Podcast Title: Decisions, Decisions
Episode: EP 427: Between the Sheets and the Pages Ft. Tracee (The Stacks Podcast)
Release Date: June 30, 2025
Hosts: Mandii B and WeezyWTF
Guest: Tracee, Host of The Stacks Podcast

Introduction and Guest Arrival (00:40 - 01:12)

In this episode of Decisions, Decisions, hosts Mandii B and WeezyWTF warmly welcome Tracee, the host of The Stacks Podcast. Mandii shares how she discovered Tracee through a humorous and relatable clip, emphasizing Tracee's authenticity and literary prowess.

Notable Quote:
Mandy: "I saw this clip of Tracee and I just wanted to talk to her or follow her because the clip was so funny. And then I realized, oh, my God, this does books."
(Timestamp: 01:01)

Navigating Motherhood and Privacy (01:12 - 03:51)

The conversation delves into the complexities of modern motherhood, particularly the challenges of forming genuine friendships among moms who often focus solely on their children. Tracee expresses her desire to maintain privacy regarding her own kids, highlighting the importance of setting boundaries.

Notable Quotes:
Tracee: "There are moms who want to be friends. I don't want to be friends. I have friends and I will ignore."
(Timestamp: 01:49)

Mandy: "How do you know who to talk to about your kids? It's crazy."
(Timestamp: 03:27)

Weezy: "None of my friends talk to me about their kids because I could care less."
(Timestamp: 03:30)

Tracee's Insights on Her Husband's Work (03:51 - 14:30)

Tracee introduces her husband, affectionately referred to as Mr. Stacks, an OBGYN. She shares a gripping story from his days working at a county hospital, where a woman presented with a crack pipe fused in her vagina. This harrowing experience underscores the unpredictable and often shocking nature of medical practice in underserved areas.

Notable Quotes:
Tracee: "A woman came in, she had an object in her vagina. And the police had also come, like, after her. Holy shit."
(Timestamp: 12:46)

Mandy: "What’s the craziest one?"
(Timestamp: 12:55)

Tracee: "They had to do a full surgery. You have to cut because it was fused to the tissue. So it was really bad."
(Timestamp: 13:42)

Personal Stories and Boundaries (14:30 - 21:04)

The hosts share personal anecdotes related to maintaining physical boundaries and the humorous yet awkward situations that arise from them. Weezy narrates a story about accidentally getting makeup sponges stuck, highlighting the importance of cautiousness and seeking help when necessary.

Notable Quotes:
Weezy: "I can't get these fucking sponges out my pussy."
(Timestamp: 19:35)

Mandy: "Can you imagine the knock on that? She’s like."
(Timestamp: 19:47)

Tracee: "How do you really connect the dots with this?"
(Timestamp: 69:05)

The Love for Reading and Book Preferences (21:04 - 32:00)

Tracee discusses her voracious reading habits, averaging 8 to 12 books a month. She emphasizes the diversity of her reading choices, ranging from classic literature to contemporary non-fiction. The conversation touches on favorite genres, with a particular focus on Tracee's enthusiasm for dense, substantial narratives like Count of Monte Cristo.

Notable Quotes:
Tracee: "My real true, most preferred way is actually to have all three [physical, digital, audiobook] going at once of the same book."
(Timestamp: 11:04)

Mandy: "How long did it take you to readNo Holds Barred?"
(Timestamp: 10:22)

Tracee: "I read it in two days."
(Timestamp: 10:27)

Deep Dive into Erotica and Its Evolution (32:00 - 63:35)

The hosts transition into an in-depth discussion about erotica, exploring its history and evolution. Mandii outlines how erotica was marginalized during the Victorian era but gained mainstream acceptance in the 20th century with authors like Kate Chopin and Henry Miller. They also discuss the distinction between erotica and pornography, noting how societal perceptions have shaped their definitions.

