EP 472: My man can’t BOND with other women

Summary

Decisions, Decisions – EP 472: My Man Can’t Bond with Other Women

Podcast: The Black Effect Podcast Network & iHeartPodcasts
Hosts: Mandii B and WeezyWTF
Date: May 11, 2026

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Episode Overview

This week’s “Decisions, Decisions” gets raw (and hilarious) as Mandii B and WeezyWTF navigate boundaries, emotional connections, and rules around sex and love in non-traditional relationships. Anchored by a viral Nikki Glaser soundbite about emotional vs. physical cheating, the hosts share unfiltered stories about threesomes, how they handle their poly/open relationship dynamics, the nuances of emotional boundaries, and why old-school age-gap relationships are being re-examined through a modern (and more critical) lens.

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Table of Contents

1. Opening Banter: Hair, Wigs, and Salons
2. Personal Relationships: Threesomes, Nicknames, and Emotional Boundaries
3. Accidentally Outing People: Social Blunders in Sex-Positive Circles
4. Kinky Court: Emotional vs. Physical Cheating & Nikki Glaser's Hot Take
5. Are Age-Gap Relationships Being Viewed Differently Now?
6. Money, Gifts, and Transactional Dating Realities
7. Hoetry & Black Card Quiz: Ending on a Fun Note

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1. Opening Banter: Hair, Wigs, and Salons (03:05–10:00)

• The episode kicks off with Mandii and Weezy joking about creatine vs. keratin, hair mishaps, and their favorite Black and Dominican salons.
• [05:19] Weezy: “You really do gotta yell at [the salon]. You really do gotta yell at them.”
• [06:25] Mandy B: Discusses the freedom and unexpected sex appeal of rocking a bald head:

  "Baby, let me tell you, this bald head, the way niggas be rubbing this shit. Niggas love a little bald head."

• [08:08] Mandy expresses joy at being unrecognizable with her changing hairstyles:

  "If all I gotta do is put a wig on... now you got a different bitch."

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2. Personal Relationships: Threesomes, Nicknames, and Emotional Boundaries (10:00–14:00)

• Stories about encountering old flings in public, threesomes with both Black and white women, and the awkwardness that comes with everyone running in small, overlapping circles.
• [10:01] Mandii B (on lace wigs):

  "I'm mad because my nigga made me fuck a bitch with a lace wig. And I literally had to be like, uh, do not make me do that again."

• [11:05] Mandii admits she doesn’t always remember names:

  "I don't be knowing all the names of the bitches I fuck. We supposed to know their name?"

• [13:15] Mandii shares one boyfriend’s nickname rotation ("Dior Bag," "boyfriend number two") as a commentary on non-monogamous logistics.

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3. Accidentally Outing People: Social Blunders in Sex-Positive Circles (14:03–25:06)

• Weezy tells a story about recognizing a past hookup in public and awkwardly bringing it up in front of others.
• [16:58] Mandy B warns about outing people:

  "What if she didn't want him to know? ...Not everybody wants everyone to know who they fuck, bro."

• The hosts discuss boundary blurring among friends, partners, and fans who sometimes assume too much.
• [23:04] Mandii B (on fans overstepping):

  "Just because you hear me talk about a man, if you see me with someone out...To come up and assume that there's someone else...now I got it."

• Segment ends with both acknowledging the need for discretion:

  Weezy: "I'm going to do better." (23:58)

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4. Kinky Court: Emotional vs Physical Cheating & Nikki Glaser's Hot Take (28:32–49:09)

• Kinky Court starts with a discussion on the viral Nikki Glaser podcast moment ([42:23]):
  • Nikki Glaser:

    "Emotional cheating would hurt me, but, like, physical, I’m just like...I literally wouldn’t care if my husband did that...If he were to watch ‘The Wire’ or do crossword puzzles or text/send memes with her—I’d be like, what are you doing? That’s our thing." (42:23)

• The hosts agree that emotional cheating is more threatening than sex, but also that boundaries look different for every couple.
• [44:57] Weezy on rules with her partner:

  “My boyfriend's better at boundaries than me...He is not the emotional one in the open relationship…”

• [45:56] On what crosses the line:

  "If I found out he said happy birthday to a Bish. Yeah, that's emotional."

• Discussion on whether repeated sex (more than twice) means a man is emotionally invested:
  • [47:18] Wolf: “If you have sex with a girl more than twice, does that mean you like her at all?...I think that’s fair.”
• Mandii on needing an emotional connection:

  “I need the emotional...To the point where when I meet guys now, I let them know I have two boyfriends.” (48:13)

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5. Are Age-Gap Relationships Being Viewed Differently Now? (33:03–41:17)

• Mandii brings up Brandy’s memoir about dating Wanye of Boyz II Men as a teenager, sparking a nuanced discussion about shifting norms and cultural double standards.
• [33:03] Mandy B:

  "We were just told that we are...We mature quicker. Even our bodies."

• [35:19] (On looking back at age-gap relationships):

  "That was 7 years ago. That nigga's a creep. We have way too much information now."

• Both agree society used to normalize these relationships but that this doesn’t excuse harm.
• [36:47] Weezy:

  "Today thinking about R. Kelly, I go to the first 14-year-old that I know…what the fuck."

• The segment adds context with examples from Latinx and Caribbean cultures, exploring how different societies approach age and consent.

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6. Money, Gifts, and Transactional Dating Realities (53:00–60:00)

• Anecdotes about dating wealthy men, negotiations around gifts, and setting standards in relationships.
• [56:00] Mandii B:

  "When people date people with money and they're ugly, [it's] for the money. But when you are fine, shit...the money becomes a little bit of a bonus."

• Mandii discusses getting $10,000 as an apology from a boyfriend:

  "He sent it immediately. You were like, damn, I should have went [higher]" (59:08)

• [58:13] On women having their own:

  “When you're a woman with your own, the things you can ask for are different.”

• Both also share their boundaries when it comes to listeners/fans asking for money—a recurring theme in Black podcast culture.

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7. Hoetry & Black Card Quiz: Ending on a Fun Note (62:41–68:23)

• The duo close out with “Hoetry” (themed song game) and playful jabs over music knowledge:
  • [64:44] Popular R&B song trivia:
    • Wolf and the hosts joke about “Differences” by Ginuwine and spelling “Fabolous.”
• [67:27] Weezy nails Fred Hampton as the murdered Black Panther, redeeming her “Black card.”
• Mandii shouts out their Patreon for unfiltered, uncut content:

  “Horrible Decisions is still around, just behind a paywall. For as little as $5 a month, you can get Horrible Decisions.” (68:14)

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Memorable Quotes

• “If I found out he said happy birthday to a Bish...Yeah, that's emotional. It's like, that’s not even respectful. Bitch, why do you even know her birthday?”
  – Mandii B ([45:56])

• "Emotional cheating would hurt me, but, like, physical, I literally wouldn’t care if my husband did that."
  – Nikki Glaser clip ([42:23])

• “Get your ass in the house. It’s nasty.”
  – Mandy B (On 20-somethings pursuing teens, [40:36])

• “When you’re a woman with your own, the things that you can ask for are different.”
  – Mandy B ([58:38])

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Episode Highlights/Timestamps

• 03:05 – 10:00: Hair stories, salon mishaps, “bald-headed hoe” confidence
• 10:00 – 14:00: Threesome confessions, sex with white women
• 14:00 – 23:58: Social awkwardness and “outing” people in poly circles
• 28:32 – 49:09: Kinky Court: Emotional cheating vs. physical; Nikki Glaser’s viral take
• 33:03 – 41:17: Cultural reexamination of age-gap relationships, Brandy/Wanye
• 53:00 – 60:00: Wealth, transactional dating, what constitutes a “deserving” side chick/girlfriend
• 62:41 – 68:14: Hoetry, music trivia, Black card banter

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Takeaway

Mandii & Weezy continue to demystify non-traditional relationships, challenge norms, and serve up laughter and hard truths in equal measure. From hair salons and sexual adventures to nuanced discussions on emotional boundaries and evolving standards around adult/teen relationships, EP 472 proves there are few subjects too taboo for “Decisions, Decisions.”

Listen for:

• Genuine insights into ethical non-monogamy
• The distinction (and double standards) between emotional and physical cheating
• Candid, comedic riffs on love, sex, and cultural change

Tip: For more explicit and behind-the-scenes content, check their Patreon.

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Transcript

[Weezy]

Wait till they got pill for some muscles, bitch.

[Mandy B]

They do. It's called steroids.

[Weezy]

No, but I don't want to shoot up anything.

[Mandy B]

Okay?

[Weezy]

That's why I was scared to do what's in pig.

[Mandy B]

Wait, don't they.

[Weezy]

I'm very scared of nails.

[Mandy B]

They have steroid in pill form.

[Weezy]

But I don't want to grow hair on my tits.

[Mandy B]

The baby damn near touched the forehead.

[Weezy]

Was it sliding back?

[Mandy B]

No, it was like nails. The lace. It was. It was on.

[Wolf]

It was on.

[Mandy B]

It was on. Like the fact that I also had a threesome wig. I preferred that than this lace wig. Do not make me a lace wig.

[Weezy]

I think if I found out he said like happy birthday to a. That.

[Mandy B]

Yeah. That's emotional.

[Weezy]

It's like.

[Mandy B]

That's not even respectful. Bitch. Why do you even know her birthday?

[Weezy]

No, I remembered it. He'd be talking. We'll talk about past and joke about. And he'd be like, yo, so I was this one Scorpio, right? Like he remembers people by their signs and really connects it to that. To the point where it's like annoying. He won't remember the name of someone he slept with.

[Mandy B]

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[Weezy]

But it'll be like she's a Capricorn.

[Mandy B]

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[Mandy B]

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[Weezy]

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[Mandy B]

Decisions, decisions. Hey, guys. Welcome to another episode of Decisions, Decisions. It's your girl, Mandy B, AKA Peg Thee Stallion, AKA Peggy Markle, AKA that bitch.

