
Get ready to turn up the heat with Anitta on Call Her Daddy! Anitta reflects on the rise of her career and shares how she achieved such international fame. She also demonstrates her amazing twerking skills and talks about how her moves translate to the bedroom. Anitta gets real about what she finds attractive in a person and shares her deal breakers when it comes to dating. Enjoy!
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B
Thank you.
A
It is like your career is incredible and watching you grow has just been so fudgeing. Cool. But I know you from when we met at the Baby to Baby gala.
B
Yeah.
A
I need to hear what your favorite moment is from that event because I love. I know we met like briefly, but we were sitting next to each other. I was dying. You are so funny. You're so charismatic. You have such a personality. What do you remember from that event?
B
I think our table is so fun. We had like very fun people with us and we had fun just talking about things that people would never talk in a fancy table of auction, you know, dinner.
A
I don't think yes. Anita and I are like, we meet. And two seconds later, Anita's like, so, like, how does your vagina smell? And I was like, hey, girl, what's up? We're like, let's talk about our buttholes and our vaginas as like, a corporate Spotify person is sitting directly. My favorite was also when they. Not that, like, everyone knows the baby to baby gala, but so there's like, angels that work at the event. So.
B
Oh, my God.
A
So Anita is, like, chilling and, like, now it's like towards the end of the night, like, people have left, but, like, people are saying, so Anita is like, you know, girl, like, I got an early morning. Like, I'm going to dip out. And I'm like, totally get it. I'll be leaving soon. So everyone in the crowd is sitting, and they're like, hey, can all the angels stand up? To give people context, it's about 11 women in a crowd of 300. And they go, everyone, all the angels stand up. Anita just starts standing up. She's like, bye, everyone. I got to go. And it's dead silent room. And she was like, wait. And I'm like, anita, it's only the angel.
B
Worse than that. It's worse than that.
A
Tell us.
B
In my mind, I thought he was. She was telling. She was calling, all the women angels, stand up. All the women. And I thought all the women was going to stand up. That's why I stood up.
A
You're like, this is the perfect moment for me to, like, sneak out the back door. Only 11 people of, like, 300. And Anita literally sits back down. She's like, mother, fuck, that was terrible.
B
It was.
A
It was a great moment. Let's kind of go back through, like, your life a little bit to get to know you better. What was life like where you grew up outside of Rio de Janeiro?
B
So people don't think when. When they see me or they say, like, my songs and whatever. They don't imagine that I come from, like, the communities. It could be called the ghetto a little bit. It's like the favelas. When you go to Brazil, there's, like, communities, places that, like, the houses are really close to each other. It's a really, like, humble place. Simple. I come from a place like that. I was born and raised in a place like that. My mom used to do the best she could to fake the danger and the bad size of it for me and my brother. So we all see everything with, like, this beauty and playing in the streets, things like that. Very, like, very, like, in the hood, you know?
A
Yeah.
B
And. And. But she always told us that a way for us to leave there. It's not that we don't like there, but we all want to leave because we want a better life. So she always said that the only way to get out would be studying. And we always did the best we could, like, studying and doing, like, all we could. And I always loved music, so I started doing music, but also, like, studying everything. I was my own manager for, like, 10 years. Me and my brother, we're partners, so it was a whole job, not only from arts, but also, like, building business.
A
When and at what age did you realize your love for performing?
B
Oh, no, since. Since I was a little kid, I was already, like, singing. And when I was three years old, like four or five, I was already singing, and my family used to ask me, like, these. These questions, like, what are you going to be when you grow up? Whatever. And I always used to be like, I'm going to be famous. I'm going to be an artist. I'm going to have a pool in my house, blah, blah, blah, blah. That was literally me.
A
So you kind of always knew?
B
Always. I would pass through some, pass by some places that I knew. It was like TV places, like studios or whatever. And I used to open the window or go to the bus window and say, like, you guys are gonna see me. I'm gonna work here. Blah, blah, blah. Nine years old, I was always like, this personality, kind of crazy.
A
I love that so much, though, because I think sometimes you have to have that energy in order to get to where you.
B
I was like, sure. I was sure. It was not that I said, like, oh, I want to be. I was sure. I was. I would tell my family where I was gonna live, how my house would be, the TV shows I were gonna be, the people we're gonna meet. I would be like that. When I was a kid, I could literally, like, see and dream about this. And like, my family was like, okay, because it was a very humble life, so they would never prospect that in my life.
A
Totally.
B
So they would be like, okay. And I was like, you guys don't understand. I'm not saying I want to. I'm going to be there.
