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Welcome to the you are Not Broken podcast. I'm your host, Dr. Kelly Casperson, a
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board certified urologist, thought leader, and conversation starter on midlife living, hormones, and sexuality.
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Enjoy the show.
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Perimenopause. What is it? Is it real? Does it exist? Is there treatment? Should everybody just be on birth control? That's what we're gonna talk about today. Thank you so much for coming to the youe Are Not Broken podcast, Jackie.
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Oh, thanks so much for having me, Kelly.
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Tell us where you practice.
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Okay. Yeah, I practice in north of Atlanta, a town called Marietta.
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And you're current. You're currently studying for your doctorate?
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Oh, yes. Yeah, I'm finishing that up. So I did a really cool project where we integrated routine menopause care paradigm into primary care. So I am in the process of finishing that up. I'll be done, God willing, in a couple of weeks. Yeah.
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Congratulations.
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A couple of weeks. Thank you.
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So how did you get into the perimenopause talks?
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I think perimenopause became particularly interesting to me over the last seven years, probably because of all the crap I dealt with after having my second baby. And just hormone land was not a peaceful place for me anymore after kids. And then when you've been in women's health for the better part of two decades, you start kind of drawing these parallels between your patients and yourself and you're able to kind of share stories. Isn't that what we all used to do is sit around fires and share stories with each other and like, commiserate? So I started kind of. I had some postpartum depression and anxiety, and then I would kind of listen to some of my patients and their stories and what they'd be going through and just started drawing these parallels together. And then I started my perimenopausal symptoms at 36, which is about three years ago. And then it just kind of took me down this rabbit hole. Like, we don't learn anything about perimenopause. You learn about menopause in med school and nurse practitioner school and, you know, PA school. And then that's like, it's like menopause. No more periods. End of sentence. And then like, cool, we're just send us off into the sunset, right?
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Yeah. The perimenopause zeitgeist is brand new. I feel like it's a year old to like the three years that menopause has had.
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That's the thing. It's like menopause is having a moment. Right. But I think that there is going to be A surge of the discussion shifting to perimenopause. And when I actually was digging more into perimenopause, we have to understand too, that the millennial generation, which is on the cusp either just entering. So the geriatric millennials, as we lo like to refer to ourselves as. So that's going to be anybody from like your late portion of your 30s into your early 40s. We're just dipping our toes into the perimenopause water.
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We're basically all perimenopausal at this point. Yeah, yeah, the elder millennials, I mean,
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we're like the largest aging generation next to the baby.
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Yeah. Because Gen X is like the wee teeny bits. Actually, Gen X, the oldest of the Gen x is turning 60 this year, which blew my freaking mind, because I don't think. I don't think of it that way. But somebody said on my Instagram this week, they're like, well, it's too late for Gen X, so hopefully the media millennials will, like, figure out how to treat perimenopause and menopause. And I was like, excuse me, like, it's not too late for the Gen X. Hold on. We're not moving that fast. So for people, like, the many myths about perimenopause, a common one is. Is it even real? So let's start with the definition. When people ask you what perimenopause is, how do you answer that?
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So, literally speaking, if you were to go look it up in a textbook, it translates to the time around menopause. What the hell does that even mean?
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Yeah, do you know when you're going to have your last period? Because then we'll be able to tell you if you are within 10 years of that.
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No, I didn't even start writing about. You know, we have historical accounts of menopause dating all the way back to, like, ancient Greece and Hippocrates. But we didn't even start, like, actually documenting what we call the climacteric, is what it's sometimes referred to, or perimenopause, until, like, the early 1900s. So this is a fairly new concept. And it was always associated with the stopping of the periods. Right. The tracking of the periods all around, like fertility and whether or not a woman could get pregnant. And we've only more recently started associating it with all the other barrage of symptoms. Right. That so many of us are starting to really connect the dots to. But textbook wise, it means the time surrounding menopause or leading up to menopause we've decided in this country that the median age is 47. And that's largely based on observational studies. There's a study out of Australia, there's the Seattle Midlife Women's Health Study that was done. And then the biggest one that's lended us the most data is called the SWAN study or the Study of Women across the Nation study. And basically what they did is they just took women, and here's the kicker, they took women ages like 40 to 45. There's no studies that took women in their mid to late 30s. So they took women 45 and over. And then they basically did some blood work on them and, and they had some symptom tracker and some menstrual cycle tracking data and just basically said, all right, when did you start, when did you start to experience these symptoms in and around your menstruation? And they plotted it and decided the median age is 47. And then the median symptom duration is 4 years. But then that was kind of updated with the SWAN study that came out showing that your ethnicity also changed the years in which you experienced it either shorter or longer.
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I think the age based nomenclature is so troubling both for menopause and perimenopause, because when you say a number, people aren't thinking that's the mean and 50% is below that. And what's the two standard deviations within that, which is what that number's meant to do. But instead we say, oh, 47 for Perry, 51 for menopause. So you're too young. And like Jackie, you would be dismissed because you're in your 30s and you're. Whatever thing you're experiencing is something different because you're too young for perimenopause. I get that all the time. I'm too young.
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People don't understand the basic statistical concepts. They literally just say, oh, it's this age. They don't understand that it means that there's an equal probability of experiencing it at a younger age and at an older age, it's not that age. So it's super frustrating because if I had a dollar for every time a woman told me she was dismissed because somebody told her she was too young.
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Age is what you can drive at and vote at and drink at, but it's not what you should make medical decisions upon.
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100% ever.
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And so I'm like, at my daughter's soccer practice and this woman comes up, one of the moms comes up to me and she's like, I need to come see you. Because I was just at my doctor's and they said, I'm too young to go on hormones. And like, this woman's symptomatic. And I'm like, how old are you? And she said, her age, which was my age. And I'm like, you're not too young. And furthermore, like, where the thought leaders are. And I'm jumping ahead because we're like, okay, it's real. It happens when you're young. And the thought leaders are treating perimenopause with hormones because we're in the belief of why are we going to lose our maximum bone density and then try to make up for it? Why are we going to wait for depression and then treat it? Why are we going to wait for our labia to go away and then try to bring it back? Like, I think really the 10 year. If we can jump straight ahead of, like, where's perimenopause care going to be 10 years from now? It's going to be way more preventative than it is right now. And I think that's reflected in the thought leaders who say, you know what? Let's preserve bone health, let's preserve mental health, let's preserve genital urinary function. Let's start hormones. And certainly the use of a period existing in your life to say whether or not you can use something is absolutely meaningless.
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Yeah, no. 100%. I think that this is the crux of the essence of primary preventative care. Right. And not just telling women when they present with XYZ symptoms, oh, you're too young for that. Or, oh, you have a while till you have to worry about that. Or, or, or it's like, okay, well, let's actually look at what's happening with the typical age that this happens at. And let's. If you're not having anything now, let's prepare for it. Or if you are, let's assess what you're experiencing and how that's going to affect you five to ten years from now? What can you do right now to make changes or to work smarter, not harder, or whatever you're doing in now. Because the plan to keep us out of a declining, frail state in our 70s and 80s starts now in the 30s and the 40s and makes me, like, want to strangle the people that tell women deaths.
