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Season two of unrivaled basketball is here and the talent is unreal. The best women's players on the planet are running it back with even bigger moments and bigger stakes. Don't miss as Paige Beckers, Nafiza Collier, Kelsey Plumb, Brianna Stewart and more. Take the court and redefine the game. This isn't your regular season. This is unrivaled, where the pace is faster, the energy is higher, and every athlete shines. Unrivaled Basketball Season 2, sponsored by Samsung Galaxy, tips off January 5 on TNT, TruTV and HBO Max. Welcome to Decisions Decisions. I don't think you should say decisions, decisions. It sounded like you was talking in. Kirsten, you definitely say to welcome. Welcome to the new podcast. Oh, wait, you want to say together. Decisions, decisions. Welcome, everybody, to another episode of Decisions, Decisions. I sing because we got some singers in the building today, but I'm your girl, Mandy V. AKA that's Beach. My name is Weezy. And I'm only saying this because, like, oh, my God, that is not how they say it. I don't care because, like, when I see the word omg, I want to like a white girl. We have the lady OMG Girls. I was gonna say the ladies, but I can't date ladies. No, no, kid. They grown as girl. She a whole mother. Y' all taking off the lil on flower. Listen, they can't call themselves the OMG Ladies. Thank you. Thank you. That's all we trying to say. It's the name, like the name, you know, girl, you going forever be a girl. That's like who you are. Dream girl. Was a child, but listen, like, she made a little point. It sounds. It's not, you know, I love. It's not. You know, actually, when y' all are introducing yourselves, I would love you to tell us afterward the alt name that you had for the group. Okay. Oh, okay. I was gonna do it. I love it. So yes, go ahead and introduce yourself, ladies. Okay. Okay. What's going on? I'm Zanique. Also noniece. Oh, stop. Also noniece. Uh huh. My name's Rihanna, but I'm known as Baby Doll. And I am Beja, but they call me Beauty. And we are the OMG Girls. See, this is cute. We don'. We. We don't really do well. No, we gotta do. I'm Mandy. Then I'll be like, you gonna say decision, decisions. We do good when we're doing like a. Like a draw. Like a drop. Okay, give us a fake drop right now for OMG girls. Bet you we can do that. Hey, we own Decisions. What's up? It's OMG and you're watching Decision, decision. I was not ready. I was wondering who gonna say the last part, but I was. We all saying it. We all saying it. Watch it. If we do it the second time be right. We got. We watch it. Yeah, okay, watch what's up? It's omg and you're watching Decisions, Decisions. See, that's on Disney. On Disney, period. So how has it been, I guess, over the last couple years, going from, I guess, girlhood quote unquote to womanhood? We Know you had a baby, a relationship publicly. Do y' all have kids? Or. Like, this is the thing. Like, but y' all grown. Y' all grown. Heartbreaks under the belt. No, I'm kidding. What you say? No kidding. For anyone, like, listening that probably saw yalls name. I think that there's this thing around coming out as a kid and no one ever wanting them to grow up. And it's like, no girl. Like, they just showed a picture of. What's the girl? Bobby Sump. You know, I don't be knowing the white girl names, but the one from Stranger Things. Oh, Billy, Bobby Brown. Billie Bobby Brown. Millie. Bobby, Millie. Bob Thorpe. She is. I was like, see, this is what happens when y' all wait so goddamn long to make a goddamn nother season. Like, we waiting. I feel that she about to be 35. You know, we have to wait on our next two straight. Not. I mean, she might be. I don't know if y' all are comfortable. I would love to know your ages because omg, Girls has been a A to me. A name that I've heard forever. Forever. So it's just like, how old? Oh, thank you. OMG, old lady. We ain't there yet. I'm 30. And I'm 29. See y'. All. So while y' all listening, they actually have lived a little bit of life. When we talk about the. We talk about we enter in a new decade. Okay. We. Is there is any. You're 29. Yes. You're 30. You're 29. Are. Is there any, like, Are y' all excited? Are y' all nervous? Like, what is right now your feelings about approaching 30? Well, since I'm at 30, I was definitely. I mean, I think as you get closer to it, it's like, oh, like, it's not that bad. Or it's like, it's not that old. Like, you know, and as I've been my. How many months? It's been like six months since I've been in 30s. I love it here. It's very, like, it's very great. It's so beautiful. Like, it's a great time. I love my mind. I love how I do stuff and do what I want. I've been doing that, but now it's like, I really do it. So it's been amazing. I tell everybody look forward to it. Like, everybody be saying the different eras be like, a time to look forward to. 30 is definitely a 30. So much fun. Like, listen, not the stars. I feel like the blue hair is giving your water sign. But I just made that up. I am a water sign. Yeah, me too. I felt that you're giving me. Oh, great. I felt it. Did you. Why you hating like, we were telepathically all about that. You felt what gave it off, though? Because, like, she has a lot of personality, but it's like she's being quiet, and every time we say something, she's like, now I want to know this. Like, she wants to know deeper. Like, that's ADD I had that bad as well. So maybe that's just. But I think Pisces get someone. It's interesting you said that, because someone told me. Oh, I can tell you're a Pisces because when you're excited, the way you respond to questions, like, it's just like, oh, and, you know, we're, like, ready to, like, learn. We're like. We're super eager people. You should see me on a date. It be getting bad. They think I'm too into them. And I'd be like, no, I'm just like. I'm just feeling you out. Yeah. Yeah. I don't believe in stars and moons, but I guess we gotta ask y', all, too. What y' all signs is now, too. Well, I'm not deep into it. Yeah. I want to know what you're talking about. Yeah, that's crazy. Cause let's do it. Go ahead. No, see, because now you see, look, I don't want to be wrong. That's what people do. And then when they be right, they be like, I knew it. See, I knew. I knew. Oh, my God. That's what I was gonn to say. That is crazy. Now, are y' all ready to be 30? Oh, wait. Oh, did you want to get s. Or you can't get it? No, I'm done. You said I knew that one. That one only. I am an Aries. I'm a Leo. Okay? My best friend's a Leo. Yeah. That's the only reason I know. Okay. I love this. What's yours? I know you don't believe in star signs and what's the best sign? Because it's what I am. Libra. Okay? Oh, okay. You got a birthday coming. Your. And. And Happy early birthday. I'm ready for all my gifts from all my boyfriends. Wait, how old are y'? All? If y' all don't mind, I will be 35, period. People are still young. Oh, no, I'm not gonna lie. All my friends are older than me. They like, in their 40s. Like, they're all. Or celebrating going to 40. Most of my friends are older, and I was like, bitch, 35. I gotta say mid 30s now. Cause I love saying, you know, low 30s still. Like, it's early 30s. Early 30s. Early is what I meant. Who's checking words these days? Only us is New Times bestsellers. Yeah. Period. Anyways, we're only us as songwriters, period. We're going to do a quick icebreaker with y', all, okay. To kind of feel y' all out. Now, we have a Truth and Dare that we make everyone do, but because there's three of you, I decided to truth. Truth and dare this thing. Okay. Switch it up. So because I like to go this way, we just gonna talk this way. We're going to start with you, Zanique. Okay? So here's. And this is where I want you to be as honest as possible. No one's going to judge you. Okay. And I guess I got to lean into. Motherhood is a blessing. Yes. All right. What is actually the hardest thing, though, about motherhood that you've experienced that you hated that you 0 out of 10 won't recommend? Let's see. I would say for me, being in my 20s, almost out of my 20s, I would say, like, wanting to go outside. Okay. Like, I. I be wanting to go outside, and I don't always have somebody to watch my baby, but it's like, for me, I will make it. I will make it happen. Like, okay. Like, actually, somebody is. You're gonna get your grandchild. You're gonna get your kid. Like, somebody's gonna do it. Yeah. If you. If. If you. You want to be outside. Yes. Would you recommend women to wait, being that you had your child in your 20s? Now, the other thing. I don't always recommend the weight because I feel like I'm a person who likes. Well, my child has a lot of energy. Okay. And I don't. I like to lay and sleep. Like, I'm really. Like. I thought she was gonna be chill like me. She has a lot of personality, so I'm glad. She's four and she runs me, so I'm glad. I'm really glad that I did it now. Okay. Okay. I can get that. When I get, like, you know, 30 something. 