Podcast
Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo
Hosted by MSW Media · EN
Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.
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Am I the B-Hole?-98
2w ago01:11:39Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the inbox is full, the headlines are heavy. This week, we hear from a Booty Gangster in an open relationship who’s asking the age-old modern question: Am I being reasonable… or am I the B-hole? The guys unpack jealousy, expectations, communication, and the complicated math of balancing freedom with feelings. Relationships: easy in theory, advanced placement course in practice.Then it’s time for GIMME HEADLINES, and the news cycle is serving everything from meaningful to maddening. Dr. Carlton talks about his recent contribution to The Advocate, because occasionally the chaos comes with credentials. The guys also discuss the cancellation of Long Beach Pride’s festival, and take a moment to acknowledge the tragic loss impacting Chicago’s leather community.Because this is still Butt Honestly, the emotional depth is immediately followed by another listener asking a practical question for the ages: Can you double your disco dose? Medical inquiry or ambitious scheduling? Dr. Carlton weighs in before anyone starts experimenting with pharmaceutical optimism.Outside the inbox, Dangilo reports back from a suspiciously calm weekend, Dr. Carlton somehow survives a jam-packed weekend that includes Pink in concert, and Producer Tony takes us into the dramatic, glitter-covered battlefield that is Eurovision, where geopolitics and sequins have entered a legally binding relationship.As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after open relationships, heartbreak, Pride politics, and European pop diplomacy… we all deserve a little affection.Press play. It’s thoughtful, messy, and just enough chaos to remind you why you keep coming back. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Gay Bttm Death Grip- 97
3w ago01:05:42Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLYThis week, the guys hear from a listener whose member has apparently taken a sudden hard turn south—literally. Is it age? Is it stress? Is gravity finally collecting its debt? Dr. Carlton breaks down the possible causes while Dangilo reacts with the exact level of concern you’d expect from someone hearing the phrase “unexpected curve” before coffee.Then another listener wonders if years of championship-level grip strength may have sabotaged his ability to finish while topping. It’s a surprisingly common issue, apparently, and the conversation quickly turns into a blend of anatomy lesson, emotional support group, and cautionary tale.In GIMME HEAD-LINES, the boys tackle the mysterious and endlessly debated phenomenon known online as “PrEP Belly.” Is it real? Is it internet paranoia? Is everyone suddenly a gastroenterologist with a TikTok account? Opinions are shared. Science is consulted. Feelings are had.Meanwhile, a listener named Squirt is out here exposing the hottest places for a very public encounter, proving once again that some members of the Booty Gang truly believe discretion is a myth invented by straight people.As always, the guys bring their signature blend of dry humor, real talk, and lovingly inappropriate commentary before wrapping things up with their Love Language of the Week—because after all the curves, concerns, and questionable locations, we still believe romance deserves a seat at the table.Press play. It’s educational, slightly chaotic, and probably not something you should listen to at full volume in public. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Sh*ting Bricks-96
4w ago01:19:39Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the headlines are alarming, the emails are deeply personal, and apparently… we now have to monitor the lube too.This week, the guys tackle a voicemail from a Booty Gangster living with IBS who still wants to bottom, because the spirit may be willing even when the digestive system is filing formal complaints. Dr. Carlton offers practical advice, while Dangilo reacts exactly the way someone should when words like “flare-up” enter the chat.Then another listener asks the age-old modern question: Should I wait to poop after taking my PrEP? Finally—a podcast brave enough to discuss timing, fiber, and pharmaceutical scheduling in the same conversation.In GIMME HEADLINES, the boys unpack disturbing new stories warning people to watch more than just their drinks after reports involving spiked lube. Because apparently trust issues are now a public health initiative. They also revisit the latest developments surrounding the Dallas Cumunion raid, proving once again that every week brings another sentence we never expected to say out loud professionally.Meanwhile, drama erupts out of Palm Springs, where communication could have been handled better by literally everyone involved. Vague statements, missing context, passive aggression—it’s basically queer corporate theater.And as always, after all the bowel talk, scandal, and side-eye, the guys wrap the episode with their Love Language of the Week—because connection is important, even when the headlines are terrifying.Press play. It’s informative, mildly concerning, and somehow still hilarious. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Girth, Spike and Bleached Holes - 95
