Podcast
A Girls Perspective Podcast
Hosted by Sweetheart Creations LLC · EN
For the girls who give everything and still end up on the outside. You don't need to be fixed. You need to feel seen. We're your friends now — pull up.
Hosted by BFFs Jocelyn & Jade. Every week we sit down, turn the mics on, and have the conversation we were going to have anyway. Relationships, pop culture, life — whatever's on our minds. No script. No filter. Just real talk between real friends.
New episodes every Wednesday.
If you want a quick hit before diving into a full episode, check out our companion micro-podcast, AGP Micro Dosed. Weekly 90-second conversations for the girl who's short on time but still wants the vibe.
Brought to you by Sweetheart Creations LLC.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
72episodes
Episodes
Newest firstAll episodes
#59 - Some Things Ruin Attraction Forever
Jan 1401:14:23Tap to summarizeThis week, we’re unpacking a breakup story that raises an uncomfortable question: are there moments you just can’t come back from in a relationship?We react to a Reddit post that sparked debate about attraction, embarrassment, and honesty, then get into why people claim they want relationships but struggle with accountability, communication, and emotional discomfort.If you’ve ever wondered whether people actually want connection or just consistent attention or felt confused by how quickly someone’s feelings can change, this episode puts words to that frustration. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →#58 – The Pettiest Things Done After a Breakup
Jan 701:07:48Tap to summarizeBreakups don’t always end cleanly. Sometimes they end with hurt feelings, crossed lines, and decisions people swear they don’t regret.In this episode, Jocelyn and Jade react to stories about the pettiest things people have done after a breakup and talk through why emotions make people move the way they do. They also touch on coworker trust, oversharing at work, and what happens when someone you confided in repeats your business.If you’ve ever wondered whether something went too far after a breakup, or if you should trust that coworker who feels a little too comfortable, this episode will hit.New episodes every Wednesday.Follow the podcast wherever you listen. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →Money vs Personality: What REALLY Makes Someone Valuable? | Ep 44
Oct 101:55:22Tap to summarizeEpisode 44 of A Girls Perspective (AGP) takes on one of the loudest debates in dating and adulting today: what makes someone “high value”? Jocelyn and Jade, joined by Brittany from Makeup Glam with B, unpack the double standards that shape how men and women are judged in relationships, friendships, and life.The conversation starts playful — makeup, lashes, birthday gifts, and why Jocelyn hates the pressure of receiving presents. But it quickly shifts into deeper territory: why men are told their value depends on income and status, while women are judged by looks, age, and how “aesthetically pleasing” they are. The crew reacts to viral high value man vs high value woman clips, calling out how men feel they can’t define their worth without money, while women are constantly reduced to their appearance.They go even further, tackling stereotypes about women with “masculine energy” and whether submission is supposed to be one-sided. Jocelyn and Jade argue that real partnership means both people submit and lead at different times. Brittany adds that independence can make dating harder, because so many men tie their ego and masculinity to being needed financially.The group also dives into aging and worth, challenging the idea that women lose value over time while men gain it. They highlight the wisdom, independence, and confidence women build in their 30s and 40s — even if society refuses to see it as valuable. Mixed in are laughs about mediocre nails, men hiding baldness under hats, and the contradictions of wanting women with “low body counts” who are also magically experienced.Beyond dating, the episode circles back to bigger adulthood struggles: friendships that only show up for fun but not real support, gift-giving that feels more like obligation, and the pressure to glam yourself up just to be respected. Whether you’re dealing with friendship struggles, navigating single life after 30, or rethinking what