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After my divorce, I made a decision. I was going to choose differently. I was going to see the red flags, name the patterns, and walk away. And for a while — I did. And then I didn't. Same dynamic. Different man.

In this episode I walk through why the pattern keeps repeating — and it has nothing to do with your taste in men or your failure to try hard enough. It has everything to do with what you believe you are allowed to receive.

I share a conversation with one of my closest friends that led to a realization I was not expecting: I am not worried at all about how or when I will meet the right person. Not because I gave up. Because I finally understood something I had never known before — God does not need my help making that happen. He needs my willingness.

And that is a completely different posture.

Scripture Anchor: 2 Corinthians 6:14

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Chapter Markers

0:00 — After my divorce I made a decision. And then I didn't.

0:38 — Welcome

1:15 — The Chaser and the Cutoff: two roads to the same place

2:30 — I changed the checklist. I did not change the foundation.

4:30 — 2 Corinthians 6:14 — not a dating rule. A diagnostic truth.

6:00 — The gap between who God says you are and who you believe you are allowed to be

8:30 — The friend conversation: 'I'm not worried about it at all'

10:00 — God does not need my interference. He needs my willingness.

11:30 — What preparation actually looks like

13:00 — Identity declaration: you are a woman being prepared

14:30 — Apply for coaching

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