and you can have the tears there. But do you have the emotions behind it? And look, I'm learning a lot about this thing now. Because I'm having to do all these different types of acting in this movie and because of the conversations I've had here in this story, primarily. My recent talk with Al Pacino and earlier talk that I had with Ethan Hawke played a good part in me kind of figuring out how to do what I had to do. But I still. Going into this scene, which was multileveled and long, I knew that Sharon and I had to get to crying. And I. Look, I assume she could do it. Obviously, she's fucking Sharon Stone, but I was wary. And, you know, we enter the scene and it's just her and I, and there's a lot going on between us in this scene. And we shoot a couple of them. We shoot a couple of takes, and I'm like, I am. I am just. I am disappearing into me. I'm falling into the hole of Mark. I'm looking at Sharon Stone. We're running the scene, and I'm like, I'm. I am. I was. I was crumbling, folks. Crumbling. I didn't let on. But you kind of know when you're doing a job of any kind and you're working with somebody who's really good at that job, you kind of. You know, when you're. You're. You're. Your part of the job is not quite up to snuff. So I have a meltdown in my trailer. Not as bad as DiCaprio did in once Upon a Time in Hollywood. No booze involved, but it was pretty good. You know, that's what managers are for, to watch you pace around and yell that you can't do it. And I was, like, just completely falling apart. I'm the lead of this movie. You know, you get that out. And then I'm like, dude, you gotta figure it out. You gotta go back in there. This is not Marc Maron and Sharon Stone. This is two people playing characters that have a relationship. There's something you need. There's something you are wanting in this scene. You know what the scene is. You know where you're at. Figure out what your fucking character's relationship right now is with this character's relationship and act appropriately to honor that dynamic. Figure it out. Do not enter the scene thinking, fuck, Sharon Stone is here. That's not the right way. So I figured that out, man. I did the Pacino thing, You know, I went to the character. You know, I read my post. It that just says posture on top of it with an exclamation point. Then go to the character. What's going on? In the scene, where are you going? Where do you come from? Why are you here? I do that, but I gotta cry. And I'm getting into a zone where I'm trying to find. Where is the zone where I cry? I don't have the tools to cry on purpose. Every tool I have is the opposite of that. It's the opposite tool. I'm a comedian. How do you not cry? How do you make crying funny? With words? That's my job. But I gotta find this place and. But, like, so I get back from lunch, I'm confident about how our characters are interact so I can sort of hold my own. I'm thinking about Ethan Hawke when he told me that when he got Training Day, you know, he watched Denzel Washington's. All his movies just as. Almost training films, just so he wouldn't get eaten alive. I didn't have time for that. But what it meant to me was, like, ground yourself in you, dude. All you got is you. So live in it fully. So we're doing this scene and we do, you know, a couple of. We do, like, one take of it, and I'm like, look, I said to Sharon, you know, it's going okay. We're still in, like, a master shot. You know, they're coming in. I'm like, you know, I don't think I can cry. I don't think I can do it. So I gotta. I'm gonna have to put that stuff in. You know, I said to her, and she said she knows an actor that puts onions in their pocket and then just rubs her eyes before. And I'm like, I'm not doing that. But they got the stuff and. But I was. I felt like it was a failure. I felt like, you know, dude, if you want to fucking act and you want to connect and you want this to be honest, and you want this. This moment in this story to be honest, you know, you should be able to cry. I felt like I was just throwing the towel in. I said, right. You know, I said, I'm going to get this stuff. She goes, you. You can cry. And I'm like, I don't. I don't know. I don't know. I think she goes, what makes you cry? And I'm like, well, you know, it happens. I have no control over it. Sometimes TV commercials or a cat video, something like that, you know, there's some stuff. And the whole time I'm in my character, you know, before the scene and on the breaks of the scene, I'm thinking, like, get into a Zone, man. Get into a place where you can find this emotion. And I just wasn't finding it. I was in the right area, but I didn't know how to get it out. And she goes. She says to me. She looks me in the eyes. There's a point in the scene where she grabs my face and she says, I know what makes you cry. She goes, you know what makes you cry? And I'm like, okay. And I'm looking right at her face, and I go, you talking. Are you talking about Lynn? She had reached out to me after Lynn passed away, you know, and was, you know, very nice and supportive. And I feel like I know Sharon a bit. We're not pals, but she knew about Lynn. And she goes. And I said, lynn? And she goes, yeah. And she looks me in the eyes and, like, you know, we're face to face, you know, between shots, and she says, you know, do the scene to Lynn. And I'm like, what? And I'd already been thinking about that, like, you know, in order to bring up tears. It wasn't that I was thinking about a moment with Lynn, you know, the love of my life who passed away, but I was thinking about how much Lynn believed in my talent and wanted so much for me to do it and to enjoy it and to. And to, you know, express myself with this acting thing. And it was when she was always so supportive. So it was just this idea of Lyn's love and support being gone, but being there with. With me. I was trying to get there before Sharon even said that. But then I'm like, yeah, I know, I know, I know. She goes, look, she says this to me. She says, you do. You do the scene, you know, do it. Do it to Lynn. And, you know, she'll be here. I'll make sure she'll be here. I'll get her here. And I was like, what? You know, and whatever you think about what she's. So. What, you know, she's telling me, or whether, you know, it was a magic trick or mystical. She got me place where I felt like I could get to the place I needed to get to, to live in this scene with honest emotions, you know, for the emotional crying, which becomes. Once you get to that place, you're in the scene and the lines are the lines, and the relationship in the scene is the relationship. I wasn't, you know, thinking about doing it to Lynn or picturing Lynn. I was being the character with Sharon in this situation where we were both crying, sobbing, sobbing on a couple of takes. And I've never sobbed like that, you know, in public ever. On this show once, for that reason. But it wasn't about that. It was about how do you get to the well of emotions, whatever they are, you know, and bring them to life within this scene for this story. I'll make sure she's here. Wow. God damn, man. Never going to be the same. Sharon Stone was genius and, you know, took me to a place just by being there for me that I've never been before, opened it up. So now I got that. Yeah. I don't know how much control I have over it. I couldn't. I don't think I could do it right now. Hey, folks, it happens to all of us. You start thinking about what you should have for dinner, but then it's dinner time and you still don't have a plan. So you just eat leftovers or you order takeout. That's a pretty regular practice for a lot of people. And it winds up costing too much, to say nothing of the quality. So that's why I'm recommending Home Chef. A way for you to enjoy home cooked meals without the stress of planning ahead. It's super easy and it will save you money. Home Chef provides fresh ingredients and Chef designed recipes conveniently delivered to your doorstep to simplify your cooking experience. I had a kit with a Cuban style avocado and quinoa bowl and then another one with one pot butternut squash chowder. But you'll have more than 30 options each week, and they'll fit any dietary need. For a limited time, Home chef is offering WTF listeners 18 free meals, plus free dessert for life and of course, free shipping on your first box. Go to homechef.com WTF that's homechef.com WTF for 18 free meals and free dessert for life. You heard that right? Homechef.com WTF and you must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. All right, so Keith Urban. Keith Urban is here, and he's with me here in the studio, still in spirit and in scent. His new album High is now available wherever you get music. And this is a We had a good time. You know, I didn't know where it would go, but him and I did pretty good, Me and Keith Urban. Life is busy people. And if you're like me, no matter how busy you get, you've got to get your fitness in. Peloton has a variety of challenging classes and programs that fit into your schedule. Whether you're a new parent or traveling for the holiday or training for something big or just busy like everyone else. From four week strength building classes to running, cycling and everything in between, Peloton can adapt to any goal and need during your busiest times. Find your push, find your power with peloton@1peloton.com. So nice to meet you.
Keith Urban
You too, Mark.
Marc Maron
Yeah, I like. I think I met you briefly.
Keith Urban
Driveway.
Marc Maron
No. Yeah, in the driveway. Driving up in your own car. Very, very respectable. A guy who drives himself. I always, I'm sort of like, hey, he's a real guy.
Keith Urban
Yeah. I don't like being driven.
Marc Maron
What is that? Nauseousness? Trust. What is the not liking?
Keith Urban
It's a love of driving.
Marc Maron
Oh, really?
Keith Urban
I love driving. Yeah. I love cars. I always have. My dad loved cars. Yeah, I inherited that.
Marc Maron
Yeah. I grew up in New Mexico. There is a thing like either you're a driver or you're not.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
I mean, like when you like just to like drive for a long time, you get into a zone.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
And you know, I remember I had a weird moment where I've been driving for hours and I was listening to Iggy Pop on the loud. But you get into the zone. Then I got out of the car at a gas station. It was like I landed on another planet, you know, because Iggy was blasting and I realized, oh, everyone's just going on with their life. I was in this space machine.
Keith Urban
Perfect.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Oh, look. I wanted to show you this thing because I thought you would like it.
Keith Urban
Oh, wow. Tele deluxe. Look at that.
Marc Maron
Yeah. 73.
Keith Urban
Yeah. I can tell by the. The whole look of it and the knobs.
Marc Maron
This thing.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Don't you play telly?
Keith Urban
I do. I got a lot of tellies. Yeah.
Marc Maron
What's like, what's your.
Keith Urban
Well, the first guitar, the first electric I ever bought.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I couldn't afford a Fender, so I got an Ibanez Fender Telecaster copy.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Ibanez.
Keith Urban
Yeah. Yeah.
Marc Maron
I think my first guitar was like. I think the brand was actually called Copycat. It was a Copycat. Gold top.
Keith Urban
Wow.
Marc Maron
Yeah. And then my.
Keith Urban
How much was it? Do you remember?
Marc Maron
It was probably 100 bucks. 120 bucks, maybe.
Keith Urban
Did you have 120 bucks?
Marc Maron
No, I think my folks bought it for me for my birthday.
Keith Urban
Did you have to pay them back? Oh, no. Birthday. Okay.
Marc Maron
Yeah, something like that. But then I did buy a Telecaster that they. No, my parents. I guess I was more of the spoiled ilk they.
Keith Urban
Have. You got siblings?
Marc Maron
Got a little. A little brother.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
You did.
Keith Urban
You Both get spoiled or just you?
Marc Maron
Well, I mean, it wasn't massively spoiled, but they bought me a guitar. Do you have siblings?
Keith Urban
Yeah, just one brother.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Older?
Keith Urban
Two years older.
Marc Maron
Oh, so what's your.
Keith Urban
What's your difference?
Marc Maron
He's two and a half years younger than me.
Keith Urban
There you go.
Marc Maron
So I was.
Keith Urban
I'm talking to my brother, basically.
Marc Maron
Yeah. But, like, I feel like my brother went the other way. You know? My brother was a sports guy.
Keith Urban
Yeah, my brother's a sport guy.
Marc Maron
Oh, so you didn't get the benefit of having the cool older brother with the good records?
Keith Urban
Well, yeah, I did. He loved music. He wasn't a musician, but he turned me on to a lot of English bands in elo.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
Super Tramp and stuff like that.
