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88% of your past clients say they'd hire you again, but 18% actually do. And that gap right there isn't a marketing problem. It's a memory problem. Now, I think that stat is from nar. I just remembered it as we were building these different YouTube sessions for Claude projects. So I'm going to show you how to fix this today with one project that takes you about 90 minutes to set up. Yes, it takes a while, but let me tell you, once you set it up, just like yesterday's and the days before, all you have to do is spend maybe five to 10 minutes when it's ready to go. I'm Tristan Almada. This is your daily real estate. It's a podcast, it's a show. Let's get into this one. So I've been thinking about this for the last few weeks because we run this AI workshop, and I'm looking to see how we can add more value and connect AI more to real estate and. And the real estate agents. Now ask yourself, why do clients love you? Why do they recommend you? Why in some cases do they hug us at the closing table, which is amazing to me, and then five years later, they list with someone else. It's happened to me. I've driven by and I see a for sale sign that's not mine, and I'm like, what? What happened? Right. And it's not because we're bad. Most of the data, in fact, indicates that we're great. They told NAR we were great. Remember, 88% of buyers say they'd use their agent again or at least recommend us, but when they're actually back in the market, well, only 18% come back to us. That's a big gap. And here's where I want you to solve that with a great project. In fact, I didn't think about this project until two weeks ago. And then I started started building it out. And so that's what I want to talk about today. Because the problem is they forgot what it felt like to work with us, and we forgot them, too. Think about your top 50 past clients right now. And if you don't have 50, that's fine. Think about your top five. Not your favorites, the top five or 50 who closed with you. Can you tell me right now the names of their kids, their dog, what their spouse does for a living, the reason they almost backed out of the deal, the house they actually wanted but they didn't get? Probably not, because I can't. And that's the whole game right there. The agents who win clients for life aren't the ones with the coolest CRM or the the best AI prompts. Okay, that's not it. The ones who can text. Hey, how's Lucas doing? He's got to be heading into eighth grade now, right? And actually be right about that. You see, there's this card system that I don't know which one of the Carnegie's or Rockefellers had it. I'm gonna have to Google this and you're gonna have to help me to see who it is. But one of those family members down the line had these. This really great card system where they would add all of these details to everyone they would talk to. And it was a very intricate card system, just an index card. And let's say you're going to talk to Joe. It have all Joe's information, who his wife was, if he was married, where he lived, his work, his kids, what he liked, all of those details. It's like a simple CRM, but there's a layer to this, there's something deeper. And that's why I wanted to share this with you. Because as I started implementing this just two weeks ago, it's already made a difference in how I approach the people that I'm adding to this. So here's what I want you to do, or here's what I want you to build this week. A cloud project for everyone. This may take time, right? But every one of your top 50 past clients. Now it could be every one of your top five, or it can be every one of your top 50. It doesn't matter in between. More. It takes time. All right, so one project per client though, that's the secret. Because as you're building this out, you have unlimited projects in cloud or in ChatGPT. You're going to start uploading everything you know about them. Their names, their kids names, ages, the dog, the anniversary, what they bought from you, what they were searching for, what they hated about their search, the contractor they used for the kitchen renovation or whatever, right? Who died, who's alive, challenges, college, as many details as possible. And if you want to, you can also link or download some of the information on a PDF where you're going to say, hey Claude, hey chatgpt, hey Gemini. Or the way I do it, hey, Perplexity Computer. Here's Joe and his wife. Do me a favor, go grab as much stuff as you can online and then put it into a Google Doc for me, because I'm going to use it as a base for a project, right? You can do that too if they have a lot of followers or information on LinkedIn or anywhere else. Right. But fact is that you've gotta fill this out with as much information as possible. Anything you've ever heard them say. Let me take one step back. You're not building a database, you're building a memory. That was the difference for me when I realized it just two weeks ago. Now, when you need to send an email or check on their birthday or text or thinking of you message, you open that client's project and you say, give me three personal ways to check in on Sarah today. And that right there is the thing that allows you to connect with people a lot more. Now here's what I'm also testing, because it's not set yet, because it's on. I want to see if I should build this out on Claude Cowork, because Claude Cowork is on my computer. And if I do that, that means it only lives on the computer. So I'm contemplating where I should finish building this out. Because the other piece that I want is I want it to update automatically from stuff online. If it's grabbing from their Instagram, from their LinkedIn as things are happening and it's building it into the memory on top of whatever else I'm putting in there, right? That adds another layer. I have not done that yet. I'm just giving you my thoughts. So now think about that when you're asking Claude or ChatGPT, give me three personal ways to check in on Sarah today. Now, Claude doesn't give you that generic speak that everyone uses when you're just following up, just touching base, right? It pulls everything Sarah ever told you or Joe or Joanne, whatever, right? The whole thing. I talked to you about where, oh, I heard Lucas is going into eighth grade or hey, you know what, how was Italy the last time we talked? Or whatever. Or the kitchen renovation way back in the day. Now this is the part most agents are