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And I just, I want to drive home the point for the listeners of, like, I'm sorry you're miserable, but you still have a period, so you're just going to have to Deal. Until your period ends. The absolute lack of logic to that statement. Huh? Okay, I'll throw an IUD in you so you don't have a period. Will you treat my perimenopause now? Oh, I'll get a uterine ablation so you don't have a period. Will you treat your perimenopause now? Completely irrelevant. And I think where it comes from. Tell me if you have a different opinion. People's lack of understanding what the heck perimenopause is in the first place, which is massively fluctuating hormones towards the eventual decline of hormones. If you don't know what perimenopause is, then you can't possibly understand why it would be important to treat it.
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No, certainly I think that it's the complete lack of understanding on what exactly is. Because we've based the definition of menopause on this concept of you have to be the biggest issue and the most problematic thing is that we base the definition of menopause on one full year without a menstrual cycle. And that leaves so many women out of the conversation. And it leaves so many women out of the conversation right now. I mean 1 in 10 women are of reproductive age. Are utilized long term forms of contraception. Well, most women who have IUDs are not having regular periods. So how the hell are they going to know when they've been one year without a period? I mean I've been eight years without a period. So I mean when we have the definition of menopause as one full year without a period, then we leave out so much of the experience of perimenopause from that conversation. And we also get hung up or get in trouble or dismissed when they're having regular menstrual cycles still and having perimenopausal symptoms. And their clinicians or whomever they're seeing will say, oh, you can't be perimenopausal because you're having a normal menstrual cycle. And that's ridiculous. You can still have fairly regular menstrual cycles and be experiencing symptoms of perimenopause that can be mediated by certain interventions. And yet we just have this like we put, we put the period up on such, this pedestal of like this one parameter that needs to be met in order for you to check any box that is worth anybody to listen to you.
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Yeah, I mean, I think the other common thing that said is like everybody just thinks everything is perimenopause and it's like no Everybody doesn't think everything is perimenopause, but this does happen to 100% of women. This is 100. Thyroid issues could be. Could masquerade. Diabetes can masquerade as it. But those two things don't happen to 100% of women. So actually, the common denominator is in this point in life, perimenopause is happening to everybody with ovaries because this is the start of the end of the ovarian lifespan.
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Yeah, well, and that's, I think, the one area where the time sensitivity of this issue actually helps us because it's like, well, not everything is perimenopause, but we do know in and about around this time, women are going to start experiencing this. So there's a pretty damn good chance that. That this is what it is. And if it's not, this is a great opportunity to come on into the office. And I'm sure you've got a question for this, Kelly, about when to check, if not to check hormone levels, et cetera, et cetera. But I actually use this time in women that come to me as a. As a clinician and say, let's look at some other things, because there are also, you know, thyroid is one of the things is very commonly will appear in midlife as becoming under functioning, and other things will appear. Well, let's check for those. And if those are all good to go, well, then what else is it going to be? I mean, save working you up for, like, we call it unicorns versus horses.
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Usually in the medical world, probably it's commonly the horse. So, like, a woman came in, she was perimenopausal age, and she's like, but is it perimenopause? But is it perimenopause? And she just kept, like, harping on it. And like, you learn a thing or two after talking to people for this many years, and you realize they're asking it. They're actually asking a different question. What she's actually asking is, can I get treatment for this?
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Yeah, right. Can I do something?
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Can we do something about it? And so it's like. Because it's like, it might be, it might not be. There's no clinical test. I can't put you in a CAT scan yet at this point and scan you for perimenopause the way Dr. Moscone's going with the tracers in the brain and how accurate it is as predicting menopause. Like, there's going to be something at some point, but the treatment options are safe. Cheap, effective. Like, why not try the whole, like, tolerance of women suffering until menopause is insane to me.
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No, 100%. And I think we've just sort of normalized this experience. And I'm like, oh, this is just what it is. Like, sorry. And we make a large effort at other parts of women's lives when they're having babies or going through difficulty having babies or going through puberty and experiencing menstrual cycle changes in that time of their lives. And I think that we, you know, gynecology is. That's the world that I come from as a women's health nurse practitioner, is that, you know, we really do a full court press in those areas to try to help women navigate these challenges. But somehow when we get to perimenopause and menopause, like crickets, all of a sudden it's like, oh, no, no, no. This is just a part of getting older. And so I think we just need to largely change that conversation and say, what can we do? And it doesn't always have to involve a prescription pad, although usually it does, but it doesn't have to involve, you know, pharmaceuticals. There are a lot of things that we can do to help women feel better. But again, the one thing for sure that's not going to help them feel better is just saying that this is part of getting older.
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Gaslighting them and telling them to suck it up. Hope that helps. Thanks for your copay. So just for people to understand, the ovary makes follicles. Follicles make the hormones. Within the follicle is the egg. Rewind this and listen again if you need to, because we're going fast. But the follicle is starting to putz out. There's only so many follicles based upon the size of the ovary. Our ovaries are the size they are because of the. Our bodies being the size they are. Elephant ovaries are bigger. So ovary is a certain size at some point. With years on Earth, the follicles, you're sort of. We're just starting to run out of them. As we're running out of hormones, the brain is saying, hold on, you're not making as many hormones regularly as you used to. So the brain starts telling the ovary, hey, work a little bit more to get this going. And then sometimes we'll actually have pretty high hormone spikes because the ovary kind of like doubles up on some shitty follicles to try to keep the party going. Would you like to explain that in any different way?
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No. I think. I mean, I think you explained the chaotic ness of it really, really well. I always tell people that perimenopause is very much a moving target in terms of symptoms, but also in terms of what's happening biochemically when the hormones. So, yes, I mean, we are born with the amount of eggs and follicles that we will have. And over our lifespan, they. We either will ovulate them or we. They will die off. And each month we prepare a certain amount, and then one is chosen as that dominant follicle that either ovulates or doesn't ovulate. And then the rest kind of die off. And then this repeats itself over and over. And then by the time we get to whatever our personal natural age of menopause is going to be, we have pretty much run out of. And also the quality goes down. Right? Just like every.
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It's not totally true that you have no eggs left. You do have egg. The follicles are kind of shitty at this point. They're just old.
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It's the. So we experience something called atrophy within the ovary. And then we also. There's something called fibrosis where the tissue kind of becomes. It's kind of what happens to other areas of our body. Right? I mean, the aging process happens everywhere, and it's happening within the ovary. And the follicles and the ovary are just not as able to produce functioning eggs that will produce a healthy baby, if that's the goal at that age. And so essentially what happens is the ovary becomes less responsive to those hormones and the brain doesn't take the hint. So the brain just continues to pump out its hormones and just kind of provide as much gas as it thinks it needs to in order to elicit a response from the ovary. So this is where we see a certain hormone called follicle stimulating hormone. We're not very creative in medicine. It's liter follicle stimulates, stimulating the follicles in the ovary. And it raises up, it goes high, and then the estrogen levels go down low. But in the midst of the beginning to the middle part of perimenopause, these hormones can be all over the place. And it's really hard to catch them consistently where you're gonna get an accurate picture of. It's more towards the end of the perimenopause journey, really within that last like one to three years where you start getting more consistently elevated follicle stimulating hormones. Because ovary is for the most part, just completely out to lunch. It's done. It's like, no more. No, thank you. Closed for business. So I sometimes will say it's like the ovary going out of business sale. But I did want to say one more thing to what you said earlier, is that one thing that drives me crazy. And as a women's health np, I cringe every time a woman tells me, oh, yeah, I had a hysterectomy and I just had my ovaries removed. They said, I'm done with those. And you actually had somebody on your podcast. And I can't remember the exact episode, but I still think of it all the time. And I'm like, we don't know what the ovaries are doing in a menopausal state, because nobody has cared to study that. And it is also a myth that once you're menopausal, you'll never have a bleeding episode again sparked by ovarian hormones. I call it the zombie ovaries. The zombie ovaries, they'll come back because your ovaries do have some potential to create hormones in a menopausal state. It's not to the degree that's usually going to bring a normal menstrual cycle and fertility, but I could go off on a tangent on this forever. It's fascinating science to me, and I'm like, we need to know more about this.
