Saweetie: Blocked Numbers & Birkin Bags (FBF)

Summary

Call Her Daddy – Saweetie: Blocked Numbers & Birkin Bags (Throwback Episode)

Podcast: Call Her Daddy
Host: Alex Cooper
Guest: Saweetie
Original Air Date: January 9, 2026

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Overview

In this vibrant and revealing episode, Alex Cooper sits down with rapper, entrepreneur, and “Icy Girl” phenomenon Saweetie for an unfiltered conversation about self-worth, quirky food cravings, holiday traditions, career resilience, love languages, exes, and much more. The episode moves seamlessly between playful banter and raw vulnerability, offering insight into Saweetie’s personal journey, her approach to fame, relationships, and what it means to define success and self-love on her own terms.

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Key Discussion Points and Insights

Saweetie’s Iconic Nails & Holiday Spirit

• Nail Art as Expression:
  • Saweetie details her glittering, chrome holiday nails, sometimes spending up to 8-10 hours getting intricate designs done, multitasking in meetings during the process.

    "It's like drawing a mural on your fingers." (Saweetie, 02:35)

• Christmas Traditions:
  • Growing up Filipino, Christmas was central in her family, full of karaoke and food.
  • She loves decorating (prefers the inside for coziness) and, as a child, opened presents on Christmas Eve.

Food Quirks and Childhood Memories

• Unusual Food Pairings:
  • Hot Cheetos on sushi, spaghetti with ranch—as a kid she even ate butter straight from the fridge!

    "So when I was a little girl...I used to sneak into the fridge and eat butter by itself. My mom caught me and said, 'If you keep eating that, you'll turn into Chucky.'" (Saweetie, 06:43)

  • Saweetie normalizes food experimentation, reminiscent of childhood comfort and family dynamics.

The Birth of “Saweetie” and Public Persona

• MySpace Origins:
  • Her rap name “Saweetie” stems from her grandmother’s nickname and a MySpace rebrand.
  • Early experience coding her profile gave her creative confidence and highlighted the roots of digital self-branding.
• Relationship with Grandmother:
  • Her grandmother predicted her business success, buying the Saweetie.com domain and supporting her long-term vision.

Navigating Public Scrutiny and Self-Identity

• Media Pressure:
  • Saweetie reveals how negative press and rumors affect her family, particularly her grandmother.
• Emotional Resilience:
  • Early on, she coped by disassociating her public persona from her real self, Diamonte. Now, she’s accepted herself fully:

    "Now I'm just so at peace with just who I am. I'm like, God knows my heart." (Saweetie, 10:56)

Energy Management and Emotional Intelligence

• Staying Unbothered:
  • Saweetie rarely “pops off” on people, preferring to conserve her energy and channel it positively. She describes this calm as her “superpower.”
• Handling Conflict in Relationships:
  • She discusses choosing not to react or retaliate, and instead reframing energy exchanges (16:21–18:18).

Hustle Before Fame: The Craigslist Era

• Pre-Fame Housing:
  • Saweetie candidly shares how she found stable, affordable living arrangements on Craigslist, staying with random but kind roommates in LA while pursuing her dreams.

    "If someone's super eager for you to rent their room, that's a red flag." (Saweetie, 20:00)

Love Life, Career Focus, and Sexual/Creative Energy

• Dating “My Career”:
  • While Alex inquires about romance, Saweetie playfully claims that her “partner” right now is her career.

    "I am seeing somebody...Their name starts with a C...my career." (Saweetie, 21:12–21:26)

  • Insightful discussion on the relationship between sexual and creative energy—sometimes it’s better to be collaborators than lovers.

Reflections on Past Relationships & Exes

• Empathy for Exes:
  • Saweetie prefers to maintain positivity with exes, separating herself from any pain and acknowledging unhealed trauma on their end.

    "A lot of men have unaddressed trauma...they project it on their partners." (Saweetie, 24:53)

• Qualities in a Partner:
  • Emotional intelligence takes precedence over wealth or physical attributes.(26:15)

On Types, Patterns, and Blocked Numbers

• Proximity over Type:
  • Addresses why she’s dated rappers—mostly due to her environment, not a real “type.”
• Blocking Exes:
  • Saweetie is frank about her use of the block button to maintain boundaries:

    “I'm a big blocker. Send you a paragraph and block your ass. And I want to see them bubbles popping up so I know that you try to…” (Saweetie, 39:13)

Gifting and Birkins

• Keeping Exes’ Gifts:
  • She keeps meaningful or custom gifts, including a customized Birkin bag sent before she even met a suitor in person—a display of her “player partner’s” unique love language.

Cheating, Discovery, and Growth

• Worst Cheating Discovery:
  • Iconic, hilarious story about using a boyfriend’s offered phone password (while he was accusing her of cheating at New Year's) to reveal he was cheating with multiple women—with the receipts found by searching assistant text threads and key words.

    "But I knew it was like a sickness, because it was like, all types of women." (Saweetie, 45:38)
    "I always add ADD humor to my pain." (Saweetie, 47:15)

  • Lesson: People project their own guilt. She’s since grown; cheating is now a definite dealbreaker.

Career, Vulnerability, and What’s Next

• Artistic Growth:
  • Taking time to drop her album allowed her to find her voice and focus—evolving from “Icy Girl” to being in her “diamond era.”

    “Through all this pressure...it's pressurized me into this diamond that's ready to shine.” (Saweetie, 51:46)

• Acting Ambitions:
  • Next up: Saweetie wants to be in an action film, channeling her athleticism and love for strong heroines.
• Biggest Misconception:
  • Many are surprised by her depth and kindness when they meet her, often expecting a more one-dimensional “hype girl” persona from her music.

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Memorable Quotes & Moments

• On Artistic Integrity:

  “I'm very peculiar. So I have to be very involved with everything. Otherwise, I'll get the final product and be like, we gotta change this, this, and that.” (Saweetie, 13:06)

• On Love:

  “Some people I’ve dated, we’d have been better off as creative partners. Sexual energy and creative energy come from the same place.” (Saweetie, 22:40)

• On Breaking Up:

  “Once I’m done, I’m done...Except for when they show up at the hotel.” (Saweetie, 38:50)

• On Being Unapologetically Herself:

  “Now I’m just so at peace with just who I am. I’m like, God knows my heart. And as long as God knows my heart, there’s no problem.” (Saweetie, 10:56)

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Important Timestamps

• Nails & Christmas Culture: 01:54–04:41
• Food Pairings (Hot Cheetos, Spaghetti & Ranch): 05:16–06:43
• Origin of ‘Saweetie,’ MySpace & Grandma’s Influence: 07:41–09:54
• Negative Press & Disassociation: 10:20–11:26
• Emotional Resilience & Artistry: 11:45–13:06
• Craigslist Roommates & Pre-Fame Struggles: 18:49–21:00
• Love Life–Dating “Career”: 21:12–22:18
• Creative vs Sexual Energy: 22:40–23:48
• Breakups, Blocking & Exes: 37:55–39:54
• Birkin Gift Story: 40:21–41:43
• Cheating Discovery (Iconic Story): 42:01–47:38
• Album Evolution & Diamond Era: 51:46–52:16
• Action Movie Goal: 54:16–54:41
• Biggest Misconception: 55:01–55:27

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Tone & Vibe

The tone is candid, warm, unapologetically feminine, and supportive, with plenty of vulnerability, laughter, and life lessons. Alex Cooper sets a safe, fun environment where Saweetie’s multidimensional personality shines. There’s an undercurrent of empowerment, self-reflection, and celebration of women’s complexity.