Marc Maron
Oh, super. Yeah. I remember that period. You're like a few years younger than me, but I remember in high school when that Super Tramp, Breakfast in America came out. Yeah, that was like a huge record.
Keith Urban
Oh, yeah, massive.
Marc Maron
Are you an EOL guy?
Keith Urban
Oh, massive. Really massive. Eo, embarrassingly, but have to say I probably knew all about the Beatles through elo.
Marc Maron
Really?
Keith Urban
ELO were like my surrogate Beatles band. My mom and dad didn't have any Beatles records when I was growing up.
Marc Maron
How is that possible? That almost seems illegal.
Keith Urban
It is. Should have been.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Probably illegal.
Marc Maron
Where was this? Was this in Australia or earlier?
Keith Urban
Yeah, yeah, in Australia. My dad just loved American country music, so his records were all American country music.
Marc Maron
But were you born in Australia?
Keith Urban
I was born in New Zealand.
Marc Maron
Did you live there for long?
Keith Urban
No, I was barely two when my parents moved to Australia.
Marc Maron
Now, like, is new. Is New Zealand a thing where, like, if you grew up in Australia, you're like, I'm going to go to New Zealand for the weekend.
Keith Urban
I don't know about the weekend, but.
Marc Maron
I mean, people fly there. Do you know what I mean? Like, I mean, is it like, going.
Keith Urban
To, like going to Hawaii or something?
Marc Maron
Yeah, yeah.
Keith Urban
It's closer, right? From Australia to New Zealand, three hours.
Marc Maron
But people vacation there. Yeah.
Keith Urban
And my mom and dad, just classic young, rural country kids that wanted a bigger, better life.
Marc Maron
But this is rural, young country kids in New Zealand. Like, there, like, there is some sort of weird correlation. So he had all, like, what country records were you listening to? Did he have everything?
Keith Urban
I mean, the first concert we went to with Johnny Cash when I was about seven.
Marc Maron
What year was that?
Keith Urban
I don't know, early 70s? Yeah, yeah, my dad took us to that. And all his records were Charlie Pride, Waylon Jennings, Dom Williams. Willie Nelson, George Jones. George Jones, all of them.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Oh, yeah. My dad loved American country.
Marc Maron
Is that something? Is that an Australian thing?
Keith Urban
It was a dad thing. It was. Because he grew up. Obviously he grew up in New Zealand. He's a drummer.
Marc Maron
He is a drummer.
Keith Urban
So in the 50s, when he was a teenager, rock and roll exploded all around the globe. And my dad just was obsessed with American music, American cars, everything.
Marc Maron
So was Elvis massive? Yeah. Did he have an American car?
Keith Urban
We only had American cars. Yeah. We're like the oddball family in our town with Pontiac or Chev or Buick or something.
Marc Maron
And so they were readily available in.
Keith Urban
Yeah, people would always import them. And I guess.
Marc Maron
I don't know what I'm thinking. I'm like, what's a famous Australian make of car?
Keith Urban
Holden's was an Australian make of car. Yeah, Holden, which is really the gm. Yeah, it's like general. So Holden was the Australian one and then Ford.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And they were the two. You know, it was like Pepsi and Coke. Right. Ford and Holden. You, you, you. You had one or the other. Hated the other person.
Marc Maron
Right. But your dad had Pontiac.
Keith Urban
Yeah, yeah.
Marc Maron
Chevs, like Camaros or.
Keith Urban
No, we had a Bel Air.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
We had a couple of Lincoln's.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
Mark four.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And Pontiac, a thing called a Laurentian, which is a weird model 1959.
Marc Maron
But was it unusual to be like a country fan in Australia? I mean, because I have no sense of like. Because I know there are. Well, I made the mistake of using the word cowboy to Nick Cave.
Keith Urban
And in what context do you say cowboy to Nick Cave?
Marc Maron
Well, because, like, my idea of a cowboy, you know, in terms of like the loner that kind of makes his own way, his own hero.
Keith Urban
That's good.
Marc Maron
Right? Right. So I said, you're kind of a cowboy. And he, like, was. You know, because I guess it means something different in Australia. I felt like it was. He thought I was calling him gay or something and he got very prickly.
Keith Urban
I wouldn't imagine that.
Marc Maron
And it was. It was weird from, you know, from that point. I don't know. He didn't take it right.
Keith Urban
That's funny.
Marc Maron
But there are real cowboys in Australia, of course, because it seems like, what's his name, Russell Crowe has kind of become a cowboy.
Keith Urban
It's a. I mean, it's a massive rural country. Yeah, huge. You know, and a lot of. A lot of rodeo stars in Texas come from there. A lot of the rodeo writers that go and compete and do all the stuff in Texas. A lot of Them come from Australia.
Marc Maron
It's interesting, right? I mean, because there's also actors, too. For some reason. They breed a certain type of actor there. Big actors.
Keith Urban
Yep.
Marc Maron
Like, you know, like, you know, Russell and Joel Edgerton and Nicole and. What's the other one?
Keith Urban
Mel Gibson. I mean, there's this.
Marc Maron
Oh, Mel Gibson.
Keith Urban
There's a million of them down there. It's crazy. I mean, per capita, it's pretty dense.
Marc Maron
But not country singers.
Keith Urban
Well, there is. They just haven't. You gotta come to Nashville.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
You know, you gotta put in the time.
Marc Maron
But, like, is there a music.
Keith Urban
There is an Australian country music.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Yes.
Marc Maron
And how is that different?
Keith Urban
It involves more of a sort of regional colloquial lyrics and stories and things that are about.
Marc Maron
But it's still kind of the four chords. Maybe the fifth one.
Keith Urban
Maybe.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
They found the secret chord.
Marc Maron
It's like country style. American country style.
Keith Urban
So that's. I mean, that was why I always wanted to come to Nashville because on the back of my dad's records, it always said, recorded in Nashville, Tennessee.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And so I went. Oh, that's where you go to make records.
Marc Maron
So you get your first guitar. It's the Ibanez copy of a telly. Yeah. And then when do you get your next guitar? What's that one?
Keith Urban
That's a good question. I. Well, no, I know exactly what it was. So. I was nine.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
When I got my Ibanez Telecaster copy.
Marc Maron
Oh, my God. So you're. You're at it pretty young.
Keith Urban
I started playing guitar at 6.
Marc Maron
Now, were you a wizard or were you just a regular kid? Do you know? I mean, like. I mean, it seems like they're. Because you're a great guitar player and, you know, either, you know, you have a natural proclivity or, you know, you practice your ass off.
Keith Urban
I'd say all the above. Combination of all of it.
Marc Maron
So when you.
Keith Urban
I started my 10,000 hours early.
Marc Maron
Yeah. So when you locked in at 9, you were ready to go?
Keith Urban
Yeah, I wasn't very good at nine.
Marc Maron
No. Right. Obviously. Yeah.
Keith Urban
But I got this Telecaster and I had it until I was about 15. And then a friend of mine turned me onto Dire Straits when I was about 15 years old.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
And I would just obsess with Mark Knopfler.
Marc Maron
So you weren't in those licks?
Keith Urban
Yeah, that's what I wanted to play.
Marc Maron
Like Mark from the first Dire Straits record.
Keith Urban
First record. And Communique and Tunnel of Love Over. Tunnel of Love. Love Over Gold. All those records.
Marc Maron
Yeah. And nobody Plays like that guy, but I think he, like, I feel like, you know who he kind of plays like, who I feel like might be a source, but I don't know. I've never talked to Knopfler, but Richard Thompson.
Keith Urban
Oh, interesting.
Marc Maron
I mean that.
Keith Urban
I wouldn't be surprised.
Marc Maron
That guy's an animal on guitar.
Keith Urban
Oh, yeah.
Marc Maron
It's fucking crazy.
Keith Urban
Mark has always cited Hank Marvin.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And Chet Atkins as.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah, that makes sense. Yeah, that makes sense. With that picking. Did your dad had Chad Atkins records?
Keith Urban
Nope. No.
Marc Maron
Do you ever watch. Do you ever watch those old YouTubes of Glen Campbell?
Keith Urban
Oh, yeah.
Marc Maron
Oh, my God.
Keith Urban
I've done many deep dives on Glenn.
Marc Maron
What a guitar player, right?
Keith Urban
Amazing guitar.
Marc Maron
Jerry Reed too.
Keith Urban
Yeah. Oh, God, yeah. And no man with the Golden Thumb. Come on.
Marc Maron
I mean, it's crazy, dude. Like Roy Clark to a certain degree.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Right. Those guys. But like when you see. You know, because like when I was growing up, you know, Glen Campbell had those hits, you know, that were not guitar songs. And Jerry Reed did a couple of goofy hits. But then when you. You do a little deeper dive, you're like, oh my God.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
To see those guys. To see Chet and Jerry replay.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Holy shit.
Keith Urban
Well, Glenn was a good influence for me because my dad had Glen Campbell records too, so.
Marc Maron
And you could identify because he was a studio guy. Right.
Keith Urban
As I didn't know he played guitar. I mean.
Marc Maron
Right, exactly.
Keith Urban
I'm just a little kid listening to this guy singing amazing voice singing songs like Wichita, Lyman and Galveston. Where's the Playground, Susie? These amazing songs that weren't country. Quote, quote, end unquote. Right. They're just like. They're just great songs.
Marc Maron
It is interesting that, you know that they don't really identify as country. They're just like. Everyone knew them.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
You know what I mean? Because you listen to George Jones and that's country.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
You know what I mean?
Keith Urban
Yeah. But then like Glenn's voice was more in it. Cross. Cross genre voice.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
He didn't have a hardcore twang in a particular.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Singing that made him country, which is why he was so pop. Pop popular.
Marc Maron
Pop.
Keith Urban
Pop country in that regard. Those songs are pop songs. Really.
Marc Maron
Yeah. You know, so what are you doing in Australia with. You know. So you. You have the ibanez to like 15. When do you start?
Keith Urban
Then I get a Strat. A proper Fender Stratocast. Oh, you did at 15.
Marc Maron
Like a new one. It.
Keith Urban
Well, again, embarrassed to say. Yeah, it was a short lived one that Fender did called the Strat Then he made him in, like, Lake Placid Blue, Candy apple red.
Marc Maron
Wait, was this in the 80s?
Keith Urban
Yeah, I had one of those 1980 and 81. 82. Right around there.
Marc Maron
And it had weighed a ton. Right.
Keith Urban
Big neck, gold hardware.
Marc Maron
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Keith Urban
Candy apple red.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
That's what I bought. I should have bought a Les Paul.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I mean, I'm going to bust my shoulder up. Let's. You know.
Marc Maron
It would have been the same thing.
Keith Urban
It would have been better.
Marc Maron
So are you. Did you put a band together then?
Keith Urban
I was in a band from what, age? 12?
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Yeah. My mom and dad were driving around to gigs, and then I quit school at 15 and was playing five nights a week.
Marc Maron
Really?
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
In Australia?
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Like, what was the situation? Bars.
Keith Urban
Yeah, yeah, yeah. They didn't have that. I never had that issue with being underage and playing in a bar.