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I think the other thing, I see this a lot in the testosterone dismissive culture of like, but your testosterone doesn't go down with menopause. And I'm like, that's true. The ovary has a more linear decline of testosterone starting from your 20s. But that's like a big. People will use that as, like, a. Testosterone doesn't fall off a cliff with menopause. And I'm like, well, that's kind of. That's a fact, but also kind of meaningless when it comes to, like, should we treat women or not? But, you know, I had a gynecologist. She did a bilateral oophorectomy with a hysterectomy and a woman in her 70s. And you, you would assume and think, like, the ovaries aren't doing much, right? And she's like, this woman literally hit a wall. She could hardly get out of bed. And it was above and beyond what, like, surgery, you know, surgery is a hit and takes a while to recover. She's like, this woman acted as if I put her into menopause. She hadn't had periods for decades, but she acted as if I put her into menopause that day from the surgery. Do you think I should put her on some testosterone? And I'm like, it's not going to hurt her. Put her on the testosterone. She's like, so she did and she's like, she came back, man, like. And so for us to assume that the ovary is doing nothing, absence of evidence doesn't mean evidence of absence. Meaning just because we haven't researched it doesn't mean there's nothing there.
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Right. Well, and I always say it's like, how do you explain, how do you explain the women that are able to very vibrantly and actively live in, you know, without, you know, we're just now, within the last five years really heavily starting to have a good hormone conversation about the resurgence of menopausal hormone therapy. Right. And I think it's only going to continue to grow like a snowball. But how do you explain all these women that have lived in this largely hormone void past two decades? But there are, there are a group of women who have lived into their 80th and 90th decade and have been relatively healthy and have good bones. And you know what is different about them?
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I mean, the other, going back to testosterone, like we've totally segued off of perimenopause. Sorry listeners, we'll get back on there. But like, you know, we know that testosterone has a little bit of, call it a surge, call it a bump, whatever you want in the 70s. And the theory is that's actually heart protective for those people. But what I've never seen is are all those people that have that surge, do they all still have ovaries? I haven't seen that breakdown. Do people who've had oophorectomies not get that, you know, natural testosterone surge when you're in your. And we're not talking 20 year old testosterone here, but like enough of a bump that it seems to have a cardioprotective effect is that only in people who've had ovaries preserved? The researchers probably know. I haven't looked short of this conversation. I haven't actually thought about that.
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Well, there we go. There's your, there's your weekend.
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There's my weekend research. So the other question about perimenopause before we get into treatment is something called the loop cycle or the really high estrogen. Let's describe that for people. And I think we're. What I hate about the term estrogen dominance is number one, it's tend to be used by people who aren't prescribers on social media. But what I the other thing I don't like about it is people tend to behave as if it's a fixed state. And the fact that I'm estrogen dominant means I'm going to be estrogen dominant for my entire life. And that's not what anybody actually means by estrogen dominant. Of like, no, it's just Tuesday next month, your estrogen could be in the bucket again. So let's talk about the loop cycle and how that has and the truth of the estrogen dominance from time to time.
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Well, estrogen dominance is oversimplifying the whole process of perimenopause. I mean, most women, or should I be so cavalier to say all women that are in perimenopause are in an estrogen dominant state until they're in a estrogen void devoid state. I mean, that's just kind of the nature of it. And so let's explain that a little bit. So your entire reproductive life your body has relied upon, let's just say if you haven't been on oral contraceptive pills to navigate your cycle. But if you're on nothing, your body's relied on this beautiful dance between the brain which we were talking about, and your ovary and then responding to one another and the brain soliciting a response from the ovary, the ovary developing a hormonal response to that solicitation, and then them chatting, we call that a feedback mechanism. And so them talking back and forth to one another to send messages back to let everybody know what the status is. And what that Status is, is 1, did the ovary generate a follicle in order to produce an egg for that month for which to turn into an embryo for fertility that month? And the second is, did the uterus respond, ingest and prime that uterine lining in order to receive that egg, that fertilized egg, and that has become an embryo in order to develop into a pregnancy, if that's what happens for that month. And so we're used to that sink first we start with estrogen the first half of the cycle and we build up. That's where we have high estrogen levels. And then the estrogen declines. And then we see coming in of the progesterone, which is made largely from the follicle that ovulated on the ovary. We call that a corpus luteum. So when we go into perimenopause and we lose a lot of the good quality egg function from our ovary, what ends up happening? Is we get a dysfunction in that cyst, in that corpus luteum on our ovary, which produces progesterone. So we're not producing enough progesterone to stabilize out that lining. So estrogen builds the lining of the uterus into this thick, lush tissue. Right. And that's what our period is. And so the progesterone supports it, it kind of stabilizes. I kind of call it the mortar. Estrogen's like the bricks. Progesterone is like the mortar. And so you have that, you have a corpus luteum dysfunction where it just doesn't last as long, it's not producing enough progesterone. It's like the months you think you ovulated, but then you did an ovulation stick and you didn't come back with an ovulatory level. And then what ends up happening too is you get this. The messages become mixed and the wires become crossed and you almost get like a superimposed period over period. So the lining, the. In the lining of the uterus doesn't really know which phase it in. Is it in a growing phase or is it in a shedding phase? And so the loop cycle essentially is you just get these out of phase events where you either don't bleed at all or you bleed all the time. And these are the people that are the patients or the women that will come to me and say, great, I had two periods this month, that was cool. Or they'll say, oh, I skipped, you know, six weeks, eight weeks, whatever it was. And then, boom, I had a period and now I'm regular again. So this whole dance between the pituitary gland in the brain and the ovary and the uterus, the wires are totally crossed. So you get this shit show, Sorry. Of a period or lack thereof. And that's what a loop phase is.
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Yep. And the estrogen can go really high. And that's where women are like, my breasts are really tender. I'm super moody, maybe I've got crazy headaches. So they really do present estrogen dominance, but that's not a permanent condition.
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Right. Well, and when the progesto. When you have an. We call them anovulatory cycles, where you didn't ovulate that month because your body didn't have the hormones or the ovarian function to produce ovulation that month, and so you don't have progesterone. Well, yeah, you're going to be estrogen dominant because you likely were producing estrogen in anticipation for that ovulation and then you didn't. So you are inherently estrogen dominant in and of itself with that. And so that's what I'm saying. Saying somebody's estrogen dominant oversimplifies the issue. But again, yeah, these erratically high estrogen levels are what bring on the migraines or the heavy cycles, the erraticness of the cycles, the mood going all over the place. It's. We're used to rely, you know, this reliable. Our employees showing up to work when they're meant to show up to work and the operations work smoothly. And then all of a sudden things are going crazy.