[Weezy]

It's your girl, Weezy.

[Mandy B]

Uh, not.

[Weezy]

Not that I wanted to show the games.

[Mandy B]

Oh my God. Here we go. The games. Oh, bitch, the games. Oh.

[Weezy]

Can you see it? See what I'm talking about?

[Mandy B]

You see them traps? Oo.

[Weezy]

Oh, I'm about to be one of them hoes like you about to be

[Mandy B]

one of them hoes. One of them hoes you. Horrible decisions.

[Weezy]

Okay, what I was going to say was, y' all saw me in a Chinese pill. Wait till they got a pill for some muscle.

[Mandy B]

They do. It's called steroids.

[Weezy]

No, but I don't want to shoot off anything. That's why I was scared to go to pig.

[Mandy B]

Wait, don't they have steroid?

[Weezy]

I'm scared of needles.

[Mandy B]

They have steroid in pill form.

[Weezy]

But I don't want to grow hair on my tits.

[Mandy B]

Wait, steroids will make you.

[Weezy]

So I started taking care team to get like, stronger. And then what started happening in real time was like my breast started stinking.

[Mandy B]

What were you thinking?

[Weezy]

Creatine. It's to like, help you, like, retain your muscles in your hair.

[Mandy B]

Right?

[Weezy]

Keratin.

[Mandy B]

But what's the difference? Wait, creatine is creatine.

[Weezy]

It's a powder. But I just know all my.

[Mandy B]

You swear it's not the same. It's two different things.

[Weezy]

Yeah, they spell different too. Keratin is a serum or it's like a thing you can put in your hair. Creatine.

[Mandy B]

You drink it?

[Weezy]

Yes. How do you drink it? Oh, bro, my shits was smelling crazy. I was like, I don't wanna.

[Mandy B]

But you do keratin too, right?

[Weezy]

No, because I want to keep my curls.

[Mandy B]

Hey, you got your. This is not curls.

[Weezy]

Because I want. Yeah, but I could just blow it out and it's.

[Mandy B]

Oh, this is just blow dry keratin.

[Weezy]

I don't think you get the curls back.

[Mandy B]

I think you can get your curls back with keratin. Right? Keratin don't like, ruin your whole curls.

[Weezy]

Oh, all the natural black salons be like, hell, nah. And you know what else? I'm not gonna hold you. Shout out to Dolores Beauty Salon. It's on the East Village in the fourth street.

[Mandy B]

Now, Cuatro, damn, you don't even go uptown. You found Dominicans in La Loa.

[Weezy]

Oh, everybody goes to them, by the way. But the girls was mad at me when I posted it. They were like, you blowing up my spot. So I went to the black salon. Shout out to H2. I be going to H2 salon in Best Eye. All the hives sent me that for the natural hair color. And when I was in the salon, one of the girls in there was like, girl, you can't be going to them Dominicans no more. You know they gonna fry your hair up. You gotta yell at them. You really do gotta yell at them. So now I got a great relationship with my people at the salon where I be like, no, stop. You gotta. Really?

[Mandy B]

Oh, yeah, it's like an African braider.

[Weezy]

You know what I'm saying? You be doing this, bitch, you finna get on my edge. Uh, but you know, if I want a good price, you know what I'm saying? And you want to go to a place that show you love and it's right down the street. That's why I really have learned my boundaries with hairstylists. And I don't know if you've had to go through that with like cut and color.

[Mandy B]

Oh, I, I, once I find someone I like, I just stick with them. I don't go to different people. That's why even moving to Atlanta, I'll coordinate sometimes our recording schedule with also getting my hair done. But now I'm a bald headed hoe. And this is, this is, this is what it's going to get.

[Weezy]

How good does it feel and do you feel? Because I know in the beginning you felt you were like, I ain't ready.

[Mandy B]

You know what? Growing up, men were always like, they like women with hair. I remember even when I first wanted to cut my hair, there were like men saying like that you would lose beauty. Like the way that women are attached to their hair. Baby, let me tell you, this bald head, the way niggas be rubbing this shit. Niggas love a little bald head.

[Weezy]

They be rubbing it, babe. Oh, why you sucking dick and out of it?

[Mandy B]

Oh, my God, no. Well, no, I haven't sucked dick with this haircut yet.

[Weezy]

What?

[Mandy B]

Not just yet.

[Weezy]

You've had it for a while.

[Mandy B]

Oh, wait a second. I did, I did. I had a threesome with it already. I'm lying. I definitely suck that dick.

[Weezy]

Oh, maybe you don't get while it was blonde.

[Mandy B]

But it wasn't blind. It wasn't blonde. It was.

[Weezy]

Now, you know how we used to say a wax to reset the bodies? What if every time you change your hair, you're a virgin again?

[Mandy B]

Oh, I'm not gonna lie. I walked. I wanted to. Can I say that? When is this coming in? Ooh, maybe. Maybe it'll be out. It'll be out. It'll be out. But it'll be hoeing, y'. All. No, no, no, no. So I went to K Camp listening session for his album. But I went in with my glasses. Cause I've been wearing my glasses now looking like a little amber rose or whatever. So, literally, the listening session is over. He's talking and, bitch, I take off my glasses and this nigga's like, what the fuck, man? Like, literally did not recognize me. Same with Bow Wow. Went after party, and literally he was like, oh, my God. Did not recognize. Sorry. This is not.

[Weezy]

Sorry. I'm in Atlanta now. What do you want?

[Mandy B]

What do you want me to say? But literally, I've known both of them for years. Like, Bow Wow, I've known since I was in high school.

[Weezy]

So literally, is he actually the memes that we're seeing right now?

[Mandy B]

No, no, no, no, no, no, he's not, bro. That's AI. Oh, it's AI. And then I felt bad because I did just put it in one of my carousels because it said, this is how I'm feeling on my period. And I used the Bow Wow.

[Weezy]

That's hilarious photo.

[Mandy B]

But no, Bow Wow is not big like that. That's an AI photo. That's an AI photo. But literally, I didn't think I looked that different.

[Weezy]

That's funny.

[Mandy B]

And apparently I do. But I love it because it's given. If all I gotta do is put a wig on. And now you got a different bitch. And all I gotta do is do a little 27 piece. You got a different bitch. You know what I mean? So I kinda like it. I like that I could just look like different bitches.

[Weezy]

You already were looking like different bitches.

[Mandy B]

But now I'm really looking like different bitches. Like, bitch, I done had the little pixie cut with the finger waves or the slick back for five years.

[Weezy]

I've got to figure out my favorite hairstyle. Oh, shit, the clips. Forgot about it. My favorite hairstyle on you. Definitely short.

[Mandy B]

Oh, no. Short forever.

[Weezy]

Hold on.

[Mandy B]

It's only been like. No, no, no, wait. Two or three.

[Weezy]

When you're two finger wavy, it got. If it's deep, it gives Missy. I like it when it's right in the middle.

[Mandy B]

Not to give Missy when you done

[Weezy]

slept on it for a day or two.

[Mandy B]

That's n. I've been working on my jawline, and I give Missy Miss K, bitch. I give Missy Elliott what you mean

[Wolf]

by the hair, but Missy Elliott specifically about it.

[Mandy B]

Missy Elliott has hair now, which means she's talking about Missy elliott from the 90s. Okay, if you. If I had look at her face. That was not a compliment.

[Weezy]

What?

[Mandy B]

I didn't mean big. I mean air. What do you mean?

[Wolf]

The hair?

[Mandy B]

Ms. If I call you Amber, I don't mean Republican racist country. Missy was big with the finger waves, so to say. I gave Missy Elliot Missy got long bundles now. Okay, well, so you saying I was given a big, big garbage bag balloon. Missy, bro.

[Weezy]

Anyway, I like when you wear a little bust down, too. That's fun.

[Mandy B]

That's crazy. I ain't done a bust down in a minute.

[Weezy]

I think you had it in. I ain't gonna hold you podcast promos.

[Mandy B]

You know why? You know why I don't do it. Doesn't matter what y' all think. I don't care how much you think it's melting or what you use, bitch. I see the lace. The lace is there.

[Weezy]

Not the first two years all the time, bro.

[Mandy B]

It's there after you leave the salon when the sun hits your scalp, bitch, I see the lace. It doesn't matter how much makeup you blend, how long you keep the band on it. I see the fucking lace. And I'm mad because my nigga made me fuck a bitch with a lace wig. And I literally had to be like, uh, do not make me do that again.

[Weezy]

Not even.

[Mandy B]

I almost, like, didn't make it, but I let him choose the guy.

[Weezy]

But was it good? Like, was it a good lace?

[Mandy B]

No. The baby hair damn near touched the forehead.

[Weezy]

Was it sliding?

[Mandy B]

And I was like, no, the la. It was. It was on.

[Wolf]

It was on.

[Mandy B]

It was on. Like, the fact that I also had a threesome with him with a white girl.

[Wolf]

Mm.

[Mandy B]

I preferred that than this lace wig. Do not make me fuck a lace wig.

[Weezy]

You ate some white pussy.

[Mandy B]

I did. I did.

[Weezy]

You had raw chicken.

[Mandy B]

I ate the raw chicken and did. I couldn't believe it. Do you know? I told him that, too. Said, you made me fuck my first white woman.

[Weezy]

What was her name? Was it a white name like Emma?

[Mandy B]

Do you know. You know what's crazy? What? I don't be knowing all the names of the bitches I fuck. We supposed to know their name?

[Weezy]

Did she sound like one or she was like, wigger white Kirsten.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no, no, no. She was like, Midwest white. Good.

[Weezy]

That's what you want.

[Mandy B]

Wait, wait. No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

[Weezy]

Really? You want racist dad? I'm rebelling against him white.

[Mandy B]

Well, no, she's not. She wasn't a wigger. She was very white.

[Weezy]

But she was like. Was she like, ooh, I love this song. You have future too. Did she do that?

