EP 474: Klay Thompson Doesn’t Understand Non-Monogamy

Summary

Podcast Summary: Decisions, Decisions – EP 474: Klay Thompson Doesn’t Understand Non-Monogamy

Podcast: Decisions, Decisions (The Black Effect Podcast Network & iHeartPodcasts)
Date: May 25, 2026
Hosts: Mandii B and WheezyWTF
Episode Theme:
A candid conversation on non-traditional relationships, ethical non-monogamy, internet virality, new Gen Z dating trends (“shreking”), and reaction to recent celebrity dating news. The episode focuses on challenging norms in relationships—particularly relating to monogamy vs. non-monogamy, public perception, and personal boundaries.

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Episode Overview

Mandii B and WheezyWTF dive into the challenging realities of modern dating and relationships—unpacking everything from the language of ethical non-monogamy, viral clip “call-outs,” and societal double standards, to reactions on celebrity scandals (including Klay Thompson’s newfound “non-monogamy”), dating less-attractive partners (“shreking”), and the implications of situationships. The hosts use humor, real-life anecdotes, and unapologetic honesty to dissect issues affecting Black women and broader communities.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Navigating Internet Virality & Judgment (00:01–03:57, 31:13–32:44)

• Opening Banter: Mandii recounts an encounter in Ghana where someone recognized her for being “disgusting” online, leading into a discussion of how their podcast clips go viral and subject them to public scrutiny and misinterpretation.
  • “I was in Ghana and somebody came to me and was like, you’re the most disgusting girl in the world.” — Mandii B. (00:01)
  • Wheezy notes the pressure of random people recognizing her from podcasts and the mental health toll of being meme-ified.
  • “Every week, y’all. Weezy’s mental health. Weezy said, I don’t want a pod anymore.” — Mandii (30:13)
  • The duo reflects on communicating regularly with their partners to prepare for viral backlash and “talk through” difficult moments.

2. City Life & Dating Logistics (08:35–13:47)

• Mandii discusses narrowing her social circle and spending more time with her multiple boyfriends, navigating long-distance, and preferences for city vs. city living (ATL vs. NYC vs. LA).
  • “My main nigga is not liking the distance as much and I feel like it would be different if we were in the same city.”— Mandii (09:30)
• Discussion on overstimulation and preference for “adventure” in New York, as opposed to Atlanta or LA.
• Funny musings about public transport, moving logistics, and the “smells” of different cities.

3. Dating 'Shreking': Choosing Partners for Kindness over Looks (28:45–37:32)

• Gen Z 'Shreking': The hosts define “shreking” (dating people you’re not attracted to because you believe they’ll treat you better).
  • “So shreking is a Gen Z term for dating someone that you’re not attracted to because you actually think they’ll treat you better.” — Mandy B. (28:56)
• Wheezy admits to trying this, but found it unfulfilling:
  • “I was tired of these niggas, so let me just ride the ugly train.” — Wheezy (35:50)
  • “It would be way harder to have threesomes with an ugly guy.” — Mandy (37:18)
• The hosts reflect on the myth that “less attractive” people treat you better—drawing parallels to stereotypes about plus-size women and disputing them.
• Both hosts agree: Dating for kindness alone isn’t sustainable if basic attraction is absent.

4. Internet Virality & Mental Health (30:13–32:44)

• Ongoing conversation about how podcast clips are used to farm attention—impacting hosts’ reputations and mental health.
  • “Weezy’s the one that thinks women are terrible. I go viral every week.” — Mandy (30:49)
  • Discussion on managing family perceptions and vetting which public events partners (or their parents) can attend.

5. Situationships: Who Really Benefits? (42:15–54:58)

• Mandii and Wheezy react to a viral Kendra G. clip on “situationships”—relationships with romantic/sexual elements, no official title.
  • “Situationships always seem to be a shared family experience, a holiday, an important milestone that does bond you.” — Wheezy (44:41)
  • Disagreement: Is it always one-sided? Mandy believes situationships can benefit both people until one wants more.
  • Wheezy argues: If one person wants commitment, the lack of clarity hurts, especially with “relationship acts” like family events.
  • “If you want the title, you have to be able at this point to walk away from it if you’re not getting what you want.” — Mandy (47:37)
  • Regular women’s realities vs. influencer/industry narratives on money, travel, and expectations.

6. Reaction Round-Up: “Kinky Court” Celebrity Headlines (57:59–76:02)

• Mandy presents a rapid-fire “Kinky Court” segment: hosts “name the crime” in recent relationship headlines.

  1. Shaquille O’Neal, 54, welcoming a new baby with a much younger woman, not his partner:

     • Both hosts see blame as dual; question the motives of both adults given age and wealth.
     • “They’re both selfish.” — Mandy (61:50)

  2. Klay Thompson “discovers” he’s non-monogamous after being caught cheating:

     • Wheezy calls out inauthenticity: “You don’t just decide one day… You know it. You don’t grow into hoe.” (62:53)
     • Mandy points out the difference between “cheating” and claiming non-monogamy retroactively.
     • Both agree: Cheating isn’t non-monogamy. Ethical non-monogamy is about informed consent, not post-facto rebranding.

  3. Boston Richie breakup—ex exposes abuse, underage girls & pegging:

     • Wheezy and Mandy debate the ethics of exposure after a breakup:
       • “Why are we suddenly exposing people once we don’t fuck with them?” — Wheezy (67:21)
     • Acknowledge the gravity of grooming, but question the timing and motivation behind the disclosures.

  4. Ray J claims to have slept with 12,500 people:

     • Hosts are skeptical but not completely surprised—discuss how high numbers can be (esp. for bisexuals or industry folks).
     • “I think bisexual people numbers are astronomical compared to heterosexual.” — Mandy (72:01)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “You don’t grow into hoe.” — Mandy B. (04:24, 62:53)
• “Situationship always seems to be a shared family experience… everything but the title.” — Wheezy (44:41)
• “If you want the title, you have to be able at this point to walk away from it if you’re not getting what you want.” — Mandy (47:37)
• “Cheating isn’t non-monogamy. Ethical non-monogamy is about informed consent.” — Wheezy (63:16)
• “It would be way harder to have threesomes with an ugly guy.” — Mandy (37:18)
• “I think bisexual people numbers are astronomical compared to heterosexual.” — Mandy (72:01)

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Timestamps for Major Segments

• Opening & Internet Banter: 00:01–03:57, 31:13–32:44
• City Life & Logistics of Dating: 08:35–13:47
• Gen Z Dating Trend: “Shreking”: 28:45–37:32
• Situationships – Deep Dive: 42:15–54:58
• Kinky Court: Celebrity Relationship Cases: 57:59–76:02

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Episode Tone & Style

Highly conversational, unapologetically candid, often humorous and explicitly personal. The hosts use their chemistry and lived experiences to challenge audience assumptions, break taboos, and keep the conversation both bold and grounded in reality.

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For New Listeners

This episode is a vibrant, real-world guide to unlearning patriarchal relationship norms and embracing honest, intentional connection—especially as experienced by Black women in today’s dating climate. Whether you’re curious about ethical non-monogamy, navigating “situationships,” or just want to hear unfiltered reactions to everyday dating dilemmas and viral headlines, Mandii and Wheezy deliver an unflinching, relatable, and laugh-out-loud take.

Transcript

[Mandy B.]

I'm showing up everywhere, bro. I was in Ghana and somebody came to me and was like, you're the most disgusting girl in the world.

[Wheezy]

Because I was out with my man and his family and this nigga comes up to me and goes, oh, just wanted to say, however you getting in the algorithm, like, wow, I don't even know your name. I just keep seeing you, keep seeing you. And I was like, my man's mom, what does she do for a walk?

[Mandy B.]

You know it.

[Wheezy]

You don't grow into hoe.

[Charlemagne the God]

Now.

[Mandy B.]

We didn't start this podcast, however, until 2017. For me, I did not know what ethical non monogamy was.

[Wheezy]

I didn't know language though, right?

[Mandy B.]

So there is now. And so him saying it. There's a lot of people now being informed of the decision and way to say and express that they are non monogamous. He's also this is an iHeart podcast. Guaranteed Human.

[Wheezy]

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[Mandy B.]

Decisions, decisions. Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Decisions Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy B. AKA Peggy Bundy, AKA GI Mandy, AKA that Beach,

[Wheezy]

AKA Lil Bill in blonde.

[Mandy B.]

Don't do that. I do not look like no fucking Little Bill.

[Wheezy]

I just thought we were naming like

[Mandy B.]

no God damn Lil Bill, bro. Lil Bill and Light Skin. I know we get along, but God damn it, you took her too far.

[Wheezy]

Lil Bill and Light Skin.

[Mandy B.]

Oh by the way, Lil Bill shouldn't even be able to be mentioned anymore because bitch, that is Bill Cosby. So now I feel like you calling me an animated little Bill Cosby and that is just not okay.

[Wheezy]

I can't even call you Amber Rose. Cause she's a fucking.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah, she even worse bitch.

[Wheezy]

I was trying to if my girl didn't.

[Mandy B.]

When I was in Ghana, they was all calling me Amber Rose. I said, I don't know if y' all know, but we disown that bitch.

[Wheezy]

Bitch. Have you seen her in ugly with the brown and then no makeup?

[Mandy B.]

In what?

[Wheezy]

In ugly. Like she's in blonde, she's hot. But once she's in ugly it's like not good anymore.

[Mandy B.]

I don't know what in Ugly means in ugly form.

[Wheezy]

Now she's just, like, bad on the inside and the outside. She looks like shit. I'm not gonna lie, bitch. She said white people can say, niggas, I'm done.

[Mandy B.]

But when she. I would be. I would be lying if I said she still wasn't fuckable. So I.

[Wheezy]

You haven't seen the photo.