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But I think that's why perimenopause is a challenge to even menopause providers. Because, you know, post menopause we kind of. The dogma is like, start with the estrogen, do you need a progesterone or not? Based upon uterus. And then testosterone's like the super special sidekick that some people know about and are fine with. Right. Like that's your post menopause hormone diorama. And then in perimenopause, though, it's not always right to start with estrogen. You can start with progesterone, you can start with testosterone, even for some people. And again, it's. This is not lab test based because you, you can test labs. I'm not saying don't test labs, test labs if you want to see where things are. But know it's a moving. And we really do, we do treat symptoms more. And that might look like the week before your period, we treat you with hormones, you know, or for the first two weeks after your period, we don't treat you with hormones and then you do. So it's very symptom based. Based upon what's bothering her and understanding it is a moving target.
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Yeah, well, and that's how I, whenever I go at treating perimenopause with my, my patients, I, I use this analogy. I say either when we look at two, there's two different rooms, I guess, in terms of how we treat perimenopause. Old school, the old kind of dogma. And thinking of how you treat perimenopausal symptoms is to put somebody on a birth control pill. And that's largely based on trying to just dampen this hormonal fluctuations in this chaos. Because hormonal birth control pills come in and they override the communication system between your brain and your ovaries and they give you a steady state of hormones all month long. So I liken that to. We say the Perimenopause roller coaster and then we're putting you on the carousel. That's my analogy that I like to use.
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I was thinking of like the Lazy River.
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Yeah, or lazy. Yeah, that's great. The lazy River.
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Putting on the Lazy river, you're not going to go down the water slide. I agree with you. Two rooms, two doors, two camps, blah blah, blah. We have things in our toolbox. We have natural hormone therapy and we have birth control pills. One isn't inherently the only answer we've got. I think true experts know when to use one, when to use the other. I think it's a little heavy handed to say natural hormones for everybody or birth control for everybody. They're both tools in the toolbox.
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But yeah, if you want to use natural hormones, which in my practice is almost always what I use because most people don't struggle to get a pack of birth control pills from their primary care. So my, I'm a little biased because my patient population is coming to me for the menopausal hormone therapy approach. But you have to be pretty darn flexible with that.
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And what's that mean? What's that mean to you?
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Like you said, we base treatment largely off of symptoms. And if perimenopause is a moving target, the intervention could look different depending on the time of the month. And so we can dig into this a little bit more. But I'd liken treating perimenopause with menopausal hormone therapy like grabbing a surfboard and getting out there and getting ready to ride the waves. I mean, that is like my analogy that I like to use because you might be high during that month and your estrogen might be really, really, really high and you didn't ovulate and all of a sudden you're having sleepless nights, night sweats, all the things, and you're feeling those low progesterone symptoms. And so progesterone might be really great for you. Or you might be somebody who is used to having a certain state of estrogen and you crash when you have low estrogen levels. You get a low mood anhedonia where you just could care less about anything. These are my people that like want to sell their home and leave their lives and say goodbye to everything. Or you have migraines because the crash of the estrogen gives you migraines. Well, this is where we're going to say, hey, you can use estrogen during this small window of time and that might help you. That is a really difficult concept for a lot of clinicians to sit with because it is so much easier. We, like, control, right? Inherently, I think clinicians and medical providers like, control over things. And we like to know when we implement a treatment modality, it's going to have this effect. That's why we like randomized controlled clinical trials so much. And in perimenopause, that just doesn't happen. It is a moving target, and you have to be okay with it being such.
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Yep. I had a woman, and it was. She's like, the week before my period is hell. I feel awful. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And I'm like, why don't we just throw on a patch the week before? I'm like, do you kind of regularly know when that week is? She's like, oh, yeah, I know. Like, she knows. And so I'm like, all right, let's throw on a patch that just that week. See how you do. Saw her back. I'm like, hey, how's that patch going that week before your period? And she's like, it's my favorite week of the month now. That was the big aha, right? It was like, dude, you can change one week for people. It's pretty sweet. And so then I was like, well, do you want to take the patch, like, every week of the month? And she's like, can I? And I'm like, yeah. And I think the other. Another myth is that if you're on birth control, oral birth control is what we're talking about, or that you can't be on the natural hormone therapy. It's like, no, we're actually. You can play with both at the same time. And some might argue everybody on oral birth control should be on supplemental testosterone because of how much it messes with your testosterone.
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I think we're just starting to pull the layers of the onion back on that one and start to really admit and recognize the impact that oral contraceptives have on women's sexual function.
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Whenever you want to blow people's minds, you tell them two things. You tell them, number one, your labia minora can disappear after post menopause, because that. That seems to explode heads. And the second thing is, like, yeah, do you know we actually have data that women probably marry different men based upon if they're on birth control or not. And I'm like, yeah, well, there's data.
C
Yeah, we've got a long way to go. We've got a lot of unpacking to do. We've got a lot of dogma to undoing. You know, we've got a lot of. A lot of things. But yeah, that's the cool thing about perimenopause, too. And I think it's really important for people and women to recognize that there are actually two different stages of perimenopause, which is really kind of cool. There's what we call the early perimenopause and late perimenopause and symptoms of early. And you hinted at this with your estrogen patch trick, which is great. I use it all the time, too. Is that in early perimenopause, it's more subtle things changing. It's more like, oh, I just get night sweats during these four days out of the month, or I just want to kill my husband these days of the month. And so it's because you're not seeing large fluctuations in your menstrual cycle, and thus your hormones are still. They're starting to not be as reliable. You're just getting these little gaps of symptoms. And you can, if you're not using an oral contraceptive to kind of just kind of calm the storm, you can. This is where tracking becomes your best friend in perimenopause and getting data. And now this is why the millennial generation is not going to take no for an answer. Because we've been tracking shit on our phones and since 2002. So we're used to tracking. We know how to track stuff. We've got rings and earrings and watches and phones and everything to get data. And so when you can get data and know, okay, this is the time where I'm feeling these symptoms, you can target your treatment to those. And then when you move into the late perimenopausal stage, which is where we actually start to see the period, the menstrual cycles pulling apart from each other. That's when you're like, oh, I skipped a total period this month. I've gone 60 days or more without a cycle. That's actually where you're going to be somebody that's going to probably feel a lot better using menopausal hormone therapy. More like a fully menopausal patient just doing it all the time, consistently. You may need to toggle your dose up and down a little bit, use a little bit more, use a little bit less. Maybe if your breasts get super swollen, maybe your ovaries decided to wake up a little bit more that month. You're gonna know that. But this is where education and empowerment is so important, because we need to trust that women can know their bodies and we can pass the torch a little bit back to women.
