EP. 435: Truth or Dare, Strippers & Red Flags (Ft. Paul Pierce & Azar)

Summary

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Podcast Summary: "Decisions, Decisions" – EP. 435: Truth or Dare, Strippers & Red Flags

Date: August 25, 2025
Hosts: Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Guests: NBA Legend Paul Pierce & Azar

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Overview

This candid, no-holds-barred episode brings together hosts Mandii B and WeezyWTF, basketball legend Paul Pierce, and guest Azar for a deep and hilarious dive into the complex realities of modern dating, sex, “fly-out” culture, double standards, red flags, and boundaries. The conversation widens into race and gender dynamics, vulnerabilities, cheating, and non-monogamy, peppered with the hosts’ trademark humor and unfiltered honesty.
Main themes: Challenging patriarchal norms, exploring truth and vulnerability in relationships, and busting myths around dating athletes, non-traditional sexuality, and relationship “rules.”

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Viral Opinions: Athletes, Women, and Stereotypes

(02:01–07:31)

• Paul’s Viral Take: Paul’s views on why Black athletes date white women (“They appreciate more and they apologize more”) sparked debate.
  • Paul Pierce [02:22]: “They just like, man, it’s just, you know, for them, black women these days are too masculine…"
  • Mandy B [03:11]: “No woman is asking a man to apologize for something he didn’t do wrong.”
• Time, respect, and “options” in modern dating: discussion about lateness, athlete priorities, and whether “ballers” value women’s success.
  • Weezy [04:07]: “Does the baller ever value that he got a lit bitch? ...I don't think men care about that.”
• “Consideration is respectful, whether we are in a relationship or not.” (Mandy B, [05:16])

2. White Women, Self-Respect, and Accountability

(06:34–07:31)

• Azar’s argument: “If we talking about any woman that's gonna sit up and wait for a man for 30 minutes, clearly they don't respect themselves.”
• Paul and Azar sparred over which women “challenge” men to be better.

3. Group Dynamics, Privacy, and Friendship Boundaries

(09:08–12:28)

• Paul expresses discomfort with women being overly social at events, citing past experiences with women “working the room” to enable access/clout.
  • Paul Pierce [10:02]: "It's just like, damn, it's better if you just don't start talking. ...I hate a girl that I'm with just making friends with everybody they just met."
  • Mandy B [10:49]: “I hate a man who's like that too.”
• Privacy concerns: Paul jokes about “not wanting all the girls who sucked your dick to talk about you.” (Mandy B [11:57])

4. Truth or Dare: Sex, Relationships, and Red Flags

(14:08–21:46)

• Paul’s Most Memorable Hookup: Met his now-ex-wife during a wild private jet weekend (“She was a vibe… I was vulnerable… she was with another dude, actually.” [15:42])
  • The “sex on the first night” question: does it ruin or help? Group consensus: for many, true connection trumps rules.
  • Azar [17:41]: “A lot of people I know who got married, ...it’s a connection.”
• Red flags ignored:
  • Weezy [18:43]: Ignoring a party lifestyle and thinking it was for her, not just his M.O.
  • Azar [19:20]: “A man talking negatively always about people he was with, or... his exes... It's a character thing for me...it’s just a matter of time before they talk bad about you. ...It's just not your turn yet.”

5. Fly-Outs, Sexpectations & Consent

(38:09–49:03)

• Ho Me Court Segment: The group dissects a viral story about a woman flown out by an NBA player, only to be left stranded after refusing sex.
  • Legal angles: Player’s attorney recommends removing her to avoid future accusations.
  • Split opinions: Some argued you should know what’s expected when accepting a “PJ (private jet) fly-out;” others say women should always have the right to change their mind.
  • Azar [41:08]: “Shouldn’t we be teaching women...not to be doing that unless you already have a vibe with a man?”
  • Paul Pierce [43:29]: “Sometimes things that’s known need not be said. ... Like, if you jumping on that [private jet], you should know that.”
  • Mandy B [42:11]: “The only answer... is, bitch, you have enough money in your goddamn account to put your ass on a flight home.”

6. Status, Scamming, and the “Roster” Mentality

(25:32–36:33)

• Kyrie Irving’s comment on athlete salaries being public: “it puts a target on your back.” (Kyrie [25:57])
• Paul [29:02]: “The reason they targets, 'cause some girls know this... They will look at the roster."
• Discussion of scam culture in LA—women setting up athletes, “robbing” them after the club.
• The allure and risk of street dudes: Azar and Weezy reflect on past drug dealer boyfriends, fast money, “aging out” of that thrill.
  • Azar [33:09]: “You have too much more to lose.”

7. Non-Monogamy, Threesomes, and Bisexuality

(54:58–74:41)

• Deep-dive discussion: Mandii and Weezy share experiences with non-monogamy, threesomes, and apps like “Field” for open relationship seekers.
  • Weezy [64:00]: “Even if I'm in a super sexual energy, my man hates that I want to take...dates. ...He’d be so bored at dinner, dog.”
• Weezy answers if she’d date a bisexual man — struggles with masculine/feminine dynamics and perception.
  • Weezy [66:09]: “There are a lot of things in my head about masculinity that's not necessarily fair.”
• Azar maintains she would never be in an open relationship; Paul says “it never works” ([74:02]).
• Group explores rules, jealousy, and why most men won’t be direct about their sexual desires.

8. Cheating: Gender, Emotion, and Justification

(61:41–75:29)

• “I think all women cheat anyway.” (Paul Pierce, [61:41])
• Group debates emotional vs. physical cheating (Azar: only “cheated” as a teen, left relationships when feelings faded).
  • Azar [63:13]: “Once I feel the desire to cheat, the relationship is over.”
• Open relationship boundaries: honesty, timing, and the importance of transparency in their dynamics.
• Azar: Would she leave a man who cheats? “Depends on the type of cheat…the level of the relationship…if we built an empire.”

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Patriarchal Dating Double Standards:
  Azar [06:39]: “The white women are not going to challenge you to be a better man either...not going to push you up the hill.”

• On Consent & Fly-Outs:
  Mandy B [42:11]: “Bitch, you have enough money in your account to put your ass on a flight home.”

• On Scamming Athletes:
  Azar [32:05]: “I seen women set niggas up…Take me back to your room...I already have three niggas that are gonna run in the room.”

• On Private Jet Trips:
  Paul Pierce [43:29]: “Sometimes things that’s known need not be said. Like, if you jumping on that thing, you should know that.”

• On Cheating:
  Paul Pierce [61:41]: “I think all women cheat anyway.” Azar [63:13]: “Once I feel the desire to cheat, the relationship is over.” Mandy B [62:00]: “Probably 90% of my homegirls, during our time of being friends, have cheated on a nigga.”

• On Non-Monogamy:
  Weezy [59:00]: “The sex work part of it is really important because then this is literally the sexual experience, because why else are we so irritated about non-monogamy? ‘Cause we don’t wanna lose you.”

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Segment Time Stamps

| Time | Segment / Topic | |-----------|-----------------------------------------------------------------| | 00:35 | Opening banter, “fly-out” culture, viral athlete/white woman take| | 02:22 | Paul’s views spark debate on masculinity & accountability | | 06:34 | Self-respect, waiting for late men, challenging partners | | 10:02 | Privacy, women being “too friendly” in social settings | | 14:08 | Truth or Dare: wild hookups, sex on first night, red flags | | 25:32 | Kyrie & athlete salaries: targets, public pressure, gold diggers| | 32:05 | LA scam stories, setting up ballers, “roster” mentality | | 38:09 | “Ho Me Court”: fly-out ethics, expectations, consent | | 54:58 | Non-monogamy, “Field” app, bisexual men, group sex | | 61:41 | Cheating: emotional, physical, men’s and women’s perspectives | | 74:02 | Open relationships: do they ever work? | | 75:29 | Cheating justifications, betrayal, rebuilding trust | | 80:00+ | Closing: Support, next topics, shout-outs, books |

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Final Notes

• Dynamic & tone: Unapologetically real, blunt, and reflective, mixing informative personal stories with jokes, tough questions, and raw debate.
• Vibe check: Guests and hosts challenge each other but always return to mutual respect, curiosity, and vulnerability.
• For listeners: This episode is a must-hear for anyone curious about modern dating, consent, boundaries, and the changing sexual and emotional expectations in adult relationships—especially among high-status women and men.

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Follow-up: Hosts hint at a future deep-dive episode on non-monogamy, open relationships, and bisexuality (“We’ll dig into non-monogamy with y’all!” [80:20]). For more, join their Patreon or get their book No Holds Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power.

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Transcript

[Azar]

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[Mandy B]

Paul, have you ever offered to fly a woman out and you didn't want to have for her?

[Weezy]

When your beauty and your body is the blue check oh, them ready to push your ass.

[Mandy B]

Oh, yeah.

[Weezy]

Don't even sleep.

[Azar]

I don't know this man and I get the ick real quick.

[Paul Pierce]

They gonna make it comfortable for you. He gonna be like, hey, you know, bring a couple of your friends.

[Weezy]

Welcome to Decisions, Decisions.

[Mandy B]

I don't think you should say Decisions, decisions. It sounded like you was talking and cursed them.

[Weezy]

You definitely say the welcome.

[Mandy B]

Welcome to the new podcast.

[Weezy]

Oh, wait, you wanna say it together?

[Mandy B]

Decisions. Welcome to another episode of Decisions, Decisions and scenes. Sorry, I'm your girl, Mandy B.

[Azar]

Hey, y'.

[Weezy]

All, I'm Weezy. We are joined. It's a foursome today.

[Mandy B]

It is. What's the last one? It's kind of like an orgy. I'm excited about this one today. Well, and we about to tell the truth after dark, even though it is midday. So, y', all, we are joined today by Azar and Paul Pierce. By the way, ladies, I know you have seen his clips. Just stay with us for a second because we gonna reel his ass in this episode, I promise.

[Weezy]

So I have to tell you how I discovered y'.

[Mandy B]

Allpod.

[Weezy]

So my business partner Alex and I started the studio a few years ago. So when clips come on on the Internet, that's mainly how I find it if the person's name isn't in their booking. So I see this clip going viral with the WTF media block about this man who look familiar, but why do I know him?

[Mandy B]

Who is he talking about?

[Azar]

White women.

[Weezy]

I sent it to the group chat. I said, how do we remove it?

[Mandy B]

Get it out?

[Weezy]

Of course. It's the LA studio athlete and white women.

[Mandy B]

And I was like, bruh, what was the take? Why did you hate the take? What was it?

[Weezy]

So, from what I can remember, and I would love for you to say, it was something about white women being more like docile, submissive, and less argumentative.

[Paul Pierce]

Okay, yes.

[Azar]

He said they appreciate more. I asked him, why do white. Why do athletes like white women? He said they appreciate more and they apologize more.

[Weezy]

Appreciate. They appreciate more. Oh, please.

[Paul Pierce]

Listen, she asked me why. I don't know, from my experience. So this is just like a educated guess. Because I'm seeing cats and I'm hearing it from dudes who date white girls who are black who date outside their race, period. They just like, man, it's just, you know, for them, they're like, you know, black women these days are too masculine to where, you know, they want you to apologize to them for everything.

[Mandy B]

If you do something, you go wrong, you need to apologize.

[Paul Pierce]

And when they feel like they don't do nothing wrong, you like, dang. It's just. That's what it was.

[Mandy B]

I know. No woman is asking a man to apologize for something he didn't do wrong. So if a woman is demanding an apology or holding a man accountable, there is nothing wrong with you showing up and apologizing to me. If you did some fuck, nigga shit.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, but, man, we be feeling like, damn, you gotta apologize for being one minute late. Cause y' all mad and y' all feelings. It's one minute. Like, get over it.

[Mandy B]

We are not having fits over one minute late.

[Paul Pierce]

Yes, y' all is.

[Weezy]

I'm having fits over 15.

[Mandy B]

Okay. I think a 15 minute grace period.

[Paul Pierce]

30 should be like.

[Mandy B]

All right, 30 for, like, a date. Like, we're.

[Weezy]

I generally don't eat at restaurants where you should even be seated without the entire party.

[Mandy B]

30.

[Paul Pierce]

It depends on who it is. It depends on who it is.

[Mandy B]

30 minutes.

[Paul Pierce]

All right, listen, who it is. It depends on who it is. If it's a baller, he could be an hour late.

[Mandy B]

An hour.

[Paul Pierce]

Oh, now, come on.

[Mandy B]

Now, see, no, no, no.

[Weezy]

Okay, I have to pose this question.

[Mandy B]

No, as far as, like, are we.

[Weezy]

In this brain of. I feel like most women we know, most black women. Most women in this. I don't really know bum bitches anymore. I did when I was younger, but, like, pretty much every woman in my life is doing well at something. Does the baller ever value that he got a lit bitch? And by that, I mean literally what she's doing in life. Are they excited by the fact that they're meeting somebody that might be smart as fuck, might be academic, might say masters in her bio?

