Podcast Summary
Decisions, Decisions – Ep. 438: Thick Threads & Three Strokes (ft. Persephanii & Patrick Cloud)
Date: September 15, 2025
Hosts: Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Guests: Persephanii & Patrick Cloud
Overview
This episode dives into the complexities and hilarities of non-traditional relationships, body image, sexual taboos, and the unexpected intersections of modern dating, all with the inimitable candor and comedic energy Decisions, Decisions is known for. Mandii B and Weezy welcome Persephanii and Patrick Cloud—hosts of the “Thick Threads” podcast—to discuss everything from awkward sexual mishaps to BBW sex parties, online dating, and what it really means to be fulfilled in a relationship. The conversation is peppered with irreverent commentary, personal stories, and no-holds-barred opinions.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Introductions & Thick Threads Origins
[03:00–05:57]
- Persephanii and Patrick Cloud describe how they started "Thick Threads," a podcast centering on wild online stories (from Reddit, Twitter, Instagram), plus their dynamic of “thick” topics and body positivity.
- Mandii B: “It’s giving power of the P. So we’re going to lean into all the P things: pain, pleasure, progression, pussy, pop. That on period.” [04:17]
- Discussion about bodily attention (especially Persephanii’s) and objectification in entertainment spaces.
2. Childhood Norms & The Naked House
[07:09–08:36]
- The group recalls Reddit threads about “things you thought were normal growing up”—with Weezy sharing growing up in a “naked house” where nudity wasn’t sexualized.
- Patrick: “Imagine being at somebody’s house for the first time and you see their mom shitting. That relationship is cooked.” [08:22]
3. Truth or Dare Segment: Sexual Mishaps & Body Image
[09:10–17:27]
- Persephanii (truth): shares her most awkward sexual experience—in high school, with a partner of strict traditional/Asian descent; nervousness and the risk of being caught leads to an abrupt, premature ending.
- Patrick: “I lasted maybe three and a half rides…” [11:15]
- Persephanii: “It was the high-stress situation, you know what I mean? And then it happened. Boy Stroke McGee.” [12:24]
- Discussion of experiences with body shaming/desirability at BBW parties, and how body size affects sexual dynamics and confidence.
- Weezy: “I had my first thick girl last year… It was so overwhelming to me because if you aren’t thick, being with a thick girl makes you feel like, ‘Oh shit’.” [14:04]
- Mandii: “I was 230 and 5’1”… But what’s amazing is at those parties, you feel desired.” [15:16]
4. Objectification, White Men, and Body Conversation
[22:22–24:54]
- Persephanii speaks candidly about being sexualized for her breasts and not feeling shame or objectified anymore:
- Persephanii: “I went through a little phase where I was just like, okay, are you under some hat, titties? But then I got to the point where I was like, these are amazing. Why would I shame somebody for wanting this?” [22:51]
- The hosts dig into cultural and racial preferences regarding body types, discussing the trope that “Black men don’t care about titties,” and theorizing about beauty standards.
5. Navigating Sexual Compatibility and Open Relationships
[30:00–37:45]
- Clip: “My client wants to open the relationship because their sexual needs aren’t being met.” Leads to a debate on sexual fulfillment versus emotional connection in a relationship.
- Mandii: “You can’t stay where you’re not being satisfied.” [30:19]
- Persephanii: “No, you can’t be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t sexually fulfill you… It messes up intimacy and romance.” [31:13]
- Spirals into a debate over whether sexual dissatisfaction should automatically mean opening the relationship, or if it’s just a sign to move on.
6. “Broke Dick” vs Wealthy Men, Sexual Stereotypes
[33:07–36:29]
- The crew roasts the stereotype that “broke men have the best sex,” digresses into discussions of transactional relationships, and social media’s influence on expectations.
- Mandii: “To me, an ain’t shit nigga is a liar, a cheater… I know y’all love these broke men, kudos to y’all. I don’t get it.” [33:26]
- Persephanii flips the question: do “broke women” also have the best sex? Consensus: this is less discussed.
7. Extreme Kinks, Sex Work, & “Would You Rather…?”
[36:29–41:17]
- Spirited roundtable on what people would do for money—specifically, the infamous Dubai stories about women being paid to be defecated on.