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Recap Takeaway

This episode beautifully humanizes Saweetie beyond her public persona: she’s a self-aware, quirky, deeply resilient artist who navigates fame’s challenges with empathy, humor, and grace. Listeners come away feeling inspired to own their growth, embrace their quirks, and set boundaries—knowing that even “Icy Girls” get their feelings hurt, but diamonds are forged under pressure.

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For fans and new listeners alike, this episode is packed with memorable anecdotes, honest confessions, and empowering wisdom to carry forward into your own “diamond era.”

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What is up, Daddy gang? It is your founding father, Alex Cooper with Call Her Daddy. Saweetie. Welcome to Call Her Daddy. Hey, girl. Finally.

[C]

Finally.

[B]

It's, like, inappropriate that it took this long for us. You know what I mean? You came to my tour and you went so fucking hard. The Daddy gang was taking their tops off for you, screaming for you. Oh, you didn't see that Upper balcony titties?

[C]

Really? I thought, that's right. Pretty titty committee.

[B]

And I had the best time with you. And I was saying to you earlier, like, everyone was like, so we don't get a fudgeing episode? And I'm like, it's coming, it's coming, it's coming. How are you today?

[C]

I'm good.

[B]

You look amazing.

[C]

You look amazing.

[B]

Can we talk about your nails? I feel like you're, like, very known for going hard with your nails. What inspired these nails today? And when I say these, I'm also talking about your toenails.

[C]

Well, I always get bling on my feet. I've been wearing white toenail polish since, I don't know, my 20s. I need, like a. A white polish nail deal. Any other color. My feet look weird.

[B]

I do feel like no one can go wrong with white toenails, but you have more than, like, white on your feet, Saweetie. That's like glitter crystals. I wouldn't be surprised if that's a motherfucking diamond down there.

[C]

It's chrome. It's and some diamond.

[B]

How long does it take to do these nails?

[C]

It can range. Sometimes it's two hours, sometimes it could be eight to 10 hours. If it's like freestyling, like custom art, paint and then jewels. It takes time. It's like drawing a mural on your fingers.

[B]

What the fuck are you doing for 10 hours, girl?

[C]

I try to have meetings. I try to, like, multitask during my nail appointments just so I can, like, get things done.

[B]

I am like the opposite, where I'm like, if I'm putting on like a fake nail, if it takes more than an hour, I'm like, I gotta go. They're like, but we haven't finished your last nail. I'm like, I don't care. I have. I am, like, so impatient when it comes to my nails and looking at you say, I'm like, and those are not press ons.

[C]

But what inspired these is I shot two Christmas music videos and I needed to get into the. The holiday season. So these actually have snowflakes on them and a reindeer.

[B]

We. Are you a big Christmas person?

[C]

Yes, I'm Filipino. Like, Christmas is such a big deal in our culture.

[B]

Okay. Because I always, whenever someone's coming out with Christmas music, I'm always like, hold on. Are you as obsessed with Christmas as me? Because I go so hard. Like, what do you do? Oh, I turn to my husband every single year and I'm like, it's September. And he's like, we are not getting a tree, Alex.

[C]

And I'm like, okay, real trees are fake trees.

[B]

I have a real one in my living room. And I go so fucking hard. Because, like, the minute fall happens, I'm ready for fucking Christmas. And I want to, like, edge towards Christmas. I don't want just December to be Christmas. Like, I want the whole fall experience to be leading up to the main event, if that makes sense. So my entire house I'm decorating. But last year I didn't do the outs inside of my house. Like, do you do your house?

[C]

I just do inside my living room.

[B]

Okay. Yes.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

You're like, making it cozy.

[C]

Yeah, making it cozy.

[B]

What is your favorite Christmas tradition?

[C]

Christmas Eve with my family.

[B]

What do you do?

[C]

Like, we open up presents that night. Not on Christmas day.

[B]

Oh.

[C]

But like, my favorite childhood memories would be like, my mom's mom cooking Filipino food. Hella food. Doing karaoke. And then at 12 o', clock, we'd all open up our presents.

[B]

I always used to be like, please let us open our presents on Christmas Eve. And my mom would be like, one, and then I was always, like, the freak that was, like, trying to, like, open them and then rewrap them at night. No, I was. I was like. So my mom was like, well, then you're not getting out of your presents. But I was like, I'm obsessed, and it's just, like, the best time. Wait, speaking of food, I'm swerving, but I have heard that you like a lot of, like, different concoctions of food that maybe some people would be like, wait, that's gross. Can you talk to me about some of the things that you're pairing together that are, like, random but good in your opinion?

[C]

Okay, so do you like sushi?

[A]

Of course.

[C]

Okay, so, like, for a tuna roll, okay, I'll get hot Cheetos, and I'll smush them up, and then I'll drizzle them over the tuna roll.

[B]

That's brilliant.

[C]

It's actually really good.

[B]

But are you bringing the Cheetos into Nugget?

[C]

Only if I, like, do some postmates in the house.

[B]

Yeah, you're all, like, smuggling.

[C]

Smuggling in some hot chee.

[B]

You got your big purse, and you wait for the waiter to walk away, and you're literally, like, sprinkling. Not know, though, Like, I'm not mad about it. Okay, so cheetos on top of sushi. I've read. Is this true? Spaghetti with ranch.

[C]

Finally, a rumor. That's true.

[A]

Stop.

[B]

When is the first time you tried that?

[C]

Honestly, I grew up doing that. Like, that was so second nature to me. So when I. I had posted it the first time online, I thought nothing of it. And then I was trending, like, an hour later, and I'm like, why is this causing such a frenzy?

[B]

You're like, I've been doing this since I was born.

[C]

Yeah, since I was born.

