Call Her Daddy Podcast Summary
Episode: Chace Crawford: Gossip Girl, House Parties & Dating Disasters (FBF)
Release Date: March 28, 2025
Host: Alex Cooper
Guest: Chace Crawford
Knowledge Cutoff: October 2023
Introduction and Background
In this Friday Back Friday (FBF) episode of Call Her Daddy, host Alex Cooper sits down with Chace Crawford, best known for his role as Nate Archibald on the hit television series Gossip Girl. Released on March 28, 2025, the episode delves deep into Chace’s experiences on the show, his personal life, and his perspectives on fame and relationships.
Early Life and Career Beginnings (00:27 - 15:39)
Chace Crawford opens up about his upbringing in Lubbock, Texas, painting a picture of a small-town life that eventually led him to the bustling streets of New York City. Born to parents who met at a religious college in Oklahoma City, Chace spent his early years moving between Texas and Minnesota due to his father's medical studies.
Chace Crawford [13:03]: "It was interesting. I was born in Lubbock. Small town, Texas. Not much going on out there."
His interest in the arts was evident from a young age, with Chace sharing memories of drawing and taking photography classes during middle school. Despite his artistic inclinations, he never initially aspired to be an actor, describing his early forays into acting as naive.
Chace Crawford [14:15]: "I never wanted to be an actor. I had no idea about acting or any of it."
Chace recounts his high school experiences, including his brief stint playing football and his passion for golf, which became a fallback when his football aspirations didn't materialize.
Chace Crawford [16:38]: "I was a little bit more in that vein. You know what I mean?"
Breaking into Acting and Gossip Girl (15:39 - 27:08)
Chace discusses his journey into acting, revealing that his big break came with an audition for Gossip Girl. The audition process was rigorous, involving multiple rounds and tests, but Chace felt confident as he connected with fellow actors during the readings.
Chace Crawford [23:03]: "We make friends in that wider circle. It's not just like, you know, that tiny little circle."
Landing the role of Nate Archibald brought Chace unprecedented fame, especially as Gossip Girl was set in and filmed in New York City—a city he had only visited before. The duality of living and filming in the same city created unique challenges, blurring the lines between his personal identity and his character.
Chace Crawford [33:12]: "They're like Mickey Mouse in Disneyland. They all want to see, like, take a photo with, like, Mickey, so you feel like they just come up and hug you, and it's like you're in this costume."
Life in New York and Handling Fame (27:08 - 41:20)
Chace elaborates on his experiences living in New York while filming Gossip Girl. The constant attention from fans and the media was overwhelming, leading to moments of paranoia and anxiety.
Chace Crawford [32:37]: "And so, you know, you can't. Like, you kind of aren't present all the time. Like, you kind of just kind of, like, unwary about people or phones. Like, a little bit, like, not."
Living with co-star Ed Westwick was another significant aspect of his New York life. Their friendship blossomed amidst the chaos, leading to memorable house parties on their rooftop deck.
Chace Crawford [40:24]: "He was owning hotel chains. His was very much skewed. More like, like British underground rock scene, you know."
Chace also touches upon the challenges of maintaining personal relationships amidst fame, including dealing with ex-girlfriends sharing his dog and the complexities that arose from it.
Chace Crawford [07:45]: "Jeez. Oh, my God."
Personal Relationships and Dating Life (41:20 - 75:05)
A significant portion of the conversation revolves around Chace's dating life during and after Gossip Girl. He candidly shares his struggles with maintaining relationships, the impact of fame on his personal life, and his journey towards self-awareness and therapy.
Chace Crawford [60:49]: "It's a dumpster fire, Alex. It's all dumpster fire."
Chace discusses his experiences with dating apps like Raya, expressing both the allure and the intimidation factors associated with them. He emphasizes the importance of meaningful connections over superficial interactions.
Chace Crawford [69:07]: "But I do. I am like a closet reader and like kind of a nerd. I do like to be able to have like, kind of, you know, in-depth conversation. Sense of humor is kind of a big one for me."
He also delves into past relationships, including instances of feeling betrayed and the lessons learned from those experiences.
Chace Crawford [67:04]: "It was like, I had to like. I guess I gotta go back to LA and like, you."
Chace highlights the significance of therapy in his life, advocating for its benefits in maintaining healthy relationships and personal well-being.
Chace Crawford [74:55]: "I'm actually very. I have like almost the opposite. Opposite of trust. I'm almost like too trusted people."
Post-Gossip Girl Career and Current Projects (75:05 - 87:29)
Transitioning from Gossip Girl, Chace discusses his role in a new project, presumably a character named "the Deep" on The Boys. He contrasts his experience on Gossip Girl with his current role, emphasizing the comedic aspects and the opportunity to showcase his range as an actor.
Chace Crawford [81:27]: "It was great press for the show when it first came out because no one knew if the show was gonna work."
Chace reflects on the differences between acting in a drama like Gossip Girl and the dark comedy of his current series, sharing anecdotes about set life, fan interactions, and the creative process behind his character's development.
Chace Crawford [83:30]: "It's fun to see you obviously, like back on screen and I feel like you, yeah, your character is like quite hilarious."
Future Plans and Personal Life (87:29 - End)
Towards the end of the episode, Chace shares his personal plans and aspirations, including upcoming trips and family connections. He mentions his sister's marriage to NFL quarterback Tony Romo, highlighting the intersection of his personal and professional lives.
Chace Crawford [82:43]: "She is. Yeah."
Chace also touches upon his ongoing efforts to balance personal life with his career, emphasizing the importance of finding time for family and relaxation amidst a busy schedule.
Notable Quotes
- Chace Crawford [13:03]: "I was born in Lubbock. Small town, Texas. Not much going on out there."
- Chace Crawford [14:15]: "I never wanted to be an actor. I had no idea about acting or any of it."
- Chace Crawford [33:12]: "They all want to see, like, take a photo with, like, Mickey, so you feel like they just come up and hug you, and it's like you're in this costume."
- Chace Crawford [32:37]: "You can't be present all the time. You kind of just kinda unwary about people or phones."
- Chace Crawford [41:20]: "He was owning hotel chains. His was very much skewed. More like, British underground rock scene."
- Chace Crawford [60:49]: "It's a dumpster fire, Alex. It's all dumpster fire."
- Chace Crawford [69:07]: "I am like a closet reader and like kind of a nerd. I do like to be able to have like, kind of, you know, in-depth conversation. Sense of humor is kind of a big one for me."
- Chace Crawford [81:27]: "It was great press for the show when it first came out because no one knew if the show was gonna work."
Conclusion
In this engaging episode, Chace Crawford offers listeners an intimate glimpse into his life as an actor navigating fame, personal relationships, and self-growth. From his humble beginnings in Texas to the glitz and challenges of New York City, Chace’s candid reflections provide valuable insights into the life of a young Hollywood star. The conversation not only highlights his professional journey but also underscores the importance of mental health and meaningful connections in the often turbulent world of fame.
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