really makes a partner valuable, this conversation feels like wine night with friends who aren’t afraid to drop hot takes.Chapters:00:00 Introduction: Relationship Dynamics and Gift Giving01:16 Call to Action: Subscribe and Join the Community03:25 Special Guest: Makeup Glam with Brittany08:44 Discussion: High Value Men and Women14:32 Personal Experiences and Social Expectations16:39 The Psychology of Gender Roles25:48 Negotiation and Career Advancement33:24 Overstimulation and Social Interactions35:47 Reacting to Controversial Opinions36:50 Debating Preferences and Double Standards38:38 The Double Standard of Body Counts40:57 The Reality of Dating Expectations43:18 The Importance of Self-Reflection in Relationships47:20 Navigating Relationship Dynamics50:47 The Impact of Aging on Relationship Value53:04 The Role of Aesthetics and Success in Relationships01:14:37 The Thrill of Cheating and Relationship Games01:17:37 Exploring Self-Esteem and Gender Differences01:18:08 Parenting and Building Confidence in Children01:20:38 Personal Experiences with Makeup and Self-Image01:24:38 The Role of Makeup in Society01:39:50 Friendships and Relationship Dynamics01:53:14 Closing Thoughts and FarewellHigh value clipsClip 1: Myron: https://youtube.com/shorts/THf71Cg_mgE?si=n7uEsRcCckJnsfWSClip 2: Kevin Samuels: https://youtube.com/shorts/vmuszbZtUDI?si=lCif0RMlbFiqipSmClip 3: What is a high value man: https://youtube.com/shorts/CkWBGz9qYYc?si=I2LcilpG-gCRI75tClip 4: High Value Woman: https://youtube.com/shorts/Pj_K2U2Emsg?si=P_-osd-WB6NdO79QClip 5: https://youtube.com/shorts/WAXDm6rc7kQ?si=64RytOt0c3doZXEwClip 6: https://youtube.com/shorts/zz-bO6KZ3R8?si=3Qc8oEhK_4dUnmCx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →Bumble Horror Stories You Won’t Believe | Ep 43
Sep 2401:39:39Tap to summarizeThis episode has everything—friendship drama, marriage struggles, dating app fails, and the messy reality of adulthood. We start with the big question: can you fight with a friend and still stay friends, or is that relationship officially over? Jade says once the hands fly the friendship is done, while Jocelyn admits she could throw down and laugh about it later. That opens up a bigger conversation on toxic friends, losing friendships as an adult, and why so many people avoid the tough talks that could save years of wasted time.From there, we dive into a viral Reddit thread about marriage and body autonomy. What do you do when a controlling spouse thinks they should decide if you get on birth control, cut your hair, or get a tattoo? We break down how avoiding these conversations before marriage leads to resentment, and why setting boundaries matters if you want a healthy partnership. It’s blunt, it’s real, and it’s the kind of talk most couples are too scared to have.Then come the laughs with Jocelyn’s Bumble horror stories—the ultimate collection of online dating fails. There’s the guy who complimented her and immediately got unmatched, the date who showed up in sweatpants and spent the whole time ranting about his ex-wife, the man who had no car but still asked for a ride home, and the 45-year-old with multiple roommates who somehow thought he was a catch. Each story proves how exhausting dating apps can be, but also why noticing red flags early saves you from even bigger disasters.Along the way, we talk about brutal honesty versus people-pleasing, how to walk away when someone just isn’t for you, and why adulting feels like a mix of hilarious chaos and constant lessons. Whether it’s friendship problems, toxic relationships, or the weirdest Bumble dates you’ve ever heard, this episode is packed with hot takes, messy stories, and the kind of real talk that makes you feel less alone in the struggle.Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation.Chapters:00:00 Can Friends Fight and Stay Friends?00:42 Weekly Reddit: Am I the Asshole?01:24 Birth Control Debate03:36 Communication in Relationships06:44 Dating and Deal Breakers14:49 Online Dating Stories37:25 The Anthony Mix-Up37:51 Nicknames and Their Boundaries39:36 Confusing Nicknames42:43 Childhood TV Shows and Characters47:20 TikTok Shop Addiction49:06 Playing 'Put a Finger Down'59:58 Awkward Moments and Confessions01:04:17 Workplace Hookups and Hygiene Horrors01:06:25 Embarrassing Moments and Workplace Mishaps01:10:42 Fights and Friendships01:26:46 Provoking and Confrontations01:37:44 Closing Remarks and Announcements Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →The Parenting Rules That Were Actually INSANE | Ep 42
