Ep. 437: Spilled Tea & Ex-Flings (Ft. AlexxMedia)

Summary

Podcast Summary: Decisions, Decisions – Ep. 437: Spilled Tea & Ex-Flings (Feat. AlexxMedia)

Release Date: September 8, 2025
Hosts: Mandii B, WheezyWTF
Guest: AlexxMedia

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Episode Overview

This episode dives headfirst into the complexities of non-traditional relationships, juggling multiple romantic connections, confronting the realities of open dating, and negotiating boundaries and expectations. The hosts, Mandii B and WheezyWTF, bring their signature blend of humor, raw honesty, and insight, along with guest AlexxMedia. Their conversation ranges from hilarious dating escapades to serious discussions about consent, honesty, sexual dynamics, and the pitfalls of new dating apps.

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Main Themes and Purpose

• Exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics (polyamory, threesomes, open dating)
• De-stigmatizing candid conversations about sex, dating, and boundaries
• The art of juggling rosters, ex-flings, and “pull up” culture
• Discussing communication and respect when inviting thirds into relationships
• Navigating the gray areas of ghosting and what it means today
• Ethics, risks, and gossip around new safety-focused dating apps like “The Tea”
• The hazards and joys of being “overly sexual”
• Managing honesty, vulnerability, and personal standards in love and sex

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Mandii's LA Dating Escapades and Roster Management

[02:38–13:00]

• Mandii details her LA adventures: organizing a pool day and inviting “all the niggas I’m fucking, wanna fuck, talking to, just met on Raya, who knows?”

  “I invited all the niggas I’m fucking, wanna fuck, talking to, just met on Raya. Who knows?” — Mandii B [08:17]

• Two main candidates show up: her reliable ‘YN’ (young nigga, under 30) and a new prospect from Raya, each entertained separately at the cabana.
• The Raya guy impresses by paying for everyone at dinner, signaling maturity and wealth ("he can afford $20,000 a month in alimony…" [14:13]).
• Discussion on preferred age ranges: Mandii is only interested in under 30 or over 40 — “I don’t want nobody in their 30s” [11:09].

Memorable Moment:
Mandii’s friend Stacy goes full detective at dinner, grilling the prospect about his divorce, finances, and intent, demonstrating the value of artillery friends during early dating.

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2. Roster Juggling & The Art of the “Pull Up”

[07:54–13:00, 27:57–32:09]

• The panel shares laughs and advice about inviting multiple partners to group events.
• Mandii relishes the thrill: “I think I’m gonna do it more often, invite my niggas to pull up and everybody gotta be cool. It was exciting.” [30:37]
• Wheezy jokes that it sounds like “the start of a gangbang” [30:54], underscoring the blurred lines and comedic chaos that comes with modern dating.
• Alex pokes fun at Mandii’s roster tactics—“Both y’all ain’t shit niggas. You ghosted bitches, she juggling them at the same party.” [30:29]

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3. What Counts as Ghosting?

[17:26–27:57]

• Wheezy recounts ghosting a woman she and her partner previously slept with. On rekindling, the woman expresses hurt, calling out ghosting behavior:

  “This is my chance to ask why I was ghosted in the first place.” — Text from ex-fling, read by Wheezy [18:57]

• The hosts debate what constitutes ghosting in non-traditional dynamics—eight months with no contact after intimacy definitely qualifies.

  “If I fucked a nigga and he don’t hit me for eight months, I would feel ghosted.” — Mandii B [20:33]

• Discussion on how much communication is required when forming non-monogamous connections, emphasizing the need for clarity and honesty, especially with third partners.

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4. Non-Traditional Relationships & Managing Thirds

[22:04–29:39]

• Both hosts share their experiences managing expectations when adding a “third” in their relationships.
• The consensus: clear communication is essential; being a third isn’t just “pull up and hook up.”

  “As a bitch who’s been a third – no, no, no, no. That is not how that shit works.” — Mandii B [24:49]

• Wheezy reflects on her own missteps: “If you as a person in a relationship want thirds … you might need to have just flings and go.” [27:57]
• Alex challenges, “Isn’t it the same way you do a threesome—it’s like you’re not into women, but you do a threesome?” [34:38]

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5. Moments of Vulnerability, Lies, and Truth

[35:30–40:09]

• The Truth or Dare segment leads into admissions about lying by omission, negotiating aesthetic choices with a partner, and what is ‘acceptable deception.’

  “This is a premeditated lie … you can still go to jail for premeditated murder!” — Mindii & Alexx [39:53–40:06]

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6. The Honesty Paradox: Can We Really Handle the Truth?

[43:16–48:57]

• Discussion featuring a viral clip questioning if women really want the truth from men, especially around loyalty and sexual boredom.

  “Bitch, you can’t handle the truth … you’d rather sit there for three years, get cheated on, be crying, than hear that he wants to fuck other bitches.” — Quoting Kat from Taz’s Angels [43:30]

• Mandii and Wheezy assert that everyone struggles with honesty in relationships and doubts if people truly desire total transparency.

  “I think specifically in romantic relationships … people don’t know how to do things and not be mean.” — Wheezy [46:52]

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7. “Overly Sexual” People & Risky Behaviors

[55:54–61:57]

• The hosts examine the narrative that being “overly sexual” is inherently self-destructive, referencing discourse around celebrities and recent scandals.

  “Do you think that we’re going to come to a demise for being … overly sexual?” — Mindii [57:20] “I actually agree with that. Think about niggas that can’t stop fucking around.” — Wheezy [56:36]

• Mandii and Wheezy push back, defining healthy boundaries around communication, disclosure, and consent.

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8. The Tea: Dating Apps, Safety, & Online Gossip

[64:05–70:47]

• Discussion on “The Tea” app: a controversial platform for women to review and warn each other about men, often anonymously.

  “You could say anything about a man … and there’s nothing to fact check if it’s true.” — Mindii [64:43]

• Pros: tool for accountability, potential for safety.
• Cons: potential for defamatory, unchecked claims, lack of transparency and possible abuse.

  “If you’re protecting other women, let us know that you was fucking with that ain’t shit nigga. Period.” — Wheezy [71:17]

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9. Post-Flings Etiquette: Should You Congratulate Old Hookups?

[72:27–75:18]

• The group debates whether it’s appropriate to publicly congratulate ex-partners (or ex-flings) on social media after they settle down.

  “If I had a nigga’s dick in my mouth, I’m not congratulating him on his happiness on Instagram. … I don’t follow niggas that I moved on [from].” — Mindii [74:35]

• Wheezy argues it’s mature if things ended well, but Mandii feels it might be petty or inappropriate.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Roster Management:
  “I invited all the niggas I’m fucking, wanna fuck, talking to, just met on Raya…”
  — Mandii B [08:17]

• Paying for the Table:
  “He paid. And you know, that made my pussy thump.”
  — Mandii B [10:26]

• Ghosting Culture:
  “You texting somebody every week, and then all of a sudden you just...poof.”
  — Alexx [25:23]

• Honesty in Relationships:
  “Bitch, you can’t handle the truth…you’d rather sit there for three years, get cheated on…”
  — Quoting Kat/Taz’s Angels [43:30]

• Sex in Public Spaces:
  “We fucked at a museum yesterday. That was crazy.”
  — Wheezy [49:02]

• ‘Overly Sexual’ Stereotype:
  “Do people not have sex in public places? …No, no regular people, quote unquote, because we are not regular.”
  — Mindii [57:25]

• Safety Apps Critique:
  “You could say, here’s how it works… Anthony has herpes, is an abusive pedophile… How do you know he’s a pedophile? Is it a label?”
  — Wheezy & Alexx [65:41–66:07]

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• Mandii’s pool/cabana “roster” tale: [02:54–13:00]
• Debate about “YN” (young nigga) age category: [07:56–08:10]
• Ghosting and expectations of thirds: [17:26–27:57]
• Truth or Dare / Lies in relationships: [35:30–40:09]
• Honesty and “can we handle the truth?”: [43:16–48:57]
• On being “overly sexual” and risk: [55:54–61:57]
• Tea App & online reputation/safety: [64:05–70:47]
• Should you congratulate an ex? Etiquette: [72:27–75:18]

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Tone, Style & Takeaways

The episode is a candid, hilarious, and sometimes raucous exploration of modern adult relationships, particularly among people unafraid to challenge sexual and emotional norms. The hosts’ banter makes taboo topics feel approachable, while the inclusion of guest AlexxMedia provides an extra layer of humor and reflection. Conversations wander naturally, full of real anecdotes, self-deprecation, and moments of vulnerability.

Key Takeaways:

• Non-traditional dating is messy—but communicating expectations is paramount.
• Ghosting is still ghosting, even if unintentional or in group/third scenarios.
• Honesty is complex; most people want it but struggle when it stings.
• Apps designed to protect can easily become vectors for gossip or even defamation.
• Being “overly sexual” isn’t inherently risky, but lack of boundaries and honesty can be.
• Juggling multiple flings requires confidence, clarity, and a lot of humor.

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Conclusion

Ep. 437 masterfully blends comedic storytelling and real talk about relationships, sex, and the landscapes of modern love. For anyone intrigued by open relationships, dating app drama, and the boundaries of contemporary intimacy, this episode is a wild, insightful ride—one that reminds you that communication, respect, and honesty remain timeless, even when the relationships themselves are anything but traditional.

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Transcript

[Mindy B]

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[Mindy B]

Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate the Black Effect Podcast network. It's turning five.

[Wheezy]

Five years of powerful voices, unforgettable moments, and a community that keeps growing.

[Mindy B]

This is the power of the platform. Now let's get into it. When I tell you I saw him, but I had to leave. Like Cinderella, leopard, glass slipper type. But I met him and at this little party, I literally hit up the person I knew through the party. I said I need that. So I didn't even get his number, didn't get his Instagram, so now he a part of the roster.

[Wheezy]

Best show for you.

[Mindy B]

So Alex, I need you to create a short dirty talk monologue, ok? Be nasty with it.

[Alex]

Come on, come on. We don't even dirty talk like that.

[Mindy B]

Well, I need you to get into your acting bag. And action.

[Wheezy]

Welcome to Decisions Decisions.

[Mindy B]

I don't think you should say Decisions, Decisions. It sounded like you was talking in cursive.

[Wheezy]

You definitely say the welcome.

[Mindy B]

Welcome to the new podcast.

[Wheezy]

Oh wait, you wanna say it together? Decisions, Decisions.

[Mindy B]

Hey guys. Welcome to another episode of Decisions Decision. I'm your girl, Mindy B. Sorry. I just felt like doing that because, listen, this trip has been hot and steamy for me, and it's been great.

[Alex]

I have that effect on you.

[Mindy B]

Oh, my God, Alex, you do not have that guy again. Okay, wait, wait. Can I be dis. Can I be inappropriate real quick? Your girl got that effect on me.

[Alex]

Oh, my God.

[Mindy B]

I really like her. Like, if we were beefing and she wasn't so respectful to you, I would probably try it.

[Wheezy]

Like, so not gay either.

[Mindy B]

And when I.

[Wheezy]

She couldn't be further from you.

[Mindy B]

I'm so mad. She's not.

[Wheezy]

You know when someone's a little too straight?

[Mindy B]

Like, I'm not gonna lie. Like, you know how we. Like, we talked about, like, Jo. Like, I don't like you, Alex, but I would join you for her.

[Alex]

Like, I. Yo, that's a lot.

[Mindy B]

I like her. That's a lot. And then whenever she's there. Cause we've hung out at Pergola. Even last night, all my friends loved her. They're like, oh, my God, I really like her. She's so, like, she's amazing.

[Wheezy]

Oh, my God, my mom.

[Mindy B]

I don't know how the fuck you got. How the fuck you got so lucky.

[Alex]

I'm amazing to pull that.

[Mindy B]

Cause God damn, I'm amazing. She's amaz.

[Alex]

Well, also, fuck you.

[Wheezy]

She's just such a good person.

[Alex]

He wanted the same thing about your boyfriend. Why did he deal with your ass?

