Stephen Torrence joins Vince Fakhoury Horn to share his experience teaching generative AI in Bhutan and explore the audacious vision behind the Gelephu Mindfulness City — a million-person city being built by Bhutan's King to prove that mindfulness, technology, and economic development can coexist.

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Vince Horn: All right, Stephen Torrence, great to see you, my friend. Good to be here chatting with you.

Stephen Torrence: Good to see you too, man.

Vince Horn: Yeah, yeah. So I understand you’re in Bali right now in Asia. Well, I guess, is Bali considered Asia? Technically it is, isn’t it?

Stephen Torrence: I suppose so. Yeah. It’s this little island in the midst of an archipelago of Indonesia, and I consider it to be like a gateway to most of Asia at this point. You know, close to, yeah. Close to many amazing places.

Vince Horn: It’s a digital nomad hotspot, I know from recent years, seeing how many folks that I’ve met or that I know who kind of come in and out of Bali.

Stephen Torrence: Yeah, and it’s really exploded in that regard in the last like five to ten years. It’s a nice sweet spot between affordable, good weather, and just a lot of interesting people looping through here.

I find it to be a nice place to rest my winks on the way to other places.

Vince Horn: And you have been flying around a lot. I know. Well, I wanna share a little background and getting to your background, but up until recently, I know you were in Bhutan, and that’s a lot of what I wanted to chat with you today about your experience. Yeah, man, working in the sort of Bhutanese system and with the Bhutanese Dharma folks. But before we do go to Bhutan, I have to go to Asheville, which is where I first met you, in Western North Carolina. I think it was a few years ago. I think it was around that time that you were living with a mutual friend of ours, Daniel Thorson, in this sort of little contemplative startup house.

Stephen Torrence: Yeah. I think we called it a Dharma house. We wanted to give the Dharma house a moniker. A Dharma house, yeah. Bring it together like, sure. Beech from Peter Park also. A bunch of us there met at the Monastic Academy, you know, all of us there met at Maple, you know. We’re all ex-monastics, I don’t know, ex-monks or graduates, however you want to put it. “Excons” is probably how ex-monastics would feel about it, probably. That’s hilarious. But we formed really deep bonds there, and we knew at least we could take care of our households, you know, do the dishes without much strife. And it was a wonderful place and great to run into you there.

Vince Horn: Yeah. I didn’t even know until that point that you were living there.

Stephen Torrence: So.

Vince Horn: Right. That was our first chance to meet in person. And I remember you were familiar with Buddhist Geeks, so we had that to kind of connect on, which makes it a lot easier. If you ever want to meet new friends, start a podcast. Then have them listen to all the episodes and sort of prime them for friendships.

Stephen Torrence: Get that parasocial friendship going already. Yeah, yeah. They’re gonna see you for the first time and just start unloading all these secrets because they feel like they know you.

Vince Horn: But anyway. Yeah, no, it was really nice to meet and connect over dinner. I think that was like the first group dinner I was invited to at the house.

Stephen Torrence: I feel yeah, man. Kinda like an honorary founder.

Vince Horn: Oh yeah. You were certainly there at the inception of it. And you injected some really good conversation and different realms. I don’t think we could publicly talk about all the things we talked about there.

Stephen Torrence: Oh, that’s true. The world’s not quite ready.

Vince Horn: Yeah. Just talking about what exactly. All right, Stephen, let’s steer this back toward what is socially acceptable to discuss.

Stephen Torrence: No, I mean, it’s good backdrop. It’s a good backdrop though, ‘cause that is how we met and we were geeking out on a lot of really esoteric, nerdy things that first evening.

Stephen Torrence: Yeah. And I think it’s just so part and parcel of whatever this network subculture, whatever you want to call it, is that we’re all somehow part of it. It feels like there’s maybe like five thousand of us, you know, globally or something. Like the network is right, pretty dang small. And at one point or another we’ve either lived together or been on each other’s shows or been on a retreat together. Yeah. But on retreat together.

Yeah, yeah. I keep finding out many years later that I’ve been in the same sangha as folks that were in the same companies as my friends. And it feels kind of nice. Like it’s some meta sangha that’s just sort of forming itself and coherent itself. And we don’t need to do something intentional to bring it together, which feels nice.