Sep 1701:47:09Tap to summarizeSo many of us grew up with parents who made rules that sound ridiculous now. No car lights in the backseat because it was “illegal.” No sleeping with a fan because it could make you sick. No wearing red nail polish because it was “too grown.” Some of us even got guilted into cooking for the entire family just for making ourselves a snack. These strange rules weren’t about keeping us safe—they were about control, image, and fear. And now as adults, we’re still trying to set boundaries, let go of guilt, and unlearn the habits those rules left behind.That question of trust and control shows up again when we break down Netflix’s The Truth About Jussie Smollett. The documentary digs into contradictions in the brothers’ testimony, missing video footage, and the Chicago Police Department’s long history of corruption. It also shows how quickly the media shaped public opinion before the facts were clear. We talk about what the documentary reveals, what still doesn’t add up, and the bigger problem of how victims often lose credibility while institutions protect their own image.Then we unpack Netflix’s Unknown Number: The High School Catfish, the shocking story of a Michigan teenager who was harassed for almost two years with anonymous texts—only to find out her own mother was behind it. The betrayal, the manipulation, and the light consequences compared to the long-term damage raise hard questions: how do you rebuild trust after something like that? And what does it say about family dynamics when the person you’re supposed to rely on most is the one causing the harm?On top of all that, adulting still finds new ways to frustrate us. From “luxury” hotels with no spas, to restaurants cutting corners on desserts, to favorite snacks like Doritos 3D, Bugles flavors, and cheesecake bites disappearing off shelves—it feels like adulthood is one long list of letdowns. And sometimes, the only relief is having lighthearted debates with your friends, like whether chocolate counts as candy or just a sweet.This episode is about more than just weird parenting rules. It’s about boundaries, betrayal, broken trust, adulting struggles, nostalgia, and the kind of conversations that remind you you’re not alone in the chaos of figuring it all out.Chapter:00:00 Mysterious Text Messages00:55 Weirdest Rules from Parents02:00 Car Conversations and Tinted Windows03:35 Laughing and Living Life04:24 More Bizarre Parental Rules24:29 Cooking for the Whole Family29:25 Jussie Smollett Documentary Discussion32:15 Questioning the Lawyer's Role32:39 Doubts About the Confession33:06 The Interrogation and Confession33:29 The Fame and Money Motive33:39 Physical Appearance and Perception34:44 Skepticism About the Incident35:18 Police Department's Shady History40:14 The Noose and the Sandwich42:42 The Documentary's Impact53:17 Netflix's New Documentary01:10:47 The Case of the Unfit Mother01:11:43 The FBI's Involvement01:13:50 The Daughter's Realization01:15:04 Netflix and K-Dramas01:15:25 The Hilarious Mr. Queen01:16:12 Diving into BL Dramas01:22:28 The Allure of BL Love Stories01:43:52 The Chocolate Debate01:44:56 Wrapping Up and Final ThoughtsTwo lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation.#podcast #blackgirlpodcast #conversation #inmyopinion #imo Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →The Most Disturbing Thing You Found Out About A Friend | Ep 41
Sep 1001:28:36Tap to summarizeFriendship problems come in all shapes—gross habits, hidden secrets, and boundaries you never thought you’d have to set.What do you do when you find out something about a friend that changes the whole friendship? Maybe it’s a nasty habit you can’t ignore. Maybe it’s a secret that makes you see them completely different. Or maybe it’s one of those choices—like cheating, lying, or chasing clout—that makes you wonder if they were ever really who you thought they were.That’s where we started, but like most real conversations, it spiraled. From gross hygiene confessions and coworkers with disturbing pasts to Twitter-famous friends who lost it all, we talk about the moments that make you question who’s really in your circle. But we also get into the