Turns out the sexiest things aren't always sexual.

In this episode of Come Curious, we're diving into the unexpected, surprising, and sometimes downright bizarre things that make people feel attracted, connected, and turned on.

From fresh bed sheets and gardening to emotional vulnerability and conflict resolution, we're exploring the green flags, personality traits, and everyday moments that can spark desire in ways we never expected.

We discuss:

Why emotional vulnerability can be incredibly attractive
The appeal of emotional regulation and healthy communication
Acts of service and why chores can become foreplay
Competence, confidence and professional attraction
Eye contact, direct communication and feeling desired
Nature, scent, fresh sheets and creating an erotic atmosphere
Listener submissions about accents, singing, oral fixations and more

We also share some personal life updates, including navigating parenthood, balancing work and childcare, and our recent visit to Parliament to discuss the shadow-banning and deplatforming of sx workers, educators and LGBTQ+ creators on social media platforms.

Because attraction isn't always about bodies or sex.

Sometimes it's about feeling safe, understood, supported or watching someone confidently reverse a car into a parking space.

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