[Mandy B]

We didn't do much talking. I just told her she was coming back with us. I don't know why. You the one that be dating the bitches. I just be like, you coming to suck this dick with me or.

[Weezy]

No, you're dating. I should text that girl back.

[Wolf]

Does the white pussy hit different?

[Mandy B]

Okay, so I ain't gonna hold you. Not that it hit different, but I was shocked.

[Wolf]

You were shocked?

[Mandy B]

I was shocked. It tasted good. I was shocked. I was shocked what it tasted and.

[Weezy]

And put in the shower.

[Mandy B]

Fresh. Did we take a shower? I think. You know what? I don't even think. I don't even think. Cause I think as soon as we got in the room, we, like, started both sucking his dick, and then. I don't even think we took a shower. Now, the lace wig girl. Yes. We all hopped in the shower together.

[Weezy]

What'd she do to her hair?

[Mandy B]

I think she just didn't get it wet. Yeah, she was dodged. Cause, bitch, you know me.

[Weezy]

I'm bald.

[Mandy B]

So I tried to start sucking dick in the shower. She just gave the hint. I don't think she was. I don't think she was willing.

[Wolf]

Yeah, she gotta stay focused.

[Mandy B]

She wasn't willing to get the top of her head.

[Weezy]

Y' all could only see me and my nigga in a shower right now. Cause, like, when I'm wearing braids, my hair.

[Mandy B]

By the way, this is not gonna be the clip. Because I told him I don't clip up, bitch. He just sent me a clip that he saw of us on TikTok. And I said, when you see my clips, you need to keep going.

[Weezy]

What tik is it?

[Mandy B]

Keep scrolling. I'll show you. I'll show you the. The TikTok. And he said, no, I watch all the. All the tiktoks to see if you're talking about me. And I said, oh, I don't talk about you very often, but I.

[Weezy]

But which one was it?

[Mandy B]

Who?

[Weezy]

The one that he sent you.

[Mandy B]

It's I don't know. Let me see. Mind you, we was talking all day yesterday. I said, don't you dare. And so he's like, do you talk about me, girl? I told him his nicknames and everything on the pod. He said, I want to hear what you say.

[Weezy]

I said, what's his nickname? Dior Bag. Mm.

[Mandy B]

He literally. He literally said that. He was like, wait, Dior is my name? I said, yeah, but I switched it, like, two or three times. I said, first it was the city we fucked in, then it was that. And I said, you're also boyfriend number two, not two. He know. He, too. And I told him it's because everybody know that you ain't going nowhere. Hold on. He sent me this one. Sex parties, Friends, chaperone or freaky fun.

[Weezy]

I don't even know what the fuck is that.

[Mandy B]

I don't even know. But he sent it to me, and I was like, what the hell? Yeah.

[Weezy]

Now he. You. You in his actual bit.

[Mandy B]

No, in it. And then he laughs because the fucking. I went on the. The. The Paw Pierce clip of me explaining my fingers. He said three of his bitches sent him that. Like, lol. They don't know, bro. I don't like that.

[Weezy]

Now I got to tell y' all about how small the world is.

[Mandy B]

No, it's very small.

[Weezy]

Okay. Do you remember the couple from that story? Everybody remembers it. Okay?

[Mandy B]

No, bitch, you. A lot of couples.

[Weezy]

I do know. It was the one that we talked about, like, a year or two ago. Whatever.

[Mandy B]

There was a. The one, okay?

[Weezy]

The one not I fuck a lot of couples.

[Mandy B]

The one not we.

[Weezy]

We friends.

[Mandy B]

I mean, bitch, I fuck a lot of couples.

[Weezy]

Okay? So here's. I actually never. I only got a guest star one in my life. Once in my life, I thought I

[Mandy B]

was about to be a unicorn. No, I've never. Then this bitch got jealous because the nigga wanted a girlfriend.

[Weezy]

Okay? So this is what happened. We go out a few weeks ago, and we're fucked up. It's me, my nigga Andre and some other friends, and we go to see South African shit. Y' all know I love. I'm a piano. It's Shimsa. So we're there 2:30 in the morning. I'm peeking drunk. I'm like, on my third drunk cigarette and telling a bitch, oh, my God, I love your outfit. So there was a bitch who I'm like, oh, my God, I love your outfit. But why does she look so familiar? Because I went down on her.

[Mandy B]

Okay, we didn't know No, I got.

[Weezy]

I knew the second I like, it hit me.

[Mandy B]

It hit you how long?

[Weezy]

We ran into.

[Mandy B]

Wait, wait, wait. How long did it take you Immediately. So you knew immediately that you ate her pussy?

[Weezy]

I was about to tap her. Cause she was pretty.

[Mandy B]

And you were like, wait, I ate your pussy?

[Weezy]

So, bitch club toes.

[Mandy B]

So I'm firing everybody when I say, don't make this a fucking clip, y'. All. I need y' all to not make shit a fucking clip.

[Weezy]

Make moist, clear shoe.

[Mandy B]

Don't do that. We're not doing that.

[Weezy]

So we're at Shimsa, run into the couple, and both of them still look just as good. She's out with another girl she's fucking with. They both started talking about, blah, blah, blah, blah. We're having a good time with them, right? They are with a man that I've never met but knows me. Why does he know me? Oh, Wolf, this will be fun for you. The podcast that won at the WTF Media Dumbo event had a missing host. They had a great show, but one of the hosts couldn't make it on his flight. Oh, yeah, that nigga was with them. Now he's like, oh, my boy knows you. He records at your studio. This is the dude from the couple telling me. I'm like, oh, my God. Blah, blah. He's a lawyer. He starts telling me how he'd be great at, like, seeding investments. Blah, blah, blah. Like, I get his number. This is who you had a call with recently? I'm sitting down with him at Ludlow House, and he goes. I was like, so let's just get it out of the way. How do you know? Blah, blah, blah. He's like, oh, in the same building. Whatever. I was like, you know how I know them?

[Mandy B]

You didn't. You not supposed to do that.

[Weezy]

I wanted to get it out of the way.

[Mandy B]

You not supposed to do that.

[Weezy]

But I really wanted to get it out, Mandy. I really needed to get it out of the way.

[Mandy B]

What if she didn't want him to know?

[Weezy]

Well, he says to me, and I quote, yeah, y' all met them in Tulum. So I go, okay. I sat back and I was like, oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Because now I'm thinking about it, what if I was with my n. Well, I was with my nigga. But what if we met the couple and we was one of his friends? And I was like, fuck.

[Mandy B]

You wouldn't want that to be known, bro.

[Weezy]

For a fact, they all know now the way I said it, Mandy. So you know how.

[Mandy B]

But why would you do that?

[Weezy]

Because I just wanted to get it out of the way because I knew I'd be working with this guy.

[Mandy B]

But the guy that you're working with doesn't need to know that you fucked somebody that he knows.

[Weezy]

The way me and the girl was up on each other and the way she was on another bitch and the way we was all going on, he

[Mandy B]

did need to know.

[Weezy]

Anyway, so this is all I was gonna say.

[Mandy B]

Didn't we have a conversation like this before, Wolf? Where.

[Weezy]

What was it Where?

[Mandy B]

I think I had a whole mail, and the girl was mad that she didn't know her friend and brother were fucking. And I literally said they didn't need to tell her. This is you just loving it. Not everybody wants everyone to know who they fuck, bro.

[Wolf]

Consistent this time.

[Mandy B]

Y' all can see how consistent I

[Weezy]

am, so wait, you shouldn't have.

[Mandy B]

Maybe they don't want him to know that they fucked you, bro.

[Weezy]

I know that now.

[Mandy B]

But we talked about this.

[Wolf]

But why did you say it?

[Mandy B]

Why would you argue it?

[Weezy]

I felt like we're. We're all drunk and we were all around each other for like two hours. Like, I know when I walked away and the way I was touching on

[Mandy B]

the wife, something was off. I'll be mad at him.

[Weezy]

And then also I was kind of flirting with nothing.

[Mandy B]

Something was off.

[Weezy]

I just didn't want him to think I was crazy.

[Mandy B]

If I go into a room and I'm about to start doing business with somebody, a nigga do business with somebody that is friends with somebody. I fucked up. And now they go to him and be like, yeah, just so you know, I f you done. You didn't share nothing. They didn't need to be shared.

[Weezy]

Okay, well, this isn't a. And I just want to say easy.

[Mandy B]

Want to let everybody know who she f. No. Took it down in Tulum.

[Weezy]

I wasn't never saw them niggas outside of Brooklyn.

[Mandy B]

Oh, so they lied.

[Weezy]

That's why I was. Oh, oh, wait, you don't.

[Mandy B]

I thought you. I. I thought it was the couple you fucked in Tulum. What couple? I fucked in Tulum. The two ghosts are lesbians.

[Weezy]

Oh, that was in Sayulita.

[Mandy B]

But anyway, whatever it was in Mexico.

[Weezy]

Okay, so long story short.

[Mandy B]

Anyway, look, I really am confusing the. I told you it was more than one couple. Just cause they was lesbians, it would make them not a couple.

[Weezy]

I ain't tell a lot on this pod. That's why I'm trying to figure out

[Mandy B]

where you Going, bitch, you shared this on the pod?

[Weezy]

That one. Okay, you know what? I feel like I'm trying to keep

[Mandy B]

up with what everybody know.

[Weezy]

Bitch, I started talking about some shit the other day. I was like, I ain't never told the backstory.

[Mandy B]

You know what the problem is?

[Weezy]

Mandy knows. What's pee now.

[Mandy B]

No. And this is the problem. Me and Weezy talk now, so we know things that we're not bringing to the pod. So, bitch, I'm not going to tell

[Weezy]

shit when I tell you I had to cancel a call, Mandy for some juice. Bitch, when I called.

[Mandy B]

But now she's like, all right, bitch, don't share nothing. I told you on the phone. I can't figure out what you brought up on the pod.

[Weezy]

No, but that I told you was crazy, right?

