Decisions, Decisions — EP 453: Our Favorite Moments of 2025!

Podcast: Decisions, Decisions
Hosts: Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Date: December 29, 2025
Network: The Black Effect & iHeartPodcasts

Episode Overview

This annual wrap-up episode sees Mandii B and WeezyWTF reflecting on their first full year under the new "Decisions, Decisions" banner. The dynamic duo reminisce about their favorite podcast moments (and personal milestones) from 2025, revisiting highlights across taboo-breaking, honest episodes about non-traditional relationships, sexuality, and personal growth. The episode features a playful, heartfelt "MySpace Top 8" style countdown, peppered with behind-the-scenes anecdotes, confessions, laughter, and plenty of unfiltered friendship.

Main Discussion Segments

1. Introduction & Yearly Reflection (02:20–06:45)

• Mandii and Weezy joke about their shared millennial nostalgia, rebranding, and how younger listeners may not get their MySpace references.
• The hosts explain the episode format: they’ll each share their top three episodes (six total), plus nominate one exclusive favorite from their “Horrible Decisions” Patreon.
• Before diving in, they discuss their 2025 personal and professional milestones.

Notable Quotes:

• "You just wanna connect with the millennials!" — Mandii B. (03:35)

Timestamps:

• Reflections start: 02:20
• 2025 milestones: 04:59

2. Key Personal Achievements & 2026 Goals (06:45–11:45)

• Career: Mandii celebrates their book hitting the NYT Bestseller list and live taping at ESSENCE Live with Kandi.
• Connection: Both discuss meeting fans, the unique energy at signings/appearances, and their evolving relationship as co-hosts.
• Personal goals for 2026:
  • Weezy aims to prioritize family, heal her relationship with her mother, address her health and spending habits.
  • Mandii wants to get a TV project "green-lit or sold," commit to a gym/volunteering routine, and deepen her friendship with Weezy.

Notable Moments:

• Mandii: "I just really like how we've been able to communicate these last couple weeks..." (11:27)

Timestamps:

• Reflections end/goals discussed: 06:45–11:45

3. Gift-Giving Banter & Relationship Real Talk (11:45–18:30)

• Mandii and Weezy go deep into holiday/birthday gifting, expectations, luxury vs. practical, and "acts of service" in relationships.
• Humorous debate: Are clothes a meaningful partner gift? Is a $200 pillow too much? What are “hubby/wifey gifts”?
• Both joke about feeling "out of touch" with prices and changing aspirations—compared to their earlier podcasting years.

Quotes:

• "Clothes are not hubby-wife. Clothes and fragrance? That means you don't really like them." — Mandii B. (17:01)

Timestamps:

• 11:45–18:30

Hosts’ “MySpace Top 8” Episode Picks & Memorable Clips

Each host presents their favorites, referencing their moments and what made these conversations resonate. Select clips from the episodes are included, with the hosts providing context.

Mandii’s First Pick:

Ep. 417 — Limits on Quality Time & Boundaries (22:07–32:00)

Mandii opens about her relationship with "actor bae," navigating non-monogamy, boundaries around quality time, and the importance of honesty with partners about sexual history and desires.

• Clip highlights: Discussing time apart, boundaries on sex with others, and the challenge of disclosure with friends/partners present.

Quote:

• "I've fucked quite a bit of my friends..." — Mandii B. (26:26)

Weezy’s First Pick:

Ep. 436 — Babies and Breakups: SK & MyLyn’s Lesbian Parenting Journey (32:09–38:48)

Features a lesbian couple who each carried a child, reflecting on family planning, sperm donation, and redefining gendered expectations around parenthood.

• Clip highlights: The financial realities of sperm donation/IVF, known donor vs. anonymous, queer solidarity, stigma, and how they talk about family origins with their kids.

Quote:

• "Money. That's the easiest place to start." — Jerry Johnson, guest (33:15)

Mandii’s Second Pick:

Ep. 420 — Finding Love Again with Tank (40:16–47:36)

Celebrity guest Tank joins for unfiltered conversation about R&B’s role in romance, bedroom creativity (or lack thereof), and honest talk on what really turns him on.

• Clip highlights: The most effective "baby-making" songs, ice vs. food in the bedroom, and the power of simplicity in intimacy.

Quotes:

• "You can't steal these pussy-sweater now." — Tank (45:03)
• "I'm so still aroused and amused by the simple things." — Tank (45:37)

Joint Pick:

Ep. 434 — Sh*t Stories & Marriage Tips with Kev On Stage (51:00–59:46)

Comedy ensues as Kev On Stage retells his notorious “pooped on the bus” story, blending bathroom humor, marriage advice, and lessons about knowing your limits (and listening to your partner).

