EP 477: Heauxs Can Get Married Too!

Summary

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Podcast Summary: Decisions, Decisions – EP 477: Heauxs Can Get Married Too!

Release Date: June 15, 2026
Hosts: Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Podcast: The Black Effect Podcast Network & iHeartPodcasts

Episode Overview

In this candid, humorous, and deeply personal episode, Mandii B and WeezyWTF celebrate love outside traditional boundaries, sharing the full behind-the-scenes story of Weezy’s engagement. The hosts challenge the stigma around “heauxs” and marriage, reflect on their one-of-a-kind live show, and dig deep into themes of self-worth, family, non-traditional relationships, and redefining what love and partnership can look like—especially for women whose lives don’t follow old patriarchal rules.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Kicking Off: Joy and Vulnerability Post-Engagement

• The episode opens with Mandii and Weezy’s signature irreverence, diving straight into Weezy’s recent engagement and all the accompanying emotions.
  • Notable Quote:
    “Still ain’t scared to lose a N.”—Weezy (03:14)
• Weezy expresses mixed feelings about being public with her relationship while maintaining her anti-‘pick me’ ethos.

2. Live Show Recap: Community, Comedy, and Introducing the Fiancé

• The hosts recap their most recent live show, describing its energy and the nerve-wracking moment when Weezy introduced her fiancé on stage. The event was a family affair, with surprises for both fans and relatives.
  • Memorable Segment:
    “Lex comes up…with a bottle of champagne…‘hoes can get married too!’”—Mandii (07:23)

3. Family Dynamics & Navigating Public/Private Boundaries

• Discussing Weezy’s fiancé’s discomfort with live events and social media, and respecting boundaries when loved ones are present.
  • Notable Moment:
    Mandii checks in with Weezy’s fiancé before the show to ask if there’s any content he wants omitted for the sake of family comfort. (06:31)

4. Comedy & Community: Refining Their Craft for the Live Experience

• Mandii talks about prepping her comedy “set,” and how much of their touring has historically been improv. This show, by contrast, got big laughs thanks to weeks of preparation.
  • Notable Quote:
    “This was like a one time shot. So I’ve actually been preparing these jokes for the last two weeks.”—Mandii (09:01)

5. Integrating Kink & Non-Traditional Relationship Stories

• The show included new, kink-forward games and audience participation inspired by chapters from their book No Holds Barred, reflecting their ongoing commitment to showcasing diverse relationship experiences.
  • “We had four kinksters, which we've never had before…It was so much kink. It was great. So, so much kink.”—(13:13)

6. The Engagement Story: Real, Raw, and Full of Serendipity

The Build-Up & Proposal

• Weezy recounts in detail how her engagement unfolded, emphasizing the lack of spectacle and love rooted in mutual understanding. The proposal wasn't a fairy tale, but “meaningful to our relationship and my work.”
  • Quote:
    “He proposes to me in Central park…in no holds barred, I said, love doesn’t look like…a happily ever after. It's the …nigga you fuck with bitches that you met on Hinge.” —Weezy (26:26, paraphrased)
• Spiritual “555” moment: They play Uno, and Weezy wins on triple fives—the couple’s lucky number—a signal for her fiancé to propose.
  • Emotional Quote:
    “On the final round of Uno, I won on the numbers 555.”—Weezy (28:31)
• Both hosts get emotional, reflecting on past heartbreaks and learning they do deserve safe, fulfilling love.

7. Family & Parental Reactions

• Weezy shares the powerful and layered reaction from her father, who suffers from dementia, expressing both protection and love.
  • Touching Quote:
    “You don’t need any other man to take care of you. I'm gonna live to be 120. I'm gonna see your children.”—Weezy’s dad (51:15)
• Discussion of generational beliefs: marriage as protection vs. marriage for love.

8. Challenging Marriage as a Status Symbol

• Both discuss how marriage in itself isn’t a measure of worth, and criticize how some use it to judge others in the dating world.
  • Weezy:
    “I do not think marriage is a status symbol of place in life. I don’t think it makes you better.”—(52:18)
• Breaking the stereotype that “heauxs” can’t get happily married.

9. Rules, Rings, and Radical Honesty in Relationships

• Cheating, loyalty, and ring return policies: The hosts lightheartedly debate who ‘deserves’ to keep the ring if things fall apart, agreeing it depends on who’s at fault (54:31).
• Stress on not staying in marriages or relationships where harm occurs—choosing yourself is an act of self-love.

10. Blended Families, Cultural Differences & In-Law Conversations

• Weezy shares how her fiancé’s Nigerian family values her care for her aging parents and how cultural differences add texture to their love story.
  • “His dad got real serious...[asking] does she like African food?” (64:16)
  • Debate over whose exes are allowed at the wedding, and the freedom (and messiness) of doing things their own way.

