How do you grieve someone you don’t even remember?

Musician Simon Robert French lost his father when he was just two years old — too young to form real memories. Growing up, he was surrounded by stories, photos, and home videos of a man who shaped his life, yet someone he never truly got the chance to know.

In this episode of DEAD Talks, Simon joins David Ferrugio to explore the complicated reality of grieving a parent you can’t remember. They discuss childhood loss, identity, mental health, and how music became Simon’s way of processing a grief that had quietly shaped his life for years.

This conversation explores how grief doesn’t only come from the memories we have — sometimes it comes from the memories we never had the chance to make.

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DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio approaches death differently. Each guest shares raw stories of grief, loss, or unique perspectives that challenge the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn’t end—it evolves. After losing his father on September 11th at just 12 years old, David discovered the power of conversation. Through laughter, tears, and honest dialogue, DEAD Talks helps make it a little easier to talk about death, mourning, trauma, and the life that continues beyond it.

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How Do You Grieve Someone You Can't Remember? Simon Robert French (#252)