A
There's no option. It's happening. Do you guys want to come along for the ride or not exactly. Who were some artists that you admired growing up?
B
Mariah Carey was my first one. She's my first diva. I. And I had the. The opportunity to tell her that, and it was crazy. And be on the phone with her for hours. That was also crazy for me. She was the number one forever. And then Rihanna and now I. I'm sponsored by Fanty. I did the Fenty show. I do, like, photo shoots for Fenty. It's crazy.
A
Even when you're saying that, like, does it still feel surreal, like, how much success you've had?
B
I think we should always remember because sometimes, and I think the industry does this to us, they push us to think that we need always more, more and more and more. And I think nowadays with the Internet, it's kind of impossible for you to reach everything, everyone, every time. You got to be happy also. You got to take time for yourself also. So I think that this speech that I used to have for my life for many years, like, you can be more, you can do more. Never stop, never give up. I was like that. And when I was like that, I couldn't see those things that happened in my life. I would be like, okay, yeah, I met Mariah. Okay, yeah, I loved it. But I couldn't like, look and be like, wow. Nowadays, for me it's like, yeah, we can definitely give up. We can definitely go rest, take a nap, go to sleep. We don't need all the money in the world. You know, a person, the money doesn't mean happiness. And the many as many number ones you get in your life, that's not going to make you happier or not. So for me, it's like every single thing that happened, that happened in my life, I learned how to stop and be like, wow, look at what I did. This is so. And then live that moment again. I got to this reflection when, because last year I got super sick, right? Super, super sick. I couldn't do anything. I couldn't go upstairs at my house, I couldn't do anything. Literally for three months I was like. And I thought literally that I was gonna die. It was a whole thing. And then I was in the hospital for so long. And then I was like, you know what? I was just working, working, working to reach everything and thinking I still didn't have enough. And now I'm here and what did I get from life? Like, right? Did I enjoy it? Did I have fun? Did I do nothing? Did I? And the thing that I wanted the most was, like, to travel, to have more free time. But today is too much for you to be successful. You gotta be on Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, Spotify. It's so many things that you gotta do. We are just one human being.
A
It's too much.
B
How can we do all of that. It's a lot. So I'm not up to waste my life searching for for things anymore because I'm almost 30 now. I'm 29. And I do think it was important and amazing for me to do that for so many years. But now I just want to rest. If I get more success, amazing. If no, amazing.
A
It's okay. Your birth name is actually Larissa.
B
Yeah.
A
Do you mind sharing why and when you started going by Anita?
B
So my name Larisa is very common in Brazil. Anita is a name that there was just one character from a series called Anita. And I wanted to be this girl because she used to say that she was like an 18 year old character in this series. She used to say that she didn't like to be just one girl. She liked to wake up and decide which girl she wanted to be. Today I want to be crazy. Tomorrow I want to be sexy. And then I want to be pretty, and then I want to be princess. And I was like, that's so cool. Because I don't want to. I don't like to define myself and be like, okay, I'm this. Yep. I'm so many things. I like to discover every day a new me, you know, And I think people have the necessity of defining you. Being like, oh, she is that. And I like to be all.
A
What is the difference between Larissa and Anita?
B
Oh, my God. It's huge. It's huge. I started my career 12 years ago here in America. I am a best new artist. Joking. But I am nominated as best new artist for the Grammys because it's a new career. Started from the zero, you know, I left everything and I came to start here again. But 12 years ago, when I started there, I created this character because me, Larissa, I'm very shy, to be honest. I'm very insecure. I'm very like, I don't like going out, I don't like socializing. I don't like doing anything. You know, I'm so the opposite of who I am when I'm in this character. And when I created this character, Anita, I wanted a person, a Persona that would be completely against hypocrisy. Know people that are hypocrites that say one thing and do the other, you know, and that's what I wanted to do.
A
How many languages can you sing in?
B
Sing? I can sing in five languages. It's because I sing it. Portuguese, Spanish, English, Italian, and French. But French just a little bit. I speak just a little bit. And Italian a little bit.
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B
So I'm going to give a very good example right now of Larissa and Anita. Right?
A
Okay.
B
So when I go to Interville as Anita, you got to deliver entertainment, right?
A
Yeah.
B
So people ask me, how did you learn so many languages? They say, with boyfriends, whenever I wanted to have a no, no language, I would date a different guy and like, different accents. But in reality, I had. Which is kind of boring. The reality, Larissa. I hired different teachers from different places of the world. And I would. I used to leave them in my dressroom for whatever commitments I had. So I used to like, get two hours of glam every day. I would be studying this during this two hours. The teacher would be telling me and I would be like, studying for these two hours.
