Why is comparison so hard to escape?

In this reflection on Psalm 37, John Ortberg explores the hidden power of envy and why it quietly robs us of joy, gratitude, and peace.

Drawing on insights from Rebecca Konyndyk DeYoung, John explains the difference between jealousy and envy, why comparison always leaves us feeling deficient, and how God's care frees us from measuring our lives against everyone else's.

This episode explores:
- Psalm 37 and overcoming envy
- Why comparison is so destructive
- The difference between jealousy and envy
- Biblical stories of envy
- Social media and the comparison trap
- Living each day under God's loving care

Scriptures:
- Psalm 37
- Genesis 4
- Genesis 25–30
- Genesis 37
- Matthew 5:5

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📚 Today's Resources:
Rebecca Konyndyk De Young, Glittering Vices: A New Look at the Seven Deadly Sins and Their Remedies
Victor Hugo, “L’Avarice et L’Envie,” Le Conservateur littéraire (1819)
Pope St. Gregory the Great, Moralia in Job (~580 CE)
Francis Bacon, “Of Envy” (1625)
Kurt Vonnegut, Jr., “Harrison Bergeon,” The Magazine of Fantasy and Science Fiction

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00:00 Comparison Is Stealing Your Joy
00:36 Psalm 37 Begins
01:09 The External Solution to Envy
01:32 Kurt Vonnegut's Harrison Bergeron
02:49 Why Equality Doesn't Cure Envy
03:18 Living in God's Kingdom
03:42 Don't Fret or Ruminate
04:02 Delight Yourself in the Lord
04:55 Jealousy vs. Envy
05:48 Why God Is Jealous but Never Envious
06:46 The Bible's Story of Envy
07:33 Envy Begins With Deficiency
08:05 An Envy Self-Assessment
09:16 Victor Hugo's Story of Envy
09:56 How Envy Shows Itself
10:56 Social Media & Comparison
11:32 Spending Your Days Under God's Care
12:13 Live an Envy-Free Day