B
These medications are so safe too. What I love to do for progesterone and sleep, and I'm like, take one to two a night. You're gonna know. Like, I. That's what I do. I'm like, am I going to need a little more help sleeping tonight? I might dose 200. I think that's where a lot of hormone experts are, is like, dude, is this stuff safe? And I trust that you. You can dose based upon, like, you know where you are and how well you think you're gonna sleep. And now like, with like the whoop and the aura ring and you can track your sleep. I'm not saying people have to do that, but, like, you can start seeing, like, my gosh, I'm sleeping better when I do the patch or the progesterone or. Or what it may be. Let's talk about again, because I want to demystify. I think one of the myths is like the menopause experts who are. Who big super fans of natural hormone therapy that we hate birth control pills. And I want to dismantle that of like, no, no there. If you've got sperm in your life that you ain't want to make a baby with, natural hormone therapies is not going to help you. You get pregnant on that stuff. Furthermore, that stuff's used in fertility clinics, right? Like, watch out if you're still getting periods, you can get pregnant. Protect yourself from sperm if that's what you want to do. So if you need to protect, that's what I always ask women because they love how I say it, because I like to shock them a little bit. I'm like, do you need to protect yourself from sperm?
C
And they're like, what?
B
Birth control great for protecting yourself from pregnancy. Mellows out the super heavy periods. 20% of women will have the heavy periods in perimenopause. When else are we going to use birth control?
C
Specifically, there's a condition called premenstrual dysphoric disorder, which is. Is like the evil twin sister of PMS or premenstrual syndrome. So PMS or premenstrual syndrome really is like, I'm bloated. I'm a little bit moody and irritated right before my period. I want to, you know, grab a bag of potato chips and just sit on the couch and Gilmore Girl reruns like, for, you know, that's pms, right? But PMDD is the evil, evil twin of that. Where it is. I mean, it is a true Deep dark dip into a depression. Oftentimes it can be a rage. I mean, it's, it's what we liken to like almost a very parallel condition of like severe postpartum depression where the decline and the fluctuating nature of the perimenopausal hormone chaos your brain. And we think there's a vulnerability. We think that there is a vulnerability in some people's brains that they just cannot take that up and down and side to side. They need a steady state of hormone production. And those individuals do much better on a combined oral contraceptive pill. And there's one specifically that works better than the others. And it's when the progestin or the form of progesterone is in something called Drozen Spare un. And there's a couple different products out there that have drosparenone specifically in them. Nextellis Slim and then Yaz, Yasmin B. Yaz and as long as you know those, those types of products. But that pmdd. And then when periods are hell and control your life and when you, as you say, you need protection against sperm, those are the big ones that are going to. Oral combined contraceptives are going to be better in perimenopause. They just are.
B
Risks of oral combined contraceptives, the risk of blood clot is higher than natural hormone therapy. It's still low, but it's there. And it is higher than natural hormone therapy. Just for the statistics nerds, it's lower than your risk of clot with pregnancy. So it's still very low. But I think, you know, when we're looking at putting older and older women on birth control pills, oral birth control pills, that is a risk. I heard from a woman this week that she knows she was perimenopause, started on an oral birth control pill, got a blood clot, and is now super freaked out that she can't be on natural hormone therapy because she got a blood clot on birth control pills. Right. So it's like, well, no, transdermal eliminates that risk. And natural hormone therapy is much lower. But that's one thing to consider that I think people, people blow off risks of some meds and then over emphasize risks to other meds. And I think that's not applying the weight of risks. Fair. And then they usually say at age 55, you should be off the oral birth control pills.
C
Yep.
B
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C
And they say that because 90% of women will have gone through natural menopause by age 55. So that's actually where that recommendation comes from.
B
Yeah. Average age of menopause is 51. But if you stop birth control and then you still have periods, you can still get pregnant. And so they're like. Like a year with no natural periods is when they say you don't need birth control if you. If you have sperm in your life that you need to protect yourself from. The other myth I want to talk about is women will say, oh, I. I can't have estrogen because I have such bad migraines. And it gets worse in perimenopause. And the thing I always want to tell them is the brain's very sensitive to fluctuation more than what the actual level is. So people assume the migraine is from estrogen when the migraine can be from fluctuating hormones.
C
It's why the symptoms. And this, this goes back to, like, the first part of our conversation, Kelly. It's why perimenopause, in my mind, is almost more important than menopause or the term menopause is because this is when it all is happening. And the things. This is where it's the worst. Because honestly, a lot of stuff actually tends to level out once you. Once your ovaries have fully decided that they're done and this is over and no more periods. A lot of the hot flashes and the night sweats do tend to level out. Things tend to get better. So a lot of women, the migraine storms and the things that happen actually accelerate in perimenopause because it's the estrogen going from super duper high to then crashing up and down and that. Which is where a lot of times the symptoms become problematic. Is that fluctuating nature of perimenopause?
B
Yeah, I love that. And I think, you know, you have recently done a talk about perimenopause, and one of the things you emphasize that I really like, because again, people are like, oh, it's just fluctuating hormones.
A
Yes.
B
And what that means, increased cardiometabolic syndrome, increased bone density loss, increased arterial stiffness, increase in lipid changes, increases in visceral fat gain. Biggest bone loss is in the two years prior to last period. So your body is changing. It's not just, are you feeling things? Are you not feeling things? And I want you to expand on that. But one more thing is the rate of women saying, quote, I don't feel like myself is about 60% in perimenopause. If my arteries can't dilate as well, that's a big problem. But I can't feel it. But I certainly can feel if I don't feel like myself.
C
So I think it's really important to know that in perimenopause, your body is kind of stepping on the gas in terms of a lot of these biological health risk, it's accelerating. And so a lot of these health risks that we associate with a postmenopausal state, it accelerates. So these cardiovascular disease markers, like you said, it gets increases. And if you look at it on the charts where they studied it, you'll see this, like, straight shot up in terms of these risk factors accelerating. You know, the interesting thing you say about not feeling like myself, that was actually a paper that was published in 2024, is that you can measure the thickness of the arteries. You can measure body fat composition. You can measure bone parameters. You can't measure not feeling like myself, can't measure that. And so I think that's where a lot of women, where we find ourselves in this culture of dismissal, because it's like, oh, you're just, you know, being a woman kind of thing. And that's why we can get brushed off, because these things that we can't quantify. And. But I do think, like you said, 60% of women report not feeling like themselves. And I think that when we have this cultural narrative that menopause is hot flashes and night sweats, and we don't recognize that a lot of it is also these changes that are less measurable, it's really important for us to kind of change this narrative because I think a lot of women miss out on some of these when we see that these health risks accelerate in perimenopause. But yet we take women who are not feeling like themselves, and that's what they're coming into the office saying, we're brushing them off. Instead of recognizing that this is a hallmark of this and this is when we should intervene and try to promote these things and say, oh, my gosh, I'm so glad you brought that up. You're not feeling like yourself. This is why. This is what happens to your hormones and why they make these changes in your brain and your body and your fatigue level and all of these things. And this is why that's happening. And I'm so glad you brought that up because you know what else is happening? All these other things. And this is the time where we can really make sure that we're going to set you out the door on the right foot.