Marc Maron
Well, maybe they have different rules in Australia.
Keith Urban
I don't know if they just look the other way.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Or whatever. But I never had any issues.
Marc Maron
All you guys kids, huh?
Keith Urban
No, it was a family band, so it's mom, dad, and their two sons.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I joined that band and then moved in with that family. Anyway, the plot thickens. But I was. So this band would play without me during the week.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Because I'm in school.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
And I said to my mom, you know, you can legally leave school when you turn 15.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
So I'm going to turn 15 this October.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I would like to leave school and be playing five nights a week in the band. And she's like, right.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I'm like, but Because I suck at school and I'm already doing what you know I'm going to be doing for the rest of my life. It's not some little passing phase I'm in.
Marc Maron
Yeah. I'm in it.
Keith Urban
Been doing it since I was 6. This is what I do. Just let me get out of school and join this band. She's like, okay. So I turned 15 and I was out of there.
Marc Maron
What'd your dad say?
Keith Urban
He was totally supportive. He's a drummer.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
He's like, yeah, you suck.
Marc Maron
Were they together?
Keith Urban
Like, that's terrible.
Marc Maron
At school, were they together? Yeah. Are they still.
Keith Urban
My dad passed away about seven, eight years ago.
Marc Maron
Sorry.
Keith Urban
And then my mom's still alive and thriving.
Marc Maron
Oh, that's good.
Keith Urban
She's great. 82.
Marc Maron
Oh, I got all her brain.
Keith Urban
Oh, God, she's sharp as attack. Well, that's good.
Marc Maron
Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's good.
Keith Urban
Amazing.
Marc Maron
All right. So what's your mom yeah, they're both around. My dad's losing it mentally, and my mom's okay. 86.
Keith Urban
Wow. Okay.
Marc Maron
And it's funny about that, is that, like, people are like, oh, you got dementia. I'm like, he's old. You're gonna. You know, something's gonna go right. You know what I mean? I mean, 86, that's old. Yeah. For some reason, people are always sort of. He's not old anymore. No, it's old, right?
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
80 anything.
Marc Maron
Yeah, they made it. Yeah, they made it.
Keith Urban
Unless you're 80 something and then you say it's not old.
Marc Maron
Right. Well, you gotta hold on to hope. You know what I mean?
Keith Urban
That's right.
Marc Maron
I mean, nobody, anytime. You and your mom.
Keith Urban
How's your mom?
Marc Maron
She's all right. Yeah. I mean, she's 80. I think she's 82. Her brain's okay physically. She's a little. A little hobbled, but she's still plugging away.
Keith Urban
Do they listen to your podcast all the time?
Marc Maron
My dad does.
Keith Urban
Hi, guys.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Oh, there you go. I'm sure my dad's wife loves you. She's a big country person.
Keith Urban
Thank you.
Marc Maron
She's actually got a. She's got a. She had a quilt made of all her Willie Nelson concert T shirts.
Keith Urban
No.
Marc Maron
Yeah, it's on their bed. It's just a quilt made out of country concert T shirts. She loves. She.
Keith Urban
Does she actually make it?
Marc Maron
No. There was a company that would do that. They would turn and oddly, those T shirts, after a certain amount of years, become more valuable. There. There Collector's market of that.
Keith Urban
Have you been to Fred Siegel?
Marc Maron
Yeah, exactly. It's weird. I grew up in New Mexico, and, you know, country music was sort of off to the side to me, you know. But, you know, the state fair, they'd always have the guys playing Wayland and everybody else.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
But I grew up this rock and roll guy, you know, just rock guy.
Keith Urban
Who did you listen to?
Marc Maron
Well, when I was. I graduated high school in 81, so I had a strange kind of. Like, I knew a guy at a record store next to where I worked at a restaurant, and he was kind of a. There were two guys that worked there that kind of defined. Like, one guy was this avant garde weirdo who turned me on to, like, Eno. Some of the Bowie stuff, like, some of the, like, the Residents, like, weird, you know, Fred Frith noise music and all that. So that was. I knew that existed.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
And I was sort of, you know, mind blown by that. And then another guy turned me on to all the soul music, maybe a mixtape of all the Motown guys and all that. But when I was in high school, it was like. Yeah, so was the crashing. You know, it was. I was in high school when the last Zeppelin record came out.
Keith Urban
Wow.
Marc Maron
And I was in high school when punk rock sort of started to happen. But new wave kind of pushed disco out. But for me, I mean, I listen to all kinds of stuff, but it was, you know, we were all pretty. Like, when Van Halen's first album came out, it kind of changed the planet. Like, it was just when that out. And it came out pretty near when Knopf was when. Yeah. So, like, you know, you'd walk out into the parking lot and guys with their cars, the doors open and just cranking. Eruption. And, you know, like, it was. It was game changing. Foreigner was around.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
But, you know, for me, it was Zeppelin. A lot of Zeppelin. And then, like, it kind of evolved, you know, I, like. I was a big blues head, too. I got turned onto the blues really early on.
Keith Urban
It's a great mix.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah, early. I had some John Mayo records. The Stones. Big Stones guy. Yeah, Iggy. But that was later. But country came later and I just. I became sort of a George Jones freak. And then I kind of got hip to all the other stuff.
Keith Urban
What'd you like about George?
Marc Maron
Well, no one sings like that guy.
Keith Urban
That's true.
Marc Maron
Do you know what I mean? Like, you know, outside of everything else.
Keith Urban
Like just lives like that guy.
Marc Maron
Well, that's for sure. I mean, I think people try. And I don't do it on purpose, but they usually don't get as far as he did with it. Yeah. It's a rare guy that ends up on a tractor, you know, driving. Because his wife took the car away. Driving into town on a tractor to get a bottle of booze.
Keith Urban
And that's the thing about so many of those artists.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
They sing like that because it's their lifestyle.
Marc Maron
Right. But he had some sort of weird, hilly, kind of almost Appalachian phrasing. Because I know he was a Hank Williams guy because he did that Hank record, right?
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
But there's something about his phrasing that is more. It's pure country. It's almost like you come out of the Carter Family and that stuff and you get some of that hill music in flux. But he seemed to have. It seemed to be at the heart of him a different type of phrase.
Keith Urban
Yeah. It's almost like some of the. Dare I say the sort of Perry Como type, like crooner. Crooners. He sounds like a crooner and a bluegrass cat.
Marc Maron
That's right.
Keith Urban
Fused together.
Marc Maron
Yeah. But he hit those weird notes. Like there's something so specific about it. Like that song, he Stopped Loving Her Today, which is a bigger production. But like, you know, you try to cover that song and you better be very sensitive to his phrasing or it's not going to work.
Keith Urban
No, it's amazing. You just don't do it. Just. Just do your own thing. Just change the whole song.
Marc Maron
Well, I tried it once.
Keith Urban
Did you?
Marc Maron
Yeah, I just.
Keith Urban
It's one of the greatest songs ever written.
Marc Maron
Like I. When I played that song for somebody for the first time and I'm like. Just listen. Like I'm crying. I'm starting to cry. Think about it. Like, it's one of those songs where every time I listen to it, I'm like, oh, my God, it's fucking beautiful.
Keith Urban
It really is.
Marc Maron
Like, when they're.
Keith Urban
What an amazing concept for a song.
Marc Maron
I mean. I mean, that's the thing about country. It's all like, you know, it's like when I listen to your records, like in a lot of ways, you know, country is going to evolve. How it's going to evolve, but musically it's going to evolve how it's going to evolve. But it stays within the country parameters a bit though. It's very poppy now, but it's really about the words. Right. I mean, it's like, it's. The whole thing is like his. A lot of rock. I don't even know what the they're saying.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
It's rift driven.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
But like country, you got to lock into the emotional thing.
Keith Urban
Yeah. Except, you know, I. I've grow. I love. I'm in the same boat. I grew up with a lot of rock. I loved the sound and the feeling.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
More than the specific meaning of certain.
Marc Maron
Yeah, me too. I. I barely listen to words sometimes. You know what I mean?
Keith Urban
Sorry, what'd you say? Yeah, I think because it's guys in general. I don't mean to generalize, but it's. You know, my dad wouldn't know what was being said.
Marc Maron
He just liked the vibe.
Keith Urban
The beat. The vibe. The feeling.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And then my mom only knew what was being said.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
So.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Well, that's. I guess that's the nature of it and that's why, I guess you get a lot of. Maybe I'm generalizing, but it seems like some singer songwriter stuff is sort of for the ladies like it more than the guys like it.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Am I wrong. What's your audience like? What do you know about it?
Keith Urban
It's always been a lot of girls. For sure. Yeah. Except when we play. Although I think if there's a, if there's guys in the audience, almost all of them are guitar players.
Marc Maron
Pretty much they're just waiting for the solo.
Keith Urban
Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Marc Maron
They bring their girlfriends and the girlfriends are singing along and they're like, all right, here we go.
Keith Urban
I call them the reluctant boyfriends because I see them out in the crowd less so now than early in my career. Early in my career, I'd look out in the arena, I'd see all these guys with their arms folded and you can tell, they're like, yeah, she seems happy. You know, I'm going to get laid tonight. At least. Thank God. I'm just going to put up with this guy for the next two hours. And then I'd watch them slowly, like, look up like, wow. Actually, this is not, you know, then it would change completely and they'd walk out. Very, very different. But they always start. The sort of reluctant guy who got dragged along to the concert. Yeah, I mean, I get it, I get it. Totally.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Well, I mean, it's, it's, it's still a fine market to have the, the ladies like you.
Keith Urban
Oh, anybody. Traditionally, it's like, anybody like me, like.
Marc Maron
As a comic, you know, later in my career, for some reason, I've started to attract a lot of middle aged women and I get those reluctant guys in my audience going like, I do a joke about. I go, a third of you are hardcore fans. And then there's like, so you're sitting out there knowing about me and everything I talk about, and then another 30 year sitting there going like, so this is the guy, huh? You know? Right, right, right. But, you know, it's fine with me.
Keith Urban
I guess I get a lot of people in Vegas that it's a hard place to play sometimes for me because.
Marc Maron
I never go there.
Keith Urban
Because they're curiosity people.
Marc Maron
Well, they're also just people. Like, I've lost enough money. What's going on in here? I need to take a break from table.
Keith Urban
I hope this guy can cheer me up. Yeah, yeah. But, you know, but I also embrace the challenge of people sort of sitting there going, all right, let's see what this guy does.
Marc Maron
But, you know, you, I mean, it's not, you know, you've got a big production element. You know, you're not going up there like raw, you know what I mean? You know, you're putting on a show.
Keith Urban
Well, weirdly enough, this show that we're doing right now in Vegas, which we're coming back in February to do another five shows, actually starts out with just me and a fluorescent light above my head playing an acoustic guitar straight up.
Marc Maron
No slide, just picking nothing, just picking.
Keith Urban
Just literally nothing. Just.
Marc Maron
That's nice. Bring them in.
Keith Urban
It's raw. Yeah, it's like. That's where we start.
