Podcast Summary: Decisions, Decisions – EP 452: “I Need Me A Criminal” (feat. OMG Girlz)
Date Released: December 22, 2025
Hosts: Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Guests: OMG Girlz (Zonnique, Bahja “Beauty” Rodriguez, Breanna “Babydoll” Waller)
Podcast Theme: Unlearning patriarchal relationship norms, candid conversation on dating, sex, love, and authenticity
Episode Overview
This episode of “Decisions, Decisions” features the iconic R&B trio OMG Girlz. Hosts Mandii B and WeezyWTF dive into navigating adulthood after growing up in the spotlight, relationships, motherhood, dating norms, and the long-running cultural fascination with “bad boys.” Laced with humor and honest storytelling, the episode explores what women really want in men and relationships, plus the realities of fame, fan perceptions, and the pressure of authenticity.
Key Discussion Points & Insights
1. Growing Up: From Girlhood to Womanhood
[05:30]
- The OMG Girlz reflect on maturing from childhood stars to adults (“We’re grown, we’ve lived some life!”).
- Zonnique shares entering her 30s and loving her new decade:
“It’s a great time. I love my mind, and how I do stuff and do what I want… It’s been amazing. I tell everybody to look forward to it.” — Zonnique [07:55]
- The group discusses public perceptions: people often want young female celebrities to “stay girls” forever.
2. Astrology & Personality
[10:00]
- Playful banter about astrological signs and the elements they feel they embody.
- Mandii and Weezy relate to the water sign “energy” and the eagerness for knowledge that Pisces are known for.
3. Motherhood & Freedom
[13:00]
- Zonnique discusses balancing motherhood with independence:
“I be wanting to go outside, and I don’t always have somebody to watch my baby...but I make it happen.” — Zonnique [13:22]
- Conversations touch on “mom guilt,” the pros and cons of parenting young, and societal pressures.
- Breanna and Bahja share ambivalence or excitement about future motherhood, weighing the idea of “the family unit” vs. personal freedom.
4. Truths & “Truth or Dare” Game
[19:30]
- Breanna jokes about having “dry DMs,” but shouts out Ralo Rodriguez and producer Algino for showing love.
- When asked about celebrity crushes, Breanna admits it’s hard to name one now, emphasizing that celebrity encounters feel more possible as adults.
5. Fangirling & Celebrity Encounters
[27:00]
- Everyone shares funny stories about fangirling over other artists (e.g., Pretty Ricky, Steve Lacy).
- Weezy recalls fan-girling in L.A.:
“When I tell you he’s getting in this SUV and I’m like, ‘I wish I knew you wanted me…’” — Weezy [28:20]
6. The Dating Game: Where Are The Boys At?
[37:00]
- Where to meet men: suggestions include brunches in Atlanta, strip clubs (with a caveat!), and through mutual friends.
- Mandii questions if strip clubs are really good for meeting partners (“Do we want to meet men during the day shift at Cheetah?”).
- OMG Girlz reflect on the shift from classic meeting places—like the mall or skating rink—to Instagram and dating apps.
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“Mutuals are still the safest… almost 80% of people met their partners through mutual friends.” — Mandii [45:00]
7. Online Dating Realities
[45:45]
- The hosts and guests compare dating via Instagram DMs, dating apps, and “sliding into DMs.”
“You just got to like more than three pictures – that means you want to fuck!” — Guest [51:30]
- Discussion about optics and safety in online dating for public figures.
8. Dating in the Industry & Outside
[54:30]
- OMG Girlz share their experiences and hesitations dating within the music industry.
- Mandii calls for “regular men” (non-industry folks) to shoot their shot.
9. Acts of Love That Melt the Heart
[56:00]
- Each woman describes romantic gestures that make them “melt,” beyond sex:
- Acts of service, like taking out the trash [57:40].
- Public displays of affection (“I just like grand displays of affection” — Bahja [56:45]).
- Being cared for and feeling safe.
10. The “Criminal” Conversation: Why Do Women Like 'Bad Boys'?
[01:03:00]
- A key segment: the hosts play a provocative audio clip about women’s alleged preference for criminals, sparking a debate.
“Most niggas are criminals because women love criminals…” — (selective ignorance clip, paraphrased by Mandii) [1:04:00]
- Weezy, Mandii, and OMG Girlz dissect the difference between “bad boys” and actual criminals.