[Mandy B.]

I've seen her on a podcast. I saw her leaving the hotel room in her little spandex, leaving Wiz Khalifa. Okay. The body's still body. She looks good to me still. I just know who she is, how she talks. Hannah, recent pic.

[Wheezy]

No makeup.

[Mandy B.]

I've seen her, bro. I have seen her. She's been on podcasts. She's doing way too much.

[Wheezy]

You saw that.

[Mandy B.]

Everyone looks like that when they wake up.

[Wheezy]

Get out of here.

[Mandy B.]

I'm not gonna sit here and be the one to judge a bitch when she don't have her hair and makeup done. Girl, fuck this. We are not.

[Wheezy]

She looks like the Karen that she's become. This is awful. And this is the thing. White women.

[Mandy B.]

I ain't gonna hold you. I'll be doing some of my screen grabs on YouTube. I'm not even gonna sit here and call. Call that bitch ugly.

[Wheezy]

Why? She's a terrible person.

[Mandy B.]

She is a terrible person, but I'm not gonna say she's ugly. She's not an ugly person. That bitch is not ugly.

[Wheezy]

I think bad people are ugly.

[Mandy B.]

Okay, okay. What a PC answer that was.

[Wheezy]

It's true, bruh, bro. This, for example. There's a lot of ugly people in the world that are good people on the inside, and we never call them ugly. But when someone just becomes ugly.

[Mandy B.]

No, I call ugly people ugly because I am a. Like, first off, okay, who's an ugly good person? Who's an ugly good person? I think Jeff Bezos, ex wife. She's giving a lot of money to people. She's donating it.

[Wheezy]

No, she's not.

[Mandy B.]

That she is. See, a white woman that has not aged gracefully even though she has all that money. She's not a pretty woman, but she is a nice and kind woman. You ask me, do you want me to name an ugly nigga that's a nice person? Yeah, I guess. Jay Z.

[Wheezy]

Now you're taking it too far.

[Mandy B.]

Jay Z. So Jay Z. If he wasn't Jay Z, you would look at that man and be like, he's attractive.

[Wheezy]

Cut. What? Roc Nation might make a podcast division, bitch. And what if they acquire black effect? And what if we just become some big black owned Tank, we need to

[Mandy B.]

stop you sitting here thinking that Jay Z's just taking up all the black businesses is also a crazy way of looking at him.

[Wheezy]

I just know in my life I'll end up working with her, so I

[Mandy B.]

may work with them too. But it's fine to say that they're not a. Like he's not attractive, cuz they. She is attractive, but she so much.

[Wheezy]

How gorgeous. I can't stop thinking about it. I know it was a while ago, but I cannot stop thinking about how beautiful Blue was at the Met gala.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, okay. Yeah.

[Wheezy]

What?

[Mandy B.]

I thought you were going to say something else and then you're going to have to have me disagree. And then I was going to be like, cut, edit.

[Wheezy]

No, no, no.

[Mandy B.]

What?

[Wheezy]

What? I would like to have a catch up.

[Mandy B.]

No, let's.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, let's.

[Mandy B.]

Let's get away from that big stop.

[Kendra G.]

What did I.

[Mandy B.]

You don't even. What did I say? You exactly. Don't put words in my mouth.

[Wheezy]

What's up with you, sister?

[Mandy B.]

No, you started. You said you wanted to catch up.

[Wheezy]

I can't. Cause I'm in shock.

[Mandy B.]

At what?

[Wheezy]

You nigga.

[Mandy B.]

What did I. Sir, did I say anything? I didn't say a goddamn word.

[Reggie]

Not that I'm aware of.

[Mandy B.]

Thank you.

[Wheezy]

And didn't I know what she was about to say.

[Mandy B.]

What was I fixed to say? You say it. No, go ahead.

[Wheezy]

Whoa, no.

[Mandy B.]

What were you gonna say? I would never say it on the goddamn mic.

[Wheezy]

She could wear shit on her face and I would never say that.

[Mandy B.]

I didn't say anything. Let's go.

[Wheezy]

What's up with.

[Mandy B.]

What's up with me? You know, I'm great. As I continue to make my circle smaller, my boyfriends are realizing how much I was doing with my friends because now I want to do everything with them. So literally it's like summertime. What beach are we going to? Literally just asked like one to come to Miami and then the other I was like, okay, so what clear waters do you have planned to see this summer?

[Wheezy]

So let me ask now that one of them. I know you don't like to pick favorites, but you kind of are.

[Mandy B.]

No, I have a favorite.

[Wheezy]

Okay. The one that I'm thinking about.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah.

[Wheezy]

How do the other ones perceive you now or like their time with you? Are they getting a little jelly belly?

[Mandy B.]

No, I mean, they both don't live in Atlanta, so. I mean, I talk to both of them every day and we communicate about life and we make plans.

[Wheezy]

What about your main. Your favorite nigga?

[Mandy B.]

I will say My main nigga is not liking the distance as much and I feel like it would be different if we were in the same city. I think it would be a little bit more intense. He has expressed how he doesn't like the distance.

[Wheezy]

So what are you saying?

[Mandy B.]

I'm not saying shit. I'm dealing with the goddamn distance. That's it. But like, yeah, would you.

[Wheezy]

Would you consider?

[Mandy B.]

Would I consider what? No, bro. Why do you think I'm going to get on this goddamn mic and change my mind about the things that I am adamant in. No, no, no, no.

[Wheezy]

I know you like that.

[Mandy B.]

I don't want marriage. I don't want cohabitation.

[Wheezy]

Wait, what does that. Don't want cohabitation? No, no. Would you consider, I don't know, saying where they live, but you fuck with that city hard, bitch, I'm not moving

[Mandy B.]

back to New York.

[Wheezy]

Oh, okay. So we now we know.

[Mandy B.]

Bitch, I am not moving back to New York. I think you know what's crazy, and I think it's my neurodivergence. The last few times that I've gone back to New York for us to record and stuff, baby, I'm overstimulated. And I know that's like a word I just kind of learned, but boy, do I fucking get overstimulated, like a lot. And I'm like, there's so much fucking people. I literally go there now and while my nights are like, oh, I love the city. Looking at the lights in the daytime, I'm like, how the did I live here? It's too loud. Like, I literally get so overstimulated and like my anxiety levels are high and I'm like, it stinks more. I don't think I realized how stank that goddamn city was until now. I be back in the city because

[Wheezy]

it's so hard, because it's the best city in the world.

[Mandy B.]

It's the best city in the world when you have your evenings. Like, to me in Atlanta, I've been.

[Wheezy]

I actually feel double day or no New York to me.

[Mandy B.]

Get the fuck out of here. But I've been in Atlanta now about a year and a half. I have yet to get so high, so drunk, where I'm like, woo, this is the best time ever in New York. Yep. I can go to like five to seven different places in one night. And on my ride home, lit, drunk, high, whatever. As I look at the lights and cross the bridges and I'm just like, this is the best city in the world. I genuinely feel like that multiple times A month or even when I just go visit. Every night is like an adventure. There's the adventures in Atlanta. Don't give.

[Wheezy]

The adventures in la don't give. But I'm gonna tell you this.

[Mandy B.]

No, the adventures here, E. Yuck. And you know what? Me and one of my boyfriends actually, like, like, bonded today over our hate for la. I was like, I'm in this hellhole of la. While I was at the pool. I landed, went straight to the pool, and I sent him a picture. And I was like, ugh, fuck. I hate it. He was like, bro, I hate that city.

[Wheezy]

Here's the weird part about. I agree with you, but no, you

[Mandy B.]

love it here, bitch.

[Wheezy]

I love my house. I love being outside. I love it, right? So this is how I know there is something that's pulling me back. I do make a lot of money in la, so that kind of drawing. Me, too. I ain't gonna hold you.

[Mandy B.]

The money.

[Wheezy]

Help. I told my boyfriend I wanna have a very LA day. I've never been to the Getty Museum. Y' all been there.

[Reggie]

Which one is that?

[Wheezy]

Nigga, you would've known. I never been to a museum like this. It isn't even as good as the.

[Mandy B.]

I thought we were fucking it.

[Wheezy]

No, we couldn't. But, Mandy, when I was there, we couldn't. I thought he was going to propose to me. That's how nice the fucking museum was. It's like four buildings. Mountain views, ocean views, outdoor garden. Nigga, I don't know how TikTok hasn't blown this up, but I'd never see anybody talk about the Getty. So long story short, I'm like, you know what? Let's keep having an LA day. Let's go to Rodeo. Buy me something. So we go to Christian Louboutin. There's a black guy there, he's French. So, I mean, I was like, here she go. And I was like, ooh, Bibi Francais. He's like. I'm like, no, but. So we just start talking. He's like, yo, I gotta hook you up with one of my friends there. Y' all will have a great time, because we're going in a few weeks. Do you know Margie? That's my homeboy, too. We start laughing about how small black anything is, right? So my man says to him, yo, how is it going out from Paris to Los Angeles?

[Mandy B.]

Isn't it terrible?

[Wheezy]

Like, what do you even do here? And the guy's like, yes, but we have to stop comparing it to, I can't go out at night and say, la is not Paris. It'll never be Paris. Just like you can never go out and say it's New York. But you walk outside, the weather is great. The fucking.

[Mandy B.]

One of my boyfriends wants to do Paris. He loves the nightlife.

[Wheezy]

And I'm like, so obsessed with nightlife.

[Mandy B.]

He wants to do a sex club in Paris. And I'm like, they smell. Ew. Like, I. I. He's literally trying to convince me it's a great time. And I'm just like, if he's knows

[Wheezy]

the black scene in Paris, you got to go.

[Mandy B.]

I mean, I'm going to try, but also, like, when are you going? Could I go with. Can I go with the thing on my nose?