[B]

I think also, when you're a child, like, you do some stuff that, like, people. I. I don't know. It's like, I guess, like, however you grow up. Right? But, like, this is kind of fucking disgusting. And I wouldn't do it now, but, like, I'm pretty sure when I was younger, I put. Oh, this is gross. I'm pretty sure I put ketchup on my mashed potatoes.

[C]

Hmm. Wait, but it's like a French fry. That's where. That's where it comes from, period. Wait, would she want to hear something nasty?

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

So when I was a little girl, in the middle of the night, I used to sneak into the fridge and eat butter by itself. And one day I got caught by my mom, like, Red handed, like, with a whole bunch of butter girl. She scared the crap out of me. She was like, if you continue to eat that butter by itself, you're gonna turn into Chucky. I promise you. I never touch butter again.

[B]

Shut the fuck up. No, you're just raw dogging it, like, and biting into it, sweetie. I know something's wrong with me. You're literally like. Like going in with your teeth.

[C]

Yes.

[B]

Would you ever smooth it out so no one saw it in the morning, or were you just leaving it like a little chicken?

[C]

No, I was. I was going in in the middle of the night as a little kid.

[B]

I. I mean, listen, butter is. Look at us, just fully talking about food. We're gonna talk about food the whole episode. No. Okay. Your legal name is Diamante.

[C]

Yes.

[B]

Girl, does everyone in your life call you that or do they call you.

[C]

Saw people call me Diamante.

[B]

What do your best friends call you?

[C]

It depends.

[B]

Tell me.

[C]

It depends from what era they met me at. Okay, so my childhood best friends, they'll call me Dee Dee. My middle school friends will call me Saweetie because that was my MySpace name. And that's where I had got Saweetie from. Like, my MySpace was so popping. I'd be at, like, high school parties where I'd be at, you know, walking to school, and they'd be like, are you Saweetie from MySpace? And. Yes.

[B]

What the fuck were you doing on MySpace, bro?

[C]

I was coding the fuck out of my page. I was, you know, in the middle of the night, sweaty, finding all the codes, girl. I was a nerd, so my MySpace was, like, very aesthetically pleasing.

[B]

Stop. You were a coder from day one.

[C]

I was a coder from day one. Not even knowing that I was coding. Girl, she got paid for that?

[B]

No. Gen Z has no fucking idea. Like, if you missed the MySpace era, changing the backgrounds, getting your new songs.

[C]

Hiding your song or hiding your song that nobody knew about, you know?

[B]

Oh, my God. And so people literally just knew you because you were fucking cool?

[C]

I mean, I guess.

[B]

Okay, wait, but before. Now take me back. Before you start your MySpace, where do you get the name Saweetie?

[C]

My grandma. Yeah.

[B]

How did she give you that name?

[C]

She would just call me her sweetie.

[B]

That's so fucking cute.

[A]

Yeah.

[C]

And then I was signing up for MySpace, and at the time, I didn't really, like, like my name. How I love my name now, only because people wouldn't pronounce it right. So I was like, I don't want to, like, put it up. And then people just don't know how to pronounce my name. So I was like, I need some flash. But then I don't want it to be, like, basic. So I put the A between the S and the W, and the rest was history.

[B]

Who knew then one day that would be, like, your global name that the entire world knows you as and not just, like a MySpace community.

[C]

But you want to know what was even crazier is I had started, like, a business, a hat and a T shirt business. And my grandma was like, I know you're going to be a big businesswoman one day. I know that you're going to need your name. So she bought Saweetie. Like, she bought me the website Saweetie. Like, when I was like, I think. I think I was like, 18 years old, 17 or 18 years old, she was like, I know you're gonna, like, do something, so let me just get this for you because as a businesswoman, you're gonna need to trademark it.

[B]

That, like, gives me chills just because, like, it seems like you obviously had, like, a pretty great relationship with your grandmother.

[C]

Yeah, she's everything to me.

[B]

Is she still with us?

[C]

Yes, girl. She's. She's 70 going on 21.

[B]

What does she think of your whole career now?

[C]

She has mixed emotions. Okay? She loves it, but when she hears, like, the negative press, it stresses her out. But she's a preacher, so she goes to, like, war for me in prayer. She's like my prayer warrior. So she's constantly praying for me.

[B]

What do you think stresses her out the most? And, like, what could be negative about you?

[C]

I think that the fact that she knows that some of the. The rumors aren't true, and she's just like, why don't you say anything? Like, this isn't who you are. And I'm just like, it's just only going to make the story bigger. So I choose not to address certain things because I don't want to add fuel to the fire. And the best way to get rid of something is to ignore it. So she just like, yeah, but, you know, I know my baby, and that's not my baby right there. So, yeah, she just be going through it sometime.

[B]

But how did you decide, like, at what point in your career where you're like, do not give a fuck what people say about me because it's easier said than done.

[C]

I have two answers for this. Okay, so the first half, I would say in the. Earlier on in my career, I would say I would just disassociate myself from saweetie. Because there's Diamante and there's sweetie. I'm like, okay, if y' all knew diamante to know me and to love me, y' all wouldn't be doing all this shitty stuff to me. So at first it was disassociation, but now I'm just so at peace with just who I am. I'm like, God knows my heart. And as long as God knows my heart, there's no problem.

[B]

Sweetie, why are you getting emotional? Because it took so long to get here? Tell me about that. What do you mean? Like, you're talking about, like, your journey to get here. Oh, man, you're making me cry, girl. Should we take a water break? We went from fucking cheetos in the motherfucker.

[C]

I don't know why that just made me feel that way.

[B]

Because I think that when you are someone that is. You know yourself, like, and what it took and everything, and then you read, like, the. And it's such bullshit. You're like, wait, this is what I'm getting reduced to right now? Like, I mean, I could be speaking out of turn. Like, I don't know if that's your experience, but exactly. It's hard to be like, guys, oh, my gosh, no.

[C]

I told myself I wasn't going to do this today.

[B]

Here we are, one on the clock on a Monday. Without getting too detailed, I'm thinking, obviously, of, like, if someone is listening, that's like, becoming a new fan today. Or, like, knows you, but it's a little. Like, what the are you guys talking about? Can you lightly just explain a little bit of what we're talking about? Like, are we talking romantic? Are we talking friendship? Are we talking work beef? Like, I think it's everything.

[C]

Because as a public figure, all parts of my life in those categories are exposed.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

But I think what I get the most sensitive about is my art. Because I'm like, y' all don't know how much I put into this shit, you know?

[B]

I think it is important, though, to recognize, like, especially with artists, so much goes into it, because it's a huge part of you.

[C]

Absolutely.

[B]

Like, you're clearly someone that's not just being handed a script and being like, wear this dress like this. Sing like this. Like, this is you.

