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Today we sat down with the incredibly wise mental health expert, author, and radio personality, Dr. John Deloney. With a passion for helping people thrive in their relationships, John tackles various questions from callers live on his podcast, “The Dr. John Deloney Show.” We brought some of those unique and challenging questions onto this episode and included additional questions sent in by our audience! After spending over twenty years in crisis response and finding real solutions and freedom in his own wellness journey, John knew he wanted to help as many people as possible heal from their past trauma and live whole, connected lives. We think he’s doing an amazing job at this and we hope this episode is enlightening! :) Follow our podcast Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/shawnandandrewpods/ Subscribe to our newsletter ▶ https://www.familymade.com/newsletter Follow My Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Shop My LTK Page ▶ https://www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast Andrew’s Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en (00:01:00) let’s get this chat started!(00:02:04) we call him dr. neighbor(00:04:19) how did you get interested in investing in family?(00:06:33) what revelation have you had because of marriage?(00:07:38) never dating anyone else again and cultural lies(00:10:06) is marriage worth it?(00:15:40) can you fix the fear of being left?(00:18:53) infidelity is more than “cheating”(00:21:56) “i see a whole picture of you, are you okay?”(00:24:13) how do i discern if someone is checked out?(00:27:07) “just pick up the towels”(00:29:06) how do you know when you are ready to commit to serve in a marriage?(00:37:58) who can serve who the best?(00:38:57) us vs. them and the ugly of that(00:41:48) the meaning of the word “faithful”(00:48:59) rapid-fire questions from our listeners(00:52:39) how to navigate "trigger trauma ping pong"(00:56:11) how to support a spouse who struggles with depression(00:58:06) advice for toxic mother–daughter relationships(00:59:19) phone vs. marriage(01:00:34) my kids are in a dad phase… not a dad phase(01:02:53) intimacy feeling like a requirement #Marriage #Relationships #ShawnAndAndrewPods

Today we interviewed the host of the Netflix series How to Get Rich , three-time bestselling author and financial expert, Ramit Sethi! Ramit answered some questions you all sent in about your finances and we honestly learned a lot from him ourselves! Ramit’s latest book, “Money for Couples” helps couples talk about their finances without stress or conflict and teaches them how to build a rich life together. Ramit is so passionate about helping people live their best lives, despite the amount of money in their bank account, and his passion for what he does is contagious. Let us know what you learned in the comments below! Love you guys! Shawn and Andrew To learn more about Ramit Sethi https://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/ To get Ramit’s latest book “Money for Couples” https://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/books/ Beam Kids is now available online at https://www.shopbeam.com/COUPLETHINGS Take advantage of our exclusive discount of up to 40% off using code COUPLETHINGS Subscribe to our newsletter ▶ https://www.familymade.com/newsletter Follow our podcast Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/shawnandandrewpods/ Follow My Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Shop My LTK Page ▶ https://www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast Andrew’s Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en (00:00) why we wanted to chat with ramit (01:15) let’s get into it! (01:29) should i stop getting daily coffee? (04:52) when paying off debt, do it in small amounts or all at once? (09:44) are points on a card marketing? (13:20) merging finances — are there pros and cons? (16:27) thoughts on prenups (21:30) how many credit cards and bank accounts does ramit have? (25:00) tech stack for financial organization and partner roles (26:48) should everyone have an investment account? (28:35) wisest way to approach investments... (33:02) “i’m going to go broke!” (36:00) team rent or buy? (40:26) the magical word “equity”! (42:56) perspectives on owning vs renting (45:06) perspective on money after having kids (48:13) monthly couples finance meeting (51:04) why do you care about money?