[Mandy B]

Like, I don't think men care about that.

[Weezy]

And I'm asking that question genuinely because that's how you really then measure why if it's a baller, you don't give a fuck about being late.

[Paul Pierce]

All right, Let me tell you this. So ballers, they not looking for that.

[Mandy B]

They're not looking for what part? The masters. The lit bitch.

[Weezy]

Ok, now let's just say it's the lit Instagram bitch. Is she expected then to wait when we know every other nigga's on her line? Why would she then wait for that baller when she's probably got a bigger one on the phone?

[Mandy B]

Or a bigger one. Or a bigger one.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, yeah.

[Azar]

But why would he be on time for that bitch when he has another Instagram bitch on his line, too?

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Azar]

Oh, so it's kind of like, do we live in a world of a reality where people feel like they have options?

[Weezy]

So they're the dating, never really courting. Then when you're a baller, like, is there ever any intentionality?

[Mandy B]

I'm not gonna lie. That's my thing. Like, even right now, I know, like, I'm not. Don't really want a relationship, but I'm, like, looking for some niggas to, like, fill my roster. You know what I mean? And for me, whether we're having casual sex, seeing each other, dating, to me, consideration is the biggest fucking thing right now. Because consideration is respectful, whether we are in a relationship or not. If you inside me, if you coming into my home, if we're spending time together, I think that there needs to be a level of respect. And if you can't consider me in certain aspects, then I ain't gonna fuck with you.

[Weezy]

Are the ballers late to meetings? Because I'm gonna tell you right now, with the level of talent I've worked with in the last five years, literally the rappers that I forgot about were late, not anybody that's doing well, is less than 10 minutes or is more than 10 minutes late.

[Mandy B]

Cause y' all was on time.

[Weezy]

You absolutely are on time.

[Azar]

I love that athletes are on time. I'm always early on.

[Paul Pierce]

I'm always early.

[Azar]

He's always on time. But I will say this, I will say this, and you might not like this, but in my opinion, I think that every women brings something different out of a man. I've dated ballers and all type of men, and because of who I am as a woman, it brings something different. The same motherfucker that takes you to Sizzler, takes me to Ruth Chris. It's not gonna ever be the same. And I think that as a woman, you can demand that. Your presence alone, your aura. And if you feel like he's wasting your time, leave you Ain't got to stay there.

[Weezy]

But the white women don't wait. That's what Paul said, right? Right.

[Mandy B]

The white women will wait.

[Azar]

And the white women are not going to challenge you to be a better man either. The white women are not going to make you become the best version of yourself. The white woman is not going to push you up the hill.

[Weezy]

The.

[Azar]

No, the women you're talking about, that's going to sit and just wait there. I'm not judging.

[Paul Pierce]

You are you just judged.

[Azar]

That's not. That's it.

[Mandy B]

You judge white women with your statement.

[Paul Pierce]

What did I judge? How did I judge black women?

[Azar]

Because you just said black women are not going to sit up and away from you. They're going to yell after one minute. So if we're going to make a statement, I'm gonna make a general statement. And my general statement is if we talking about any woman that's gonna sit up and wait for a man for 30 minutes, clearly they don't respect themselves. They don't value their time. So at the end of the day, that type of woman isn't going to challenge you. If I'm gonna let you walk all over me, then that's not going to make you a better man. That's going to make you be more. I'm gonna actually bring more out of. More negativity out of you because I'm gonna allow you to be. Enable you more. Allow you to be on bullshit, not.

[Mandy B]

The sea suck, Paul. God damn.

[Paul Pierce]

No, listen, though.

[Weezy]

Oh, my God. I want to scoop up.

[Paul Pierce]

I gotta see where we at. It depends on, like, where we at in our relationship or what we doing based on. I gotta base it off of that.

[Azar]

I have to backtrack.

[Paul Pierce]

No, no, no, no. Cause think about it. If I just met you, I get it. But like, if I've been. If we've been kicking it for like three months and I'm 30, that's disrespectful. Like, and then now every time I start being 30 to 45 late every.

[Mandy B]

Time, like, oh, I'm not gonna lie, my ex actually said that. It was so uncomfortable, I guilted him into being on time. And I didn't like that. Well, this is what he said, which was some bullshit, but it's because if he was like even five minutes late, my mind went to, oh, my God, he's dead.

[Paul Pierce]

The night is ruined. The night is ruined.

[Mandy B]

I would create so much anxiety for him to be on time that he said it made him uncomfortable. But I was like, nigga, be on time. Then. And he was always on time. And then when we broke up, he said that I created just like a anxious environment because I demanded him to be on time. And I was like, well, nigga, and you were. And I thought it was a great thing for you to do that. He was like, yeah, but here's the real question.

[Weezy]

The clip was about athletes specifically, or white women.

[Paul Pierce]

Okay.

[Weezy]

Are the athletes or men in high power actually needing women to be that much more quiet, submissive? I actually don't even wanna use the word submissive because I believe black women love to live in femininity, especially high powered women. I'm meeting a lot of them being like, I wanna step back. Is it really, like, you really just need someone to shut the fuck up because you got too much shit going on?

[Paul Pierce]

Ooh. I mean, let's just. Hold on. Run that back again.

[Azar]

Cause that was a lot.

[Paul Pierce]

That was a lot to take in.

[Weezy]

Okay. We hear this a lot. You aren't the first person to say this. That clip is just hot. Because they have it now. But men are always saying this about white women. Sometimes Latinas as well. They don't say nothing. They do this, they do that, whatever, right? We hear this. And so then we can only assume high powered men, ballers, athletes, celebrities, really do want women to shut the fuck up.

[Paul Pierce]

It depends. Cause most women be saying some stupid shit, you know what I'm saying?

[Mandy B]

A lot. You just said they just be saying some stup, so that's why they should shut the fuck up.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, some people, like, I've been out with girls and it be a group like this, and when they get to talking, I'm like, you know, keep it down. Like, you know what I'm saying?

[Mandy B]

Keep it down.

[Paul Pierce]

It's just like, damn, it's better if you just don't start talking. Making friends. Cause you make. It's like, it's bad. It's been a lot of those. It's been a lot of those. Okay, look, so like, that's why a lot of men be like, man, he just come out, fill the room out. I hate a girl that I'm with just making friends with everybody they just met. Like, man, you getting everybody at the table number, we just got here.

[Mandy B]

Oh, my God.

[Weezy]

Wait, other women? You don't like that?

[Azar]

No.

[Mandy B]

Did I not just tell you? I hate a man who's like that too. I literally just. The nigga who I unfollowed, I saw him in a club environment and I literally said he was moving like a bottle server. And I was Disgusted, I said, why are you pouring drinks for all these bitches? Why are you talking to everybody? Just go sit over there and look unfriendly and be fine. I was so mad that he was in everybody face, so I get the same thing.

[Paul Pierce]

No, this is different with girls.

[Weezy]

Wait, really? I feel like it's nice to see girls not be bitches.

[Mandy B]

No, you don't have to be a bitch. But I get it to, like, I have a homegirl who. She'll be around. Next thing you know, she got the brother number, the homie number, all this shit, and then now you not even being invited.

[Weezy]

Wait, wait, I'm not. You don't sound like you're talking about the name.

[Mandy B]

No, talking about.

[Paul Pierce]

No. I'm talking about females.

[Mandy B]

You don't like friends.

[Paul Pierce]

Wait, girls, y' all will get out and look. Y' all look at each other. Oh, girl, you're so pretty. Oh, I like your nails. Where'd you get your nails? Oh, give me your number. I need to find that out.

[Mandy B]

Don't do that. Cause they just did that.

[Azar]

I know that.

[Mandy B]

Oh, why are you doing it?

[Paul Pierce]

No, no, no. But y' all do it to like 10 people right there. And it's like, yeah, you just was friend. You just friend up the whole room.

[Weezy]

Don't give me another tequila shot then.

[Paul Pierce]

Damn.

[Weezy]

Don't let me go in the bathroom.

[Paul Pierce]

The drinks come out too, and it's like, damn. Damn. That's. Damn. She.

[Weezy]

Hold on. Can y' all give us insight? I wanna ask. Now I know who the fuck I am in the bathroom. I'm gonna make a best friend. Oh, my God, I love you so.

[Paul Pierce]

Much in the bathroom.

[Weezy]

Call Alex. Do N. S in the bathroom. Not do this.

[Paul Pierce]

We don't talk at all. Nah. Well, I don't like it for you.

[Weezy]

Is it? Cause your dick's out?

[Paul Pierce]

No, listen, I don't like it for me because I don't need them talking to everybody about me.

[Weezy]

Oh, that's what it is.

[Mandy B]

Oh, you met all the girls that done sucked your dick and now you don't want them to be able to talk about you? Like, is that the problem that all these girls around.

[Paul Pierce]

I'm private. So, like, the more friends you guys.

[Weezy]

Don'T match up the story.

[Mandy B]

Bitch, we all saw you on Instagram Live throwing money with bitches on the floor. Not very private, sir.

[Paul Pierce]

You didn't see that? You didn't see that?

[Mandy B]

We didn't see that.

[Paul Pierce]

No, that ain't.

[Mandy B]

No, that ain't never happened.

[Azar]

There was no money involved.

[Paul Pierce]

There was no money involved. There was no money involved.

[Mandy B]

That is hilarious. I'm not playing with you.

[Azar]

You know what? I get it, though, because when I was younger, I used to kind of be that way. And I've noticed, like, you're doing too much like a woman who wants to be too friendly and too in the mix. Sometimes it's like, slow down. Like, chill.

[Paul Pierce]

Cause I done seen girls.

[Azar]

We relax.

[Paul Pierce]

Sorry, but to make the bigger points in this. Sorry, but, like, the reason. I didn't give the reason. I don't like that. So the reason I don't like that because I've had girls become friends with those girls to try to get closer to me.

[Weezy]

Ah.

[Paul Pierce]

And that's. They. That's what they doing. And they don't. The girl that you with don't see that.

[Mandy B]

You know what I'm saying?

[Weezy]

I've experienced this with my homeboys and.

[Azar]

Girls, and I see all of that. I don't trust nobody. So I'll be like, bitch. Especially if you're out with a certain type of caliber of man, like, he's somebody, he's a celebrity or whatever. When you are around that women and anybody, women, men, they all want to get close to that person in some type of way or capacity. And then you're getting friends with them and they're asking questions or they're saying slick shit, and it's like, I don't have time for all of that. Like, even me and Paul, when we're just out on some cool, you know, shit, like, with other people, I'm so mean. Like, I'll be like, no, move back. Like, I. Because it gets overwhelming. It's like, chill out. Like, we don't need everybody in the mix when you're out with those type of people.

[Mandy B]

You know what?

[Weezy]

I will say this. I'm not going front when I'm. I'm kind of out of my. A celebrity inviting me to the table years, but I am in that work capacity, and I'm less friendly in those.

[Azar]

Exactly.

[Weezy]

If I'm with a nigga that's on TMZ or even women, I really don't.

[Azar]

Exactly.

[Weezy]

I got you now.

[Azar]

That's what it is. That's what he's saying. But if I'm out and it's like, where's your lashes?

[Mandy B]

Where's your.

[Azar]

Like, I'm that girl. Like, yes, girl. Follow the thing. Like, I would like to give women, like, shit. Like, I'm not. I'm a girl's girl. Whatever they want to fucking say. So.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, well, let's do a little icebreaker with y'.

[Weezy]

All.

[Mandy B]

We gonna play a little truth or dare to get into y'. All. Now both of y' all have to pick yes. To get into y' all just a little bit. Well, I'm not getting into Paul, but.

[Weezy]

And neither is the doctor, so we found out.

[Mandy B]

Anyways. So let's start with Azar. Do you want truth or dare babies?

[Azar]

Start with Paul. Start with Paul so I can see what kind of questions you have.

[Mandy B]

Okay, that is crazy.

[Azar]

He's a man. I'm gonna let him take the lead.

[Mandy B]

Paul, truth or dare?

[Paul Pierce]

I'm the truth you gonna take, period.

[Mandy B]

Okay. Truth. Describe your most memorable hookup, good or bad. And explain what made it so great. Or explain what made it so bad. All you gotta do bad.

[Paul Pierce]

Probably my most memorable hookup was 2006.

[Mandy B]

Damn.

[Paul Pierce]

The year I met her.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Paul Pierce]

First night, boom. Hooked up. She came with me, got on private jet, went to the next two cities, moved in eight months later. Then I wound up marrying her.

[Weezy]

Oh, my God.

[Mandy B]

Wait, you ended up.

[Weezy]

So we need to fuck her on the first date?

[Mandy B]

You fucked her on the first day you met her?

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah.