Marc Maron
Well, I mean, you did a lot of kind of bluesy stuff early on, you know, some of the. Some of the stuff was kind of acoustic heavy.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
You know. Yeah.
Keith Urban
When I say it's acoustic, it's a. I have a particular style that sounds like I'm. I got a kick drum underneath me. It's very thump driven.
Marc Maron
Oh, with your hand, with your thumb.
Keith Urban
Just a rhythmic style.
Marc Maron
Are you aware of your tone?
Keith Urban
I hope so.
Marc Maron
But is there a point where you land on it and you're like, this.
Keith Urban
Is it for a week? Yeah, it's like. It's like the little pedals, right? The little effects pedals, you know, this is the ultimate effects pedal. And then all the other guitarists hear about that and they run out and get one and they're like, hey, I got one of these. And then the guy goes, oh, no, that was last week. This is the shit this week. It's like never ends.
Marc Maron
What kind of pedals do you use this week? Yeah.
Keith Urban
Just a bunch of different Overdose, but, you know, tube screamers and.
Marc Maron
Rad.
Keith Urban
Just a little tube screamer. Yeah, it's an old two screamer. Old rat.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
You know, so go to.
Marc Maron
But nothing like a panel of like. Some guys have like a keyboard down there.
Keith Urban
I don't have any. Anything at my feet. My tech just engages a couple of different things.
Marc Maron
Have you heard about that Neil Young thing that the guy built for him?
Keith Urban
Yes. That turns the microphones from the out from one amp to the next, doesn't it? Right.
Marc Maron
Crazy.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
I interviewed him once and like, you know, there's something very funny about that guy because no one sounds like him.
Keith Urban
No.
Marc Maron
And amazing. And it's almost timeless somehow. His production for most of the records you listen to it, it transcends time.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Because production wise, he's not making a mess of things. There's something about him that's just this timeless guy.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
But I asked him about the amps and he's like. Yeah, it's. It's like he plays that old custom that's been the deluxe that's been painted black, and he's got all these old amps kind of rigged up. And he doesn't even know if they're going to make it through a show.
Keith Urban
Right.
Marc Maron
And that's part of his thing.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Like, I don't know. I don't know if we're going to pull it off because that whole thing might melt down. This Frankenstein of amps.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Got to respect that. Right?
Keith Urban
Oh, I love it.
Marc Maron
Oh, my God.
Keith Urban
Yeah. It's primal.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
That's why it's primal.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Yeah.
Keith Urban
Even the way he plays everything about Neil is primal.
Marc Maron
All right, so, like, tell me. Let's move on from this. Like the family. What are you playing with? The family.
Keith Urban
What do you mean? The family.
Marc Maron
The family band. When you're starting out, you as a guitar.
Keith Urban
Going back to when I was 15 and I joined the family band.
Marc Maron
Yes.
Keith Urban
I can't remember probably. I was in a bit. Well, no, I had a Fenta twin Fender twin reverb.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
I bought it when I got my Strat.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I just went, okay.
Marc Maron
They're hard to dirty up.
Keith Urban
Yeah. But this thing was. It's. It was the 125 watt thing. It weighed a ton.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
So heavy.
Marc Maron
Did it have the JBLs in it or just the other?
Keith Urban
That would have, I guess, whatever, stock ones. But it was just stupid.
Marc Maron
It was my first amp, too.
Keith Urban
Wow.
Marc Maron
Yeah. But for some reason I bought the one or had my. You know, it was gifted. The one with the JBLs, which. It was impossible. The dirty up.
Keith Urban
Right.
Marc Maron
It had. It had a gain that you could pull out.
Keith Urban
Right.
Marc Maron
A knob, get you a little something.
Keith Urban
Yeah. And I think at the time I probably have on this little orange distortion boss distortion. DS1 or something. That was it.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
My tone was like, back then.
Marc Maron
Yeah. It's a weird thing about tone. I don't think I really knew about it until like, you know, less than 10 years ago. Like, what you're really gunning for. And then people say tone is in the fingers. Is that true?
Keith Urban
What's in everything?
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
You touch your tone. You.
Marc Maron
Yeah, I mean.
Keith Urban
I mean your, your. Your approach, your. The way you hear things. But I said to a good buddy of mine, Tom Bukovac, one time, many years ago, I was like, man, I'm just struggling with my tone on stage. I just. I know what I'm reaching for and I can't. I can't get right. He goes, well, who. You know, what kind of players do you like?
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I'm like, yeah. Clapton, Gilmore, Hoffler.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Billy Gibbons. I'm rattling off all the. All the icons Right. He goes, well, man, you know what they got in common? I'm like, what? He goes, they don't move. And he goes, you're running all around the stage, everywhere. He's like, do you want great tone or do you want to fucking run everywhere? I'm like, can I do both?
Marc Maron
Yeah. So that was. They kind of upped the ante on the equation you were trying to solve.
Keith Urban
Yeah. But it did make a lot of sense.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
That when I. If I stand still at soundcheck, my tone is always better than it is at night.
Marc Maron
Is that because you hear it differently or is it because I'm not moving? So.
Keith Urban
Because I can focus and play. Pocket it. Attack the string. Nicely. Delicate.
Marc Maron
So did it change your approach to performance? Do you now stop and stand still when you solo?
Keith Urban
Not to that degree, but I do play louder with more headroom so I can attack more gently and not play aggressively.
Marc Maron
Oh, Billy Givens. How great is that guy? It's so funny because Billy and Gilmore are direct. Sort of Peter Green disciples.
Keith Urban
Yep.
Marc Maron
And like, you know, it's that minor boot or that they can go in between the major and minor. It's like, it's a unique thing. Clapton's. Clapton. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But like Peter Green to me is like a God. I don't know. You know, listening to those original Fleetwood Mac things was crazy.
Keith Urban
Oh, yeah.
Marc Maron
Those licks.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
And that Gilmore is all about that.
Keith Urban
I love Gilmore.
Marc Maron
Do you know?
Keith Urban
I don't know him. No. He's definitely one of my all time heroes.
Marc Maron
Right?
Keith Urban
Oh, God, yeah.
Marc Maron
That black Strat.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Well, you. So, okay, so this like. So you're running around with this family and then you move in with them.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
So you had enough of your parents, dad?
Keith Urban
Well, we lived like an hour and a half away from the city.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
We lived out in the farm. And so I'm like, I'll just move with the family. Yeah. A lot easier.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Because I can't drive.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
15, so.
Marc Maron
But things weren't horrible at home. You didn't have to leave.
Keith Urban
Didn't have to leave. I just wanted to. But it was great. It's great not having to live at home at 15. Fantastic.
Marc Maron
Yeah. But, yeah, but you're. Now you're like, you. You drop out of school, you're. You're not living at home. So now you're just living the life of a musician. But you are in some family's house.
Keith Urban
I am.
Marc Maron
So, yeah. There must have been some rules.
Keith Urban
There was a little bit of structure, for sure. Yeah. Yeah.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
You know, chores and stuff like that.
Marc Maron
So how long does it take for you to kind of like, land into the mode of. Of, you know, writing original music and then, you know, with a real goal of getting out and recording, I drifted.
Keith Urban
In and out of all kinds of different bands. Duos, trios.
Marc Maron
Any hard rock bands?
Keith Urban
One hard rock band called Fractured Mirror.
Marc Maron
Yeah. What they play?
Keith Urban
Saxon, Judas Priest, Scorpions, Iron Maiden.
Marc Maron
Oh, was that fun to play for you?
Keith Urban
It was for the 10 seconds I was in the band. Yeah. I, I. So I had my Strat.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Mentioned my Candy Apple Strat. I ripped the pickup out, put a humbucker on the lead. Yeah. Because I. I was. I just discovered Iron Maiden and I became obsessed with Dave Murray, so it wasn't fat enough. Electric. Yeah. Someone ripped that single coil out.
Marc Maron
Yes.
Keith Urban
Put a humbucker in.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And then I really wished I'd had a Marshall stack.
Marc Maron
Needed that.
Keith Urban
So I get a call from this band. The lead singer has. Plays guitar and has a Marshall stack, and he goes, I don't play guitar. I just want to be up front and be a singer.
Marc Maron
Yeah, you.
Keith Urban
If you join that band, you can use my Marshall. I'm like, I'm in heaven. So I joined this band, but at the same time, I just discovered a guy called Ricky Skaggs.
Marc Maron
Oh, sure. Yeah.
Keith Urban
And. And Albert Lee, who was chicken picking.
Marc Maron
Oh, my God.
Keith Urban
Just the chicken picking king.
Marc Maron
That guy's like, that's incredible.
Keith Urban
So good. Right?
Marc Maron
Oh, my God.
Keith Urban
So I'm into Iron Maiden and Recovery Skaggs at the exact same time.
Marc Maron
Oh, it's a crossroads, man.
Keith Urban
Massive identity crisis. So I'm in this. I'm in this band, we plan a gig, they throw me a solo, and through my humbucked Strat, through the Devil's Tack Marshall, I ripped this chicken pick and distorted. This guy looks at me like, what the are you doing? You know, they fired me.
Marc Maron
So when do you just solidly land in country then?
Keith Urban
Well, I was already in it. I just had to figure out what my blend of it was. Yeah, that's really it.
Marc Maron
And then you got that. That first band together that you did that second record with the Ranch or the.
Keith Urban
Yeah, the pivotal. The pivotal thing that happened to me was in the late 80s, I went. I was. I got. I discovered John Mellencamp and really love what he was doing.
Marc Maron
Okay.
Keith Urban
And I went and saw his concert.
Marc Maron
In Sydney or somewhere in Brisbane. Oh, Brisbane.
Keith Urban
Yeah. And it was literally like an epiphany, this concert. And it wasn't because I'll just frame It. So I walk into this arena, and here's Mellencamp.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
You know, he's got the most badass rock rhythm section.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Bass, drums, electric guitar, just screaming.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Then he's got this girl on fiddle.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
He's got a dude on accordion.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I'm like, what is this? What is this music?
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
It's like everything I love. And it was literally like this light bulb went, right, so just do your own thing. And I just walked out of there with total clarity on not doing what John did, but taking his ethos.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
His approach.
Marc Maron
It's so funny because the generation before you had that experience with the band.
Keith Urban
For sure. Right, for sure. What a great example.
Marc Maron
It's a similar idea that. This sort of integration of a purely Americana music.
Keith Urban
Yep.
Marc Maron
Wow.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
So you were lit up. And had you. Had you done any records before?
Keith Urban
Hadn't done any records. I really. I was a couple of years out from doing my first record, so.
Marc Maron
Is it Cougar, like, Little Pink Houses? Cougar?
Keith Urban
No, it was Lonesome Jubilee, so late 80s.
Marc Maron
It's so funny. I saw. I saw John Mellencamp. John Cougar, he was called, and I saw him touring, you know, on his first record in the late 70s, and he was opening for Richie Blackmore's Rainbow.
Keith Urban
No way, dude.
Marc Maron
My.
Keith Urban
That would have been great.