A
I love your honesty of like. Let me be so clear. Anita is like, if I wanted to learn Italian, I'm going to date an Italian man, An Italian guy. Like, actually, I was just hiring people and they were just teaching me. Do you ever worry that, like, now being so honest about, like, the two characters, that people will be like, wait, why?
B
What the.
A
Like, this isn't the real you?
B
No, Because I think it's so important for me to have this clear and to understand that I use my character to break rules, to bake, to break boundaries and like, things that limit us women to do. All women. Women that wants to be free in sex, women to want women. Women that wants to be free in work. Whatever. I like this character. It brings. It brings to us self esteem, confidence, and something to look at. Even I do when I'm myself, Larissa. Nowadays I look at me as a character and I'd be like, okay, I think I can get that from Anita and be a little bit more confident about myself. You know, it's so much easier for people to watch a movie and see that character and be like, okay. And understand the actor is another thing. Yeah, but they don't understand that musicians, singers, they do the same thing. We do the same thing. There's no way we're bringing the on self. The person that we are at home, the person that we are in family, and bring this person on stage. It's not entertainable. It's not different enough for people to look and be like, oh, this is special.
A
Who is your favorite person that you've collaborated with on a song?
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Snoop Dogg.
A
That is for sure.
B
Because I think him and Cardi B. Because they are so funny. And Snoop Dogg is very, like, simple, humble, and he's like, everything for him is a vibe. It's all about if he likes you, if he likes what you're. Your energy. If. If he see he has something kind of. I don't know, he sees someone and he feels the energy, and then he decides if he likes or not. I feel. I think so. That's what I think from him, because I just feel like I can hug him and be there, like, safe forever. I think he's one of the coolest guys. And Cardi B, she just funny, but good energy, like, best energy, like, high level. I love that.
A
I was reading the list. I'm like, Pharrell, Missy Elliot, Snoop Dogg, Rita Ora, Cardi B, Saweetie, Becky G.
B
I'm like, back is one of my best friends. Messy outlet was great energy, too.
A
It was so good.
B
So good.
A
Okay, Anita, you're also known for your dancing. Okay.
B
Yeah.
A
The Anita challenge went viral on TikTok, which I remember just watching these videos and being like, 1. How is this not getting censored on TikTok? I can't even, like, curse in my TikToks. Meanwhile, people are like, challenge and like, it. It's incredible watching it. Can you explain how twerking in Brazil is different than twerking in America?
B
Because it's not even only twerking. It's partying in general. I think here in America, people in the parties, they're more concerned about who they're with, where they're going, what they're wearing. And, you know, it's like the table situation. In Brazil, there's no table situation. You go to the party, there's no table. Everyone is just one place. Mess together, find out, you know, and we love dancing. We love dancing. Sometimes we don't even understand whether you're singing. We just want to dance. Sometimes it's just the same lyrics over and over. They just sing a different melody, just same words always. And we love it. We just want to dance. We just want to listen and dance.
A
What is it like being known for, like, the way that you dance, though? Are you, like, so proud of yourself?
B
It's crazy because in Brazil, it started this fever of, like, oh, we're gonna do Anita moves. Anita moves.
A
Okay, now we need you to twerk.
B
Okay. Okay.
A
So this is gonna be iconic. I think people will love it. Is this the wrong surface? Oh, my God. Okay. Okay.
B
So do you want music?
A
We have music.
B
No, it doesn't need to. Okay, Just go like you're gonna do a push up, right?
A
Okay.
B
And then you just do a circle. That basically you're doing this with your knees.
A
Okay.
B
You focus here in your hips. So it's like a push up.
A
That must take a lot of upper body.
B
You're doing this, but in this position.
A
Anita. Oh, my God. I could only dream. No, but you're. You're.
B
This other one is hard though, when you. You do like when you do a circle but you stop in the middle so you do a square. This one is harder. Like, when you do this,
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I feel so creepy. I'm literally like, holy, dude, that was so good. I am, like inspired now to go home and like, secretly practice it. But, like, not let anyone know I'm practicing it. But, like, I will be working on it. Next time I see you, maybe I'll have a little move to bust out. Call Her Daddy is brought to you by Uber Eats. You already know Uber Eats delivers your late night cravings and fave restaurants. But now they are delivering something just as exciting. Exciting, if not more exciting. Sephora. Okay. Which means beauty is basically on speed dial. You guys don't even know how much this has changed my life. Okay, your beauty essentials can now show up at your door in as little as 25 minutes and no drama. Everything is literally the same price as it is in store. I have been getting ready for date nights. I have gone to open my drawer where I have my lip liners and boom. My favorite lip liner for a date night is not anywhere to be found. Are you kidding me? What am I supposed to do? What am I supposed to do?