B
It speaks to two things. Number one, the fact that these are brain hormones, these are not sex hormones, these are brain hormones. Not feeling like myself is a brain thing, that's a brain blood flow thing. And then number two, what you were saying in the beginning of the podcast, which is all of these things that we don't want when we're 74. I can't guarantee you're not gonna get em, but if you wanna decrease your risk of getting them, you need to start early. And what's early? Early is within 10 years of menopause. But the new data says perimenopause. It's going to take a long time to get this data. But what we're going to do is we're going to look at the perimenopausal women who've been treated with hormones and we're going to look at their outcomes 10 years down the line compared to the people who didn't get the hormones. And that's where the data is going to be, frankly. I'm not going to sit around holding my breath waiting for that because I will be 58 when that data comes out, right? But I look at like I look at the soccer mom and me at the beginning of this podcast and I'm like, shit, she's my age. She's told she's too young. What am I doing now? This because I'm a thought leader in the space, but I got Estriol on my face. I've got some hormones in my vagina, I've got testosterone, I've got an estrogen patch that I don't wear when I have higher estrogen. Like breasts were tender the other day. I'm like, fuck, take this patch off, right? Like, because I'm in perimenopause and I dose my oral micro progesterone as needed for sleep with my progesterone iud. So I'm like, do you have two women who are the exact same age? One's actually going into her doctor suffering and being denied treatment. The other one's not suffering and is on all the things now that's your n of two study. But it happened this week in my town.
C
But I see it all the time. Everybody asks me, well, do you do any marketing? And I'm like, no, I don't do any marketing because you treat one woman and then she goes and goes to lunch with her girlfriend and then what happens? They're all like, I want that too. I want that too. I want to feel better and whatever that looks like. You know, not every person is going to have. We have pretty generalized. Prescribed like therapies and what's like a general kind of, oh, you're not sleeping this. Okay. Usually we're going to give this. But most women have very differing regimens. And it's. It doesn't even always have to be hormones either. Like, I can see somebody at 39 that's just starting to feel this way or that way. And I'm like, okay, cool, let's just recognize this. Let's just start like tracking and charting and like, let's just get some data behind us and figure out what's what here. And just validating in that things can. They are what they are and what that looks like over time for you.
B
I think the role of checking labs, like to me, I'm like, listen, my lipids started to move. And I would tell you I didn't. I wasn't eating anything different than I was before. Like, I'm that person. Right? But it's like your lipids start to move. I didn't want to wait for my A1C to start to move.
C
A lot of women are coming in and this is what I teach a lot of other clinicians and I teach a mentorship for clinicians. And they'll say, what do I do? While all these women coming to my office wanting their labs checked. And first I go, well, just check the damn labs. Like, it's not the hill to die on people just check them. And then when they come back with ar Teach. Right? That's what we're meant to do. Teach. But at the same time, I'll say there's a lot of other things that you can that you have an opportunity to check here that make a huge difference on somebody's assessment of their overall health. And that's where you make a difference in somebody's health life. You dying on this hormone Chuck and Hill is. I don't know. I think it's a little ridiculous in my opinion. Everybody's like, we have to practice cost effective health care. And I'm like, well, yeah, I could find a lot of other. Yeah, I can find a lot of
B
other things that were totally in the practice of checking labs. Is the clinician patient relationship of. I felt listened to. I felt like they did care. I felt like they looked and it was fine. And that reassured me, right? It's like all of these soft touches that is the point. Even if you don't air quotes, find something that was wrong. It's like you looked into me. I'm like, the fact that we tell people not to screen for vitamin D and then have like crazy data on dementia, depression, osteoporosis, a cancer and all the other shit that low vitamin D cause like, is related with, like, that's insane to me. Me to tell people not to check a vitamin D. The party line is you don't check vitamin D. It's like, don't check vitamin D, but then only supplement when low. And I'm like, well, how do you know it's low if you aren't supposed to check for it in the first place? The whole guideline is messed up.
C
No. 100%, 100%.
B
I know, I, I know people, like want guidelines, but it's like the guidelines that are out today will change. That's why we don't use guidelines from the 1970s, because shit's changed. It moves pretty fast. But, but at the end of the day, there's so many people are like, where do you even start? And I'm like, start with the low hanging fruit. Start with the very symptomatic women who clearly just need vaginal estrogen and like some hot flash control, like the low hanging fruits being untreated. And then, you know, we, we get to podcast for hours about like, do we do preventative health with hormones and blah, blah, blah. It's like, I have the immense privilege of having that conversation, but it's like 80% of women have hot flashes. That's low hanging fruit.
C
No, it is totally low hanging fruit. And one in, one in two women will have an osteoporotic fracture in her life. This is another, like, kicker that I get is that hormone therapy is FDA approved for the prevention of osteoporosis. Perimenopause is, we see an acceleration of bone loss. And so at this, one could argue, you know, we're not doing enough in here, in this world there. So I think that, you know, there's a lot of cleaning up to do and there's a lot of kind of like sorting through the noise of what we should be doing and what we are doing. And I think that, you know, also I try largely not to throw my colleagues under the bus in this realm because I think that this type of care is also very nuanced. It Takes a lot of time and attention and it takes a lot of not being in a space of being burnt out in your profession. Because you had a great post on Instagram the other day that was like, OBGYN's day is really, really, really hard. And I just had a fetal demise and I had this that I had to work up. And I mean, we have largely kind of nobody owns menopause. And if nobody owns menopause, then no one owns perimenopause at all. But if somebody owns it, it's OB GYNs, right? Because we've just thrown it onto them. And frankly we don't have the time nor the mental space in the world of obgyn to deal with this because that's where it's like, how do I have the time to sit here and talk to somebody about not feeling like themselves when I just had these medical complications that take up so much more brain space for me? I mean, we have to kind of see where that hierarchy is going in the. We only have so much capacity as human beings. Right. Like, and so I think that this is going to largely take like a lot of structural changes just in general. And I think it's why it's so important to push the narrative that we need to start focusing our efforts towards perimenopause and understanding and conceptualizing what is happening in perimenopause. Because what's happening is we're waiting for women to get so far off the deep end, so bad and so miserable from a symptom standpoint and then from a health standpoint that that overburdens the healthcare system. How are we going to do it? Kelly?
B
It's very overwhelming. My opinions, like we're going to get telehealth and telemedicine to do one to many to get people out of the clinic, like to do basic, basic low hanging fruit. And then we're going to have concierge care so you can really get educated, understand it, get dialed in once you're steady, good to go, refills up primary care. We got to utilize every tool we can do here because they all are different pieces. And then like as far as the numbers game, we have 28,000 OB GYNs for 80 million women over the age of 40. That's not including the women who like are pregnant under the age of 40. And so I think one of the critiques that I get, I said from OB gynes, you know, not everybody again, of course, but it's like these women are coming in complaining about these issues. And I'm already freaking busy. Listen, you can't stop the dam of an educated populace coming in and deserving what's they pay for health insurance too.
C
And we've got 72 million millennials coming down that dam. I mean, that's totally.
B
I'm thinking of the millennials with the Tamagotchis. And they're like, we started out tracking the Tamagotchis, man. I know.
C
I know exactly.
B
When my estrogen's high, I can take care of a, of a Japanese fluffy computer. I can track my cycles, you know, because we're the older generations. Like, you don't want to track stuff. Like, you don't want to do that. And they're like, oh yeah, I did this in kindergarten. I could track.