40, I want to be chilling, and I want her to already be doing her thing. Doing her thing. Like, right now, it's me and her every against the world period. Now we're on the opposite ends of the spectrum. Wheezy wants to be a mom. I never want to be a mom, but I'm curious. Have you guys started thinking about motherhood. Do y' all want kids? I mean, I kind of. I'll be on and off with it because I have so many women around me, like, who have children. So I. I see, like, the pros and the cons of it. What are the pros? I think the pros, I'd like to know. It's like. It's like unconditional love from a little human. And I think the children are so pure and innocent, and they really look at what you do, and they, like, really. They're very appreciative. Okay. You know, like, I've seen, like, her kid, like, mom, you're just the best mom ever. Like, you know what I mean? I don't know if she'd be needing to hear that that particular day, but I'm sure certain days where, like, you just, like, wow, like, that's so sweet, you know? But then for me, it's like, my freedom is a big part of, like, me not having a kid. And I do, like, to be able, like, that just get up and go like a. And I went and got my hair done, and I got to eat what I wanted to eat and come home and, you know, But I don't know. Like, I'm up and down with it. Like, some days I do want a kid, and some days. Does the family dynamic of children make you want children more? Like, most times when people want to be mothers, they think of, like, the unit. Yeah. And it doesn't always end up that way. Yeah. I mean, I think that, like, that's a. That's a part of it, too. I definitely would want a family. I'm okay with it not being that way, you know, but in my perfect world, it would be that way. My little sister has a. Has a daughter. She has. She's almost 2, and, like, her and her baby dad, they're not, like, married, but they have, like, a family unit and structure that, like, works for them. So. So I feel like it's just all about, like, what works for you and your situation with your partner and, you know, like, I guess, raising your baby. What about you, Briana? I do want kids. I would love to have kids one day. You know, when I meet that hubby of mine, he meets me, he finds me, and, you know, we're gonna have a baby or two. Okay. I love that. Well, Breanna, the next question is for you. It's truth, and I need the truth. Okay. I need it. All righty. Who's the most famous person who slid in your dm. And what did they say? Child, You laugh, you think you're getting something. You ain't getting nothing. My DMs be so dried in the Sahara desert. It's the truth. It's honesty. Yes. In your eyes. I'm looking so. Yes. What about a famous person that gave you a compliment? Most famous person you dm. That wasn't like a DM sex slide. I mean, okay, it wasn't even sexual. I mean, I had no sexual slides. I have had that. I had no sexual slides. But the one. I mean, the one. The. I'm not gonna say how the hell. Okay. The one famous that I could think of the top of my head, you know, at the moment. Make it sound interesting. Yeah. What was the question about him? Uh, you crazy? No, my question for you. Yeah. You said, who's lit in it? Who the person is? Uh huh. Oh, you ain't gonna say what I'm. My question for you is the most famous person that's paid you a compliment via dm. Like what you're doing. Uh huh. Like giving you a prop. Yeah. Oh, okay. Well, I mean, these girls. I'm just kidding. You lucky we ain't got liquor. Cause I would have made you taste. No, no, no. The thing is, no, there's somebody. There's been shout out to. There's been people from my hometown, for real, who also do music. But Ralo Rodriguez has definitely, like, showed me love. He's a rapper and then also a producer. Algino. Like, they all like, support me and be like, you know, you're doing your thing. Okay, so then I'm still gonna. Baby, I still need mad. But I don't have nobody. Like, baby, y' all still need mad. That's me. I'm telling you, your celebrity crush. Who is my. I need a new one, cuz my. My one that I want. Everybody wants some. Who definitely got multiple girlfriends. He do. So there's multiple slots available. Hey, there is. I love him. Hi. I mean, Rihanna was. Hi. And he love Rihanna. I don't think that's the one that I love. Ri Y. Yeah. Don't make him mad. Hold on. I'm not going for Maurice Brown. Is. Is. I need everybody outside of him. Who would it be? No, I just need to find, like, when I come across him, that's what we. Okay. You don't know. You don't know. Like, I feel like I'm older now and I can actually be with the celebrity crush that I like. So when I meet him, then we all find out Together. We going to be together is what she said. Cuz when we were younger, we were dreaming about it, but now we older, so. And now you can actually meet them also. Everything, everyone is more accessible. Just with. Isn't it crazy how, like some of the people when we're younger, we see them now and we're like, oh, is there anybody that's like, yo, fuck, Raz B. That is crazy. No, I'll tell you one that was funny. We were at Essence Fest, and, you know, my brain just didn't process because it's been a while. We're from Florida, so we love Pretty Wick. Pretty Ricky. Yes, I'm downstairs. Spectaculars. We're getting in our car and I think I said to Mandy, was he on a TV show? How do I know what it is? I said, bitch, grind on me. I said, bitch, you got a no spectacular. Mind you, girl. My brain wasn't hitting mind you. Me and my homegirl literally fucking went to the club with him to go party with Keith Sweat. Random. Yes. And my homegirl was in the back. Cause Pretty Ricky was, ugh, our shit. And she's in the back singing Playhouse and like all his records to him in the car. And I was like, okay. My other friend did that same shit to Jim Jones. I said, okay, when you fan out, you're gonna fan out. Have y' all fanned out over anybody that y' all met? Not fanned out, but y' all know naturally. No, we don't fan out, but y' all know naturally, like amongst each other. We were like, they song. They songs. It's like, you. We'll end up, like, singing it out loud. Yeah. Oh, yeah. We had met Big Sean. We were excited to meet him. We were excited. What song comes to mind for Big Sean out the gig, right? I don't with. That's what comes. Don't play no games. Mine is. Dang. I'm trying to think off the mixtape album. The, you know, look at you trying to get deep. Look at you trying early in the morning. What's that called? What's that one? Oh, that's the one that come to my mind. I tell y', all, I just fangirl real hard over Steve Lacy. And it was a really embarrassing moment. It was 4 o' clock in the morning. What you do? We all leaving the spot now. He cut his hair, so I didn't know it was Steven Lacey. I need to look this up. Cause you don't like Chris Brown, but ain't there some tea about Steve Lacey being a little. Oh, he just like white man. That's all it is. Oh, okay, look, white boys. And when I tell you he's getting in this SUV and I'm like, I wish I knew you wanted me. I'm serious. And then this white girl next to me because of course it's all black, she's like, I love him too. Is that him? And it was in LA and we were very OMG girls. I could see that man walking. I could see that man walking down the street. I wouldn't know that man. 10 athletes will face the toughest job interview in fitness that will push past physical and mental breaking points. Let go. 