B
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B
When the guy asks me to dance, I go like, dance first. He's never gonna dance. So I'm like, what the question is that, right?
A
You're like, I'm not. I'm not performing.
B
Like, exactly. I get silly. It's so annoying. Dance first. You. You dance. I dance.
A
Are you currently single or in a relationship?
B
I'm single, completely single and not looking for anything and so happy with myself. And I don't have sex in months. So many months. I don't even remember the last time I had sex, to be honest with you.
A
Are you just masturbating? No, like I'm selling.
B
Listen, I didn't find anyone special enough that I would think like, okay, this one deserves to come here and find it yet.
A
Yeah, you're spending time alone.
B
But I was crazy before. I used to like, even like one person that would cross me on the street, I'll be like, you come here.
A
Stop.
B
I would be like that.
A
How did you get that confidence, just like go up to people?
B
Because I was living Anita 24,7 of the time.
A
Do you have a type of guy?
B
No girl breathing in the life? I don't know. There's something inside that comes and this something, for some reason I can feel it. And then I'm like, so there's no type. I can literally show you three different ex boyfriends and you'll be like, what's the sense between these people?
A
I love that though. What do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person?
B
I think when they are funny. I love when they're funny. You make me laugh. I'm like, ah, I love it. And so good when they are confident, a little aggressive, but in a good way. I like when they are aggressive in a good way. Not like abusive relation.
A
Have you found yourself in any like, abusive relationship?
B
Oh, yeah, terrible. But I needed just once and then never again. Like in two months after this one guy, I had like for a year and something.
A
Wow.
B
I can look if I'm starting with someone in one month, I can feel it's abusive and I'm like, out.
A
Can you try to give like if people are listening that are like, fuck, like, I think I may be in one. Like, do you have any, like, signs or things to look for?
B
Yeah, because in the beginning they let you feel very comfortable, you know, and then they start to make you feel insecure about yourself without saying. They don't say you are less or not, you know? Yeah, they just make. They point. It's like they point things in other people that they are actually talking about you, but they pretend they're not. And then. Oh, honey, I'm almost a psychologist. I look and I'm like, okay. And then I start bringing shit over for themselves to think.
A
So you mean like they'll point something out and someone in a room.
B
Yeah.
A
That like, relates to you or is like, what you don't have or, or.
B
Or just say like, you see, that's so bad. Oh my God. Kind of like to guide you how to not be.
A
Are you usually the one breaking up with people or they.
B
Yeah, I am. I need that to change, though. I think that's why I'm waiting so much. I want things to be different.
A
Got it. What is like a deal breaker for you in a relationship?
B
When I feel suffocated, I don't like that. Or when I think when I feel suffocated is the number one thing. Like when the guy doesn't let you breathe and like jealousy for no reason, you know, like, come on. Or needy. Like, I miss you. I want to talk to you like 24 7. Come on, give me a break. Give me a time to breathe. Right?
A
There's nothing more like unattractive. Which I get it, we're all insecure. But being a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship, it's like such a turn off. You're like, can you just like, get into therapy? Muster the courage?
B
When the guys tries his selfish. He tries to say he's doing things for you, but he's actually doing for him. He doesn't want to be alone. He is needy. He doesn't want to stand with himself alone. But he's. He says that. Oh, no, I'm doing this for you. Come on. You're not. I want to be alone.
A
Yeah.
B
For little time.
A
Can you give advice to women listening that are like, okay, wait, Anita, you have not been with someone. You're not hooking up with people. Like, how are you so comfortable being alone?
B
So everything started and I. I hope people don't need that to change lives. When I got sick, that was like, when I was in Bed thinking I was gonna die. I started to look over all the things in my life, and I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again. It's not that I don't want to have sex with people anymore. Please, God, I'm down. I'm open. I'm free tonight. I'm just saying that I'm rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was doing things, and I want to do differently. I don't want to have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love for me or because I don't want to lose him. I want to have sex because I feel like doing it, because I feel like this guy deserves my. This queen going to, you know, I don't know. And before, I didn't used to like staying by myself. I used to just, like, need friends every time in my house. Friends every time I needed people.
A
Yeah.
B
And now I don't need no. But I can be alone like this for days, you know, cook my own food and be like, life is beautiful. I'm just here chilling. And I feel like we need to ask ourselves, why are we scared of the silence? What is inside of us that we don't want to listen to? You know, what. What we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to face it. I'm not saying I regret the thousands of people I fucked. I'm just saying right now, I don't feel like maybe next month I feel like fucking thousands of people again. Just now, I just feel like
A
not right now.