[Mandy B]

That I told you was crazy.

[Weezy]

No, yourself.

[Mandy B]

Mandy's is way worse.

[Weezy]

Listen, I would sell it to tmz. It's that good, yo. At one point.

[Mandy B]

No, see, but this is what you do.

[Weezy]

You keep talking.

[Mandy B]

You get too many clues. Now I'm about to run into it

[Weezy]

n be like, oh, Mandy, shut up. She doesn't shut up about her running a crystal. Oh, you didn't know? Like, just shut up. Anyhoo. Okay, so that was it. That was my only answer.

[Mandy B]

I thought that this was the catch up because it was gonna be a lot sadder. But we'll save my sad. Oh, no, I'm not gonna bring it up. Okay, yeah, we'll do okay. Cause, wow, this is too much fun. Now I can't bring down the mood. You know what I mean?

[Weezy]

What do you mean? We can have serious moments.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, no, I don't want one right now.

[Weezy]

Okay, But I was gonna say, you're never bringing down the mood if we're talking about life and serious shit.

[Mandy B]

I don't wanna cry. This was funny.

[Weezy]

Okay.

[Mandy B]

Shit.

[Weezy]

Okay, okay, okay.

[Mandy B]

I was just rubbing my bald head. We was talking about how you don't listen to the advice I give on the pod. I want everyone to know who you

[Weezy]

f. No, I gotta do better.

[Mandy B]

You do. I love that you know that. The first. What is the first step? Admitting you have a problem.

[Weezy]

Oh, I know. When we were talking about this. Oh, no, that was another situation. See, my friends yelled at me because when. So Andre had a show the next day, and one of his homeboys that was there with us that Friday night over at Simsa, he's like, oh, yeah, I just moved here from LA with my wife. She's really dope. Tells me her ethnicity. That's Important. He's like, my wife is Persian. She's really dope. I wish she was here tonight. Blah, blah, blah. I didn't ask why she wasn't there. I'm just figuring maybe he went out with his homeboy. Next day, Andre has a show. So I see the guy with another Middle Eastern looking girl. Now, we were all together for hours, see? And I walked right up to her and go, I have been waiting to meet you, girl. I've been hearing so much about you.

[Mandy B]

And she. Wait, so he's cheating on his wife?

[Weezy]

No, bitch. Thank God. It was his business partner.

[Wolf]

Oh, thank God.

[Weezy]

But anyway, the second that happened, not all my homeboys turned to me, including my nigga, like, would you shut the fuck up?

[Wolf]

That's an honest mistake. That's an honest mistake.

[Mandy B]

No, it's not.

[Weezy]

No, it is.

[Mandy B]

No, it's not. If you don't know the wife never

[Weezy]

met, you don't know the guy was celebrating his wife. She's so great. She's so this.

[Mandy B]

She's so great. No, it doesn't matter.

[Weezy]

Oh, I wish she was here. We party together all the time. Next day, I see a Middle Eastern woman just like you described. And I said, oh, my God, girl. And she was like, huh?

[Wolf]

I'm with you on that one.

[Mandy B]

No. Do you know why I have a problem with that? Because of the fucking whorehive. I remember early on, bro, being out with men and then walking up, are you 24 7? What the fuck are y' all doing? Like, and it wasn't 24 7. So, like, no, bro, just because you hear me talk about a man, if you see me with someone out. In. In public, to come up and assume that there's someone else, but even verbalize it or make it seem like you know who they are and it's not who. Who you saying now I got it.

[Wolf]

Isn't that a little different? Because what's the. There's no description to 24 7.

[Mandy B]

There was. There was. I mean, he was a. That I was fucking.

[Wolf]

Okay, bruh.

[Mandy B]

They did that to my ex, too. We was at the beach and they started telling shit to him that they knew about. Shut the fuck up. Also, you don't know this person. Yeah, so just don't fucking talk to them.

[Wolf]

Wait till I enter you.

[Mandy B]

Wait till you're in your.

[Weezy]

No, but you know what? The hive has been getting really good because we were out with a bitch while we ran into a whoreheart girl.

[Mandy B]

Well, they know you all day, bitches.

[Weezy]

No. And one of them was like. And I was like, okay, she want

[Mandy B]

to know the tea.

[Weezy]

But she. She's just trying to figure out. I'm like, no, it's this. Now, I've had situations in the past where they acted like that, but don't. Not in the recent years.

[Mandy B]

And I'm saying, though, maybe because we're aging with them also in personal life. Weezy, just don't. Just shut the fuck up.

[Weezy]

I'm gonna do better. I really felt like, oh, I feel so bad when thinking back on that moment now when the girl's confused, she's like, oh, you think I'm Sarah? No, I'm his business partner. And then they joked. She pulled up a picture of them.

[Mandy B]

No.

[Weezy]

We both kind of look alike anyway, huh?

[Mandy B]

Like, like, like, like. Even though you was in his likes, quarter zip, if I happen to be with another dreadhead.

[Weezy]

22.

[Mandy B]

Oh, my God, it doesn't matter. You were in his likes. But if I happened to. To be with another dreadhead, that look a little young and you're like, oh, my God, I've heard so much about you. But it ain't quarter zip. It's gonna. You know what I mean? Cause I done mentioned he be light skinned with dreads and da da, da, da, da.

[Wolf]

That's tough. Yeah. Whole time you gotta type.

[Weezy]

Okay. I'm not gonna lie. I might have done that if it was enough.

[Mandy B]

See what I mean? That's what I'm saying.

[Weezy]

So the one thing that I knew was like, off limits is like, this sounds bad, Tall niggas. I'm like, okay, it could be interchangeable, but that nigga fine.

[Mandy B]

But I be with locks. But I be with fine shit.

[Weezy]

But just a light skinned tall nigga. I feel like you've had a bunch.

[Mandy B]

First off, I had other niggas with locs too. Don't do me.

[Weezy]

Not that I really respect you, but

[Mandy B]

I'd be with fine shit. Okay, okay. But what if I was with another fine shit with locs and you thought it was cortisol?

[Wolf]

It gets messy.

[Mandy B]

You see what I mean? And she's like, actually, I probably would have.

[Weezy]

No, I might have.

[Mandy B]

No, I'm telling you, we. Oh, this surgeon base. Like, oh, bitch, no, bitch, this nigga don't. Don't be in the hospital. What do we do? What are we doing? Yes, it's me again.

[Weezy]

We prepped.

[Mandy B]

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[Weezy]

Kinky Court.

[Mandy B]

So for Kinky Court, this is actually something that I wanted to lean into a little bit more in the Kinky Palmer episode. But we were told not to, so I wanted to bring it back up because the conversation has been brought up in the public with Wanye and Brandy.

[Weezy]

So who's won yet?

[Mandy B]

Oh, my God.

[Weezy]

You're.

[Mandy B]

Oh, my God.

[Wolf]

Wolf, you gotta just.

[Mandy B]

We're keeping this in there.

[Wolf]

You gotta.

[Mandy B]

We're keeping this.

[Wolf]

You gotta keep going.

[Mandy B]

Wanye is A member of Boys to Men.

[Weezy]

Oh, okay. So y', all, you know all the

[Mandy B]

names of boys and Menye was the lead singer. And then you got the tall skinny one. They got the podcast now. What's his name? Sean.

[Wolf]

He just one of them names.

[Mandy B]

You Wanye, bro. Oneye.

[Weezy]

Okay, wait, hold on. Wait, wait, wait, wait.

[Mandy B]

Wanye was the least.

[Weezy]

Now you're making me look bad. Wait, wait. No, no. The person behind the screen. So aren't you 23? My new assistant is 23. Of course. Like, how would you know that? I know now it's embarrassing.

[Mandy B]

You're 23.

[Weezy]

You're not supposed to bitch.

[Mandy B]

She's 35. That's bad.

[Wolf]

She's from the Times, bro.

[Mandy B]

You know what I'm saying? She's from the Times. She grew up on them.

[Weezy]

Yeah, hold on, wait.

[Mandy B]

This is bad. This is really bad.

[Weezy]

We not supposed to have a moment right now.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, no, like what? And see, this is why when I date YNs, you know, there's things that I do relate to them too as well. The same way you just related to a 23 year old. Anyways.

[Weezy]

But you know what I learned about Gen Z really quick for 23 recently? I had no idea how much smarter they were than us. No, like you got to think, but like a little bit better. They got, I don't know, they're at home.

[Mandy B]

Smarter, smarter with technology.

[Weezy]

This bitch read like a book in a day.

[Mandy B]

When the fuck have we ever done that?

[Wolf]

Are we attributing it to Gen Z or just her though?

[Mandy B]

That's what I'm saying. No, that's just crazy.

[Weezy]

I've been meeting a lot of Gen zers that are just super smart. And I don't remember 23 year olds when I was 23 being this smart.

[Mandy B]

Bitch. I've been smart. And you knew me at 23, but you knew numbers. Y' all was smart as hell. We're going to tell you get where you're going. Not in geography, but I am smart everywhere else.

[Weezy]

Sudan is in Africa and I. But I bet you some knew it. But one thing I have been noticing though, I don't know if World War, Even though chat GBT is like up, maybe they're just like better. I don't know if they know to use better. But I am meeting people under 25 that are 100 times smarter than anybody I was around at that particular age. Now maybe I was hanging out with

[Mandy B]

the hood rats sooner. They're getting on the meds that they need because they're being diagnosed sooner We. And they have therapy and, like, unfortunately, they have to have multiple jobs because of the economy. Like, they gotta learn how to lie on their resumes because they need multiple jobs like this. I feel sorry for y'. All. We had a time we used to play and we had. We played by the. By the lights, you know, street lights.

[Weezy]

One of the things she said to me when we had first met was wanting to work in media was just like, in journalism, everybody, like, AI is taking over the jobs I want. That, yes, is really what makes it fucking easy because, like, you really can't be smart as shit, creative as fuck, and it still doesn't matter.

