You Betcha Radio: Tips For Being a Good Dad Release Date: July 7, 2025
Introduction
In the July 7, 2025 episode of "You Betcha Radio," host You Betcha and his co-hosts Ryan, Tyler, and Finn delve into the multifaceted journey of fatherhood. From the whirlwind experience of hospital births to practical parenting tips, the trio offers a blend of humor and insightful advice aimed at new and expecting dads. This detailed summary encapsulates their key discussions, notable quotes, and valuable takeaways for listeners.
1. The Rapid Pace of Hospital Births
The episode kicks off with Ryan sharing his recent experience as a first-time father, highlighting the swift nature of hospital deliveries.
- Ryan [00:03]: "Just found out I'm a confirmed first time sex haver."
- Ryan [00:05]: "It was a blast. But gonna need some dad tips."
The conversation quickly shifts to the logistics of hospital births versus home births.
- Ryan [00:15]: "When you go to the hospital... you get tagged and leave with the baby. That's how quick you guys are at having kids."
- Tyler [00:49]: "We just set a record, this last one to 30 hours in and out."
- Ryan [00:52]: "Coffee's still warm."
This segment underscores the efficiency of hospital settings, contrasting it with the, often more personalized, experience of home births.
2. Embracing the "Last Moment of Bliss"
A significant portion of the discussion revolves around the crucial moments leading up to labor.
- Ryan [01:29]: "There's going to be a time after the epidural and before labor starts, that is gonna be your last moment of bliss before you have someone that you're responsible for, for life."
- Finn [01:51]: "Quite literally the calm before the storm."
- Ryan [02:02]: "Just remember this is your last moment of bliss because the wife's all numbed up... you get to chill."
The hosts emphasize the importance of savoring this peaceful window before the intense responsibilities of parenthood fully set in.
3. Practical Tips on Baby Clothing: Zipper vs. Button Jammies
Transitioning to post-birth care, the trio discusses the challenges of dressing newborns.
- Finn [02:53]: "I've told every expecting dad... buy the zipper jammies instead of the snap jammies."
- Tyler [03:25]: "You've never seen intense focus until you see a dad trying."
- Finn [03:59]: "Another good move. They make magnet ones now."
The conversation highlights the practicality of zipper and magnetic jammies over traditional button-up ones, especially when dealing with fidgety infants or special medical needs, as Finn mentions his son’s club foot requiring specific attire.
4. Preparing for the Hospital: Packing Essentials Ahead of Time
Tyler shares invaluable advice on organizing for the hospital stay.
- Tyler [04:26]: "Pack your hospital bag a week or two before you actually think you need to pack it."
- Ryan [04:29]: "Put those in your sock drawer and then buy another... you have that extra stash."
The hosts recommend preparing in advance to avoid last-minute stress, ensuring all necessary items are readily accessible.
5. Avoiding Fainting: The Importance of Eating Before Labor
Addressing the physical demands of childbirth, Tyler advises expectant dads to maintain their energy levels.
- Tyler [05:14]: "Make sure you get something in your tummy before you start going..."
- Ryan [05:21]: "No turning back. Yeah."
The emphasis is on having a nutritious meal before labor begins to prevent dizziness or fainting during the process.
6. Limiting Phone Use: Being Present for Your Kids
Concluding with a discussion on modern parenting challenges, the hosts stress the significance of minimizing distractions.
- Ryan [05:45]: "When you're parenting, just try and be on your phone as least amount as possible."
- Finn [06:17]: "Kids are always looking back to see if I'm watching them play."
- Finn [07:14]: "I bought a thing called a brick that locks me out of my phone..."
They advocate for reducing screen time to foster meaningful interactions and create lasting memories with children. By setting boundaries with phone usage, dads can demonstrate the value of presence over digital distractions.
Conclusion
Throughout this episode of "You Betcha Radio," the hosts blend humor with practical advice, offering a comprehensive guide for new and expecting fathers. From navigating the fast-paced environment of hospital births to implementing effective parenting strategies, Ryan, Tyler, and Finn provide listeners with actionable tips to embrace fatherhood confidently. Whether it's preparing for the unexpected, choosing the right baby gear, or prioritizing family time over screens, this episode serves as a valuable resource for dads striving to be their best.
Notable Quotes:
- Ryan [01:49]: "It's like you, now you just... there's this veil of responsibility over everything you do after that moment."
- Finn [07:25]: "Kids look back to see if I'm watching them play, and I'm looking at my phone instead."
- Tyler [07:25]: "If you have no reason to not be on your phone, you're signaling to your kid that the phone is more important than that."
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