going to miss on this part because think about how deep this can go. You also upload these are past clients. You also upload the sale of their home, their pictures, everything. And now a new listing comes up. And now when you reach out and say, hey, Claude, I go, hey, Sarah sold her home a while ago. I don't even remember when, but here's a new one down the street from her. Can you just give me a one liner and be like, yo. So I can text Sarah and be like, yo, Sarah, a home down the street listed, but the kitchen is different than yours, or just Give me something. And the output, think about the output on that. It feels real because it is real. We can't keep all this information in our heads, so we create a second brain to be able to do this. Right? That's the whole point of this. You're going to remember things while you're writing the prompt and that's fine. And you're going to look at Sarah's project and go, oh yeah, her dad had a stroke last year. Or I should probably ask about that, right? So things like that you want to add, right? And the moment that AI brings up an important thing, you've got to decide how you're going to reach out. Because it's still you. AI is just, it's there to support you and make you look even more amazing. Because we want to do this. We want to know what we need to say to people, but we just don't. Right? And so it all comes down to what the relationships. Any good coach or broker will tell you. Look, it's all about the relationships. Anyway, this is what I want you to start thinking about. Because when you make the client feel amazing, the customer, the friend, whatever they're at at this point, it sounds like you care, because you do. And that's the whole point here. So let me give you the real number that matters here. The Average agent has 200 to 400 past clients in a career. Now this is an average agent who's done well, who's been in the business for 15 years. I'm not talking about the average agent. That's new obviously, right? But if you think about, let's pick the 200 number. Think about that. That's 200 projects that you have to build. Take some time to build into this. But if you don't want to start there, you start with the ones that you're closing now and test it out with that. If you move from 18%, the original NAR number, right. 18% will actually reuse you to even 35% on a 50 person book. Because let's say you have 50 past clients only, that's another eight transactions, eight that you weren't going to get. And if you're in a higher price point of 700,000 with an average commission that you negotiate, right. You're looking at around probably 140,000 in extra GCI a year. That's pretty crazy from one project and you using it. Right? Right. So I need you to start thinking about AI this way. So here's what I want you to do today. Pick 10 names, not 50. And look, if you don't have 10, pick five. But think about this. We could probably do this exact same thing with your core sphere, right? If they haven't used you yet, but they refer business to you, that could work as well. So create one project for each one of these 10 or 5, title it with their last name and start dumping stuff in there. Voice notes is always faster. Screenshots of old text if you want to get into it. Definitely a tax assessor's information, MLS information from what they bought, whatever you got. And if you've got the contract, imagine that even better with the whole mess contract, the inspection, the request for repairs, everything you can think of. Now think about this. When it's time to reach out to your customer base here, the past clients, you connect with them so much deeper and differently than everybody else because you have a second brain that's helping you here. That's the whole project idea. This is how I want you to start using AI. If you need to dive in deeper, please. I'd love to have you into a brilliant tribe. We have AI workshops there and they're only $25 a month, no contract. If you want one on one, we can do that too. More importantly, if you found this useful, I'd love for you to share this with somebody and comment below and subscribe. Thanks so much. Have an awesome day.
Date: May 21, 2026
Host: Tristan Ahumada
In this short but insightful episode, Tristan Ahumada confronts one of real estate’s most expensive, yet overlooked, problems: the agent-client memory gap. He shares how most agents lose repeat and referral business not due to poor service or marketing, but because past clients simply forget about them over time. Tristan introduces a practical, AI-assisted project for agents to build a “second brain”—a dynamic, personalized memory bank for each client—to close the memory gap, deepen client relationships, and potentially add over $140,000 a year in gross commission income (GCI).
Building AI Memory Files:
Practical Steps:
On why clients forget:
“They forgot what it felt like to work with us. And we forgot them, too.” (02:12)
On what separates the best agents:
“The agents who win clients for life aren’t the ones with the coolest CRM or the best AI prompts. The ones who can text, ‘Hey, how’s Lucas doing? He’s got to be heading into eighth grade now, right?’ and actually be right about that.” (02:58)
On building memory, not a database:
“You’re not building a database, you’re building a memory.” (08:13)
On the business potential:
“If you move from 18%... to even 35% on a 50 person book... you’re looking at around probably $140,000 in extra GCI a year. That’s pretty crazy from one project.” (17:05)
Closing advice:
“When it’s time to reach out to your customer base... you connect with them so much deeper and differently than everybody else because you have a second brain that’s helping you here. That’s the whole project idea.” (21:43)
Pick your top 5-10 clients and create an AI-powered memory project for each
Expand gradually—include all past clients, top referrers, and core sphere as time allows.
Tristan Ahumada pulls back the curtain on the real reason agents lose business: not poor service or marketing, but simple forgetfulness on both sides. The “second brain” memory project, powered by AI and rooted in old-school relationship principles, stands out as a practical solution any agent can implement. By shifting your mindset from mere database management to active memory-building, you can reliably win more repeat business, deepen your client relationships, and dramatically boost your annual income—all with a relatively small investment of time and technology.