Call Her Daddy – Heidi Klum: Sorry He Didn’t Pick You (FBF)
Host: Alex Cooper
Guest: Heidi Klum
Release Date: October 17, 2025
Episode Overview
In this vibrant, candid throwback episode, Alex Cooper welcomes supermodel and TV personality Heidi Klum for a fun and fearless deep dive into her life, career, family, love life, sexual confidence, Halloween obsession, and much more. Overflowing with empowering advice, laugh-out-loud moments, spicy anecdotes, and heartfelt reflections, the conversation showcases Heidi’s unapologetic authenticity and zest for life. If you want to know what it really takes to blaze your own trail, tune in for major energy, hilarious confessions, and wisdom that feels like the most glamorous pep talk of your life.
Key Topics & Discussion Highlights
1. Heidi’s Iconic Voice and Family Dynamics
- [02:00] Heidi jokes about her "annoying" high-pitched voice and how it commands attention in her household:
“With this annoying voice, I never have to say anything twice. It just pierces through the whole house.” (Heidi, 02:23)
- Alex reassures Heidi that her accent and vibe are lovable, not annoying.
- On parenting: Heidi’s daughter sometimes finds her embarrassing, especially when it comes to social media and attending events together.
2. Being German & Cultural Nostalgia
- [04:22] Heidi shares what she misses about Germany:
- Her family ("apart from my parents, my brother"), “the occasional sausage” and “different kinds of potatoes.”
- Playful banter about "German sausages" leads to racy but lighthearted jokes.
3. Marrying a Younger German Man
- Heidi on her relationship:
- Despite being 16 years older, she and her husband share a background, culture, and childhood references.
- “We have the same kind of understanding. It’s just different.” (Heidi, 05:30)
4. Modeling Origins & Industry Challenges
- [06:40] Heidi recounts being discovered at 18 after a long televised modeling competition, winning 300,000 Deutschmarks (about $150,000).
- Transition to international modeling:
- Faced persistent rejections for not fitting “heroin chic.”
- Was told to lose weight and “skip a meal” but stuck to her love of food and being herself.
- Struggled in fashion capitals, found more commercial success in catalogs in the US, and eventually proved doubters wrong by landing major magazine covers.
5. Confidence, Body Image, and Upbringing
- Heidi credits her body confidence to her upbringing:
- "My parents were running around nude in the house… I never had that shame." (11:19)
- Talks about going to nude beaches and never feeling embarrassed about her body.
- Alex: “That’s such a healthier approach… I wish we could get better at that as a generation.” (13:02)
6. Nudity, Tanning, and Family Dynamics
- Heidi’s openness with nudity sometimes embarrasses her children when friends come over.
- “I just don’t love tan lines.” (14:03)
- She and her husband are comfortable with nudity privately; her kids are more reserved.
- They riff on tanning, SPF, and the pressures of anti-aging culture.
7. Career-Defining Moments & Pushing for Opportunity
- [21:23] Heidi describes her “I made it!” moments:
- Breakthroughs with Sports Illustrated and Victoria’s Secret—she pushed her agents to send her even when they doubted her chances.
- “You cannot always listen to all the people telling you what you are and what you’re not. You have to always do what you want to be.” (Heidi, 21:53)
8. Victoria’s Secret Days: Camaraderie, Competition, and Wild Stories
- Heidi loved the big wings and found the VS fashion show exhilarating:
- “I would actually be upset if I had small wings. I always wanted to wear those silly wings!” (Heidi, 24:10)
- Backstage: Joked about being "Tidy and Hyra" with Tyra Banks, and how initial competition turned to friendship.
- Fan encounters: sometimes bizarre, including stalkers and public indecency (“People were like, jerking off…” (27:44)).
9. Rapid Fire: Fun, Awkward, and Sexy Confessions
- Most awkward celebrity moment: going speechless meeting Joaquin Phoenix.
- Wildest place for sex: “In the airplane… in the water at night in a beautiful place.”
- Daughter’s roast: Leni found Heidi’s “sex closet” as a teen and told friends it was a microphone (31:02).
- Surprising Halloween party moments: guests arriving in full king-sized mattress costumes.
- Craziest fan: Someone put their “wiener in the popcorn box.”
“All of a sudden, I was like, there was more in the popcorn box as it was sitting on his lap.” (Heidi, 42:03)
10. Halloween Queen
- Favorite costume: “Really old.”
- She became “90 or 100,” inspired by public comments about her age.