11. Planning a Non-Traditional Wedding & Bachelorette

• The “warehouse rager” wedding vision: music, caviar, jollof, multiple DJs—a true blend of luxury and party. (68:27)
• Bachelorette wish list: Mexico, shrooms or Molly, queer/girls-only guest list (71:54).

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Hoes can get married too!” —Lex, via Mandii (07:25)
• “If I was ever truly in pain to the point where this man ruined me, this would turn into a five carat necklace.” —Weezy (54:03)
• “Love doesn’t have to hurt. A lot of people assume that love has to hurt—and it doesn’t.” —Mandii (60:49)
• “To me, me getting engaged is…because I embodied choosing myself.” —Weezy (55:08)
• “Warehouse rager…Caviar and Jollof.”—Weezy & Mandii on the wedding vision (69:07)
• “And to the bitch named Nysha…‘you’ll never get married.’”—Weezy, cheekily calling out online haters after her engagement (74:24)

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Important Timestamps

• Live show recap, engagement reveal: 04:29 – 07:48
• Family boundaries & what not to say on stage: 06:31 – 07:23
• Uno/555 spiritual sign, proposal story: 26:19 – 32:45
• Father’s reaction to engagement: 50:32 – 52:17
• Critiquing marriage as a status symbol: 52:17 – 54:53
• Ring return rules and self-worth: 54:03 – 55:08
• Cultural in-law conversations: 64:16 – 67:05
• Non-traditional wedding and bachelorette planning: 67:57 – 74:00
• Calling out the “you’ll never get married” Internet crowd: 74:24

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Tone & Style

• Unfiltered, frank, and hilarious: The hosts bounce between raunchy banter, genuine emotional vulnerability, and astute cultural critique.
• Empowering and authentic: Repeated affirmations that non-traditional, sex-positive women are worthy of love and celebration.
• Community-oriented: Listeners are “the whorehive,” and the show is as much about shared growth and breaking stigma as about personal stories.

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For the Listener

This episode is a feel-good, laugh-out-loud, and uplifting journey through what it means to love unconventionally, trust yourself, honor your story, and not let anyone else—be it family, an ex, or the Internet—define your worth or your path to happiness.

Transcript

[Mandy B]

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[Weezy]

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[Mandy B]

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[Mandy B]

Oh wait, are we going? Oh Decision decision.

[Weezy]

Dun dun dun dun dun dun dun

[Mandy B]

dun dun dun dun dun dun.

[Weezy]

Put them glasses on. You look like you in the wedding band. Bitch.

[Mandy B]

I can't see. I'm Stevie Wonderhole. Welcome everybody to another episode of Engage Decisions.

[Weezy]

Bitch.

[Mandy B]

We is here today like a holy matrimony to bring the love together. I'm your girl, Mandy B, AKA The Unengaged One, bitch.

[Weezy]

Damn. My name is Weezy, AKA I'm still not scared to lose a nigga. Ooh, how about that?

[Mandy B]

Ooh.

[Weezy]

Still ain't scared to lose a N.

[Mandy B]

But you in love, bitch. Don't come out here with that energy.

[Weezy]

Okay, wait. Can I tell y' all a secret? I hate that. At the same time, like, I want people to still believe me when I be like, I hate niggas. Fuck these niggas. Oh, my God.

[Mandy B]

They're not gonna kiss you anymore.

[Weezy]

You can start mine.

[Mandy B]

No, they're gonna start talking about you like the city girls and the girl rappers.

[Weezy]

Cause I'll tell you right now, I be inside of his dick skin, curled up, and then I pull the dick skin back, and I really be sitting there on the phone with my bitches while I'm in the dick skin like bitch niggas. Dang.

[Mandy B]

I see if she was worried about the music. No, we're unmonetized just for this first intro of a dick skin.

[Weezy]

Well, that didn't make it any better. I could be in love and also

[Mandy B]

know they going to listen to this and be like, all of these bleeps. Why do y' all do this? Hey, guys, if you want to hear the unbleeped version, get your ass over to Patreon.

[Weezy]

Except the one I got. No one can love you better. Okay, where y' all want me to start, B?

[Mandy B]

I mean, I think we should start. Do you want to start with the engagement or quick recap of the live show? Like, where do you want to start? Let's do live show, and then. Cause it's fresh, you know? Very fresh. Very, very cute. Very demure. And you introduced the audience to the man, so the man behind you, y'.

[Weezy]

All. We had such a good live show last Tuesday. Thank you for everybody that came. Lex surprised us. How cute.

[Mandy B]

I did not know she was coming. I knew Killa was coming.

[Weezy]

Alex, what a fucking Stole the show, which I. They forgot why they were there. Hello. But the most amazing thing to me was, like, this was a show where, if you didn't know, now you know. I unleashed my engagement, and he came out on stage, and we played a game together. I was more nervous. We've played for a crowd three times this size, dc, you know what I mean? And no DC down hall. No worries. But I think what makes it scary is I'm just like, you know, you just don't know if things will be well received and if People will show you love. And it was just. I was already feeling the love with. With, like, from people giving it to us that day. So it just felt even better. But I think for me, the main thing is, you know, my almost a boyfriend, he don't have no fucking Instagram, right? He barely takes photos in his phone. We go on vacation, we could be anywhere in the world and be like, oh, okay, that looks nice. Like, he just is a very, like, simplistic person in that way that's just detached from what I would say is, like, New age culture. And live shows is a part of New age shit.