Vince Horn: Yeah. The nerdery is connecting us. Stephen, before you moved into the Monastic Academy and were practicing there, obviously before we met, did you have a technical background? I seem to remember that you were working maybe in a technical space.

Stephen Torrence: That’s true. I grew up in Austin, Texas, and my dad is in semiconductors still. He’s almost retired, but he’s basically for my whole life been building computer chips. And so we had a computer from when I was pretty young. And I like to say that the internet raised me as much as my mom.

Vince Horn: I’m sure she loves hearing that too.

Stephen Torrence: She did her best. But I’m sorry, video games are really compelling, and you know, yeah, it’s true. A vast and generous space, or at least it was when I was younger. So I grew up with a lot of technical proficiency. Then in college, I went to philosophy school and that’s when I was first exposed to Buddhism, but nothing really stuck in terms of livelihood for me other than tech. I worked at Apple for a little bit and kind of in the startup scene in Austin. It’s still kind of the way that I’m earning most of my living now, doing AI consulting and building robots. Automating a lot of the boring stuff within enterprises. And it frees me up to travel and dedicate time to the path. That’s kind of the journey I’ve been on for the last ten years or so.

Vince Horn: Yeah. Okay. Cool. Well, I’m excited to dive more into it ‘cause I remember maybe a year ago or so you had since moved on from the Dharma House and you were living somewhere else. And I ran into this YouTube video that got me very excited about Bhutan. And somehow I found out, I think because I was sharing something online, you reached out to me like, “Dude, I’m super into this. I’ve been like, blue pilled or green pilled or Bhutan pilled or whatever it is, like a while ago.”

Stephen Torrence: Or orange, yellow pill. I’ve been dragon pilled.

Vince Horn: Dragon pilled. I’ve been dragon pilled. You heard it here first folks.

Vince Horn: And you’re like, at the time you’re like, “I’m probably gonna be moving to Bhutan. It’s very likely I’m heading in that direction.” I was like, wow, okay. I’m a far cry from moving to Bhutan, but I think this is really exciting and interesting project. Maybe we could start by telling people what the Gelephu Mindfulness City is for those who aren’t familiar.

Stephen Torrence: Yeah. Bhutan is trying to build a mindfulness city. That’s the TLDR. A giant mindfulness city. It’s remarkable. Like when I first heard about this from my friend Aaron Stryker, who runs the nonprofit Dharma Gates—they’re great—he had attended a big gathering that Bhutan hosted about a year ago this time, almost exactly. Called the Bhutan Innovation Forum. And it was, to date, I think like one of the largest gatherings that they’ve ever had. Maybe brought like something like six hundred people from all over the world together from many different realms—Dharma related, finance, city building, many things—because they had a big announcement to make. And it was that the King of Bhutan, King Fifth now in the current dynasty, has basically put all of his weight behind the construction of a million person city rooted in the mindfulness values of the country of Bhutan, which is kind of—I mean, if you’ve heard anything about Bhutan, you’ve heard about gross national happiness, right? This is their sustainable development philosophy. The term was coined by the previous king in like the seventies and then really fleshed out in concert with the UN and a bunch of organizations worldwide. It really matters to them, like at a core level, to develop their country in harmony with the abundant natural resources that they have in the Himalayas, with the abundant cultural legacy that they have there—still being an uncolonized indigenous population for four hundred years and coming into the modern world in a mindful way.

But so far, the efforts to develop the country on its own have not kept there from being a significant drain of young people in the younger generations of the Bhutanese. Ironically, according to the Prime Minister, he says GNH was too successful because we educated the young people and they have the intelligence, skills, and capabilities to work anywhere in the world. And so many of them are working elsewhere out of Bhutan because the income is better, the kind of quality of life that they can achieve with their skills is higher. And so the current king—whose pin I’m wearing, if folks are listening to this—Fifth King, he’s wearing his Raven crown. He’s the dragon king since some and wears the Raven crown.

Vince Horn: Seems like a lot cooler king than the one we have at the mome...