“Safety is always the top of a woman’s list… but that doesn’t mean we want a criminal. A real bad guy isn’t what we mean.” — Weezy [1:08:00]
- They discuss how real masculinity and safety aren’t tied to criminality; it’s about feeling protected and respected.
11. Dating Boundaries & Crash Out Stories
[01:19:00]
- The panel shares their “crash out” moments (making a scene over a partner):
- OMG Girlz are mostly “chill,” but one recounts an argument leading to a hole in the wall [1:22:30].
- Weezy fantasizes about a “revenge” via a paid third party, but never acted on it.
12. Music, Storytelling, & The Pressure of the Past
[01:37:00]
- OMG Girlz talk about storytelling in music and pressure from earlier hits.
- They sometimes cringe at old vocal takes (“I just sound like such a kid!” — Bahja [1:40:00]).
- They discuss the challenge of evolving in public and addressing misconceptions about their personalities.
13. Sexuality, Fans & Music
[01:47:00]
- Fun hypotheticals: would they have sex while their own music is playing? (“No!” — All, in unison [1:48:15]).
- The women also joke about the awkwardness if a fan or a partner tried to play OMG Girlz tracks in bed.
14. Mental Health & Authentic Expression
[01:53:00]
- Mandii encourages the group to get into their “depressed bag” artistically.
- The importance of honest, diverse emotion in songwriting: from heartbreak to joy, the audience wants the full spectrum.
15. What’s Next for OMG Girlz & Supporting Them
[01:58:00]
- New single “T.T.T. (Body T)” out now; album expected early next year.
- Best way to support: stream and purchase music on all platforms, follow at @therealomggirlz.
Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments
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On turning 30:
“I love how I do stuff and do what I want... 30 is definitely a time to look forward to.”
— Zonnique [07:55] -
On motherhood vs. freedom:
“My freedom is a big part of me not having a kid… but it's like, unconditional love from a little human.”
— Bahja [15:40] -
On online dating:
“You just got to like more than three pictures — that means you want to fuck!”
— Guest [51:30] -
On “bad boys”:
“Women want to feel protected, and street guys make you feel protected.”
— Selective Ignorance audio clip [1:04:00]“It’s not a hood thing, it’s a masculinity thing. Everybody wants to feel safe.”
— Weezy [1:08:40] -
On acts of love:
“Take my trash out when you leave my house… He took the trash out before going to the airport, and I was like, oh, this is nice.”
— Mandii [57:40] -
On dating industry men:
“Regular men listening, shoot your shot. She said she want a 9–5 baby and a 401k!”
— Mandii [55:00] -
On old music:
“I just sound like such a kid… my voice has grown so much.”
— Bahja [1:40:30] -
On having sex to your own music:
“No! All of you, look — you see my face?”
— All [1:48:15]
Timestamps for Important Segments
- Introduction & Group Banter: [00:40]
- OMG Girlz Introductions & Age Discussion: [05:30]
- Motherhood Conversation: [13:00]
- Truth or Dare Game: [19:30]
- Fangirling/Celebrity Encounters: [27:00]
- Where to Meet Partners / Dating Apps: [37:00]
- Dating Industry vs. Regular Guys: [54:30]
- Gestures of Love: [56:00]
- The “Criminal” Debate: [1:03:00]
- Crash Out Stories: [1:19:00]
- Music & Authenticity in Public: [1:37:00]
- Would You Have Sex to Your Own Music?: [1:47:00]
- Mental Health & Deep Cuts: [1:53:00]
- Supporting OMG Girlz/Upcoming Projects: [1:58:00]
Tone & Atmosphere
Candid, humorous, and empowering. The hosts and guests keep it real, mix jokes with vulnerability, and challenge dated assumptions about relationships, growing up, and womanhood in the public eye.
How to Support OMG Girlz
- Stream their single "T.T.T. (Body T)" on all platforms.
- Follow: @TheRealOMGGirlz on social media.
- Look out for their new album in early 2026.
This episode is a joyful, real, and sometimes raw exploration of what it means to grow up, date, love, and seek happiness in a world that always wants to put women in a box. Whether you’re a fan of OMG Girlz or just love honest, funny takes on modern relationships, this is a must-listen.