[Mandy B]

I also wanna call Cap.

[Weezy]

Why?

[Mandy B]

This nigga was backstage. He was producing us. He's like, you know, I don't do this. I'm just a civilian. And then we get backstage and he's like, no. So I think you should do it this way. And then I come out like this and I said, but you just a civilian, but you producing us, nigga.

[Weezy]

You know what it was? Well, now I can share. His family came, and most of them didn't know that came, that we were engaged. That was a nice surprise.

[Mandy B]

Wait, for real?

[Weezy]

Yeah. I think only two of them did. And then he invited six people. Only one knew.

[Mandy B]

Wow.

[Weezy]

So that was why he was like, okay, like, for this show, like, how nasty you and Mandy about to get. Like, are you gonna be talking about how niggas dogged you out? Like, bitch, can you calm yourself down?

[Mandy B]

And I will say, like, there was a conversation that me and him had before going on stage. Because now that, like, we cool, I said, dang, I guess I gotta respect this bitch. So, like, again, you already know how we, you know, used to be. And so I went to him and I was like, hey, is there anything that you don't want said? Like, because this is yalls moment and I know we're up there doing jokes and we nasty and we free codes and all this, right? But is there anything you don't want said? And because I do know your family is coming. I didn't know what family members. And it's funny. Cause he did say. He said the only thing. If you could just. If you could just not say, like, how big of a ho she was before she got with me. Like, because I don't want my family to. Like, I just don't want them to just, like, just don't say, dang, bitch. Hoes get married. Hoes get married, ho. Like, don't talk about how big of a hoes.

[Weezy]

And that's the first thing Lex said,

[Mandy B]

hold on, hold on. So Lex come up on stage and, bro, I almost cringed. So Lex. Lex, of course, was not a part of this conversation with me and him, but that's the one thing he asked. So Lex comes up with a bottle of champagne, is like, dre can't be here. But this is from me and Andrea. And I just want to let everybody know, hoes can get married, too. And I was like, oh, Lord.

[Weezy]

But you know what's interesting? It's never a policing of the pod. It's like, oh, shit. Like they're about to be right there looking. You know what I mean? And I think that gave him a lot of anxiety. And he would never say it did, but I get it, because he's just like, fuck it, she's entertaining on her show, whatever. But I think what it really is, because anytime I say something on the show, hey, can I say this? Can I talk about us doing this whatever spoon shit? Y' all will find out soon. I can't believe you did that. He more so is like, I don't give a fuck. But that night, I think it's like, oh, now I gotta sit in front of them while you do it. So it's just like you. But luckily, you know, it all was chill. I really actually wouldn't change a fucking thing about last. No, I'm not gonna lie.

[Mandy B]

Sorry, Whorehive. For anyone who missed it, this was by far the best show that we've ever done.

[Weezy]

And I will tell you, I don't think it had to do with the engagement.

[Mandy B]

No, I mean, just the flow of it. By the way, guys, comedians going in the profile don't look like this. I don't like this. I don't like the side.

[Weezy]

I don't like it. I don't like it.

[Mandy B]

I don't like it.

[Weezy]

No, no, no, you were great. Nandi. Shout out to Nandi Howard. Nandi, text me.

[Mandy B]

So I had bits.

[Weezy]

I felt like I watched a comedy show and I was like, oh, it was me.

[Mandy B]

I had bits. Guys, I practiced my jokes. And here's the thing, when we go on tour, a lot of it is improv, because we were doing like fucking 15 plus cities. So I say a joke, and if I got a laugh, I'll set it the next city. This was like a one time shot. So I've actually been preparing these jokes for the last two weeks. And so Weezy's like, what are we gonna talk about? And I said, well, I have jokes. She's like, bitch, what do you mean you Have a set. And I said, I got a set, bitch. And they laughed. The jokes hit.

[Weezy]

I was like, what do you mean? Anybody do.

[Mandy B]

I just talked about how I have a little dick. If I were to make it save.

[Weezy]

That was. Save it. Wait. This is not what comedians do, babe.

[Mandy B]

Wait, wait. Do you think that's the way. Is this my bit? Am I gonna go live?

[Weezy]

Am I recording?

[Mandy B]

Yeah, save that bitch. I'm going to tour my set.

[Weezy]

Do you think we're about to make a clip out of that? Shut the fuck up.

[Mandy B]

What is that?

[Weezy]

We're hiding my man's face and your jokes.

[Mandy B]

We filmed. Wait, we filmed the whole show? Is it going up now?

[Weezy]

We'll do some clips.

[Mandy B]

Okay?