Marc Maron
My buddy and I drove all the way to Denver because he was a Blackmore freak. And I was like, oh, well, let's just go. I'll go with him.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
And when Cougar came out, I'm like, well, this is my kind of music. Like, I thought he was amazing.
Keith Urban
Oh, he's amazing.
Marc Maron
And I bought that first record, and I still think it's a great record.
Keith Urban
He's a badass. He's. He. I don't know what. Why he doesn't get more cred. Because he's a badass.
Marc Maron
Because he's a cranky fuck.
Keith Urban
Yeah, but, I mean, I talked to him. Morrison. He didn't get the shit.
Marc Maron
No, but look, I. But Cougar did fine with album.
Keith Urban
I know, but.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Yeah, but he should get more cred than he does because he's a. And his band was insanely great.
Marc Maron
When I interviewed him, I was nervous because he, like, Yeah, I was like, I know. Cranky, you know, but, you know, I got him. I got him around. He was right. As long as I let him smoke, he was good.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Yeah. He wanted me to tell anybody, but he was good with it.
Keith Urban
I told him when I got to meet Him. I told him that story that bumped him.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
This young me.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I said. And I walked out of that concert going, I know what to do now. Go do my own thing. And John was like, man, it's so good that you got it.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Because most kids walk out and go, I'm going to do that.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
And John's like, that's not the point.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
Don't do what I'm doing. I'm already doing it.
Marc Maron
Oh, so nice. He was gracious.
Keith Urban
Do your thing.
Marc Maron
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Keith Urban
He was great. I get along great with John.
Marc Maron
Yeah. So, all right. So once you start doing your own thing, it locks in. You get it. Like you saw some records in Australia.
Keith Urban
Yeah. Sold a few records in Australia and had a few singles down there on the country charts.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Got a road crew and was like building the band. And here we go, Here we go. I want to come to Nashville.
Marc Maron
Yeah, you have to, because you're looking at those records. You're looking at those records.
Keith Urban
It's also. We got a. You got a limited. You got a limited ceiling in Australia. No matter who you are, what you do, you're only going to get to go so far and then that's it.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And then you'd just be cycling around like AC dc. So. Well, they had to break out. I know they had to go. All of them have to go. Actors, all of them.
Marc Maron
But what a great band. AC dc.
Keith Urban
Oh, my God. Yeah.
Marc Maron
Did you. I mean, you were too. You were too young, probably when they were still in Australia.
Keith Urban
Oh, yeah, Yeah. I didn't know. Yeah.
Marc Maron
Oh, I love that guy's guitar playing. He's right up there.
Keith Urban
Astounding. One of the. One of the rare guys who can run around the stage and sound amazing. Him and Eddie. It's a small list.
Marc Maron
Yeah, yeah.
Keith Urban
Not a lot of them.
Marc Maron
So when you get to Nashville, like, how does that work? Because, like, I noticed. Well, we can get to it. So you. You've got a bit of a rep. You've got a couple of hits somewhere else and you go with you. Do you take your band in Nashville?
Keith Urban
I took. I couldn't. I didn't have any money, so I just went. I had a five piece band.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
So what's the minimum? I could take bass and drums.
Marc Maron
Sure.
Keith Urban
And be a three piece. Okay. So we go to Nashville. We're a three piece band.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
My rhythm guitarist and keyboard player, I left behind. They were my two singers. So I got this three piece band with no, no singer. It's just me.
Marc Maron
Were you confident?
Keith Urban
Yeah, Blind. Blind faith. Yeah, Blind faith in what I was.
Marc Maron
Doing and how much. And you were writing all your own songs already?
Keith Urban
No, I was co. Writing and, you know, finding some songs written and things like that, but doing lots of covers still.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Trying to get in the door.
Marc Maron
Right, sure.
Keith Urban
You know.
Marc Maron
So what happens when you get there?
Keith Urban
To Nashville?
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
A real mix of things. It was. It's a. It's a very. There's a deceptively tough town.
Marc Maron
What year is this?
Keith Urban
My early 90s.
Marc Maron
Okay.
Keith Urban
So 90, 91, 92.
Marc Maron
So the. The old guard is kind of still around and country's already sort of changing in terms of production.
Keith Urban
Not. Not really, no. And it certainly wasn't where I was at.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I was way out of step.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Completely.
Marc Maron
In what way?
Keith Urban
Well, I'm. I'm in a three piece band.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Playing pretty raw, spirited pub.
Marc Maron
Country.
Keith Urban
Pub rock, country, fusion stuff.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
No one knew what the hell to make of it, huh. Yeah.
Marc Maron
So, like there. There was a. It was too much. Too much rock, you think or.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Okay. All right. And then. Then what happens? How does it turn?
Keith Urban
Just. I just kept writing and writing and just chipping away. Chipping away.
Marc Maron
Was there a point where someone said, like, all right, this guy gets a shot. What?
Keith Urban
So this guy used to. This guy called Cliff Aldrich.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Who worked for Sony Records.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Would come out and see our band play all the time.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I came off stage one night and I said, cliff, you're here every time we play.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And he goes, yeah, man, I love you guys. And I'm like, how come we can't get signed? He goes, I'm the only one who loves you. I'm like, but what? I said to him, what am I doing wrong, Cliff? What am I doing wrong? And he said, you're doing nothing wrong. You're just really unique. And it's going to be your biggest curse until it becomes your greatest blessing. And whatever that was meant to mean that night, holy shit. It went right into the core of me. And it was. What I heard in that moment was, you're totally unlike anything, so no one knows what the hell to do with you, but stay the course. Stay the course. It's going to work. Just hang in there. And when it does, it'll be because you're not like anybody else.
Marc Maron
Oh, that's fucking good.
Keith Urban
It was amazing.
Marc Maron
Well, I mean, and also it's interesting because with music, it's one of those art forms where you can make adjustments if you're willing to sacrifice Something like, you can say, like, we can change this or that and try to be more appealing to this or that. You know, I can't do that as a comic, really, as a singular act. But it seems like with music, you know, you can kind of adapt or try to. And that's where people lose themselves.
Keith Urban
Yeah. But you could do it in the form of gig. Right. If you went to a corporate gig, you'd have to read the room and go, what kind of stuff is not going to work here?
Marc Maron
Well, you know what I don't do?
Keith Urban
What corporate gig?
Marc Maron
It's like, that's not for me. I can't. I won't even go to fucking Vegas. Like, you know, I know I'm kind of a buzzkill as a comic. You know, I'm not. I'm not. Anyway, I'm not a lot of people's idea of a great night out.
Keith Urban
Okay. So when you walk into any room you're playing or performing in.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Does the room matter to you or you just going to do what you do?
Marc Maron
Well, it does. And there. There are things that, like, there's a. I think it's not unlike music. There. There's a room where I can, you know, feel comfortable enough to be vulnerable and riff and do stuff that might be a little more challenging in terms of, like, punchline structure. But then I know I have a good, you know, half hour of jokes that are going to land no matter what. But I. When I do them, I. I kind of feel like, you know, I know this works and, you know, I can't really offer up my whole self here because these people aren't necessarily here to see me. It's just a night of comedy.
Keith Urban
Right. I see.
Marc Maron
So I gotta do the job.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Whereas if I got a room full of my people, who the fuck knows what's gonna happen? I, you know, I have a lot more freedom creatively for sure. But it's all me.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
I just know some things are a little more palatable.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
And it's better when people know when a joke is over.
Keith Urban
So that right there.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Is a good example of what I was navigating in Nashville.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
If Nashville was the room.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I'm like, it's all me. I've got many, many parts of me.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
What would be the most logical ones to use right now?
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And which ones? Let's put. Put those up. I always say this. It's like meeting your girlfriend's parents for the first time.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
Is that the real you?
Marc Maron
No.
Keith Urban
Well, it's One of them, sure. But it's the one you need right now to make sure that mom and dad are cool. Yeah, I guess they like you.
Marc Maron
Yeah. But sometimes that guy breaks down in their eyes eventually.
Keith Urban
Well, that's.
Marc Maron
That wasn't. That wasn't really him. It turns out that we met. This guy's a fucking asshole.
Keith Urban
Right. But you got to get in the door.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
You got to get some traction.
Marc Maron
And it's hard to sell the asshole. You know what I mean? Like, you know, if you're really.
Keith Urban
Oh. I look back at what I was doing and I'm like, no wonder nobody signed me.
Marc Maron
Really? Like how? Like.
Keith Urban
Because I had hair like, long ass hair.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I was wearing like a. Like an open. I look like it. I look like I should be in like Sound garden.
Marc Maron
Yeah, Yeah.
Keith Urban
I just had long chains and it's the 90s.
Marc Maron
Sure.
Keith Urban
I'm just looking more grunge than anything.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
So out of place.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
Like ridiculous.
Marc Maron
So right away they're like this. He's not of us.
Keith Urban
He didn't sound like us. He didn't speak like us.
Marc Maron
So when. How's the break Happen? Happen. Which was the first album you did in Nashville? The first self titled.
Keith Urban
So I did. I did an album with my band called the Ranch. Yeah.
Marc Maron
Yeah, I listened to that. Yeah.
Keith Urban
Oh, you're the one. So we. That was in 1990s. We've been looking for. Why are you everywhere?
Marc Maron
I just did it yesterday, so I. I missed it when it.
Keith Urban
That's sounds about right.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Where'd this guy start? But it's a good record.
Keith Urban
Thank you.
Marc Maron
Right. I mean, it's.
Keith Urban
It's raw and it is what it is.
Marc Maron
I like raw.
Keith Urban
Yeah. Well, it's probably more. It's actually more suited now than it was back in 1997.
Marc Maron
Interesting when we put it out, but what are you thinking about guys like, you know, like is. You know, is Tweety on your radar? Is like Jeff Tweedy. Yeah. Steve Earle on the radar then?
Keith Urban
They all are. Yeah. In terms of, like, Guitar Town was an amazing record.
Marc Maron
It's a great record. But he couldn't. Like Nashville didn't give a fuck about him either.
Keith Urban
Or Willie.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Waylon.
Marc Maron
All the guys I love, all the.
Keith Urban
Guys I love for the same reason. They don't know what to do with them.
Marc Maron
But oddly, Willie kind of fit in there as a songwriter. But when he decided to like, you know, do the music he wanted to do.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
You know, he had to carve out that. That zone.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Him and Waylon totally In what, the early 70s? Yeah, but that changed everything.
Keith Urban
Yeah, but I, you know, but I also. If you've moved it forward, I also love Dwight Yoakam and Katie Lang.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
There's two complete outsiders trying to figure out how to get accepted in Nashville.
Marc Maron
But oddly, both of them were doing, you know, what was only outdated because country had moved on. Like the orchestrations. They were doing what country music was supposed to do.
Keith Urban
There was a real. It's interesting with both of them because they have a little punk undercurrent thing, especially on their early records. Dwight definitely had a punk undercurrent rawness about him, which is the Bakersfield influence. And Katie's was just straight. She looked like she was a punk.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
On the first record. Absolute torch and twang. And I thought, man, if these guys can get any kind of traction, I'm.