[Mandy B]

And she still ended up becoming your wife.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah.

[Mandy B]

What made it so memorable? Like, what made it so dope that you even kept her along the way? Cause most women are mad that they have sex. And then he's like, all right, let me know when the Uber outside. What made her be able to stay around? What made it so good, man?

[Paul Pierce]

I think it was just like. I don't know, truthfully. Like, she was cool. She was a vibe. She was still in school, man. I don't even know. Because she was with another dude, actually.

[Weezy]

Damn. Wait, what?

[Paul Pierce]

Well, she was meeting another guy. He didn't show up.

[Weezy]

Oh, wow. He was 30 minutes late.

[Mandy B]

See what happens when you 30 minutes late, you might run in front of another girl.

[Paul Pierce]

You know, it is, too. I was real. I think I was too. I was vulnerable. Cause I was in the middle of a breakup. Cause I was actually still living with another girl, but we were broke up.

[Weezy]

Oh, my God.

[Paul Pierce]

We were living together, but broke up.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Paul Pierce]

Because, you know, we've been living together for like six years, but I was like, it was done. Cause I was living in hotels, but she was still in my place.

[Weezy]

Oh.

[Paul Pierce]

And so, yeah.

[Weezy]

Can I ask you for the. For the one night, not one night stand, but the first night hookup that ends to a relationship? Is the first night different and then it builds? Or do you actually feel something different that first night? Is it deeper Than lust.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't know. Because I'm energy, you know what I'm saying? I ain't talking to girls. And like, I could talk to girls, get a number and be like, I ain't trying to, you know, smash her on the first night. It was just like, the energy. Cause it was just like we met and then we kind of hung out and we was kicking in. It was like a vibe. And it was like, damn. You know, we just kind of like, then the next. And then we kicked it the next day, and then it was just like, damn, it's still a vibe, you know, it was just like the energy, you know? I don't know how to explain. You just feel a person's presence, you know what I'm saying? It ain't like you don't just go out with everybody and have sex on the first day or kiss them the first date unless you feel like a certain type of way, right? You know, and you could date them or say, all right, this is cool for now, but it ain't.

[Weezy]

I've always noticed when I've ended up having a long term relationship, girlfriend, boyfriend, or best friend, the first day I met them, the next day we had to see each other. Oh, my God, we gotta do something. Like, it was just a connection.

[Azar]

Yes. Yeah. My sister and her husband had sex on the first day. Like, a lot of people I know who got married, they just. Because it's a connection. There's a difference between, like, I'm just having sex with you because I'm a hoe, and I'm having sex with you because I feel a deep connection.

[Weezy]

We gotta tell Joy Taylor this. Cause she told us six months, remember, on her show.

[Mandy B]

I don't believe her. And I told her to her face.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't believe her either. I don't believe her either.

[Mandy B]

I told her to her face at.

[Azar]

A time like, girl, I'm gonna do truth. You're gonna do truth because I'm not daring. Whatever y' all got.

[Mandy B]

What the you think we're gonna make you do? I don't know.

[Azar]

Y' all be freaky in here. I don't know.

[Mandy B]

I'm scared.

[Paul Pierce]

Mix it up. Mix it up.

[Azar]

I might do dare next time.

[Mandy B]

So you're not gonna do dare?

[Azar]

Not this round. If we're doing two rounds, I'm doing.

[Mandy B]

No, we only do it one round.

[Azar]

Oh, well, give me truth then.

[Mandy B]

Okay. Truth. Azar, what's a relationship red flag that you ignored and then later regretted?

[Azar]

Oh, shit.

[Paul Pierce]

All her relationships.

[Azar]

Don'T speak for me, so.

[Paul Pierce]

Right.

[Azar]

Can we have another question? Yeah.

[Mandy B]

Why you wanna. No, no, no, no.

[Weezy]

Wait, wait. No, it really might be helpful, though.

[Mandy B]

No, I wanna know, like, because we talk about red flags.

[Azar]

Okay, let me think of it. Even though your house is right, I'll tell you, mine's just not on top of my head. I'm not a crazy person.

[Weezy]

I wrote about in the book. He was going out a lot, but I was enjoying time while going out with him. So I didn't understand, like, oh, it could have been another bitch, Bitch, you just here, like, this is his mo. He's gonna eat well without you. He's gonna go to this party without you. He's probably gonna fly to Cabo without you. I kept thinking things were, for me, this person's energy and how fun they were. Nothing was curated for me. This is just who he was.

[Azar]

This is just who he was.

[Weezy]

And so the fact that he was constantly out and doing shit and just always had to be on the scene, I really thought it was a part of our relationship, just being out together, and it wasn't. He was that party nigga. And it didn't hit me. That, to me, was a red flag. Once I found out, I was like.

[Azar]

Oh, I think I have one. I would say that my red flag in a relationship that I ignored in the past was a man, like, talking negatively always about people he was with, or, you know, just period, talking about his exes. Like, why? And then that made me realize, like, are you still holding on to something? What do you have going on? And then also, it's a character thing for me because I realize when people are always talking bad about other people, it's just a matter of time. It's when they talk bad about you, it's not because, you know, it's just on brand for who they are. You know what I mean? It's just not your turn yet. I always tell people that when someone's doing something, it's just not your turn yet. You are not special, boo. Or, like, if a man is not in his kid's life in the present father, you think, why are you even trying to build a life with this person?

[Mandy B]

With this person?

[Azar]

Yeah. Like, that's weird. And I've seen women do that where it's like, you're with a man, he's not a present father. And now you think you about to have a baby with this man, and you're so different. Right?

[Weezy]

That's a great one.

[Mandy B]

Yeah. I used to say that about, like, just in general, like, if you hang out with somebody who's a thief, don't be surprised when you see it.

[Weezy]

Do you remember we were talking about this? So Mandy has decided not to have children in her life. So a conversation we were having was like, what if he's a bad dad? You're not looking for a man to be a father. When I'm dating, I'm like, how do children like you? Whatever. That's not something that's gonna be your focus if you don't want children. But if they're a bad dad, would they then be a bad boyfriend?

[Mandy B]

Oh, I'm not even. I ain't shit, though. I just won a dick last week. And he had to watch his daughter. And I said, you can't drop her off somewhere. And I was mad that he was being a good dad.

[Paul Pierce]

Damn.

[Mandy B]

I was mad at the moment. At the moment, I was a little like, damn, you.

[Paul Pierce]

He couldn't slide outside the.

[Mandy B]

Grandma don't wanna watch a boy a little bit.

[Azar]

I can't with you. Let me tell you something.

[Mandy B]

I ain't shit. Well, because I just cared about my needs at the time. And I was like, damn. Okay, well, you're being a good father. All right.

[Azar]

I feel like I know you lying.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, I'm not lying. Oh, I know I'm not shit. I'm not lying. I was actually mad in the moment that he was being a good dad. Cause I was like, someone else could watch your daughter. I only need 30 minutes.

[Azar]

Mandy.

[Paul Pierce]

I love how Mandy leans into what it is.

[Azar]

Yeah. She just says what the truth is. And I love that.

[Weezy]

See, I might think it. I'm gonna call my homegirl and be like, how the fuck does he have a baby mama? But I'm not gonna say it, man.

[Azar]

Well.

[Mandy B]

And I tried to guilt him. I said, listen. I said, listen, my period come on in three days. So this the time you got. And then it came on two days early. And I said, see?

[Weezy]

How much do you love that?

[Mandy B]

Yeah, I listen.

[Paul Pierce]

Does it still matter?

[Mandy B]

Huh?

[Paul Pierce]

Does it still matter?

[Mandy B]

Oh, I do not fuck through blood, sir. That is disgusting. I do a lot of things, but I am not having sex with shit.

[Weezy]

On my short nails. Not a big deal. But period blood, first of all, why.

[Mandy B]

You think I be having shit on my nails? I'm just saying. Damn.

[Azar]

Wait, what?

[Mandy B]

She's.

[Weezy]

The short nails. You know she got the short nails.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Shit on her nails. Shit on her nails.

[Mandy B]

I don't know why she just said it like that.

[Paul Pierce]

You just. Now get. Oh, my God.

[Azar]

I'M stressed out. What do you mean?

[Weezy]

Mandy got the short nails for the.

[Azar]

Butt, but what is this?

[Mandy B]

It's not just for the butt. It's for the coochie, too.

[Azar]

What is this shit about?

[Mandy B]

She's.

[Weezy]

She said build a blind, but I'm saying you going in a booty hall.

[Mandy B]

She is convinced that every time.

[Weezy]

Do we need to walk you through it? You're wearing brown, by the way.

[Mandy B]

By the way, it's only because she claims she's never had anal sex and I haven't either. No, her only the tip is on it.

[Weezy]

I'm like, bitch, it's just.

[Mandy B]

You had it. If the tip went in, it counts, bro.

[Weezy]

You asked my nigga, right? Now he be like, I ain't never fuck my bitch's ass. Tired of it.

[Mandy B]

Well, that's the problem. She swears that anything regarding anal sex or the butt is gonna be messy, and I'm like, bro, there's not always.

[Azar]

Well, don't they do the.

[Mandy B]

No. Not everyone does the enema before my side.

[Azar]

I have a gay best friend, so. You told me about that.

[Weezy]

I'm gonna be real with you, though. If a nigga's cleaning his ass out for me, that's too advanced.

[Mandy B]

That's too advanced. So you want a dirty booty if.

[Weezy]

He'S fleeting for me, I would actually rather see a little pebble than know that you fucking had a douche before I came over.

[Mandy B]

You would rather see a pebble, but.

[Azar]

You also go into a man's asshole?

[Weezy]

Honey, we have a New York Times bestseller for a reason.

[Azar]

Oh, okay.

[Weezy]

Clock. Look, I will say this. It hasn't been my favorite thing.

[Paul Pierce]

What is this? This happened the last podcast. What is this?

[Azar]

Why am I here?

[Mandy B]

It's clock that Teeth.

[Azar]

They say clock it.

[Mandy B]

Clock it.

[Paul Pierce]

Oh, okay. I don't. This is the second round.

[Azar]

We were on the Love Island. We had the Love Island. We were like, clock Island.

[Mandy B]

What?

[Azar]

We had Chris on. Oh, yeah.

[Weezy]

So.

[Azar]

So I just want to make sure.

[Weezy]

He looks like he fleets. Who.

[Azar]

What is fleeting?

[Weezy]

So when you take the douche, you fill it with water and you.

[Azar]

Okay, okay. The enema in your butt.

[Paul Pierce]

Wait, what? What are we talking about? Right?

[Mandy B]

All right. Okay. Yeah. Next. Next topic. Next topic.

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[Mandy B]

Okay, we're gonna get into something that maybe you can relate to and have conversations about a little bit more. We were talking about people with money. So our reactionary segment, we play a clip and we normally see if we agree with them, don't agree with them. This one comes from a fellow athlete. Kyrie Irving says that salaries posted puts a target on the backs of men. And so I wanna play this clip and get your thoughts on it.

[Kyrie Irving]

You inside to my life, right? When somebody finds out what you're making, how much you're making, there's a. I don't say the awkwardness, but it's. It's like all the texts that I received, people were happy for me, but it was also almost like, damn, like this is how much he's making. And, and it's not necessarily me being angry or mad that it's out there. It's just me trying to better understand why it's out there. Because at the end of the day, yes, it does help promote the league, but like us as players, that doesn't help. It doesn't help. It just feel like it puts a target, you know, on your back. If this puts a target on you for no reason, how do you.

[Mandy B]

I saw on X, I watch porn. Why? It just went back that's a whole.

[Azar]

Porno clip right now.

[Weezy]

Hold on. If we all clicked on our Twitter right now, porn would come up with him. No, I'm not saying.

[Mandy B]

I really hate that. It just said that it was a whole.

[Weezy]

No, I missed it.

[Mandy B]

You missed it.

[Paul Pierce]

She saw it.

[Mandy B]

I listened. So when I'm on Twitter, like, it'll just be a regular clip, then the next clip is a whole. It's. That was, mind you. Yeah. Ooh, sorry. That just was embarrassing.

[Azar]

No, don't.

[Mandy B]

I'm blushing. I'm blushing.

[Azar]

You just talked about shit on your finger hole. I think we can see.

[Mandy B]

I'm capable of being embarrassed now.

[Weezy]

You can't.

[Mandy B]

I want to ask you, from what he said, do you feel like, especially to me, when you have a job, right, when you're a lawyer, if you work in tech, if you're in corporate, normally people know how much money you make. So do you feel like him saying that it puts a target on the athlete's back is a true thing? And for you, early on in your career and dating, did you ever, like, see a woman look up your salary? We've heard that women do that. Is it a thing that you feel like is a bad thing, though?