[Ryder Strong]

This is life reduce.

[Mandy B]

I just thought my funny ass jokes don't get many. You're kind of doing. We'll make a clip out of it. Like y' all aren't going to show

[Weezy]

a thing that she needs to say it now.

[Mandy B]

Like they need. Because no. The conversation. They'll come out. We're not doing another goddamn live show, okay? Ever.

[Weezy]

We're approaching 10 years. A voice message I got from my friend.

[Mandy B]

I. My thoughts about the jokes wait.

[Weezy]

And I'm trying to.

[Mandy B]

I got a review in a voice note style also. He said something and I was like,

[Weezy]

oh, bitch, this is fucking. We're using this fucking quote as work as merch.

[Mandy B]

What is put it like 8:35. And I didn't want to just, you know. You know how like be pulling up

[Weezy]

to church and shit.

[Mandy B]

That feel like a goddamn sex church. Chicago.

[Weezy]

That's what I want to call our show. A sex church.

[Mandy B]

We can. That's. That's almost like St. John. He has like sex cult.

[Weezy]

Huh?

[Mandy B]

Sex church, sex cult, same thing.

[Weezy]

We can't make that merge. Sex church, sex church.

[Mandy B]

That's all he said. I thought you were gonna get something.

[Weezy]

Oh, no, no, no. He left a three minute one. I can't find the part where he said you were funny. That just got into that part.

[Mandy B]

It's there though. It's definitely there.

[Weezy]

But basically it was a three minute voice message of.

[Mandy B]

By the way, your friend is also serial killer. What do you mean three minute voice notes? Unacceptable. This bitch.

[Weezy]

Have you heard my voice note? You know how hard it is to

[Mandy B]

communicate you or not.

[Weezy]

Hold on. I asked for these. You never heard my greeting, have you Not.

[Mandy B]

By the way, Weezy does not accept my boundaries even though we are in a good space. This bitch barely. This bitch refuses to not send me voice notes. I do not open voice notes. I actually transcribe them, but you know how bad Apple is at transcribing. Gets the words wrong all the time.

[Weezy]

Yeah.

[Mandy B]

Then I got to go back and listen because. What the fuck are you talking about? It's just type it or call me.

[Weezy]

No, I ask people. I'm trying to play it, but Apple be taking forever. But in my voice note, it's because

[Mandy B]

my voicemail deep jobs like the apple is really not what it used to be.

[Weezy]

Well, what am I supposed to go to the green text. That is fair.

[Mandy B]

He looked distraught.

[Weezy]

Touche.

[Mandy B]

You know what's crazy?

[Weezy]

You think I'm not going to deal with the bar spinning around like I've

[Mandy B]

got a fucking deal, bro. I got another line. I got a whole nother phone. So when I got the upgrade, I said, I'm not gonna do two apples this time. I'm gonna get the Android that like flips and folds. Bitch, that shit is on a table. Never turned on.

[Weezy]

You hate you're paying for that line.

[Mandy B]

It's too much work and I paid for it. It's just too much work like. And then it's like it's a square. It's a square and then I open it. But it's like my anxiety of learning a whole new type of screen that's very inconvenient.

[Weezy]

The only thing I do miss is the keyboard. Oh. But anyway, my voice message basically says, hey, I popular to the contrary. I love voice messages or some shit. Like leave me a voice message like to make me laugh. Like I say that on my greeting

[Mandy B]

and then people, what is your greeting?

[Weezy]

That's what I say. Hey, you've reached voicemail. Weezy like make you think I wait till the voicemail.

[Mandy B]

Bitch, you got three rings. I'm not making it to your voicemail because I wouldn't leave you a voicemail. I don't leave voicemails.

[Weezy]

I love voicemails. It's just nostalgia.

[Mandy B]

It's always fucking.

[Weezy]

Anyway, well, you don't gotta. Our live show was good. Let's talk about our performers really quick. So we had four kinksters, which we've never had before. I actually would probably do three next time. Just one opener.

[Mandy B]

But no, the two openers we. I liked having two openers and then one mid.

[Weezy]

So much kink.

[Mandy B]

It was so much kink. It was great. So, so much kink.

[Weezy]

Oh, let's talk about the game you created. Let's talk about that.

[Mandy B]

Oh, okay. So we played. If you've been to our show, we've done like blind date games. We've done dating games. This one was based off of. Of my unicorn story in no holds barred, if you guys don't know. We are also celebrating our baby turning a year. Ooh. And it kind of like what happens when a baby do something new. Maybe it got its teeth. So, baby, basically, our baby is now also available in paperback form. I'm trying to relate our book to a babe.

[Weezy]

Wait, run that through chat.

[Mandy B]

Wait, you don't like the. You don't like the joke?

[Weezy]

You got the goat joke.

[Mandy B]

First up, last night, you know. You know my jokes. I did not run through chat. I ran through with my nigga and he helped punch me up.

[Weezy]

Which one?