[Mindy B]

Ooh.

[Wheezy]

They, like, let me tell you. Crazy bitches good pussy.

[Mindy B]

She's not crazy. Is your girl crazy?

[Alex]

She has a moment.

[Wheezy]

Please.

[Alex]

She has a moment.

[Wheezy]

Mean bitches good pussy too. She's a little mean.

[Mindy B]

Nice bitches have good pussy. I fucked some nice bitches and they had good pussy.

[Wheezy]

Maybe they were nice to you.

[Alex]

Yeah.

[Wheezy]

Do you know what she said when I signed the lease the other day? I was signing a lease, and he goes, I won't say her name.

[Mindy B]

Yeah. Bleep.

[Wheezy]

Oh, is she here? I was like, no. He's like, well, if she was, I would have had to have been very on time. She doesn't fuck around. Can't do anything wrong. I mean, wow. I was like, oh, yeah, she's from Spain. Yeah.

[Mindy B]

I was like, oh, then, oh, no.

[Wheezy]

You should have.

[Mindy B]

You should have seen her yesterday. She was like, the next time you leave stuff around in the studio, can you just let me know? Because I would have throw away the fucking wig of the goddamn shit. And then someone said that it was for. It was for decision decisions. She was like, shit. Because I be coming in the fucking studio. Do you know how many people just leave their shit everywhere? And she's like, I just have to go in there. And I just. I was throwing everything out. And I could throw away y' all shit that y' all left in there, but God damn it, people leave shit in there all the goddamn time. And I was like, sorry, didn't know. Oh, yeah.

[Wheezy]

Why do you think I would feel bad when we would go out? And I knew he had to go home. Need a crazy Latina, but, oh, my name is Wheezy, and we're here with Alex. Can't believe it.

[Mindy B]

Can't believe it. God damn. Not sure how the. You're here again.

[Wheezy]

What?

[Alex]

I'll be here. I'll be here.

[Mindy B]

You'll be around. You be around.

[Wheezy]

And those are shorts, not a skirt, son.

[Alex]

Really?

[Mindy B]

I knew that those were shorts.

[Wheezy]

Everybody knows I do a horrible minute. 45 minutes, and it gets returned. If it ain't rent the Runway, it's rented and returned.

[Mindy B]

That is hilarious.

[Wheezy]

I've been actually very worried that one day I'll get so famous, I'll have a Joe Budden Kith moment.

[Mindy B]

What was that?

[Wheezy]

There was a moment where he took a photo to return something and return something.

[Alex]

Oh, yeah.

[Wheezy]

And people dragged him for that bitch. I be scared I walk in the store.

[Mindy B]

Are you?

[Wheezy]

Oh. But on some real shit, though, when it comes to like. And I don't feel like she and her fashion Nova returns count because it's fucked up capitalism. And also, they probably have child slaves.

[Mindy B]

I'm not returning, shein. I just give it to my friends. If it doesn't fit, I'm not returning shit.

[Wheezy]

No, I just. When we record bulk record, I'll just order 10 things and then I keep the two.

[Mindy B]

I like. Oh, I ain't gonna hold you the way y' all just about to get these repeated outfits. All of my closets are full, and I'm just like, nope, Y' all just gonna see me. And what I. What I.

[Wheezy]

We do need to be like, recycling clothes, wearing shit. Anyway, let's start talking about the niggas that you was about to fuck this weekend.

[Mindy B]

Uh, that is crazy.

[Wheezy]

We're married.

[Mindy B]

Wait, are we deep? First off, I'm dating and I'm having a great time. Thanks very much.

[Wheezy]

Okay, I guess.

[Mindy B]

Okay, so catch up. We'll catch up. I'm out here in LA having a grand old time.

[Alex]

She's out.

[Wheezy]

Jewel said, I didn't know Mandy had a new boyfriend.

[Mindy B]

I said, oh, that is okay? So I don't date, but I stepped out, okay? So yesterday was my day off. While out here, you know, people had to be with their fams. You have everyone. I had a Sunday Funday, okay? God damn it. So anyways, nothing. I wanted more than to just be at the pool. So normally when I come to la, it's between recording. I have breakfast, lunch, fucking dinner scheduled. Everyone. And everything is so far in fucking LA. Everything is deep. Everything is 30 minutes away. Ubers are $50 minimum every single fucking time. Girl, please.

[Wheezy]

New York Ubers are way crazy.

[Mindy B]

Well, I'm not in New York no more, bitch. My Ubers are $8. I live in Atlanta now, okay? Bitch, life is cheap, okay? So I come out here and I'm like, fuck. I said, you know what? Fuck it. This time I'm gonna get the pool. I'm gonna get a cabana, and everyone that wants to fucking see me can just come and meet me at the pool. So what do I do? Invite everybody. Friends and all the niggas I'm talking to. So I got a little. One little nigga that I be seeing out here. I call him my little yn. Cause he under 30, over 24.

[Wheezy]

Now. Yns are under 30.

[Mindy B]

He's under 30. Yeah. Yeah, that's what. That's what a Y N is.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, I know. I really thought YN was like, you know, when they be looking like teenager age, like 21, 22. I thought that was Y N. I.

[Mindy B]

Think just under 30.

[Alex]

Is YN under 30?

[Mindy B]

Hold on, wait, wait, wait. We'll talk about it. We'll talk about it. Let's debate yn.

[Wheezy]

I'm saying I would love to do a poll. I gotta remind myself.

[Mindy B]

But, yeah, Wyan is under 30. So, anywho. So I do the poll day and I'm like, you know what? Whoever pulls up, like, I knew I had my little spend limit. I got the cabana. I'm the boss, so. Because I'm the boss and I just know how bosses move. I invited all the niggas I'm fucking wanna fuck talking to just met on Raya. Who knows? And so anyway.

[Wheezy]

Wait, did you meet the person before they showed up?

[Mindy B]

What do you mean?

[Wheezy]

The person you met online on Raya?

[Mindy B]

No, he was pulling up to meet.

[Wheezy]

To meet for the first time.

[Mindy B]

Yeah. Cause I got busy the day before. And so what? I got busy the day before.

[Wheezy]

Pull up on me.

[Mindy B]

So pull up on me at the pool. I'm with my friends. Pull up. I didn't like, you know what?

[Wheezy]

So then you don't want to date.

[Mindy B]

Bitch, I don't want to date none of these niggas.

[Wheezy]

Okay?

[Mindy B]

I'm outside. So anyways, I tell him to pull up. But also my YN texted me too. I'm at the pool, pull up. I didn't know they were gonna both really pull up. And so now a nigga that's a prospect and a nigga that is great dick and ain't going nowhere are there at the same time. And I think I handled it very well. One stayed in the pool, the other in the cabana. And I just went back and forth and entertained them both. Made sure they had drinks, and it was great. And then Wyan left and I stayed with the guy from Riot. Ended up, like, joining us for dinner. We went to a comedy club. It was great.

[Wheezy]

So let me tell you how we saw it.

[Mindy B]

Literally. Hold on. Mind you. Let me tell you. I don't really be outside with my niggas like that. It's like, just come over. Like, I don't really be outside. And then we had a good dinner. He was really nice to my friends.

[Wheezy]

Like, he seemed nice.

[Mindy B]

Paid for. Like, we went out, so it was me. Oh, he paid for everything. Oh, he paid for Elliot, Jacob. Uh, Elliott was with a friend, a whole table.

[Alex]

He paid for other niggas.

[Mindy B]

He paid for other niggas.

[Wheezy]

Oh. Cause Jacob's got. No offense. I'm like, no.

[Mindy B]

But Jacob had paid for Elliott and Elliot, and Elliott had another friend with him, so paid for the whole table.

[Wheezy]

Robert Wilson.

[Mindy B]

Yes.

[Wheezy]

A grown ass man. He paid for everybody.

[Mindy B]

He paid. And you know, that made my pussy thump. So then I was like, okay.

[Wheezy]

Oh, that would make me do, bro.

[Mindy B]

Paid for everybody get whatever. Like it was. And I was like, okay. So then we go to the. So then we gonna have Homachi. We go to the comedy club. Jacob has, like, he set it up for us. So he paid for everyone's drink at the comedy club. And it was just like, okay, I really like this guy. And now. Yeah, I guess might see him again in New York.

[Wheezy]

Not if you gonna be back in LA again.

[Mindy B]

No, no, no, no. He don't live here, so we'll probably meet somewhere else. New York, something like that. But he was really nice, and he's older, so I was like, oh, look at me. Like, broad spectrum. I even had to ask him. I was like, are you a millennial?

[Wheezy]

I don't feel like autism.

[Mindy B]

Literally. I mean, well, I got my under 30 and then I got my above 40. I do realize after Captain Hook being in the club, I don't want none of. None of the niggas in their 30s. All y' all could say, I don't want nobody in their 30s. I want under 30, over 40. Let's go. And right now, my roster is really panning out great. Towards the end of the summer. I'm loving it.

[Alex]

The under 30 isn't in the club too.

[Mindy B]

He's not really in the club. He's artsy.

[Wheezy]

So, okay, maybe that he does the under 30 being a club.

[Mindy B]

The under 30, he does, like, industry shit. So when he's out, it's working. It's not like I met him during. During a weekend, but he had a whole art installation. And I was like, when I tell you I saw him, but I had to leave. Like, Cinderella left a glass slipper type shit. Like, I had to go see another N. But I met him at this little party so much. So I liked him so much. Let me tell you. I hit up Ivy. I said, ivy, who was the art nigga? I literally hit up the person I knew through the party. I said, I need that nigga who was the art. But I had to leave for another nigga. So I didn't even get his number. Didn't get his Instagram. I just was like, oh, I like him. And then, yeah, so now he a part of the roster. But yeah, listen, that show for you, it's great. But, yeah, no. So anyways, I do the late show for the comedy club. These motherfuckers. Of course. Of course. This is how it happens. We show up to go in. These n. S are all coming out. Me and this nigga hold a hand.

[Wheezy]

No, no, no. It was very much giving family day.

[Alex]

Yes, it was. Yes, it was.

[Wheezy]

Because we were like, oh. I was like, let's do early. We got horrible late. Bring mom. We're on this double date. It was really family.

[Mindy B]

Ish.

[Wheezy]

Then Jacob comes out the car first like a bad bitch that he is.

[Mindy B]

Shout out to Jacob.

[Wheezy]

Then I see Stacy come out as one of Mandy's friends. I'm like, oh, so Mandy must be coming out the car. But then a man gets out first and holds his hand out for this woman to come in. I said, oh, Lord.

[Mindy B]

He was very, very, very charming. Very. Oh. Helped me out, like. He was great. He was great.

[Wheezy]

You know, I will say one thing that kind of.

[Mindy B]

I will say too, why you probably don't think he's my type. Y' all would be very proud of me probably, right? At six foot.

[Wheezy]

Oh, that Was Why? I didn't think.

[Mindy B]

Yeah, he's short.

[Wheezy]

Mm.

[Alex]

He's not short.

[Mindy B]

Okay. He's.

[Wheezy]

I don't think he's six foot.

[Mindy B]

See? So maybe five' eleven, but he's right there.

[Alex]

Okay.

[Mindy B]

He is not five' nine. Five' eleven.

[Alex]

Fuck up.

[Mindy B]

Go fuck outta here. Thank you.

[Wheezy]

How tall are you?

[Mindy B]

He's tall.

[Alex]

Five, ten and a half.

[Mindy B]

And he was a little taller than you. Y' all were like, right there. Y' all were right there. But don't do that. Don't. Five, nine my nigga now. Well, one of my niggas don't do five' ten, honey.

[Wheezy]

It's right there.

[Mindy B]

I would say five' eleven and a quarter, honey.

[Wheezy]

But I will say, though, I ain't shaming. Getting out of the height shit get you n that pay the bills bitch, bruh.

[Mindy B]

I was just like, hold on, hold on, hold on. And then he's divorced. Let me tell you too get you a friend like Stacey, because Stacy was getting all the questions that bitch, I would not have gotten.