[Mandy B]

But also, you see how this conversation add. Bro, wait, back to one yet One. See what I mean? See what I mean?

[Weezy]

Not Kanye.

[Mandy B]

See, we are not diagnosed as millennials. That's what I'm saying. Not Kanye. Wanye bit.

[Weezy]

So basically, I r. Word.

[Mandy B]

Okay, so basically, I do wanna play. Well, I don't have to play the clip. I'm sure y' all have heard it already. Basically, Brandi has come out with her memoir where she talks about this relationship with wanye. She was 15 when they started their mentorship relationship, but by 16, 17, they were hunchin. They were together. He was 22 years old. So in her memoir, she speaks about the dynamic and her looking through 2026, Len's eyes, or 2025, whenever she wrote the book, how, like, inappropriate was. Now, we talk about a lot of things in terms of comedy. There's blackface versus whiteface. There's what's funny, what's not funny. But the conversation hasn't really gone to the fact that we, as women were kind of pushed or told that we advanced quicker than men. That when we got to high school, when we got to that age of Brady, like, advance in a way. You and I dated grown ass niggas.

[Weezy]

You mean emotionally, physically?

[Mandy B]

We were. We were just told that we are. We mature quicker. Even our bodies. Like, I remember even not being able to wear certain things because my body looked like a grown woman. I remember, like, because my hips literally being told they look like childbearing hips. Bitch, I'm under 18 years old. And so it was interesting because within this dynamic, I'm like. And it's why I don't like the Age of Attraction that's on Netflix right now. But not that we have to accept it, but if we go back to the 90s and early 2000s, we all dated older men, all of us. And so it's interesting because they're now holding him to the fire of that when that's kind of what society. The same way like fucking teenagers were getting married and having whole families way back in the day. Because there wasn't like, I feel like back in the 90s and early 2000s, it was the norm for a 16 year old to be dating a 19, 20 year old. Like literally. I remember in high school and we talked about it like we, we wanted, with cars, we wanted to get around. And then we, and then once you

[Weezy]

start fucking with a nigga with a car, then you need a next level

[Mandy B]

with their own shit.

[Weezy]

Yes. Then it's their own apartment. Then it's like the next.

[Mandy B]

And so it's interesting that the world is demonizing and calling him a pedophile and coming after Wanye when people are,

[Weezy]

oh no, wait, do you think this isn't happening anymore? I know that we know it is.

[Mandy B]

Here's the thing. I do think it's happening more. I think that to criminalize someone with behavior that was normalized, we now know and have more. Like the same way.

[Weezy]

Oh, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

[Mandy B]

We could like, like, like I would

[Weezy]

like to know the oldest guy you've dated at 16 or 17.

[Mandy B]

15.

[Weezy]

16, 17. What was the oldest guy that you were like.

[Mandy B]

2016. But they could have been in high school together. I was like, that's the weird thing too, right? Like that's how I feel about this. You could be a freshman and deal with a senior.

[Weezy]

But how'd you meet him?

[Mandy B]

And then the senior leaves. Well, he does. She doesn't have a mic. She doesn't have a mic.

[Weezy]

I'm just, I'm going to repeat it. Okay. So you're hanging out with family and you meet it. Okay. And I'm thinking the same thing with like freshman, senior and you grow up.

[Mandy B]

I'm not going to lie. It is 2026. That was seven years ago. That nigga's a creep. We have way too much information now. And we have too many conversations about grown men dealing with teenagers. That isn't okay. Like bitch R. Kelly is finally in jail. Back in the 90s we saw him piss on a 14 year old and that nigga didn't get charged with nothing. Today that nigga's behind bars because that shit is gross.

[Weezy]

How old is Kelly at the time of the infarction?

[Wolf]

That's a good question.

[Mandy B]

And I think she was 14.

[Weezy]

No, no, no, no, no, no.

[Mandy B]

I'm curious.

[Weezy]

I wonder if it's. There was a reason we didn't condemn men was he young?

[Mandy B]

No, no, it's. No, he was like in his late 20s. And it's because back then they said that women were fast. That was a fast girl. Martina is so fucking crazy. There was conversations about us being fast without the conversation of the fact that there was a lot of society and what they said about women maturing faster, pushing it to where when we were in high school, it was. We didn't really talk to high school boys.

[Weezy]

You know, I don't know if anyone has done this when as an adult through this lens, however, something I wasn't able to do when I was younger and knew about R. Kelly and all this different shit. Today thinking about R. Kelly, I go to the first 14 year old that I know. I go to the first 13 year old friends kid and I'm like, what the fuck?

[Mandy B]

That's where, that's where. Now as adults, you're not gonna tell me that a 22, 23, mind you and I fuck. Yns them n better not be wanting to fuck on no 14 year old. That's weird as fuck.

[Weezy]

As fuck.

[Mandy B]

It's weird as Fuck.

[Wolf]

If you 14, how high up can you go?

[Mandy B]

17. You can do 17 because you're in high school.

[Wolf]

That's valid.

[Mandy B]

Ninth grade. I mean, to be fair, people are dating.

[Wolf]

Yeah, I was, I was dating young,

[Mandy B]

seriously dating as well. Like so the girl behind the mic is like, why are you dating at 14? We have boyfriends in elementary school. Nah, nah, we have girlfriends. People date.

[Weezy]

You're fucking horny horny already.

[Mandy B]

I was about to say you on your cycle and you're probably even more advanced. The girls have the lace wigs at 14 now. I don't know how they're affording it. You gonna hate me, baby. You ain't got a mic. You doing too much talking. Cause the audience gotta hear this is the audio experience.

[Weezy]

Knowing that like to me it still happens. Just hearing a.

[Mandy B]

If it happens today, today, then it's always then. It's weird, but it's weird.

[Weezy]

One thing I'm curious too. I was having a conversation about one of my homegirls who was in the Dominican Republic recently, who grew up in the Dominican Republic, okay. About 19 year old and a 15 year old relationship. And she was like, I don't even think schooling like this is an American thing. She's like gunning for it, right? Her sister is dating a 19 year old. She's like, this is like normal, this is the age like she's talking about having kids. 17, 18, like this is normal.

[Mandy B]

My best friend growing up 17, did not get to graduate at 17, was pregnant by a 32 year old. She's Mexican. And the family allowed it because he was a friend of the family. So like, yes, culturally and mind you, I also think there was some racist shit going on there because I think they were just happy he wasn't black.

[Weezy]

Yeah, I remember.

[Mandy B]

Yeah. So like to me, yes, other cultures and shit. There's a difference. To me though now it reminds me of the stealthing word. Like, remember I didn't know that I had been sexually violated because I didn't know the language around stealthing. I didn't know it was a crime. It wasn't criminalized at the time. And later on, now that we have the knowledge, we know what it means, we know the actual. It's a crim.

[Weezy]

It's a crime with age. This isn't a consensual thing necessarily. Like, it depends how you look at, in society, how you look at adults at what age. There's.

[Mandy B]

Well, to be fair, she has a daughter now, so I'm assuming too she's able to look.

[Weezy]

Sure, of course.

[Mandy B]

Through the lens.

[Weezy]

There's a 90 Day Fiance couple right now. That's very interesting girl from Madagascar, black girl, 25, 52 year old man from LA and she brings him to her village with her father and the uncle. And just the language that they're having. Her dad is younger than the guy she's dating and they're sitting there like, you have to promise you're gonna have children if you, if you take our daughter. We're not gonna give you our daughter unless you want to have children. Because he already got three kids. And I'm just watching this like, yo, I really feel like if this girl was 17, 16, they'd be like, yeah, okay. Like it's all about protection, you know, Traditional. Right? So it's. I think that's also a little bit

[Mandy B]

rooted in why I think in America though now, like not taking it to other countries because we know that they have different ways in which they operate in America. No, I think that's, that's part of

[Weezy]

why we never look at it like that. I think now you're saying it, you nasty. No, you definitely.

[Mandy B]

And we need to call these. If you got a, if you got a uncle, cousin, brother who is above 20 something years old and that motherfucker talking to anybody in high school.

[Wolf]

Yeah, yeah, clip.

[Mandy B]

They nasty and you need to call them nasty and you need to introduce them to somebody's own age. It's nasty.

[Weezy]

This is what happens when you just be hanging around the block.

[Mandy B]

It's gross.

[Weezy]

Get your ass in the house.

[Mandy B]

It's nasty. Now, I do want to play a clip. Reactionary. It went around. I'm mad because she's out of here now, but I know you know her, so I do want her on the goddamn pod.

[Weezy]

Ooh.

[Mandy B]

Nikki Glaser recently sat on a podcast, and, boy, does this have the people talking. Nikki Glaser was supposed to come on forever ago.

[Weezy]

I know, but I'm, like, laughing at you. Said she's out of here now.

[Mandy B]

Nah, that bitch is that bitch funnier than men. That bitch is hilarious.

[Weezy]

Yeah, she is funny.

[Mandy B]

That bitch is on every bitch. She is funny.

[Weezy]

You about to talk about this Alex Cooper shit. What the fuck is going on with the white girls?

[Mandy B]

What do you mean? Oh, bitch, you know that is not my algorithm.

[Weezy]

Oh, no, no, no. I found out Akash's wife. I follow. And then I got into the other wife's.

[Mandy B]

But you know what's happening, bitch.

[Weezy]

All the bitches calling out Alex Cooper because one of them is like, oh, she was abusing me. Didn't the other one doing this girl, they come for that white hoe, and the shit is crazy because I'm like, what is this?

[Mandy B]

White on white attack the way.

[Weezy]

Oh, no.

[Mandy B]

Maybe, like, went to the most, like, biracial corner ever, not knowing wanye. But now putting me on to the white pod beef.

[Weezy]

God damn, Mandy. You didn't know where Sudan was? Don't play with me.

[Mandy B]

That's geography. That's geography. That's Africa. Probably not the part I've been to.