We loved catching up with John!!! Our conversation bounced between light and deep—covering everything from the chaos of his love life to the raw, honest truths about addiction, depression, and the road to healing. Of course, we somehow ended up laughing every other minute. We also talked about his upcoming comedy tour and everything there is to look forward to!! It was vulnerable, hilarious, and everything in between. Hope you enjoy! Love you guys! Shawn & Andrew You can find John's tour dates, book and more here! ▶ https://johncristcomedy.com/ Follow John ▶ https://www.https://www.instagram.com/johnbcrist/ Beam Kids is now available online at https://www.shopbeam.com/COUPLETHINGS Take advantage of our exclusive discount of up to 40% off using code COUPLETHINGS Subscribe to our newsletter ▶ https://www.familymade.com/newsletter Follow our podcast Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/shawnandandrewpods/ Follow My Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Shop My LTK Page ▶ https://www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast Andrew’s Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en (00:00) meet our funny best friend 😂 (01:12) personal shame and its power (03:48) reducing false narratives, people pleasing, and approval seeking (10:54) the range rover (12:22) am i good now after doing all of that? (14:23) are comedians filled with pain? do the jokes help you heal or cope? (19:15) everyone needs something, everyone needs some support… (22:12) “at least you’re crying, but you’re on a yacht.” (24:02) talented kids, overdriving parents, and “trauma” memories (32:17) finding your moving sidewalk (35:15) thoughts on “creator comedians” and the drug of attention (39:26) delete that and tour

In this episode, we got to hang out with Sahil Bloom—entrepreneur, investor, author and all-around deep thinker—to chat about his new book, The 5 Types of Wealth. Spoiler alert: wealth isn’t just about money! Sahil breaks down the five types of wealth and shares why focusing on all of them (and not just your bank account) leads to a richer, more fulfilling life. If you’ve ever felt like you’re chasing success but missing the mark, this conversation will help you get back on track! Sahil is so inspiring and we love how open he is about his own personal struggles to get to where he is today. We hope this episode encourages you to wake up tomorrow and invest in what really matters! Love you guys! Shawn & Andrew Order Sahil Bloom’s Newest Book ▶ https://a.co/d/3xhbG5H Sahil’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/sahilbloom/ Beam Kids is now available online at https://shopbeam.com/products/beam-kids-greens-superpowder?utm_medium=sponsorship&utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=couplethings&code=applied15&discount=COUPLETHINGS&variant=41465486508087 Take advantage of our exclusive discount of up to 40% off using code COUPLETHINGS Subscribe to our newsletter ▶ https://www.familymade.com/newsletter Follow our podcast Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/shawnandandrewpods/ Follow My Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnson Follow My Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnson Shop My LTK Page ▶ https://www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnson Follow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEast Andrew’s Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=en #SahilBloom #Wealth #Book #TransformYourLife #Empowerment (00:00) meet sahil bloom (00:50) let’s begin (02:22) why self-help (05:54) how can you convince people that it isn’t about monetary success (09:30) finding balance while maintaining agency over your life (12:01) the power of 30 days (13:46) showing up when the rewards are uncertain (17:26) there is no quick fix (21:52) viewing freedom in terms of responsibility (29:17) is structuring your life bad (33:34) what do you hope people take away from “the 5 types of wealth” (34:40) what success looks like to sahil (36:26) advice from people in their 90s (38:23) how do you see yourself (43:11) how did having a kid change your life (46:50) how are you viewing your future (49:16) best piece of daily advice (51:30) how to view planning

Today we sat down with the incredibly wise author, husband, dad and pastor, Darren Whitehead! Darren’s latest book, THE DIGITAL FAST: 40 Days to Detox Your Mind & Reclaim What Matters Most, has been transformative in helping people live in the present and form healthier habits with their screens. We loved this conversation and it left us feeling inspired to live in the “here and now” and try our own digital fast! Who’s up for the challenge?! Let us know in the comments!! We love you guys,Shawn and AndrewFollow Darren on Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/darrenwhitehead/?hl=enGet Darren’s Book “The Digital Fast” ▶ https://www.amazon.com/Digital-Fast-Detox-Reclaim-Matters/dp/B0CQD95HG6Follow the Couple Things Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/couplethingspod/?hl=enFollow My Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/ShawnJohnsonFollow My Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@shawnjohnsonShop My LTK Page ▶ https://www.shopltk.com/explore/shawnjohnson Like the Facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/ShawnJohnsonFollow Andrew’s Instagram ▶ https://www.instagram.com/AndrewDEastAndrew’s Tik Tok ▶ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewdeast?lang=enLike the Facebook page! ▶ https://www.facebook.com/AndrewDEast