[Wheezy]

That's what. You're right.

[Mindy B]

So we're literally at dinner, and here goes Stacey grilling this N. Mind you, Chris will do it too. Crissal will look at a watch a shoot. My friends know how to tell if a nigga got money before I do. I just like a good looking N. And on Raya, he was shirtless in a lot of pictures. That's why I liked him. So we're at the dinner. Goddamn. And here goes Stacey. Oh, so you're divorced. How long ago? When did it happen? Da da, da, da. Then she goes, so what was like, what was the finalized, like, thing he started going into? Well, like, it took over a year because her lawyer came in, she got this attorney, and I thought it would be good. She wanted $20,000 a month in alimony. And this bitch is just hitting me under the goddamn table like, bitch, if he can afford 20,000amonth, this n got money. Then literally, like, yeah, but I settled for like eight grand a month. And she was like, oh, yeah, N. She was like, keep this one.

[Wheezy]

Mm.

[Mindy B]

So literally my homegirl is getting all the tea on this nigga and racking in her brain like, oh, yeah, he can afford that. And there's no kids. Oh, yeah, this motherfucker got buddy. And I was like, thanks. Cause I would have never asked any of those fucking questions.

[Wheezy]

You wouldn't?

[Mindy B]

No, I don't give a fuck about a nigga alimony. X Y.

[Wheezy]

No, not alimony.

[Mindy B]

But you don't ask nigga do you like your ass? E like I don't give a fuck about a person's life sometimes we're just chilling, we're listen. We here for a good time, not a long time. You feel me? So she was asking like to me those are relationship questions. I don't think I really care about what your last situation was. If in my mind we're not going anywhere and this was the first date. Bitch, I'm not asking about no goddamn ex wife.

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[Wheezy]

I have a We listen and we judge. That's mine.

[Mindy B]

Ooh. We listen and we judge. Out the gate, let's go.

[Wheezy]

So if you guys haven't heard this.

[Mindy B]

Segment yet, I felt like you was judging me.

[Wheezy]

I was. So I said, let me, let me, let her do it.

[Mindy B]

I felt the judges.

[Wheezy]

I was like, damn, but you ain't gonna ask shit.

[Mindy B]

Okay.

[Wheezy]

So basically we listen and we judge. A segment where we normally tell you gossip about our friends and we listen and we judge. However, this one is mine. As you guys know, I'm.

[Mindy B]

I always judge.

[Wheezy]

Me and my partner are a little, a little out there.

[Alex]

Out there? Yeah. Out there is a good way to.

[Mindy B]

Put it out there.

[Alex]

Yeah.

[Mindy B]

Free spirited.

[Wheezy]

Thank you.

[Alex]

Okay.

[Mindy B]

Free spirit.

[Wheezy]

So we were fucking this girl out here in la. She was really dope.

[Mindy B]

Yeah, it was really dope. I feel like.

[Wheezy]

Okay. Oh, no, nothing really happened. So this is what I was going to talk about. Nothing really happened. If you guys are listeners of the show, you know, I was getting a little depressy and just feeling a little insecure about my body. Birth control was going crazy. Whatever. I had a phase. So I just kind of stopped texting. Didn't really think I ghosted. I just didn't reply to the last text. But the last text wasn't like, where are you? Blah, blah, blah. So I'm on the app. We see her on the app. I'm like, oh, shit, I've been thinking about her. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, whatever. So I hit him up. I'm like, oh, my God, we matched with her again. What do I do? He's like, hit her. I wrote.

[Mindy B]

So wait, just so I can be clear, this is a girl that y' all fucked before.

[Wheezy]

This is a fake girl that I be talking about.

[Mindy B]

Okay, you saw. You haven't talked in a while, but you saw her on a dating app, and so you liked her again to reignite. And she liked me again to reignite it.

[Wheezy]

Okay, So I wrote, not gonna lie, we've both been thinking about you. But I'm like, fuck, we haven't spoken so long. Can I just hit you up out of the blue? Lol. And here you are. She then replies, well, this is my chance to ask why I was ghosted in the first place. You guys look great in the new pics. Jealous about whoever gets y'.

[Mindy B]

All.

[Wheezy]

I wrote back and said, hey, honestly, it's just not very sexy story, but I was just feeling a little bit depressy and stress. Depressy and stressy. Not the sexiest convo, but glad to know, you know. She wrote and said, well, I had convinced myself I wouldn't see y' all again because I don't like being ghosted. I appreciate you telling me better now that you're reaching out. And I want to be clear, I'm not like a sex worker or some party girl that's just happy to get a call whenever you feel like I'm real.

[Mindy B]

Ooh.

[Wheezy]

So I prefer honesty if you're not feeling like seeing me for whatever reason.

[Mindy B]

Bitch. I know that's right.

[Wheezy]

That said, again, I would like to see y' all again bad now.

[Mindy B]

She sent that text, not you. Not treating women with care. Damn, Weezy. All I did was just not you ghosting. You hate ghosting.

[Wheezy]

I thought, what the fuck? This is what I was gonna say. Are we gonna. What is ghosting now? Because.

[Mindy B]

Oh, what is ghosting now? Okay, good question.

[Wheezy]

Because actually, I didn't even look for my last text with her, but I will.

[Mindy B]

Oh.

[Wheezy]

I said, have you been? I hope you had a great new year.

[Mindy B]

We had New Year's.

[Wheezy]

This is the last time I spoke to her. What have you been up to? She said, oh, my God, I didn't know you were opening a gym. Sorry you guys got sick during Christmas break. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I've been creating some art that's been consuming my time. That was the last.

[Mindy B]

So that, to me, is ghosting.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, hell, like, we were.

[Mindy B]

So. So you said, what is ghosting for me? If there's an intimate relationship with somebody, and clearly, y', all, she was intimate with. With you and your partner ghosting. Looks like you not hitting me for eight months and then now only reigniting because we see each other on an app. To me, if I fucked a nigga and he don't hit me for eight months, I would feel ghosted.

[Wheezy]

But also, can I just say, she didn't write me again either. The conversation just stopped.

[Alex]

But she was the last message.

[Wheezy]

But it wasn't like she asked me, like, I don't know, even to see her say, I didn't know you were opening a gym. Like, okay, a lot was going on. Is it horrible to write someone if you know they're crazy busy? Be like, have you been? Because I do that. Like, another thing I saw recently on a meme, or not a meme, one of those little Instagram reels, and I was like, whoa, this is me. It was a girl who said, shout out to low maintenance friends. Some of my best friends got three texts to me. If I call them, they like, and, ow. You didn't text me back. Now, granted, I understand her and I don't have that relationship, but I am of that brain sometimes, and it's no love lost. I genuinely don't mean anything by it. Maybe I really am not good for someone that needs a little more. So then I'm talking to my man about it, about how bad I feel. And he was.

[Mindy B]

And he hasn't hit her either.

[Wheezy]

Mm.

[Mindy B]

Mm.

[Wheezy]

And he was like, nah. Like, this is a lot of the times why I don't really have sex or do anything without you. Like, women need a lot of Communication that sometimes I can't give. So when it's both of us to just be balancing out, but like, nah, he's like, girls have been mad at me because I didn't write back for four hours or whatever. It's like, I don't.

[Mindy B]

I mean, eight months can't compare to four hours to me, though. I guess that's why even the unicorn aspect didn't work for me when I was trying, like, even to come in as a third. Because I needed communication from. We were in a group chat, but I would have liked communication from either or constantly if we were gonna even date or be a thing. And I said that that was my problem too, once I couldn't be the girlfriend. And maybe that's the thing with her. Maybe the fact that she.

[Wheezy]

She doesn't wanna be a girlfriend, but.

[Mindy B]

The fact that she said I'm also not a sex worker or just someone that you can call to have fun. She wanted a little something more. Whatever it was, maybe it wasn't discussed. Maybe not a girlfriend.

[Wheezy]

Right.

[Mindy B]

But I know I'm not the type right now either that just wants to be called to have fun for a couple.

[Wheezy]

And honestly, that really wasn't our relationship. When she was sick. We, like, send her stuff.

[Mindy B]

Like there was then you. Then there was a ghosting element. If all of that stopped. You know what I mean?

[Wheezy]

But was.

[Mindy B]

But it stopped. So that's the ghost.

[Wheezy]

But it's totally up to me to send and say, like, at what point can we not take.

[Alex]

I mean, it's more on your responsibility because you're in the relationship. She's the added person. You have to dictate what the relationship is.

[Wheezy]

I know. I'm not gonna lie to you. I've been thinking about her this whole time. I probably brought her up once.

[Mindy B]

I was like, you bring up the thick bitch. You was just. I forgot where we was. And you was literally like, oh, my God, now I get it. I fucked this thick bitch. You literally just brought her up.

[Wheezy]

I know you literally just brought her up.

[Mindy B]

But also, she was talking about fucking a thick bitch.

[Wheezy]

But no, we were having. By the way, I don't know if you're listening. We were having a sexual conversation. That's why I brought it up.

[Mindy B]

But no, duh, I don't know what you. No, no, no, no.

[Wheezy]

When I said, oh, my God, this thick bitch, like. Cause now I feel bad. Now this really made me feel bad.

[Mindy B]

You should.

[Wheezy]

And then she said something about, like, trying not to be too harsh. Like she had wrote me Back again. But here's my thing.

[Mindy B]

I think she's being, though, direct enough to be like, listen, because this now is up to you as someone who's in a relationship who likes having fun. To me, there needs to be a conversation with what her expectations are, but also how you plan to show up with her. Otherwise, don't fuck her.

[Wheezy]

Literally. Now, my new thing is, so we come back in a few weeks, and I was like, of course I want to see her at Labor Day weekend. But now I'm like, fuck to have someone write me that. And I know I've been on that end. What do I do now?

[Mindy B]

You ask her. So what are your expectations of me and my partner? And how can I make you feel more comfortable with enjoying us? Because we miss you and we enjoy you too, but we don't want to make it weird or make you feel like you're a toss away. Because that's what she's even implying. She was like, bro, I'm not this. I enjoyed. You would like to do it again, but not with however you.

[Wheezy]

This is what makes casual sex so hard.

[Alex]

I have so many questions. You go, go. So how does that work? Because if you're adding a third, I thought that is just. Hey, just hit them up whenever you.

[Mindy B]

Want to hook up as a third. As a bitch who's been a third. No, no, no, no. That is not how that shit works.

[Wheezy]

Fair.

[Mindy B]

And it makes you feel like, bro, I'm here pleasing two people. I'm here bringing spice to your relationship to feel kind of discarded or not thought of or when you think of me now, I gotta come and spice y' all up. Like, as. As just people who have casual sex too. There's still a. We wanna feel desired. We wanna feel like.

[Wheezy]

I mean, we were texting weekly. I also don't live in la, but I get it.

[Mindy B]

See, Weekly sending her stuff. And then eight months, you ain't do shit.

[Alex]

You ghosted.

[Mindy B]

That's a ghost. You ghosted.

[Alex]

You texting somebody every week, and then all of a sudden you just.

[Wheezy]

Poof.

[Mindy B]

Eight months, you just ghosted a bitch. So she's. She's.

[Wheezy]

Honestly, I wasn't even in a place to have sex with anybody else. And, like, I'm glad that she understood it because we've all been there where we're just like.

[Mindy B]

It's so funny whenever. Whenever anyone ghost, when they get back, they're like, I was going through a lot, man. Sorry, that's what you all spotty.

[Alex]

How I'm ghosting.

[Wheezy]

But I'm not lying.

[Alex]

Even if you're not lying.

[Wheezy]

But I'm saying I think the ghosting part is like. But you could be going through shit.

[Alex]

Yes. But you could just be like, hey, I'm going through something right now. I just need a little time to myself. Boom.

[Mindy B]

You ain't even said it.

[Wheezy]

So to be honest, I didn't even know it really needed to be said, I guess.

[Mindy B]

And that's why she feels ghosted.

[Wheezy]

And here's the other thing, too.

[Mindy B]

That's how ghosted people work.