[Weezy]

Clearly, bitches only been in South Africa. That's the problem.

[Mandy B]

I've been to South Africa. Nigeria. Hold on. Let her know. Hold on. You know what I mean? I've been to three countries on the

[Weezy]

continent, in the motherland, and you ain't nowhere. Sudan.

[Mandy B]

I didn't have a layover there. I had a layover in Senegal, though, so I could technically count Senegal, too.

[Weezy]

Senegal, to me, has the hottest black people on Earth. That is where they at.

[Mandy B]

No, I like my African Americans, but here we go. All right, okay. Here goes the clip.

[Weezy]

Okay, If a guy has a sexual connection with a girl and, like, he was to use protection and just have sex with her for a night. Like, I don't. I literally wouldn't care if my husband did that. I. I don't. I don't know why. I don't know why. If he were to, like, watch the Wire with her or, like, do crossword Puzzles or, like, text, like, send memes and stuff. I would be like, what are you doing? Like, that's our thing. Like, emotional cheating would hurt me, but, like, physical, I'm just like. I kind of. I just feel like I understand how sex is for men most of the time outside of relationship, it's just kind of transactional. And it's just like, they just want a nut. And it's not about, like, I want to spend my life with this woman. So our barometer is no emotional cheating. Yeah, totally physically cheating. Is her husband black? Because why'd she bring up the Wire and also say nut the Wire?

[Mandy B]

She did. I'm not gonna lie.

[Wolf]

Very particular.

[Mandy B]

I wasn't gonna say that, but it did kind of make. It gives black boy pride. I know. I think she just. I think she just. Because maybe so the wire is so laser husband. I don't think he's black.

[Wolf]

She could have said some random.

[Weezy]

Really white.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, she could have literally said friends.

[Wolf]

Yeah. You know what I mean?

[Weezy]

Like, like, he's like, duper white. Like, Patagonia vest white.

[Wolf]

Oh, that's white.

[Mandy B]

Oh, wow. No, that's a white man.

[Wolf]

Shoes, no socks.

[Mandy B]

That's not even spicy. White dog. And he's giving. He doesn't wash his legs white. And like, she did say the Wire. Damn, look how good she looks. And look what he on a podcast with another white woman.

[Weezy]

Yeah, so. So does she. Okay, wait, wait, wait. Put a pin in this for Rihanna and the billionaire and argue. I keep getting into about my niggas.

[Mandy B]

Okay, so basically I'm curious because we both are into ethical non monogamy, by the way. In this interview, she goes further to say that she enjoys watching her man fuck men. Fuck. Fuck other women as well. So I love that we're having more of these conversations. Bro, he has money. A lot of women are fucking niggas with money, even if they're ugly. Jesus. Come on. Let's act like we know what's happening.

[Weezy]

I guess Nikki fucking him, that's what makes him attractive.

[Mandy B]

Facts.

[Weezy]

I'm Nikki Glaser's husband, but that's what I'm saying.

[Mandy B]

Yeah. So curious to know because you guys do, like, have threesomes with these girls. Would it be a problem if your partner was sending memes, was having an emotional connection? Are emotional connections allowed? What is to me, something that you think is an emotional connection that maybe someone else wouldn't like? What does that look like? And where do you draw the line to keep him from getting an emotional connection with another Woman.

[Weezy]

I think one of the.

[Mandy B]

Especially because you like dating so you actually get to know these people. I don't even care to fucking know the bitches names. You do. And so how do you keep him from having an emotional connection with someone when you do actually have conversations with them?

[Wolf]

Good question.

[Weezy]

Well, my boyfriend's better at boundaries than me.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

Okay. Totally upfront here.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

A lot better. Hmm. How can I say this? He is not the emotional one in the open relationship.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

So it's almost like the thing that she's talking about that everybody's fearful of. Right? Like, which is why I crashed out online the other day. Because I'm like. To say the things you're fearful of. An open relationship is totally normal.

[Mandy B]

Yes.

[Weezy]

But it's genuinely the opposite for us.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

I'm more emotional. I need all of that. He doesn't.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

So that wouldn't really concern me, but because. Because of how he is. But I think if I found out he said like, happy birthday to a Bish. That.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, that's emotional. That. Wait, that is emotional. It's like, that's not even respectful. Bitch, why do you even know her birthday?

[Weezy]

No, I remembered a bit. And you know what's crazy?

[Mandy B]

Even if Facebook.

[Weezy]

He remembers, maybe because I'm fucking. My nigga's very. I'm putting my fingers to my temples right now. He be talking. We'll talk about passion and joke about. And he'd be like, yo, so I was fucking with this one. Scorpio, right? Like, he remembers people by their signs and really connects it to that. To the point where it's like, fucking annoying because I'm just like, how do you fucking. Like, he won't remember the name of someone he slept with. Mandy. But it'll be like, she's a Capricorn. I don't know why, but that's how much he. He's very into numerology too, so that could be connected to it.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

But the happy birthday thing to me is we all know when a nigga wishes happy birthday. Like,

[Mandy B]

no, you.

[Weezy]

Right. But actually a rule.

[Mandy B]

But a comment.

[Weezy]

I would.

[Mandy B]

What about on Instagram? He could say happy Birthday because now everybody knows he's not a social media guy.

[Weezy]

Yeah, but I wouldn't care. I wouldn't care.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

But I would say this. That was a rule that we've talked about incorporating. I had this rule with Obey, and there hasn't been much going on for either to really need this rule, but wonder if it could be incorporated. So Obi and I had A rule with no more than twice. Ah. To the point where.

[Mandy B]

Oh, yeah, I'm not gonna lie.

[Weezy]

There was a nigga I saw, and he. I remember him joking like, well, guess that was your last time.

[Mandy B]

If. If. Okay. So, wolf, I'm. I'm. I'm curious. Cause you're a man with a penis. If you have sex with a girl more than twice, does that mean you like her at all? Is it just that the pussy's good? Because I kind of. If you keep going back to a bitch, something you like, something about her.

[Weezy]

Mm.

[Wolf]

I think that's fair.

[Mandy B]

It's fair. So if a man fucks you more than twice, a bitch isn't delusional by saying, that nigga like me.

[Wolf]

Yeah, but I would use, like, very loosely. But, yeah, I like you.

[Mandy B]

Okay. And you like the person or the pussy.

[Wolf]

I mean, I gotta like both for it to be convenient for me. So. Yeah.

[Mandy B]

Okay, I agree. I'm not gonna lie. No, I'm lying. There's dickers that I haven't really liked with. The dick was good, and they look good. So I actually, back in the day,

[Weezy]

now there's hall passes for that.

[Mandy B]

Y' all know what I talked about? I don't have casual sex. I can't anymore. It really sucks.

[Wolf]

Yeah, I can't do it.

[Mandy B]

I really can't do it. Like, you gotta be my boyfriend number three. Number four. I need the emotional. I need it. I need it, like, to the point where when I meet guys now, I let them know I have two boyfriends.

[Weezy]

I actually thought every woman was like this. Like, I kind of always assumed everyone

[Mandy B]

is like, I need it now.

[Weezy]

And the amount of women that just like, what?

[Mandy B]

Fuck.

[Weezy]

Quick, easy. I hate to say it that way, but, like, they're not as emotional as I thought.

[Mandy B]

No, women are not.

[Weezy]

But the volume I'm talking about has actually surprised me.

[Mandy B]

But I need emotion now. I could fuck a woman like that. But men need to like you at least a little bit. And then you got to be open to being boyfriend number something. Like, we go together real bad. Real bad.

[Weezy]

Do all of your boyfriends, you think, approach situations with women saying the word girlfriend? Or do you think they're like, I'm seeing somebody, blah, blah, blah. Or do you think they'd be like, I have a girlfriend?

[Mandy B]

Yeah. Like, why am I being interviewed?

[Weezy]

But the reason I asked that is because. Do you know the word? If someone told me they had a girlfriend, I'd be like, what the fuck?

[Mandy B]

Well, like, boyfriend number two has a primary girlfriend, and Then I just meet all the other bitches he fucks, so. But I haven't met the primary. But I get to meet the other girls that are around.

[Weezy]

Not. You saying I get to meet is crazy.

[Mandy B]

Not get to meet them, but like, he even shares, like their Instagram handles or depending on.

[Weezy]

Does the primary know about you?

[Mandy B]

That I don't know. That I don't know. Wow.

[Weezy]

You never asked.

[Mandy B]

But he's even said she's like a Don't ask. Like she knows he got other. And it's just not. It's not a conversation they have together. But she's aware that he has other girls. And then boyfriend number one right now, I think we're still like talking about it. I realized, like, I would like to know more and more he's still not open with sharing number one. You said boyfriend number one does that. Yeah, I don't know. He's not open sharing when there's other women. But like, even, like when I didn't go to Aspen, I knew other girls went and I literally asked them to tell me how the trip was the whole time. Because remember, I was on my period and I didn't want our first trip to have my be on my period. And I didn't get to hear anything that weekend, but I knew other girls were there. So he's not into sharing the other women. I don't get to know details, but I know there's other women.

[Weezy]

I would say sharing is very interchangeable. It kind of depends on our mood.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. It doesn't bother me. But I also know he. Cause he know about the other n. That's not a boyfriend. Cause his song came on in the car and I had told him about it and now he turns it off.

[Wolf]

Not. His song came on.

[Mandy B]

His song came on in the car. You know who? The one that I really don't talk about on the pod Atlanta radio. Oh. Oh, look, see, that's the only one, baby. When I say I can't give no details about him. Cause it would be too obvious. But that nigga. That's the only nigga I have casual sex with. But I told you he want to talk to me more.

[Weezy]

I'm not gonna lie. I know all your niggas is fine to you. Bitch, that. That's the one.

[Mandy B]

That's the one.

[Weezy]

That's the one that. It's like if one of your homegirls started fucking, I'd be like, damn, I feel bad, but I know why.