B
Is it worth it?
A
I remember I went through almost. This is. I've never said this. I almost went an entire year in my 20s where I did not have. And I was, like, totally happy.
B
Oh, I'm so happy.
A
Like, it was like, just like a reclaiming moment for myself of, like, I need to just figure my own shit out. And I don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while I try to figure out.
B
I kind of want. But it needs to be a great penis. It needs to be a penis plus a brain, plus a tongue, plus so many things, you know, it needs to be. To be like, a mix. Because it's a lot of work to have sex for me. It's a lot of work. I like to put a show on.
A
Oh, you do? Can you give us some tips, Anita? Like, if the girls are like, what do you mean, put a show on? Like, give us some tips. Like, what's your favorite?
B
I Like, to enjoy myself. I like to feel like I'm, like, dancing and performing.
A
Is it a deal breaker for you if a guy is not good at, like, eating you out?
B
I teach.
A
I love you.
B
I would teach. I would say, come on, let me say something. Do this, do that. And I don't like when they go like this. Look, they put the tongue very hard and they go like. And it click. And. And it's like. You go like, right. Oh, my God.
A
I don't like that. Right. It's just like a little, like, slithering,
B
and you're like, it's so bad these days. Oh, by the way, I didn't have sex with guys this whole time with girls I did have. So I was teaching this friend of mine how to. How to eat a pussy these days, and she was like, oh, it's that easy. And I was like, yeah. I came in three minutes, she came in two.
A
Wait, you were practicing on each other?
B
Yeah.
A
And you're just friends?
B
Yeah.
A
There was no, like, sexual connection?
B
Oh, no. I was just teaching her.
A
You just, like, took off your pants? Like, here's my vagina. Let me teach you. Okay, like, we need some tips. Without taking off your pants and us doing it. Do you have any, like. Like, one specific thing that you can adjust for the men or women listening that could maybe just like, help achieve more or less?
B
I will say, first of all, for girls to.
C
For whatever.
B
Guys, girls to eat. Girls, personally, I think it's kind of different for each girl. I don't know. The things I like can be different from the things yep, other girls like. Me, personally, when I'm doing that with a girl, I go nice and slow. I do circles, and then I just do up and down and I do side by side, but, like, slow and wet and not like you're eating a pasta. It's just like you are an ice cream that is cold and you cannot freeze your tongue. If you go. You're gonna freeze your tongue. You're gonna feel like, ice cold. And yeah, I just go nice and slow and then I put a finger on it. And I don't put the finger on it like, you know, I just put it, like, nice and slow, small movement movements, and like, just smooth, you know? And then, like, I don't go in the crazy side by side. I just go in a smooth. Keep going with the flow, you know? And the girl is kind of gonna guide you. And then you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry of the vagina. You don't need to Go all the way down there. And it's not because the woman squirt that she came. There was this time this guy made me squirt like 20 times. And I was not coming. I was like, this doesn't mean something is happening.
A
Men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt. Let me look at me in the eyes of this camera. Stop.
B
The next day. It hurts.
A
Oh, it hurts so bad.
B
Come on.
A
I think sometimes men forget, like, would you want us like, jackhammering your dick?
B
Yeah.
A
No, you like when it's like very wet and like, you don't need it to be like, let's fucking go. Imagine we did that. Also dry. You would have rug burn. Same for us. Okay? Same for us.
B
There is also, like, with guys, what I do. Let me try to give an example. I always use oil when I can. When the guy is not full of like. Some guys are like, oh, you're using the. I love. I love using lubricant. Love it. And some guys think it's because they're not doing a good job. Shut the up. It's just more pleasing.
A
Yes.
B
You use lubricant. I put the lubricant I'm going to teach you in this bottle. Okay.
A
Okay, here we go.
B
I put the lubricant and then I go like this. First of all, I go like this. And then this is one movement. And then you're gonna do something. There's something you can do that they are not gonna understand what you're doing. You could tell him to close his eyes. You're gonna do this. You're gonna hold here in the bottom and you're gonna do this with the hands like this. You go down and circle, down, circle, down, circle. And then you go up and down, up. And you do this, but up and down, up and down. And you do this. He's gonna be like, what is happening? But you should put little break in on it. But you go like this. Don't do this. It's like go up and down. Don't. Don't let it go. Just open up and down. And you do this open and close, open and close. Because then you're gonna switch the pressure on it and they're gonna be like, what is she doing though? But you gotta put lubricant on it, right?