[Mandy B]

And then. I don't do that. You number one. Number one nigga.

[Weezy]

So, yes, no holes barred is basically what we based some of the themes off of last night. This was a completely brand new show, which is probably what made it more fun, too. We brought Hoetry to life, by the way. I just want to run this really quick. And I cannot believe y' all didn't get it. No, I can't believe nobody got this. Really shows how cultured all of you are.

[Mandy B]

Okay, no one got this.

[Weezy]

Let's see how fast the audience can get it. I think it's because how I read it.

[Mandy B]

I don't like how you read it. Don't do the same thing you do.

[Weezy]

You make me. Let's see if Wolf. You get ready, Wolf.

[Mandy B]

He'll probably know.

[Weezy]

Though you make me holler Though you make me sweat I can't get your tenderness still I can't get you off my mind what is it about you, baby? Wolf?

[Mandy B]

Do you know it? Oh, wow.

[Weezy]

I'm still in love with you, boy well, I'm a hustler and a player and you know I'm not a stayer that's just a dutty dutty. What the fuck?

[Mandy B]

I hate the duty, Dusty. I feel in love, boy.

[Weezy]

You make me. You know what's crazy? When Eddie played the song, everybody knew every fucking word because everybody knows it.

[Mandy B]

Like, whoa, whoa. Also, to be fair, Wolf is like, I think he's a little young.

[Weezy]

He's a funny guy.

[Mandy B]

Nuts. You grabbed my brain.

[Weezy]

It's fucking Mike. I ain't taking no disrespect.

[Mandy B]

I'm like, 31. I'm 33.

[Weezy]

I'm 31, bro. Wolf grew up with that song.

[Mandy B]

First off, you're a fucking DJ now

[Weezy]

that I say it, you know. Oops.

[Mandy B]

Huh?

[Weezy]

You know the song?

[Mandy B]

Yeah, I do know the song. But you know the video like,

[Weezy]

But

[Ryder Strong]

I'm from Texas, though.

[Weezy]

That ain't.

[Mandy B]

You know what I mean? Oh, that's right.

[Weezy]

Keep dancing. Okay, sorry.

[Mandy B]

Okay, this is an audience. But yeah, she used to do a little.

[Weezy]

Okay. So basically we did a brand new show. No holds barred was part of our kinksters. So I worked off the chapter, my Dom chapter. And Mandy did her unicorns in Mexico,

[Mandy B]

which means we had three audience members come up and they had to shoot. They shot. So they had to do a pickup line, talk about how they would set the mood and the meal they would cook if they hosted a night in their home. And then, of course, I made them do lap dances.

[Weezy]

So before the show started, I literally said to Mandy, you know what would be fun? Why don't we just bring my boyfriend up? This is before I was engaged.

[Mandy B]

No, I want y' all to know. I was like, fuck it. That Weezy is really coe. Even though she don't want to admit it, she literally didn't post her engagement video online. Cause she said, uh, I want to bring them out. We gonna announce it at the live show. I said, okay, you gonna hold off a week just so you. She said, yeah, you know, like, I want to introduce her. I said, oh, bitch, you coe.

[Weezy]

You know what it is?

[Mandy B]

You be acting like you're not coe.

[Weezy]

I really do.

[Mandy B]

You be acting like you're private and you really care about the Internet.

[Weezy]

That was private. We're not posting it. Yeah, that was just 500 people. Anyway, so just a sold out show. I was like, not thinking I was engaged. I'm like, fuck it. And then I had this idea of like, let's get a guy to do it with me. And then see if just like, not say he was my boyfriend. Just be fun and cheeky. And so literally a few days later, I call Mandy on FaceTime, y'. All. Which if I called Mandy to tell her my engagement, I ain't called many people. That's how, you know, we did it.

[Mandy B]

I felt so special. I come into the room and she started telling people. I said, oh, bitch, I knew before all these people, mind you. She called me when I'm in the bed with a N. And so she said, are you up right now? And I said, no. And then she's like, no, we should really talk about the live show. I have an idea. I said, weezy, I'm not up. And then finally she sends me the ring and said, bitch, I was calling to tell you I was engaged. Then I FaceTime back. But the fact that she thought I was going to FaceTime.

[Weezy]

I actually FaceTimed a little bit of everybody that I called. You know, the craziest reaction, actually, was Cammie Crawford, like, really, really screamed. I only hit her because she and I were engaging in the convo about bridal shit. We're not super close, but it was nice to share that moment with her. But, okay, so here's what happened. I have work that day. Everybody asked me, you know, it was going to happen. We picked out.

[Mandy B]

You thought it was going to happen four times before it really happened.

[Weezy]

Me not getting engaged on my birthday was crazy.

[Mandy B]

No the way. Or Chris.

[Weezy]

Mandy, it's going to happen. It's going to happen. Mandy, it's going to happen. Would you have preferred on your birthday?

[Mandy B]

Yeah, like most girls. I would like to know the difference in the moments where he had that

[Weezy]

mindset, like most people do, of like, let's let the birthday be the birthday.