Marc Maron
Thinking of Lyle Lovett.
Keith Urban
Right.
Marc Maron
It was sort of like old timey, you know, kind of like dance hall. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Right.
Keith Urban
But, you know, there was. I just. I stayed the course. There's plenty of artists that have been in the same position, a different version of it, but the same struggle of how do I get accepted in town and not lose myself.
Marc Maron
So. But did you. You aligned yourself with a producer, right. At some point, like. So Golden Road or. What's the first Nashville record? Keith Urban.
Keith Urban
Yeah. The Solar Record in 1999. Who produced that guy called Matt Rollings.
Marc Maron
Okay.
Keith Urban
Great keyboard player. Session player.
Marc Maron
Yeah. So were you doing sessions?
Keith Urban
I wasn't doing any sessions, but I'd been put with all the name producers in town. A big chunk of them.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
As my label was trying to figure out how.
Marc Maron
Any old timers.
Keith Urban
Well, a couple. One very legendary guy that was put with us when I was with the Ranch.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
The Warner Brothers, who I signed with at the time.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Said, well, let's put you with this guy and see what happens.
Marc Maron
Who was that?
Keith Urban
I'm not gonna name his name.
Marc Maron
Okay. Okay.
Keith Urban
The reason why is. Cause this fucking guy.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
He was like the court appointed attorney. Right. That's what it was like. It's like, you know, behind the scenes, the label was like, listen, can you just go and produce this band? He's like, ah, yeah, right. Okay.
Marc Maron
I could use the scratch.
Keith Urban
Exactly. So he's sitting in the control room and we track our song and we. I come in and he says to me, all right, boys, what you want as a overdub? Fiddle or steel? Literally, this is like, you can't make this up.
Marc Maron
Yeah, yeah.
Keith Urban
And I go, I'm Sorry, what? He goes, you want fiddle or steel?
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I said, I don't want either fiddle or steel on this track. It doesn't need any of that. He goes, I don't make the fucking rules. Listen, fiddle or steel, you decide. I couldn't give a shit. And I was like, I don't want fiddle or steel on this record if they don't need it. And he goes, kid, how many number ones have you produced? And I went, oh, my God. You didn't just say. People don't say. That's in movies and shit. Nobody actually says that. You literally just said that. Yeah, I've produced none. And you know that. And. What a dumbass thing to say to me.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I said, I've produced none. And. And I'm not putting fucking. And I just. I walked out of there.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Out of the session.
Marc Maron
And that was the last day.
Keith Urban
That was the last I saw with that guy.
Marc Maron
It was one day. So. So. So then the guy you did land with, he. He was good.
Keith Urban
So Matt, you know, I came to the realization, what I need is a. I need a musician to produce me. I need a musician.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Because I got to put a band together in the studio. Like a proper session band.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
So Matt was great with that.
Marc Maron
Okay. Because he plays keyboard. Yeah.
Keith Urban
And he was a muso. And he could talk to the musicians. As a musician.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
Not as a guy that plays golf.
Marc Maron
Right. Yeah. And how many records you do with that guy?
Keith Urban
I did the first one with him.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And then somebody suggested I work with Dan Hough.
Marc Maron
Well, yeah, that's the interesting thing. Like, when did you first chart? Was it on the first Keith Urban record?
Keith Urban
Yeah, I had a. Yeah, it was good that it was steady. I think the first single was like top 15 or something. Like number 15 or something. And then the next single is like number four.
Marc Maron
So now you got juice.
Keith Urban
Now I got juice. And then my third single was my first number one.
Marc Maron
Which one? Which song?
Keith Urban
It's called but for the Grace of God.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Yeah.
Keith Urban
Oddly enough, I wrote with two girls from the Go Go's. Really Very strange.
Marc Maron
Oh, well, that must have been nice for them in terms of like, you know, like the way music publishing works. It's great.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
So they. If they're on there, they made money throughout their life.
Keith Urban
Oh, they did great. I mean, they'd already done great, but.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
That's funny. How'd you meet them?
Keith Urban
I was kind of quasi managed by Miles Copeland.
Marc Maron
Okay.
Keith Urban
At the time.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And. And he said Charlotte Caffey and Jane Wheedling were coming to Nashville to write with people. And did I want to write with them?
Marc Maron
Why not?
Keith Urban
So. And all right.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I don't know what we're going to write.
Marc Maron
And then you got a hit.
Keith Urban
We wrote number one song. Yeah.
Marc Maron
Yeah. So. So now things are rolling and you've got this guy, Dan Huff.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Who you did like five, six records with. Right.
Keith Urban
We just clicked another music. Right. Amazing guitar player.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
And we just clicked in the studio. Yeah.
Marc Maron
And. And then you did a lot of hits with that guy.
Keith Urban
Yeah, yeah.
Marc Maron
Now what? Now I know you're sober. So when did that start to destroy you?
Keith Urban
What? Sobriety?
Marc Maron
Well, Look, I got 25, 26 years now, you know, and you know, the first five are tricky.
Keith Urban
Yeah. Because you don't know, but we don't tell anybody that.
Marc Maron
Well, you want, you want to be encouraging, but you know, if you tell somebody, like I heard a thing in the rooms once, don't kill yourself in the first five years because you'd be killing the wrong person.
Keith Urban
Oh, that's great. That's a great line.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Dude, what a great line.
Marc Maron
Uhuh.
Keith Urban
Holy.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
AA's full of great quotes, isn't it?
Marc Maron
Oh, the best. Yeah.
Keith Urban
Oh my God.
Marc Maron
God doesn't wake up and think he's you. That's enough. Those are the ones that stick. They're. They're not the, you know, the recovery sponsored one, but I, you know, I like that one.
Keith Urban
Yeah, well, I heard that thing like, oh, it's a simple program for complicated people.
Marc Maron
Sure.
Keith Urban
Right. And my sponsor went, no, that's. It's a simple program for simple people who think they're complicated.
Marc Maron
That's good. That's a good one.
Keith Urban
Yeah, that's a level.
Marc Maron
So when do you first hit the wall with that?
Keith Urban
Oh, multiple times. I went to three different rehabs over the course of eight years.
Marc Maron
Yeah, I went. I mean, it took me. The first time I got sober was 88 and I was in rehab with the one time.
Keith Urban
How did, how did that happen? I mean, I mean, why did you go to rehab?
Marc Maron
Because I, I was out here, I was probably, what, 88. I was like 24 or 25. And I'd come out here after college and I was a doorman at the Comedy Store. I was doing a lot of coke with Kenison. And, and what ultimately happened to me was that I, I always chuckle.
Keith Urban
Someone says, a lot of coke. So I'm like, is there such a thing as a little bit of coke?
Marc Maron
Well, that's what you're. You Think your take it takes, you know, like, I just need a bump, you know, Five years later, I'm in debt and I don't. This is one bump, man. What's one bump gonna do? Ruin your life? Yeah, no, but I. I got. I went into psychosis because of the lack of sleep and all the blow. I was like hearing voices in my head. I was paranoid and I lost my mind. So that's what got me to rehab the first time.
Keith Urban
So you put yourself in?
Marc Maron
Yeah, yeah. I went back to New Mexico where I grew up. I told my parents, like, I'm in trouble. And I went in for 30 days, impatient. And then I would stay sober for like a year and a half here, a year and a half there. But. So that's 88. And now it's like what, 20, 24. And I got 25 years. So it took me, you know, 30 some odd, you know, almost 40 years to get that. Yeah, but in and out.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
But it never got as bad. But it did take me about a year and a half to shake the paranoia.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
From the psychosis. All right. What happened to you?
Keith Urban
Paranoia is a bad thing.
Marc Maron
Oh, dude.
Keith Urban
Yeah, it. It's a bummer because it just ruins all the other fun parts of it.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Because you have no control over.
Keith Urban
And you're like, could I get this without the paranoia?
Marc Maron
Yeah. Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
It would be much fun.
Marc Maron
Even weed, Dude, I. You. I smoke weed every day. But eventually you're just sort of like, oh, they're all looking at me and they're like, no one gives a no. You just fall down this hole of yourself.
Keith Urban
Yeah. My f. The sponsor I have right now, the very first thing that when we met.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
We sat down, he goes, keith, I just want to start by saying, do you know how much people think of you? And I said, shit, how much? And he goes, rarely. I laughed my ass off. And I said, we are going to get along fucking great.
Marc Maron
I love that there's this sort of shattering of ego with the one line and it's like a relief.
Keith Urban
It was amazing. And I carry that very quote all the time in my head. And it just bit calms me.
Marc Maron
It's important.
Keith Urban
It's like my mantra.
Marc Maron
Yeah. There was another. Some guy told me this one about a guy, he's sitting at home, you know, and he's spinning out and he calls a sponsor. It's like, you know, everything's fucked. My whole life is falling apart. You know, I'm never going to go anywhere. Like everything I did was a waste of Time. Everybody's like talking about me. And like, I don't, I don't know what the, is happening in. The sponsor goes, where are you? He goes, I'm at home, I'm on my couch. He goes, you're just a guy on a couch. And to me I'm like, that's it, man. Like, there's nothing more helpful for me to, than to realize that most of what my brain is doing, thinking on its own is, has nothing to do with reality.
Keith Urban
No.
Marc Maron
And like, you know, it's just this projection. So when I first got sober, you know, for real, I did it for a woman who brought me into the program and I was in love with her. So like that, you know, I knew I needed it, but it was this idea of like, you know, when I'd be spinning out. She goes, what color are your shoes? Where are we right now? What, you know, what are you doing with your hands? Like, anything to get you.
Keith Urban
That's great.
Marc Maron
Out of the head. So what, where were you, your career when you first tried to get sober?
Keith Urban
Late 90s.
Marc Maron
Oh yeah.
Keith Urban
And my girlfriend at the time.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
It's a long story, but the end of the night, let's put it that way, was me sitting at the front of the house that I was renting and my girlfriend had thrown me down the stairs and in disgust and blah, blah, blah. Literally. And so.
Marc Maron
And you were drunk enough to be thrown down the stairs.
Keith Urban
I did freebasing all afternoon.
Marc Maron
Oh yeah.
Keith Urban
Pretty much since noon now. It was like one in the morning, wide eyed. And I'm. And, and that. It's that thing where you're. You, you can't even get high anymore. Oh, it's just done.
Marc Maron
You locked, you're just locked up.
Keith Urban
I'm done. I'm done. And I'm sitting out on the front steps just going, what have I done with my life? You know, what's happened? And I. Down, down the street at one in the morning comes her car with the headlights off.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And behind her is a police car with his headlights off.
Marc Maron
Oh no.
Keith Urban
And I'm like, okay, this is how it happens. I remember it vividly. I was very calm.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And they quietly pull up to the front of the house and she and this cop walk across the front lawn.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And, and yeah. Anyway, he, he, he had me go sit in the car.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
While he and my girlfriend went downstairs and looked around at the house and all sorts of stuff. And he comes back up and he said, man, there's enough, plenty of stuff down there for Me to arrest you?