[C]

Yeah, I'm very peculiar. So I have to be very involved with everything. Otherwise, I'll get the final product and be like, we gotta change this, this, and that. And then it takes away more time. So I'd rather just be Hands on From the from the Gym.

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[B]

When would you ever pop off on someone? Like when are you gonna actually like, what does it take?

[A]

Never.

[C]

I never want to go off on somebody because the thoughts that I think are outrageous. Sweetie. Yes. No, my thoughts and I just did my like my Vedic astrology chart. Okay. And then that in that system my moon is a scorpio. So it just lets you know like where my mind can go. So I'm like don't with me for real.

[B]

So you're always this calm.

[C]

I try to be because I just know. I know myself.

[B]

I can. Like, staring at you right now. You're so, like, even keel, like, calm. Like, it's nice. It's, like, relaxing, actually, to, like, being around you, But I'm trying to envision you, like. Like, what it takes for someone to, like, push you over the edge, but you rarely let it get to that point. No, because then they also win.

[C]

Yeah. Also. Yeah, let's talk about that, too. It's an energy exchange, and it's just, like, I'd rather alchemize the energy, like, take it and then use this energy for something else. Like, I don't want to give that back to you.

[B]

I feel like that sometimes in romantic relationships, it can be hard not to go tit for tat and be like, you did this and I did this. But I feel like you've kind of gotten to a place where clearly you're like.

[C]

Interestingly, it's weird because sometimes it's like they want a response out of you. They don't even appreciate the. The growth.

[B]

No. And it, like, annoys them when you're like, no. When you're like, okay. And they're like, wait, what? What the fuck? I literally just called you an xyz, and your response is, no, you doing it right there. I can only imagine.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

That must drive people insane.

[C]

I mean, it's kind of a superpower.

[B]

I'm. I'm not as strong as you. I. I, like, I. I feel the same way sometimes with my words, where I'm like, I could kill you with my words. And I. I think I. When I was younger, in high school and in college, if someone came for me or my friend, I almost felt, like, worse when I would see my friend, like, someone coming for them, and I knew they wouldn't speak up for themselves. So then I was the friend that was like, hold on, let me get the in here, and I'm gonna say something. But then I also realized, like, who is that helping in that moment? Like, I don't know. I feel like sometimes I felt like being, like, loud and taking charge and putting the person down would, like, make me feel better. But, like, you're just getting riled up, and they're just happy that you're engaging at the same level as them, where really, when you're like, what are you doing? They're literally like. And they're screaming and they're being insane, and you're like, what are you good? Oh, man, they want to die. They Want to crawl into a hole. They're like, oh, my God. Wait, wait. So I think it's. I agree. The energy level can be interesting in the way that you interact with someone. Can, like, like, heavily dictate. Also the way that you leave someone feeling about you.

[C]

Absolutely. And it's taken me a while to get here.

[B]

Yeah, yeah. It.

[C]

I wasn't always this, like, poised when it came to my reaction, so trust me, like, if. As long as you work on it, like, you'll see yourself evolve.

[B]

Yeah, yeah. Your career took off after you released the song Icy Girl.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

And it's all about wealth and luxury, but obviously that's not how your life looked your whole life. I remember reading you were saying you would go on Craigslist.

[C]

Yes.

[B]

And stay. How did that come to be?

[C]

So you know when you get an apartment, you have to do first and last. First months and last month's rent.

[B]

Yes.

[C]

And I was like, oh, we got money for Facebook. So I was like, okay, how do I. How do I find a loophole? And the loophole was Craigslist. Because when you're running or subletting a room from somebody, you're only just paying for your portion of the rent, and it's their name on the lease, so. Thankfully, I've had some cool roommates. My two favorite. Oh, my gosh. Bless this old lady's heart. There was a. There was an older lady in Studio City, and she had a guest house, and I stayed in. I stayed in her guest house. And then there was another woman who I stayed with in Sherman Oaks. Her. I think her roommate was. Had to go back and renew his visa. So I had subletted his room, and I was just, like, being blessed with all these good roommates that were clean, nice, respectful.

[B]

I was about to say, you can have some, like, horror stories. I feel like, for roommates.

[C]

Well, honestly, you have to trust your gut. Like, I'd go see some places, and I'd be. I wouldn't, like, mess with the energy, and I'd be like, I gotta go.

[B]

You, like, knew immediately.

[C]

I knew immediately. And also a red flag for any people who do do it. Anybody who is super eager and pressing you to rent a room, I wouldn't trust that. Yeah.

[B]

That is good advice.

[C]

Yeah. I don't know why, but when you're. When you're thirsty and eager to, like, have a stranger come rent a room, like, I don't trust that personality trait.

[B]

Yeah. You're like, why are you desperate?

[C]

Yeah, why are you desperate?

[B]

Like, I. I want I want to work for a little bit.

[C]

I don't know that something. Just be off a little bit.

[B]

That is, like, beautiful to know, though, that you had, like, a positive experience with that. Because it's weird in life when you, like, get matched up with people that you would probably would have never met.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

And then that, like, has a lasting impact on you. And at such, like, a pivotal time for you where you were, like, looking for a home and trying to get to the next step of your career and to have someone be so beautiful and, like, lovely towards you.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

That completely changes the dynamic. As opposed to if you went with one of the fucking freaks that was like, come on, come on, come on.

[C]

Exactly. Tonight.

[B]

Exactly.

[C]

That's the vibe.

[B]

Like, where would I be if I took that offer? Let's talk about your love life. What's happening? Are we seeing anybody? Are we in a relationship? Are we single?

[C]

I am seeing somebody. Yeah.

[B]

Talk to me.

[C]

Their name starts with a C. I.

[B]

Thought you're going to say their name.

[C]

Do you want to know their name? Kind of my career girl.

[B]

Sweetie. No, not me being like, oh, my God. Fuck, she's really down today. You're like, Christian. Blah. Damn. Okay. You're dating your career.

[C]

Yeah. Intentionally.

[B]

When did you get off the sauce?

[C]

What does that mean?

[B]

Like, when did you be like, I'm not. I'm. I'm getting off of men for a second. I'm not dating.

[C]

I just feel like I'm at a really special time in my career, and I just have all these ideas, and I want to channel my. My energy in a way where I feel like I can make the steps to where I see myself going. And, you know, I'm just really happy right now. I'm happy where. Where my life is heading. So I'm dating my career.

[B]

I love that answer. I think that, like, needs to. I wish that was more of my answer when I was younger, because I think sometimes we naturally feel like, wait, do I need to get back out there? Like, is it weird that I'm not dating? And it's like, no. I think you need to go through, like, long periods of time where you can decide what your focus is. And I think that's, like, amazing that you're focusing on your career.