Apr 2901:18:05Tap to summarizeello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the serves are strong, the questions are stronger, and the locker room stories… well, they speak for themselves.This week, the guys hit the court and talk all things gay volleyball, spotlighting queer volleyball star Jordan Lucas—because athleticism, community, and short shorts deserve their moment.Then it’s back to the inbox, where your Butt Dials and Booty Calls keep things educational and slightly uncomfortable—in a good way. We’re talking anal fissures (yes, we said it), with Dr. Carlton breaking things down medically while Dangilo reacts like the rest of us… cautiously.Next up, it’s time for Hit It or Quit It, where nothing is off the table:– Girth vs. length (the debate continues)– Penis placement (strategy matters)– And anal bleaching (because aesthetics are subjective, but curiosity is universal)And just when you think you’ve heard it all… we dive into Ready Set Confess, featuring stories about hooking up at work and a particularly bold moment in a locker room shower. HR is shaking somewhere.As always, the guys bring their signature mix of humor, honesty, and just enough side-eye to keep things grounded. And because balance is everything, they wrap it all up with their Love Language of the Week—a little tenderness after all the chaos.Press play. It’s sporty, spicy, and just the right amount of inappropriate. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Raids, Rants & Topless In The Park -94
Apr 2200:59:26Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the news is fresh, the takes are hotter, and the storytelling occasionally requires a deep breath.This week, we’re serving you GIMME HEADLINES—a mix of the informative, the concerning, and the “why is this happening?” variety. The guys break down updates on STIs in San Francisco, along with a popular event in Dallas that got raided.Then… we enter the ever-expanding universe of Trampage. This week’s update is large, layered, and frankly deserving of its own docuseries. It’s a journey—and yes, we’re breaking it into parts because even we need time to process.And just when you think it can’t get any more chaotic, we dive into some of the most jaw-dropping Ready, Set, Confesssubmissions we’ve ever read. You’ll laugh, you’ll gasp, you’ll maybe question your own life choices—and then feel better about them.Outside the inbox, Dr. Carlton takes us to New York City, where he enjoys some theatre… a topless romp in the park. Meanwhile, the guys weigh in on rage baitingThey wrap it all up with the Love Language of the Week, because after headlines, raids, and confessions, we all deserve a little emotional aftercare.Press play. It’s news, nonsense, and just enough nuance to keep you coming back. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Bulges, Fists and Screenings -93
Apr 1501:11:58Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the headlines are tight, the takes are sharper, and the inbox continues to keep us gainfully employed.This week in GIMME HEADLINES, the guys unpack the very noticeable rise of bulges across social media. Is it confidence? Is it algorithmic thirst? Is it just really good tailoring? The investigation is ongoing. Alongside that, they bring attention to a resurgent infection that deserves to be back on your radar, because nothing ruins a good time like forgetting the basics.We’ve also got a follow-up from last week’s listener regarding precancerous screenings, and let’s just say—progress has been made, appointments have been kept, and two former pigs on the prowl appear to be taking their health very seriously. Growth looks good on everyone.Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton reports back from his weekend in Dallas for Spring Bloom—a trip that was equal parts community, connection, and… advanced extracurricular activities. We’ll keep it tasteful, but let’s just say the weekend was hands-on in more ways than one.The guys also weigh in on the Sabrina Carpenter incident, offering their signature blend of pop culture analysis, gentle judgment, and “did that really just happen?” energy.As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all the headlines, health reminders, and high-energy weekends, we still believe in softness… occasionally.Press play. It’s informative, it’s entertaining, and it’s Butt Honestly doing what it does best—keeping you laughing, thinking, and maybe scheduling that appointment you’ve been avoiding. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Bimbofication, Flooding and Beer Can Thickness- 92
Apr 801:11:09Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the inbox is thriving, the opinions are measured (mostly), and the phrasing… is unforgettable.This week, the guys dive into a fresh batch of listener emails that range from heartfelt to highly specific. We kick things off with a note from Australia, where one listener writes in to say thank you for a recent conversation—proving that sometimes this podcast is not just chaotic, but actually… helpful. Growth!Then things take a turn (as they do) with a listener navigating a partner’s body modification that’s causing a bit of unexpected wear and tear. Dr. Carlton brings the medical insight, Dangilo brings the commentary, and together they unpack the delicate balance between curiosity, comfort, and knowing your limits.And finally… we have a Booty Gangster who confidently reports that he “flooded his partner’s face.” Interpret that as you will—the guys certainly do. It’s a moment of storytelling, reflection, and a reminder that phrasing is everything.Outside the inbox, the boys weigh in on the Bryan Noem “bimbofication” incident, offering their signature mix of cultural commentary and side-eye. Dr. Carlton also gives his review of Pillion—spoiler alert: thoughts were had, opinions were formed, and no one is walking away neutral.As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after all the chaos, commentary, and questionable wording, we still believe in connection… even if it’s complicated.Press play. It’s thoughtful, it’s messy, and it’s Butt Honestly at its most delightfully unfiltered. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Butt Balls, Spaniards and P-Spots-91