[Paul Pierce]

I didn't like it personally. Cause when I first came into the league, it used to be in the newspaper. Like, no, but like, you used to have. You could go to grab the newspaper or it was in the magazines and it was like, damn, you don't want people like that. Cause then it's not only. It's like so many different targets, though. It's family. It's like. Cause they gonna be like, oh, well, you make whoopty woo. Can I touch?

[Azar]

Can I borrow doo?

[Paul Pierce]

Can I borrow doof de woo? But then it's females, like, ooh, girl, he making. I know a dude told me a story that he was out with a girl and she looked up the salary right there at dinner. He kind of looked over in front of. Now you go to the bathroom, something happened to her.

[Mandy B]

You do it before you get in front of him.

[Paul Pierce]

She was on her phone. He kind of like, you know, he was on his phone, but then he kind of leaned and he saw he was looking up, looking him up. And the salary on her phone.

[Mandy B]

So why does like, that's.

[Weezy]

I thought the reason that it's public was so that we know how they're allocating the money. Is that correct?

[Paul Pierce]

I don't know why.

[Mandy B]

I don't know why it's.

[Weezy]

Well. Cause isn't that why we judge WNBA how much are they making versus how much?

[Mandy B]

Well, we know there's salary caps. So to me, like, we. We already know the cap of the team. You have a certain number of players. Like, I don't. I don't.

[Paul Pierce]

The reason they targets. Cause some girls know this. And this is what I've come to find out.

[Mandy B]

Oh, here we go.

[Paul Pierce]

They will look at the roster.

[Mandy B]

All right, look, first off, I look at the roster shallow.

[Weezy]

My whore friends do this.

[Mandy B]

I look at the roster. But I look for the cute ones.

[Paul Pierce]

The roster, all right? He got. He. He make, okay? He's the franchise player. I can't get him. So let me go down here, okay? It's more of them than it is the guys at the top. All right, Let me get this role player down here. So when you look at it, it's more role players dating celebrities. It's more role players dating, like, the girls, because they figure like The Kobes and LeBrons and the Jordans and all. I can't get them. I'm gonna just not even. I'm not even gonna shoot my shot there, okay? You know what I'm saying? But right here in the middle and at the bottom, because the bottom is still great for any girl.

[Mandy B]

No, it is. One of my homemades, especially, like, Nancy.

[Weezy]

Told me she literally would see her friends see like 4 million or 5 million, and be like, that ain't shit. And she's like, bitch, you know, some niggas be giving me. She's like. Not to mention that's four or five million dollars on top of the fact that they got a Gatorade deal, they got a Puma deal, Adidas, whatever the fuck it is, right? She's like, you got to add at least another 25% in brand deals on top of that. She's like, these men also don't know what the fuck to do with $5 million. She tells me all the time, Well, I can't say the person's name now, but them top niggas you talking about, she's like, they're so used to the fucking game, they know the price. Whereas these dudes pressed, okay?

[Mandy B]

They more pressed the lower end.

[Paul Pierce]

The lower end is more pressed to.

[Weezy]

Have that 5 million sounds so high to me.

[Paul Pierce]

To show that they got something where the guys at the top been doing it for so long. It's nothing.

[Weezy]

Bitch, I'm not gonna take you out.

[Paul Pierce]

To E. It's all that pull up like they want it. Cause they don't. They trying to. You don't know who they Are so they gonna be a little more flashy, a little more out there, and he's more attainable.

[Mandy B]

It's crazy. Cause I just feel like the guys now, these younger guys now are 100%, like, not moving how the old heads used to. Like, they don't really go out no more. Like, they don't show a good time. And now you can just get any bitch that you want by sending a dm, right? Like, it's way easier now, even for women to shoot their shot. Like, what? They used to have to, what, stand at the hotel lobby and meet y' all in the club? Like, y' all actually had to be outside.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, for sure.

[Weezy]

You know what I wanna know, Azar, living in LA your whole life. Well, I don't know if your whole life, but, like, being from out here, like, what is some of the craziest shit you've seen girls scamming do for some of these Laker players for fucking? Because I've seen it. I know you have to see just going to a club. Like, you've probably had homeboys. Anybody, like, what have you seen them do? Just desperation.

[Mandy B]

Yeah. Cause us growing up in Orlando probably.

[Azar]

Way different than LA gangster generation of family and people and shit. So for me, I seen women set niggas up. That's the craziest thing I done seen is where you going? I'm gonna be like, oh, this is Paul Pierce. Oh, hey, baby. Da, da, da. I'm fucking with you. He's lit. He's drunk. Take me back to your room. I already have three niggas that were gonna run into the room. Hey, this is where we're at. Da, da, da, da, da. I'm doing this with him. The niggas running. I'm like, oh, my God, help me. No, no, no. But I'm in on it the whole time. You robbed the nigga.

[Mandy B]

That's crazy.

[Weezy]

This tells this story about a threesome.

[Azar]

Yeah. This is a very known thing in LA that people were doing.

[Weezy]

The girls were. He said both the girls was fucking with him. And then one girl was like, I'll be right back. He said, I knew it. He's like, I'm in the hallway running, dick swinging, running down the fucking hallway. I knew the second one girl just had to leave the bathroom. She was stealing his fucking watches and shit.

[Mandy B]

Well, there was a girl that just went to. She just got locked up. What she was doing was date raping, like, putting in men's drinks and literally stealing their watches. Like, stole mad watches. I think it was A bitch in Miami. And she ended up getting caught doing it. Cause I guess she had done it to so many men, bro.

[Weezy]

Just like drug dealers, they always give you money.

[Mandy B]

Not just. Yeah, I've never been in. I can't do the drug deal. I can't do.

[Weezy]

I'm a Florida girl, okay?

[Mandy B]

I like real square, real safe, real.

[Azar]

I was young, so I was. When I was young in la, I dated. My boyfriend was one of the biggest drug dealers ever.

[Mandy B]

Is there an age, okay, for the women listening? Who likes that? Is there an age as women where you gotta outgrow them type of niggas? Wait, what is it? You gotta outgrow a street nigga? Like, you can't be dealing with them anymore.

[Weezy]

23.

[Azar]

Cause then you have too much more to lose. Yeah.

[Weezy]

Like, what is this for?

[Mandy B]

23 is young.

[Azar]

Yeah, you can't.

[Mandy B]

After 23. You shouldn't fuck with a. I don't think so.

[Azar]

I personally can't.

[Weezy]

I can't even talk to you different. Azar. Like, let's just say they be like, oh, my God, you so smart, baby. You got a pool called pot. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they know. Show my bitch lit. Yeah, they do.

[Mandy B]

She doing this. Cause she was just talking to a street nigga two years ago, before her nigga.

[Weezy]

Now I tell this story all day. I'm back to Orlando. And it was this nigga I used to fuck with. I can't remember what his name was. Skeet. So anyway, Skeet was like, bro, you don't remember fucking with me, man, she fucked with Charlamagne and shit. They got a motherfucking pond cast and a pomcast. Oh, my God, I cannot believe I used to fuck him. But they make you feel so good.

[Azar]

They'll be like, ooh, she got candles in her house. She got motherfucking. She got pots. Like, you go over there. She got all type of shit over there. She got me, right? Got me cloth. Like. Like, oh, man. Nah, she got cologne. She got me cologne. I took her to the mall. Like, they be. They be having. And then this money. Know when I was a kid and.

[Weezy]

I woke up in the morning, he said, man, my. On a zoom. I can't talk to you. Hung up. Thank you.

[Azar]

And. But the money comes so fast, so they'll give you. They'll give you so much bread. A drug dealer, though, because they're ridiculous.

[Weezy]

My nigga. I used to have money just sitting in my house.

[Mandy B]

The way y' all are gassing hood niggas right now. Like, how you be doing Broke niggas with big dicks. And I can't take.

[Azar]

Oh, no, I can't do that.

[Mandy B]

We cannot platform these type of criminals.

[Weezy]

I'm just saying, right? The actor we.

[Azar]

See you're not Frog, though. When I was young, the dude was like that. They were so much fun. And like, I remember my first drug dealer guy. That was my boyfriend, right? And we called him. He had a nickname, Lambo. Cause he drove a Lambo.

[Mandy B]

Oh, bitch, y' all probably fuck the same nigga. She had a nigga named Lambo on the podcast. Okay.

[Azar]

No, it wasn't the same. He's like, on drugs now. He's down bad.

[Weezy]

Oh, no, no, no. That's not it.

[Azar]

He's. He's. It's not the same person. This is like a whole. I love how you get that.

[Mandy B]

May be on drugs down.

[Azar]

No, no, it's not the same person. We don't know where he is anyways.

[Paul Pierce]

What he look like? Hold on, let's. Let's see what he look like.

[Azar]

Let's figure out.

[Paul Pierce]

What's his name.

[Mandy B]

Wait, wait.

[Azar]

Oh, yeah. Okay, so I can't say the name either.

[Paul Pierce]

What he look like then?

[Weezy]

He. Dark skin. Big N Big.

[Azar]

No, it's not him. Okay, he's like a la. He's from la.

[Paul Pierce]

He from la?

[Mandy B]

Yeah. Okay, okay.

[Paul Pierce]

They're both from la.

[Azar]

He never had locks.

[Paul Pierce]

Well, you ain't seen him in a minute. So he grew him out. No, he might got locks now.

[Azar]

Maybe.

[Paul Pierce]

How tall is he?

[Weezy]

Very tall.

[Azar]

Is he tall?

[Paul Pierce]

See, now we getting some real. Hold on. Y' all ain't asking the right question.

[Azar]

I know it's not him.

[Paul Pierce]

How you know?

[Azar]

Because this man is so damn bad on drugs.

[Paul Pierce]

How you know when the last time you saw him?

[Azar]

He has a twin.

[Weezy]

No.

[Azar]

Exactly. There you go. He's a twin.

[Paul Pierce]

She don't know that, though.

[Azar]

The point is. This is the point. When I was dealing with him, he knew all the popping restaurants, all the stuff. Like, he was taking me to the flyest stuff. Every time I would be with him, he would give me a gift and he would put me on the stuff. And he was buying this, he'd be like, baby, what size?

[Paul Pierce]

He's doing the same thing to you drug dealers, baby.

[Azar]

What size? Red bottom, baby.

[Weezy]

Wanna invest in your business?

[Azar]

Yeah, invest in your business. What size red bottoms you are, babe. All right, bye. Hang up. See, Em, You.

[Weezy]

It stops.

[Mandy B]

Hi, guys. We're going to take this to. We're going to take this to the courtroom. We're going to. I think It's.

[Azar]

I haven't seen him since I was like 22 though. But I've heard he.

[Paul Pierce]

That's 13 years. He got dressed.

[Mandy B]

It is okay to be Eskimo sisters with Weezy. Okay. It is fine. To drug dealers who drive Lambos. Okay. There's not many.

[Azar]

It was when I was 18 though, so. This is so many years ago. I had a Lambo that long ago and 18. I was 18. So I'm.

[Paul Pierce]

How do you know?

[Weezy]

I'm 34 too.

[Paul Pierce]

You didn't know him that long ago.

[Weezy]

I was him three years ago.

[Azar]

Yeah, it ain't.

[Weezy]

It ain't him.

[Paul Pierce]

How you know?

[Azar]

Because he don't have a Lambo three years ago.

[Paul Pierce]

How you know?

[Mandy B]

He said he down bad.

[Weezy]

He said he was selling it.

[Mandy B]

And see, this is why we shouldn't platform these men. Ladies. It's a short term lifestyle. They will end up dead or in jail.

[Weezy]

We learned about your acl. Just not act like that.

[Azar]

Yeah, he went to jail when he.

[Mandy B]

But they. You heal from an ACL and go back to making your millions. An ACL is not a career ender.

[Paul Pierce]

No, you still get paid while you.

[Mandy B]

Hurt and you still get paid. It's guaranteed money. Okay. Excuse me. I'm just saying don't be out here comparing drug dealers athletes to drug dealers. Oh, my God. Even though some of them I know do be pushing weight. That's why some of them niggas in jail. Now, I ain't gonna say who.

[Weezy]

I did fuck with a few NFL.

[Paul Pierce]

Players that was telling me NFL probably.

[Weezy]

That's crazy.

[Mandy B]

No, there was an NBA guy, too. All right, y', all, we are taking. Taking this thing out of the bedroom into the courtroom. Okay? So we're starting a new segment around here where we see if this is called Ho Me Court. And we're gonna see who is guilty, who is wrong, who is innocent. And this one comes from one of the things that most recently went viral where a woman very good looking. If I had money, I would have flew out too. And bitch should have known what the fuck was happening.

[Weezy]

Let me see.