[C]

And then also, let me say this. I feel like some people who I've dated in the past, we would have been better off as creative partners. There was this TikTok. You know, sometimes TikTok be having the information girl. There's this woman, and I wish I knew her handle, because I'm so grateful for this wisdom she had provided. But she was basically saying that sexual energy and creative energy comes from the same place. And when you confuse the energy, you can sometimes, you know, make, I wouldn't say the wrong decision, but you can lean in more into the sexual energy, but then that ruins the creative energy because you've already depleted the energy.

[B]

That's such a good point. Anyone that ends up have, even if you're not in your specific industry, like, people listening, like, I get it. There's so many people that write into me about, like, work relationships. And I get what you're saying, and that's a great tick tock because it's like the way that you can feel when you complete a project or you get to the next level of your career, or you guys go to a presentation and you crush it. It's like that. That feeling of like, oh, we. We have to rip our clothes off. And it's like, no, no.

[C]

It's a different way of finishing.

[B]

I love you. What if we were dating? What is it like to date you?

[C]

Well, I don't know.

[B]

If all of your exes were in this room right now, what nightmare?

[C]

I wonder what that conversation would be like.

[B]

What do you think they would all say? Is there a. A theme?

[C]

A theme? Oh, my gosh, girl, you have to ask them.

[B]

Would that be happy vibes or like bad vibes?

[C]

If exes were in this room, I think happy vibes.

[B]

Really?

[C]

Yeah, because, like, I don't really, like, no matter what happens, I like girl, I just be happy. I'm a hap. I'm naturally just a happy person. So I'd be like, damn, you did some shady shit. But I'm like, my energy is so disconnected from you that I can. I can not associate myself with what happened between us and just look at you as a regular human being.

[B]

Oh, that's so nice. I think a lot of people wish they could feel that way. Like they could not get so wrapped up in. You hurt me. And you did this to me. And like, how dare you? Like.

[C]

But also something we have to unpack too, is a lot of men have unaddressed trauma that they don't face, and they project it on their partners. So sometimes I'd be thinking about stuff and I'd be like, what happened to you in your childhood?

[B]

No, actually, no.

[C]

Right. So then it makes me look at what they did to me because I know that they really love me.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Like, I know that. So I'm just like, you Got some things to unpack. You should probably handle that. Yeah. Because if you were to handle that, then we probably would have worked out.

[B]

It's such a mature way to look at things. Like, essentially, also what you're saying is, like, it has nothing to do with you. And that's, I think, hard for people sometimes to accept. Like, if someone is listening to this and just got cheated on, and you can't help but sometimes think, like, what did I do wrong? Or, what did I not give them? Or what? And it's like, most of the time, it literally has nothing to do with you, which is a weird thing because you almost, like, want to be able to pinpoint in yourself what you could change so it never happens again. But half of the time, it's literally on the other individual. Like, you were doing great.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

You were thriving, sweetie.

[C]

Right. And I knew that I was a good girlfriend. So it's like, I'm like, something wrong with you.

[B]

I like that answer. Okay. In one of your songs, you describe your type as someone who makes eight figures and is eight inches. What other qualities do you look for in a partner?

[C]

Somebody who has high emotional intelligence.

[B]

Moment of silence for that ones. We're like, come to us. We're summoning you. You suck. Get wee more.

[C]

Girl.

[B]

But legit. If they don't have that, I agree with you. But how do you even get to the point where you can figure out, like, are they a sweet talker or are they actually, like, with it emotionally that they can hang with me?

[C]

Honestly, just experience. We have to experience a unique situation, and that tells anybody how somebody is.

[B]

Yeah, that's true. Like, the honeymoon stage can be so easy. Daddy gang. Like, you can be like, oh, love the sex, the conversations. And then you hit, like, one bump in the road. Someone has a problem with family or finances or insecurity, jealousy. And all of a sudden, how do you guys handle that?

[C]

Right?

[B]

It's a good point. Okay, it seems like you have a type. Do you. Do you know? Do you know what I'm gonna say? What do you think your type is, girl?

[C]

What's my type? You said you brought it up. You brought it up. It's your show.

[B]

Rappers.

[C]

Okay, let's talk about it.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Okay. So, for example, if you're out of high school, right, you tend to date. I mean, high school or whatever. Let's just call it whatever the proximity is.

[B]

Yes.

[C]

You're gonna date what you're around.

[B]

Yes.

[C]

And I think that's why I found myself in those situations, because these are the only people that I'm around, however, you know, I'd like to go to a new environment. Ain't nothing wrong with that.

[B]

Do you think you would venture out?

[C]

Well, me and my career is doing just fine right now, so.

[B]

You know, I like that answer though, because I think there's nothing wrong with a type. And I also think it's.

[C]

But I wouldn't even call it like a type.

[A]

A type.

[C]

I think it's just because of the proximity of where I'm always at. These are the people who I'm only engaging and seeing, you know?

[B]

Yes. I remember like back in the day I would talk about how I had a pattern. Pattern is better than a diet. What can you be like? No, it was just like a little pattern. I had a pattern of dating athletes.

[C]

How is that, by the way?

[B]

So. Oh, dating athletes. Yeah, you know, it's. It'll you up, but it'll make you. It's just, it depends actually what sport too.

[C]

Okay, what's the difference? So let's break it down for Icy Gang and Daddy.

[B]

Yeah, yeah. Okay, so baseball players, Okay. I find that they are sometimes the sketchiest.

[C]

Really?

[B]

Because they're on the road. They have 160 something games a year.

[C]

Okay.

[B]

So they're on the road at all times.

[C]

Okay.

[B]

And they're playing so many games where, as opposed to football, it's like 16 games. And like they're not allowed to have girls in the hotel room. It's super strict for football. It's like we got 16 games. Bear down and focus.

[C]

Right.

[B]

Baseball, it's like another day, another game. And so it's kind of more of like a relaxed environment. So there's road beef in every city. We got Minnesota road beef. We've got Miami road beef. And they literally like call it road beef.

[C]

What's road beef? Women.

[B]

Oh, world beef.

[C]

Oh, hell no.

[B]

You so were the like.

[C]

And I remember, well, at least be some wagyu beef.

[B]

No, no. But just to confirm, I am the wagyu. Some ground beef, taco meat?

[C]

No.

[B]

So in college, I remember I was dating this guy and I would be around his single, like baseball athletes. And the way that they would talk about it was so concerning because it was just like every city there was a different rotation because I think it's like they're just on the move and they're looking like. It's almost like when you're in a bubble, whether you're like, it doesn't even feel like real life. When I was like living that life with them like they're just. Every fucking day is the same. Groundhog Day. They wake up, they go to the field, they come home, they have a drink at the bar, they meet the girl, they go to sleep, they do it the next day in the same fucking city. So I would say baseball players are like lethal.