A
So you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while you're holding the base.
B
Yeah, like this.
A
Oh, that's magical.
B
And then they get super confused because it feels like a Blow job, but it's not. And then you. For the blow job. I like using things that you put in your teeth to. To fix it. Plastic.
A
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
B
The Invisalign kind of. There's a bunch of brands.
A
Yeah.
B
If you use the one down. Just the one down. Life changing.
A
Really.
B
It feels like you don't have teeth.
A
Anita.
B
It feels like you don't have teeth. You can try.
A
I just added that to my Amazon cart while you were.
B
You can ask them.
A
Wow.
B
They're gonna feel like you don't have teeth.
A
And just on the bottom.
B
Because it's gonna touch the. Yeah, because it's on the up top too. It's gonna look weird. Yeah, yeah. But if you use only on the bottom, they're gonna feel like you don't have teeth. Because you can touch as much as you want with this teeth here. Because it's not like aggressive. It's like smooth as a plastic.
A
This is an educational podcast today. Okay. We are educating, but this is bad.
B
They don't like it. Like the brand of the dentists. They will try to kill me. And they say I'm. Because I try to say that in Brazil. Wow. They all. They wanted to kill me.
A
Wait, I feel like they would love it. Your. The sales are gonna rock.
B
Kill me. No, no, no. That's not the purpose. This is health for people to take care. Right.
A
While you're sucking dick, you're also aligning your teeth. You're.
B
You're. But people don't want to know about that. They don't do blow jobs. They just were born from sand spirit that came. And so everyone is virgin today.
A
I am. I am claiming that this is a great technique and you can be fixing your teeth while sucking dick. Nothing better.
B
I wouldn't say that. I'm not a dentist. I'm just saying if you want to try, you try. If. No, it's okay. Totally.
A
If you already have one, pop it in. See how it works.
B
Dentists hate me because I said that in Brazil. They hate me.
A
Dentists.
B
They do. Because I said it's good when you use it, but they hate it. They don't like that. I said they're the virgin dentists.
A
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B
Once when I was 1918.
A
So how did you find out?
B
Oh my God. Online. A fan. A fan Told me no and oh, but twice I was. Twice. Once was a fan told me. Second one, I pretended it was a fan because I actually dreamed about it. I dream about. About a lot of things that actually happened. So there was this one time I went to sleep, this boy, I landed my car to him. He didn't have a car. I learned my car to him I was already a singer. I was performing somewhere else. He went to the place and he. I. When I went to sleep, I literally went to like in my dream I went to the club, he was. I saw him kissing the girl he was wearing. Blah blah blah. The girl was wearing. And it was so clear to me. And I know I have these type, type of dreams. So I didn't tell him I dreamed I said hi, a fan took a picture and sent me, you were with this girl you were wearing. Blah blah blah. She was wearing. Blah blah blah. And then he was desperated saying yeah, I'm sorry. After months I told him I dreamed it.
A
Have you ever got caught cheating?
B
No. I'm so smart. I am so smart.
A
How do you feel about sex on the first date?
B
I don't care. Yeah. If I feel like I do. You just be yourself and if he likes you, amazing. If he doesn't, it's because he's an. And he's not that he's an. It doesn't match you and you just want him because of. You think you need him for something but you don't.
A
I love that advice. It's like if you're good with yourself, who gives a. If they. If you don't care, it doesn't matter.
B
There was this one time, this one guy, I went on a date after it turned up, it ended up not happening anymore. I was like, he doesn't want me. Blah blah blah. And then after two weeks when I was like better with my therapy on point and I was like what the fuck I was doing with that guy?
A
He has.
B
He makes no sense. He kisses terribly his kiss. I was like, where the fuck did this guy learn to kiss? It was like. It was the terrible kiss. The sex would be even worse. Why I was caring so much. It was. It's just. Our fear of being rejected has nothing to do with the guy. We don't even care about the guy.
A
So true.
B
Has nothing to do with the fucking person. The person sometimes is shitty.
A
Yes.
B
And we are concerned just because we don't want to feel rejected.
A
I also think a good bit of advice is pretend in your head. Imagine if they were obsessed with you. And they wouldn't stand. Stop hitting you up then. Now assess. Would you actually like them? Like, if you're coming from a place of, like, they don't like me. I want them to. Like, that's just the chase. And we get it. No.
B
And then he texted me, and I was like, no, thank you.
A
Like, you kiss like a frog.
B
I was like, no, Today I have my mind so on point. No, thanks. Some people, you just go with them because your mind is not on point.
A
Right. And then you wake up one day and it's like, what the.