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Obviously you're going to get deported.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
But your girlfriend seems to think that you maybe need help. What do you think I said? Yes, Yes, I need help.
Marc Maron
Good answer.
Keith Urban
Yeah, yeah, yeah. And he said, so she took a big risk. He said this to me, she took a big risk. She saw me at the gas station, she pulled in, she said, can you come and help my boyfriend? I don't want him to get arrested. Yeah, I know you gotta do what you gotta do, but if you cannot arrest him. And somebody helped me get him into rehab.
Marc Maron
Caravan Street.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
So the cop basically went, she's gonna drive you home to. Because we were living somewhere else.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
She's going to drive you home and then tomorrow morning you're going to check into rehab.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I'm going to call, make sure you're in there. Okay. Is that a deal? And I went, yep.
Marc Maron
That's the best story.
Keith Urban
That was the longest car ride home ever.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And the most awkward car ride. And all I can tell you in all honesty is the entire car ride home, I'm thinking, how do I get back to my dealer's house? Worst it's, it's two in the morning and all this gone down and that's all I can think about.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
If I can, I get out of this car at speed, do a little duck and roll.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And then head on back to town.
Marc Maron
Run into the woods. It's insanity, that drive to sort of like. Like when I got sober the first time, the dealer, you know, there was a big sort of out in the parking lot. I kind of had a meltdown in the Comedy Store and I'm breaking glasses and, you know, I'd been ostracized by all these guys that I was hanging out with. And I was freaking out. And the drug dealer pulls up and I'm like, I don't know. I don't know what I should do, man. And he goes, you gotta get out of here. And when the drug dealer tells you to go. Yeah, it's time to go.
Keith Urban
Oh, yeah.
Marc Maron
He's like, you got to do your own thing. I'm like, okay. And I just loaded up my car the next day and gave away a bunch. And I went and paid my drug dealer what I owed him and I left.
Keith Urban
Wow. Yeah. When your drug dealer says, you're cut off.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
It's not a good. You're in a good way.
Marc Maron
You gotta go. So how long did you stay sober?
Keith Urban
I went in just for the classic sort of 28 day program.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I can't. And I'll. I always say this because it's kind of true. It's pretty true. I came out of there after 28 days and I went. Hard drugs are my problem.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Not drinking.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Yeah.
Keith Urban
I just couldn't not go near the free basing. That's. That'll take me down. Like I was having fun drinking. That ruined it.
Marc Maron
That was at 29 days. So you got that.
Keith Urban
So when I got it, just. Just go back to some nice calm drinking. Right. And that continued for about three years.
Marc Maron
Really. No, no. No coke.
Keith Urban
Oh. I mean, what I'm saying is that eased over into that area. But what I'm saying is of course I was going to head back to all that stuff within a year or so.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Just stay up and drink more. Yeah.
Keith Urban
But I didn't get into massive trouble right. Until probably 2003. And then same thing happened. Different girlfriend this time. Same thing. Are you rehab.
Marc Maron
But are you. Are you happening at that point by then?
Keith Urban
I am, yeah. Yeah.
Marc Maron
So you had a lot. You had more to lose.
Keith Urban
Yeah. Wow. Yeah.
Marc Maron
So do you come from it? Alcoholism?
Keith Urban
My dad's alcoholic.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah?
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
Is that what.
Keith Urban
God never got sober? No, he died of cancer, but. But he still, you know, died alcoholically, you know, never got sober.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah. It's. It's weird when you're the kid of it, you go either way. Either you never touch your stuff or you just honored your parents. No, they're. My dad's a bipolar guy. So you had this sort of same erratic behavior. My mom. My mom has other, you know, sort of compulsive issues.
Keith Urban
But do you have any of the bipolar?
Marc Maron
No. I thought I did, but I don't. I'm anxious. A lot of anxiety.
Keith Urban
Huh.
Marc Maron
A lot of dread. A lot of hyper. What I got out of it, I think, you know, if I really think about it, is that, you know, that kind of piece of shit at the center of the universe idea and sobriety. Like. Like if you have parents that are like into their selfish, pathologically selfish in whatever way, you kind of left a brought up to bring yourself up in a way emotionally. And I find that like, when you're a kid, you can never think your parents are fucked up because they're your parents.
Keith Urban
That's right.
Marc Maron
So you put in. In your mind, you put this other parent in your head and that is taking care of you. And that guy's a fucker. He's going to tell you you suck. You're not good enough, you know, You. So that was my experience. So I got that kind of like pathological self loathing and shame thing. What about you?
Keith Urban
Isn't that every comedian?
Marc Maron
I don't know now, now there's some. Sadly, comedies become more well adjusted, you know, as. As the business gets more intrusive in the sense that you can't really make any kind of mistakes publicly. A lot of people have shaped up and a lot of comics come from more of a sketch background. But those of us who are kind of lone wolves with emotional problems that couldn't fit in anywhere else, we're a dying breed. But there's a few around.
Keith Urban
Well, a particular species.
Marc Maron
Well, yeah, but I think show business in and of itself just to survive in it and make your way in it has become a bit more well adjusted at the, at the middle tier, maybe.
Keith Urban
Yeah. It's all relative to where you come from. Right.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
You're dealing with what you were. What. What sort of genetic lottery.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Ticket you got.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Not just genetics, but emotional.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
I mean that's the thing.
Keith Urban
Well that even that can be hereditary though, that sort of trauma kind of stuff.
Marc Maron
That's right.
Keith Urban
Right.
Marc Maron
Yeah. It's how you're wired and if your parents are of. Are. Are, you know, dealing with that from a legacy like from way back, it can keep going for generations. Yeah, all that shit.
Keith Urban
I have a song on my album called Break the Chain.
Marc Maron
The new one. Yeah.
Keith Urban
Literally about that.
Marc Maron
It is, yeah. It's a pretty song. There's that guitar at the front. It's nice. Yeah, yeah. So you also. You were thinking about that.
Keith Urban
Well, I didn't know I was, but that the day we wrote that song, it came out and I was shocked that that came out that day because I wasn't thinking about it.
Marc Maron
Well, that's the hardest thing, isn't it? I would think. And you got kids is like, you know, how do I do it differently? You know, in a way that lands, you know, because you're always going to have the emotional liability. But how do you behave? Act as if. Or make contrary choices enough throughout a kid's childhood so they don't get the bug. Yeah.
Keith Urban
I mean, because we all come from some kind of dysfunction, every single one of us. We don't know it at the time.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
To your point.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
We just adapt.
Marc Maron
Sure.
Keith Urban
Behavioral patterns to survive in that.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
We go out of that family of origin, go out into the world, keep attracting the same wacky people and we're like, what the hell is wrong with these people? Why do I keep Attracting these people.
Marc Maron
I know, I know.
Keith Urban
And then you realize, oh, it's because of how I'm behaving.
Marc Maron
But it's also because of how you're wired.
Keith Urban
But what I'm saying is, the way I'm behaving is because of how I'm wired. So that behavior attracts a certain kind of person. Of course.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
So I can't attract different people until I change my wiring.
Marc Maron
That's right.
Keith Urban
Can I break a pattern of some sort? Can I rewire my way of being.
Marc Maron
Well, yeah, well. But the downside of that is it's sort of like, you know, you do it and then you attract a different type of person. And, you know, about three months in, you're like, oh, this is fucking boring.
Keith Urban
Right? Can be.
Marc Maron
But I guess this is the way it is.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
No more crazy ladies. God damn it. It's hard to grow up, man.
Keith Urban
It's hard to grow up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it is. And I think that that's all relative to where my inner child lives.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
All of my personalities, they're all needed. Like, every stage in my life is needed in my construct.
Marc Maron
But the bad ones shouldn't be able to take over.
Keith Urban
They just need to be in context. But to ignore them, that's not going to happen. They'll remind me that they're there.
Marc Maron
Right, of course. And then you have to negotiate with them.
Keith Urban
Right?
Marc Maron
Yes. You're like, I got to take a break. I have to talk to myself. Dude, what the. We're not doing that. We're not.
Keith Urban
That's the beginning of. Have you seen Joker yet? The new Joker?
Marc Maron
No, I haven't seen the new one.
Keith Urban
It's a great. It's a great beginning. Because there's a cartoony thing. It's not giving anything away. Starts with a sort of a cartoon thing of Joker and his shadow.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
Following him to a premiere.
Marc Maron
Oh, okay.
Keith Urban
And then the shadow does some other weird.
Marc Maron
Right, right, right.
Keith Urban
Already I'm in.
Marc Maron
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Keith Urban
I'm into this movie.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
Because the shadow is a fucking mysterious thing.
Marc Maron
It's the fucking worst, dude. You know? And the weird thing about the shadow is, like, you know, when you're fucked up, you think that's all people see, that you know, that the shadow's forefront.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
So during all this time of going in and out of sobriety. But now you got like 20 years or something, right?
Keith Urban
I got 18.
Marc Maron
That's great.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
But you're working. Yeah, but are you.
Keith Urban
I was working then, but were you.
Marc Maron
Working in the capacity where People were like, oh, fuck, what's going to be like today?
Keith Urban
I don't. Well, you'd have to ask them. But I was a pretty fairly functioning addict. Only in the sense. In the sense that I would get really messed up when I was off the road. It wasn't when I was on the road.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
That kind of thing. I didn't go in the studio making records all messed up.
Marc Maron
Oh. It's just when you had too much time on your hands.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
So this new record, the question I wanted to ask you in terms of how music works now is like you did like five or six records with Huff.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
And then like all of a sudden, like the number of producers involved on any given album, I guess it's song to song, but there's a lot.
Keith Urban
So that happened because every single one of those producers was a writer on that song.
Marc Maron
Oh, so they want the credit.
Keith Urban
Well, we would do. Well, you know, making demos when you're in the writing room.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Has gotten to the point now where they can be the record.
Marc Maron
Okay.
Keith Urban
Like that can be the record.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
That didn't used to be the case.
Marc Maron
Okay.
Keith Urban
But now the sound of demos is like, well, shit, that just sounds like the record.
Marc Maron
Right. Because everyone's got the great equipment. Yeah.
Keith Urban
You know, if it's somebody like a Greg Wells or a Mike Elizondo or, you know, Benny Blanco, any of these guys that I've worked with as producers, they're also great producers.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
So they're songwriters and producers. So of course I'm going to do the track with them. There's no reason to take it to someone else. That's how that ended up. So it wasn't like me with 12 different producers.
Marc Maron
It was song to song.
Keith Urban
Every single person that I'm with, if it's not Dan half, I guarantee that song was written by that producer with me and some other people.
Marc Maron
Right. Okay. So that's how it works now.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
But back in the day you were like. It just was structured different because it was all on you to write the song or if you did a cover song or if you.
Keith Urban
I would co write the songs. But if I wrote the song with, you know, a track guy or somebody else, I would take it to Dan Hough and we'd put it with the band.
Marc Maron
So it's really. The technology is what changed everything pretty much. Because the demos were so good. Good.
Keith Urban
Yeah. That's what I think happened.
Marc Maron
Oh, that's interesting.