[Wheezy]

Black. Black scene ain't like that, bro.

[Kendra G.]

Bro,

[Mandy B.]

this me being ignorant. I don't care, bro. I. When I travel places, if I need a layover and I see goddamn Charles

[Wheezy]

de Gaulle, you say, no, bitch, I

[Mandy B.]

will find another layover. Because it means that the French people gonna be on a flight and it's gonna stink. And I just can't do the scent.

[Wheezy]

Oh, so back on track with Yla stuff?

[Mandy B.]

I think it's one of the ugliest accents.

[Wheezy]

Mandy is for real. I don't give a fuck. I don't give a fuck.

[Mandy B.]

I don't give a fuck. Like, I'm very ignorant. I'm very African American. Don't care. And I'm not even African American. I'm Jamaican American. But when I tell you, bitch, fix your face, Bitch, you done met my daddy. So anyway, bitch, I'm surprised he's still here. Cause he has not renewed that green card.

[Wheezy]

Speaking of daddies, he think my mama

[Mandy B.]

finna help, and she is not. Cause she is fed up with him. And bitch, apparently he don't know how to do paperwork. So, bitch, look at that again. Nigga might be deported this year.

[Wheezy]

And you said accents are ugly in France.

[Mandy B.]

I don't like the French accent. I don't like the French language, and I don't like the French smell. I do like escargot and French wine.

[Wheezy]

Okay, so daddies. So while we're in la, we start driving around.

[Mandy B.]

Sorry to all the French listening.

[Wheezy]

There's not shout out to the Haitians. We know the Zo's in his hoe.

[Mandy B.]

Creole is different. And Haitians are different.

[Wheezy]

When we're driving around, I'm like, yo, this place is so great. And I have to be honest with you, I'm starting to find myself. When we're in New York and we not stepping out. And it's not a New York day. I'm a very New York.

[Mandy B.]

Let me walk around and let me

[Wheezy]

walk Nina to soho and be in the sun. I find myself missing LA consistently. And it's not because of nightlife or anything like that, but, like, my life isn't surrounded by nightlife as much as it used to be. Like, I was so fucking about the party all the time, and now my life is a little bit different. So because it's different, I'm like, yeah, I need to be in la, because if I want to touch some fucking fancy bougie shit, I can. I could be in my fucking house. So when his parents came, boy, was that fun. I literally was saying to his dad, like, would you be here? Would you guys move here? Would you, like, I want to know that, like, I can maybe plant roots here later. Because to me, I'm sorry, I get all the fucking. The wealth of New York is in Westchester and Connecticut. Don't care. Don't want to be there. Ugh, I hate it. And I, like, really want to end up building my life in my 40s here in LA. I cannot do this cold shit anymore, bro. Anybody that lives in New York, it's the best place in the world, we get it.

[Mandy B.]

But, like, what the fuck?

[Wheezy]

We couldn't walk outside, nigga. Mom, Donnie was on Instagram telling us, don't step outside for more than two minutes. Cause you gonna freeze, ho. I can't do that.

[Mandy B.]

Y' all got about five more years of this podcast then if you gonna be bitch. We about to go on zoom, bitch. You living Atlanta. These flight prices to the west coast,

[Wheezy]

we're gonna be rich by then, okay?

[Mandy B.]

Cause the way shit shit and spirit down, too. Bring back the $200 flights. Where they at? Where they at?

[Wheezy]

I got a spirit credit, too.

[Mandy B.]

I'm tired. No, well, you ain't getting that. That's done for.

[Wheezy]

It was really my mama credit. My mom hated that I did that to her. My mom would get.

[Mandy B.]

I'm not gonna lie. That's really trashy.

[Wheezy]

It was a big front seat.

[Mandy B.]

You shouldn't be giving your mama what you want.

[Wheezy]

Well, that's why I had a fucking credit. Cause she complained that much that I had to put her on Delta. I'm like, so you want to be regular in Delta instead of big front seat on spirit? And she was like, let me say it again, bitch. Yes.

[Mandy B.]

Okay.

[Wheezy]

Anyway, speaking of la, if you guys listen to our Patreon and you watch our Patreon, I did a Little vlog of my mom having cataract surgery. And y' all know she been wanting to drive. And I was like, absolutely not. Fuck, no. I'm not buying her a car. Since my boyfriend's family came, he had a rental, and because we needed more room, and my mom was like, let me try driving a regular car again. Cause it's been three years since she drove. He comes back in the house, and I was like, how was it? And he literally had to whisper it to me. I'm like, how was it?

[Mandy B.]

Never again.

[Wheezy]

He said, I literally have no complaints. He said, your mom parallel parked. He said, she drove one hand, She u turned, she backed down his face. He said, I felt so safe in the car. I felt more safe than you in a car.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, I'm not gonna lie.

[Wheezy]

Don't lie to him, bitch. Don't say nothing. Bro.

[Mandy B.]

Mandy, bro.

[Wheezy]

Little Bill, shut up.

[Mandy B.]

I'm not gonna hold you. I'm not. I fear.

[Wheezy]

So then don't ride in it, huh?

[Mandy B.]

I fear for the existence of this pod and you when I get in the car with you, and I'm like, is this how she drives when she is not with me? Like, you're driving?

[Wheezy]

We're 16 minutes in. Let's start the show.

[Mandy B.]

Babe, I'm not gonna hold ya. You need to have self drive every time on. Because y' all don't even understand. Y' all think the ADD is bad on the mic, bruh. From, like, the temperature of the seats to your phone to. Oh, and then, like, you brake hard.

[Wheezy]

It's regenerative braking. It's a Tesla feature.

[Mandy B.]

No, no, no, no. You break hard to where it's just like. Babe, I know I've been talking about women. Women can't drive. Look, I'm just gonna keep saying there's a lot wrong with women, okay? Fuck y' all bitches. But, yeah, y' all are here on the Patreon.

[Wheezy]

Mansplaining man is pretty cheer Mandy, man. Lover Mandy. That's what I'm gonna start calling you.

[Mandy B.]

What is he gonna call me?

[Wheezy]

Oh, since you're against a woman, fuck you.

[Mandy B.]

I'm not against women. You are a bad driver. Most women are bad drivers because they be doing too much. Like, why you think you could eat, text, change the location, turn up and down the goddamn radio and be on the car and talk? And then bitches be wanting to talk. Like, why are you looking at me while you driving? Just don't talk to me. Like, why you gotta keep looking forward?

[Wheezy]

You know what else makes it Worse because the Tesla takes over so much of your driving. I wanna, like, get a new car. So I went to the Mercedes Benz. Shit. Cause I was like, I want an suv. Like, I want kids soon. So let me see. Let me look at the G Wagons, bitch. Do you know that N was sitting next to me in the car? And I was like, so can the car, like, auto stop? Can it do anything? And he was like, yeah, no, you have to work it. I was like, well, maybe I don't need this.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah, no, you don't.

[Wheezy]

I'm so used to bitch, the Tesla be like, hey, bitch, there's four people next to you. Don't run into them.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, y' all don't even know. The reason we are sitting here today is because of Elon Musk,

[Wheezy]

Is why.

[Mandy B.]

Y' all got decisions, decisions. Cause God damn, you're driving bad, girl, bruh.

[Wheezy]

Let me tell you one thing, though. Even though that. Cause maybe I'll switch it to, like, a lucid or whatever the other company is, dog. I checked how much I've spent in charging, like, fees. 900 last year. Oh, no, sorry. 550. 900 was with. When I rented it out. 550. I'm only here half the year. That means a thousand for the year, which is blowing my mind.

[Mandy B.]

Especially because gas out here is $6 a gallon.

[Wheezy]

And I really want, like, a nicer luxury car so I could stun on these hose. But the problem is gas is insane.

[Mandy B.]

Gas. Why do you think we're about to move to Zoom? We're not going to be able to afford to fly, bro. The jet fuel prices are insane. Like, we were already complaining about eggs at one point, but now it's fucking renting.

[Wheezy]

So move back to North. Your nigga wants you there. And a podcast wants you there. And then my man going to be like, see, Mandy lives here now. We can move to Westchester.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, no, no, no, no. I'm not moving back like. And he owns like. And he's not leaving. He loves New York. What are you gonna do? Nothing. We're gonna keep. Bitch, if I gotta get on Amtrak, a bitch might have to just choo choo, bitch. I might have to do the. What's the other thing? The little Megabus. They got plugs, bitch. Spirit ain't even have outlets. So Megabus might be a little step up.

[Wheezy]

The last time I took the Megabus, I was going to see Beyonce in DC.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, yeah. I've only taken it to DC.

[Wheezy]

New York to D.C. i remember it was so bad. I was On a fucking shit with my homegirl. Seven in the morning. I said, because we had like 15 minutes to go. I said, I have to go get it. Advil, pm. I need to knock myself out. Megabus was.

[Mandy B.]

Is not that bad.

[Wheezy]

The one I was on was bad, bitch.

[Mandy B.]

Well, you got a bad one.

[Wheezy]

I had three dangerous people on it.

[Mandy B.]

I said, no, they got some good ones and they got the little it's double decker and shit.

[Wheezy]

I ain't have a dick. I ain't have a. That shit was terrible.

[Mandy B.]

So just say you took a break

[Wheezy]

and someone had an emergency and say

[Mandy B.]

you got all gray hair.

[Wheezy]

No, no, it's Megabus.

[Mandy B.]

Just say you got on Greyhound.

[Wheezy]

Which one's worse?

[Mandy B.]

Greyhound.

[Wheezy]

Reggie said, I don't know what you poor bitches.

[Reggie]

Listen, I know what you're talking about, but I've never been on it.

[Wheezy]

You know what's the worst one? The Chinese bus.

[Mandy B.]

As a Lower east side girl, I've never done it.