[Wheezy]

I don't feel like I gotta tell y' all honesty. I don't know if I was ready to be as vulnerable about, like, not wanting to have sex with anybody else than one person. Now I gotta be naked in front of them. I was hating my body. I'm also feeling away. Like, it was just a little too much. But what I will say is the casual sex element to a third is a very interesting one, because. Not gonna hold you. She's pretty gay all the way. Gay. Literally was like, I'll maybe have sex with one guy every few years now.

[Mindy B]

Which means, you know, lesbians need a lot of fucking attention.

[Wheezy]

No, but my point was there was no element of being three people together. Like, there was no. Like, she don't want to be a girlfriend. It's totally obvious you don't like niggas like that. Actually, after sex, we were joking. There were a few times he was fucking and she was like, okay, like, just over the dick.

[Alex]

Just like, really?

[Mindy B]

Like, I mean, you could be a third. And not like, intimately. Not like. Cause me, I'm gay, But, like, not gay gay. Like, I don't want to date. Like, I don't want to be with a woman, but I'll be with a couple. So, like, for me, that makes sense. Like, she may like the element. You know what I mean?

[Wheezy]

Like, but also. Oh, wait, what was your other question?

[Alex]

Sorry, actually, you answered it already. Because I just don't know the dynamics.

[Mindy B]

But I.

[Wheezy]

But that's it too. And so it's brought up this new thing in conversation of how to make thirds feel respected, wanted, and also really felt like I was doing that. But I don't do well when people don't tell me exactly what they need from me. Also, this text she sent better. But for me, I just don't. I don't know. Like, honestly, if someone's angry with me, if they don't let me know, I probably won't really know. You know what I'm saying? Like, you gotta tell me. And I will absolutely do everything to fix it. I want things to always be in a good place. But, yeah, that's why I'm like, am I about to make shit worse? And now am I gonna feel obligated? Like, ugh.

[Mindy B]

I mean, if you, as a. If you as a person in a relationship want thirds and you don't know your capacity to make someone feel how they wanna be felt coming in as a third, I think it needs to be just the sex. Then, like, it can't be the dating. It can't be the texting. Like, you might just need to have the flings and go. Because if someone is coming in as a third for a couple in the dynamic that you set up in the. In the beginning, that works, but you know what I mean? You might need to.

[Alex]

What is it decided that, oh, this is more of, like, checking in with one another than just, oh, wid.

[Mindy B]

Yeah.

[Alex]

Like, when does that get discussed?

[Wheezy]

I don't even know, dog. Like, she also dictated the way that we would be texting. She was texting me more frequently, so I of course, texted back. So I go off of, how you acting? If she wouldn't have done that, I wouldn't have done that. Okay, But I wanna make her. I also don't know. Like.

[Alex]

Nah, but you just gotta discuss those things. Like.

[Mindy B]

Yeah, it has to be. It has to be talked about. And that's why, like, me, when I dated the couple last year, it didn't last long because as we kept communicating, it was very obvious that me and the girl weren't on the same page as me and the guy. And I was like, well, this doesn't work for me. So there has to be a level. Way more of a communication with the third as to what y' all are expecting.

[Wheezy]

That's fair. Because I think the one thing we were all on the same page of is what everybody's looking for. And nobody was looking for a relationship as a trio.

[Mindy B]

Last year. Last year, this is now. That's fair. You ain't talked to her in eight months. So she may be in a place. And it's why she said, I'm not a sex worker. Don't hate me when you just. Bro.

[Wheezy]

When she said, I'm not a sex worker, I was like, but that's where.

[Mindy B]

So a year ago, maybe she looked at it. She might be different.

[Wheezy]

Yes, too. I was confused.

[Mindy B]

But she wants to see you if y' all can figure out what this dynamic looks like. So she may want something.

[Wheezy]

Cause I don't like, no. Pull up Shit either.

[Mindy B]

I hate. Don't pull up. Don't. I'm in your city and you barely here, so.

[Wheezy]

And I don't do that.

[Mindy B]

I'm not a pull up shit, nigga.

[Alex]

You had two niggas pull up in a pool. What the fuck are you talking about?

[Wheezy]

Hear that again, I'm not.

[Mindy B]

Oh, I tell niggas I'm in their city, but I'm not a. I'm in your city, bitch. Like, a nigga could tell me they in my city, so.

[Wheezy]

But I.

[Mindy B]

Absolutely. I'm in your city.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, let's do a new segment. Cause you lost that one, buddy.

[Alex]

I know.

[Mindy B]

That's true. I'm in your city, bitch. Like, if a nigga hits me. Cause he in my city and we don't talk, I don't give a fuck that you're in my city.

[Wheezy]

Right.

[Mindy B]

But I treat people how I don't want to be treated.

[Alex]

And it's fine as long as you acknowledge a double standard.

[Mindy B]

I love telling the niggas I'm in your city, but don't I'm in your city me. You get what I mean? Thank you.

[Alex]

Yeah, I'll dig it.

[Wheezy]

Damn.

[Mindy B]

Oh, yeah. I'm a hypocrite. Oh, let's be very clear.

[Alex]

Y' all both some ain't shit niggas. Because I literally both of y' all ain't shit niggas. You ghosted bitches. She just using niggas, juggling them at the same party.

[Mindy B]

In my 20s, when I would go to the clerk and the nigga at the table, I knew I was at the table with possibly other bitches he fucked because he's a boss. That's why I had the cabana yesterday, and it was exciting. I think I'm gonna do it more often just like, invite my niggas to pull up and everybody gotta be cool.

[Wheezy]

That sounds like the start of a gang bang, don't it?

[Alex]

It do. I'm surprised. I was thinking the story was going to end that way.

[Mindy B]

I would have loved for that. But the Y N hit a little too late last night, and I was like, n. I was not. But I would have loved. I would have loved for everyone to, you know, let's all love each other. But no, it didn't happen that way. But I think I do.

[Wheezy]

Mark.

[Mindy B]

It feels good.

[Wheezy]

Frank.

[Mindy B]

Not.

[Wheezy]

You got to really, like, get them niggas to start smoking weed. You got to have, like, a pastime. It's got to be like a card game, a weed.

[Mindy B]

Oh, yeah.

[Wheezy]

And then a titty Party. Well, after the pool.

[Mindy B]

After the pool, we did all play uno, and I think that's like.

[Alex]

You got to do it like challengers.

[Wheezy]

Yeah. What.

[Mindy B]

What do you mean?

[Wheezy]

Like, whoever gets a draw for it next has to kiss me.

[Alex]

Oh, the movie, the tennis, movie challenges.

[Mindy B]

Oh, you talk about. I got.

[Alex]

I ain't going to crackers.

[Mindy B]

I am not going to sit here and tell two. Now y' all got a kiss. Oh, no, no, no, no, no.

[Alex]

How do you. How do you do that, then? Have you guys ever had three sons?

[Mindy B]

I ain't been able to make two kisses. I ain't that much of a boss. I know my niggas able to get me to kiss bitches, but no, like 20, 25. Oh, like, let's be very.

[Wheezy]

Damn, Fowler.

[Mindy B]

Let's be very clear. Last year, my little main boss nigga, I want to move like him. Literally, we was in Chicago, and there was a. There was like. I pulled up on him at a party. So we getting lit, we getting drunk. We know we're ending the night together, nigga. He come up to me and he's like, you see her over there? And I was like, yeah, tell her she's coming home with us tonight. I was like, wait, what? He was like, yeah, you got to set up. We already fucked before. But just tell her. So literally, my main nigga, the one that I wore the butt plug for. Oh, him. Which boss? So period. So literally. So I knew they had already fucked. So literally, I was like, oh, my God, Why? He's like, you know how to do it. And sure enough, went right up to her and was like, hey, we know the same guy. How you doing? Let's do stress. Da, da, da. He wants to know if you're going to come home with us tonight. So easy. I'm just. She drove. She was driving. She drove to the hotel. Then it got a little weird on the way because she was like, oh, my God, you're texting him. We only talk on Snapchat. And I just don't understand, like, why I don't have his number yet. And I'm calling him like, nigga, we downstairs. I got the number, nigga. That's my nigga. And she, like, was a little in her feelings. What?

[Wheezy]

They only talk on Snapchat?

[Mindy B]

Oh, yeah. Our first two years, I only talked to him on Snapchat, and now we're five years in, bro.

[Wheezy]

I'll be honest. When n are too famous.

[Mindy B]

What? Oh, that's. Oh, you should see me. Oh, bitch. I signal, and Snapchat These niggas now, they don't get my number. I am. I am the nigga I always wanted to be.

[Alex]

Ain't shit nigga.

[Mindy B]

I am an a shit nigga.

[Alex]

Yeah.

[Mindy B]

Oh, Signal and Snapchat, and you don't get nudes. If you want to see me bent over, book a flight. I don't even send nudes, but I like to watch them jack off. So we do it all on the Snapchat, see?

[Alex]

So the thing I don't understand, I.

[Wheezy]

Feel like I don't fit anymore. Like, I would.

[Mindy B]

No, no, no, no.

[Wheezy]

It's not fair.

[Mindy B]

I am not normal. Everyone listening is like, this bitch is nuts. And I'm in this mood right now where it feels great to be an ain't shit nigga. Like, I get why they're ain't shit for so long now. It's fun. It gets the people going.

[Alex]

But, yo, you pegged dudes so you can convince dude to take a rubber dick, but you can't convince a dude to kiss another dude.

[Wheezy]

Actually, that's a good one.

[Mindy B]

So. But the guys that I peg literally aren't attracted to men, and they're not gay.

[Alex]

Yeah, but you're not gay.

[Mindy B]

You know what I mean? No. Like, we talk about it. Oh, I love. Listen, I be asking all the questions, like, so you ever suck the dick? They don't like men. So that's where, like, the conversation around pegging is literally like, these niggas not gay. Because I would love to have another guy join us.

[Alex]

Isn't it the same way you do a threesome? It's like, you're not into women, but you do a threesome.

[Mindy B]

Pussy. And I like women. I think women are beautiful. The men that I've pegged literally probably is like, I'm not getting hard around another nigga. Like, they don't like men, but they.

[Alex]

Taking a fake dick in the ass. Like, that shit don't make sense.

[Mindy B]

Some of them are medium. They're not big all the time. It's whatever they can take.

[Alex]

I say the size.

[Mindy B]

I'm just saying it's whatever they can take. It's whatever they can take.

[Wheezy]

I just want you to know our photographer was gonna dip 15 minutes ago, but he might as well stay now.

[Mindy B]

Honestly, is this not the best episode that we recorded all week?

[Wheezy]

Hello.

[Alex]

You're welcome.

[Mindy B]

I'm just. All right, Alex. All right, Alex.

[Wheezy]

Once we have the dare, let's get.

[Mindy B]

Into another one of our segments. Let's get into our Truth or dare segment, and basically, I'm acting Like, y' all are the guests. Cause, bitch, I've literally said too much this episode, and I'm done talking about my shit.

[Alex]

Damn.

[Mindy B]

You're gonna do the dare, and that means you're gonna do the truth. Okay, so let's start with the truth, because this is a good one. And maybe I'll change it. To your current relationship. What is the biggest lie that you've told in your current relationship past? No, you had to.

[Wheezy]

You wanna swap?

[Mindy B]

Oh, see? And did you do the dare? Okay, so now you gotta do the dare, Alex.

[Alex]

All right.

[Mindy B]

What is the biggest lie you have told in your current relationship?

[Wheezy]

Okay.

[Mindy B]

So he's gonna know.

[Wheezy]

I think y' all know I haven't done Botox yet because I've been talking about doing Botox, but I haven't done Botox. And it's honestly not something I'm terrified of. Right?

[Mindy B]

Oh, me neither. I love it.

[Wheezy]

Like, I'm not scared.

[Mindy B]

Look, that's my angry face, bitch. It don't move.

[Wheezy]

But then sometimes I be hearing shit where, like, Botox, like, they make you think it's preventative, but, like, I'm just not there yet.

