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These are the 10 rules of follow up. I wrote these out years ago. I've refined them over the time. And this is, this all came about when I was working with realtor.com and I was helping out their sales floor in order for them to get better because I was also teaching agents how to follow up because I was the number one realtor.com spender in the entire nation. So I had to make sure that it all worked well and that we were following up at a high level. So over the years I've refined these as their 10 rules of follow up. I've got it for you and I'll let you know how to get it at the end of this. I'm Tristan. This is your daily podcast. It's a show, It's a podcast. 10 minutes, maybe last some days. All meant to help you grow along the lines of the same reason why I built lab coat agents 12 years ago. I'm always helping this industry. This is free. It's meant to help you. Just do me a favor, subscribe, share this with somebody you think may need this. Number one on 10 rules of follow up, relationship building and appointment booking. The whole reason for you following up are those two and I put them together because sometimes we forget that the reason we're following up is I'm looking at this longer term. This isn't just I have one transaction here. This is man, if I do this right, I can have their sister, their cousin, their children, the grandparents, their friends, all as referrals. And it's all going to come down to whether or not they feel confidence in me. They feel like I've built a good relationship with them, business relationship, that I can be in their inner circle. And sometimes when you're talking to these people, first time, second time nurturing, sometimes it's about appointment booking. But you have to ask the right questions because not everybody's in the exact same place, right? So for me I put aim to foster a relationship and in every interaction ultimately steering conversations towards securing the appointment if you can while understanding that listen the client's motivation, it's going to be different depending on where they're at. So number one, always build relationships and go for the appointment when you're able to. Number two, capability to disqualify non leads. And I'm going to read this one to you because I wrote this one out early on and I'm like, you know what? Let's be proud of not going forward with somebody who is not a lead because they're fake. Utilize, follow up to identify and focus on high quality leads, sparing time and resources by disqualifying people that are never be able to buy. Why? Because they're crazy. Sometimes they're going to get crazy people and sometimes, and I'm not talking about those people that are just a no right now. I'm talking about people that you will not want to work with. Disqualify them, take them out of your CRM. It is okay. Sometimes we get scared. We're like, should I take this person off? The answer is yes. If they're crazy. You don't want to work with everybody. Now again, don't get this confused with the people that just are a little strange, not ready yet. People you have to nurture. There's a bunch of those. Don't get rid of those because number three is valuing no over yes. I want you to cultivate an environment where no is acceptable, just like yes is. Listen, if somebody tells you no, they're just saying, hey, right now I'm not ready or I'm not looking right now for another two years. Great. Not an issue. I want you to enjoy being on our website. Listen, what can I do to make sure that I'm sending you the right homes so that even if you don't end up buying Joe, you can enjoy being on our website? Oh, you're looking only in Malibu. Great. Right. I want you to understand that most of the people you're going to be talking to are a no. And that's okay. Just know what to do with them. Number four, diverse contact methods. This one's a pet peeve of mine because in some cases back, especially back in the day, we would talk to agents and agents would be like, yeah, I Tristan, I emailed them. I'm like, you just emailed them? Or Tristan, I called them, they didn't pick up and I left the message. And that was it. I'm like, that was it. No, see, I want you to have diverse contact methods. What does that mean? Well, you're going to call them, you're going to call them again, you're going to text them, you're going to email them, you're going to shoot them an email, video, maybe even a video text. You're going to see if they're on social media and try to connect with them in the future that way. There are so many different ways you can connect with them and at different times. So don't just stop and say, well, I called them because that's not sufficient. That's not called follow up. That's called you're doing it all wrong. Number five, identifying real needs. Shift your focus from mere interest to evaluating actual needs, desires and financial capability, aiming for engagements that are likely to convert into transactions. Now, I wrote this out few years ago. It sounds formal, right? But that's what I had there because I was sharing this with realtor.com as well. I'm saying, hey, teach the agents that you talk to to make sure that they're identifying the right people. But it all comes down to asking the right questions. If you're not asking questions just down the rabbit hole that they want to go to, you're never going to get to where you want to go. Ask questions that they want to answer. Hey, Joe, let's listen. Thanks for visiting our website. To search for homes in Malibu. Are you only