B
What I was doing with that person.
A
It's so crazy, too, when you look back and you're like, I can't believe I was obsessed with that guy. He sucked. Yeah. Sometimes you just need to, like, step away from it. How do you feel about sharing nudes?
B
I don't do that. You don't know.
A
Is it just because you're nervous because, like, you're celebrity?
B
Before, yes. Nowadays, I just think it's new. I think it's more sexy when you're wearing, like, panties or something that is almost showing, but it doesn't show. I think it's more sexy. It plays more with the imagination, to be honest.
A
I love that.
B
Or like, having a hand on it, you know? It's more even a picture of a dick. It's not beautiful. Come on. Getting a picture of a dick. Let's be honest.
A
It's not great.
B
Let's be honest.
A
It's not great. You're like, oh, there it is.
B
When you see that guy naked, like. Like, it's not hot. That's not hot.
A
What are you responding If a guy sends you a dick pic, I'd be
B
like, I sent an emoji or something. I don't know. I'm like, that's not it. I don't know. I don't feel anything with that. What emoji that. The eyes. You know, these two eyes that look like. That's it. It kind of doesn't say anything. It's just not to leave the guy.
A
I kind of love it, though, because then it could make him a little insecure of, like, wait, hello. And you're like, that's all you got? That's all you got. Do you like sexting?
B
Sex? What?
A
Sexting? Like texting? Sexting?
B
No.
A
No. Me either.
B
All these things for me are just not. I like the real thing. Come on.
A
Come here.
B
Let's.
A
Yes.
B
Not the sex. Sex. I like the little horny talk.
A
Huh?
B
But not the sex. Like, I'm gonna put My dick put in your. And bang it 20 times. I don't like that. I like the little horny thing.
A
You know what intimidates you in the bedroom?
B
What intimidates me? A huge, insanely huge dick trying to put it on my ass. That's very intimidating when the dick is, like, huge. It's so scary trying to go in your butthole. It's kind of not good because you're so scared. This one guy I saw, I was like, okay, I think I'm gonna try here. And then this dick was so big. So big. And I was like, listen, I'm scared. And then he said, why? And then I said, this is something. I don't think I can handle it right now at this moment of my life. I cannot handle this. I think.
A
Check back with me in a couple months.
B
And then we just talked and cuddled, and it was. It.
A
Have you ever had a threesome?
B
Oh, so many times.
A
Do you enjoy them?
B
I do. I think it's cool. I like it. I think it's more. But you. You have to be very aligned with everyone, you know, and. Yeah, I have threesome. Four, Six. I had a boyfriend that used to like to, like, switch couples and all.
A
Do you like the. The swapping thing?
B
Yeah.
A
Did you like it?
B
Yeah, he was very, like, comfortable. And the people. He always let me pick, and it was just fun. It was very cool and respectful and fun.
A
Did you ever get jealous?
B
Oh, no, no. I'm not a jealous person. I'm jealous if I don't feel respected. If I don't feel respected, I'm very. I get. Not even jealous. I get angry.
A
I think that people that want to potentially do threesomes or foursomes or orgies or whatever. Like, I think you need to know yourself before you do that. Of, like, if you're a jealous person.
B
Yeah, don't do it. Yeah.
A
Know yourself. Sometimes people, I think, do it for their partner. And it's like, if you know your relationship, don't do it just because you think he or she wants to do it.
B
Yeah, that's a big issue, to be honest. I don't. Yeah, I think you need to be. Be very friends with your partner to make sure he also. There is this one time and threesomes, also with guys, but he wouldn't be with a guy, just me. And he was super comfortable with that. He picked it and it was cool. I liked it, to be honest, but he let me feel feel free with that.
A
Do you like to use toys in the bedroom?
B
I do The Guy gotta be confident, though. I know, but I do.
A
Me too.