[Wheezy]

You know what I'm talking about though, right? Yeah, it'd be $3 to go to Boston and shit.

[Mandy B.]

I'm not gonna lie. Chinatown, the smell there is right up there with me.

[Wheezy]

You know how I know gentrification is happening? Because I've been living in the Lower east side since 2018. Chinatown smells different. It's getting whiter. There's no. It is getting whiter. And I've been wondering because now it's city bike time again. So I'm riding a bike to work and shit and I'm like, fuck going on, bro.

[Mandy B.]

No, maybe mandami just have have them, like, sweeping up the streets more. No, bitch, cuz n it be stank it do.

[Wheezy]

But it's some white shit now, and the smell is going away on certain streets and I'm very confusing to me. What happened?

[Mandy B.]

Oh, my goodness.

[Wheezy]

Anyway, anyhow, let's doing the podcast.

[Mandy B.]

Let's doing that podcast. Okay, so today, y', all, we are doing everything about this new era of dating, and we're gonna give our thoughts, our opinions, what we would do, especially as girlies that don't have to be out here in the trenches with you guys. But there's some things happening.

[Wheezy]

Oh, we're in it.

[Mandy B.]

You know, there's.

[Wheezy]

I'm still in it with these hoes.

[Mandy B.]

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[Wheezy]

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[Mandy B.]

And let's be honest, we're all due for a new one.

[Wheezy]

It's been a minute.

[Mandy B.]

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[Wheezy]

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[Mandy B.]

I was set. Binge worthy series. Can't miss the movies. This is the kind of content you start to just check out and suddenly it's 1am ask me how I know Obsession is officially in session. Only on Prime Video. It's Mandy B. From the Decisions Decisions podcast. And let's talk about the beautiful U.S. virgin Islands. The U.S. virgin Islands is the perfect getaway to St. Thomas, St. Saint Croix and St. John. If you're craving delicious food, amazing beaches, or the warmest hospitality, the USVI has it all. I celebrated the culture of the US Virgin Islands and it was everything you could ask for in a vacation. And get this, no passport is required if you're traveling from the U.S. the U.S. virgin Islands isn't just another vacation, it's an experience. St. Thomas, St. Croix and St. John all have their own vibe and there's something special at each one. So start planning your next [e-mail] that's visitusvi.com usvinaturally in rhythm. I actually want to start off with something that we used to do on Horrible Decisions, which we still do over on Patreon. Patreon.com Horrible decisions in vanilla. Shit. I found a new term that I thought was really interesting. Have you heard of the term shreking?

[Wheezy]

You're ugly in person, but you're a good person deep down inside. Like not Amber Rose. Sorry. Like Jeff Bezos. Because he was ugly.

[Mandy B.]

Kind of close.

[Wheezy]

Okay.

[Mandy B.]

And this is interesting and wonder if you've ever done it. I love also the term for it. So shreking is a Gen Z term for dating someone that you're not attracted to because you actually think they'll treat you better. Right?

[Wheezy]

Done that.

[Mandy B.]

You have done that. Explain.

[Wheezy]

We can't.

[Mandy B.]

No, no, no, no. We could do this.

[Wheezy]

No, no, no. I was gonna say I wanna mention someone so you know exactly who, but there.

[Mandy B.]

Wait a second. You was throwed like that off of an ugly nigga?

[Wheezy]

He was treating me right.

[Mandy B.]

He wasn't. He didn't even fuck you.

[Wheezy]

But he was treating me right. That's why I was putting up with the no dick. And he.

[Mandy B.]

Wait, wait, wait. But. So he actually was a nice guy

[Wheezy]

and ugly now that I'm seeing him often. Right, boy, Like, I was watching it with my nigga the other day and he was like, man, that nigga must have been real nice. That's how ugly he is.

[Mandy B.]

Did you. Were you in a moment where you purposely thought that someone uglier would treat you better? Like, were you trying. Correct. Okay. Why?

[Wheezy]

So the guy I had dated before,

[Mandy B.]

because this was after old bae, in

[Wheezy]

between Obey and some other guys. So some other guys.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, cut this up, y'.

[Wheezy]

All.

[Mandy B.]

This whore.

[Wheezy]

No, no, no. Let's stop, let's stop. Okay, wait, I forgot. The Internet is, like, clip farming us right now.

[Mandy B.]

They are, baby. Babe, we ain't never been clip farmed like this, bitch. Every week, y'. All. Weezy's mental health. Weezy said, I don't want a pot anymore.

[Wheezy]

I don't. I want to be in the white podcast space.

[Mandy B.]

Also, they're black.

[Wheezy]

Manosphere is worse than Maga shit.

[Mandy B.]

Well, at least they're not saying podcaster says, bitch. They're putting your name to it, bitch. Every week. It's some bullshit. Weezy said. And here I go.

[Wheezy]

I'm so confused.

[Mandy B.]

Even though I care about her mental health, I'll be like, bitch, you seen this, dog?

[Wheezy]

I said. I literally said, mandy, don't send it to me anymore. First of all, I'm the good one.

[Mandy B.]

I said, welcome.

[Wheezy]

Mandy's the one that thinks women are terrible.

[Mandy B.]

I go viral every week, and it's so bad to the point where I'm showing up everywhere, bro. I was in Ghana and somebody came to me and was like, you're the most disgusting girl in the world. Because I. I said I was disgusting in defense of myself getting a spit in my mouth. Mandy.

[Wheezy]

I was out with my man and his family, and this nigga comes up to me and goes, oh. Just wanted to say. And I'm like, thinking he's going to be like, my girl loves horrible decisions or something. He looks at me and he goes, yo, however you get in the algorithm, like, wow, I don't even know your name. I just keep seeing you. Keep seeing you. And I was like, oh, my God, my man's mom. What does she do for a walk?

[Mandy B.]

I'm just like, no, no, no, no, no. The last month and a half strong has been the toughest on my mental health. So I wanna talk about truth. I'm just glad that I've, like, pre warned my, like. Luckily, I have so much conversations with both my boyfriends where they're like, oh, what did you pot about today? Oh, da, da, da, da. And I literally tell them, like, man, this clip going viral right now. And we just talk. We talk through it.

[Wheezy]

Do you know how bad it is for me? Because his parents spent so Much time with us. His mom really is getting invested in what I do, right?

[Mandy B.]

No.

[Wheezy]

So this is what I said. Kennedy, Ryan, shout out to our girl. That's my bitch. She is having a book signing in New York. It's already passed, but I hit her up. She was like, who's on your list? I was like, kennedy, this is going to be the event I bring my man's mother to because it's in a church and I'm not going to be that dirty. And I feel like she's like, so you want me to be your beard is what you're saying? I'm your cover. And I was like, literally, yes. If his mom sees me in a church talking about sex, it's way. She already knows I talk about sex. It's way better than fucking June 9th at Tony Hall. So that is the only event mama gonna be coming to, because that's all I could do. And I'm gonna tell you right now, I don't. I wanna finish what I was gonna

[Mandy B.]

say about the ugly N. No, I wanna finish. Your add can come back.

[Wheezy]

No, no, no.

[Mandy B.]

I mean.

[Wheezy]

Cause I don't want it to be clipped. But here's the truth. I was dating a series of very attractive men, very sought after men. And so I really did think when this not so attractive man hollered at me, and sure, you can say I'm ugly too, whatever you want, but when a not so attractive man who was still well to do hollered at me, I thought, you know what? This is gonna go great. Because sometimes when a motherfucker too fine, it's like they got too many options. And the thing is, you're sometimes only as good as your options. For example, I want to make a point here. If there's a woman on your dick and you can't figure out why fellas, probably means nobody's on hers. That's just the truth. It's just a fact. I don't give a fuck how great you are. When a motherfucker got people on their line, people taking them out, there isn't almost enough energy. That's why when I made.

[Mandy B.]

This is what makes the problem with dating today.

[Wheezy]

But this is why when I made the joke in that clip about like, oh, it's. If I go on a really good date, I almost got a fuck another nigga. I'm being facetious here, but yes.

[Mandy B.]

Nah, you were serious.

[Wheezy]

Don't try to take that shit back down. You almost don't want to get too invested in somebody because what ends up Happening is putting all your eggs in one basket. We are so used to disappointment. Distraction is sometimes the best thing for you in dating.

[Mandy B.]

Right, because. So you know what's terrible for your mental health? Being tried by an ugly nigga.

[Wheezy]

I was never tried by him.

[Mandy B.]

But what I'm saying is you treated me right. Ugly nigga didn't even want to give you dick. That would affect my whole life.

[Wheezy]

He was celibate.

[Mandy B.]

What you mean y'? Ugly?

[Wheezy]

He probably was a virgin, cuz he was funny looking. I don't know what I'm talking about.

[Mandy B.]

No.

[Wheezy]

So for me, Reggie, did you know who I'm talking about? Are you watching what I said?

[Reggie]

I don't know who you're talking.

[Mandy B.]

He not going to know the ugly on the show. There's mad ugly on that show. He don't know.

[Reggie]

I don't.

[Mandy B.]

Well, now you got to believe that God damn it. When you start talking.

[Wheezy]

But anyway, he did treat me right.

[Mandy B.]

To me though, this idea that a not so attractive person is going to treat you better to me is bullsheet.

[Wheezy]

You know what this is also?

[Mandy B.]

What?

[Wheezy]

In the reverse, this is what men say about plus size women. Oh, they do this for you?

[Mandy B.]

They do this.

[Wheezy]

They're nastier, they're making meals, they shut the fuck up. It's the same experience men are talking about, which I don't believe to be true. However, men are saying this. This is not my experience, so I can't speak for it. But we've heard n say that, right?

[Mandy B.]