looking for a house or are you also open to a townhome or Joe, are you only looking in Malibu or are you also open to Pacific Palisades? Oh, just wanted to Malibu. Great. Now what's bringing you to Malibu? Oh, got it. Your children, one of your kids is going to go to Pepperdine University. Nice. Are you, are you looking to buy something for them so that they can live in it so they don't have to live on campus? Is that the idea? Yeah. That's excellent. Do you want to be close to Pepperdine or do you want to be further out? Are you familiar with the area? See, these are the questions that get you to where you want to go. But sometimes we want to go for the direct kill, which is do you have an agent? When do you want to buy? Right. Do you want to see the property right now? No, none of those. Ask questions to identify the real needs. Number six, lead categorization by time and commitment. This was one of the mistakes I made at the beginning that I rectified once I put this into place. I'm like, got it. Let's decide. Let's just go for buyers, for example. Let's decide. An A is ready to buy all cash or pre approved right now to three months. Boom. B ready to buy right now to three months. But I've only qualified them verbally. I know I haven't seen the financial statement or I haven't seen their pre approval or a pre qualification letter. Right. That's A, B, C, three to six months, D, six months plus. That's how you categorize, make your own. But that's a good idea. The point is when you categorize and then you go into your tags or whatever, you have in your CRM, you can quickly determine who you're going to follow up with and have better results. And number seven, permission to cease follow up. Listen, don't be scared to say, hey, this is going to be the last text, or this is going to be the last call. I just wanted to make sure that's okay with you. I don't want to keep spamming you. When I send this out by text, I actually get texts back saying, no, keep spamming me. Or when you reach out to people and they finally pick up, say, hey, it's Tristan. Listen, I just want to make sure that I'm not spamming you. You're okay with me continuing to send emails to you because the last thing I want to do is make you feel like. Like I'm forcing you to take a look at these emails, right? Be okay with doing that. Be okay with losing people. Because sometimes when you try that way, most of the time when you try that way, people are like, oh, he's not trying to sell me. He's not like everybody else, because we're not try that one. Number eight, ending conversations with value. I've been trying to push you to do this way more, especially with Gamma or AI when you build out parts, value sets. If I know somebody's looking like I did earlier and I outlined these questions, they're looking in Malibu for their kid investment property so they don't have to live in some weird place they don't know and the family has enough money to buy them a property. Well, guess what I'm going to do. I'm going to say, hey, well, here, let me send you something on Malibu since you're not familiar with the area. It's wide, it's over 20 miles long, and it's all coastal, practically. So let me just show you the different areas and price points, the different beaches and how far all of those places are from Pepperdine. And it'll give you an idea of where are the things that most students like to do and where they relax and chill out. I'll send that over to you in a PDF, right? That's value. Pay attention to the questions that are being answered so you can know what to send them, especially right after. Because if I'm saying, Joe, I'll send this to you right after we hang up. Let me know what you think and I'll call you back in a few days. Value number nine, prompt responses. Don't wait a day, two days, three days to respond to people. Don't, don't be like, I am when you guys message me on Instagram and say, tristan, can I have episode 743? And I don't respond because I'm slow. Don't do that. Do what I normally do when it's a lead and people come through and they're like, I have a question. Great, how can I answer? The faster you respond to your online leads or inquiries from your database, the better you make them feel. It's all about feeling. And number 10, personalized follow up. Don't follow up the same way with everybody. If you know somebody's looking in one town versus the other. If you know somebody's looking for land and and not a house, if you know somebody's looking for a fixer and not a move in. Ready home. Change up the conversation. Nurture them differently. People want to know that you're paying attention and it's in the little details there. Anyway, These are the 10 rules of follow up. If you need this, I'll message it to you. It's all outlined here. Episode 745, just message me on Instagram and it's me messaging you back. So be patient and I'll send this to you. And then let me know what you think about this because I've had this in place for many years. We go over it, we've tweaked it a little bit, some wording here or there, and we're always trying to develop this and make it better. It's part of what we do at a brilliant tribe for a group coaching. If you think that you want to get to that next level, have somebody hold you accountable in a group setting or just jump into coaching with us, just go to a BrilliantTribe.com or message me, happy to talk to you. And if not, don't worry. Episode 7 45. The 10 Rules of Follow up. If you're watching on Instagram, just comment 745 and I'll send this over to you. Have an awesome day.