[Mandy B]

She fine, that girl. I'll show you the Instagram page. I'm gonna do the Instagram. I love Steve. She is fine. So anyways, there's a girl who recently outed a Lakers player for leaving her stranded in Turks and Caicos. She tweeted deandre a insecurity left me outside in the middle of nowhere. Bitch and Turks and Caicos. Because I won't have sex with him. Now, this is why we say this for you. Cause I know you got some fly out rules and I'd love to hear if you have any fly out stories. So we're gonna get into it, but this is what I found interesting about this. So apparently his attorney advised him to do this. Let me break it down because I'd love to know if there's been any talks about this being a thing, especially with players. So his attorney advised. His attorney advised him to leave her in the middle of nowhere once she refused sex. And this is why once a woman refuses sex anytime thereafter, that sex occurs. That sex could be considered harassment or coercion or even rape. By removing her and not having any further contact, there's a dividing line showing that sex was refused and sex never occurred, thus thwarting in any future sexual assault cases, both civilly and criminally. So he saved himself from having a woman removed because she refused sex. So you laughed.

[Azar]

Well, you shouldn't be going flying out and you're not thinking about you're gonna have sex.

[Weezy]

Well, what does the vibe change?

[Mandy B]

What if he's wet?

[Azar]

Then you should have known that before you got flew out.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no, no, no. Not if this is your first time. You don't know if it means you.

[Azar]

Why are you on a first time fly out?

[Mandy B]

Because, girl, he called for the pj.

[Azar]

Oh, well, like you can't be that desperate.

[Weezy]

I ain't gonna lie.

[Mandy B]

I'm going to see her, nigga.

[Azar]

Then you should be ready. You should be ready to fuck her.

[Weezy]

You said a pj.

[Mandy B]

Oh, let's be very clear. She took a picture in front of that pj, so at least she got a PJ picture. Okay? I'm not.

[Weezy]

I'm not going Fashion Nova Ron permanent.

[Mandy B]

I don't care if I be talking to a nigga for five hours. If he says the pj, bitch, I'm getting on.

[Weezy]

Okay?

[Mandy B]

But I also know what you supposed to do if a nigga flying you out. You gotta pop that person.

[Azar]

You're gonna do that? I personally am not gonna do that. I'm not going on a pj. Have declined it and I have receipts like, I will not do that. Cause if I'm not gonna fuck, if I want to fuck, then I would do that. But I don't let a man fly me out. This is my man.

[Weezy]

This is where it gets tricky because I've definitely like. So I think it was the second date we decided to go on a trip. I really thought I was gonna fucking.

[Azar]

But you didn't feel it when you got there.

[Weezy]

Oh, My God, he just started getting worse. He was doing corny shit. I just. I was starting to see how he moves. Like, the story. Every little thing we were doing, it was starting to embarrass me. And I was like, damn, I really don't fuck with niggas. Like, this is too lame. So, I mean, at that point, I was able to get my own room, and I was like, I just kind of feel a little uncomfortable. But I will say this. There has to be a place where a woman can change their mind. And I really do think men can make you feel that uncomfortable. They start talking to you crazy when they get there.

[Mandy B]

Remember that Kodak Black killed. This is giving hung jury at the moment because I was ready to stamp it that she's guilty.

[Azar]

Shouldn't we. Shouldn't we. Shouldn't we be teaching women, though, that you should not be doing that unless you already have a vibe with a man? Because in my personal opinion, it's like, if you are either you either know that you're gonna have sex regardless of the circumstances, period, point blank, you about to bust it open, or you know that I may change my vibe. I don't know this man, and I get the ick real quick. So I'm not gonna go on a trip with him. I get the ick real quick.

[Weezy]

Should we then say it? So the last time I did a little fly out, I think I was 24, some N in Switzerland.

[Mandy B]

There ain't no way that's the last fly out you did with a nigga.

[Weezy]

Like this, where I was like, ball player in Switzerland. And I remember saying a few nights before, I was like, fuck, this is my first little international fly. I'm a young ho, okay? I done a little Atlanta, okay? So I'm like, shit. So I was like, hey, what if we don't really connect? Like, I'm starting to get very nervous. And I was young, so I was being really honest. Yeah, he's like, cool. We take our time. We didn't fuck the first night. We started with kisses, but maybe we built that relationship. What can women then say to not be obligated? Cause I wanted to fuck him, but I really was getting scared.

[Mandy B]

Like, the only answer for that is, bitch, you have enough money in your goddamn account to put your ass on a flight home.

[Weezy]

I did get bored with him and did a little. I was like, I'm just gonna go to Berlin for a few days. So.

[Azar]

Yeah, agree. But you have a backup plan to me.

[Weezy]

Never have you on her.

[Mandy B]

Well, have you ever offered to Fly a woman out and you didn't wanna have sex with her, like, or maybe.

[Weezy]

It wasn't the first thing on your mind.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no. It's on, bitch. If the ticket's being bought, it's on the mind.

[Azar]

It's on the mind.

[Paul Pierce]

I think that's already been established before you flown out.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, I don't think I've ever flown out a girl that I just met at the club, like, and that didn't. Like, it's already been established.

[Mandy B]

So you think then I'm flying somebody.

[Paul Pierce]

Out that I know that, like, for these next days I already know? Cause it could be, like. It could be garbage. You know what I'm saying? And I'm taking you way over here.

[Mandy B]

But I have deandres left. So is the player then guilty of not having the conversation that he expects sex from the PJ fly out?

[Paul Pierce]

Okay. Yeah, he. Damn.

[Weezy]

That's a bad bitch, though.

[Mandy B]

I see what he Like.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't.

[Mandy B]

Cause he wanted to fuck.

[Paul Pierce]

Sometimes things that's known need not be said. Like, if you jumping on that thing. Like, you should know that.

[Azar]

You should know if you jumping on.

[Mandy B]

That thing, you should be jumping on that thing.

[Paul Pierce]

I would have did it a little bit different. Like, I wouldn't have left her stranded, and I also wouldn't have put her. Like, I wouldn't have left her stranded.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

No, I agree.

[Paul Pierce]

Once she said that, first of all, I don't know him or nothing or how he moved. If she had just said that to me, I've been like. I would have laughed it off. Like, all right, okay. You know what I'm saying? We would have went out. Boom, boom. And then if we spent the night and it didn't. Then the next. If it went down like that, she didn't like. Cause y' all say it all the time. Like, we ain't. Y'. All.

[Weezy]

We do whatever.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, yeah.

[Mandy B]

Oh, I don't.

[Paul Pierce]

Whatever. Y' all get a couple drinks. Y' all get a couple drinks, then y' all crack it.

[Weezy]

I think I. I think I mean it. I'm not gonna.

[Paul Pierce]

But that's the thing.

[Mandy B]

I think women have to stop doing that. You gotta stop playing that coy shit.

[Weezy]

Like, uh.

[Mandy B]

But we're not gonna fuck, bro. Y' all gotta stop doing that. You know? Especially right now, though. We're in this place where because men think that we're all just coy and playing hard to get, then that's where you can lean into something that seems like coercion or it seems like you're in an uncomfortable situation.

[Weezy]

Not playing hard to get, baby. But you know, okay, for example, this is embarrassing, but I'm gonna show y' all right now. I'm going to the wax lady. Cause my man flies in tomorrow for toilet, right? I would go out like this on the bottom, bitch, and be like, I'm not gonna fuck him. If I got a hairy pussy, I ain't gonna fuck. I really don't be wanting to fuck.

[Mandy B]

And then, you know, you think that now at this age.

[Azar]

And then he like, baby, I don't care if you got a little butt.

[Mandy B]

Oh. I was gonna say, these niggas don't.

[Weezy]

Care about no foot. But you be thinking you care. I'll wear ugly underwear, bitch. I' legs ain't shaved and everything. And then next thing you know, I just be like, oh, my God, we're connecting. That shit be happening.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, but we.

[Weezy]

I really do think when women say that, I believe it is the truer intention. Like, I'm not ready for that.

[Mandy B]

I don't think women should then just.

[Weezy]

Say, especially when you like a nigga.

[Mandy B]

Like, just stop saying it.

[Weezy]

You have to say it because that you put the precedent.

[Mandy B]

But not if you're also one of these women who say it in a way where you're playing coy or hard to get.

[Weezy]

All the niggas and all the n got your game.

[Mandy B]

So. So I hit my other homeboy up, who used to be in the league as well. And I sent him this. Cause he's doing a lot of stuff. And I was like, you need to be talking to these motherfuckers about consent and all this other stuff. So I sent it to him, and he was like, she did that shit. Cause she probably wanted to be a wife. And that's another thing. There's women who will literally hold out to make it seem like they're not that type of girl.

[Paul Pierce]

Don't come on the trip.

[Mandy B]

When I first meet you, okay, so you said, don't come on the trip.

[Paul Pierce]

Don't come at all.

[Weezy]

Oh, real.

[Mandy B]

Don't come at all.

[Paul Pierce]

Don't come on the trip. Don't go there and say that. No, you're trying to be a wife. No, I'm not like that. So I can't go, period.

[Mandy B]

So if a woman's, ooh, okay, that's gay.

[Weezy]

I like that. That's game.

[Paul Pierce]

Come on.

[Mandy B]

So when should she accept the trip? After y' all have already. After you've taken her on a date?

[Azar]

When y' all are locked in, when you court Her?

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, you gotta court her. You gotta come over here.

[Mandy B]

So a fly out.

[Paul Pierce]

I can't meet you and just fly you across the country. Out the country.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Paul Pierce]

If you trying to do that.

[Weezy]

That's Instagram fly out. If you genuinely are looking to be wifey, why the fuck would you jump? I respect that is.

[Azar]

Yeah, you know what I thought?

[Weezy]

I was like, so she not selling pussy and he didn't want to pay.

[Paul Pierce]

Cause if I could do it, then the next dude can do it valid.

[Mandy B]

Oh, I'm not gonna lie. But I'm to a place now because I travel so much. I turned down a trip to Panama this year. Cause I was just like, I know if I go, I'm gonna have to fuck him. And I don't wanna have to fuck him. And he'd be posting too much online. So I was like, y' all know how them bitches was mad that academic post online. It's like, bitch, I'm not. I ain't trying to be on no goddamn trip. If I know this nigga finna be posting even though he ain't a nigga. I wanna be connected to the fact.

[Weezy]

That I. I am a normal blue check person, right? For like some kind of like entertainment thing. Bitch, these girls, when your beauty and your body is the blue check. Oh, them niggas ready to push your ass.

[Mandy B]

Oh, yeah.

[Weezy]

Don't even sleep, ho.

[Mandy B]

Bruh, don't be out, Don't.

[Paul Pierce]

Okay, so basically men is doing that now too.

[Mandy B]

Grown men are posting. When I say, the nigga that invited me and it was supposed to be a nice ass trip, he's like, you ain't gotta pay for nothing. I got other girls coming. So like, no pressure, but I'm sure he probably wanted like threesomes and shit, whatever. And I literally am talking to my homegirl and I was like, bruh. And I think it was like Panama and Colombia, it would have been like two steps. And I was like, just say, eh, eh. And I was just like, bro, I don't even wanna go on this trip. Cause I don't want to have sex with this person. And I had to sit and be like, bro, as a grown ass woman, I'm not even gonna go on a trip. Like, you can't. I mean, and I know like, we're older now, been there, done that. But for the younger girls, even, not even for celebrities, if you are dating a regular man, like let's be very clear, which I also realize flights ain't that expensive. Like a nigga got a little $300 to put you on. Even Spirit, Delta, Frontier, whatever. Like, flights aren't that expensive anymore. So I'm like, if anyone flies you out, the intention is to take it.

[Weezy]

And remember what I said earlier? The n gonna be there anyway. Like, curating a vacation for us is a totally different thing than I'm pulling up on you. And I really think the pull up is the problem. If you pull up on a PJ or you pull up because he's got a fucking mansion in the hills, either way, the pull up sets that intention of, like, come fuck.

[Azar]

But see, too many women want to have those experiences, and those experiences are worth more than what they. How they value themselves. And that's. That's how I look at it. Like, for me, I'll tell you this, and I really mean this, and this is not judgmental to anyone, but you can't fly me me out. I'm not flying out because that's too much on me. I have to go pack my come meet you wherever you're at. Be in the environment that you choose for me to be in. Be around the people that you choose for me to be around. Go to the restaurants. I'm not doing that because that's not an experience that I've had input on and that I've curated. I'm grown enough now where it's like, I know what I like, I know what I want to be around. I know what I don't want to be around. And if I'm going on a trip, I'm gonna have some type of input or you're gonna be my man. So you already know what's going on and what we. What we do.

[Mandy B]

I be asking to fly to Atlanta.

[Paul Pierce]

Now, but then a lot of guys like me, they gonna make it comfortable for you. He gonna be like, hey, you know, bring a couple of your friends.

[Mandy B]

That's why they get me all the time with that one they give me every time.

[Paul Pierce]

I want you to feel comfortable, you know, bring like two or three.

[Mandy B]

Two, three friends, period.