[Mandy B]

But I was like, okay, I'm not mad at that.

[Ryder Strong]

I agree.

[Mandy B]

I actually agree with that.

[Weezy]

I actually think it's special on a birthday. It was a big birthday. It was 35th birthday, so.

[Mandy B]

But then it takes away from the big pot. Yeah.

[Weezy]

You get the birthday and you get the engagement.

[Mandy B]

I love. I love that he didn't make it, like, a holiday or a birthday, because then, you know, I'm not. I don't put.

[Weezy]

Oh, I didn't even realize the fucking one year of the book and how it was tied to my engagement. We'll talk about that. Oh, okay. I don't know if you know that. Oh, yeah. It was intentional. Okay. Let me tell y'. All. So I did think it was gonna be around my birthday, and then I did have a hint, and I'm glad it didn't happen this way. My father's birthday is June 1st, and he was saying how he wanted to be there for his birthday. And then I remember thinking he told me that months ago. I was like, I wonder if he would propose to me on my dad's birthday at the nursing home. Which actually, wow, was my first guess.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

Which he was going to do when I got there on my birthday or. No, when his parents came. My dad was just kind of having an episode that I thought was a real reality, and thank God it didn't end up being that way. But basically, he saw my mom and I that day, and you know when people have dementia and they're feeling sick, that just happens. He literally said, nobody else is coming here except for you, too. I don't want to see anyone else. Don't Bring any other people here. Because sometimes we do. I bring Brianda, I bring my man, whatever. And I'm just like, what? And so I'm saying to my dad my boyfriend's name, so I can't bring him nobody. He's yelling at me. And it was, like, really tough on me because my boyfriend's parents flew there expecting to meet Gotcha. So I came home and I was in tears. And I was like, yo, I don't know what this is gonna be like anymore. And he's like, listen, we'll just have to plan things out. When he's having a great day, then I'll come over. But it's just a bad day. It's just a bad day. I was like, I don't want you to see him for a while. Because I feel like now that intensity is the next person he sees. So he didn't come to LA for my dad's birthday. So I guess the only time he felt like he could do it was before I leave to la because he wanted me to show my dad and have that moment alone. So I had work that day, and I was having a terrible day. I woke up. I'm not even joking, y'.

[Mandy B]

All.

[Weezy]

I literally get up, threw up and shit.

[Mandy B]

And this is, at this point, normal.

[Weezy]

It's normal.

[Mandy B]

It's just normal for you.

[Weezy]

And I was like, oh, my God. My period started. I have Pepto Bismol on the counter. The pink is dripping. Cause I was rushing out the door for work. I get to work and I'm with Dave, who's been a longtime WTF Fenia employee and also is my main photographer, who my man knows, apparently. My man wanted to ask Dave to take pictures, but when he found out I was with Dave, he was scared to text him because he knew it would be ruined. And he was very sensitive about me finding out because, bitch, I'm nosy. So he was like, oh, let's go to Central park after. I'm like, ah, my blood is so thick, I can feel feel it. I didn't know it. All my fibroids. So I don't get out of work till 4. I was supposed to get off at 1. He's like, let's still go to the park. And he was like, you're about to leave. We're about to go to Europe. Like, you gotta go. I still didn't think nothing because of how shitty I was feeling. Then we meet up where my job is, on the city bikes. He's got Nina and some Uno. That's our shit. And I'm like, I'm in such a bad mood. He's like, why your period? I'm like, there was a clip posted on a blog and it was.

[Mandy B]

Don't say.

[Weezy]

I was like, it just makes us look like gossipy bitches. It makes the fucking cache of the show wait.

[Mandy B]

And that day, you're literally, you're literally like, I'm going to be off the Internet for the rest of the day. I said, you text that.

[Weezy]

I was like, mandy, I can't look at it.

[Mandy B]

I can't do that.

[Weezy]

And you're laughing, bitch.

[Mandy B]

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[Weezy]