No, I wouldn't align it with big women as much as I think that people assume that dating a six, you'll get a better version of a woman than. Or a less complicated one or a less entitled one. That's true than if you're dealing with a baddie. I'm saying. I'm saying that the reason I haven't been on Snapped yet is because I refuse to be tried by an ugly nigga. So if you listen to my homegirls talk about the niggas I date, yes, they all look like Gap models. I want fine shit because when fine shit disappoints me, of course you did you fine shit. That it makes sense. Okay?

[Wheezy]

So that's why for me, I said, damn, I'm tired of these niggas, so let me just ride the ugly train. And you know what? Here's the problem.

[Mandy B.]

For me, that's crisis.

[Wheezy]

Dating someone not attractive here was the only issue. And I realized I never go through this again.

[Mandy B.]

I feel I actually get you have only one Issue with dating someone unattractive, how it made me.

[Wheezy]

I didn't care what anybody else thought. Okay, well, I guess that's a lie because of what I'm about to say. Well, my homegirls would be like, what he look like? I had to go through a lot of pictures to find a good one. It was a real big scroll. And there was one photo of him on a red carpet circa 2014. And I dated this nigga in 2022. And I was like, you showed a picture from 14? It was the best he looked. I was scared. And even then, they were like, I remember when we stopped dating, I love my bitch.

[Mandy B.]

When my whole girl want to see, I just give them the whole Instagram. Girl, just scroll. Mm, keep scrolling. Or I got a folder with one of them, and I just gotta make sure they don't see dick and pussy. But I be like, mm, it's. Oh, yeah, I know. Ooh, yeah. Sorry. Cause we be recording, and it's great. Here you go. You could see all of it.

[Wheezy]

I love that. Now I have that experience. But if I'm being totally honest, if my nigga was a troll, you wouldn't be having threesomes.

[Mandy B.]

It would be way harder.

[Wheezy]

I'd fuck people alone.

[Mandy B.]

It would be way harder to have threesomes with an ugly guy.

[Wheezy]

No. Like, honestly, the way pussy falls in our lap is lovely, but I. I don't know. And it's that experience I had on that trip. Like, I've dated some terrible people. Oh, my God.

[Mandy B.]

Wow.

[Wheezy]

So right now I'm just like, I'm lucky. He's fine, and one day he'll get older and maybe he's black.

[Mandy B.]

He's still gonna look.

[Wheezy]

That's not true, honey.

[Mandy B.]

That's not true. All I know is that nigga. What's his name? Rico Ross.

[Wheezy]

No, no, no.

[Mandy B.]

That nigga from Beauty and Black. I thought he about 78. Bitch, that nigga had his shirt off on his Instagram the other day. I said, now this is. I need a nigga that look like this is 78. Cause I'm. I'm probably gonna be much younger, but,

[Wheezy]

you know, my boyfriend's very, like, hot and, like, he dresses well and he's stylish as fuck. And I wondered when I was. When we were hanging out with his parents at the theater park, I was like, is my nigga gonna turn into his daddy and wear church clothes to the amusement park as well one day? Will he turn into loafer man and. And sweat?

[Mandy B.]

Like, what will happen?

[Wheezy]

I was like, yo, even me right now. My mom's got that. Like, she still tries to be young and cute, but now she's in cardigan mode. Like, who will we be, Dawn?

[Mandy B.]

We'll be old. Just like.

[Wheezy]

Cause I'm seeing old shit happen to us. First of all, I know you went to Universal recently. I went on that Harry Potter ride simulator.

[Mandy B.]

No, no, no.

[Wheezy]

Took me down, bitch.

[Mandy B.]

No, no, no, no. That one in particular you saved to the end. I learned my lesson on that one, mind you. And you also do it. You do that, and then you get your goddamn butterbeer and then you go home, bitch.

[Wheezy]

It was bad.

[Mandy B.]

No, no, no, no. That Harry Potter simulator is the ride that made me feel like.

[Wheezy]

There is a photo.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, something like, it's not okay.

[Wheezy]

I didn't pay for it. But that was the first ride we all went on as a family.

[Mandy B.]

You don't do that. And I know it's the first ride when you walk in at the park.

[Wheezy]

This is.

[Mandy B.]

That is not the one you do first.

[Wheezy]

This is his daddy, eyes closed, gripping.

[Mandy B.]

I learned my lesson. It's not okay.

[Wheezy]

Gripping the seat, bro.

[Mandy B.]

They be having you acting like you flying on that broom, girl.

[Wheezy]

You know what? I asked the people when we walked into the ride? Swear to you, people lie. I said, hey, we have his parents with us. Do you think they'll be okay for this ride? Cause we got his nieces. And he goes, sure. This is just a simulator, bitch. We get off this ride. His daddy said, excuse me. You did not tell us the complete process.

[Mandy B.]

No, it's a. It's.

[Wheezy]

Bitch, I threw up.

[Mandy B.]

I. It is the. It's the ride where I have to end up closing my eyes. Everybody thought I was holding my piss and making sure I don't throw up.

[Wheezy]

It was so bad, Mandy.

[Mandy B.]

It was terrible.

[Wheezy]

I started crying tears. By the time we got to the

[Mandy B.]

symptoms, we are aging the fuck out of this podcast right now. We got to stop.

[Wheezy]

This is. No, no, no, no. This is how I knew I was old. So, my nigga, we get on the next ride because the girls are like, oh, we want to go on. Blah, blah, blah. We went on the Mummy, bitch, having a great time until it starts going backwards.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah, I know.

[Wheezy]

Mr. Ride completes. He said, yeah, I'm done. I said, I'm done, too, baby. We took a studio tour where they show you the differences.

[Mandy B.]

I love the studio. That's my favorite studio.

[Wheezy]

Lovely.

[Mandy B.]

You sit for 90 minutes.

[Wheezy]

That was great.

[Mandy B.]

I love the studio tour.

[Wheezy]

Oh, my God.

[Reggie]

Who's at sh.

[Mandy B.]

You don't oh, my gosh.

[Wheezy]

I love it.

[Mandy B.]

We get to drive us Jaws. Ooh, get a bitch holder.

[Wheezy]

They did that little King Kong. And I saw the VR screens. I said, ah, ah.

[Mandy B.]

I love it. No, the only time you shake a little bit is on the earthquake. I like it. This is cute. I had a lovely one. I love this one.

[Wheezy]

And we were there, and his dad was like this the whole time with the phone, not looking at the screen.

[Mandy B.]

It's the Vine.

[Wheezy]

The video was nine minutes long. He was just filming a whole tour. And I said, you know what? This is the best time I had. Am I getting old?

[Mandy B.]

I love it.

[Wheezy]

I'm talking about eating pussy last night while we're in bed waiting for them to leave so we can get back on the apps. And now here I am. Can't get on a ride.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah. No, I love it. I love it.

[Wheezy]

Jorge, we have a surprise.

[Mandy B.]

That's right. We are hitting the stage like we've done for so many years for one night only. Weezy, tell them where it's at.

[Wheezy]

So it's at Sony Hall, June 9. It's only one night only because it's not us getting a lawn score. And we just got getting along.

[Mandy B.]

I don't know why you keep saying tour.

[Wheezy]

Because one date for the tour. Because not us getting along, sis. If we keep getting along, we finna add another date.

[Mandy B.]

So whether you go to the Sony hall website or the description of this episode, make sure you get a ticket now, because it will only be one show until we decide to make it mo. Get your tickets now. June 9, Sony Hall, New York City. See you there. All right, well, let's get into, um. You know what? I'll let you name it. Do we Do. I added one. But would you? But would you? That's literally the question. So it's a reactionary video. And I have another reactionary video. Let's just do both. The first one we're gonna do is from my good friend Kendra G. Who sat on.

[Wheezy]

All right, we gotta have her on.

[Mandy B.]

I tried to get. She's not in town.

[Wheezy]

She's in la, right?

[Mandy B.]

She lives here.

[Wheezy]

Yep.

[Mandy B.]

But she wasn't in town this week. She is an pari. But this is a clip from when she was on the cameo.

[Kendra G.]

Situationships are the problem because situationships connect you to a person, and I'm a person that, like, I'm like, a monogamous person. I'm a monogamous woman.

[Wheezy]

So you're celibate.

[Kendra G.]

I haven't had sex. You're right. I Have not had sex since my last relationship. Exactly.

[Wheezy]

Are you carrying yourself? Damn, she looks gorgeous here.

[Kendra G.]

Yes, it's about. Since about almost two years.

[Wheezy]

Is it almost two years? Look at his.

[Kendra G.]

I'm more shocked that you're shocked. There's a lot of women that are not just out here having sex.

[Charlemagne the God]

Is it because of you or is

[Mandy B.]

it because of them?

[Kendra G.]

I'll go back to the guy that I was just telling you with. Cause that was a situationship. You know, he a athlete. You know, he all the things. You know, he a young cam newer. He got all the things. He in shape. He got the money, he got the attraction. But this is going nowhere. And I'm always gonna want more that

[Mandy B.]

he can give me.

[Kendra G.]

What I don't about situationships is you can get connected to a person that can never give you all that you really want. And it's not their fault because that wasn't the agreement. Right. But we're human. And usually the situationship only works for the person who genuinely doesn't want the relationship. But it can also skew women because now you have this man that you can sleep with, and let's say he got money to fly you to Spain and, you know, for your birthday, like, all these wonderful things, but that's it. Like, he can't show up for you on your mama's birthday or it's not gonna grow to that. And now when a guy comes along that could marry you or wants to be there, but maybe you don't got as much money, maybe he's not as exciting your taste buds. He can't provide your taste buds because it's like, oh, you want to take me to Applebee's for my birthday? Like, I'm used to going to Mexico. I'm used to going to Paris. Like, I actually disagree. To me, the situationship is dangerous. I think for women who want relationships, it is very fair to say I only have sex if we're in a relationship. There were a lot of things.