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Paige Beckers, Nafiza Collier, Kelsey Plumb, Brianna Stewart and more are back to redefine the game. Unrivaled basketball season two, sponsored by Samsung Galaxy, tips off January 5 on TNT, TruTV and HBO. Max, now Beija, the dare is coming your way. Yes. Yeah. She would have loved the truth. I would have told her. Okay, now for you, I wish I had something, too. You gotta get your little. Ready. Do a sultry a cappella. Oh, my God. Of a nursery ride. And it has to be given by one of your bandmates. Okay? So think of a nursery rhyme. Y' all know what nursery rhymes is? Yeah. Yeah. There we go. Yeah. Mary had a little lamb. No, no, no, no, no. I gotta do what y' all told me. I like it, like, a little different, you know? Come on, give us a little sultry. I'm say sultry bit of itsy bitsy spider, huh? Okay. My Tony Braxton. I love Tony. She be giving that little deep cut voice. All right. The issy busy spider went up the water sp. I don't know. The down came the rain. Down came the rain and wash the spider out. Put the baby sleep. She don't got kids. Clearly. Yes. The itsy bitsy spider went up the spout again. Not. You know what's actually crazy now that I. Now that I think about it, because this used to be horrible decisions. I wish we changed the word a spider to penis. Oh. Like, I just. I think that that would have been a little bit more quick on that one just because. Because it sounded sultry. And then I just started thinking about dick. You know, how I feel. And it flowed. Like, when I. It felt that way. It did feel that way. Let's play another little game. Speaking of itsy. Okay, I'm appointed, y', all, and you gonna have to pick one right on the spot. Okay. Yeah. She. I'm about to get you ready. Here we go. Itsy bitsy penis or big ass penis in its t. Bank account. There we go. Oh, wait. Okay, okay, okay. There we go. Big ass penis or itsy bissy bank. Wait, say one more time. Sorry. Like big ass penis in its 50 bank account or big ass bank account? Itsy bitsy penis. Hello. Yeah, that's easy. You know what? It's okay. Yeah, definitely. Big, big bank account. Big bank. Big bank. Bro, you could put an extender. Stop trying to make broke dick a thing, bro. Stop trying to do it. Everybody choosing itsy 50 penis. I feel like we could get that taken care of. You can probably be like, find other Ways now that's the problem, bro. Now y' all are trying to. It's the emotion of the ocean. 50 penis larger. I hate it. That's not what we're doing here. I'm not going just like saying I'mma pick somebody. So you gonna take the. The. The. She taking a big bro. You got, you got hopes that he gonna make that money. See, I feel the opposite of y'. All. So to see how y' all are like you, like you can extend it. I'll be optimistic and like they can make the money. Hello. But when you know they ain't why they, why that account still. That way you can lead the horse. The water you still not drink. It's kind of. Listen, here's a T. I've been there. Go to Everest. That's what I'm going to say. Take that big dick and we'll get him a job, put him in some interviews. We'll do a little practice session. That's what I'm gonna do. I ain't taking this well. I ain't been there. But I'm saying like I've been like in her shoes to where like, you know, you'd be optimistic. Oh, go ahead and share us about your. Your experience with a broke man. Oh, go ahead. No, no, no, no, I haven't. No. Thank God. Thank God, thank God. No experience, like been with the broke guy. Oh yeah. My dad don't play that. I don't play that well. Your dad don't play that. He don't not have. I don't play that. Like a man with no ambition. But then when you come from such great men, how can you even. Like my dad, he was just really big on like setting like the preced me. Like when I think of like broke, I be feeling like if you broken in your pockets and you broken in your spirit and your mind and sometimes yeah, cuz like if your mind, like if you're. If your mind isn't broken, like your spirit isn't broken, then you'll have ambition to go get the money. I'm telling you, like, it's like. It's a spiritual thing though. She said the broken spirit mind. It is. Like when y' all think about it, like when you, when you. It does it starting your mind, you got to have ambition. Like I feel like a man with ambition. Like he gonna figure it out like my dad, you know, I remember the recession. So like my dad was in real estate. So I watched him get up every day at 6 o' clock and go to Work, whether he had a job or not. Yeah. You know what I mean? Like, that's ambition, that is. You know what I'm saying? Like, he gonna come home with something, it might not be what it was, or it might not be consistent every day, but he walking in that door with something I could respect. I think that's my thing. Like, in your 20s, you might allow it. Yeah. Mid 30s. I'm not gonna sit here and say I allow to be broke, bro. Yeah. Not, you know, not in your 30s. Now, I do mess with YNs, so I'm a little bit more understanding of their plight for them. You know, they're still. They're elevating still. They're ascending. Okay. You know? You know, they just gotta be understand. I feel like as long as the man willing and able and he actually, you know, got it, he gotta have it. Y' all are a little younger, so it's a little bit more. They be getting on me on a pod. Cause I like yns. Do y' all only want. Do y' all date older or younger? Does age matter? I've only dated, like. Like around my age. Yeah, like a little old or like, my age. I haven't dated younger. I only have dated around my age and older. And I always felt like I only want to date an older man. But now that I'm, like, just vibing. Yeah, just vibing. I feel like, let's explore it all young, you know, what's the youngest? Like, like 25. Okay. Okay. You need the. Okay. Oh, wait. The cortex. You might be right. I care about the cortex all the time. So I go down to 22. The cortex. I'm 22. 22. Okay, 22. Okay, wait, so I got one. All right, so you got one. Nice night with Chris Brown. Whoa. Okay. What? He has to be shared. Oh, no, that's easy. You talking about shared, like, in the bed. Would you rather have the night alone, or would you rather just share him? No, we gonna have a long time. No, no. Like, without him. I don't wanna. No, she said with him, no switches. Because Doug's sister. Not everybody just want a three. Alone in your bed. Yeah. Without him letting me. His dad. Yeah. I'll be rubbing my feet together so good. Not rubbing. Like I'm be laying on the bed. That's what I'm. No. Oh, I don't even cry, cuz is she gonna be like. Like, who you picking, like, on that stage? Is it me and K that I'm saying, like, I'm not probably triggering you right? Now what we know, man got too many. Everybody listen. But that's my thing. It's like. I feel like that's what it is, though. It's like, what part? How much do you like this? You know what I'm saying? Like, why is she here? Like, and then I'm. I'm watching this go down. Like. Like, any little thing. If he do it too much, I'm like, get her up out of here. You like her. He can't like her. Like, I feel like. Like, if it's something like that, it's like. Like, I feel like if you liking her too much, the other person too much, it's not gonna work out. That's why I can't go, like, you know, I'm just too jealous. Do y' all mind dating men that are dating other people? What the hell? If he. If he not my man, is he. Are we together? Very monogamous? Let's just say maybe you're on third date. And it's going well, though. Y' all text every day. Okay. Another woman. Does that hurt? We're not expecting that. Okay, but you