[Mindy B]

Oh, I.

[Wheezy]

Now, let me tell you something. So once I really started to like him, I remember he started bringing up girls. Cause, you know, men think Botox, you know, when they think of filler, they just all call it Botox.

[Alex]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I used to think it was the same.

[Mindy B]

The only thing that they do know, they don't know really the difference with the face, but them bitches know it's a filler in the lip. They.

[Wheezy]

No, no, no.

[Mindy B]

When men hear.

[Wheezy]

When men see the pillow, like, they're like, oh, she's Botoxed up, they'll just say that, right?

[Mindy B]

Okay.

[Wheezy]

So my man starts talking about it like that. Right. Mind you.

[Mindy B]

Oh, talking shit about it.

[Wheezy]

Yes. And we on, like, our maybe fifth or sixth dates, we were already fucking, and he was like, I like natural women like you. And I was like, yikes. So now we're two years in, now we're getting to this point of bitch.

[Mindy B]

About to be 35, natural woman. He didn't know your tits were fake, too.

[Alex]

I mean, lip filler.

[Wheezy]

They're old. They're all old.

[Mindy B]

He said they're all. She said the lip filler. So I'm natural. Cause it's old.

[Alex]

I know.

[Wheezy]

Yeah.

[Alex]

That's your old kid.

[Wheezy]

I think, like, it's, like, grandfathered in. That's a good point.

[Mindy B]

It's grandfathered in. She said it's fine.

[Wheezy]

Now this A lie. I'm like, look, you know, I'm about to be doing brand deals now. They gonna pay me to get this Botox, babe. I'm about to get a big ass check. He's like, how much? So I'm like, what's the number? This nigga gonna like, what's the number? That's gonna be like, house down payment. You know what I'm saying?

[Mindy B]

I'm like, but you're really paying for it. But you told him it was gonna be a brand deal.

[Wheezy]

I'm not getting it yet. I'm just working it up. And I did have someone write me about a fucking consultation. She's like, oh, you do a consultation? I can post it. Like, the seed is already. I'm just planting it now. And so what I'm going to say is, Maybe it's a $50,000 brand deal, but maybe we got paid 50 grand from, I don't know, Squarespace. I'm just going to connect the ad money with the Botox.

[Mindy B]

The fact that you're just going to assume because there's a price tag on it, it's gonna change his mind.

[Wheezy]

Honey, if we're Mandy, for example, we went to Brooke's house yesterday, Naked beauty Brooke. And I was like, but now me and him both like, damn, we need to raise our budget because the houses we looking at don't look like this. What if I got a little bit of. And we can get a bigger house now, bitch, he about to buy a new property and flip it so we can get a bigger house. So he's doing different investments. Maybe I need to do both if.

[Mindy B]

I think it's gonna work. If my partner said he doesn't really wash the pots. If my partner said, he said, baby, I gotta get fat for money. I don't want that. So, like, if he's saying he don't like it, I don't know like how much.

[Wheezy]

Just because he's Botox, you can't see.

[Mindy B]

If he has his idea of what Botox is gonna do to your face.

[Wheezy]

He just doesn't get it. So I'm trying to figure out. And I feel like he see the seeds planted. Now that we in la, I just slightly bring up Botox at different tables. Girls like, yeah, that's nothing. He be looking at me like, bitch, are you cr.

[Mindy B]

Oh, he's gonna know when your face just doesn't move. He might move by the person.

[Alex]

He might not. He might not.

[Mindy B]

He might not.

[Wheezy]

I'm telling you, it's no Botox. I feel like, is different, though.

[Mindy B]

Girl, I'm telling you, I got it. Oh, bitch.

[Alex]

Yeah, but that's the thing. We don't know that your face ain't moving.

[Wheezy]

Now, if I sit here and y'.

[Mindy B]

All know when this is facing and.

[Wheezy]

Got the square jaw, he gonna know.

[Mindy B]

That you change your whole face.

[Wheezy]

I'm not doing it. I'm just saying a little bit of the L. Now, listen, this ain't a lie lie. It's a truth lie.

[Mindy B]

I'm not doing this with you. Okay, okay, so, Derek, let's get to you.

[Alex]

Alex, antide lies bad. Because that's like a premeditated lie.

[Mindy B]

That's a premeditated lie. That is terrible.

[Alex]

That's not like, oh, my back's against.

[Mindy B]

My back, keeping all of this in. I want people to see that you premeditate lies.

[Wheezy]

I didn't do it yet. I'm just. I was seeing where we were at with it.

[Mindy B]

So you can still go to jail for premeditated murder?

[Alex]

Yep.

[Mindy B]

Like, if they know you have the.

[Wheezy]

Cause, he's gonna know if you were.

[Mindy B]

To go to someone, he's just gonna jail. This is convinced me not brain. This is a crime that you're committing. All right, so, Alex, Dare, I need you to create a short dirty talk monologue, like, to a listener of the show.

[Wheezy]

I wish I had that, nigga.

[Mindy B]

Yes. Oh, yes. You didn't want to tell us your biggest lie you told to your woman.

[Alex]

Yeah, but that's gonna get me broken up with.

[Mindy B]

No, it's not. It's an imaginary wait.

[Wheezy]

A sexy.

[Mindy B]

A sexy monologue. I need you. It's the date, the dare. She'll be somebody to, say, sit in a puddle while they're at work right now. Make that pussycat grow up or do.

[Wheezy]

Her for when you come home.

[Mindy B]

There we go.

[Wheezy]

Ooh, it feels weird.

[Mindy B]

Okay, be nasty with it. Come on.

[Wheezy]

Come on.

[Alex]

We don't even dare you talk like that.

[Mindy B]

Well, I need you to get into your acting bag. Okay? And action.

[Alex]

Oh, my God. This is uncomfortable. Babe, I can't wait to taste you.

[Mindy B]

When you get home, wheezy. He gotta keep going. I need a monologue that was only a sentence. Monologue is at least three to five sentences.

[Alex]

Oh, this is too much.

[Wheezy]

You gonna see. Yeah.

[Mindy B]

Tanisha. Come on, man. Close your eyes. Close your eyes.

[Alex]

That's it.

[Mindy B]

Close your eyes and imagine she's off.

[Alex]

She's wet off. That right?

[Mindy B]

No, she is not.

[Alex]

Yeah, I did it. Right, right? Yep.

[Wheezy]

Let's do the homie court.

[Mindy B]

I would. I would literally I would literally make you fucking drink two shots for that if we had a goddamn liquor nigga.

[Alex]

I take three.

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[Wheezy]

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[Mindy B]

I have a reactionary and this one is interesting because we have a man on here and I would love to know your thoughts on this. And this comes from one of your favorite people on the Internet.

[Wheezy]

Oh, Drew Ski.

[Mindy B]

No, that's my favorite person. Here goes your favorite.

[Kathy]

Hey riders, this is Kathy.

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Great.

[Wheezy]

I love that a lot of women.

[Kathy]

Come on here or just they don't come on here but they be like I just want. I wish men were more honest. I just want a man that will tell me the truth. And it's like bitch, you can't handle the truth because when this nigga tells you that he wants to fuck more than you, he wants to have other bitches. He wants to other because he gets tired of your from time to time. That doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Your ass is not gonna want to with that. If he told you that off rip you would not with him. So be sitting up here talking about I just want a man that's gonna tell me that, you know the you now. You rather sit there for three years, get cheated on, be crying, talking about, I did not see this coming. And repeat the cycle over and over and over. So as women, we have to start being honest with ourselves. Fuck a man telling you the truth. You need to be honest with yourself. You need to tell yourself the truth. Why do I keep going for these niggas that I know are going to cheat on me eventually, but if a motherfucker was to tell me the truth, I wouldn't.

[Wheezy]

Okay, Immediate thought, love cap that shit.

[Alex]

Bad quick because you know some porn is gonna come.

[Wheezy]

Oh, yeah, we know.

[Mindy B]

You know, I literally didn't want y' all to see. Cause I hate that that happened.

[Alex]

Yo, just stop following so many porn stars.

[Mindy B]

No, and they follow me back. I love it. My favorite couple right now followed me back, and I'm like, the one that.

[Wheezy]

Be the bisexual couple.

[Mindy B]

Oh, love them down.

[Wheezy]

I already knew that you had to be talking about, oh, my Asian girl. Is she Asian?

[Mindy B]

Yes. The stag couple. Thanks for the follow. I love you, support you.

[Wheezy]

Thank you.

[Mindy B]

I literally support y'.

[Wheezy]

All.

[Mindy B]

I subscribe to their onlyfans would love y' all to come on decisions, decisions. And if anyone is listening who just knows who the stag couple is, you a freak ass ho. Okay.

[Wheezy]

Oh, I am.

[Mindy B]

Oh, yes. So your thoughts on that?

[Wheezy]

Love. Love Taz's Angels. We're Florida girls.

[Mindy B]

Yes. Oh, my God.

[Wheezy]

I remember King.

[Mindy B]

That's Kat from Taz's Angels.

[Wheezy]

So I actually think Kat is only speaking to women if she could speak to men. Do you know how many things that we think about that we don't say.

[Mindy B]

What do you mean by that?

[Wheezy]

First of all, let's just say a nigga's getting tired of your pussy. You probably already tied to him. Like, slow. Not stroking like how he used to. Tired of hearing this nigga fart. Tired of him being like, there's so many shits we don't say about men that turn us off that they couldn't handle either. Can you imagine a blow to a man's ego if you actually told them how less attractive they've become?

[Alex]

God damn, you just trying to cut deep.

[Mindy B]

Like, we're gonna talk about how niggas get bored with us, but that's medium ugly niggas. All my niggas still look good, girl. That's not true all the time.

[Wheezy]

The more that somebody. I don't care. The finest nigga. The more that you sitting around a nigga. They Start doing things that become unattractive to you. And a lot of men just seem to feel like because they're men, they could do certain things.

[Mindy B]

Like.

[Wheezy]

Like fart fart shooting with the door open. You're just watching bad hygiene habits. Like having to remind niggas to do certain things. Honestly, like, anyone I know that's in a relationship, this comedian said last night, basically, having a wife is like a mom that you fucking. You stop thinking for yourself.

[Alex]

Hilarious. But that shit is true.

[Wheezy]

It is so true. He's like, you stop thinking for yourself. It's like, baby, when the last time I was thinking, that's shit. Real, for real. That was such a good joke. Cause it's true. And my boyfriend.

[Mindy B]

So you're saying, though, overall, people can't handle the truth?

[Wheezy]

No, I think specifically romantic relationships, right? Maybe at work we can handle the truth about critiques, feedback.

[Mindy B]

And some people don't even like that, right?

[Wheezy]

Like, even think about some comments. Maybe they're critiquing our interviewing skills. Some are helpful, some are not. But at the end of the day, people don't know how to do things and not be mean. Now, when it comes to romantic shit, you're gonna take everything mean because it's gonna be like, ooh.

[Mindy B]

Would you take it as a mean thing? Especially in the relationship dynamic that you have now if your man was like.

[Wheezy]

I'm bored with your pussy.

[Mindy B]

See? Bored with your.

[Wheezy]

That's what she said.

[Mindy B]

There's a better way to say that, though. Like, and that's the thing. Like, there's a way to say things that even in a nice way, it's. You're damned if you do, damned if you don't. I don't think a man's gonna say, I'm bored of your pussy. I need to go get other pussy. But he could be like, yo, I'd really like to have fun with someone else tonight.

[Alex]

I think we wanna know the truth, but we need to brace ourselves for it. So whenever you're gonna have one of those convos, like, all right, we need to talk. And then it's like, we gotta. Both parties gotta brace your own egos and your vulnerability for what's about to come. I don't just want to be on some Jim Carrey liar, liar shit, and you just say whatever the fuck is on your head.

[Mindy B]

I do agree with her, to the point of women would rather. And this is going to be a little toxic to say, I do believe women would rather literally get cheated on and stay through a cheater than Be with a man who's open about wanting to fuck other women, which is why we have.

[Wheezy]

Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no. I don't think.