- Weezy: “You give me $100,000, I’m shitting on you. $250K? Him, his daddy, his son—bring the whole family!” [39:35]
- Humorous but pointed debate: Would you rather spend 30 minutes with cockroaches, or be defecated on once for a quarter million?
- Patrick: “Give me the money. I’m wiping that.” [40:41]
8. Homie Court: Infidelity Case Study
[44:05–54:54]
- New segment: “Homie Court” — playing a viral TikTok of a woman exposing a man for cheating on his wedding day.
- The hosts dissect who's truly "guilty" in the situation: the man for deception, or the woman for ignoring red flags and oversharing online.
- Mandi: “She is guilty of being delulu (delusional) … There are a lot of red flags we choose to ignore." [53:18]
- They share personal stories about catching partners cheating through clever detective work.
9. Catching Cheaters & “Woman to Woman” Calls
[61:12–66:17]
- Persephanii recalls going full detective mode, using her criminal justice background to investigate an ex:
- “I went through his Craigslist … He was looking for sexual companionship... The ad had ‘offered mouth’.” [61:19]
- She details “woman to woman” calls with other women, seeing through lies, and the self-esteem issues that keep people in bad relationships.
- Weezy: “Don’t heal in the house. Go outside, so you remember, niggas look good.” [66:17]
10. Thick Threads: Beyond the Podcast
[69:08–71:00]
- Persephanii and Patrick highlight their brand: “Thick Threads” also features a true crime show, travel series (recently Costa Rica, Sun Valley, Greece, Rome, Amalfi Coast), and an active Patreon community.
- Weezy: “Y’all went to the Amalfi Coast together? And y’all never—[laughs]” [70:36]
- Shared admiration for friendship, collaboration, and taking their real-life stories on the road.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
- Mandii B, dishing on body compliments: “I was already looking at your breasts. I didn’t want to motorboat, but I did out of respect.” [03:32]
- Weezy, on BBW parties: “He used to tell me, ‘My friends thought I was crazy for going to BBW parties.’” [14:42]
- Persephanii, on body positivity: “These are amazing. People love this. Why would I be like, you want this? I’m not shaming them.” [22:51]
- Patrick, on dealing with objectification: “Every post [online]…the comments are, ‘I don’t know how he does it, how can he just sit there?’ They don’t know you get used to it.” [25:47]
- Mandii, roasting broke men: “I know y’all love these broke men, kudos to y’all. I don’t get it. I don’t know what broke dick is.” [33:26]
- Weezy, on transactional relationships: “Women flying out to Dubai and getting boo booed on and coming back with 50k? That’s broke shit.” [36:43]
- Persephanii, on detective work: “I have a degree in criminal justice, and I used it for this talk. I went through Craigslist…The ad had ‘offered mouth.’” [61:12]
- Patrick, after catching a cheating partner: “My self-esteem was low. I just needed all my evidence. I ended up finding four more girls…I called everybody and got all the tea.” [63:05]
- Weezy, on healing: “Don’t heal in the house. Go outside. The idle mind is a devil’s workshop.” [66:21]
Recommended Segments (Timestamps)
- Thick Threads podcast origin story: [05:10–06:46]
- Truth or Dare (awkward sex stories): [09:10–13:10]
- BBW sex party and body image discussion: [14:04–16:55]
- Conversations on racial/body type preferences: [22:22–24:54]
- Sexual incompatibility & open relationships: [30:00–32:38]
- “Would you rather” extreme kinks & money games: [36:29–41:17]
- Homie Court: Cheating story breakdown: [44:05–54:54]
- Detective stories & woman-to-woman calls: [61:12–67:00]
- Travel show & future plans: [69:08–71:04]
Tone & Style
Hilariously unfiltered, conversational, and real—full of explicit language, playful teasing, and honest vulnerability. The hosts and guests are never afraid to roast themselves or each other, but always with an undertone of liberation, body positivity, and a keen eye for the absurdities of modern relationships.
For New Listeners
If you haven’t listened, this episode is a wild ride through candid sexual storytelling, the behind-the-scenes of body positivity media, hard-earned relationship lessons, and the joys (and ridiculousness) of reclaiming your story. The banter is electric, the stories are jaw-dropping, and both the wisdom and the laughs are worth every minute.