C
I think it starts by listening to women, trusting women that they can handle the information and they can handle navigating this phase with a little bit of our kind of medical support. And access, I think access. And I agree with you, I think telehealth is massive into that. And then having a little bit more of an open mind about what is the experience of menopause and is it what we've always thought it was? And, and there's some variability there to kind of what our standards are. I mean, I, I actually largely believe that our numbers criteria as far as, like, when this starts and how long this lasts, I think that will evolve too, as time goes on.
B
Every woman in her 30s is completely dismissed. If women go into menopause at 45, which is within a standard, two standard deviations of 51, that means their perimenopause is mid-30s. Let's wrap. I want to wrap up by going back to what you. You said in the beginning. You're talking about a pregnancy kind of like catapulted you into the perimenopause. I'm convinced. And this is me listening to women, not doing research, listening to women. There's something about a later pregnancy that is the final harrah for the ovary and then the ovaries done. Many, many, many women are like, I had my baby, then I hit menopause. I had my baby, then I hit super symptomatic perimenopause. And so I to was able at the menopause conference last fall, and there was a reproductive endocrinologist there. And I'm like, here's my theory. My theory is the older ovary that gets a pregnancy, does the pregnancy, and then it's freaking done, and there's no papers on that. What do you think? I'm like, I'm this crazy podcaster, urologist, right? But I've been like, you listen to enough people. And she's like, oh, totally. And I was like, I just felt so validated. I was like, okay, the reproductive endocrinologist thinks that's a thing because that's what all the women are telling me. Like, I had my last baby, was at 41, and then perimenopause, hell, from there on out.
C
Well, what I wish is that we had more information on ovarian reserve and we knew just more. We were able to like, track people, you know, the ovarian reserve. I think that this is just one of those areas where we simply. I don't know. I think it's fascinating.
B
Anti mullerian hormone. Like, you know, the question is, like, what lab is going to tell you? I can't quote it, but it's like if once you start skipping a period, that is a sign that you're within two years of menopause, right? And then like, you know, an FSH of a certain level, it's not 35, but it's not two, right? And it's like that FSH is starting to show to go up. So people are, like, starting to learn. And people are like, what are you going to do with that information? It's like, well, I don't know yet. But, like, it's information more and more
C
direct to consumers, right? Like, how many? I've had, like, three different companies reach out to me via social media on their, like, home hormone detection kits. And they're all right now under the guise of, like, fertility, right? Like fertility tracking. But it's. The natural progression is all into perimenopause.
B
And this is big business, too. They're not like, people aren't starting these companies to be nice. Like, there might be a nice intent behind it, but, like, there's big dollars. There's a company. I'm not going to name names. There's a company and all it does is laugh. Labs. Direct to consumer labs. Like crazy labs. Like, are you allergic to coffee? Right? And like, very, very comprehensive labs for thousands of dollars. I'm like, it doesn't even solve the problem. It just gives you access to labs. You still have to find somebody to help you with any. So I had a friend who's like, dude, my husband did these. Paid over a thousand dollars for comprehensive labs on a very pretty website. This company is valued at over a billion dollars. All it does is labor, and he can't Find anybody to treat his low hormones.
C
Yeah. So that's why I tell people, I'm like don't die. That's why I'm like, when I educate clinicians I'm like don't die on the hill of not checking women's hormones because be careful what you wish for because now all of a sudden you're going to get, now we're going to have a whole generation of women that have at home hormone testing. I'm not saying don't do it but I'm just saying now we're going to self fed data and coming in with the binder of hey, I've been tracking my hormone levels and this is my, my 7,000 hormone levels over the last three months. What do you think about this? And so it's coming and I think that, you know, the direct to consumer market is, is filling the void where women have felt gate kept and I think that. And where we have lack of data and lack of awareness.
B
Yeah, I think the clinician's role isn't so much can you get labs or not? That ship is sailing. You can go get your own labs. Now the role is let me help you interpret this them. Because you can't just take one estrogen in perimenopause and one FSH and perimenopause and understand everything. Right. So it's really the expert becomes the navigator and the interpreter, not the gatekeeper.
C
100%. Yeah. Let's navigate these symptoms together. What's going to work best for you and what's going to work best for you at different points in that journey of perimenopause. Because let's not forget this can be a 10 year long process. So it may not be the same treatment that you start with, certainly may not be the one that you end with with and you can switch it up in between. And like you said, you're on an iud. We've got this, we've got that. Like we can mix and match treatment therapies and it needs to be highly tailored to the individual. I mean that's all about being patient centered.
B
And I'm glad you brought that up because I never want anybody to be like Casperson's on all these things. That's what I should do is like I want people to understand your options, understand why you're on what you're on. But this isn't a beauty pageant. This is not a compare and despair. This is not a somebody's got all the answers to the test. Like this is an individual Journey bonus points if you've got somebody like Jackie or me or somebody that you can actually help navigate.
C
Yeah, but I, I know, I think we really just started the conversation, Kelly. It's like this is such a can of worms and it will continue to be at the forefront of the conversation, even with it.
B
Like, you know, I said like perimenopause has been a year long discussion where menopause has been like three years at this point. But it's like it's moving fast. The black and white is already becoming nice and nuanced on like check lab, check labs only for oral birth control. No oral birth control plus blah blah, blah. Like can you have a hot flash and periods at the same time? Yes, you can. You know, like the nuance, the, the black and white of it's already turning into this beautiful mosaic and that's what we want. You know, like everybody, everybody's like, why can't everybody have a consensus? It's like, because if we all agreed on everything all the time, the earth would still be flat, we would have never gone to the moon.
C
Right.
B
The earth would still be around revolving around the sun. Like the conversation is the progress and the fact that it's happening is super exciting.
C
No, a hundred percent I agree with you.
B
Ah, well, thank you so much for giving the talk on, on your Monday night. Let's plug that. So for clinicians, it's not secret. It there's a secret Monday night consortium. It's actually run by Dr. Lisa Larkin. How can people kind of sign up for that if they want more education there?
C
Yeah. So it's called her medicine. And Dr. Lisa Larkin, past president of the Menopause Society, started this platform and it's Monday nights are geared towards clinicians. Anybody, I mean really anybody? It's more clinician facing. And then she also started, she's also starting a patient facing platform this year as part of a nonprofit. But yeah, so she brings on experts every Monday night. And she was so kind to asked me to come speak about perimenopause a couple Mondays ago. And it was a great experience. And yeah, we had almost 300, 250 people on there learning about perimenopause. So I'm all for it.
B
I love it. One of my big question about perimenopause is if we start women on early to make their bodies not bottom out on the estrogen. Right. Are we going to see less autoimmune disease? Are we going to see less thyroid issue? Are we going to see less kind of these things? That start. It's like you don't want to break your hip when you're 82. I get it. But it's a little trippy because it's four decades from now. But like the right now thing is diabetes, autoimmune diseases, depression, the thyroid stuff that starts kicking in, and all of the osteopenia and bone loss that we're not tracking because we're not checking anybody's freaking dexis. So like, that's going to be the interesting pair once we start doing re because it's like, who is besides Geraldine Pryor, who I don't think is doing tons of perimenopause research anymore? Are who are the perimenopause researchers?