saying, like, seeing another woman, like, talking to her, not, like, together with her. Like, yeah, they're not official. Y' all are cool with dating? We all dating. Yeah. I feel like if we're not boyfriend and girlfriend, like, then I kind of can't control. Yeah, yeah. See, that's different. Don't play with my health. Yeah. So then everyone should just be wearing condoms. There we go. There we go. Be safe. Now let's talk about it. We are getting into girl talk real quick. Ooh. I'm basing it off of the title to Yalls Records. Okay, so we are starting with. A lot of people ask us, especially the single girls, where the fuck to meet people. So we starting with where the boys at? Yes. Okay. And I want all of us to kind of come up with where we think we have met some of the best people that we've talked to. So do you find the best way to date right now is looking online? Someone told me the airport, but I'm like, bitch, I never meet nobody. But then again, I dress like a stud, so I get why I don't never meet nobody. Cause I be down to the sweatpants. But where are the boys at? Where would you say someone has the best chance of meeting a guy? I say brunch at Darius Carlton on Sunday. Oh, wait, she's. Oh, you got specifics? Yeah, I feel like, what? Day shift at Cheetah. Oh, day shift and Cheetah day shift or at a strip club, if y' all don't know what Cheetah is, depending where we at. Like, it depend on how he. How he coming in there. Cuz, like, magic is cool. You might come meet somebody in magic. You might come meet somebody. You've met men at strip clubs before. Me and my friends said, everybody naked. We not. They don't want to look at us. Also, do we want to meet men that are at the strip club during the day shift? To me, I feel like a lot of bit like a lot of business happens as. I mean, we in the industry. So, like, for me, like, I feel like a lot of, like, producers and songwriters, like, guys that I talk to, like, they'll go to cheat on the day shift and, like, just eat and they talk about, you know, whatever they got going on. Like, I don't. Yeah, I feel like on the day or Blue Flame on the day. So real quick, then even. Even just outside of Atlanta, then. Can women find good men in a strip club? Probably not. Not okay. No, probably not. Like, I don't really any clubs. I feel like you gotta, like, go to. Like. Like, I feel like you might commit some. That's why I said Cheetah on a day shift. That's the only strip club. So the clubs y' all are saying ain't the place to meet men anymore. I don't know. I haven't met a man in. In New York City. If 2N had a business meeting at a strip club, I'm like, damn, they the mafia. Except they might be in the mob. Like, what kind of drug deal are you doing? But also at the same time, is it a big deal? Yeah, I love. But also at the same time, is it a big deal? Yeah, I mean, but that's. I feel like brunches, places like that. Are y' all on dating apps? I'm not. No, no, not saying it. But it's like, it recently came up with me and my cousin. She made one and I sat there, like, while she made the profile, and she instantly got people and stuff like that. I was like, oh, well. She's like, you might need to make one. Yeah, just like. Like fun. Like, she met some friends, like, some dude cool people. Like, I was like, oh, yeah, it do be cool people. And I was like, well, maybe. And this is literally like last week. So that's why when you said. I was like, no, but it's like, it's Indiana. Even the way you just explained it. They do. Yes. And that's what My other cousin told me to get on we need. You sat there and watched her immediately just start matching people. Yeah, we was on, like, FaceTime. They talk about it. That's why dating is so goddamn hard now. Yeah. Because literally, in the palm of your hand, you got five options where outside, you're not gonna get it. Like, I remember back in the day, going to the mall. The mall is where you used to go. You used to compete with your friend. Now we're aging the show. We agent the mall. No, because we all shop online now. Niggas wouldn't even say hello. They be like, put y' all on. I guess that's what I'm trying to figure out. Like, the skating ring. The skating ring back together, y'. All. Then go around and tell us, where's the last dude y' all dating? Where'd you meet him or somebody you dated? Yes. Sure. Yeah. I don't know. I feel like. I feel like, for me, like, going through Instagram is kind of a thing. It is. I love it. How many likes you get to shoot your shot? How you be shooting your shot on Instagram? I don't really shoot my shot too much. I just. You know who I am. I just thought about it recently, but it's just, like. It's not something I'm used to doing. Okay. But I feel like it's better when somebody hit me, and then I'm able to actually, like, if they. If we in the same city or it's, like, possible for us to link soon. Like, I'm not really good at, like. Oh, pen pals. Yeah. Yeah. Like, you hit me on social media. We got. We got two and a half weeks. Someday. Yeah, someday. 4 million followers. How do you find it, bruh? Well, they. I'm trying to think, and I'm trying to see what photo, like, what I'm putting lead in. Okay. Like, it's hard because when girls are in the industry, you feel like you can't even shoot your shots. Nah, you just gotta, like, more than three pictures. More than three pictures. That mean you want to fuck. Oh, girl, this means you want to fuck. That what it is. Okay. That's what. It's gift. Okay, get that out. Get that out. But, like, this the type of picture, you can't put this on a dating app. This is only safe for ig. Cause, you know, this is, like, too, too fine now. Too fine, too fine. This too fine. This is good for the girls. It's good for the ig. But you put on a dating app, it's like, oh, you overly going, oh, you don't even want to eat eight. Like, you want to go straight down. You just want to get eight. There we go. Where was the last place you met someone? I would say a good place to meet people, too. Just. And who I've met, like, good people. Mutual. Like, through mutual. Through a friend. Y. I think that's the safest way to meet someone. Absolutely. Unless you're friends with a whole bunch of. I pulled up an article. Not on Instagram, baby. I pulled up this article recently of, like, how did people meet and everybody. And it asks people through the decades. People in their 20s, 30s, 40s, people, 40s through 60s, all mutuals. Almost like 80% of it was mutual. And they be. And then 20s through 30s was dating apps. Yeah. And I think it kind of shows you how, like, we're in this era of I don't want to step outside social anxiety. Like, you know, but when people have community, they be sharing it around. Just like my homeboy tried to get me the. Exactly. Well, he's trying to get like, I know someone you'll like. Yeah. But he was trying to put you on. But you're trying to put your own, not trying to put your own. I'm too mad at that. I ain't mad at that. Oh, you're. The last one was Y. I really thought I was getting away with. Oh, you thought Cheetah, right? No, not Cheetah. I actually. Last person I dated, I met them at the studio. Okay. Actually, like, they were in the industry, too, so I met them at the studio, and then, like, I didn't see them for a couple years, and then we had another session, like, at their house, and then it wasn't like that. It was like that. It was like. It was like, that's where we linked, and I feel like we made, like, a connection. That was outside. I know y' all did, but I really be liking the. To. I don't know. Like, I feel like, for me, like, I'm just a songwriter. I'm a little girl. I like dating in the industry. What's y' all rule with dating people from work? Like, you like dating people in the industry. How do y' all feel about it? I'm open to it. I haven't really experienced Fix your face. You know, you on camera. I'm sorry. She said, hey, you know, you on camera. Yeah, I would like to. I have. Haven't. I don't. Listen, you don't recommend. Have. Like, I'm just. I don't I just feel like most