[Wheezy]

I'm starting to feel like we talk a little bit to industry and wealth. Like there's this big.

[Mandy B.]

That's why I always try to make it regular.

[Wheezy]

Yeah, so. And I know I take my part in some of the shit I say too, but in this particular clip, I agreed with most of the situationships only benefit one person. Totally understand.

[Mandy B.]

Wait, you. Let's, let's. Let's start there. You agree that situationships only benefit one person. And who do you feel like it benefits?

[Wheezy]

Whoever doesn't want to be in the relationship. Might be the woman, might be the man. But let's be clear here, right? Someone is going to catch feelings. To me, a situationship is way deeper than friends with benefits, okay? Situationship always seems to be a shared family experience, a holiday, an important milestone that does bond you. And so I'm also feeling very sensitive to this right now because of a great friend of mine who is experiencing. It's a man dating a woman. And I just really feel like it's not clicking for him how hurtful he is because he's a good guy.

[Mandy B.]

So how is he hurtful and a good guy? What is he doing that's hurtful?

[Wheezy]

So the sharing of the holidays, the showing up for her, he is doing

[Mandy B.]

that or not doing that.

[Wheezy]

He is. He's doing all of these things without the title. And the confusion that she has makes him feel like. But I said. And I'm like, bro, like, just because you're a good person and you're not a liar doesn't mean that you're so upfront and honest. And this like the one that doesn't need to be condemned because you know exactly what you're doing. You're adding connections, you're acting, you're bonding, you're building memories. Her family's going to remember you. They're always going to ask about you. She can't really date anyone else because she's so intertwined with you. Let's be totally honest here. Like, you don't even do other shit because you're so intertwined with her. Like, let's just say you have a trip to go on for work or she has something she's got to do. A work event. You both will never invite anybody else because you're each other's plus one. You're everything but the title. You're not that.

[Mandy B.]

Why is the title not happening? Because to me, they could. He could genuinely enjoy her company as a friend. But they fuck like, so to me, this isn't friendship.

[Wheezy]

This is romance and it's commitment. That's the issue. It is not friendship. But I know what you mean by that. This isn't friend company, bro. I'm homegirl company. That nigga ain't asking me to fudgeing go to a work event. He wants that person that he shares the intimacy with. Of course you do.

[Mandy B.]

You love her. Does he?

[Wheezy]

Yes. These are. These are common situations. I've been in situationships where a nigga was like, no.

[Mandy B.]

If a situationship is a man that loves you and isn't like, I don't I don't know if I view a situation.

[Wheezy]

Have you heard about this in your male friend groups? Are from homegirls saying this? I've heard situationships, for the most part, are described exactly like a relationship without the title.

[Mandy B.]

But I believe that both people benefit from it, which is why I disagreed in the clip. I don't think it's a benefit for one of the people.

[Reggie]

I have heard it before. Not in the sense of going to family events and bringing around your family, but definitely, like playing house, doing all the things, but all but saying, oh, I don't want a relationship. It is hurtful because at some point you're going to come to this point where it's like, all right, we're going to decide something. Like, something's gonna happen. And it's like, one person may be thinking, oh, we're gonna keep going on. And others, like, I never wanted that in the first place.

[Mandy B.]

Well, and that's the problem. Like, if you have someone, if you want the title, like, you have to be able at this point to walk away from it if you're not getting what you want from.

[Wheezy]

I definitely agree with you on that one. But I think that where the confusion comes in. I'm not even gonna say man or woman here. Cause I don't wanna make it a gender thing. The confusion comes in. The person that wants to walk away is watching the things happen that seem like a relationship thing. And it feels like a progression to a relationship. For example, I had a conversation with my.

[Mandy B.]

But it's not a boyfriend about this.

[Wheezy]

Because I found out someone he dated in the past went to a family event. And I was like, but I thought y' all weren't anything serious. He's like, we weren't. I had to go to a wedding. And I'm like, yeah, but, like, what? Naked? Like, you brought her in front of your mom, your aunts, your. All this. And he has a huge family. And I'm like, but you made me feel like when I met your family for the first time or did something with you, that it was important. And he's like, well, that was a wedding. You met my mother on her birthday at a dinner. And this is a conversation we had a while ago. And it always strikes a chord with me because he's like, what is the big deal that I took a girl I was fucking with, that I fucked with. She's cool. To a wedding? Like, why does that make you feel like I misled her? I'm like, yo, because you're still being introduced to immediate family in a way that you could have went to that wedding alone, but now you didn't want to.

[Reggie]

Who wants to go to that wedding alone?

[Mandy B.]

I don't even say, like, why do we always keep saying, like? This is a tale as old as time. Like, meeting family does not mean anything more than you're meeting people that I'm related to.

[Wheezy]

Like, we.

[Mandy B.]

Like, that's the thing. If someone is saying that this isn't that serious or I don't want a relationship, like, we have to stop reading into the tea leaves that it's something that it's not.

[Wheezy]

And to that point, one of the. Where the fuck you got reading into the tea leaves from? I never heard you say that, bitch.

[Mandy B.]

I read books. I've been reading.

[Wheezy]

So basically, one of the things I had said was when we ended up getting into a committed relationship, I made a comment to him like, you know what? I didn't really know that this is where this was going. It was the end of 2023 when we met, and I was like, I just didn't see this happening. And he's like, how? Look at all the shit. Look at where our relationship was going. And I was like, I really feel like niggas will do all that. Who gives a fuck if we spend a holiday together? Who gives a fuck?

[Mandy B.]

Like, and they will. But that's the thing. Until you actually communicate it. When a man says, I don't see nothing or I don't want a relationship again, it's always the silent with you. And so to me, as. As women or as a man, if you're being strung along by a woman, the same thing. Like, you gotta leave if it's not what you want. And I do think, though, that situationships can benefit both people until one wants more. Because there are women that don't necessarily know what they want.

[Wheezy]

Do you know a situation. Oh, sorry, go ahead. A situationship where I didn't want more. The guy said something so specific to me that I was like, ooh, this is an interesting one. There was a day he sent me a message about how he knew I wasn't interested. I had went on a girls trip, I can't remember. Tulum or Miami, one of the two. And I ain't really hit him up. And he said, I remember seeing a clip of you once talking about being drunk, calling your nigga. Cause you missed him and you hated being with the bitches. Because once you get to a certain point where you drunk, you'd be like, I want my man. He was like, you ain't call me at all. He's like, and I know you wouldn't win. Noah wasn't a kid. I saw your stories. I knew you was with the girls. He's like, you just really did not have me on your mind. And that's how I knew, like, oh, yeah, I ain't it for her. And I was like, damn, if only we could be so smart as to read between the tea leaves, bitch. I really was like, okay. Even though I ain't wanna lose that nigga. I was like, damn, he kind of right. Cause I was.

[Mandy B.]

I mean, in the thing, I think we choose to be blind in situationships that have ran its course.

[Wheezy]

Yeah.

[Mandy B.]

And so I don't know. Like I said, I think that it benefits both people. I did also disagree with her with the change of the taste buds. I mean, I think, like, I just.

[Wheezy]

That's crazy.

[Mandy B.]

That was crazy. I just got invited to Cabo, and I was like, no, I'm good. Me and my nigga right now do nothing but try to compete with burger spots.

[Wheezy]

That's cute.

[Mandy B.]

And to me, I'm just like, nope, I'd rather go find a Smash Burger spot and compete. Like. Like this idea of taste buds becoming grandiose. If you have a nigga with money and now that's all you want. Like, I think when you get to a place where you genuinely want intimacy and romance, there's just other things that come with.

[Wheezy]

And that's the industry shit I'm talking about. Like, we just watched the Manosphere doc. We talked about it on Patreon, and the Fresh and Fit guy's girlfriend is on there. And one of the things that people would assume is once you're fucking with a nigga with money, this is all you got. Just like Kendra G. Said. That girl made a clip after the doc came out, and she now has a boyfriend who's a truck driver. And she looked super happy. Her face. Her facial features look different. When you carry sadness and you're happy on your face. Y' all saying I look great in the comments shirt. A bitch did take them Chinese pills. However, I'm really happy in my life, and I believe I'm carrying myself a different way because I'm feeling lighter and she looked happier to me. I know that glow. I know that look. And that, to me, I know they got a lot of money than Fresh and Fit niggas. I know they have a huge show. Whether I think it's great or not, a bunch of people follow it and like to spend money on it. And that really shows you right then and there.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah, Doug, Cassie went from diddy to the goddamn trainer. Like, hello. Like, yeah, money definitely doesn't bring happiness, especially when it comes to relationships.

[Wheezy]

But he went to the you did the things and you realized those men were nothing.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah, all the time.

[Wheezy]

That's why niggas be talking about this

[Mandy B.]

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[Wheezy]

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[Mandy B.]

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[Wheezy]

It's been a minute.

[Mandy B.]

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[Wheezy]

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[Mandy B.]

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[Wheezy]

Okay.

[Mandy B.]

Who was right, who was wrong, who was the victim? Who was the perpetrator?

[Wheezy]

That sounds fun.

[Mandy B.]

And let's dissect what took place in these and also bring it to a regular. Like, what would you do? So the first one, Shaquille O', Neal, speaking of situationships, recently welcomed a baby at 54 with a woman that he's not with now.

[Wheezy]

How old Is she. Does it say.

[Mandy B.]

I want to say she's in her 30s.

[Wheezy]

Is she black?

[Mandy B.]

Her page was private. I did try to go. I did try to do my research.

[Wheezy]

So I know two white women he fucked, one black girl he fucked. And they all said the same thing

[Mandy B.]

about him, that he sweats a lot because he was also in superheads book.