C
You know, it's. There's Nanette Santoro out of Colorado who's been doing this forever, but few and far between. But I agree. Yeah, Prior hasn't put out a paper in a while. Prior is a big progesterone person. I don't know, maybe it's you and me, Kelly.
B
No, I'm having too much fun not doing research.
C
I know somebody. Somebody step up to the plate. Let us know who you are, publish
B
your papers and come on my podcast. I am the translator, not not the grant writer. Writer. God help me. Thank you for joining us on the you're Not Broken podcast. We're going to help a lot of people feel very validated, heard, and that perimenopause is something worth treating because shit's going down in your body and it's real. Thanks for coming on.
C
Thank you for having me.
A
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Host: Dr. Kelly Casperson, MD
Guest: Jackie (Women's Health Nurse Practitioner)
Date: June 29, 2025
This episode dives deep into the reality, misconceptions, science, and evolving care strategies surrounding perimenopause. Dr. Kelly Casperson and her guest Jackie unpack not only the definition and symptoms of perimenopause, but also its impact on physical and mental health, the generational shift in awareness, medical system shortcomings, and what the future of treatment should look like. With candid conversation and humor, they emphasize validation, patient-centered care, and the need for nuanced, flexible approaches.
Defining Perimenopause
Perimenopause literally means "the time around menopause," but this is vague and not very actionable. (03:46)
Historically, menopause has been tracked by the absence of periods, overlooking the complexity and breadth of symptoms leading up to it.
Most medical data on perimenopause comes from studies involving women 45+, yet many experience symptoms in their late 30s to early 40s.
"Menopause is having a moment... There is going to be a surge of the discussion shifting to perimenopause." – Jackie (02:23)
Statistical Pitfalls
The median age for perimenopause is cited as 47, but this leaves out many younger women and leads to dismissal of symptoms in women in their 30s and early 40s. (06:01)
Age-based diagnostics miss the broad range of real experiences.
"If I had a dollar for every time a woman told me she was dismissed because somebody told her she was too young..." – Jackie (06:40)
What’s Happening at the Ovarian Level (15:28)
Ovarian follicles age and decline, causing hormonal chaos and communication breakdown between the brain and ovaries.
Hormones (FSH, estrogen, progesterone) fluctuate wildly during perimenopause, making labs and cycles unreliable indicators.
"Perimenopause is very much a moving target in terms of symptoms, but also in terms of what's happening biochemically..." – Jackie (16:30)
Zombie Ovaries & Misconceptions (17:27)
Testosterone in Aging (20:04)
"Estrogen dominance" is a misleading, oversimplified term. Fluctuations, not fixed states, make perimenopause symptoms unpredictable.
Anovulatory cycles cause unstable moods, breast tenderness, sleep issues, and erratic periods.
"Saying somebody's estrogen dominant oversimplifies the issue...these erratically high estrogen levels are what bring on the migraines or the heavy cycles, the erraticness of the cycles, the mood going all over the place." – Jackie (27:28)
Dismissal of Symptoms
Too many women are dismissed as "too young" or told to "wait until periods stop" before their symptoms are taken seriously. (09:24)
Birth control-affected or absent cycles further obscure diagnosis.
"The absolute lack of logic to that statement...the tolerance of women suffering until menopause is insane to me." – Dr. Kelly (09:24, 13:43)
Symptom-Driven Treatment, Not Labs (29:30)
Treating perimenopause must center patient symptoms, not just lab values.
Flexible, tailored hormone therapy—sometimes only at specific cycle times—can be transformative.
"Treating perimenopause with menopausal hormone therapy [is] like grabbing a surfboard and getting out there and getting ready to ride the waves." – Jackie (31:08)
Hormone Therapy vs. Birth Control Pills (29:30)
Two main tools: natural (bio-identical) hormone therapy and traditional birth control pills. Each has a place, depending on symptoms and patient needs.
BC pills can help with PMDD, heavy or controlling periods, and reliable contraception.
"Two rooms, two doors, two camps, blah blah, blah. We have things in our toolbox. We have natural hormone therapy and we have birth control pills. One isn't inherently the only answer we've got." – Dr. Kelly (30:22)
Customizing Treatment & Tracking (35:59)
Cycle tracking empowers targeted, symptom-based intervention.
Millennial and Gen X women, comfortable with tracking and data, will drive a shift toward more precise care.
Early perimenopause: symptoms cluster in specific cycle windows—track and treat accordingly.
Late perimenopause: more consistent, menopause-like management often needed.
"When you can get data and know, okay, this is the time where I'm feeling these symptoms, you can target your treatment to those." – Jackie (34:18)
Risks and Safety (39:52)
Beyond Hot Flashes—Metabolic & Cardiovascular Risk (43:21)
Bone loss, arterial stiffening, lipid changes, and visceral fat gain all accelerate most in the years before menopause, yet few women or clinicians connect these risks to perimenopause.
60% of women report "I don't feel like myself"—a valid, measurable phenomenon.
"You can measure the thickness of the arteries. You can measure body fat composition. You can measure bone parameters. You can't measure not feeling like myself." – Jackie (43:59)
Prevention Window (46:16)
Intervention during perimenopause (e.g., HRT) may reduce future chronic disease, but the long-term studies are still pending.
"The new data says perimenopause. What we're going to do is look at the perimenopausal women who've been treated and compare outcomes. That's where the data is going to be...But I look at the soccer mom and me...One's denied care and one isn't. That's your n of two study." – Dr. Kelly (46:16)
Why Is Care So Hard to Access? (51:25)
Lack of ownership: menopause and perimenopause care falls between specialties, no one "owns" it.
OB/GYNs are overburdened, leading to inadequate time for complex, nuanced hormone care.
Telehealth, mentorship, and better primary care integration might help, especially for basic interventions.
"We have largely kind of nobody owns menopause. And if nobody owns menopause, then no one owns perimenopause at all." – Jackie (51:25)
The Coming Millennial Surge (54:41)
Direct to Consumer Testing: Promise and Problems (57:48)
Women can now buy comprehensive lab panels, but interpretation and follow-up care are lacking—a new challenge for clinicians.
The clinician's new role: navigator and interpreter, not gatekeeper.
"The role isn’t so much can you get labs or not? That ship is sailing. Now the role is let me help you interpret them." – Dr. Kelly (59:34)
Need for Ongoing Research & Individualized Approaches
Research on perimenopause lags far behind menopause. Little is known about ovarian reserve, late pregnancies, and long-term outcomes of early hormone intervention.
Treatment is not one-size-fits-all: therapy plans should shift as symptoms and life situations evolve, without comparison or shame.
"This is not a beauty pageant. This is not a compare and despair...This is an individual journey." – Dr. Kelly (60:27)
Encouraging Open Dialogue
The breadth of lived experience, patient stories, and willingness to change medical dogma is fueling rapid progress in understanding and treating perimenopause.
"The black and white is already becoming nice and nuanced...the conversation is the progress and the fact that it's happening is super exciting." – Dr. Kelly (61:53)
Candid, supportive, and empowering; the hosts blend science, personal story, clinical clarity, and humor to reassure listeners that:
Perimenopause is not an if, but a when for women with ovaries—and comprehensive, compassionate care is both possible and a right. Listeners are encouraged to track symptoms, seek knowledgeable providers, and never settle for dismissal or a one-size-fits-all approach.