Podcast Summary: Add to Cart with Kulap Vilaysack & SuChin Pak – Episode: "Time is a Domme"

Release Date: March 18, 2025

1. Resetting the Year: Mid-March as a New Beginning

The episode kicks off with hosts Kulap Vilaysack and SuChin Pak discussing their unique approach to marking the passage of time. Unlike the traditional New Year reset in January, SuChin proposes March as a more meaningful time to "reset," especially after experiencing what she describes as losses in the preceding months.

Sujin Park [02:06]: "What that means to me is January is a loss. Every. That we can agree on."

Kulap agrees with the sentiment, setting the stage for a conversation about time and its influence on their lives.

2. Time: The Ultimate Dominatrix

The central theme revolves around the concept of time as an uncontrollable force that dominates our lives. SuChin elaborates on feeling powerless against time's relentless march, comparing it to an oppressive figure.

Beth [03:02]: "Time be fucking with me."

Sujin Park [03:40]: "She's the ultimate Judge Judy. Yes. The ultimate Dom. Whips and chains. That truly is."

The hosts delve into the existential struggle of managing time, acknowledging its role in shaping their daily experiences and emotions.

3. Game Changer: The Tymo Tymo Curling Iron

Transitioning to practical life hacks, SuChin introduces a personal game changer for her persistent struggle with hairstyling. Frustrated by numerous failed attempts with various curling irons, she highlights the Tymo Tymo, a cordless, user-friendly curling iron designed to simplify the styling process.

Sujin Park [15:56]: "There's a curling iron that curls your hair for you, meaning that you don't have to move."

Kulap and Beth engage in a lighthearted discussion about the device's features, such as its rotating barrel and protective cover, emphasizing its suitability for individuals with weak wrists or those non-adept at hair styling.

Beth [16:24]: "No wire."

The Tymo Tymo becomes a focal point for discussing how technological innovations can serve as personal empowerment tools, transforming mundane tasks into manageable routines.

4. Game Changer: Five Calls App for Activism

Shifting gears to activism, SuChin presents the Five Calls app, a tool designed to streamline political engagement for those who feel overwhelmed by traditional activism methods. She explains how the app simplifies the process of contacting representatives on various issues, making it accessible for introverts, busy individuals, or anyone seeking a straightforward way to contribute.

Sujin Park [37:25]: "It's the Five Calls app. And this is perfect activism for introverts. This is perfect activism for people who are busy."

The hosts discuss the app's effectiveness, noting that phone calls have a significant impact on legislative priorities when executed en masse. SuChin shares her strategy of leaving voicemails to mitigate anxiety associated with live conversations, advocating for this method as a "cheat code" for effective activism.

Sujin Park [42:09]: "It's a phone call. It doesn't even feel like I'm doing anything."

This segment underscores the importance of accessible activism tools in empowering individuals to participate in political processes without feeling overwhelmed.

5. Personal Anecdotes: The Mystery of the Torn Bedsheet

Injecting humor and personal storytelling, SuChin recounts discovering a large tear in her bedsheet, initially attributing it to a hypothetical scenario reminiscent of a movie plot.

Sujin Park [47:38]: "I went to go change the sheets this morning. It's laundry day for me. And I was like, holy, what the hell is that?"

Upon investigating, SuChin identifies her husband Mike's dry and cracked feet as the culprits behind the damage, leading to a humorous exchange about household responsibilities and blind spots.

Beth [52:26]: "To me, that looks. Because I'm just... how many inches is that? That looks like over a foot."

Sujin Park [53:10]: "I did an investigative journalism."

This lighthearted segment highlights the relatable challenges of domestic life, blending SuChin's journalistic instincts with everyday family dynamics.

6. Parenting and Upcoming Getaway: Family Snow Play Trip

The hosts segue into discussing their parenting styles and an upcoming family trip to Wrightwood's Mountain High Resort for snow play with their daughter, Emmy. SuChin contrasts their family's preference for non-ski activities with Beth's apres-ski enthusiasm, emphasizing the importance of flexibility and planning in parenting.

Beth [25:14]: "We're going to the Yeti snow play. So that's just their area where you can, you can sled, you can tube, you can just play in the snow which is."

Sujin admires Beth's methodical approach to parenting, particularly her strategy for preparing Emmy for outings, thereby fostering adaptability and resilience in their child.

Sujin Park [29:11]: "I'm amazed that you are approaching it so methodically."

The conversation underscores the diverse approaches to parenting and the significance of tailored strategies in nurturing a child's development.

7. Closing Remarks: Wrapping Up and Looking Ahead

As the episode draws to a close, SuChin teases a personal revelation involving a mysterious photo of a torn bedsheet, adding an element of intrigue and anticipation for future episodes.

Sujin Park [47:14]: "I discovered this morning. And I'm gonna text you a photo."

Kulap and Beth engage in playful banter, reflecting the podcast's blend of humor, personal anecdotes, and insightful discussions.

The hosts wrap up by highlighting the importance of actionable journalism and personal empowerment, encouraging listeners to implement the discussed game changers in their own lives.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Sujin Park [03:04]: "She's the ultimate Judge Judy. Yes. The ultimate Dom. Whips and chains."
• Beth [16:24]: "No wire."
• Sujin Park [15:56]: "There's a curling iron that curls your hair for you, meaning that you don't have to move."
• Sujin Park [37:25]: "It's the Five Calls app. And this is perfect activism for introverts. This is perfect activism for people who are busy."
• Sujin Park [47:14]: "I discovered this morning. And I'm gonna text you a photo."

Conclusion

"Time is a Domme" offers a compelling blend of personal storytelling, practical life hacks, and thoughtful discussions on managing time and personal agency. Kulap Vilaysack and SuChin Pak engage listeners with their candid conversations, providing both entertainment and valuable insights. Whether tackling the metaphorical dominance of time or introducing tools like the Tymo Tymo curling iron and the Five Calls app, this episode empowers listeners to navigate their lives with intention and creativity.