[Mandy B]

Oh, no, they better not no, no, no, no. My homegirls know he off limit. I'm joking, but I'm fine with them, like, lusting over him. I'm fine.

[Weezy]

I think when it comes to find shit.

[Mandy B]

You see what I mean? Sorry. No, that fine shit, he finds shit.

[Weezy]

But we got different types. I don't like light skinned, bro.

[Mandy B]

That's why you can get off that. Because that nigga's not light skinned. Thank you. I just date now.

[Weezy]

I don't like what we're talking about.

[Mandy B]

You know who we talking about? You know fine. You know who the she talking about?

[Wolf]

The other fine.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no, no. She know the fine shit I'm talking about.

[Weezy]

Wait, we talking about the nigga that I want to see. What?

[Mandy B]

I mean, you wanted to YN too. Quarter zip.

[Weezy]

I got a lie.

[Mandy B]

I got good tapes, Mandy.

[Weezy]

My algorithm is locked.

[Mandy B]

Okay, well, I got good.

[Weezy]

Oh, no. But I know what you're talking about.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, yeah.

[Weezy]

And once I started googling that nigga, I realized that and.

[Mandy B]

All right, all right, just no more details, bro. See what I mean?

[Weezy]

I wasn't going to get nothing. I just wanted to get Mandy hot. See what I mean?

[Mandy B]

She don't even know. This is what. Listen, none get on, please, bro.

[Weezy]

No, I would never. I would never. But if I sold that se.

[Mandy B]

I mean, you could watch. He might let you watch.

[Weezy]

No. Oh, my God.

[Mandy B]

No, I wouldn't want you to watch.

[Weezy]

Honestly, I just want to see what this house looks like.

[Mandy B]

It's nice. It's nice.

[Weezy]

Yo, the way that I be pressed about the most random shit. My homegirl tells me a story about Mar A Lago, she starts fucking a guy. Mar A Lago. Now we hear Mar A Lago from Trump. It is a country club in Palm Beach County.

[Mandy B]

That's it. Golf course?

[Weezy]

Basically, yeah. Country club, golf course, event space, like parties, whatever. So she goes to Mar A Lago, fucks this billionaire, right? So she starts trying to go in about the sex. I was like, hold on, hold on. What was Margo. Tell me what. What it looked like. Was it gold on the ceiling? I. Okay, did you see Trump there? She was like, oh, he was there. He's playing golf. But they had big guns. Like you couldn't say. I'm like, and then what was the billionaire's house like?

[Mandy B]

How was it?

[Weezy]

I was like, he had a cleaning lady. Was she in a uniform? And he's just like, bitch, I'm trying

[Mandy B]

to tell you about the dick.

[Weezy]

I don't. I want to know about everything else. Then when she waking up next to him. Cause now he's paying her.

[Mandy B]

Oh, of course. Bitch, you better not be fucking a billionaire for free.

[Weezy]

Actually, bruh, I think she wouldn't mind.

[Mandy B]

Now he's you no woman.

[Weezy]

No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

[Mandy B]

For free.

[Weezy]

That's not it. I was gonna say or four, but I'll hold it matter, because his kink may be.

[Mandy B]

You better not be with a billionaire not getting no money.

[Weezy]

I needed to know. This is how you know this. So rich. She told me this.

[Mandy B]

He's a billionaire. We know.

[Weezy]

No, no, no, no, no. I'm just talking about the level of wealth because we googled to find out billion dollar net worth. But just think of regular millionaire, right? So where he lived on the water is a highly concentrated area for boats. And the water can get kind of dirty. He pays every two days to get the water. Like he has boats. Come push. So that in front of his house is crystal clear blue. Bitch, that is ridiculous. Rich.

[Mandy B]

Now you told Wolf to hold a question.

[Weezy]

Oh, here it was. You said someone had money. Nikki Glaser dating a man with money. You're like, oh, yeah, she's with him because he got money.

[Wolf]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

So it's recently come out that Naomi Campbell is paid for in the industry. I don't know if that's true or not. Could be a rumor, allegedly. But somehow, I don't know where we heard this, but we were out somewhere, and we start getting into the conversation. He's like, I bet you, like, there's mad people that are paid for. He named another female rapper, which I won't name. And he's like, sweetie.

[Mandy B]

Oh, oh, but that's allegedly out.

[Weezy]

Okay, well, whatever. So it was her. And then one of the other things he was like. And I'm not saying she's paid for, but like, Rihanna was dating a billionaire. And I was like, hold on. No, but he looked really good.

[Mandy B]

He was fine.

[Weezy]

He was fine as shit.

[Mandy B]

He was fine as shit.

[Weezy]

So I'm like, he was fine. He's like. So, like, she was with him because he had money. And I'm like, wait, wait, wait, wait.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no.

[Weezy]

I do not believe Rihanna was with that nigga because he had money.

[Mandy B]

He was fine. He was fine as fuck and had money like her.

[Weezy]

And then also I said to me, there's a few other factors here. She dated Chris Brown, who didn't have that much money as, like. No, he did. No, as a billionaire.

[Mandy B]

She. Chris Brown had more money than her at the billionaire.

[Weezy]

The billionaire. The billionaire who didn't have as much money in the billionaire. Now she's dating asap Rocky, who does or married to who doesn't have as much money as a billionaire. Like, there's something here that's, like, off from what she used to date. And he's like, yo, wealthy, powerful. He's like, wasn't he some kind of prince? This is absolutely her dating him because he has money. And I'm like, yo, I actually think that's completely X out.

[Mandy B]

When people date people with money and they're ugly for the money. But when you are fine, shit, thank you. Have the money becomes a little bit of a bonus. Like, the niggas I be fudgeing. I'm like, how am I so blessed? You fine, and you rich. And the dick is good. Like, whoa.

[Weezy]

All y' all niggas is rich.

[Mandy B]

They all of them are over six figures, and then the other ones is over seven.

[Weezy]

Oh, girl, we know what that mean. That don't mean.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no, no. Boyfriend number one is over six figures,

[Weezy]

six figures, boyfriend two.

[Mandy B]

And my side nigga millionaires. All right, very. A lot of millions.

[Wolf]

A wealthy roster.

[Mandy B]

A lot of millions. A lot. Which is why I don't think this nigga likes that his nickname is Dior, but we gonna work on it. I said, you oughta buy me something more expensive. Nigga, you want to be Range Rover? You know what I mean? Like, nigga, give me. If you don't like Dior, bag me.

[Wolf]

Baby.

[Mandy B]

Baby, you want to. You want to be home buyer? Like, what nickname do you want on the pie? You just got to buy me that. Just buy it.

[Weezy]

Be Bucket for me.

[Mandy B]

You said, what be Buckhead.

[Weezy]

Speaking of home buying, one of my rich friends just bought this bitch an apartment. And when he bought it, I literally was like, yo, this is very interesting to me, because I didn't know she was that important to you. And he's like, let's talk about importance for a moment. He said, I'm not saying I want to be with her. X, Y, Z. This is someone rich, wealthy. But what I am saying is she lives in Texas somewhere. Let's just say that. He's like, what she was asking for to me wasn't crazy. He's like, she been fucking with me for a few years. I ain't never been scared to sleep next to her. Libra, Rolex, Nothing that's important. He's like, that bitch deserved a fucking apartment. And he said, my other bitches is actually tight because they feel like I did something so huge and so grand for Her. And he's like, yo, I don't know in what world you could be fucking a bitch for the last five, 10 years and not put her up in some shit. He's like, she better have something fucking with me. He's like, Cause truth be told, if I meet some out here I have. I have a connection with and have kids with and marry, she gonna be hurt. And he's like, so I. I really do. And maybe this is. Men in their 40s, they know how to.

[Mandy B]

Like, that nigga not 40 yet.

[Weezy]

And I kind of get what he's saying. He's like, she been down as fuck. I feel safe. Like, there's been bitches that try to extort me do X, Y, Z. He's like, fuck all that. Like, she deserved more than a bag. Not that was not shading you. But I wonder if it's the time and also, to me, the age.

[Mandy B]

No, to me, it's not even that. I think when you're a woman with your own, there's a little bit, like, the things that you can ask for different are different. Cause, like, me and this nigga got into an argument. It was last year. I brought it Dior. Yeah. Ooh. And he pissed me off. And he was like, I'll make it up to you. I'll make it up to you. And I was like, make it up to me? Fuck, nigga, give me $10,000 for wasting my time. I. He sent it immediately.

[Weezy]

You were like, damn, I should have went, yeah, literally.

[Mandy B]

But then that became like, the. The thing. Like, oh, shit. I could just ask you for $10,000.

[Weezy]

Well, I would be starting with. I'd be getting in so many fights. You liked her picture?

[Mandy B]

No, like, we don't have that thing. But he pissed me off. He had me. He had me going all around town, and I ain't like that shit. Like, n. Don't waste my time. So it Literally. But I know that me asking him for $10,000, he doesn't think that that's a lot of money to.

[Weezy]

Now, here's the interesting thing about you saying asking, right?

[Mandy B]

I mean, but it is. It is, because I ain't got it. I ain't got it.

[Wolf]

You ain't got it.

[Mandy B]

I ain't got it. I ain't got it. And I'm doing this now because the whore hive, first off, I'm done with paying bitches rent. But the whore hive. I don't give a fuck. The whore hive be in my goddamn comments with the sad stories, asking me to help them Pay their bills.

[Weezy]

Oh, I get a lot of.

[Mandy B]

Bro, I ain't gonna hold you, like, monthly. Y' all gotta calm down. Y'. All.

[Weezy]

Let me not even say it, bro.

[Mandy B]

Monthly.

[Weezy]

One girl sent me the babies in the car.

[Mandy B]

Bro, they be sending pictures of their kids, but maybe it's a saying. I'm about to get evicted. Can you help me with this? No, because sometimes it's only, like, $700. Sometimes it's 250. Like, mind y', all, if you were part of the Patreon during Thanksgiving and Christmas, I help with Christmas gifts, and I help with Thanksgiving Day meals. I send them the money to buy the food. But, bro, it's getting a little out of hand. I know the economy sucks, so. But, bro, getting in my DMs, asking me to help you pay your bills.