[Weezy]

My nigga so tired. I'm gonna sell pussy.

[Mandy B]

I'm like, y' all want to go on a trip now you may. You have to watch me suck this nigga dick.

[Azar]

But damn not you have to watch me is crazy.

[Mandy B]

I will hit my homegirls and be like, so this is like, you want a free vacation. And some of my friends, though, I done fucked. So it's like, you may have to join. You may not ones that I haven't fucked. I'm like, you may have to Watch. But it's a free trip. And sometimes I get my own villa and I be like, bitch, we have our own villa. We just gotta go and see them during the day with all y'.

[Weezy]

All.

[Mandy B]

Paul, tell me this from when you.

[Weezy]

Was getting down back in the day and you hearing this shit right now. Do it feel like something you already knew was happening? Or did the niggas that you was with, did they ever talk like this?

[Mandy B]

I don't know what the question is.

[Paul Pierce]

And I don't know what the question is.

[Azar]

Yeah, I don't either.

[Weezy]

I'm saying, like, the way that she's talking about the women here, I'm sure you've been on a guy's trip where the girls get flown out. Have you not?

[Mandy B]

I plead the fifth. He in court right now.

[Paul Pierce]

He said, I plead the fifth, got flown out.

[Weezy]

And you was maybe like a big trip.

[Paul Pierce]

Nah, I don't think I ever done that.

[Mandy B]

You never did a big trip?

[Paul Pierce]

Well, like, you never did a whole trip of my boys fly out girls?

[Weezy]

Yes. Not even you like, bro, I was in Puerto Rico, what's it called? Fajardo? He said, no, we had villas next to us.

[Mandy B]

I said, damn, them some tall ass niggas.

[Weezy]

Then I'm like, those some badass bitches. So I'm in my own room, I'm like, bitch, look at this shit.

[Mandy B]

Look at this whole trip we need to be on.

[Paul Pierce]

I pretty much been in a relationship my whole life. I flew out with the homies, though. Like, we'll go on a trip, go to Cancun back in the day, go to Miami or whatever. But it wasn't like girls was there. Tough, like girls out there.

[Weezy]

That's a new thing.

[Paul Pierce]

Wherever we was at, we knew girls was gonna be there.

[Weezy]

But you know what makes that a new thing? Fucking Instagram. How do you fucking trust these bitches?

[Mandy B]

It's not a new thing. I was doing this 15 years ago.

[Weezy]

I do think that the way that niggas stay in a fucking villa and don't go outside and they have to bring the vibe to a house. Yeah, I was doing that.

[Azar]

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[Azar]

So wait, I have a question for both of you. But you guys are very, like, free, so I don't know.

[Mandy B]

Here we go. I don't like how you say, no, no, no.

[Azar]

I don't mean it like you ho ass.

[Weezy]

No, no, no, no. My username was Free Spirit.

[Azar]

I said what I said this other day. I said, anyone who says there's free spirit, they just.

[Mandy B]

I was shout out to the whorehive. We're all free spirits over here.

[Azar]

It's not even a judgment because I'm really not a judgmental person. Mandy likes to say that I am, but I'm not very. I'm not judgy. I don't care. The point is, is I just, I'm. I know that I'm different because, like, I'm more like strict on a nigga if I'm in a relationship. But I know, like, you done talked about being free and different items.

[Mandy B]

So when I asked and I'm not free, bitch.

[Weezy]

But you know, you said something that really made me think. I wonder if people resonated with you, said, at this point, I don't do this anymore because these are experiences I've already had. When I was 22, it was so exciting to go to Switzerland. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Like, oh my goodness. Now the way I'm living my life, really, where could you take me? There's really not a place.

[Mandy B]

No, I got a few. I got lists where if I get offered to go, I'm going. Cause I ain't going.

[Weezy]

I'm being real with you, Mandy. I wouldn't even single. Because at the age I'm at, I really don't want to be stuck with three or four days.

[Azar]

Exactly.

[Mandy B]

You don't want to be stuck with one.

[Paul Pierce]

That's what I.

[Mandy B]

You don't want to be stuck with.

[Azar]

Four nights with a man that you just don't know.

[Weezy]

Bro, I don't.

[Mandy B]

But when I say it, I don't.

[Weezy]

Sit up on flights on my own. So there's really nothing you could give me like you can't stand.

[Azar]

And that's my thing.

[Weezy]

Three days, that's my thing. If I really don't fuck with you, period.

[Mandy B]

Which is why. Which is why I'mma hate the trip. I have my own room and I bring my friends. Because now it's a trip for us. I don't have to lay up and be with you every day.

[Weezy]

The fan is going to be in my head.

[Mandy B]

What's going to be in your head?

[Azar]

I feel you. Just the back of your mind.

[Mandy B]

This is only if he ain't fun nigga and the dick ain't good. Because when he's a fun nigga, it's a good thing.

[Weezy]

But then that's the thing. If I really want to experience a spot, I just don't know. I really may not want to be with you for three days in that mother's spot.

[Mandy B]

So bring your friends right now.

[Paul Pierce]

You feel that?

[Weezy]

I really do. But I'm almost 35.

[Paul Pierce]

Y' all old.

[Weezy]

So now I'm telling you, though, y' all old, but N24.

[Mandy B]

Hold on. He said we cook. That's why he said you cooking.

[Weezy]

I don't care if I have the sucking one hand.

[Mandy B]

We going, no, he said. He said, you know, you feel this way cause we're cooked. That's what he actually, you know we're cooked.

[Azar]

Yeah, but you've seen so much.

[Mandy B]

You're agreeing with the over 30s we're cooked statement. That is what I'm hearing right now.

[Weezy]

And I what? Have you not fuck a place, what party, you know, like you've seen it all. So to me, at that point, you're over it.

[Azar]

And for me, it's fucked up because I grew up going out the country. My dad took me to Tokyo, Japan, everywhere when I was a kid. So for me, you can't impress me with that as an adult. Like, I'll be like, nigga, no that's why from a young age, it's like, you're gonna do what? Like, I don't need you. My dad dropped me off from the Rolls Royce.

[Mandy B]

But I will say I am genuinely.

[Weezy]

For the women that heard her say, if you haven't experienced these things yet, I'm not gonna hold you. I don't care how old you are. If there is something that makes you that excited from a man to fly out be a PJ in a Turks.

[Azar]

In a Turks.

[Paul Pierce]

That's why we say when y' all get to be about 30 and up, like y' all didn't already have the. Y' all didn't know. I can't do nothing to make you excited.

[Azar]

That's not true.

[Paul Pierce]

Like the young ones. I guess the young ones is gonna get excited to have a trip to Bahamas. They gonna be.

[Mandy B]

Oh, you actually just said it.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, you just said it.

[Mandy B]

You just said it.

[Weezy]

I know, but before.

[Mandy B]

It sounds crazy when he says it. But you. You literally just said planned a little.

[Weezy]

Date night where we went candle making. He was like, yeah, I know. Ain't no to. To do this. You ate everywhere. You done been everywhere.

[Azar]

But that's not true, though. If my man. The experience is different when it's your man. If I love this man and he's my man.

[Mandy B]

Like, what? What y'. All. That's what she. All y' all don't want to live.

[Azar]

No, I'm not doing that. All that r man. That. That's where I have to. That's why I said a free spirit.

[Mandy B]

I don't have time.

[Azar]

You free. Because I'm not that free. Like, what was the question you was.

[Mandy B]

Gonna ask us since we so free?

[Paul Pierce]

Is it ever.

[Azar]

I was gonna ask this free spirited question. If you have a man, since we're talking about going on trips and like how men like to fly women out or how they go to Brazil in these places. Cause they know women are busting it wide. Do you are like, are you okay with your man being like, I'm going on a boys trip. We're going to Brazil, my hom. Like, you can't ask her. Yeah. Cause she's.

[Weezy]

Wait, wait. We flying out bitches.

[Azar]

Yeah. Like his homies. They're gonna fly bitch out. But I' not doing that.

[Weezy]

So I think that. All right, well, I am in a dynamic where we're having sex with women all the time. Right.

[Azar]

But this is how I see I can't ask. But.

[Weezy]

But I will say, no, no, no. Genuinely speaking for my friends who aren't I'm also doing this without this person. I'm having sex with women. So.

[Azar]

So you guys. Wait, wait, wait. So you guys have sex with women together, and then separately, you get to have sex with women and he gets to have sex with women separately, too?

[Weezy]

Yes, but we be so all about each other. We don't really do with the separate shit.

[Azar]

But he tells you if.

[Weezy]

Like, for example, when we were in Germany, there was this really cool brothel that we had found online.

[Azar]

A brothel is crazy.

[Weezy]

No, like, literally, it's like a spa. They rub you down, you get like four.

[Azar]

Yeah, right.

[Weezy]

I've been there, found out women can't go. So we sitting at dinner, and I was like, I ain't gonna lie. I'm tired. Anyway, I was like, babe, go. He's like, no, this is our trip. Like, this the fucking. I'm like, yo, go. Come home and tell me what happened. And to me, that for someone that isn't ready for their nigga to be with other bitches, that is the most safe environment that you can have. Your man going to Brazil or Colombia, where there's sex workers and there's an experience, if you know that that person may be into that shit anyway. These are couples where you feel like your man is about to do this and lie. I think figuring out what you're willing to do and what you could feel comfortable with is the best case scenario. Sex workers are such a good way for men to exercise freedom if they're choosing to do it. Most women really give a fuck about emotional ties to other women. Flying bitches out, being embarrassed.

[Mandy B]

Oh, they're not emotional tie just because they fly you out.

[Weezy]

Well, no being embarrassed. Instagram stories, I fucked your nigga. Spending time together, hanging out dinners, all that, that's like getting to know each other. I've suggested to friends that think they're dating men like this that that may have to be your hard line, if that makes you okay.

[Azar]

Like paying for some.

[Weezy]

Yes. The trip sex. I think that shit kind of should just happen. I think women that are in relationships that are not going to be allowed one nigga on a little trip every 10 years, every 10, a woman should.

[Azar]

Be able to go on.

[Weezy]

You be like, hey, you and your.

[Mandy B]

Friends went to Tulum and it was.

[Weezy]

A cute little nigga. Okay, you fuck the nigga. Like, I think girls should have their little one. What's your hall pass? But I just think that the sex work part of it is really important because then this is literally the sexual experience, because why else are we so irritated about non monogamy. Cause we don't wanna lose you. So if my man is going to Columbia with his homeboys to not.

[Mandy B]

But you also gonna lose a nigga. You gonna lose a nigga if he want to be lost.

[Azar]

Exactly.

[Mandy B]

At the end of the day, whether you let a man fuck all the other women that he wants or not, like, he gonna stay when he want to stay and he gonna leave when he want to leave. It doesn't matter if you do all of these things. You can suck his dick from the back and make him feel the best, and he's still gonna go out there and want to do something.

[Weezy]

New pussy. New pussy.

[Azar]

Yeah. And if you. And I'm not going to be in the business of curating a vibe for you to make sure that I don't lose you. That's not what we gonna do.

[Mandy B]

I heard it.

[Azar]

I'm gonna do what I can as a woman to harness the connection. That was.

[Weezy]

Well, not y' all spitting right now.

[Azar]

Yeah. I'm gonna do what I can as a woman to harness the connection. Wait, I'm gonna.

[Weezy]

Zara say. No, I'm not about to say, oh, this is. I'm just saying curating.

[Paul Pierce]

But it may.

[Weezy]

If there's room where, you know, you're dating a man that wants to do this and he's trying to lead it up to you, be like, yo, then this is what I can handle. I just suggest that.

[Azar]

No, I get what you're getting into.

[Weezy]

Those relationships.

[Paul Pierce]

Right, right.

[Mandy B]

The problem is, too, though, men don't come in. I was about to say, men don't come in saying, I'm the type of man that's gonna run.

[Weezy]

No, no. They could be like, yo, I like to watch other bitches sometimes. Yes, they do. Yes, they do.

[Azar]

A lot of men are not the man say that.

[Mandy B]

Especially if they know a woman is into monogamy. They are not. At dinner, like, just so you know, I want to slide into some pussy from time to time.

[Weezy]

I've seen Baby Boy, just so you know. I like to fuck other bitches from time to time.

[Mandy B]

But I love Baby Boy.

[Paul Pierce]

She kept asking her because she kept pressing the line.

[Weezy]

And white women don't ask.

[Paul Pierce]

She keep pressing the line. I didn't say that. Don't put that on me.

[Azar]

No, but this is what I'll say. It's like, you're right. Men don't say that. And then men are also so traumatized to where, like, even if they felt like the woman could be into it, they feel like It's a Like. Like you're trying to set me up. Like, oh, babe, would you.

[Weezy]

And then hold this.