random stuff that makes adulthood what it is:Why Jade won’t stay at a church if the choir can’t sing (and Jocelyn’s obsession with a viral Korean church video)How John Legend’s Ordinary People went from “annoying” to a life anthem in high schoolGirl Scout cookie sales and the truth that moms were the ones actually hustling for usArby’s “4 for $10” roast beef deal—is it marketing, or a cry for help?The TV character exits that hurt more than real breakups (Opie, we’re still not over you)It’s messy, it’s uncomfortable, and it’s hilarious. At its core, it’s about figuring out how to deal when people—and life—show you sides you can’t unsee. Do you laugh it off, or is it time to set a boundary? And how do you protect your peace while still making room to laugh at the chaos?👉 The Most Disturbing Thing You Found Out About A Friend | Ep 41https://shows.acast.com/a-girls-perspective-podcastThe conversation spirals hilariously (and sometimes grossly) into bigger topics:Why some people seem addicted to cheating as a “kink.”Their love–hate relationship with true crime shows and how they mess with your mental health.A nostalgic detour into 90s/2000s music—singing along to Escape’s “My Little Secret,” reminiscing about Mariah Carey, John Legend, and gospel tracks that always hit the soul.Childhood fundraising chaos (Girl Scout cookies, trash bags, taffy apples, and how moms ended up doing all the work).Food debates like butter on Pop-Tarts, Long John Silver’s fish, Arby’s 4-for-10 deals, and brownies that are “too good to share.”Parenting moments, like Jade’s son calling her his “maid” while she’s taking care of him sick.TV nostalgia—Sons of Anarchy heartbreak, The Nanny, New Adventures of Old Christine, rom-coms, and Jennifer Aniston’s underrated comedy chops.It ends with a reminder to join their new Discord community, “The After Party”, where listeners can hang out and keep the conversation going, https://discord.gg/4MJu7paRTimeline:00:00 Shocking Discoveries About Friends01:11 Hand Washing Horror Stories02:59 Tipping Etiquette and Pet Peeves04:05 Disturbing Confessions from the Internet04:34 Creepy True Crime Conversations18:46 Gospel Music and Emotional Songs25:55 Childhood Snacks and Fundraisers35:09 Baking Memories and Recipes39:19 Funny Kid Stories and TV Shows43:18 Streaming Woes and Amazon Purchases43:59 Nostalgic TV Shows and Movies46:01 Sons of Anarchy and Memorable TV Deaths48:45 Actors and Their Iconic Roles56:15 Food Talk: Butter on Pop-Tarts and Fast Food Deals01:08:04 Home Renovations and DIY Projects01:24:08 Reflections on Childhood and Popularity01:26:37 Wrapping Up and Community Engagement Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →Would You DUMP A Friend For Cheating On Their Spouse? | Ep 40
Sep 301:25:03Tap to summarizeIn this episode, Jocelyn and Jade dive into a messy moral dilemma: should you cut off a friend if you find out they’re cheating on their spouse? The conversation sparks from a Reddit thread, where many people admitted to ending friendships over cheating. The hosts explore why people see cheating as a bigger deal than other wrongdoings—like stealing or lying—even when those might impact friends directly.They debate whether cheating automatically makes someone untrustworthy in all areas of life, or if it’s more complicated depending on context. Both admit they wouldn’t instantly drop a friend but would first want a conversation: why did it happen, what’s going on, and is the friend trying to drag them into the situation? They draw a hard line at being asked to cover up lies—once they’re involved, they’re out.The discussion widens into gray areas: Is cheating different if it’s a boyfriend versus a husband? Would you tell the spouse? Does the situation change if the relationship was abusive? And what about being friends with someone who cheats with other people’s partners? The hosts also share their own experiences—admitting they’ve been in messy situations before and learned the hard way about karma.As always, the episode balances humor and honesty. Listeners get Jade and Jocelyn’s trademark unfiltered takes, from joking about “lie to me too so I can stay out of it” to reminiscing about MySpace and BlackPlanet, to laughing over wild neighborhood drama like witnessing car vandalism. The core message: cheating is wrong, but whether it’s friendship-ending isn’t always black