[C]

They seem so clean cut.

[B]

No, I never date soccer players because that didn't really do it for me. And hockey players, great, great butts, no teeth, great butts. And they're kind of. I thought they were better than baseball players. Really still players, but like a little nicer.

[C]

I've never been attracted to athletes.

[B]

That's probably for the best.

[C]

But then again because like I come from a family full of athletes. So it just always feels like, like. Like you, my cousin.

[B]

Like, you know, I don't want to fuck my cousin.

[C]

Yeah. So I've never. Cause I never talked to an athlete.

[B]

Really?

[C]

Never.

[B]

I think you also wouldn't have time for them. It's so on their schedule. And I think you have such a busy schedule. You've got to be very available for an athlete. Like you got to be up and ready to pick up and go their life. And you don't have time for that.

[C]

No, girl, I literally. I mean, you know this. I shot until like 4 in the morning last night.

[B]

And now you're here.

[C]

And now I'm here.

[A]

Listen, I know it's freezing out there. I know the sun is setting atrociously early. I get it, okay? But hear me out. Just because you have to throw on a couple extra layers does not mean you can't live your best lives and crack a few claws with your friends.

[B]

Do you hear me, Daddy gang?

[A]

Okay? That means snuggling up in a booth at your favorite dive bar, warming up in the crowd of an epic concert, or having your friends over to watch sports. Listen, seriously, the best winter nights are.

[B]

Really just about doing something together.

[A]

And guess what I'm going to be.

[B]

Holding when I'm doing that?

[A]

A claw.

[B]

Thank you, White Claw.

[A]

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[B]

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[A]

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[B]

I have been so focused on planning for my business, and Shopify, as you guys know, has always been such a huge part of it. New Year's is really the moment. Everyone is reflecting and resetting and writing their story. And January, I feel like, is about turning that energy into action. And Shopify makes that first step easier than ever. You guys know how I feel about Shopify. They have been with me since I left Barstool, and I took all my merchandise out on my own, and Shopify immediately became my partner, and they basically saved my business.

[A]

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[C]

I have made the first move before.

[B]

And is that like, you going up to them and approaching them, or are you. What's.

[C]

What are you walking up 10 toes down?

[B]

And what are you saying? What? With me, sweetie? Let's reenact it.

[C]

I mean, it just depends.

[B]

Okay. Okay. It's like the vibe and the setting, but you're totally down to go up someone. Yeah, I love that. Like, if you see something, go for it.

[C]

Absolutely.

[B]

What is the boldest way that you've ever put yourself out there for a guy? No.

[C]

Okay. This is high school. Okay. High school. Okay. Actually, in high school, I talked to an athlete. Yeah, there we go. But after high school. No, done. I remember it was my senior year, and I had a crush on this boy, and I was like, dang, I only got one more year to see him on campus.

[B]

The clock is running out.

[C]

The clock is running out. You know, he was like, I was big in volleyball. I was doing my thing, and he was playing football, and we had a, like, an athlete room where, like, the football players would come review their tapes. And then we played during the same season. So, you know, the volleyball girls would come in there, and it felt like One big family. But I was like, how do I, like, get him? Because he was shy.

[B]

Yep.

[C]

Girl. So it's rush week. So I go. And I was like, I have a plan. So me and my plan get together and it's lunch, and we're all sitting in the room, and finally I'm like. I tap him. I'm like, oh, somebody wants to go speak to you outside. He was like, who? I was like, you know, like, probably one of the organizations. It is rush week. And he was like, okay. Because, you know, sometimes they'll recruit and if you weren't an athlete, you couldn't come into the room.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

It was, like, taboo. Like, heavily frowned upon. So we walk outside and we start walking. And he was like, who was it? And I was like, me.

[B]

What did he say?

[C]

He started laughing.

[B]

It's kind of like really, really forward. And I love it.

[C]

He started laughing and he goes like, why? And I'm just like, because I wanted to talk to you.

[B]

Did you end up going on a date? Hooking up? We, like, falling in love.

[C]

We started to go to each other's games. I mean, everybody was already going to the football games because they were winning that year. And then they were already coming to the volleyball games because you know how the football players gotta practice. Yeah. But we, like, intentionally started going to each other's games to, like, support each other. And then we would go to, like, In N Out afterwards. Because, like, that was like, the high school club open until 1am in the morning on the weekends. But, yeah, I would go over to his house and his family would cook for me. I would do my homework over there.

[B]

So it worked out. Oh, well, not worked out, but I mean, like, oh, what happened? Did he cheat on you?

[C]

No, I got bored, so I had to break up with him.

[B]

You got bored?

[C]

Yeah. I was like, I think we'd be better off as friends.

[B]

Shout out, wherever you are today, we love you.

[C]

But I was honest.

[B]

You were?

[C]

Yeah, I'm very straightforward. If I feel like something's not working out, like, I'll tell you. I feel like we're not working out.

[B]

Okay. What is the craziest thing an ex has ever done to you? Give us a fucking story. Come on, sweetie. Come on. This is. Call her Daddy.

[C]

Bitch.

[B]

Craziest thing. Go.

[C]

This actually has happened to me twice. I don't know where men get their information, but I've had, like. I've broken up with people and they found me. What?

[B]

What does that mean?

[C]

Wait, like, they'll show up to my hotel and be like, room service.

[B]

Shut the up.

[C]

Yeah, it's happened to me twice. Room service and what the cherry on top is. They try to make their voices high pitched. They go, room service.

[B]

If only there was a camera outside that room of them, like, girl.

[C]

But I know, but. But then it's like they cover the pico.

[B]

Do you let them in?

[C]

I did, I did. I'm like, dang, you found me. You find me.

[B]

You're like, somehow you're spinning it. You're, like, kind of romantic. You put in the work. You found me. How have you been someone to historically get back with exes or once you're done, are you done?

[C]

I feel like once I'm done, I'm done.

[B]

Except for when they show up to the hotel.

[C]

I feel like those were like mini breakups.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Like, it was like we were going through something. I might have blocked them. It probably was like a couple days or a couple weeks. Yeah. And I'm just like, it's like a soft breakup, you know? Not a hard breakup.

[B]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Are you a big blocker?

[C]

I'm a big blocker. Send you a paragraph and block your ass. And I want to see them bubbles popping up so I know that you try to.

[B]

I'm obsessed. How long? Because I'm assuming then you unblock.

[C]

I've unblocked before, but there's people who are still on my blacklist. It's been years.

[B]

Oh, and you don't even wonder?

[C]

No, I don't.