Okay, so we get to the park and you know when New York's weather just fucks up? It was super hot and suddenly it got cold. And I was like, ah, I bitch up. Couple ain't a bitch. What's the point? Let's just go eat. He's like, yo, we're here. Then he, he didn't want to make a spectacle of it because we're in Central Park. And he goes, let's go under the shade. And I was like, huh? And he's like, okay, okay, let's just. He's like, fuck It. Let's just go in the center then. But I'm still not picking it up. He gave no clues away, except for one thing. We passed that Central park boathouse tavern on the green. He goes, cause he knew I had a bad day. Do you want to get a glass of wine or something to relax? And I was like, no. He's like, are you sure you don't want something? And he never offers me alcohol as well. It still doesn't sound like no, but that was just the only off thing. Then we laid down on the thing, and he's like, let's take some deep breaths. Which is actually still normal for him. But he wanted to bring me down from the anger. So he proposed to me in Central park. Because in no holes barred, obviously he wanted to do it with my father there. But the second best thing was in no holds barred, I said, love. Doesn't look like I'm paraphrasing what you think. It's not some guy that kicks a soccer ball and says, oh, my God, will you spend the rest of your life with me? Have a happily ever after? It's the nigga you fuck with bitches that you met on hinge. And so he was like, no, you can't have a happily ever after. So he wanted to do that whole thing with the soccer ball and role play and whatever. But the reason he didn't, we start playing Uno. And this part, to me was very spiritual and very connected. And I don't care if you think this is woo woo, whatever, you're woo woo. Our lucky number is 555. I talk about this often, okay? He said that the day he woke up, he sat in the house. He said out loud, he said him and Nina was on the couch. And he said, if I'm not supposed to do this, send me a sign, a strong sign. And if I'm supposed to do this, show me 555 all day. He said he didn't see the number. He said he was riding on a bike with me, looking at license places. And at one point he said, I have to stop looking for it. I have to stop looking for it. And he said he was getting annoyed because he still wasn't seeing it. We play uno. We always play three rounds of Uno. And on the final round of Uno, I won on the numbers 555.

[Mandy B]

Shut the fuck up.

[Weezy]

On my grandmother, on my auntie, that is exactly how I won. His face was so strong, and I've never seen him cry.

[Mandy B]

Bitch, that's about to make me Cry, because that's cute. Even though it's real. Woo woo, real witchy. But, like, that's because that's cute. It makes me about to cry because that's, like, that's really cute because I

[Weezy]

think I'm not a religious person. But you know how, like, sometimes going down, you just need to see something that makes you feel like you're going in the right way. And something about my partner that I'm. I haven't ever been through pain. He's never hurt me. I've just been hurt a lot. Damn. I'm not trying to get too emotional, but without getting too upset. I've been hurt a lot and feel like people try to make me feel. Thank you. Like, I don't really deserve love.

[Mandy B]

I need some too.

[Weezy]

And this isn't really about getting married more than it is about, like, getting something you want. Thank you, Simone. I really, really felt it in that moment too. And let me build on that for a second. I have been through really bad relationships. Not like, in the way of tormenting, but, like, they. They give me this feeling of, like, this is just how people are. Not even men. This is how people are. People will disappoint you to the point where I get used to the feeling and I know there's someone listening that we have this, like, wall up in this bridge up because you're like, I'm used to being hurt, so let me make sure I act a certain way so niggas won't hurt me. And some of you have even accused me of being not monogamous for that, just so that I don't get hurt, or I would like to fuck a bunch of people just so I won't feel pain. That's absolutely not true. The two are separated. And the main thing I could say about this person is, like, he's never hurt me. I've never had to call my homegirls asking for help and blah, blah, blah, and that, you know, maybe that day will come. I hope it doesn't. But I've been disappointed by him, but never just broken. And so when that five, five, five thing happened, it's a number we see a lot. And he's always said, like, I don't know who in our ancestors want us together real bad, but the last time I was in Sheep's Meadow in Central park, there's a butterfly that came on my face, and I have a tattoo that says butterfly on my ankle for my aunt. And the tattoo, the butterfly wouldn't leave my face to the point where Other people were taking photos of me. Like, this is so crazy. This is so crazy. And I was like, damn, is that my aunt? So in the 5, 5, 5 moment happened in the same spot. Now I feel like there's a portal in the ground. Oh, my God. Anyway, so he just kept going like, whoa, whoa. Like, a little too much. And I was like, what the fuck is good with this nigga? So he didn't do it then, I guess, because he still wanted to let the thing play out. A few seconds later, few minutes later, I said, man, I was not having a good day. And like, right now, I'm just having such a good day. I got my baby, I got uno fucking Nina's chilling. Honestly, I could just.

[Mandy B]

If we had some cheese right now,

[Weezy]

that's all I'd need. Got it.

[Mandy B]

Not cheese.

[Weezy]

Then that's when he pulled the ring out, bitch. And he was like, this is making it better. Whatever the fuck he said. I don't remember it. And I just. Mind you, this is. I didn't know what ring. We looked at rings together. I recommend this to everyone. I didn't know what ring it would be. I also didn't think it's gonna be that big because he was complaining about. He was like, how much is. He didn't complain. Let me not misspeak. But I remember him being like, oh. And she was like, this one is this much and this much. He was like, I think that's actually too much. I was like, no, it's not. I'm a big personality. I need a big ring. I'm a big person.

[Mandy B]

I have a lot of energy. I need a big ring.

[Weezy]

So the fact that he was big, when he opened that box, I was like, oh. But basically. So he proposes to me, and I started, like, really having a deep reaction, which I thought I would be cutesy and shit, but I was just like, damn. And I think everything flashed. I immediately knew it was a no holds barred thing, and I felt that it was thoughtful. I'm sure that at some world someone could think this was a cheap proposal. He should have had a fucking helip. Whatever. It was so meaningful to my relationship and my work. And additionally. And the thing that makes me cry, too, is, like, everyone has made me feel like my job and what we do will not get you deserving of love.