and white—it depends on the situation, the history of the friendship, and whether your friend tries to drag you into their mess.Timeline:00:00 Introduction and Initial Thoughts on Cheating00:56 Weekly Reddit Question of the Week02:55 Moral Dilemmas and Cheating04:05 Podcast Discussion on Deception07:39 Friendship and Cheating: A Moral Debate13:45 Personal Reflections and Hypotheticals17:42 Cheating in Relationships: A Broader Perspective20:24 The Complexity of Ending Friendships39:47 Marriage, Rings, and Personal Preferences44:01 Subscription Annoyances and Nostalgia44:22 AOL and Old Email Addresses45:09 Black Planet and MySpace Memories48:27 The Evolution of Social Media59:48 Witnessing a Crime01:08:14 Personal Updates and Challenges01:23:19 Closing Remarks and Call to Action Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →5 Types of People We Are NOT Willing to Befriend ANYMORE | Ep 39
Aug 2701:20:08Tap to summarizeThis episode dives deep into the messy realities of adult friendships—why they fail, how boundaries shift as life changes, and the kinds of people Jocelyn and Jade are done entertaining in their circles.The conversation kicks off with a side story about boundaries and communication—how marriage, kids, and busy schedules force people to be stricter with their time, and how flakiness or poor communication can strain even solid friendships. From there, Jocelyn introduces her list of five types of friends to cut off:The Drama Dumper – The friend who constantly unloads their same self-inflicted chaos and never changes anything. At some point, venting turns into emotional labor nobody signed up for.The Diva – Everything is about them, even when it’s your moment. They crave attention—good or bad—and would absolutely wear white to your wedding just to steal the spotlight.The Non-Accountable Friend – They disrespect people’s time, flake on plans, and never admit when they’re wrong. These are the people who leave you waiting, then get mad when you stop tolerating it.The Too Attached/Too Detached Friend – Both extremes are unhealthy. The overly attached friend who shows up uninvited (even at your partner’s house!) is suffocating, while the detached one disappears for months and only reappears for the party life, offering no real depth.The Two-Faced Friend – The one who talks badly about you to other friends in the group. If they gossip about someone else to you, you know they’re doing the same behind your back.They also throw in a bonus category:The Favor Friend (aka The Scrub) – Always asking for money, rides, clothes, babysitting, or favors but never reciprocating, even when it’s something small and free.Throughout the episode, Jocelyn and Jade mix in personal stories, humor, and some Reddit-inspired commentary about how adults struggle with friendships. A big theme is how people avoid difficult conversations with friends, even though they’ll do it in romantic relationships or with family. The hosts argue that friendships are relationships too, and they deserve honesty, accountability, and investment.The episode closes with a call for listeners to reflect on their own circles: stop calling acquaintances “friends,” be honest about what you’re willing to tolerate, and don’t be afraid to let go of people who don’t add value to your life.Timeline:00:00 Unexpected Gossip01:00 Marriage and Boundaries03:19 Communication in Friendships11:35 Top Five Friends to Let Go12:27 The Drama Friend13:43 The Diva Friend15:19 Owning Up to Mistakes18:50 Too Attached or Too Detached35:08 The Favor Seeker39:55 High Standards in Friendships40:57 Political Differences in Friendships43:39 Weekly Reddit: Ending Friendships44:58 Moral and Ethical Differences57:19 The Importance of Communication01:18:13 Final Thoughts and Farewell Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →Why My Partner Won't Propose After 5 Years | Ep 38