[Mindy B]

I think. I think women would rather go into someone monogamous, quote unquote, who's a fucking cheater and stay through him cheating, than be with a nigga who identifies himself as a poly nigga. So you lie.

[Wheezy]

I agree with you.

[Alex]

You don't want to hear what's going on up here all the time. So I'm telling you.

[Mindy B]

And for me, that's where. When we talk about these non traditional relationships, it's why I'm like, oh, most N S is liars. But they're lying even in the dating phase. Because I do agree with her. Most women don't want to know that they about to fall for a hoe ass nigga that likes to fuck multiple bitches. Because a woman in her ego does want to believe my pussy's the best. He's not going to want anybody else. And I'm so great. Bitches lie to themselves. Beat your pussy not the best.

[Wheezy]

That's the boredom of pussy. Like, I don't get bored of my doozy, but sometimes I'm like, ooh, I'm in the.

[Mindy B]

You want other dick? Maybe you want a little smaller dig a little bigger dick.

[Wheezy]

I'm in the mood for us to do something else. Oh, that happens. We fucked at a museum yesterday. That was crazy. If anyone's ever been a. Yeah, if.

[Mindy B]

We ever have solo episodes because wheezy's locked up and I keep the show going because, bitch, that is a crime. You were out here doing a lot of crimes.

[Wheezy]

It was an architectural museum. It was actually a house.

[Mindy B]

No, no, no, no, no.

[Wheezy]

So, bitch, by the time it was a place. Well, now I'm scared to tell you guys what it was.

[Alex]

Nah, we want to hear it.

[Wheezy]

But it was the reading room, the mock center. But basically it was great. So he took me to this place. He liked doing architecture tours. So we're going through, and it's so serene and quiet. And then I open one of the doors and I was like, oh. First thing I noticed was like, this is Aesop.

[Mindy B]

Did y'. All. Did y' all look and see if there was any cameras?

[Wheezy]

Yeah, there was nothing. I checked.

[Mindy B]

You know, they can hide cameras now.

[Wheezy]

I mean, so maybe then they have us fucking in the hidden bathroom Camera. So I could sue. But anyway.

[Mindy B]

So you could sue. Cause you were fucking in public.

[Wheezy]

Maybe I did, maybe I didn't.

[Alex]

And then what? Also, like, what started it? It's like, oh, look at the arches. And then it's like she gets horny.

[Mindy B]

Going through the Starbucks. No, no, no.

[Wheezy]

Okay. For one, what started was an empty room.

[Alex]

17 year old boy going through puberty, bruh. That shit is crazy.

[Mindy B]

That's crazy. You couldn't just wait till you got home to fuck?

[Wheezy]

No, it was the opportunity. Like, it was a Sunday. It was almost closing. Nobody was around. It's a wooden house. It's this Japanese style, like the low ceilings. It was very like, ooh. And it just.

[Mindy B]

Back to what I've walked in there. You have the hormones of a 17 year old that can't fuck at home. So you gotta fuck when the opportunity presents itself. Yeah.

[Wheezy]

Literally. I mean, if the comedy club had a double fucking handicap bathroom with, yeah, family restrooms. That's me.

[Alex]

Oh, my God.

[Wheezy]

And you know what's funny? He was on the way home, right? I was like, I can't believe we fucked in that museum. He's like, yo, let me make a point. Fucking in bathrooms is disgusting, right? He's like, unless it's like, I'm at a club and this bad bitch is like, this is your chance or you're never gonna fuck me again. He's like, then you're like, all right, I gotta suffer through this nasty shit. He's like, that was a really nice house. Well designed.

[Mindy B]

It was very clean.

[Wheezy]

Like, that was a moment. He's like, you can't fuck somebody you went with in some random bathroom. It's like, just go home. But that bathroom felt sexy. I took a photo of it.

[Mindy B]

Okay, all right.

[Wheezy]

It was good.

[Alex]

We listen and we judging. I'm judging.

[Mindy B]

I'm judging. Like, nigga, I mean, I fucked at a club bar bathroom before, but like.

[Wheezy]

Nah, nah, that we judged.

[Mindy B]

Yeah, that. No, that. No, that's Norma.

[Wheezy]

You ate fucking in a bathroom?

[Mindy B]

Yeah. I was 18 when I ate pussy in the bathroom and I had sex.

[Wheezy]

At a Japanese style architectural home museum.

[Alex]

Nigga, like, come on, what is wrong with you?

[Mindy B]

Only in an architectural home, bitch. It is a public space.

[Wheezy]

Well, the exhibition is going to be gone anyway, so you guys can't even fucking there. Wait, let me look it up. Really? Was it not right?

[Alex]

Yo, that is great.

[Wheezy]

I. It didn't feel like a museum. Museum. We paid a fee to get in, but it didn't feel. Center for Art and Architecture. This Schindler House for Art.

[Mindy B]

That sounds even more like a public space.

[Wheezy]

Built in 1922, this architectural site offers art except and guided tours. The center And I didn't need a guide.

[Alex]

So not to get too graphic, but, like, are you standing or are you sitting in the furniture over the sink? Okay, so you're not getting your juices on your fucking furniture.

[Wheezy]

No, it was. We were classy about it.

[Alex]

Yeah, that's.

[Wheezy]

You know what?

[Mindy B]

Why?

[Alex]

That's the only decency you have.

[Wheezy]

Wait, where are we going with this.

[Alex]

That you ain't seen?

[Mindy B]

Everyone wants to be lied to. Apparently, that's what we were. That's how we got here. I'm not sure. Oh, oh, yeah.

[Wheezy]

Like, I think wanting to spice up your own personal sex life. There's times where I want to masturbate and it doesn't include him. I don't want to. Like, I just want my own thing. I think we can have our own sexual experiences. Oh, here's what I was going to say. I actually almost ended a friendship, but she really came back in there with the that was my own insecurities type shit.

[Mindy B]

So this is about the truth or a lie?

[Wheezy]

No, it's about, like, I'll get there.

[Mindy B]

Okay.

[Wheezy]

Girls that like to be cheated on versus open relationship. She made a comment at a dinner with a bunch of girls that I was getting cheated on openly. And I was like, why would you say that to me? You know that's not true. Do you think I'm cheating on him when I want to do my. Like. She's like, yeah, just because you guys talk about it and you guys have fun talking about it. You're just open cheating. Like, this isn't someone that really loves you. Men that really love someone, oh, we've talked about this.

[Mindy B]

On the bottom.

[Wheezy]

Aren't very comfortable with this. And I chose in this moment not to bring up the fuck niggas she stayed with because I felt like, you know what? I'll let you eat this. So sent her a text the next day, like, hey, we've been friends for a while. I think however you try to justify what I do. You've known me for a long time. I had a girlfriend I was doing this with. Then I had a boyfriend. Yes, it went wrong. Read it in. No holds barred. We get it. But all your relationships have gone wrong too. I haven't seen one that was successful, considering you think marriage is success.

[Mindy B]

You said to sir. Yes, okay.

[Wheezy]

And so then you then say to me, I'm being cheated on openly and open relationships don't work. Tell me a relationship of yours that I can follow. And she felt like I was really rude from that. And I'm like, I felt like you were really rude. And two weeks later she called me and she was like, you know what my constant fear is that I'll get cheated on. And I live in.

[Mindy B]

It's monogamous people that's. They constantly are looking for their partner to be cheating because they don't want to accept the truth that people cheat.

[Wheezy]

But I don't think monogamy is bad. I think people can thrive in monogamy.

[Mindy B]

No, I think, I think both can be said about both. Right. You could thrive as a monogamous relationship and I love that we're having the conversation that you could also thrive in a non monogamous relationship. But in both instances there are unhealthy relationships, unhealthy dynamics. And in both. And in both cases you could have success or failure.

[Wheezy]

I'm just tired of the very like open cheating. Let him lie to you if you know about it. Bro. I'm not in a situation where like I turn my face or I'm doing this because it's 2025. What else am I gonna do? I'm doing it because I genuinely like it. Like I find it entertaining for my life. I enjoy what we do. I enjoy bringing other people in. This is also not my obsession. This is not what we do every single day or even every single week. It's a part of the sexual life that we share together. So I think people just, when they hear about it, they're so obsessed with it when you live this way because they're just like, what the fuck?

[Mindy B]

Yeah.

[Wheezy]

But it is coming to a point where when I see content like that, I kind of hate being non monogamous. Just let him fuck another bitch because he's gonna do it anyway. Like, nah, bro, I'm not. I'm not of that cloth either. I don't believe that. Just he's gonna do it anyway. I like what we have going on. I find this shit to be a turn on sexy. You can call it a version of cuckolding. Whatever it is. This has been my thing. So I don't know. And like I say in no holds barred, I didn't have some weird trauma. I know Dr. Umar says overly sexual people grew up some kind of way. I didn't have an uncle fucking wait. Speaking of real nasty things, what are.

[Mindy B]

Yalls thoughts on that statement? I want to ask you two because it's been said about Shannon Sharpe. When I was on Blackout Mondays with it was Rashad Ian and they had Kenny Barnes as a guest and we were talking about the. Diddy trial. The common thing that I'm seeing right now is the downfall of a person is being overly sexual. Like an over sexually person will constantly find themselves in a demise because it's an unhealthy thing. It's an unhealthy way to be essentially. And I do want to know Yalls thoughts on if overly sexual people will inevitably find themselves in bad situations.

[Wheezy]

Oh, hell yeah. That's actually. I actually agree with that.

[Mindy B]

You agree with that?

[Wheezy]

Think about niggas that can't stop fucking around.

[Mindy B]

But what about us? We're overly sexual.

[Wheezy]

Do you think I'm not overly sexual to the point where it clouds.

[Mindy B]

You just fucked in an architectural home.

[Wheezy]

Well, I wasn't working there.

[Alex]

I would say.

[Wheezy]

Who doesn't fuck in a movie theater?

[Mindy B]

Well, there's a lot of people that don't, bro.

[Alex]

People are gonna be like, majority of people don't.

[Wheezy]

Or get fingered in a movie, bro.

[Mindy B]

Majority of people do not operate like.

[Wheezy]

Couples have sex on balconies.

[Alex]

Like in their home.

[Mindy B]

In their home.

[Alex]

And even that is the most spicy shit for people. That is like.

[Mindy B]

Because they might be seen.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, but people don't do.

[Mindy B]

Look at you. Face of confusion.

[Wheezy]

I need to ask audience.

[Mindy B]

So you believe we are overly sexual, bro? And so you think that we're going to come to a demise for being.

[Wheezy]

Do people not have sex in public places to spot. I'm serious. They don't.

[Mindy B]

I know you are. And this is bathroom. No, no regular people, quote unquote, because we are not regular. They think I'm crazy because I had.

[Wheezy]

Text in a museum bathroom that no one was around.

[Mindy B]

We're saying you are overly sexual. But you just said overly sexual people. Well, that will be their demise.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, like I can go to work.

[Mindy B]

No, no, no, but.

[Wheezy]

Cause I. Okay, let me tell you what, Diddy.

[Mindy B]

So did Shayna Sharpe.

[Alex]

She didn't go to work. When she talks about sex all day, bro.

[Mindy B]

Literally our job is talking about suck dick and bending over in the museum. Like, bro, do you.

[Wheezy]

I want to go back to New.

[Mindy B]

York where Edin is.

[Wheezy]

Okay, Can I tell you what I was thinking in my head?

[Mindy B]

Please.

[Wheezy]

I'm thinking a lot of my homeboys that have status be fucking shit up. We've worked with somebody and this nigga just be like he can't be around another piece of talent before he's hitting on them. And it's just like doing too much to me. That's when you're like obsessed with sex type brain. Okay, that was what I was thinking when I Thought about Shannon Sharpe. I'm like, you can't be moving like that when you super famous. I'm not.

[Mindy B]

Yet you're not.

[Wheezy]

Not at the mock center now. If I had sex with everyday people, everybody would find out about it. It's different. But my point is. Anyway, I'm just saying.