[Wheezy]

They all said he was kind of like, gross. And I don't know if that's true because I wonder if maybe he's just got some, like, man habits. Maybe he's a little messy or whatever, but like. Actually, you know what? Let's cut this out because we might have him on the show one day. Make a mark for me.

[Reggie]

I'll mark it.

[Mandy B.]

But by. By the way, this speculation comes as also his possible seventh child, as he is currently publicly known to be a father of six. I don't know what you got. Yeah. What you got cut out. But I'm curious your thoughts on a man at 54 birthing a child with someone that he's not committed to.

[Wheezy]

By the way, I'm gonna be honest here though. Yeah, I'm pro choice,

[Mandy B.]

not your pro choice. Where are we going with this?

[Wheezy]

I'm be honest with you. I don't know if it's so irresponsible of him more than. I think that's a dual party thing. Nick Cannon's different. He needs to be sterilized and do what it's. But when it comes to Shaq, he's 54. I don't know if something maybe happened, but them two people made that choice.

[Mandy B.]

I also think they did.

[Wheezy]

I also think you need to be. And for someone he's not with. Let's just say that have I had sex with someone without a condom in my lifetime that I wasn't with. I'm 35 years old. It's happened. Okay.

[Mandy B.]

Yes.

[Wheezy]

Has it happened to her? Has it happened to him now? Did I let all that happen? Was it. Would I have done it? Would I have not had a plan if there was something, some mistake? Okay. But some people are different. So I can't say she got pregnant and she wanted to keep her baby. Okay. But I can tell you right now, I don't give a fuck. He was rich as hell, fine as hell. If it's not someone that I'm with, if it's someone that would be too old, if it's someone that I didn't. I just.

[Mandy B.]

There's just so many levels of selfishness I think that come with an older man.

[Wheezy]

Monetary gain is a big one. And I. For me, yeah. A woman in her 30s who's sleeping with someone so much older and so much wealthier and more famous, it's hard to not think it's for the money. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I just argued down one of my homegirls this. She's dating a guy in his 50s, she's in her 30s, and she's talking about how much she loves him and this and that. And I'm like, bro, no, she is in love with him. They have a great time together. He's handsome. He looks young. But I was like.

[Mandy B.]

I'm like, shit, bitch, met the man 50. Like, look at the 50 year olds right now, okay?

[Wheezy]

He ain't met the man hot. Let's just say that, okay? And I was like, yo, but he's handsome enough.

[Mandy B.]

Okay?

[Wheezy]

Stop the cat, bitch. I literally said to her, I think

[Mandy B.]

you have fun with.

[Wheezy]

No, I.

[Mandy B.]

My ex was 17 years older than me.

[Wheezy]

This ain't the one, okay? When they out, he looks like he could be an older gentleman, okay? He's a white man.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, no, they age differently, okay?

[Wheezy]

So here's the. But he looks good. He looks good for his age. But my point is, we have to stop acting like his money didn't attract you when you saw him at the bar. I was with her that night. I remember exactly what we said about the nigga. I said, damn, he look rich. The first thing I said.

[Mandy B.]

So for this one, you would say they're both selfish. They're both selfish, so they're both guilty. Okay, next one. After he got caught cheating, Klay Thompson says he thinks he's non monogamous. Now, I want to lean into the conversation of if you are in a relationship with someone and they bring into it later on that they're non monogamous, if there's a problem or not. Especially if it's only being brought to the forefront because they got caught cheating.

[Wheezy]

I am a non monogamous girl. I have been non monogamous for 11 fucking years.

[Mandy B.]

Yep.

[Wheezy]

He is disgusting to me, okay? He's a disappointment, okay? And he doesn't represent the community I'm in. I will tell you why.

[Mandy B.]

But he's not in it yet. He said he might be. He thinks he's non monogamous because he's also known to be cheated on already.

[Wheezy]

So you're not. And I know a lot he may be. The point is, when you meet somebody non monogamy to me, and I'm just Going to be transparent here. And I will die on this hill.

[Mandy B.]

Yep.

[Wheezy]

You don't just decide it one day. You've already had it in your head a bit. You've had the thoughts, you know, the feeling. I kind of knew this around 17 years old, bro. Now, I started practicing non monogamy at 24. However, I knew very young, like, how my feelings were, how I could spread love in different places, how I could have an attraction to one person and still care about another. You know it. You don't grow into hope.

[Mandy B.]

Now. We didn't start this podcast, however, until 2017. For me, I did not know what ethical non monogamy was.

[Wheezy]

I didn't know what it was either. There was no language.

[Mandy B.]

Right. So there is now. And so him saying it. There's a lot of people now being informed of the decision and way to say and express that they are non monogamous. He's okay. He's 36. Kat. Our age is the cap. I think that there's.

[Wheezy]

This is the cap with them.

[Mandy B.]

But there's cheaters.

[Wheezy]

Megan has probably made it super clear. Mandy, especially when she wrote that thing, I already really believed her. I told him I wouldn't put up with this. X, Y, Z.

[Mandy B.]

Now, I didn't see that one.

[Wheezy]

She was like, I'm not dealing with. She wrote that. Like, I won't be dealing with cheating or lying.

[Mandy B.]

No, she didn't say that in the message.

[Wheezy]

She talked about it in her caption, not the story.

[Mandy B.]

We have it on our page. It's not there.

[Wheezy]

It's in the caption. Meg the stallion.

[Mandy B.]

It's right here.

[Wheezy]

And she spoke to a magazine.

[Mandy B.]

Cheating, had me around your whole family playing house. Got quote, unquote, cold feet holding you down through all your horrible mood swings and treatment towards me during your basketball season. Now, you don't know if you send me. I don't know if you could be monogamous, Bitch. I need a real break after this one by y'.

[Wheezy]

All. Trust, fidelity and respect are non negotiable for me in a relationship. And when those values are compromised, there's no real path forward. That was her official statement. Now, to me, my non negotiables are said like on date 2, 3. If she really talked about fidelity in that way and you still put a ring on her finger, I think that's really mean.

[Mandy B.]

But he didn't put a ring on her finger. They were never engaged.

[Wheezy]

I'm confused now. Hold on. They were engaged.

[Mandy B.]

They were not engaged. They. No, they weren't engaged. They. She Posted a key like she may have had a key to the house.

[Wheezy]

Bought a house. Sorry. Yeah, yeah. If you're making a commitment with me, that to me is marriage. Right. Like same shit going on with me. Right. I think when you make a commitment in that way with someone and like hey, we're in it for the long haul, that's really terrible. I do think it's disgusting because I've definitely dated people that I knew we weren't in alignment with. When I dated hospital dick and he told me he wasn't with the non monogamy.

[Mandy B.]

I mean yeah, I was lying a bit. Actor BAE was willing to give it a try, but he wasn't non monogamous either.

[Wheezy]

And this. So on the other end is Meg saying fidelity is a non negotiable for me. You're telling me after you bought a fucking crib with me. Now you're not sure why? We're too old, bro. 36 is old and grown enough to know you shouldn't be playing with somebody into Madame Joyce's thing. Did the world know who? I have a lot of comments about that too. When she said he dated her and we all found out who he was. It's not true for us as Americans. It might be for the rest of the world. That was her point. The other thing I do believe clout is a drug. And I think dating one of the baddest bitches in entertainment. The bad. One of the baddest black women. It's a fact, Meg. Kiki fucking Cardi. Like there's women that are just. We're in awe of the girls love them. Everybody loves them. Meg is coveted in that way. And I think he did date her and just said whatever he could to be with her. And now we're in a point where you done played with someone's heart so much now you're tied legally through a fucking house.

[Mandy B.]

Like I didn't want this to be too much about Megan Clay. What are your thoughts on someone cheating, getting caught and then saying I'm non monogamous if they're jail in a regular. Okay, last one.

[Wheezy]

I hate him.

[Mandy B.]

Actually I have two more. Boston Richie's ex girlfriend exposed he's abusive likes underage girls. In pegging an explosive breakup.

[Wheezy]

Where the were you before the breakup

[Mandy B.]

now they started dating when she was 15.

[Wheezy]

Very gland.

[Mandy B.]

She's now 22.

[Wheezy]

I think that's so weird.

[Mandy B.]

What part?

[Wheezy]

I think it's weird to be a martyr for women and justice because you don't with somebody anymore. For example, if let's just say I only say it because you love him. Let's say we all know you love Chris Brown. And let's say you started working with him and he did something foul to you, and suddenly you were like, hey, he beats bitches.

[Mandy B.]

Huh?

[Wheezy]

Didn't you know that when you joined in? Like, why are we suddenly exposing people once we don't fuck with them? It's not a diss. Like, we all know what's what.

[Mandy B.]

But where's the. They got together at 15. Do you not have the empathy for grooming and all these things that maybe she didn't know and maybe she saw the light later.

[Wheezy]

Read what else she said.

[Mandy B.]

No, she explained it's not just underage girl. Well, pegging and that he beat her ass, she posted pictures. She did all of those things to me.

[Wheezy]

It's hella weird. Now, the underage girl thing, you want to bring that up because, you know, it's a buzz. A hot topic thing with Epstein. Take that away.

[Mandy B.]

9, 15 year old reached out to her in the DMs after she exposed him.

[Reggie]

That seems too exact.

[Mandy B.]

No. Well, she said nine girls. She was posting the D. I know

[Wheezy]

who you're talking about. The other thing I think is awful because you were cool with the. When you was with the. And now you want to say that he was whooping your ass once you leave him. Like, I don't know.

[Reggie]

I just, like, did getting hit on not bother you when you were together?

[Wheezy]

That's what I'm saying. Like, when stuff stops serving people, like, they want to, like, expose someone. Now, if you escaped a tough relationship, I'm like, but the reason that, you know, it's not genuine is the pegging conversation. Are you talking about the sexual. Like, who gives a fuck? Don't get me wrong, he's a dog because he put his hands on you and he fucks 15 year olds. But the pegging, we need that.