Aug 2001:21:29Tap to summarizeWhat happens when you’re five years into a relationship, living together, in love… but he still won’t propose? 👀 In this week’s episode, we dive into a viral Reddit story where a woman finds out the real reason her partner won’t put a ring on it: kids. He wants them, she doesn’t. And suddenly, the “forever” relationship doesn’t feel so secure.We get into it ALL — mismatched expectations, why “they’ll change their mind” is the worst relationship gamble, and how resentment creeps in when one partner sacrifices their dreams for the other. Plus, you know us… we spiral into everything from pregnancy fears and parenting fails to cruise ship nightmares, waterboarding hair wash flashbacks, and dating stories featuring “Fat #1” and “Fat #2.” 😂This is one of those episodes where the conversation is both deep and hilarious — a reminder that no matter how much love there is, dealbreakers matter.🗣 Two lives. Two perspectives. One unfiltered conversation. 👉 Full episodes every Wednesday + highlights all week long! ✨ Join the Vibe Tribe & subscribe for more real talk on relationships, adulthood, and everything in between.Timeline:00:00 Understanding Dating Preferences00:42 Weekly Reddit Story: Why My Partner Hasn't Proposed02:22 The Dilemma of Having Kids04:52 Advice and Opinions on Relationship Decisions07:06 Personal Experiences and Reflections on Parenting21:05 Cruises, Elevators, and Other Anxieties35:20 Dating Preferences and Racial Bias42:16 Unexpected Reunion with Fat Number Two42:44 The Annual Birthday Call44:11 Memories of a Night with Jose Cuervo45:21 Reflections on Past Relationships48:07 Graduation Plans and Reflections52:57 New Job Challenges and Adjustments54:10 Fitness Challenges and Goals59:59 Learning Korean and Other Languages01:12:19 Exploring Korean Convenience Stores01:20:27 Wrapping Up and Final Thoughts#Podcast #Relationships #Marriage #Millennials #ModernWomen #ModernMen #DatingAfter30 #Parenting #SingleLife #NavigatingAdulthood #WorkLifeBalance #UnfilteredConversation #VibeTribe Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →How Did You Find Out They Were Cheating? | Ep 37
Aug 13, 202501:19:01Tap to summarizeBack door escapes. LinkedIn DMs. A 4-year-old spilling the tea. We’re diving into the wildest ways people discover they’re being cheated on—plus our own messy confessions, listener stories, and unfiltered takes on girl code, “cheating down,” and why some people forgive what they shouldn’t.We also get real about the rise of “whites only” communities in 2025, the history they’re ignoring, and why it’s more dangerous than they think. It’s chaos, honesty, and best-friend energy all in one.From sneaky back door exits to the other woman sliding into your LinkedIn messages (yes, LinkedIn), Episode 37 is all about the wild, ridiculous, and sometimes heartbreaking ways people find out they’re being cheated on. Jocelyn, Jade, and returning guest Antonio aren’t holding back—they’re confessing their own messy pasts, spilling listener-submitted cheating stories, and debating the messy truths about girl code, “cheating down,” and whether good sex is ever worth putting up with bad behavior.We’re talking the shocking truck-in-the-backyard discovery, a husband busting his wife via Pinterest, a 4-year-old accidentally outing an affair, and the chaos that happens when friend groups blur the lines. You’ll hear the petty ways people get caught, the delusional ways we justify staying, and the brutally honest conversations about why we sometimes forgive what we shouldn’t.But it’s not all relationship drama—this week we also take a detour into some real talk about the rise of “whites only” communities in 2025. We unpack the history behind segregation, why the comparison to “Black-only” spaces doesn’t hold up, and how fear, not superiority, is still fueling racism today. It’s blunt, it’s unfiltered, and it’s exactly the kind of conversation you’d have with your most honest friends over wine.Whether you’re here for the tea, the life lessons, or the laugh-out-loud commentary, Episode 37 delivers it all—chaos, honesty, and a little bit of therapy you didn’t know you needed.Timeline:00:00 Introduction: Why People Cheat01:06 Question of the Week: Discovering Infidelity01:50 Cheating Stories: Real-Life Experiences05:42 Discussion: Reactions and Reflections on Cheating07:21 Personal Anecdotes: Cheating and Relationships18:12 Karaoke Memories and Fun Times21:09 Honesty in Relationships: The Good and the Bad33:24 Childhood Memories: Indirectly Snitching36:19 Discussing Segregated Communities40:07 Economic Viability of Segregated Towns40:41 Racism in 2025: A Discussion44:24 Personal Experiences with Racism01:02:02 Cheating Stories and Relationship Dynamics01:17:24 Concluding Thoughts and Farewells Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Transcribe →