[Alex]

Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. All right. You probably don't do race play, but I'm pretty sure you send some explicit video or, like, voice chats to girls you guys are hooking up with, they can expose you and that you could have a scandal just like Shannon.

[Wheezy]

How it's consensual, though. I wouldn't do anything wrong.

[Alex]

No, no, no. According to him, that was consensual until she switched.

[Mindy B]

Yeah. Like, so that. So even when I was having the conversation, literally, the conversation kind of led to, you shouldn't have that much sex or otherwise having a lot of sex. Being overly sexual will inevitably lead to you having a problem sexually.

[Wheezy]

With Shannon in particular, a lot. The big thing for us was age. That was a conversation. Money, coercion, and her literally. Didn't we see her say, I didn't.

[Mindy B]

Want to have a anal sex?

[Wheezy]

You'll never find out with me. So I think you gonna find me texting some bitches, though, some nasty shit.

[Mindy B]

You know what's crazy?

[Wheezy]

That's probably the worst. I'm sure the same with you, like, when you're just fussing and in it.

[Mindy B]

Like, I literally said that in a text message recently. So I got a nigga come to Jamaica, and we haven't fucked yet, but we've been. He wants to experience Jamaica, and I'm like, okay, we might fuck. But also, you ain't my nigga, so if you want to fuck somebody else, cool if we fuck, cool. So we're, like, getting through. I'm having all the conversations like, what are you into? What are you not into? Da da da, da da. And he was like, I was. I, of course, wanted to know if I could bend him over so I get to like. And mind you, I do that by like, here's my little chick now. Here's a new chick to see how freaky nigga is. So all my porn is on Twitter, right? So I'd just be sending Matt porn from Twitter. So I'd be like, oh. And I wanted to get his reaction on everything.

[Wheezy]

I'd be like, so literally between.

[Mindy B]

Literally between a bitch licking balls and, like, some regular vanilla sex was the pegging. And so because he was responding back like, oh, yeah, I'm with all this shit. Da, da, da. So the pegging was right there, bitch. That's the video he responded to. And he put a little teardrop, mind you. Hold on.

[Alex]

He said, that's a funny eye.

[Mindy B]

He put a little teardrop.

[Wheezy]

Cause he was like, that nigga funny.

[Mindy B]

That might. He's like, I don't know about that, mind you. It was a man being ran on a train with two women. So I said, oh, so minus one girl.

[Alex]

I was like, that was even better response.

[Mindy B]

I'm like, maybe you don't want to be over in front of two bitches, just one. So I'm like, we could do this in private, sir.

[Wheezy]

Did you stand it on his back? On his back?

[Mindy B]

He was eating. Yeah, he was in between two women, but he was bent over for one and I think eating the pussy of the other. Oh, so spit roasted. So literally, you gotta send the packing.

[Wheezy]

Videos on the back. They take it back.

[Mindy B]

I'm asking him all these things. And literally he said, but so I feel like, you know, we'll be able to have fun. So he's like, I'm cool with whatever. Try whatever. I mean, I said, oh, no. I literally had to say. I said, listen, my mind goes wild. And I said, I don't go into sex just thinking I can do something without having a conversation first. Because a nigga could say I raped him. And he laughed at that. And I was like, oh, no. Like, this is a thing. Women can do that too. And I'm not going into sex as someone who talks about consent as someone who is sexually into a lot of shit. Don't just tell me I can do whatever to you in the bedroom, because that's no. You might have something that says no. And I don't wanna ruin the mood when I pull out a goddamn dildo and be like, all right, now bend over, clap them cheeks. Like, that's gonna ruin the mood. So I'm like, before I go into the bedroom with anybody or before I get kinky with anyone, all of that is discussed.

[Alex]

Yeah.

[Mindy B]

What do you like? What do you not like?

[Wheezy]

I'm not going, can you fuck him?

[Mindy B]

It's giving. I'm bringing the strap just in case it's given.

[Wheezy]

Like, you gotta bring a real skinny one.

[Mindy B]

I think I'm gonna bring a skinny.

[Wheezy]

I got one that look like a cone. It's real thin. It's real thin.

[Alex]

Wait, you pegged?

[Wheezy]

I've done it before.

[Mindy B]

She fucks women. She probably straps women.

[Alex]

Oh, I'm thinking, dude, you know what's.

[Mindy B]

Crazy I don't ever strap women.

[Wheezy]

Not a lot, but.

[Alex]

Yeah, you curtain it.

[Mindy B]

No.

[Wheezy]

You know, my man a whole. So you think he ever gonna let.

[Alex]

Nah, he's. He was.

[Mindy B]

You know what's crazy? That's always the questions when I be dealing with niggas. Like, they be like, he ain't. I be like, nope, he wasn't one of them. Like, I have never pegged anyone I've been in a relationship with, but my old niggas back in the day, like, I be finding n that I can't do it too. But I ain't been in a relationship.

[Wheezy]

I'm gonna try again when he's 50. Who?

[Mindy B]

My man.

[Wheezy]

Try again. But just like, you're gonna ask him.

[Mindy B]

To peg him when he turns 50, like, as a 50th birthday.

[Wheezy]

Be like, Listen, the kid's fucking 20. What are we gonna do? Let's go.

[Alex]

Yeah, but just, like, start with fingers and just see progress.

[Wheezy]

That's baby talk.

[Mindy B]

Fingers in the ass is baby talk.

[Alex]

That's too far for me. So I'm saying if you go, like.

[Wheezy]

That'S too far for you?

[Alex]

Yeah, I'm not doing fingers.

[Mindy B]

Really?

[Alex]

I'll do a little tongue. A little tongue is fine.

[Mindy B]

If you do a little tongue, you do a little finger hole.

[Wheezy]

That's what I'm saying, bro.

[Mindy B]

If you will do tongue on your Buddha, you would do a thing.

[Wheezy]

That's literally what I was thinking. Tongue and finger is same.

[Alex]

So maybe when I turn 50 and I get a prostate exam, then. Then I'll start there.

[Mindy B]

So after the prostate exam, you'll start letting.

[Alex]

No, I don't know. I'mma see how. I don't like it. I just don't like it.

[Mindy B]

You nut. During your prostate exam, like, you want to see.

[Wheezy]

You see him? She does the stiletto nail, but she.

[Mindy B]

Could just do nails like me.

[Alex]

No, that.

[Wheezy]

Look, to be honest, she's a little too dominant. Like, she might go too far. She might go too far.

[Alex]

I ain't giving fuck.

[Wheezy]

I really don't. See if she could stop halfway. Like, she doesn't give me gentle girl.

[Mindy B]

She doesn't.

[Wheezy]

She looks like she don't you °Danisha? Like, you give her a little bit of Shake it up. Sorry, Stop. Okay. Hold me court, before you get out of here.

[Alex]

Y' all niggas is crazy.

[Wheezy]

Sorry.

[Alex]

Oh, I have a question. Talk to me. This is old, but it's still relevant. The tapping leak.

[Mindy B]

Oh.

[Wheezy]

Oh, you downloaded it, right?

[Mindy B]

What about it?

[Alex]

Like, I.

[Mindy B]

You know what? I went to do it and Then when I saw the. The little breach of everything, I. I didn't. Cuz I didn't get to the part where I uploaded all my.

[Wheezy]

Oh, I got accepted before the breach. So y' all got me in bed looking crazy.

[Mindy B]

I was about to say, they got your cell phone. You know how you ID whatever, do the round, whatever you uploaded, they. It's out in the breach.

[Wheezy]

I think I got it on my phone.

[Mindy B]

Hold on.

[Alex]

How do you guys feel about the app in general? Because you have women as like, oh, this is protective for women. You have dudes. It's like, no, this I don't like, defamatory.

[Mindy B]

So allegedly, that's what. That's what it was supposed to do. It was supposed to be this community to keep women safe. Now, however, you have women on there that are literally can say anything about a man. I personally don't think the app is great. I think no one should be able to create a profile about you and go on there and say anything. And there's nothing to fact check if it's true, you could say, here's how it works.

[Wheezy]

Okay? Everything is anonymous. Screenshots are impossible. All women are verified. You can post all across the country. You can set alerts for a man's name. They donate 10 of the money to a domestic release.

[Mindy B]

So it was supposed to be. To keep them safe.

[Wheezy]

They run background checks. They check criminal records, check for sex offenders, look up phone numbers now.

[Alex]

Yeah, background checks on you.

[Wheezy]

So here's the thing.

[Mindy B]

They do the background check on the man.

[Wheezy]

I don't. I don't really understand that part because. Oh, here, look. Any tea on Joshua? So right now they're showing me someone. Has anyone been on a date with him? So you can click no T. I have T. No T on him. No T on Sam, who is Anthony, has herpes, is an abusive pedophile. You see that?

[Alex]

Holy shit.

[Wheezy]

2 Comments. Oh, my God. I messaged him when I was like 19. I'm 30 now. He gave me creepy vibes and I blocked him. Next person, you can see the demonic spirit in his eyes. Not trying to be funny.

[Mindy B]

See, that to me is appropriate to me too.

[Wheezy]

Like, how do you know he's a pedophile? Is it a label? Let me see another one.

[Mindy B]

To label someone a pedophile, I'm not gonna lie.

[Wheezy]

I didn't know it worked like this when I downloaded it. I never used it.

[Alex]

And that's why. That's what I'm saying to me.

[Mindy B]

I don't like the app. And what's Even crazier is the creator of the goddamn app created it because his goddamn mama was out there having goddamn relationships with inmates.

[Wheezy]

5 Comments Whoa.

[Mindy B]

So, yes. And he felt a way about his mom dating, literally, prisoners. So this is an app to make them safe because clearly your mama was out here wanting a criminal.

[Alex]

I think to fix this, just open it up to men and women. Because I did it.

[Mindy B]

They said, no, no, it's.

[Alex]

Men can't go on it.

[Mindy B]

No, men can't.

[Wheezy]

No, men have their own version. They said they made.

[Alex]

No, no, no.

[Mindy B]

I'm sorry. I'm not gonna lie.

[Alex]

Should be able to go. If you're saying something about me, I should be able to.

[Mindy B]

I don't think anything like this.

[Wheezy]

Let's just say that you broke up with a guy and you're mad at them.

[Mindy B]

That's what I'm saying. You could lie about somebody, but if.

[Wheezy]

You open it up to everybody, right?

[Mindy B]

And so an app that you could literally create a profile for someone, upload their pictures, and now people can just say whatever they want about them. Like.

[Alex]

But I do think there is a lot of benefit to warning women about, like, other men, because there, There are some things.

[Mindy B]

There's a website, I can't remember the exact name for it, but with. With Sesta Fosta, they literally removed all the sites that sex workers were using to literally keep other sex workers safe. So there's literally websites already created where you can. And of course, sex workers normally have to get their IDs, but they literally talk about unsafe, predatory men who go after sex workers. And when those got removed because of Sesta Fosta, literally, the sex work community was like, bro, how are Sesta Fosta? It's, It's.

[Wheezy]

It was an act put out for, like, act put out to help sex workers.

[Mindy B]

And it was like, no to pretty much.

[Wheezy]

Well, no, no, no. To help sex workers. I'm doing quotation for those who are listening. It was like blocking certain sex trafficking sites. However, it blocked a lot of sites that women use to confirm and talk with each other about to stay safe. So let's just say that you're about to take, I don't know, some dude that you met online, John, and a.

[Mindy B]

Lot of girls, they would upload their in call, they request IDs to verify that these johns. And these are high level escorts, right? Or either they work from Eros or these aren't like streetwalkers. These are escorts. This is what they do. So when you do in calls, you normally have to verify. Send me a LinkedIn I need to make sure your name as you're booking me is who you are. And so what they would do is if they encountered a man who didn't pay or was really aggressive in bed or made a woman feel unsafe, they could go to this site and be like, hey guys, this guy John in the dmv, don't see him. This was my experience and it kept a lot of girls for weeding out the bad John, essentially.

[Alex]

Gotcha.

