Decisions, Decisions – Episode 426: No Holes Barred
Release Date: June 24, 2025
Hosts: Mandii B and WeezyWTF | Produced by The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts
1. Celebrating Their New Book Release
In this landmark episode, Mandii B and WeezyWTF celebrate the release of their highly anticipated book, "No Holes Barred." Recorded amidst their hectic travel schedules, the hosts express immense pride and excitement about this pivotal moment in their careers.
Mandii B shares, “[01:08] **We’re literally on the day of recording. This is one of the biggest days of our entire careers.” This sentiment underscores the significance of their book launch and its impact on their professional journey.
2. Early Book Visibility and Recognition
The hosts recount the surreal experience of seeing their book prominently displayed in a Calabasas bookstore, [01:37] Weezy remarks, “Tell me why Calabasas put our motherfucking book on the shelf early.” This early visibility not only validates their efforts but also ignites a wave of excitement and pride as they see tangible recognition of their work.
3. Cannes Lions Dinner and Eva Longoria Interaction
A highlight of the episode is their attendance at a prestigious Cannes Lions dinner, where they mingle with influential figures like Dolly, Charlemagne, Malcolm Gladwell, and Questlove.
During the dinner, an unexpected and memorable moment occurs when Eva Longoria engages with their book:
WeezyWTF recounts, “[05:11] Eva catches his eye and embraces him, later expressing admiration for their work by reading a passage aloud: 'Thump, thump is the sound of my heart pounding after I've come.'” This interaction not only elevates the book’s profile but also provides a heartfelt endorsement from a celebrity.
4. Deep Dive into Book Content: Pleasure and Pain
The conversation shifts to the content of "No Holes Barred," with Mandii and Weezy dissecting key themes and chapters.
WeezyWTF explains, “[51:11] Our chapters on pleasure cover topics like masturbation, being a unicorn on vacation, and anal sex, emphasizing the importance of embracing personal desires without societal constraints.”
Mandii B highlights the safety aspect in their book, stating, “[55:00] 'Surrounding yourself with a supportive community is crucial for a safe and fulfilling pleasure-seeking journey.'” This balance between pleasure and safety underscores the book’s comprehensive approach to modern relationships and sexuality.
5. Travel Tales and Resilience
The hosts share their adventurous and, at times, challenging travel experiences, particularly their trip to Cannes. WeezyWTF narrates a harrowing flight cancellation ordeal:
WeezyWTF says, “[28:40] Our flight was canceled at 2:30 AM, throwing 300 passengers into chaos. Navigating the Atlanta airport’s complexities, I managed to secure a spot on the next premium flight without extra charges.”
Mandii B complements this story with her own mishaps, illustrating their resilience and positive outlook despite setbacks:
“I was stuck with a flat tire and late for my flight. Instead of succumbing to frustration, I chose to stay positive: ‘Fuck it. Life is good. The book comes out tomorrow.’” [70:51]
6. Exploring Berghain: The World’s Best Club
Mandii and Weezy dive into their adventurous visit to Berghain in Berlin, renowned for its stringent door policies and vibrant nightlife.
Mandii B describes the club’s atmosphere: “[34:02] It’s a five-story warehouse with an intense, free-for-all vibe. From door guardians with intimidating appearances to eclectic crowds, Berghain is unlike any other club.”
WeezyWTF shares his experience getting inside, emphasizing the importance of energy and presentation: “[36:34] The door guy, Sven, decided to let us in based on our vibe alone. Inside, the club’s uninhibited environment challenges conventional club norms, blending music, fashion, and raw energy.”
Their vivid descriptions offer listeners a glimpse into the unique and often exclusive world of Berghain, highlighting themes of inclusivity and self-expression.
7. Promoting the Book and Upcoming Author Events
As authors, Mandii and Weezy enthusiastically discuss their upcoming book tour, scheduled across various cities:
- Brooklyn: Sold out event at Word Bookstore.
- Philadelphia: Book signing at Uncle Bobby’s.
- New York: Conversation and signing at Solid State Books with co-author Tempest X.
- Atlanta: Meeting and greeting at 44th and 3rd Bookstore.
- Los Angeles: Signing event at Reparations Bookstore on July 2nd.
Additionally, they announce their participation in the Essence Festival in New Orleans, where they will host a live taping of their podcast and engage with fans:
Mandii B states, “[78:35] 'We will be at Essence Festival on the AT&T Dream In Black stage, joining Kandi Burris and signing books. Don’t miss it!'”
8. Personal Reflections on Growth and Mental Health
The hosts open up about their personal journeys towards self-improvement and mental well-being, aligning with the book’s themes of pleasure, pain, and progression.
Mandii B reflects, “[65:08] 'I’m a work in progress, especially when dealing with depression and anxiety. The book helped me articulate these struggles and find ways to overcome them.'”
WeezyWTF adds, “[68:28] 'Learning to control my reactions and focus on my own growth has been pivotal. The book captures this transformation beautifully.'”
Their honest discussions provide listeners with relatable insights into overcoming personal challenges and embracing continuous growth.
9. Concluding Excitement and Future Plans
Wrapping up the episode, Mandii and Weezy reiterate their excitement about their book and the positive feedback they've received. They encourage listeners to join their book events and participate in the ongoing conversation about authentic connections and self-discovery.
Notable Quotes:
- Mandii B: “[01:08] 'This is one of the biggest days of our entire careers.'”
- WeezyWTF: “[05:11] 'Eva Longoria was flirting with me.'”
- WeezyWTF: “[08:16] 'Pleasure outside of our introduction is where the book starts.'”
- Mandii B: “[55:00] 'Surrounding yourself with a supportive community is crucial for a safe and fulfilling pleasure-seeking journey.'”
- WeezyWTF: “[36:34] 'The door guy, Sven, decided to let us in based on our vibe alone.'”
- WeezyWTF: “[68:28] 'Learning to control my reactions and focus on my own growth has been pivotal.'”
Final Thoughts
Episode 426 of "Decisions, Decisions", titled "No Holes Barred," offers a rich tapestry of personal anecdotes, professional milestones, and deep dives into the complexities of modern relationships and sexuality. Mandii B and WeezyWTF provide listeners with an engaging narrative that not only celebrates their new book but also fosters a space for authentic and unfiltered conversations. Whether you're a longtime fan or a newcomer, this episode is a testament to their commitment to challenging societal norms and embracing genuine connections.
For more insights and to join the conversation, tune in to future episodes of "Decisions, Decisions" and grab your copy of "No Holes Barred" today!