- On creativity: “I always try and think outside the box… I want people to be like: What the heck is it?” (Heidi, 36:04)
- Most expensive costumes: She’s never made a dollar from Halloween, spending everything for “the art of it.”
11. Sexual Confidence & Relationships
- Rates herself a “9” on the freak scale.
- Approachable about sex toys:
- Favorite: The wand—“It’s very thorough in its...” (47:04)
- Suggests her “worm” Halloween costume could make a good vibrator.
- On passion with her husband: “I just need to look at my husband.” (41:31)
- On cheating and heartbreak:
- Details a past relationship where she was cheated on for four years; describes gut instinct and recognizing one-sided love.
“It doesn’t matter how hard you love someone; it doesn’t make them love you the same way back.” (Heidi, 55:24)
- Advises women: When you sense the imbalance, believe your gut and walk away.
12. Age Gap in Love & Dealing with Public Scrutiny
- Addressing criticism of her being 16 years older than her husband:
- “Two middle fingers up on my end… What is it to you who I’m with?... He didn’t pick you. Get over it.” (Heidi, 51:45)
- On protecting mental health:
- Turns off Instagram comments to avoid negativity and “barfing from morning to night” (54:20).
- Prefers to hear feedback from those close to her instead.
13. Knowing When to Move On & Reinvention
- Talks about leaving Victoria’s Secret after realizing it was time for the next chapter.
- “You close one door, you open another. I always have another goal, another thing I’m interested in.” (Heidi, 61:55)
14. Music, New Projects & More Fun
- Discusses collaborating with Tiësto on “Sunglasses at Night”:
- “If you don’t tell people, how are they going to know these crazy ideas in your head?” (Heidi, 63:13)
- On America’s Got Talent:
- Simon Cowell is “soft” despite his persona; funny stories about working with him and seeing wild acts at auditions.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
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On Confidence:
“I always was going to the beat of my own drum…” (Heidi, 09:07)
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On Family & Nudity:
“My parents were running around nude in the house. We would go to FKK beaches… I never had that shame…” (Heidi, 11:19)
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On Career Gatekeepers:
“I want them to tell me I’m not good enough, not you to tell me I’m not good enough.” (Heidi, 21:40)
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On Halloween:
“I've never made a dollar on Halloween because I don't do this for making money. I do it because I love creating the art of it." (36:30)
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On Relationships:
"It doesn't matter how hard you love someone, it doesn't make them love you the same way back." (55:24)
"When you have someone who really continues to see you and do everything for you the same way, that's the most important thing." (44:13) -
On Social Media Judgment:
“He didn’t pick you. Get over it.” (Heidi, 51:52)
“There’s so many people that are just barfing from morning to night and I’m just not down for it.” (Heidi, 54:20) -
On Letting Go:
“If you have a question, that’s already not a good start.” (Heidi, 60:30)
Timestamps for Essential Segments
- [02:00] – Heidi on her voice and household chaos
- [04:22] – German food nostalgia and playful sausage banter
- [06:40] – Winning the German modeling contest & moving to the US
- [09:02] – Not fitting “heroin chic” & determination to succeed
- [11:19] – Body confidence roots and nudity at home
- [21:23] – Sports Illustrated & Victoria’s Secret breakthroughs
- [24:10] – Victoria’s Secret wings, competitiveness, and powerful moments
- [27:44] – Wild fan stories
- [39:44] – Jessica Rabbit, Halloween costumes, and bedroom roleplay
- [41:31] – Turn-ons, popcorn box story, and sexual confidence
- [51:45] – Age-gap relationship and social media critics (“two middle fingers up”)
- [55:24] – Hard lessons in love and knowing when to let go
- [61:17] – Knowing when to move on from work and relationships
- [62:20] – “Sunglasses at Night” single with Tiësto
- [66:25] – America’s Got Talent, Simon Cowell, and audition madness
Tone & Takeaways
- Tone: Bold, witty, breezy, deeply honest—Heidi is unfiltered and magnetic; Alex brings warmth, curiosity, and humor.
- Major Takeaways:
- Stay true to yourself, regardless of outside opinions—professionally and personally.
- Confidence is cultivated by upbringing, community, and continual choice.
- Go after what you want; don’t let others tell you what you can or can’t do.
- Don’t be afraid to walk away—from jobs, relationships, or negativity.
- Life’s about having fun, pushing yourself, and loving without apology.
In short: Heidi Klum’s episode is a masterclass in unapologetic living, body confidence, and going after your wildest dreams while laughing at life’s oddities. Daddy Gang, get your sunglasses—this vibe is bright as hell.