Apr 101:12:52Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the carry-on is full, the questions are layered, and the science is… unexpectedly specific.This week, Dr. Carlton returns from Spain with stories that are equal parts cultural immersion and… extracurricular exploration. From darkrooms to sex clubs to a suspiciously high concentration of very friendly bears, let’s just say the trip was educational. The flight over? Memorable. The kind of memorable where you question your seating choices and your life decisions simultaneouslyBack in the studio, the guys dive into a wild New Scientist article featuring an extremely detailed study of the male anatomy—because nothing says intellectual curiosity like peer-reviewed curiosity. It’s science, it’s fascinating, and it’s just clinical enough to make you feel smarter while listening.In the inbox, a Booty Gang member opens up about being in a long-term relationship while feeling pulled toward unexplored fetishes—raising the age-old question: how do you honor your desires without detonating your stability? The guys approach it with honesty, nuance, and just enough realism to keep things grounded.Another listener writes in asking about the new A-Ball alternative to douching, and yes—this turns into exactly the kind of conversation you think it will. Informative, slightly skeptical, and deeply Butt Honestly.As always, the episode wraps with the guys’ Love Language of the Week, because after travel chaos, scientific deep dives, and emotional honesty, we all deserve a little connection.Press play. It’s worldly, weirdly educational, and just the right amount of inappropriate. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Turning Point U.S. GAY with Lauren Banall A.K.A Erica Qwerk - 90
Mar 2500:58:36Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—where the conversations are as bold as they are necessary, and the guests always bring something a little extra to the table.This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are joined by the sensational Lauren Banall, alongside her brilliantly unhinged alter ego Erika Qwerk, the comedic force behind Turning Point U.S. GAY—a sharp, satirical take that proves parody might the the voice of the resistance. The energy? Chaotic good. The humor? Smart, biting, and just the right amount of awareness and brilliance. But as always, the show balances the sparkle with education and empathy.The guys tackle some serious and important listener questions this week, starting with one about anal Pap smears—what they are, why they matter, and why taking care of your health is always in style, no matter how unglamorous the appointment may sound.Then, in a more vulnerable and deeply human moment, they respond to a listener navigating bottoming after experiencing trauma. It’s a thoughtful, compassionate conversation about rebuilding trust with your body, moving at your own pace, and understanding that healing isn’t linear—and that’s okay. Dr. Carlton brings clinical insight, while Dangilo brings empathy, honesty, and the reminder that you’re not alone in figuring it out.Throughout it all, Lauren adds their signature wit and insight, proving that humor and healing can absolutely share the same stage.And because this is still Butt Honestly, the episode closes with the guys’ Love Language of the Week—a little levity, a little sweetness, and a reminder that connection, in all its forms, is worth the work.Press play. It’s smart, it’s funny, it’s heartfelt—and it might just be one of those episodes that stays with you a little longer than expected. 🍑🎙️https://www.instagram.com/laurenbanall/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Transcribe →Lazy Guts, Slick Situations & Splat Speaks-89
Mar 1801:00:49Tap to summarizeHello Booty Gang, and welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY with Dr. Carlton and Dangilo—where the questions are specific, the answers are thoughtful, and the tone is… professionally unhinged.This week, we kick things off with a listener asking about “lazy gut”—what it means, what’s myth versus medicine, and how it intersects with some very advanced extracurricular activities.Then we slide into a practical (and surprisingly common) question: can STIs stick to silicone lube? It’s part chemistry lesson, part public health PSA, and fully in line with the show’s mission of keeping things sexy and smart.And yes… we hear from a listener named Splat—who writes in with a response to last week’s conversation about straight men. The name alone deserves airtime, and the message does not disappoint.Outside the inbox, the guys take a moment to highlight some important news out of Florida, where lawmakers have restored funding for HIV/AIDS medication programs—a reminder that access to care is not just policy, it’s personal.Of course, no episode would be complete without tackling a timeless debate: hairy, trimmed, or shaved? The answers are passionate, the opinions are strong, and no one leaves unchanged.As always, they wrap things up with their Love Language of the Week, because after all the science, sass, and Splat… we still believe in connection.Press play. It’s educational, it’s entertaining, and it’s Butt Honestly at its finest. 🍑🎙️Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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