[Mandy B.]

Okay?

[Wheezy]

And I think because she brought it up, that kind of shows the malice and the intent. It's not something like, you're really trying to be there for the girls.

[Reggie]

Well, I don't know if you guys know this, but when girls break up with guys, no matter how bad the breakup is, like, that's like a level 10 breakup. Or for like level 10 of what's going on, even if it's like a level three, they're gonna try to smear him for most cases. Like, a lot of women do that for sure. They'll just try to like, smear or like, just say Whatever. To embarrass him to their friends or to whoever.

[Mandy B.]

Well, this was in retaliation because he made a diss record about her.

[Reggie]

Oh, I didn't.

[Mandy B.]

So then there's that.

[Reggie]

Yeah.

[Mandy B.]

Last one. Ray J admits to sleeping with 12,500 people.

[Wheezy]

I believe it.

[Mandy B.]

Do I believe it was boys and girls?

[Wheezy]

I believe it was high. Maybe.

[Mandy B.]

I don't believe. I don't believe it.

[Wheezy]

But I believe it's in the thousands.

[Mandy B.]

I don't. Here's the thing I don't believe in. In what he's shown us, especially over the last couple years, that he knows how to count in some of the states that he.

[Wheezy]

Okay, so when I said I believe it, I just meant it's huge. So let me tell you some little

[Mandy B.]

insider tea about 12,000.

[Wheezy]

And I'm gonna tell you who it was once we off the mic. One of my homegirls was sleeping with a Laker. We went to this party and we talked about the volume of women and how forgettable they could be. And he said, since I've been in the league, I guess I'm up to maybe 2,000. And I was like, there's no fucking way. He's like, how much did Wilt Chamberlain have?

[Reggie]

I don't know. And I'm about to look it up. I was just thinking about.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah, was it. Wasn't his, like, 100,000, something like that? Or 90,000. Hold on. I know Chamberlain has numbers. Or was it a million? He literally put it on a car.

[Wheezy]

He said, when I'm not home with

[Reggie]

my girl, 8,000 in his lifetime.

[Wheezy]

8,000.

[Reggie]

20,000.

[Mandy B.]

20,000.

[Wheezy]

I can't believe it. So this nigga said, if I go on the road, I probably fuck two to three women in that city. He said, one that's waiting for me, then when she leaves, a bitch when we went out that night, then probably her friend, he's like, it's always two to three. He's like, so then I'm home with my girl for two days. And then he's like, so every week, it's probably six to eight women.

[Reggie]

The group activities. Probably adds.

[Mandy B.]

The group activities does for sure. Which, mind you, he did say that

[Wheezy]

he knows 72 weeks a year. Let me see.

[Mandy B.]

Because he celebrated when he made it

[Wheezy]

to 10,400 women a year.

[Mandy B.]

I think that's possible.

[Reggie]

I think Charlemagne did the math on one of the. On, like, brilliant idiots or something. It was, like, ridiculous.

[Wheezy]

That, to me, actually isn't.

[Mandy B.]

Well, let's be clear. They're not even playing for the full Year they're only playing from October to April, and then if they make the playoffs through June through May and then June, if they in the finals and them niggas don't really be fucking when they make it to like, the, the playoffs and stuff or so I hear they locked in. I wouldn't know. But so I hear they don't really be fucking during the playoffs. But I mean, I, I, I believe it to be true. I mean, but that's where I say, I think that there's more than just women in there, personally.

[Wheezy]

Nah, I think you can get the numbers up if you're not bi.

[Mandy B.]

I think that bi people have those numbers. I think you and I, we don't have those numbers.

[Wheezy]

Thank you so much for listening to this show. Horrible Decisions is on Patreon.com. this bitch is taking it too far.

[Kendra G.]

No, I'm not.

[Wheezy]

It's called clothes.

[Mandy B.]

I think bisexual people numbers are astronomical compared to heterosexual.

[Wheezy]

I don't know, I, I haven't been to space, so I don't know, bro,

[Mandy B.]

you and your don't like 20 in a year together?

[Wheezy]

10, bro.

[Mandy B.]

That's.

[Reggie]

You got to think about gay people and then just add, you know, because, you know, a lot of gay people have sex, apparently. So I've, I've been told. I, I have lesbian homegirls that tell me this. And then you just got to add

[Mandy B.]

on, oh, let's don't even get to the list.

[Reggie]

Yeah, so that's what I'm saying.

[Mandy B.]

Lesbians, they don't even count bodies. For real. Because it's a little.

[Reggie]

They don't count.

[Mandy B.]

It's a little scissor, a little penetration. They don't count because there's no.

[Wheezy]

Which is why I don't know what you're talking about.

[Mandy B.]

See what I mean? So the lesbians is different. And then we know gays are hypersexual. So to me, a bisexual man, that's

[Wheezy]

not fair to say. Hypersexual.

[Mandy B.]

Why is that not fair to say?

[Wheezy]

You can't put that on.

[Mandy B.]

I think that you were. If you were bisexual, you could take breaks from the other.

[Wheezy]

We don't say that is hypersexual.

[Mandy B.]

No, no, no, no, no. Bisexuals are hypersexual. You don't think.

[Reggie]

I think it's built in.

[Mandy B.]

It's built, bro. And if one pisses you off, you go to the next. You don't have to take a break. And then you could join them together.

[Wheezy]

You got to wrap this up.

[Mandy B.]

Why?

[Wheezy]

Because now you.

[Mandy B.]

Wait, are you disagreeing with Me or are you. Do you feel. Do you feel attacked?

[Wheezy]

My attraction to people doesn't make me hypersexual.

[Mandy B.]

I think that you have a.

[Wheezy]

You said there's that jerk off every day in their basement. They're hypersexual.

[Mandy B.]

What did you say earlier about attractive people? Whoa. And you're attractive. You're definitely. What did she say earlier about the attractive people? Opportunity. Oh, yeah.

[Reggie]

There's way more.

[Mandy B.]

So when you're attractive and bisexual, the opportunity to have sex is extremely high. And at the finish, like sex. And then you have a sex this podcast and then people are throwing it at you, and then you date and you've been non monogamous for 11 years

[Reggie]

and you have money and you got money.

[Mandy B.]

So then. Wait. Not only are you people in your city, it's across all these different cities.

[Wheezy]

You need to calm down.

[Mandy B.]

Ghana.

[Wheezy]

Okay, I didn't. I haven't traveled in a while.

[Mandy B.]

I didn't.

[Wheezy]

I was on the girls trip from hell in Vegas.

[Mandy B.]

That doesn't mean anything. You're projecting right now. It doesn't matter. So are you. I didn't fucking Ghana. Why did you just bring up Ghana?

[Wheezy]

I don't know. You said other countries.

[Mandy B.]

You do. You fucked in Panama, you fucked in Mexico, you fucked in doctor. You fucked.

[Wheezy]

So I like Latin America, but I

[Mandy B.]

would love to only because when we first started this pod, we had an hour. We have to go. You thought to claim you sat on this mic and was like, don't even do it. I got a list of everybody and bitch, I have to keep adding names that you didn't have and I have it still. You do not have a list. Now who. Bitch, no, you do not.

[Wheezy]

It's the same list.

[Mandy B.]

No, it's not.

[Wheezy]

Yes, it is.

[Mandy B.]

All these women. Are you. Are you adding the women's bisexuals thing?

[Wheezy]

Hold on, let me see the last.

[Mandy B.]

Have you added all the women? Look at him smiling. Oh, wait, there was bisexual.

[Wheezy]

It's true. Hold on. Men and women have a list.

[Mandy B.]

Hold on, hold on. You do not have a list of these. I know how to get to the

[Wheezy]

list, cuz all I have to type in is fireman.

[Mandy B.]

You do not. Fireman for fireman. I got this fire come.

[Wheezy]

Oh, wow.

[Mandy B.]

I haven't added to it, see for two years. No, this bitch gotta add a hundred dollars.

[Wheezy]

November 19th, 2023. Oh, wow, look at the. Mandy, read the. Read the women. Cause this so fucking funny.

[Mandy B.]

Let me see. This is. You have way more women than this.

[Wheezy]

I know, but this is recent. Holy.

[Mandy B.]

No, it's not you left out. I was so many people.

[Wheezy]

But read the last three women.

[Mandy B.]

We haven't even been friends for a long time and I'm looking at this, seeing people names that you missed out, bro. Mind you, you want to know? It's crazy. This is how you know she looking at this list and trying to not make it seem like a lot. Why the last name? Mexican foursome. So we're. That's two people.

[Wheezy]

I said they end up.

[Mandy B.]

She only has one line. Mexican foursome, bitch. That's two lines.

[Wheezy]

I haven't updated it. Okay. Thank you so much. No homie Bard is coming out on paper.

[Mandy B.]

This is not true. That list is wrong. I'm not having fun anymore because you're in denial. And let's. Let's just be wrap it up then let's be honest. Bisexuals is outside. And bitch, I'm bisexual. Why you acting like this was just an attack on you? Listen, bitch, I told you I fuck bitches and don't know their name. And then they got to tell me I fucked them. I be like, nice to see you again. I be bitch, I don't know.

[Wheezy]

So June 9th, no holes barred. We are New York Times bestsellers. It's not a hypersexual book at all. And when you go on our patreon.com horribledecisions no, you won't hear about my nigga making me eat come out of my pussy with a spoon. No, you won't hear that.

[Mandy B.]

No, you won't, because you didn't even bring it up because you keep to your bitch. Your ADD has been so bad today.

[Wheezy]

Thank you

[Mandy B.]

guys. Thank you all so much for tuning in to another episode of Decisions.

[Wheezy]

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