[Wheezy]

But the T app in specific like to be. And it really birthed from. Are we dating the same guy from Facebook? Now that I've actually seen men I know, never a man I dated, I've seen men I know and like, I'm not gonna hold you. I've never seen something look bullshitty on there. And I think the reason is because it's not anonymous.

[Mindy B]

You put it oh on Facebook, it's not anonymous.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, you really gotta use your Facebook profile to get accepted.

[Mindy B]

So that's my question. The comments on the T app, you couldn't see who left those comments.

[Wheezy]

The usernames only.

[Mindy B]

Oh yeah, I don't like that. So to me, to me there's nothing dope. There's a, there's a, there's a website that, you know, I bleep out if it ever even gets mentioned on here. Cause you can go on there and say anything as an anonymous, as an anonymous source. To me, I don't think there should be any app where it's specific to just going on talking about people.

[Wheezy]

Like that is what Reddit is. So maybe that site in particular is a gossip site, but it's strictly just a thread.

[Mindy B]

Cause remember, like, I'm fine with message boards. This though type of shit is where.

[Alex]

I'm supposed to help people.

[Mindy B]

Yeah. Reddit is like a message board of information. Right, right, right. Yes. You have people on there with their.

[Wheezy]

The same with our other site. It's the same same because when I was a kid I would go on there for hair shit and then actually it's funny because.

[Alex]

No, but we're talking about are you dating the same guy?

[Mindy B]

It's no different.

[Wheezy]

So I'm saying all of it is the same type of shit. It's just people will start to abuse it and use it in certain ways. Like for example, also I remember Brittany, Brittany Hampton posted and was like, yo, I remember when LSA was a thing to find a fucking guy or some tea on a guy. And now it's this. So it's like. And even with that, like Reddit and any Other gossip blog. You could kind of see, for example, when someone made it, if they've been contributing.

[Mindy B]

Right?

[Wheezy]

Like, you could kind of see, like, all right, is this a fake person? Who could this be? Like, you could kind of dig into the tea with this. It could just be totally. Anyone ruining it.

[Mindy B]

Yeah, I don't like that.

[Wheezy]

That's why I'm not gonna believe it either.

[Mindy B]

I'm not a fan. I won't be downloading it. But also, I think the niggas I fuck wouldn't be on there. So I.

[Alex]

Look, I think somebody should create a better version of that. No anonymity.

[Mindy B]

I think you should have anonymity.

[Alex]

And I think, like, let us all.

[Mindy B]

Know you fuck this broke ass, eight shit ass nigga like you as a woman. If you have something to say about the man, we should be able to know. Or at least.

[Wheezy]

Hey, I'll be private on this thread. Y' all could DM me and I'll talk to you. Something like that.

[Alex]

Just.

[Mindy B]

No.

[Alex]

If you're protecting other women.

[Mindy B]

If you're protecting other women, let us know that you was fucking with that ancient. Yeah, period.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, well, I hope the artist.

[Mindy B]

Or take it to the grave. Or take it to the goddamn grave.

[Wheezy]

I do want to check out that artist nigga on there. He's all blast. Who else you think they telling?

[Mindy B]

Oh, it's so funny. Cause when it came out Captain Hook, you know? Cause he be outside. I said if any nigga that I was fucking was gonna be on there, it was probably gonna be him. And that's why I'm not talking to him.

[Wheezy]

Oh, thank God he's on there.

[Mindy B]

What happened?

[Wheezy]

It was three years ago, but still, I'd just be like, is he under a bridge? Like, what's going on anyway?

[Mindy B]

You care about his well being?

[Wheezy]

No, I mean, I. For me, bitch, it would be embarrassing.

[Mindy B]

I mean, if it was three years ago. Like, you dealing with a N that fell off. That's not embarrassing. N fall off every day, B.

[Alex]

That's true.

[Mindy B]

Oh, there's. Oh, I'm not gonna lie.

[Wheezy]

I remember.

[Mindy B]

I'm not gonna lie. There's N right now that I was fucking in my 20s. Athletes. I'm embarrassed now.

[Wheezy]

The one that sold that Herbalife, that was crazy. You showed me a dude. And he was so cute, too. Back in the day. He had locks.

[Mindy B]

Oh, look, I was going to. So there was an old football player that got into Herbalife. You ready? Hold on, N. I just ran into him in the club.

[Alex]

No way.

[Mindy B]

In Atlanta. And I forgot who he was at first. I be forgetting who I mind you hold on. Another nigga too. This is gonna be sound real bad. So did it dinner. This is gonna sound real bad.

[Wheezy]

That's compared to the page.

[Mindy B]

Nah, nah, nah. So a couple weeks ago I saw somebody and we used to talk when he lived in New York, when he played for the Knicks. No longer like. All I know is he's like, oh, don't tell me you forgot. Do you know I laid in bed all night, was like, did I fuck him? And I literally had to think. I couldn't remember.

[Wheezy]

Oh, I got one. I could not remember whether we fucked or not someone from high school.

[Mindy B]

We didn't by the way.

[Wheezy]

We didn't fuck in high school. I know there was a moment in Miami. I just don't know if we fucked up. Girl I know sent me him. She was like, oh my God, look, he got married. Da da da. Great looking family. Happy for them. So I left her comment like, you guys look amazing. Congratulations. My homegirl hit me like, yo, you petty. I'm like, why am I petty? She's like, didn't you fuck him? And I'm like, I don't think so. So now I'm trying to.

[Mindy B]

No, you're petty. You're really. There's niggas you fucked and you're nice to them after the fact.

[Wheezy]

Hold us up.

[Alex]

Yeah, it's not petty. That's actually mature to me.

[Mindy B]

I ain't gonna hold you if I'm in a relationship with a nigga. I don't want any bitch that you fuck to be up under your comments saying, oh my God, so happy for this family and union.

[Alex]

Well, I can't.

[Wheezy]

I'm be honest with you, bro. It's not my ex boyfriend.

[Mindy B]

Who cares, bro, Me. Even if it's that if I, if I fucked like, I ain't gonna hold you if I fucked a nigga. I'm not under his comments saying, oh, you and your wife look so happy. Nigga, I fucked him.

[Alex]

Yeah, but you can't be happy for.

[Mindy B]

Somebody that can't be happy in private. Thinking. Think it in your mind. But to post. But to, but to post on social media.

[Wheezy]

Okay. A dude I fucked, maybe not that long, maybe six years ago. 2019. Era.

[Mindy B]

Not era. Not the era of 2019. I was hoeing that I was hoeing in 2019. The era of 2019.

[Wheezy]

Me and sisters broke up in 2018. I was heartbroken. So the era. He posted like the sonogram shit or whatever. I was like, oh, My God. May you guys have a happy, healthy pregnancy. This looks like congratulations.

[Alex]

Yeah.

[Mindy B]

Get that in your mind.

[Alex]

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Like, you move on, you live your life differently.

[Mindy B]

I'm saying, for me, if I had a nigga dick in my mouth, I'm not congratulating him on his happiness on Instagram. I could be like, oh, dope, he moved on. Unfollow. I don't follow niggas that I moved on. I want to see them be happy.

[Wheezy]

It's been years. You already know it don't matter.

[Mindy B]

But now if we have to fuck again, you gonna be a cheater.

[Wheezy]

I actually wanna know if everybody feels this way. I think there has to be a. What is the statute of limitations to what?

[Mindy B]

If I sucked your dick in middle school, which I wasn't doing. I didn't suck dick till high school. That just sounded crazy to me. If I've had intimate relations with you. That was also Monica Lewinsky. If I've had intimate relations with you, I don't think it's appropriate for me to be up under the cottage.

[Wheezy]

I could do it with women.

[Mindy B]

What do you mean?

[Wheezy]

If you fucked a girl, you could do it.

[Mindy B]

I fucked my friends. That is different. Like, no. And women are different.

[Alex]

I really. I disagree, honestly.

[Wheezy]

If there was really no bad thing.

[Alex]

Yeah. If it ended okay.

[Wheezy]

That's why I said there's no bad blow. Like, that's weird. But like, a nigga, I just fled a few times.

[Mindy B]

I ain't going. If I'm dating a nigga and I know he fucked a bitch and she up under the comments liking shit. We got beef, bitch. Take your comments, take your likes. You don't need to be up under. Like, I think this. I think it's petty for a woman to do that.

[Alex]

Damn. I just.

[Mindy B]

Or I feel like there's still something. It's petty.

[Wheezy]

I do, too. Now I'm really thinking, like, I wonder if it's petty the way my homegirl reacted. Mindy. And she believed you. I was like, bro, I swear, I don't even remember fucking up. So happy. Also, do you know how off that I was like, I left that comment and forgot it.

[Alex]

Yeah.

[Wheezy]

Nah, for me, I comment anytime I come, baby.

[Mindy B]

Keep the comment in the baby.

[Wheezy]

Marriage, college, new business. Yes, bitch. Get it. Death. Those are all different.

[Mindy B]

Sorry. Those are all different. I'm talking about you liking a picture of a nigga with his family or bitch or. And you done fuck. It's. Why.

[Wheezy]

How many niggas liked My picture when I posted My man. Let me see. Doc, got anybody?

[Mindy B]

Oh, you posted your man.

[Wheezy]

No, not like that. I just posted him picking me up because I had a nice big Hermes.

[Alex]

Box with the soft launch and shit. Like, either post it a thing.

[Wheezy]

This is the most what's it called, Insights I've ever had on a photo.

[Mindy B]

Because they was probably.

[Alex]

Yeah. Cause you don't show. Exactly. You don't show your dude.

[Wheezy]

Let me see who like to anybody I fuck. Like, I don't really have a lot of interaction with niggas I fucked. I like that. I don't.

[Mindy B]

Huh?

[Alex]

No shit don't be ending good.

[Mindy B]

That's right. It be done. Y' all hate each other.

[Alex]

Yeah.

[Mindy B]

Do we?

[Alex]

All right. This has been another episode of Harm on the Scene.

[Mindy B]

Anyways, guys, if you want to hear more stories. What's crazy? Cause I feel like I don't sound like I'm healed or that I need therapy on this episode, but I'm just really enjoying being a fuck nigga right now.

[Wheezy]

It's the sun.

[Mindy B]

It's the summer. It's a hot girl summer, bitch.

[Wheezy]

Come October, it's gonna be like, come.

[Mindy B]

October, I'm gonna want a boyfriend. But no, I'm having a great time this summer. It's just great.

[Wheezy]

This is why y' all gotta keep swiping.

[Mindy B]

Yeah, well. And Raya, I'm actually on there for friends. I'm meeting people. I am watch you, Lia. Lia. I don't like that.

[Alex]

Anyways, now you gonna catch us.

[Wheezy]

I am.

[Mindy B]

It says I'm on here for friends. Anyways, guys, make sure you get no Holds Bar to do a manifesto of sexual exploration and power out at wherever you get motherfucking books. And then make sure you also join us over on the Patreon. We are over there giving you guys horrible decisions, even though this episode was kind of giving Horrible Decisions. Bitch, we're Decisions Decisions now. But Horrible Decisions is still here.

[Wheezy]

Now, if you want to check out Alex, we can't promote his podcast because a lot of you guys are angry at the host right now.

[Alex]

Everybody go watch Flagrant. Go watch Brilliant Idiots.

[Mindy B]

Go watch. Well, Brilliant Idiots, you'll never be on there again.

[Alex]

But what? Yes, we do.

[Wheezy]

All right, so then I say it.

[Mindy B]

At least what I said.

[Wheezy]

Do they be on some Free Palestine shit?

[Mindy B]

No, we good. Okay. Okay, okay.

[Wheezy]

And then, hey, just come to the studio.

[Alex]

Yes. Wtf? All that shit. All right, bye.

[Mindy B]

Thank you guys so much. This is another episode of Decisions, Decisions. Bye.

[Wheezy]

Thanks for listening and celebrating five years of the Black Effect Podcast Network with us.

[Mindy B]

Keep following, sharing and streaming because the next five years are about to be even bigger.

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[Wheezy]

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[Mindy B]

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