[Azar]

And then they're like, oh, you're trying to set me up. Because they're scared. Because once you say it, then they're gonna be like, what? See, I knew you want to. Like, it's never. They're never comfortable to come and tell somebody that. And I feel like we don't ever know that for sure. Because every man I've been with has just said, I want to be with you and nobody else. And I love you. And I don't even. This is the vibe. And this is this.

[Weezy]

Not premium.

[Azar]

You said what?

[Weezy]

I said not premium.

[Paul Pierce]

I think all women cheat anyway, so.

[Azar]

All women cheat is crazy to me. I don't think all women cheat. I think that a lot of women do cheat.

[Mandy B]

I mean. Yeah. Alex over there, clap. I'm not gonna hold you. And Carlos.

[Paul Pierce]

Carlos said it. Black men don't cheat, but all women cheat.

[Azar]

Give me off the pod.

[Mandy B]

Okay. I mean, I'm actually not gonna debate him on this.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, there's no debate.

[Mandy B]

Probably 90% of my homegirls, during our time of being, friends, have cheated on a nigga. Like, all of them.

[Azar]

I've never cheated on a man except once when I was 14.

[Mandy B]

But you still cheated on a man then I tell you when you still cheated on him.

[Azar]

I was 14 years old and I was a child.

[Mandy B]

I cheated on a man.

[Azar]

He wasn't even a real boyfriend. But the reason why I was gay.

[Paul Pierce]

But I was with this dude.

[Azar]

I wasn't. Listen, listen, listen. It doesn't count because I was forced to count.

[Paul Pierce]

It was one time.

[Azar]

Why it matters is because he's famous now. And at the time that he was a big rapper and they made, like a whole thing.

[Mandy B]

This is womanless.

[Azar]

A whole situation. I was 14. Carlos Miller on a pocket said, it doesn't even count after. Before 18. Like, whatever you did when you were 14 does not count.

[Weezy]

I'm not gonna ask why I love him anymore.

[Azar]

Yeah, like, that's so stupid. I was 17. It wasn't even a real relationship. We didn't even have sex. No, I cheated by kissing him on the.

[Mandy B]

On the lips.

[Azar]

Like, so I never. The only reason why I say that is because it's just like, whatever. I kiss him on lips. I'll never forget that. Right? But when I was grown, in all my adult relationships past 18, I have never cheated. I've been in multiple long term relationships. 3. And each one of them can say, come to the front. If I've cheated. I never cheated on a man.

[Mandy B]

I know that's right, girl.

[Azar]

I never cheated on a man.

[Weezy]

I haven't.

[Azar]

I promise you, I haven't. Because once I feel the desire to cheat, the relationship is over. Because if I like a man, I don't see no other nigga. I don't see no. I don't feel nobody else. I'm connected to this person. I'm obsessed. I'm like, oh, I love this man. I want to be around him. As soon as I stop feeling that feeling, and as soon as I feel like I'm interested in someone else, the relationship should be over.

[Weezy]

Do you know why this scares me a little?

[Mandy B]

Why?

[Weezy]

Because it kind of proves the rhetoric that women really do emotionally cheat, and sometimes nothing you're saying is bad. No, but you know how some women are saying, like, oh, they don't take us as sexual beings. Like, you know how women can have sex to feel free. When you hear things like this, it kind of proves the opposite, which is a reality. Right. Like me as a super sexual person. We joke on this podcast, I'm an emo ho. I'd be like, I know I want to eat first. Let's cuddle after.

[Azar]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Weezy]

Even if I'm in a super sexual energy, my man hates that I want to take that we on dates. He'd be like, what is.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, I would. I hate.

[Weezy]

Why are we doing this?

[Azar]

Yeah, exactly.

[Weezy]

He'd be so bored at dinner, dog.

[Mandy B]

Oh, yeah. For what?

[Paul Pierce]

He's like, y' all be having, like, you and another girl that y' all having sex with at dinner.

[Azar]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

Like.

[Azar]

And do you guys have multiple sexual occasions with the same women, or is it just one and done?

[Weezy]

Yeah, most time, we don't really. Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

So y' all got a girlfriend, Both of y'.

[Mandy B]

All.

[Weezy]

Not a girlfriend, but, like, it's like a girlfriend. Well, I say that because, like, I would really like for us to have one girl we really like, but that just hasn't happened. But something be a little off with all them hoes. You know what I'm saying?

[Azar]

Something be off with, wow.

[Mandy B]

What?

[Weezy]

You like more men, but I definitely can't give women up. And I've been in relationships with women. Well, one really serious one, and it's just like, you know, So I like the dynamic.

[Azar]

Can I ask you a question if. Since you're bisexual or. Right. Is that.

[Weezy]

Yes.

[Paul Pierce]

Yes.

[Weezy]

Okay.

[Azar]

I just want to make sure it's not a question.

[Paul Pierce]

You have to ask that.

[Mandy B]

Look, Paula's like, you don't have to ask that.

[Weezy]

I mean, it's. It. I'm saying.

[Azar]

Okay, so if. Since you're bisexual.

[Weezy]

Right.

[Paul Pierce]

Clear.

[Azar]

Would you be comfortable with being with a bisexual man?

[Weezy]

So I think that that question's a little low. Here's why. I'm really freaky deaky. However, there are a lot of things in my head about masculinity that's not necessarily fair. That's connected to, like, being the bottom, being the top. How far? Like, for example, I used to fuck with this drug dealer that told me once he would have dudes that owe him money and he would make them suck his dick. Now, something about that was so hot and powerful and it turned me on.

[Azar]

And I was like, that turned you off?

[Weezy]

Make them suck your dick. He's like that. That's. What else are they gonna do? They can't pay me. They gotta do that. And I was like, oh, my God, this is so hot. Now there's another girl somewhere listening, and y' all covering your faces and shit.

[Mandy B]

Don't look over here at me.

[Azar]

You like that?

[Mandy B]

You asked her that question? I didn't ask me that question.

[Paul Pierce]

But that makes you feel good?

[Weezy]

Good. I was. I just thought it was sexy.

[Azar]

Oh, my God. I would be so turned off. Okay, okay. But I'm not judging it. I just would.

[Mandy B]

But would you date him? Is what she's saying. Would you date a bisexual man?

[Weezy]

Yeah.

[Azar]

That's all I wanted to know. Because I'm curious.

[Weezy]

So I think the reason that I wouldn't is because at my age, I'm not meeting many bisexual men that.

[Mandy B]

That tell you they're bisexual?

[Weezy]

No, that can do both comfortably. There's not this, like, one occasion. It's like, if you intrinsically need to get fucked, I'm gonna feel too weird. Like, you really need dick, so that's gonna be a little too.

[Mandy B]

But then you have it in the closet. You can pull it out.

[Paul Pierce]

But I still don't know what the answer is.

[Weezy]

But if you have it in the closet, then that's not bisexuality. Like, if you want to fuck a man, then you really are bisexual, but you'll do it.

[Azar]

You'll peg a man in the butt?

[Mandy B]

Where else would you peg him?

[Azar]

In his nose? I want to know.

[Weezy]

But you gotta remember I was strapping up when I was gay, so it really ain't that different to me.

[Azar]

Oh, women. You strap women up too?

[Weezy]

Yeah, I was dating women for almost.

[Mandy B]

I've never strapped a woman. Still to this day, all them niggas.

[Weezy]

You fucked in ass, you ain't never got no coochie.

[Azar]

I'm traumatized. Wait, so what is going on?

[Mandy B]

You asked the questions, Azar.

[Azar]

I know, but this is great. So. Yes, okay. I'm not judging it. I just.

[Weezy]

She was.

[Mandy B]

Acting like you're not judging.

[Azar]

I really am not though. I just am very, like, wow. It's crazy because it's like I'm so closed off. I feel when I get around y'.

[Mandy B]

All, like, I. I've been trying to open you up, Azar, but, you know, open you up to new things and experiences, you know?

[Weezy]

To answer your question, though, I have too much shit in my head to do that. No, no, no. Like masculinity. Like, I'm already super, super dominant and men have told me that. Are you? A lot of dudes be saying shit to me. Like, I feel like a homegirl. I'm not, like, soft enough. I felt a lot of that.

[Azar]

What sign are you?

[Weezy]

I'm a Pisces.

[Mandy B]

We're not gonna do the full moons.

[Weezy]

It's kinda nice shit too, right? Like, I always be treating n like my homeboy, even when I'm in love with them. So because of that, I need a man who's almost way more over the top. And generally speaking, with bisexuality, I think I start to see us a little even. And that's what happens to me. Like, they start to. I don't know why it happens. It's not that I'm trying to judge it, but it does happen to me. And then I start to look at other men like they're manlier, which is really fucked up. I'm not saying it isn't, but it's what happens to me.

[Azar]

So do you like super feminine women or more masculine women?

[Weezy]

I don't really date masculine women because I like the girliest version of a girl. But I ain't gonna lie. Stud be about to fuck me all the time. Every time.

[Mandy B]

I don't know what it is.

[Weezy]

You know, Stud is like the little boho hoes.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't know what is that?

[Azar]

Boho is like, you know, the little boho vibes. And she's cute and she has tattoos and then things.

[Weezy]

But girly girls are the thing when I fuck the super femme girls. And that's what me and my man are struggling with.

[Paul Pierce]

Oh, man. Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

[Mandy B]

Look, the way you've been sitting here looking so lost. Paul is hilarious.

[Paul Pierce]

I am lost. I'm completely lost, y' all in a whole nother realm. I do not relate to none of this, y'. All. So if y' all watching this podcast, that's them. I'm just here for, you know.

[Weezy]

God, we can't eat a little coochie fat?

[Paul Pierce]

It's all good. It's all good.

[Mandy B]

You definitely relate to that.

[Paul Pierce]

You said femme is. What is femme like?

[Weezy]

Feminine. So people say lipstick, lesbian. That's an old school term. But when I'm sleeping with those girls where I'm meeting them out, I feel like I'm just like their first a lot. So that doesn't really work for me.

[Mandy B]

Oh, I don't like that.

[Weezy]

Oh, no. Me and my nigga are really struggling with that.

[Mandy B]

They don't really.

[Weezy]

They just be down there, like, I.

[Mandy B]

Don'T like that at all.

[Azar]

So wait a minute. This is my last question.

[Mandy B]

I don't want no little green.

[Azar]

When you're out and about, do you meet them out? Like, is it like, y' all are out and it's like, we're looking for a third. Is that, like, just on the move?

[Mandy B]

Do you see how she's saying it? No. The way you're even asking is so judgy.

[Weezy]

But it's okay.

[Azar]

I. I promise. I'm just curious. Like, is it that there you're out and you're looking for a third. You know how they say that on the movies and stuff? Like, we're looking for a third.

[Weezy]

So we're on abs, but for the most part.

[Azar]

Cause people have came to me looking for a third.

[Weezy]

Girls wanna fuck us with. People come up.

[Mandy B]

I was gonna say.

[Weezy]

But our look is the same. My dude is tatted and has tattoos, locks, very earthy look.

[Azar]

Okay.

[Weezy]

He's got that kind of look.

[Azar]

And y' all look like you'll have a third.

[Weezy]

Oh, bro.

[Mandy B]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

Do you know who he wants to fuck the most? Who? His little thing. We had to force him with this. With this lesbian couple. She was a stud. He was. The girlfriend was real cute. He wasn't even on her. The stud never had dick before. And he was like, I'm good, baby. You go over there. He was like. So he is so fascinated because he really likes, like, especially. You can see me. I'm not the girliest girl, right? He likes that shit. So he's like meeting studs. Like, I feel like people rarely call them beautiful girls. I always want to say, like, they look like another guy or whatever. They like the manliness in them. And I don't. I think they're beautiful women.

[Azar]

So he likes studs.

[Weezy]

If he be looking at himself like, I'mma fuck this bitch, bro. When we had Jozzy on the podcast, he was like, when we hanging out with her, I'm like, nigga, calm down.

[Mandy B]

Oh, wow.

[Weezy]

We went, huh?

[Azar]

No, nothing. I met her one time. No, I met her with Paul one time.

[Mandy B]

Well, she be bagging all the bitches, so she ain't trying to. She ain't trying to hit on you.

[Paul Pierce]

Is she a stud?

[Azar]

Yeah. Remember we met her. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter.

[Weezy]

And she's beautiful and she's vibey, like, so I think it's. It's really that. But when we meet women, most of the time, they're girls that pretty much want to fuck my nigga and think I'm cute too, every time.

[Azar]

So it's not hard for y'.

[Weezy]

All.

[Paul Pierce]

Y' all be both out.

[Weezy]

We always. We really never. Not around each other.

[Paul Pierce]

I mean, almost every picture. Like, y' all just be out all the time, and girls come up like.

[Weezy]

Bro, we could go to a fucking video.

[Azar]

I would like to observe.

[Mandy B]

Have y' all never been in relationships like that where y' all felt like y' all could just fuck anybody?