[B]

Cuz I think that I remember I had a friend that, like, we would always talk about this back in the day when I was in my blocking phase, and she would always say, like, I don't know how you block people. Like, I need to see what they're gonna say. Like, it's so interesting to me, and I'm like, really? Like, I kind of want it to just. Just fade into the abyss.

[C]

I love that. Go to the abyss.

[B]

I kind of don't know what you're gonna say. And, like. And then you can kind of like, create what you think they would say in your head. But I kind of don't want to know.

[C]

Right.

[B]

Okay. Wow, you're hitting paragraph, then block. Hit a genius. What is your stance on keeping gifts from an ex?

[C]

It really just depends.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

You know, like, if It's a custom 101, I'm keeping it custom.

[B]

One of one.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Like, what is a custom one of one that you have?

[C]

You know, it's a couple things. Jewelry, Jewelry, purses.

[B]

Purses. What's the nicest bag of guys ever.

[C]

Bought you, I would say a customized Birkin. And he sent it to me before I met him.

[B]

What I don't have. I'm so. I'm. I'm a very talkative person. I don't have words.

[C]

Yeah, it was like some player. It was my birthday. I was single, and, you know, we were, like, casually talking, and he was like, what's your address? Isn't your birthday coming up? And I was like, yeah. Like, oh, that's nice. He's gonna send me flowers. What's funny is, so my birthday passes. It's a week. My maids have cleaned, you know, my condo. And he hits me up, and he's like, so, did you like your birthday present? And I'm like, I never got it. And he goes, it should have came in this kind of box. So then I text my maids, and they're like, oh, yeah, we put the box in the guest room because we didn't know what it was. So I open up the box, bitch.

[B]

I hit that group chat. You're like.

[C]

I was like, oh, my God. It was nice.

[B]

How long after then, did you meet him in person?

[C]

Oh, for a while.

[B]

What?

[C]

Yeah, I was working a lot.

[B]

You got a whole ass Birkin before meeting a man. You have the voodoo clam. He didn't even meet you, and he knew. But how long did that relationship go? Too long or short?

[C]

I wouldn't even say it was a relationship.

[A]

Interesting.

[C]

No, it was just like, my player partner.

[B]

Like, did he gift you a lot of things?

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Red flag. No, because, like, you own it.

[C]

No, I think. I think that might have been his love language, you know, Interesting. Like, I didn't see it as, like, oh, he's a trick, or he's this, like. I really appreciated his gifts. They were very, like, thought out the.

[B]

Amount of women watching this that are like, note to self. Find a man whose love language is customized Birkins. Okay. Worst way that you found out that you've gotten cheated on before.

[C]

No.

[B]

She almost up and left the room. She just got up. Oh, my heart must.

[C]

Oh.

[B]

Oh, hold on. If you're listening to this, not watching, Saweetie basically just levitated into the air and flipped. Flipped off the chair.

[C]

Oh, let me take a little sippy sip.

[B]

Oh, my God. No. Bad. No.

[C]

Oh, my goodness gracious. I just spilled my water on me, y'.

[B]

All.

[C]

I need a napkin. Aaron, can you please that reaction.

[B]

Holy Jesus. Jesus Christ.

[C]

Okay, okay. So I remember I was talking to this guy, right? Okay. And it was new Year's, and I was like, oh, my gosh. Like, I'm just so happy to see this person. And we go out for New Year's. It's a great night, and we go back to the hotel. I'm like, oh, my gosh. This is the most perfect New Year's ever. Like, we're out of town. It's just like the vibes were vibing. You could feel the energy in the streets. Like love was in the air. It's the new year, new me. It's like all these great things happening, and I'm just like. If I felt like I was in a movie. So we get back to the hotel, and I remember I had got a call from, like, a childhood friend. And when I had picked up the phone, I put it on speaker because I had nothing to hide. And I'm like, oh, Happy New Year's. He was like, happy New Year's. I love you. Like, you've been killing this shit. Like, keep going. Da da da. So I'm like, you too. Like, love you too. Happy New Year's. I hang up. He's so, like, drunk that he misinterprets the call and was like, you like, wow. Like, okay. Like, I know that y' all be doing this, this and that, you know, projecting. Like, he couldn't believe that I had a plutonic relationship with this person and this person's my childhood friend. Like, nothing is going on. So he starts cussing me out. He was like, I would never do this to you. He was like, man, you can go through my phone. My code is da da da da. And I go, oh, it's da da da da da da da da da. No, I put the code in my phone. But I'm thinking he's probably just, like, drunk, you know, Right? Nothing. Like, it's not the real code. So finally he goes to sleep, so it's time to investigate, investigate, investigate, investigate. So I'm like, okay. So I. I saved the code, girl. I said. And it goes. You notice the.

[B]

You're like.

[C]

I'm like, wow, that easy, girl. This man has been playing me the whole time. No, but I knew it was like a sickness because it was like, all types of women.

[A]

Really?

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Did you go for the imessages first or the pictures?

[C]

I went. I went to the assistant group chat. I went to the assistant messages because, you know, the assistant set up everything for, like, the man.

[B]

Oh, my.

[C]

Oh. Then I was typing in keywords, like, genius, genius. So I was pulling up all the receipts. Yeah, girl. And I remember I had got so sick, but then so numb that I didn't care because it wasn't like, it wasn't like one person, you know? You know, like, it's not. You're not obsessing over one person. It's like, okay, no, you have the sickness, right?

[B]

Like, this is. You can't stop yourself.

[C]

You can't stop yourself.

[B]

What word did you type into the search bar?

[C]

Girl. Anything that's used.

[B]

You're like, P, U, S, S, Y thousand. Jesus Christ. You're like, no, that's crazy. And so when he wakes up in the morning, what are we doing?

[C]

Girl, girl, girl, girl, girl. Just know a time was had. I'm like, oh, really? You're a tough guy?

[B]

Stop. So, okay, back to the beginning of these. This episode, when I was like, what can get you on a different tilt? Did you enter that? Different tilt is what your girl went.

[C]

To a different dimension.

[B]

Girl, Stop.

[C]

Girl. Girl. Craziest night of my life. My best friend was staying in the same hotel as us. I'm just like. I was like, the audacity. And then what made me, like, I always had ADD humor to, like, my pain. So I'm just kind of like, how dare this boy get mad over a simple conversation? Yet here you are doing A, B, C, D, E, F, G, X, Y, Z.

[B]

You know, that's when it's so crazy because I've had an ex like that where he was cheating, and I, like, he would always get so anxious and say things about me if it was like, the. The most innocent, like, we. I don't even know that person. Like, wait, what? Like, here's my phone. Like, I don't know. And when they're so hard on you for that, eventually you have to be like, well, what the are you doing that your brain is even on that tilt? Because I'm not even thinking.