[Weezy]

On my birthdays, I give people money. And I know for me, that's, like, the biggest. I don't know. Like, I'm having a birthday and I'm feeling amazing, and I'm receiving all this love. Like, let me give right when I tell you this is the first year I didn't because of a few.

[Mandy B]

Well, bitch, you're a home buyer.

[Weezy]

Well, no, no, no.

[Mandy B]

You just had a lot of expenses.

[Weezy]

This is a real. How many people were, like, kind of just shitty to me about not getting replies, blowing up emails, like, telling me, like, they bet I ain't send nothing, whatever. And I was like, you know what? After that, I'm just literally. Do you know who I sent the money to on my birthday? Homegirls and my single moms with kids. Like, literally, one of my homeboys just had a baby, and I know him and his girl kind of going through it, and I was like, literally, to

[Mandy B]

me, I didn't get money. And we're friends now.

[Weezy]

What you going through, ho?

[Mandy B]

I. You know what I'm going through.

[Wolf]

Did you just get 10k?

[Mandy B]

I'm actually. What? No, no, that was last year. That.

[Weezy]

That's. That. Mandy, you're going to.

[Mandy B]

God. Oh, that shit is gone. That was last year. That happened, okay?

[Weezy]

They don't have a nigga they can turn to, but I can't. I'm not doing that shit no more. I'm helping my people. That's it, dog.

[Mandy B]

Help. Help me. Help me. I thought we were. I thought we were friends. Thought we.

[Weezy]

So we're not Mandy, we're on a trial period.

[Mandy B]

Back to co workers, bitches. Past 90 days. Probationary is done.

[Weezy]

How long is this going to.

[Mandy B]

You did not get me. You ain't send me shit on March 17th.

[Weezy]

To her name.

[Mandy B]

To her. No, bitch, no. We're not friendsing.

[Weezy]

No, the. We getting a long tour.

[Mandy B]

Don't.

[Weezy]

Hurry up and buy your tickets. Don't call me telling me getting a long tour.

[Mandy B]

Nope. I'm telling you the tea about to be cold. I'm not giving you no more hot shots.

[Weezy]

Mandy thinks it's a dumb idea.

[Mandy B]

No, we're done.

[Weezy]

I really want to do it.

[Mandy B]

We're actually done.

[Wolf]

Good T shirts, good merch.

[Weezy]

You got to do one city at a time.

[Mandy B]

Money. I ain't getting no money on March 17th. That's crazy.

[Weezy]

Let's see what happened with October lymph.

[Mandy B]

That's crazy.

[Weezy]

You had no.

[Mandy B]

I'm done, okay? I'm done talking to you. No, I'm just playing before we get out of here.

[Weezy]

No, fuck.

[Mandy B]

Because also, I didn't get to do half my outline, but I did want to bring Hoetry because you seem to like it. And the song came on and I was like, oh, my God, this is one of the best songs in the mother world. Hopefully it's not fucking won yet. And you already ruined your black card. I know you're not gonna know this song, but we're gonna say we're gonna see. This is one of the best songs.

[Weezy]

Let me see if Shazam will get it.

[Mandy B]

This is one of the best songs. Okay. Poetry.

[Weezy]

No, but I never get the Hoji.

[Mandy B]

It's time. It's time. You know what, baby? I need to tell you something. And it's something very important, you know? I want you to take this time out and just listen and hold me close. You hear me? Listen. Can I have you for a minute? Don't get shy cause my heart is in it.

[Weezy]

Can we talk for a minute?

[Mandy B]

When I say you got me strung out I don't know and I can't call it but whatever it is, you got it.

[Weezy]

Usher, you got it bad.

[Mandy B]

No, babe, without a doubt, yeah Never been the one to cling and I don't like to be needed but now I guess that's all changed. That's why I get mad at your folks. Because I don't want you to go no, babe, I want you to stay avant. You can say I'm tripping now I'm about to. You don't know this.

[Weezy]

Does anyone else know it?

[Mandy B]

You're not gonna know this song, ma'. Am. You're 23. You can say I'm trippin But I'm stingy and I can't hide it Wanna keep you all to me. I'm selfish while I try to fight it?

[Weezy]

It isn't a lot?

[Mandy B]

You're the only love that is strong enough to tame me. So please forgive me. I'm just. You don't know this song. Bitch, this is one of maybe After Differences.

[Weezy]

Not the way you singing it. After.

[Wolf]

That's the excuse.

[Mandy B]

Are you serious? This is. That was literally the cadence. My voice sounded great.

[Wolf]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

So what song is it, Will? This is.

[Mandy B]

This is actual Differences. Oh, go ahead.

[Wolf]

I'm not mistaken. Is this genuine?

[Weezy]

Yeah. Oh, no, you.

[Mandy B]

I'm not mistaken.

[Weezy]

Differences.

[Wolf]

No. Because when she started singing it, I was like, okay.

[Mandy B]

You can't say you don't know the song. Bitch, this is one of the best records.

[Wolf]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Mandy B]

Underrated. But, baby, After Differences is probably Genuine. Best record.

[Weezy]

I was hoping she was.

[Mandy B]

I put this above. I put this above. Above. Pony.

[Wolf]

Really?

[Mandy B]

That's why Differences is phenomenal.

[Weezy]

You can't.

[Mandy B]

This one. Oh, wait, wait, wait. Actually close. Between this and in Them jeans.

[Weezy]

Have you seen Genuine in person?

[Mandy B]

When I tell you, you know what's funny? Shout out to Antoinette. She likes to tell me I can do better in life with some of the decisions of the men that I like. You know, she doesn't approve of Kevin Gates. I know he has a lot of kids. I know his knee gives out on him and I can't laugh. But Genuine, baby, that's one of them N. I like. He would have got it raw in the 90s from me if I was old enough. But if I was old enough.

[Wolf]

Well, your eyes just bulged out when

[Mandy B]

you said, baby, I love me some Genuine. He makes me spell genuine Wrong. That is how. You know how we spell fabulous Wrong.

[Weezy]

Great. Great, great line, Mandy. Great job. That was good. That was a good one.

[Mandy B]

Hate you.

[Weezy]

Did that come from? I wasn't even trying to be funny.

[Mandy B]

He spells it wrong.

[Weezy]

Wait, no, I knew Andy. That's what I'm saying.

[Mandy B]

Oh, I didn't know if you knew.

[Weezy]

No, wait.

[Mandy B]

Because you didn't know one yet.

[Weezy]

You're a cunt. G, I, N, U, W, I, N,

[Mandy B]

E. Okay, now spell Fabulous like actual Fabulous the rapper. And rap it how he raps it. Come on. Black heart.

[Weezy]

F. Wait. How Fabulous. It's no U. Right.

[Mandy B]

Spell. Spell Fabulous.

[Weezy]

F, A, B, U, L, O, U, S. Wait, are you talking about the rapper?

[Mandy B]

Spell it. How fab. How does fabless get spelled?

[Weezy]

Fable, F, A, B, O, L, O, S. Fabolous.

[Mandy B]

You did it wrong again. It's F, A, B, O, L, O U S. Bitch, you still left out a letter. God damn. You said fabuloso, bitch.

[Weezy]

You know, hip hop girl over here is really starting to piss me off, bitch.

[Mandy B]

Damn, I'm a hip hop girl. Genuine is not hip hop.

[Weezy]

It's the outfit.

[Wolf]

A black car shows up in different areas.

[Mandy B]

In different areas?

[Weezy]

Yeah, like power and rights and activism.

[Wolf]

Right, Activism. You know what I mean?

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

Damn it.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Wolf]

She got pictures of Huey P. Newton on her wall in her house.

[Mandy B]

Thank you. Who's the activist who got killed at the age of 23 in Chicago?

[Wolf]

Ooh, ooh.

[Weezy]

Fred Hampton.

[Mandy B]

Oh, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. Black heart back. Black heart back. I want to say. Oh, you ate with that. You guys. You hate me.

[Weezy]

Every week on the Black Effect Network. I actually wish I was more confident when I'm saying that.

[Mandy B]

That was good. You see? That was good. Hit her quick with it. She ain't no Y, but the bitch don't pray, Hector. I'mma let her live.

[Weezy]

Wait, hey, wait. If that's not a real testimony, do I actually take it?

[Mandy B]

You see? Real quick with it, Lysa. Okay.

[Weezy]

There's a card game I got at the Brooklyn Museum called Black Facts. And me and my nigga was playing this game. He was like, we gotta play this game before we get married. And I'm gonna be honest with you, he only beat me by 1.4. Didn't. I'm not gonna lie.

[Mandy B]

You did that. You ate that. Don't know wanye. Don't know how to self Fabulous. Don't know genuine. But it's okay. Yeah, you know we gonna let you live.

[Wolf]

Yeah, it's very good.

[Mandy B]

You like amapiano. We're gonna let you. I won't know any of those artists, so you won anyways, guys.

[Weezy]

Oh, my God.

[Mandy B]

Hope that you enjoyed this episode of Decisions, Decisions. I don't know what this gave this week, but it ain't okay. Anyways, make sure you subscribe to our Patreon if you want bonus content. That's where we really talk about sits. So go on over. Horrible Decisions is still around. It's just behind a paywall. For as little as $5 a month, you can get Horrible Decisions. So that's patreon.com Horrible Decisions. Also, June 9th, paperback release of no Holds barred. It is available for pre order right now on Amazon. Get that? So if you don't like hard and you like it a little gummy. Okay, that book is ready for you June 9th, so make sure you get that. Thank you.

[Weezy]

Oh, my God. I just burped too, but I did mine silently. You know what?

[Mandy B]

Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of Decisions Decision.

[Weezy]

Bye.

[Mandy B]

Bye. This is an I Heart podcast. Guaranteed human.