[Weezy]

I don't think you probably always feeling like I'm hoes.

[Mandy B]

Me and my ex, we could literally fuck the bartender, the waiter. Like, even when I went to the club with y' all after filming yalls pod, there was a whole bitch that approached me to fuck. And I was with a dude, and he was like, he didn't want him.

[Paul Pierce]

Actually, the show dude right here, you.

[Weezy]

Can swipe through him.

[Azar]

That's the profile.

[Mandy B]

Not you showing up the profile. That's the dating app.

[Weezy]

I want to see the profile.

[Azar]

Does it say in the bio we're.

[Weezy]

Looking for a third bitch? They don't even.

[Mandy B]

They know, bitch, we in a photo together.

[Azar]

Y' all look alike. Y' all are cute. Y' all are super cute.

[Weezy]

But I think when you see couples that kind of look a little sexual too. Thank you.

[Azar]

Y' all are a vibe. And y' all look like you are looking for a third.

[Paul Pierce]

All right, I didn't look at the other one.

[Weezy]

Look at the other one.

[Paul Pierce]

Ha ha. Which one?

[Azar]

Okay, so scroll them up so you can see all.

[Weezy]

Now she know how to use field.

[Azar]

Oh, what is this called?

[Weezy]

Uh huh. Oh, girl, the lesbians be mad. They be like, I'm tired of y'. All.

[Azar]

What is it called? Field.

[Mandy B]

Field.

[Azar]

Like, I'm in the field that.

[Weezy]

Oh, actually, yeah.

[Mandy B]

Oh, maybe. Yeah.

[Azar]

And it's a lesbian act.

[Mandy B]

That's where I met. I was looking to date a couple last year and I met a couple on there.

[Azar]

It's just for couples that go on there.

[Mandy B]

Well, it's a lot of couples, people.

[Weezy]

That are like, open to different sexuality.

[Mandy B]

Like, and different type of relationship styles. Oh, interesting.

[Weezy]

But in the field, for real is where I feel like. I feel like we end up with girls that didn't even realize they would.

[Azar]

Do it because they're on that app, though. Why are you on that app though? Because I never heard of that. I never heard of that.

[Weezy]

Meeting women in person, they're not someone that would even discover this. It's very like, first time. I can't believe I'm gonna go on a date with y'. All. But he went to the bathroom at a club recently. He was like, yo, I saw a girl that you really like. Will you go down there with me? It was. It's like, you know, at. What is it in New York? The public hotel. It's like always. It's all one big bathroom. We go down there. Uh huh.

[Azar]

I know what you're talking about.

[Weezy]

And he literally was like, yo, me and my girl think you're beautiful. Like, can we take you to dinner? And she was like, I thought I was gonna meet a nigga tonight. This is not what I expected.

[Azar]

But they're just intrigued, huh? They're like, yeah, just looking and like.

[Weezy]

Probably also seeing that I'm not being pushed. Cause you know, some dudes, especially with look, status, money, they're bringing girls back and their girls probably just doing it just. Cause. But I think the openness. And you see a couple that's sexier, like, why not?

[Mandy B]

Would either of y' all ever be in an open relationship?

[Azar]

No, I would never.

[Mandy B]

You would never?

[Azar]

No.

[Mandy B]

Paul.

[Paul Pierce]

Nah, it never works.

[Mandy B]

You said open relationships never work.

[Paul Pierce]

But like, play the percentages. It don't work.

[Mandy B]

Neither do monogamy. Monogamous relationships, like, I think it's the same percentage, but I don't need all.

[Azar]

Those different energies in my atmosphere. Like, if I'm gonna be with you.

[Paul Pierce]

It just causes confusion. Yeah, I think, you know, like, I.

[Azar]

Get it, but I like a good old fashioned.

[Paul Pierce]

I just, you know, they.

[Azar]

You like an old fashioned if it happen, happens. Like, I don't condone cheating. Is that a deal?

[Mandy B]

Right? Would you stay with a guy if he cheated? Or are you like Miami and say he got three cheats? How many cheats does a man have with you?

[Azar]

It depends on the type of cheat. It depends on the level of chi. Seriously. And it depends on how long we've been together and everything. Like, if I have a really strong relationship with someone and he slipped up, like, I would be really hurt.

[Mandy B]

You don't just slip up into some bro.

[Azar]

You might. I. I would be really hurt. You know, you might come up on them. I might be really hurt.

[Mandy B]

You do not just slip and fall into some pussy. No, you do.

[Azar]

When I say you slip. Let me tell you what I mean by that. You're out and about, you're loose, you're lit. You're with your da, da, da, da. A girl comes up, and it's just like a moment, and you're out of town and something happens. Like, I'm gonna be really hurt because you broke my trust. And I'm feel really sad, and I know I will be.

[Mandy B]

And then you get over the sadness.

[Azar]

I will get over it eventually, but it depends on the level of the relationship. Like, if we're really strong and we have a family, we built this empire. We're doing this, we're doing that. And that happens. Like, it is going to break my trust. We will have to rebuild. But, like, I don't see me just walking away immediately because of that. You know what I mean? Like, I. I don't see that, but I do see. Like, I don't know. I just don't love that.

[Paul Pierce]

I got a question. Can you be cheated on?

[Weezy]

Yes. Yes. Oh, my God.

[Azar]

That's why this. This open stuff, it gets too tricky because y' all have too many.

[Mandy B]

You can still be lied and betrayed. My answer. We had sex with a lot.

[Paul Pierce]

Why would I lie to. We doing this.

[Weezy]

My point.

[Mandy B]

Because niggas lie.

[Weezy]

Because, for example, right? How can we have a rule where neither of us let her say it. Neither of us will be with other people if we're in a bad place. Like, if we're arguing and. Or. Like, my dad's older, so sometimes he has a lot of health issues, right? And there was this night where I had to run to the hospital. And I remember, like, he told me he may see this girl this weekend. So I called him. He was like, baby, you ain't even got a. Like. Like, tell me. I'm not about to. Like, trust me, I get it. We don't even need to have conversations about taking a pause when we're going through shit as a family, when we're going through shit together. Like, we only do this shit in happiness. Like, we're not about to be fucking.

[Azar]

Struggling and doing that.

[Weezy]

Like, imagine if I did that to him. He going through Some shit. I'm like, okay, well, I'm gonna fuck this bitch. So we just make sure that when sex happens outside of each other and together, we're really excited about it. Because otherwise then, all right, here goes. So lies could happen there. He could lie to me and start seeing somebody.

[Paul Pierce]

It's tricky. All right, I'm about to get. All right, hold on. So he go out, he find a female, smash her, come back and like, hey, baby, I found da da da.

[Weezy]

He never has sex without talking to me.

[Paul Pierce]

So if he out, he gotta check in, be like, hey, it's a girl right here. I think she cool. Here, look, look. This her right here. Is this cool? How does that work?

[Weezy]

Well, for one, in our dynamic, I don't do this thing of I have to find out something before he gotta have it okay with me. Like, we're in a very committed, serious relationship and spending probably almost living together. So what the fuck you about to do? Just not come home till nine in the morning? No. Like, we got some backlash.

[Paul Pierce]

He gotta call you to tell you what's about to happen.

[Weezy]

He's never had sex with someone the same night. He's gotten some numbers to tell me about it the next day. Pin. And that's not how. That's not comfortable for me.

[Azar]

Do you guys have sex? Like, have you and Mandy had sex before?

[Mandy B]

Fuck no.

[Azar]

Okay, so do you have sex with your friends or is that off limits? Like, let's say you have a friend.

[Mandy B]

We talk about this all the time. She don't fuck her friends. I fuck all my friends just.

[Weezy]

Cause like, not all of them, but most of them. You gotta remember I was dating a woman. And most of my friends remember that. I don't like to cross the boundary with homegirls. I feel like they then start to just be like.

[Mandy B]

And they don't. Me and my friends were all still very cool, but.

[Weezy]

But we got more about our gay on the next episode. Okay.

[Mandy B]

We are.

[Paul Pierce]

We are.

[Azar]

Yeah. This was a lot.

[Mandy B]

We were. It was the Truth After Dark. Okay.

[Azar]

Yeah, it was good.

[Weezy]

You guys talk a lot now. I definitely want to.

[Mandy B]

No, we both got to come on. Come on there. I came on there with Guap dad and we had a great, great, great.

[Azar]

Guys should come on. You guys should come on.

[Mandy B]

Well, you're just so. You know, damn. The dms after going on Truth After Dark. It's fun.

[Azar]

Yeah. I learned a lot. I learned a lot. I'm really. No, I am. I did. I. I'm really like, wow, this was informed.

[Paul Pierce]

This is something different right here.

[Azar]

Yeah, this is so different. And I'm happy for your journey.

[Weezy]

Thank you.

[Azar]

I love that for you. It's not even judging. Like, I feel like.

[Paul Pierce]

No, no, no, no. It's not judging. This is like. Like listening to you on all the levels. Like, not only what your boyfriend, what y' all do, but, like, how you just, like, broke down. I never seen nothing like that.

[Weezy]

I also. This can't be every man. You know what I'm saying?

[Paul Pierce]

I understand it.

[Weezy]

I understand that, like, men will violate you. A lot of women will violate that too.

[Paul Pierce]

It's like.

[Azar]

So, yeah, it gotta be this. Like, it's.

[Paul Pierce]

This is something spiritual you got.

[Weezy]

For real. We talk about, like, man, when we get pregnant, we damn, we ain't gonna no hoes. Like, maybe we got to get one.

[Mandy B]

Girl we really love.

[Azar]

Like, do you ever have a situation. This is my last question. Where it's like, a girl and you only. That she only wants to have sex with you. So he just watches and he doesn't partake.

[Weezy]

Actually, the last girl, we was kind of like that. They were kind of arguing about, you know, when you drunk, you just be like, like, so and so got way more money. He was like, I'm kind of tired of this. And I was like, what the. So that. It started off like that, but they're actually. I think in the reverse. A lot of the girls, we are super attracted to him and probably never been with a girl. And they're just like.

[Azar]

They just want to have sex with him, but they're gonna just take you as the dude. He don't like that.

[Weezy]

Kind of off.

[Paul Pierce]

You get more for the team.

[Azar]

I could see that. You take them on for the bro.

[Weezy]

I'm gonna tell you right now, New York is beautiful. I took one for the team before.

[Paul Pierce]

No, but the girl who's. She's like, I'm gonna take one for the team. I'm gonna get her. I know she come with the package, but it. I'm gonna take one for the team by myself.

[Mandy B]

I mean, my ex used to take. He used to say he was taking one for the team. Cause we didn't have the same type. So he would fuck even though he wasn't.

[Weezy]

What is your type?

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, he wasn't invested.

[Mandy B]

He wasn't invested, but he would still get some. Cause it's there. But he would tell me, like, I'm not fully invested.

[Weezy]

Are we about to dig into all nonmonogamy? We go on truth after death?

[Mandy B]

Yeah, we should do that. We'll dig into Non monogamy with y'.

[Azar]

All.

[Weezy]

You guys are gonna come on Truth sending questions in.

[Mandy B]

So y' all make sure y' all.

[Azar]

Check out Truth the Dark.

[Mandy B]

Azar Paul, Truth After Dark. I love that you are doing more than just talking about sports like a lot of the other guys. Like, I love that you're just showing up as your true authentic self. Even though I hope some of your takes are for viral clips. I think you're a great person. I love you, Dale.

[Azar]

I love you guys.

[Mandy B]

Y' all are great together. And I'm really excited to see how much bigger this podcast gets. Thank you guys and just congratulations on all things. And we gonna have to do a part two. Cause y' all turned this into a goddamn interview at the end. We was trying to clock your ass. I thought this was gonna be some gender war shit. We have all these questions about non monogamy.

[Azar]

Yeah, well, it's good. And I want you guys to come on the Truth After Dark.

[Weezy]

Y' all should be. When we out eat with the. They be like, oh my God.

[Azar]

Can we just ask you guys what's going on? Yeah, cuz it's good.

[Mandy B]

And it's.

[Weezy]

It's like a TV show.

[Azar]

We're come on Truth out of the Dark. We're going to talk about it. So everyone know that they're going to come on. We're going to go dig into her sexual stuff. Cuz that's just.

[Mandy B]

And before we get out of here, y' all make sure you go get your copy of no Holds Barred, A dual manifesto, sexual exploration and power. New York Times bestseller. It is available wherever you get books. Also audiobook is available where we read it ourselves. And if you want bonus content, join us over on the Patreon. That's patreon.com Horrible Decisions. For those of y' all pussy assholes who think it don't exist. No mo. You just gotta pay as little as $5 a month and you get horrible decisions. So go sign up, go check out all the content. And this has been another episode of Decisions, Decisions. Bye, pussy assholes.

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