Keith Urban
For me, it did anyway.
Marc Maron
But do you have like in those situations, do you have one Engineer. Or is it everybody different engineers with each time, really? So putting the record together is not like. Well, we knocked it out in three days.
Keith Urban
No, it's complicated. It's complicated.
Marc Maron
Like emailing files, you know, you got to download files and like, everything else.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
So, like, in terms of, like. Because it seems like you do have your. Your own thing. So when you're doing all these different textures of sound, I mean, is it a challenge to make sure it sounds like you?
Keith Urban
I just. I like it. Well, I don't. I don't. I don't think I have to think about it.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
You know, yeah. You just like, you. You have a style. If you're gonna write a joke or you're gonna do something, you don't have to make it sound like you.
Marc Maron
Right.
Keith Urban
It'll just be you. And if it's not, then you probably won't do it.
Marc Maron
Right. And how many of do you find you're better off when you write with other people?
Keith Urban
I like. I like co writing.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I've always liked co writing and I've written some of my own 100% songs, but I love co writing.
Marc Maron
And what. And what's the relationship there? Is it the words or the music that is really comes out of co.
Keith Urban
Writing more so words for me. I'm a melody guy.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Every now and then. Certainly a song like Break the Chain, that was all my lyrics on the day that came. But that's unusual for me, you know, I like working with a great lyricist and then editing and tweaking and contributing collectively.
Marc Maron
Yeah. And on Break the Chain, like you said before, you didn't realize how personal it was until it came out of you.
Keith Urban
No.
Marc Maron
Yeah. That's good.
Keith Urban
Yeah. I mean, it turned into a therapy session.
Marc Maron
That's good.
Keith Urban
I'd never met this guy before. Mark Sibley, who I wrote the song with, just walked in. Hi, I'm Keith. Yeah, Mark. And I'm like, that's an interesting guitar. He has this guitar. I pull it up, play this riff. And as I'm playing this riff, he's sticking a microphone in front of the guitar.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And I go, I guess we're writing. Okay.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
Then this melody came and these words came.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And it was. It happened so quick.
Marc Maron
Is that your favorite on the record?
Keith Urban
They're all my favorite for different reasons, or I wouldn't have put it on the record. But it's. It's.
Marc Maron
The Daytona's a sweet song. Is that the hit?
Keith Urban
I didn't write that song.
Marc Maron
You didn't?
Keith Urban
No. I Love it.
Marc Maron
What song is that?
Keith Urban
These two guys, Stephen Lee Olson and Nathan Barlow. Nathan's in my band.
Marc Maron
Okay.
Keith Urban
A great songwriter.
Marc Maron
Yeah. And I like Chuck Taylor's, too.
Keith Urban
Thank you.
Marc Maron
Yeah. I mean, there's a lot of, like, you know, sweet songs on there, man.
Keith Urban
It's a big mix.
Marc Maron
But that's just like, you know, you don't know that's going to happen until you sit with the guy and, like, sort of, like feel it out in the studio. Yeah.
Keith Urban
You just get in, start jamming, and a spirit happens and it feels good and we just latch on. Away we go. And then it's almost always melody.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
And you've got the melody formed.
Marc Maron
Right?
Keith Urban
Just. I know what the hell we're saying, right?
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
It's a great story about Mick and Keith writing songs where, you know, they ask Keith, how do you guys write songs? And Keith's like, well, we come up with a little. Little melody. And then Mick goes out to the mic and makes vowel movements. Just bowel movements. That's what it is.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Yeah.
Keith Urban
Songs feel so good.
Marc Maron
How great are the Stones, dude?
Keith Urban
They're the best.
Marc Maron
Right? I don't even know. I can't even. It's. You can't even explain why, really. In a sense, you know, it's kind of.
Keith Urban
It's a feeling. That's why. Just like the band. It's a feeling.
Marc Maron
Yeah. Yeah. And I guess you kind of chase that, right.
Keith Urban
You allow it to happen. That's a different thing.
Marc Maron
The space.
Keith Urban
It's like that quote, there is no way to peace. Peace is the way.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
It's the same approach. It's like, you can't. You can't try and get in the flow state. You just get rid of everything that's not.
Marc Maron
And. But it's also the life of a musician. That's the one thing I realized about the Stones, like, you know, because I play, but, like, it's not my life. And guys who play for life, it's almost like nothing else exists.
Keith Urban
Yeah.
Marc Maron
And they're in the studio for fucking days.
Keith Urban
That's me.
Marc Maron
Yeah.
Keith Urban
I don't play golf. I don't hunt. I don't fish. I don't do jack. I love music.
Marc Maron
Yeah. And. And you're just in there for days.
Keith Urban
I just bought a studio in Nashville.
Marc Maron
Oh, really?
Keith Urban
A really good one.
Marc Maron
Oh, yeah.
Keith Urban
I'm. I'm so jonesing to get in there. Yeah.
Marc Maron
And so. Well, you'll just like, wake up and be like, I'm going. And then go around.
Keith Urban
I hope so. That's the plan.
Marc Maron
Well, this record's great. And you had an amazing career. You're lucky to be alive. It's great talking to you.
Keith Urban
You're lucky to be alive, too, Mark.
Marc Maron
All right.
Keith Urban
And I'm glad you are.
Marc Maron
Thank you.
Keith Urban
Congrats to you.
Marc Maron
Thank you. You too.
Keith Urban
Thanks for having me at your house.
Marc Maron
You bet. That was a pretty, you know, pretty deep stuff, you know, I mean, I didn't never know what to expect. We got some places again. His new album, High, is available now. Hang out for a minute. This episode is brought to you by Progressive Insurance. You chose to hit play on this podcast today. Smart Choice. Progressive loves to help people make smart choices. That's why they offer a tool called Auto Quote Explorer that allows you to compare your Progressive car insurance quote with rates from other companies so you save time on the research and can enjoy savings when you choose the best rate for you. Give it a try after this episode of progressive.com progressive casualty insurance company and affiliates. Not available in all states or situations. Prices vary based on how you buy. Hey, folks, we've got more bonus material from past WTF guests on the full Marin this week. Outtakes from recent episodes with Chris Robinson, Jason Ritter, Elizabeth Olsen and more. For bonus episodes twice a week, sign up for the full Marin go to the link in the episode description or go to wtfpod.com and click on WTF Plus. And remember, before we go, this podcast is hosted by acast. Look, this guitar situation, I just kind of plowed through a thing that I was working on with the looper. It didn't pan out on the looper. It doesn't matter. You know, it helped me. It helped me. Sa Sa Sa Boomer lives Monkey and lafonda Cat Angels everywhere.
Detailed Summary of WTF with Marc Maron Podcast Episode 1585 - Keith Urban
Release Date: October 24, 2024
Host: Marc Maron
Guest: Keith Urban, Grammy-winning country singer and songwriter
Marc Maron welcomes country music superstar Keith Urban to the WTF podcast for an in-depth and revealing conversation that spans Keith's early life, musical journey, personal struggles, and reflections on the music industry.
The episode begins with Marc reminiscing about his brief encounter with Keith Urban during the COVID-19 pandemic when he interviewed Nicole Kidman. This initial meeting left Marc with a lasting sensory memory:
"Keith Urban came in here with his smell. Don't know what it was." ([02:15])
Marc transitions the conversation to Keith's work on the upcoming movie "In Memoriam," highlighting a pivotal moment in his acting career:
"There are a few scenes in this movie that require a level of acting that I just didn't have confidence in myself to be able to do." ([10:30])
The discussion delves into the emotional challenges of acting opposite Sharon Stone, with Marc sharing his vulnerability about freezing up during emotional scenes, and how Stone's presence helped him access his emotions:
"Sharon Stone was genius and, you know, took me to a place just by being there for me that I've never been before, opened it up." ([12:00])
Keith recounts his upbringing in New Zealand and Australia, emphasizing his deep-rooted passion for music influenced by his father:
"My dad loved American music. American cars. Everything." ([18:27])
Marc reflects on his own music tastes growing up, discussing how he was more into rock and how Keith's early exposure to bands like Dire Straits shaped his musical direction.
Keith shares his move to Nashville in the early '90s, detailing the struggles of fitting into the traditional country music scene:
"Arizona was a three-piece band, playing raw, spirited pub rock fusion stuff. No one knew what the hell to make of it." ([52:18])
He recounts an insightful interaction with Cliff Aldrich from Sony Records, who encouraged him to stay true to his unique style despite initial rejections:
"You're really unique. It's going to be your biggest curse until it becomes your greatest blessing." ([52:34])
A significant portion of the conversation delves into Marc and Keith's personal battles with addiction and the journey to sobriety. Keith shares his experiences:
"I went in just for the classic sort of 28-day program... For me, it's hard... multiple times." ([62:36])
Marc opens up about his own struggles, relating to Keith's journey and highlighting the importance of recognizing the illusions created by addiction:
"It's hard to grow up, man." ([73:35])
Keith discusses his approach to songwriting and collaborations, emphasizing his preference for co-writing and how it enriches his music:
"Writing more so words for me. I'm a melody guy." ([80:59])
He shares anecdotes about co-writing with Charlotte Caffey and Jane Wiedlin from the Go-Go's, which led to chart-topping songs:
"We wrote number one song." ([61:55])
The discussion turns to the evolution of music production, with Keith explaining how technological advancements have changed the landscape:
"That the sound of demos is like, well, shit, that just sounds like the record." ([79:52])
Marc and Keith reflect on maintaining a personal sound amidst the industry's demands, with Keith noting:
"I just have a style. If you're gonna write a joke or do something, you don't have to make it sound like you. It'll just be you." ([80:36])
Keith and Marc debate the challenges of maintaining authenticity in the face of industry pressures, with Keith asserting the importance of staying true to one's unique style:
"I like co-writing. I've always liked co-writing and I've written some of my own 100% songs, but I love co-writing." ([80:52])
The conversation underscores the balancing act artists must perform to preserve their individuality while navigating commercial success.
As the conversation wraps up, Marc and Keith share mutual respect and acknowledge their personal and professional growth journeys. Keith mentions his latest album "High" and plans to expand his work in Nashville:
"I just bought a studio in Nashville. A really good one. I'm so jonesing to get in there." ([84:02])
Marc praises the depth of their conversation, highlighting the emotional honesty that WTF with Marc Maron is known for.
"You got to figure out what your fucking character's relationship right now is with this character's relationship and act appropriately to honor that dynamic." — Marc Maron on acting ([10:00])
"You're really unique. It's going to be your biggest curse until it becomes your greatest blessing." — Cliff Aldrich advising Keith Urban ([52:34])
"I called them the reluctant boyfriends because I see them out in the crowd less so now than early in my career." — Keith Urban on his concert audiences ([36:21])
"Peace is the way." — Keith Urban's mantra on sobriety ([83:29])
This detailed summary captures the essence of Keith Urban's conversation on WTF with Marc Maron, highlighting his musical journey, personal challenges, and the insights shared during their candid discussion. The inclusion of notable quotes with timestamps provides depth and allows readers to connect with significant moments from the episode.