• Clip highlights: The infamous bus incident, lactose tolerance in the Black community, and why some stories never get old.

Quote:

• "You know your sphincter. It wasn't sphincting." — Kev On Stage (56:37)

Mandii’s Final Pick:

Ep. 425 — The Polyamory Contract Ft. Jerry Johnson (61:30–68:11)

Actress Jerry Johnson discusses her polyamorous orientation, crafting an “Ethical Non-Monogamy Framework” (and even shares her Google Doc!), breaking open ideas about non-traditional commitment, and the politics of love and freedom.

• Clip highlights: Using a polyamory contract, bringing partners into honest dialogue, and the philosophy behind ethical non-monogamy.

Quotes:

• "I am polyamorous by orientation... it's also connected to my need to decolonize my body, thoughts, and ways of being..." — Jerry Johnson (66:04)
• "People wanna be with me." — Jerry Johnson (68:11)

Weezy’s Final Pick:

Ep. 423 — Matchmaker Maria: Personality Types & Relationship Compatibility (71:04–77:33)

Matchmaker Maria gives old-school advice (“have him fix something!”) and breaks down relationship dynamics by personality/temperament types (builder, explorer, etc.), exploring how understanding yourself leads to healthier love choices.

Quote:

• "You are Queen Elizabeth II and you are Princess Diana!" — Maria (76:35)

Patreon Bonus Picks

Mandii:

Ep. 283 — Hedo Tales: Deep Throat Class at Hedonism (80:42–87:19)

• Vivid recap of Mandy attending a real-life oral sex class at Hedonism, with wild tips about the anatomy of deep throat and its psychosomatic play.
• Discussion of overcoming the gag reflex, anatomy links between throat and genitals, and sex-positive sisterhood.

Quote:

• “Just so you know, your throat is connected to your pussy.” — Kasha (84:40)

Weezy:

Ep. 278 — Ace of Spades: Anime Noises and Pricing Your Kinks (w/ Dom Jax) (91:16–100:47)

Dom Jax shares her path from trauma, trafficking, and nonconsensual sex work to empowered, consensual BDSM and financial domination.

• Storytelling highlights: Navigating the complexities of sex work, agency vs. exploitation, the psychology behind BDSM, and wild anecdotes from the world of pro-domming.

Quote:

• “I don’t do any kind of penetrative sex. That right there once I realized that was something I could do in BDSM, that was it. I’m just like, bend over. I don’t believe in alpha males. I break them.” — Dom Jax (99:47)

Notable Themes & Takeaways

• Openness in Modern Relationships: Mandii and Weezy continue to challenge traditional relationship norms, emphasizing honest communication, individualized boundaries, and self-knowledge.
• Sex-Positive Education: Whether through candid stories, wild workshops, or bringing on professionals, the podcast keeps pushing for shame-free sex education.
• Community & Representation: Centering queer couples, sex workers, non-monogamous folks, and Black love, the show celebrates diversity and invites unfiltered, vulnerable dialogue.
• Personal Growth: Both hosts reflect on evolving priorities—mental health, family, professional fulfillment, and sustaining their own friendship.

Memorable Moments

• The Gag Reflex/Throat-to-Pussy Demo at Hedonism: “She says your throat is connected to your pussy…at this point I’m not believing her…” (85:00)
• Kev On Stage’s “Sphincter Wasn’t Sphincting” Story: "I was doing butt kegels...the doodoo was coming out..." (56:41)
• Dom Jax’s Empowering Journey: “There’s a massive difference between sex slave and consensual sex worker. I have been trafficked and pimped. But I’ve also been an independent sex worker.” (92:58)
• Act of Service Gifting Realness: “Always have something for a nigga to put together when he come over.” — Mandy B. (73:15)
• Polyamory as Decolonization: “Ethical non-monogamy...is directly dismantling the patriarchy...” — Jerry Johnson (66:04)

Closing Thoughts

This episode is a joyful celebration of growth, laughter, and authenticity. From sexual experimentation to family connections, from polyamory contracts to poop stories, Mandii B and WeezyWTF underscore their mission: breaking down taboos, unlearning old narratives, and building a more liberated, connected community—one candid conversation at a time.

To hear more, check out the full episodes mentioned and join their Patreon for deeper dives!

Key Segment Timestamps Recap:

• 02:20: Introduction & Format
• 04:59: 2025 Reflections/Milestones
• 06:46: 2026 Goals & Relationship Growth
• 11:45: Gifting in Relationships
• 22:07: Favorite Episodes Discussion Begins
• 80:42: Patreon Favorites
• 91:16: Sex Work & BDSM stories

Hosts to Know:

• Mandii B (@fullcourtpumps)
• WeezyWTF (@weezywtf)