of the people who try to talk to me are in the industry, but I would like to do something outside of it. Regular men listening. Shoot your shot. She said she want a 9 to 5 baby in can be like a. Like, yeah. Like, okay. Real estate developer. And I'mma help you out a little bit more. You said you a lover girl. Y' all also got a record called Lover Boy. Yes. So I want us all to go around, man. This is where you take notes, y'. All. This is where you take notes. I want us to all talk about what things some. Someone can do. A partner, a man to make you melt. That isn't sexual. Smell good. Pull up where I'm at. And. Yeah. And, like, make a whole big thing in front. Like, I. I'm like. You like radio? Yeah. I'm really like Leo. Yeah. I want the world to know. I like for my friends to know. Like, I like being places. And it's like. Like, oh, where y'. All. Y'. All. Y' all eating here? Okay, you pull up. Come pay the tab. Like, that's what I like. You know what I'm saying? Like, show Atlanta. They go about to tell that in Kansas, and he gonna be like, the. You mean pull up. Head of time for you and your friend. It'll happen, huh? It will. It will happen. So, okay, you. That. She said I'm gonna be outside forever. That's why she said, I don't want to be a motherfucker. I think Atlanta and Miami, you could actually get pull up and. Yeah, for sure. Or just, like. Just pull up and show, like, effort. Like, if I'm at rehearsal and I've been there all day, like, pull up. Bring me something to eat or, like, you know, just pop in, make my. You know, make. You know. You know, I'm with it all. Like, I just like grand displays of affection. Okay. Make a scene, girl. I am. Hey, y'. All. Y' all gonna laugh at me. My now is take my trash out when you leave my house. And now, hey, now, that's real. That's a house. He took the trash out and made the bed. He took the trash out before going to the airport. And I was like, oh. Oh, this is nice. Made my bed every morning. I said I could get used to this. Okay. I was like, oh, I like this. Just those little attitudes. Yeah. Because it's like, you care about my space, which makes me feel like you care about me. Yes. What about you? I was just gonna say, like, somebody who definitely, like, cares about what I Like, just period. Like someone who will cook for me. I still have not had that. That it really happened. What's the best meal a man done cook for you? Oh. Or you want me to cook for you? Was it salmon? Because that's all they know to me. I can't stand salmon. The new tilapia. I don't know. I feel like my ex was, like, always. Oh, he could. He could chef it up. Yeah. I'm jealous. Yeah. But. Yeah. I don't know. But his Mac and cheese was good, too. And somebody. No, for real. Somebody. Makes me feel safe. Yes. Like, I'm riding with you in the hood, and I'm. Me too. Listen, Is she too Pisces? That's me, girl. Now I need to ask y' all wait. But I gotta say what I want my loved one to do, because I said smell good, but that's not it. Yeah. I just want you. Yeah. Definitely take care of your hygiene. Make sure your teeth straight. Make sure, you know, all that type of stuff is very important because you love yourself, then I know you'll love me, so. But I definitely want the man to just. I mean, y' all said all the things. Safe. Show up and show out. Like, I want a man to be okay knowing he can, like, express himself and show his little emotion. Like, you know, you can. You safe to here to do that. I need you to be a man. You know, you could be grown and. But you could also be like, if you need somebody to talk to, call me. No, this is where someone's super masculine. Oh, yes. Love that. I love funny hood niggas. I love hood. I love that y' all are saying that this from masculine men. Much. Like, to be honest with you, I think it's the thing that probably attracted my man to me. Just watching me boss up and not just be like, yes, daddy. You know, and then another place, I think seeing someone with duality. Yeah. Show their softness for you. And men listening. I'm telling you, we all want it. Yeah. That's the softness right there. So weird to me. We don't need to be mean. We don't give a fuck if you're, like, being too hard. Like, nobody wants that shit. Sounds good. 10 athletes will face the toughest job interview in fitness. That will push past physical and. And mental breaking points. You are the fittest of the fit. 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This is what he had to say. Most niggas are criminals because women love criminals. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. What? Listen, let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. Most men are criminals. No, hear me out. No, no, hear me out. Here's the cycle that ISIS our culture does, and you don't want to hear it, but it's the truth. Like the bad guys, they like the bad guys. They have babies with the bad guys. The bad guys turn into terrible baby daddies. Then they get the good guys who wanted them when they was the. The come be step daddies and they celebrate him in society. He's the bonus father. He's the great man. You didn't want him when you was 19. You didn't want him when he was 21. You didn't want him because he was lame. You didn't want him because he was lame. He women like cool thug and Mariah. Mariah is a beautif. Educated girl. Father is one of the most legendary coaches. He has a statue. I heard she comes from a great, great everything two parent household. You still end up with a street guy. Women want to feel protected, and street guys make you feel protected. Okay? But I'm gonna say this though, because I feel like mine, you know what I'm saying? Like, mine is a tax paying, law abiding citizen, okay? You come up in his house or you walk up on us, like he gonna lay it down and that's. I just feel like, to me, like I don't think like a hood nigga is synonymous with being like, like someone who's safe. Like, I think it's fun to me, like part of it. Like, you know, we from the south, so, like having guns and stuff down here, like, oh, that's scary. You know, it's. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's regular though too. Like, I don't think that it's like we look at it like, oh, like, you know what I'm saying? He's so hood. Like, I feel like what make a hood is like. And two, I don't know, cuz I feel like I'll go to the hood, but it's not giving. Like, this nigga's dangerous. Like, you know what I'm saying? He still operates in. How do you then. How do you then define what a bad guy is or a bad boy or, you know, let's remove. That's what that is. In and out of jail. This is like a criminal. That's. So do you disagree with him saying that women actually don't like criminals, or do y' all believe that there is a thing where women like someone who then had a little time? There's some women who do, like, after lockup. They like people. Yeah, no. Yeah, we not looking like, oh, you went to jail. I want you like, no, they don't give me like, oh, yes, you gotta be a man. You know how to be. The sentiments are wrong because women like masculinity and other women, that's what it is. We only get to really see displays of masculinity with men that feel like they have to be in that. So the corporate nigga is probably not going to show you that. Right? Except we against the corporate niggas. Like, but that's what I'm saying. Seeing those displays, it probably comes from that guy. Particularly with me, though, if I'm being honest, like, everything in my life, life is misfit. I just brought up Steve Lacy. I'm probably going to bug out over him, over any other rapper, right? Because I like misfit shit. Every business I own is built off of being outcast or misfit in this podcast. So, like, I like misfit niggas, even when I'm dating girls the same. So sometimes it does skew that way to bad people look at me like, bad girl. I have a sex podcast. I am the exact same way. I am the girl you shouldn't date. So I generally just. I connect that way with those women, with those people, friendships, anything. But I think from an