Podcast: Your Daily Real Estate Podcast with Tristan Ahumada
Host: Tristan Ahumada
Episode: 745 — “10 Follow-Up Rules That Built Deals for 12+ Years”
Date: December 14, 2025
Theme: Tristan shares his 10 essential rules for real estate follow-up, distilled from over a decade of experience, aiming to help agents, teams, and brokers systematically grow their business by improving their follow-up game.
Main Point (00:45)
“This isn't just I have one transaction here. This is, man, if I do this right, I can have their sister, their cousin, their children, their grandparents, their friends, all as referrals.”
— Tristan Ahumada (01:12)
Memorable tip: Every interaction should move clients closer to either an appointment or a stronger relationship.
Main Point (02:22)
“Be proud of not going forward with somebody who is not a lead... Don't get this confused with the people that just are a little strange, not ready yet. People you have to nurture. There's a bunch of those. Don't get rid of those...”
— Tristan Ahumada (02:25)
Main Point (03:34)
“If somebody tells you no, they're just saying, hey, right now I'm not ready or I'm not looking right now for another two years. Great. Not an issue.”
— Tristan Ahumada (03:41)
Main Point (04:39)
“Don't just stop and say, well, I called them because that's not sufficient. That's not called follow up. That's called you're doing it all wrong.”
— Tristan Ahumada (05:31)
Main Point (06:12)
“Ask questions that they want to answer... These are the questions that get you to where you want to go. But sometimes we want to go for the direct kill...”
— Tristan Ahumada (07:40)
Main Point (08:09)
“When you categorize and then you go into your tags or whatever you have in your CRM, you can quickly determine who you're going to follow up with and have better results.”
— Tristan Ahumada (08:35)
Main Point (09:03)
“When I send this out by text, I actually get texts back saying, no, keep spamming me... Most of the time when you try that way, people are like, oh, he's not trying to sell me. He's not like everybody else.”
— Tristan Ahumada (09:23)
Main Point (10:08)
“That's value. Pay attention to the questions that are being answered so you can know what to send them, especially right after.”
— Tristan Ahumada (10:35)
Main Point (11:06)
“The faster you respond to your online leads or inquiries from your database, the better you make them feel. It's all about feeling.”
— Tristan Ahumada (11:30)
Main Point (11:42)
“People want to know that you're paying attention and it's in the little details there.”
— Tristan Ahumada (11:58)
On building relationships:
“If I do this right, I can have their sister, their cousin, their children, the grandparents, their friends, all as referrals.”
(01:12)
On disqualifying leads:
“You don't want to work with everybody.”
(02:44)
On using multiple contact methods:
“That's not called follow up. That's called you're doing it all wrong.”
(05:31)
On providing value in each interaction:
“Let me just show you the different areas and price points, the different beaches and how far all of those places are from Pepperdine.”
(10:19)
Tristan’s episode delivers a practical, actionable playbook for real estate follow-up. His candid tone, examples, and quick tips are ideal for agents looking to refine their process for both immediate and long-term business benefits. For listeners who want the written “10 Rules of Follow-Up,” Tristan invites direct outreach via Instagram.