[C]

But it made me realize that when someone does that to you, it's because that's what they would do. So they're, like, projecting. They're projecting from their experience.

[B]

Yes.

[C]

Yeah, dude.

[B]

How long did you stay in that situation then?

[C]

Did you leave?

[B]

Did you leave that day? It's okay if you didn't.

[C]

No, but let's just say, yeah, girl, we were out of town, and yeah, girl.

[B]

H. I have never had someone answer a question like that. And yet it says so many words. Okay, wow. So it ended eventually, though. Yeah, it ended clearly.

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[B]

Where do you draw the line of forgiving someone when you find out they cheated?

[C]

Honestly, I was younger, so like I. For me it was like, oh, this is definitely a deal breaker. But you know, when like you're in love with somebody, it's just kind of like, okay, well I can't just delete you out of my life like this.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

But right now, like in my adult years, like, it's definitely a deal breaker for me. And in that moment, I think I would like tell that person, like, you probably have to figure out why you're doing this.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You know, that makes sense. When it comes to your music, what is fair game of like writing songs about people that have screwed you over or you've been in love with? Like, where do you draw the line?

[C]

I think I. I keep it ambiguous.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Yeah. And I feel like from my album I am going into deeper subjects and I'm really excited about that. That I feel like I'm in my diamond era. Like I've what I came in as an icy girl, but through all this pressure that I placed on myself and all the pressure that I've experienced with the industry, I feel like it's pressurized me into this. This diamond that's ready to shine.

[B]

I love that for you. Obviously. I know you have been teasing an album for a while. When can people expect it to come out?

[C]

Definitely next year.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Why was it so important for you to wait to release it?

[C]

I feel like I finally know myself.

[B]

Okay.

[C]

Like, when I felt like I was constantly in this weird transition phase, especially with recording, like, what am I even talking about? But with who I am now, I know what my public messaging is.

[B]

Okay, Christmas songs. We need to talk about this. I'm in my car, Mike. Oh. Oh. And like we said at the beginning of this episode, I love Christmas. You love Christmas. Talk to me about deciding to do these two Christmas songs. Like, how did you decide to do this?

[C]

Well, you know, I love Icy Season, cuz I'm an icy girl. And it's just like, I got to give something to the Icy gang this winter. So I wanted to create like two songs that really spoke to the two different sides of Christmas. I got Big Santa where I'm like, big daddy, what you getting me? And then my other Christmas song is a little bit more, you know, softer. It's like catered to you vibes, like, not only like, what can you give me? But what can I give you?

[B]

Oh, my God, sweetie. It's good. Like, everything that you do and put out all of your music is such a vibe. And I think, like, again, I'm happy I got to talk to you today for a longer period of time than just like meeting you on tour. But, like, watching you on stage at my tour was such a spiritual experience, truly. All of us were like, holding hands and gripping each other, being like, she's insane. Even to the point where my team had texted me when you were in soundcheck, being like, oh, this is going to be the best yet. Like, you guys don't even know. You're so talented and you have have such a presence on stage and just like, as a person that I think is so exciting to see what you're going to obviously continue to do. But, like, I'm obviously so excited for the album and, you know, we. We want it, Saweetie. We. We want it. I want to ask just because I know obviously your fans are going to be watching this. Like, what is one goal that you have for yourself coming up in this new year and like, your career that you want to, like, share with your fans?

[C]

I want to be in an action film like a Tomb Raider or like a. Like a Colombiana. Oh, something with just action. Because I really love, like doing stunts. And I'm A sporty girl.

[B]

Right.

[C]

But I love a good heroine.

[B]

That is the last thing I expected. And yet, like, I can see it. Wait, are you, like, gonna make that happen?

[C]

I would like for it to happen. God. Do you hear me?

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Like, here we go. Anybody watching this in Hollywood? Hello up. Wow.

[C]

And I audition too. I'm not one of those people where feel like, well, I feel like I can just show up and get the role. Like, I'll be sending in audition tapes.

[B]

Yeah, I guess, like, last question is like, what do you think? What do you think is the biggest misunderstanding about you?

[C]

I'm not sure what the collective thinks because everybody has their own opinion. But one thing that I do get a lot is that when people meet me, they say that they didn't expect it. I guess they, like, that's.

[B]

It's a.

[C]

It's a common response that I get. But it's for the better because they'd be like, wow, like, the compliments are different. But for some reason, there's been a disconnect with who I am and what my perception to, like, the world is.

[B]

Yeah, that's interesting because I, I guess, like, I agree and disagree. Like, when I listen to your music, it's so confident. Like, you put this on, you're like, I'm gonna feel good when I'm listening to your music. And I think everyone feels that way. And it's. It's like a experience that you literally feel in your body where you're like, oh, yes, like, I'm about to pop my pussy tonight. Let's go. And then meeting you, you are a multi dimensional person. Like, you're not just the person that's hyping everyone up. Like, you have this, like, sweet, sensitive side that I'm like, meeting today. And I met in Oakland. And I think that's something that we don't get to see as often with artists because understandably, like, we're listening to music, but when we are so fortunate to get to also get to know the personality behind the music. I have found through my job, and it's my favorite part of my job when I meet someone and they are a little bit different than maybe the main public Persona that's being pushed. Because I think it's, again, just shows people, like, like, we don't know everything. Like, you can listen to a song and think that people know you. You can go listen to one of my episodes and be like, oh, she's this one way. But understandably, like, I'm going to be different when I'M having a fun episode versus when I'm talking about, like, trauma and you know what I mean? Like, we show up in different ways for different moments of our life. And I feel like you're such a beautiful person.

[C]

Thank you.

[B]

That I'm so happy that I got to sit with you because I didn't know as much about you as now. I. I am happy to know and, like, I love you. I think you're, like, such a great vibe. And I'm so happy that we've gotten to connect on this level, because I don't. I. I like sitting with people and getting to know them more. And you're amazing.

[C]

No, thank you. And today, like, I realized why you're number one.

[B]

Stop.

[C]

Yes. This was such a comfortable, safe, and fun experience. Girl, you almost had me crying in the beginning.

[B]

You almost had me crying.

[C]

I was heaving. I was like, hold on, don't drop a tear.

[B]

No. I really appreciate you going there with me, though, because again, like, everything we see online, it can come off as fake. And I think when you get to do long form like this, you actually get a chance to, like, start to finish. Like, people now are going to understand you more. Not that you need to give that to them, but, like, you're a great person, so why not?

[C]

So. Thank you.

[B]

Oh, my God. Sweetie, we did it. Thanks for coming. And call our daddy.

[C]

Thank you.

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