attractivity standpoint, corporate men, well to do men lean on their money, and bad boys, hood niggas, et cetera, lean on their strength and safety. You ask any woman what they want for a man, safety is going to come out first. Because you are always used to feeling unsafe by men. One in four women have been assaulted in this room is probably more than that. And we are fucking. So I say that to say this is such a jaded point of view. Niggas aren't committing crimes for women like they want to. The accountability was up there. But I do, I do know and agree that women do like the. The bad boy aesthetic. Yeah. Essentially, like, because you offer you safety when the other ones don't. But that's. But that's where I feel like that is a false sensation to me. Every time I watch first 48, it's the bitch that got Killed because she was at the wrong place, wrong time. Cause she was with a nigga that she shouldn't have been around. And that's like, to me, I don't see how you could be safe or feel safe around someone who has to carry a gun or around someone who has an environment that is not a safe one. I never understood that, which is why I'm out here. Every other nigga that I date got a PhD and now I can't call them all PhD on the podcast. Are they then telling you, like, so, for example, right. Yep. Are they saying things to you about how they're gonna take care of you, keep you safe? Like, are they talking like that? Cause I'm gonna be real when I date hood niggas. They do that all the time. You make sure you good, baby. Are you this that they're, like, concerned with also physical safety, which generally other men don't talk about. Cause they ain't worried about it. Yeah. So it's like, you keep hearing it and you start to get it in your head. I ain't saying we right, but they just the ones that presenting that shit. I mean, I ain't gonna lie. I think he a little hurt though, too. And I think that, like, a lot of it is like. Like, for. At least for me. Like, I feel like the corporate guy could offer you safety, you know? You know what his safety is, though? It's the peace, though, too. Like, it's the calmness and environment that he have. So you don't have to say it's safe, because it is safe. But I guess that that's where I also consider my surroundings. Right? So, like, this idea of a man having to protect me. Bitch, we're going to eat sushi. Like, bitch, we at the St. Regis. We are in like. So I think it's also environment. So if you have to feel like like a man got you is because you not in the right space. My mama used to be big on that too. Like, she always would tell me, like, you don't want to be like, you could be with a in the hood and think everything fine and the feds come kick the door, and now you going to jail, too. Like, that's how my parents talk to me. So, like, for me, I'm not going to sit in the trap with you. And I feel like I won't even be in a car with a guy. Yeah, I'm not. I'm not sitting in the trap. I'm not sitting in the car. Like, I'm not put, like, I'm not going with you on a run, and I'm not pulling up. And I mean, I'll pull up to, like, where you at? If we, like, oh, oh, come meet me over here. We about to go wherever. Like, I'll meet you wherever. That's cool. But, like, I'm not gonna just be posted up to me. I feel like it's a lack of, like, respect, too. Like, I'm like, a man who really, like, respect you and love you and want to keep you safe. Like, if he know he in an environment where it's like, something going on that ain't right. Like, he gonna be like, listen, like, it ain't safe over here. Yeah, he's not gonna tell you about it even in. If you're going to eat sushi. Just a man who's just, like, aware. Like, who's, like, even if we're not in a safe. I mean, we are in a safe environment. Like, I'm. You good. I'm making sure we good. Like, you just feel safe. That's what it is. Walk up on us. So you know how a man shows up in his true masculine. He got to be in the seat to face the door. Gotta be a hood man. Like, just somebody who does the things to make you feel safe. And some of the men are just like, they grew up that way or they, like, grew up in the street, but they're not there no more. They doing other stuff now. And they, like, got just that street knowledge. And, you know, you want them to have that young hardware look out. Just treat me like a princess. So I would tell y', all, this is my first time, like, realizing that I was dating a drip. Maybe I was, like, early 20s, and I'm dating this trap nigga. And he starts driving me to this spot, and I'm like, first of all, we live downtown. Why are we going in this area? Yeah. So then I said to him, when we passed in the trap, I said, I didn't even know you go here. I thought you just tell other people to go here. Yeah, bro, when I got home and was telling my friends, they like, bitch, you dating a drug dealer. I'm shocked that he took you to the drugs. Yes. Like, I am shocked. Yeah. I don't understand. And I agree with you. And you know what it made me realize, just to your point, about men respecting you, I probably wasn't the main girl he was talking to. He probably had a girl at home and needed to take me to work. Cause that's when a nigga could Be So final consensus is ladies listening. If you are dating a drug dealer and he brings you around the drugs, he doesn't respect you. Is this the parallel we're drawing here? No, he brings you around the other drug dealer. Not. But like I shouldn't know, I shouldn't know. I should know. Like I gotta, I gotta. He don't wanna even put you right. He don't want you to be like if something goes down, right, you don't know nothing. So you say you a jail for drugs. And like when they pulled up to his house to come get him, like they couldn't take his girl. Cuz she didn't know nothing about nothing. That like she didn't even know the extent of what was happening. She never knew what he was. Girl, old girl that was dating Pablo Escobar said the same thing. No, but it's like, but you know when the feds come, when the feds come, they know, they know who was a part of it though. Like the Fed's not coming unless they come in with every single piece of like. That's why they have a 98% because when they come in, they got the full story. Okay, so we were talking about all the things that these men do wrong. We're gonna lean into, make a scene. Yeah. Okay. That's my type of vibe. So I wanna know each of y' all stories of your crash outs, what the guy did and how you made a scene. I feel like you might have a good one. Cause now that you got a four year old and the hormones. I know you had a baby daddy crash out. I'm gonna say, have you had a baby baby crash out? I'm trying to think the main one, one, not really. I don't crash out too much. You don't crash out too much. Really? You're a Pisces. You're a liar. Yeah, I'm like a different type of Pisces. I don't know what it is. I know a lot of Pisces who like crash out. February, Pisces, I'm a March, I'm the last day of Pisces. Okay. March 20th, I don't know, on the 17th. And I will crash the car. Yeah. Like. Yeah, I didn't he me off. I'm crazy. You're like me, I don't, I don't cry shot either. I don't know, I move on. It's not a lot like they always say, like it's not a. It takes a lot to get me mad. Yeah. So. Okay, so they Got the good stories in. That means they to crash out. I'm a think on it. We could see. You see, I know you can. Yeah, I know. I need to know what he did to make you crash out and how you crashed out. Okay, I haven't crashed out. I'm not a crash out person. Okay? Yeah, I'm not. I am. I'm not. Because you dating the trap. No, no. Into the. Into the event, girl. Promise. Okay, so what did he do and what was the crash out? So, like, we actually used to like, live together at one point. This is when we. We're. We're broken up now, but we used to live together. And so he had. I. I can't really remember what it was he said or something, but he was having a session downstairs, like in the basement. So I was pissed about whatever. I go down there, like, I start going