Notable Quotes:
Mandy: "Erotica took a hit during the Victorian era... it didn't get mainstream again until the 20th century."
(Timestamp: 51:20)

Weezy: "I used to watch Addicted by Zayn, and the way my mind and pussy work together while I read it..."
(Timestamp: 52:21)

Tracee: "I think erotica and erotic lit also just like to stay on. My theme is interesting because with Booktok now, there's sort of like this reclamation of horny books."
(Timestamp: 61:23)

Interracial Dating and Racial Identity (35:00 - 50:00)

A significant portion of the episode tackles the nuances of interracial dating, particularly focusing on the dynamics between black men and white women versus white men and black women. Tracee shares her personal experience as the product of a black father and white mother, discussing the societal expectations and internal conflicts that come with mixed racial identities. The conversation also critiques public figures like Meghan Markle, questioning societal perceptions of race and beauty.

Notable Quotes:
Tracee: "I'm the product of a black man and a white woman... Loving miscegenation right here."
(Timestamp: 36:11)

Mandy: "We don't really give black people a space to be. Like, I didn't really know."
(Timestamp: 40:54)

Tracee: "I have a lot of thoughts about Meghan Markle... she wishes she could pass. That's what I hate about her because we see you."
(Timestamp: 48:40)

Further Exploration of Erotica and Literary Analysis (50:00 - 63:35)

The discussion returns to erotica, examining its representation in classical literature and modern media. The hosts compare literary erotica like the Kama Sutra and Shunga to contemporary erotica found in romance novels and fan fiction. They analyze how language and descriptive techniques in erotica differ from explicit pornography, highlighting the artistic and philosophical elements that elevate erotica as a respected genre.

Notable Quotes:
Mandy: "The Kama Sutra… it's so much more philosophical than sexual."
(Timestamp: 57:10)

Weezy: "In the book, I talk about how meeting a community of people that viewed sex as art helped to transform my brain to view it that way."
(Timestamp: 60:28)

Tracee: "But a lot of romance books are now bringing in more... like, closed door romance or open door."
(Timestamp: 62:13)

Closing Remarks and Guest Promotion (63:35 - End)

As the episode wraps up, the hosts invite listeners to explore Tracee’s Stacks Podcast and highlight the importance of making literature accessible and relatable. Tracee emphasizes her mission to demystify books and encourage everyone to engage with diverse literary works without feeling intimidated.

Notable Quotes:
Tracee: "I try not to ever let anyone feel like they're too dumb for books."
(Timestamp: 70:40)

Mandy: "Thank you guys for having me. This was fun."
(Timestamp: 71:07)

Key Takeaways

• Authenticity in Motherhood: The episode sheds light on the genuine struggles of being a mom and the complexities of forming authentic friendships in maternal circles.

• Medical Anecdotes: Tracee shares intense stories from her husband's OBGYN practice, highlighting the unpredictable nature of medical professions in underserved communities.

• Passion for Reading: Both hosts express a deep love for reading, discussing their diverse literary preferences and the significance of making books accessible to all.

• Erotica vs. Pornography: A thorough exploration of erotica’s evolution, its artistic merit, and its distinction from pornography, emphasizing the genre's rightful place in mainstream literature.

• Interracial Dynamics: The conversation delves into the societal perceptions and personal experiences surrounding interracial relationships, particularly focusing on racial identity and acceptance.

• Promoting Literary Inclusivity: Tracee advocates for breaking down barriers in the literary world, encouraging listeners to embrace diverse genres and authors without shame or hesitation.

Listener Recommendations:

• Tracee’s Podcast: The Stacks Podcast – Dive deeper into book discussions, literary analyses, and diverse conversations about literature and life.
  Find Tracee at: thestaxpodcast.com and Instagram @thestaxpodcast

• Books Mentioned:

  • No Holds Barred by Mandii B and WeezyWTF
  • Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas
  • Song of Solomon by Toni Morrison
  • Into Thin Air by Jon Krakauer
  • Animal Farm by George Orwell

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