B
And that's why I. I did my line of perfume. Like, when I did that, it was more about like, I was doing concerts and obviously I'm performing for like two hours. And carnival is like four hours performing non stop. Even seven hours I've done. And when you finish, you don't smell good. So let's just have a real talk. A butthole smells like butthole. If you go in the end of the day, you put your finger in a butthole and you smell. Smells like butthole. It's a place that is there inside, locked in the dark, warm, hot. Doing this the whole date. This is gonna sweat. It's like under your arms. There's no way you're gonna sweat. You're gonna smell. It's there inside of your whole clothes. So I was like, I don't like, I'm obsessed with smell, right? I was like, I don't like smelling like sweat in my butthole. And then a friend of mine told me, oh, I'm gonna do something for you. And she did this perfume and I used it and it was like I was smelling great. Even if I went to the Sahara desert and I did a music video there, it was like 42 degrees Celsius and it was so hot. I was wearing like a jumpsuit of plastic. I was sweating like crazy, and I was still smelling good. I was like, you know what? I'm gonna make this, like, professional. And then I did it. And you just smell amazing. Your pussy and your butthole smell great the whole time. And then I give it to the guys that I'm with, and they put in their balls and the dick in the buds too. They smell great. For me, it's such a. Like a turn on. I love it. After I got this product, something I always done was like, to forget, oh, my God, by accident, my panties at the place. So they smell so good and smells insanely good, like strawberry or whatever, cotton candy. And this guy, obviously, when you leave, guys, pay attention. He will smell the panties. He will smell the panties. He wants to know. And then he will smell the part that your butthole is on it. And it's not gonna smell like butthole. And it's just heaven. They always come back.
A
Anita, you're giving us everything we need today, okay? There's so few people that you can just like, like, have an open conversation like this. Talk about your sexuality, your sex life. What do you want people to know about you as an artist and an individual? If they're watching today and they're like new fans. Like, what would you want to say?
B
I would say definitely what I said here. Like, I think I'm an artist that fights against hypocrisy. You know, that's the artist I like to be about everything. Not only sex, but I bring up subjects which is like talk about my plastic surgeries, talk about sex, talk about poop, talk about things that we all do. And for some reason we live our lives pretending we don't, you know, And I don't understand what's the type of insecureness or I don't know that make people live in this fake world that just pretend life is this 247 glam.
A
Knowing more about you now and knowing how hands on you are with your craft, like you are running the show. You're your own manager. You do everything. I really respect you and I cannot wait to see what you do next. And I can't wait for the new album and all the things you deserve, all of it. So thank you so much for coming on.
B
Thank you. I loved it. I felt really at home. I hope people like it. And I loved meeting you. You have great energy. You do too. Love you.
A
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Date: February 20, 2026
Host: Alex Cooper
Guest: Anitta
This episode features international pop star Anitta—the most successful Brazilian artist of her generation, Grammy-nominated and known for her fierce honesty, charisma, and sexual liberation. Anitta speaks candidly with Alex Cooper about her humble upbringing, rise to global fame, dual identity as “Larissa” and “Anitta,” relationships, sexual confidence, dancing, and breaking cultural taboos for women everywhere. Both funny and unfiltered, this conversation covers everything from growing up in the favelas to viral dance moves, dating, sex tips, and the pressures of the music industry.
“In my mind, I thought she was calling all the women angels... Only 11 people of 300. And Anita literally sits back down. She’s like, motherfuck, that was terrible.” — Alex (04:08)
“When I was a kid, I could literally like, see and dream about this. And like, my family was like, okay... I’m not saying I want to. I’m going to be there.” — Anitta (07:09)
| Timestamp | Speaker | Quote | |-----------|------------|--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------| | 04:08 | Alex | "Anitta literally sits back down. She’s like, motherfuck, that was terrible." | | 07:09 | Anitta | "I’m not saying I want to. I’m going to be there." | | 09:46 | Anitta | "We can definitely give up. We can definitely go rest, take a nap, go to sleep. We don’t need all the money…" | | 10:48 | Anitta | "I like to discover every day a new me, you know—and I think people have the necessity of defining you." | | 18:23 | Anitta | "Snoop Dogg… he’s like everything for him is a vibe." | | 19:55 | Anitta | "In Brazil, there’s no table situation... We just want to dance." | | 29:15 | Anitta | "I want to have sex because I feel like...this queen going to, you know?" | | 33:22 | Anitta | "Nice and slow. I do circles, and then I just do up and down and I do side by side but, like, slow and wet." | | 36:00 | Anitta | "You’re gonna hold here in the bottom and you’re gonna do this...down, circle, down, circle…" | | 37:34 | Anitta | "If you use the one down… Life changing… They’re gonna feel like you don’t have teeth." | | 53:03 | Anitta | "I’m an artist that fights against hypocrisy...not only sex, but I bring up subjects that we all do." |
The conversation is raw, humorous, sex-positive, and candid, with Anitta’s warmth and self-assurance shining through. Alex Cooper steers the discussion with her trademark bluntness and relatability, encouraging Anitta’s openness and emphasizing self-love, personal growth, and the importance of rejecting shame—especially for women.
This episode is a must-listen for fans of unabashed honesty, sexual self-confidence, thriving against the odds, and the freedom to break cultural molds. Anitta proves herself not just as a global pop force, but also as a champion for women defining life—and pleasure—on their own terms.