off. I slam the door. Door. He comes upstairs, like behind me. We're walking upstairs. So I go into the room and open the door, put a hole in the wall. So now we arguing about the hole in the wall. But really, I didn't mean to put the hole in the wall. I just was like opening the door on the thing. So, I mean, I didn't know that was going to happen. He's like, why you tripping, man? You put a hole in my wall and then you come downstairs and you talking to me crazy in front of like, you know, the guys he was working with. I'm like, I'll give a them. You know, we just like going back and forth and I mean, that was probably like the biggest thing that's ever. I ain't never like busted no windows or. I don't believe in messing up property. Same intentionally. Except I was crashing. That was. It wasn't intentional though. See, I. I had a thought to crash out, but I never did. But then I thought fantasy. Oh, my fantasy was to Keita's car. But then I thought about jail. So I was gonna pay a crash crackhead to do it. I was just gonna be like, I know he can say this little 20. Yeah, I had it planned out, but then I decided to not. I thought about it. You see what I mean? I think crash outs is women. Happens when all you see is red. You black out. You done had enough and there's no excuse for it. I will tell you, living in New York City, I've had really good sidewalk crash outs on the phone to a friend to my n. Actually, he was laughing at the last. It wasn't really like a real we don't really fight. I think he just knows I'm a nut. And he just be like, okay, baby. He picked up a little. Okay, baby. Okay, baby. We walking down the street. He picked up this phone, and I thought it was a nude, and it was a nude, but it was in the WhatsApp. Like, n was just sending shit. So I'm thinking, some bitch just send him a nude to him directly. So I'm thinking, this whole time we had dinner or whatever, like, you just getting pussy on your phone. Yeah. So he pulls it up. Oh, the group as for men be filthy. Oh. So I think friends were in. Like, it just. It irritated me ass. And I'm just like, hold on. We was just talking and eating, having a lovely time, talking about babies and. And you got on your phone. So now he looking around and my homegirls is next to me, right. We were out for their birthday. He was like, yo, chill. I'm like, I don't give a. About them. I don't give a fuck about the mo. I don't give a fuck about dosy. I don't give a fuck. Adoration. Who is that in the restaurant? Yeah, you like? Damn. This is just a group ch. Sorry. Oh, my God. So with y' all dropping new music and stuff, what are the. The topics that we can expect? Cuz clearly, y' all not busting windows out of cars, so we're not hearing that y' all are. We like to like, make stories, though, and stuff. Talk about what we would do in a situation like ker. Yeah. KE the car. We do have a song. And none of y' all didn't keep a goddamn car. No, but, you know, live, they rhymes and raps and like that. But it's all about storytelling, so you got to paint that picture. That's the part being an artist, like, it's about saying something like how you would do it and how somebody relate when they hear it. If y' all can lean into any of your records now that match where you're actually at, though, in life, what would those records be? T T T Cuz. Body T Body T. That's. That's. That's the newest one. That's the newest record. We love a song because Lover boy, for me, I think. Okay, my very love, cuz you like grandiose acts of things to put holes in wall. You need to Pisces Men. Oh, no, I hear they. I hear they terrible. I'm so sorry, but this might. I don't know. I do. Well, I. That's All I was going to say, I and women be different in. Yeah, I've heard bad things about the men. Look at how just what's his. I heard one good things about every man sign with your music. Like, putting it out back in the day. And now do you feel like you got to be like, super tick tock? Like, no, no, not super. We pretty much just, like, enjoy using all the social media platforms because we've been, like, utilizing it our whole career. Like, we always feel like. Yeah, yeah, pretty much like. Like, we're, like, very connected with just social media, period. Like, we is like, how we. We've had this pod for nine years. There absolutely are episodes. Congratulations. Thank you. There are episodes where I'm like, why the Did I say that? Hate that I said it. But it's. Do y' all have any songs or anything that has come out where y', all, like, y' all were young. It was 10 years ago, or whatever that y' all are like, hate that record. Hate that verse. Hate that. Do y' all have anything like that? I have a lot of moments where I'm just like. I just sound like such a kid. Yeah. So irritated at it, like, because I feel like, like my voice has grown so much so I'm just like. Like, I don't hate the song, but I just hate my part. Like, I don't want to listen to it. Yeah. I feel like I. I've kind of had, like, those same type of moments. I feel like so much of what we've done has been so, like, public. Like, we've really grown up in front of people, so it's like, a lot of the stuff. A lot of stuff out there. Yeah, it is. It's, like, so much. It's like you can't even worry about it. What's been the biggest, like, misconception people have had since you've grow the public eye about you, that kind of hurt, I would say, for me, at least. Like, people. Our fans are, like, not our fans, but, like, people who weren't fans of us. Because, like, back when we were coming up, it was like Team Mindless, and then they had, like, team omg. And it was like a big, like, stand thing that they used to do on Twitter. But everybody used to think I was so mean because I used to clap back, but I never got. I love clapping back. That's why people think I'm a villain, too. And I love talk about your mama. Yeah. I love these girls. I'm gonna defend them. Like, I'm gonna defend us I don't care. So I feel like that was kind of like the thing that used to hurt me the most. I'm like, I'm really not a mean person. No, meeting mean with mean is not mean. Like, y'. All. Y' all being mean to me. Yeah. Y' all making me do this. Like, y' all making me do this. Like, now, what would happen if y' all met a guy on a dating app? Y' all decide to get into the bedroom, and he puts on your music to have sex too? Oh, no. Are you. Are you doing that? No. All of you, look. You see my face? Look at they see. I see your face. I'm telling you. Cause that's mine. Okay. We like to ask this too, cuz we likes fans. Would y' all a fan? Probably not a fan. Probably not. He gonna talk about it forever. Look at that boy, that Beyonce. Like, that's crazy. What song you gonna put on anyway? I'm still stuck at you saying that. What if it's like a hard, like, love boy? Okay. Love you. Like, when I was interviewing, right? I'm like, I understand it would be weird if someone played your music, but generally speaking, like, if I type in, like, there's certain love songs, it's gonna come up. What if I. And then you just stroking and it's like. It's already. It comes on in, like, random shuffle. Yeah. Oh, my, oh, my. Like, what the you about to do? Because, like, I can't imagine with popular artists that have so much. I'm trying to think, who's a girl? I like the Cleo to come on. Oh, Snow Allegra gonna come on. Like, I'm f. Like, I. I don't really like music, though. Y' all know how I feel. Oh, you don't to music. I don't like to, like. I just feel like it's quiet. It makes me. I got it make me. That just make me feel like, I gotta be a. I don't turn on music. I'm not like, gotta have it on. Like, I be like, alexa, play Snow Allegro radio, bitch. We getting into it. You don't like fucking the quiet? No. Like, sometimes one time, oh, my God. I had to turn it. So on YouTube. On YouTube. It was so funny. So there's these things on YouTube where it's like, white people versus Mexican people try each other's tacos. Or, like, Korean people try black people fried chicken. I swear to God. So I'm showing him. I said, ooh, I love watching these. And in, like, 12 minutes. So I start sucking his dick. But they're literally talking about the crunch of chicken in the background. And I said, oh, yeah. I like hair like that though, too. Beauty and Black this week. Y' all watching Beauty and Black. I just started show. I love it. For sure. I love it. Mallory, right when the dick is in my mouth, she starts going, yeah, you and your daddy the same piece of bro. Me and him both turned. He was like, damn, season two is good. Season two. Okay, okay. I'm on, like, second episode. I can't hear anybody else. I don't. I don't wanna hear this. Tyler Perry makes get. I don't give a fuck. This is phenomenal television. I don't care. I don't care. The writing is just so unpredictable too, which. Yes. If I'm really sitting there like, oh, my God, his head's blowing off. I don't care if the blow off is weird. I wasn't ready for the head to get blow off. Yeah. Yeah. Well, y' all make very, very happy positive music. I need y' all to get into your depressed bag. I need you to get into like your. But these niggas, we gonna keep going. Which I think will make a scene as like falling for a guy that is doing fucked up shit at the same time. Right. Like, you like him, but he just ain't right. It's kinda like he not following up. Yeah, he not following. Yeah, he's saying he like, miss you. Like, but you ain't calling, you ain't doing nothing. No, don't tell me you miss me. And I don't feel it. Uh huh. I need to feel a miss. She want him outside with the boom box. Exactly. I said I needed a hug last night. And I text my three diggers and I said I needed a hug last night. And they all said, oh, I wish I was there to give you a hug. And I felt like they really wish they gave me a hug, but it's long distance, so I need to feel. I need to feel the words. I don't just like words being said. Have y' all written about someone and they got mad, like. And got mad that, like, the song got mad? No, no, not got mad, but I wrote about it. Yeah. Yeah. I feel like we have a lot of songs that voice are unreleased. I feel that are very much like, you know, please drop. That's in love. Still need it. Yeah, I want to ride. Yeah, I look like. Like the only one we probably had growing up was, boy, it's over because it's like the end of a relationship and saying, like, how you over him? Like, you ain't all that. That like you thought you was, but you ain't. So, I mean, that was the most of it. But like, she said a lot of the unreleased stuff is more. So when is it going to be released? Yeah, so we're working on our project right now. I don't think it's going to drop, like, this year. It'll probably be early next year because, like, we're perfectionists. And then auntie's a super perfectionist. And it's our first project. Yeah, it's like she's very big on the sound and how it comes together sonically. But I'm thinking, and I feel like we're all thinking kind of the top of next year, another single to end the year out, you know, lead into, like, our project, another single in video. So how can people support you if that's a great note to end on? Honestly, tell us how people can support you today. Like, what's the best way to, like, get them dollars? Yes. Stream it. Yes. We got our everywhere. Purchase it. Purchase it on Apple Music, Spotify, Google Play, every music platform there is. And our page is the real OMG Girls on basically everything. Twitter. Tick tock. Yes. What is he? Yeah. And then on Instagram is the OMG Girls or just OMG Girls. What is he? Yeah. And who's open for dm? Sliding open for dm. Get in there. Let's see what. Yeah, they said slide and then slide in. Slide. So they said she wants you to have a 9 to 5 with a 401k. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, ladies, so much, Period. And y' all already know we have our book no Hoes Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power, available wherever you get books, leave a review. If you've read it already, that would be great. And we talked a little bit of sex. But y' all know we bring the raunch, the filth, the nasty over on Patreon. So Horrible Decisions is still here. Go to patreon.com back horrible decisions. Make sure y' all follow. Support all these ladies. And we gonna get fuck, nigga free music next year, period. Period. Cause they gonna release the unreleased. Hey, there we go. And then make sure right now you stream T. Yes, hello. I'm on radio now, so I kind of know how to do this thing. 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Date Released: December 22, 2025
Hosts: Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Guests: OMG Girlz (Zonnique, Bahja “Beauty” Rodriguez, Breanna “Babydoll” Waller)
Podcast Theme: Unlearning patriarchal relationship norms, candid conversation on dating, sex, love, and authenticity
This episode of “Decisions, Decisions” features the iconic R&B trio OMG Girlz. Hosts Mandii B and WeezyWTF dive into navigating adulthood after growing up in the spotlight, relationships, motherhood, dating norms, and the long-running cultural fascination with “bad boys.” Laced with humor and honest storytelling, the episode explores what women really want in men and relationships, plus the realities of fame, fan perceptions, and the pressure of authenticity.
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“It’s a great time. I love my mind, and how I do stuff and do what I want… It’s been amazing. I tell everybody to look forward to it.” — Zonnique [07:55]
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“I be wanting to go outside, and I don’t always have somebody to watch my baby...but I make it happen.” — Zonnique [13:22]
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“When I tell you he’s getting in this SUV and I’m like, ‘I wish I knew you wanted me…’” — Weezy [28:20]
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“Mutuals are still the safest… almost 80% of people met their partners through mutual friends.” — Mandii [45:00]
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“You just got to like more than three pictures – that means you want to fuck!” — Guest [51:30]
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“Most niggas are criminals because women love criminals…” — (selective ignorance clip, paraphrased by Mandii) [1:04:00]
“Safety is always the top of a woman’s list… but that doesn’t mean we want a criminal. A real bad guy isn’t what we mean.” — Weezy [1:08:00]
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On turning 30:
“I love how I do stuff and do what I want... 30 is definitely a time to look forward to.”
— Zonnique [07:55]
On motherhood vs. freedom:
“My freedom is a big part of me not having a kid… but it's like, unconditional love from a little human.”
— Bahja [15:40]
On online dating:
“You just got to like more than three pictures — that means you want to fuck!”
— Guest [51:30]
On “bad boys”:
“Women want to feel protected, and street guys make you feel protected.”
— Selective Ignorance audio clip [1:04:00]
“It’s not a hood thing, it’s a masculinity thing. Everybody wants to feel safe.”
— Weezy [1:08:40]
On acts of love:
“Take my trash out when you leave my house… He took the trash out before going to the airport, and I was like, oh, this is nice.”
— Mandii [57:40]
On dating industry men:
“Regular men listening, shoot your shot. She said she want a 9–5 baby and a 401k!”
— Mandii [55:00]
On old music:
“I just sound like such a kid… my voice has grown so much.”
— Bahja [1:40:30]
On having sex to your own music:
“No! All of you, look — you see my face?”
— All [1:48:15]
Candid, humorous, and empowering. The hosts and guests keep it real, mix jokes with vulnerability, and challenge dated assumptions about relationships, growing up, and womanhood in the public eye.
This episode is a joyful, real, and sometimes raw exploration of what it means to grow up, date, love, and seek happiness in a world that always wants to put women in a box. Whether you’re a fan of OMG Girlz or just love honest, funny takes on modern relationships, this is a must-listen.