[Mandy B]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

This job in that book is exact. Mandy calls it her baby. That is exactly what brought me to that moment, you know? And for him to know it was in his chapter. It was just so dope. I don't even remember what he said. I know he ain't asked me. Bitch, he told me, you're gonna be my da da, da. And then he. I remember, he just goes, okay. And I was like, yeah, okay. Thank God for bitches in New York City. I'm gonna put the pictures here. But some girls noticed it was happening and just took some photos so we could relive that moment. Nina's in there. So let's talk about the crazy ass day after the engagement. Bitch, I get so excited. I'm so happy. And I said, I know you don't want me to be on my phone right now. Can I please just tell my mom? And he goes, okay, sure. I call my mom. Oh my God. Congratulations.

[Mandy B]

I'm so happy.

[Weezy]

I love you guys so much. Two seconds later. Oh, don't get upset.

[Mandy B]

Here, go, Ms. Jewel.

[Weezy]

I'm locked out of the house.

[Mandy B]

Oh my God.

[Weezy]

I'm locked out of the house, mind you. I'm like, there's no key. We have an electric thing. The fucking shit had to die.

[Mandy B]

Oh, it died out of all days, nigga.

[Weezy]

The fucking thing dies.

[Mandy B]

So. And you know how to.

[Weezy]

So I'm not.

[Mandy B]

You gotta get the big. You gotta get the big battery now. I do.

[Weezy]

I know.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, it happened to me.

[Weezy]

But it's because it came out the box. We weren't thinking, mind you. It said low battery that morning and I thought, well, I'll be there tomorrow.

[Mandy B]

Are you one of those?

[Weezy]

I didn't think it would die in one day.

[Mandy B]

I'm not gonna lie. You one of those. I feel like it says low battery. That's probably low battery the day before. No, people think low battery. Like when the gas light come on, people would be like, I got a money car Loma. Nah, A low battery. Like, no, that was done. Even me with the remote, I could know. I could see it stopped working and I'm just gonna hit it. Yo, me, I'm not gonna lie. I hit it. I'm gonna hit it a couple times before I even change the battery. That's why I know, bitch. She would have just let that shit.

[Weezy]

Mind you, I'm mad at my mom, but it really ain't her fault. I'm like, show me his ass some shit. Ok. So I was like. He was like, let's just have somebody else do it. I was about to ask a friend. I was like, no, let's just get the locksmith because they're about to be in the house. Gonna have to send us out. Let's just do this. So we try and do the locksmith at the same time. Getting close. And then finally I'm like, nothing's gonna ruin this day. Let's just go. Let's leave the park. Let's walk. So we found a locksmith. Walk out the park. I'm still crying. I'm still happy. And I screamed. And then I click on Instagram. For some reason, even though he told me, don't be on my phone. Yes.

[Mandy B]

And you said you weren't gonna be on the rest of the day.

[Weezy]

I think it was just like a reflex on your board. I happened.

[Mandy B]

I happened.

[Weezy]

He was doing something with the dog, and I clicked. I see a message from a girl named Tapasio. Shout out to Tia. We went to school together as kids. Congratulations. Wait, Tia.

[Mandy B]

We used to go to class.

[Weezy]

Yes.

[Mandy B]

Holy shit.

[Weezy]

Now why is Tia hitting me up?

[Mandy B]

I don't know, bitch. I don't know.

[Weezy]

Congratulations, Gilita. I'm so happy for you. Blah, blah, blah. Oh, shit. I'm like, huh? Your mom posted it on Facebook.

[Mandy B]

Oh,

[Weezy]

you know she didn't, cuz.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, she's locked out of that house. But she posted it on Facebook.

[Weezy]

I want to read y' all the fa. Oh, I was mad.

[Mandy B]

I know you was. Moms will always.

[Weezy]

I am so excited. Everyone, my daughter is now engaged.

[Mandy B]

Is it?

[Weezy]

I caught it at 11 minutes. Oh, my God. Congratulations, Gila. We love you. Congratulations to your daughter. Oh, my God, I'm so happy. I can't wait to contact Weezy. What, bitch? Can I spill my own fucking tea, girl? So then I called my mom, and then actually, this is the first time I saw my being kind of upset with my mom. He was like, yo, I haven't even told my mom. Like, oh, no.

[Mandy B]

Why would you put that on the Internet?

[Weezy]

Now someone else is gonna know. I wanna tell my parents before you even post it. And I was like, I got it, I got it, I got it. I called my mom and speaker mom,

[Mandy B]

take that shit down.

[Weezy]

Mom. What? It's so hot out here. When's the locksmith coming? Mom, why would you post it on Facebook? I. I can't do anything right ever. God damn it. She goes, how do I delete it? I said, the same way you posted it. Figure it out. Call one of your little friends. Okay, so we get on the train

[Mandy B]

now, how do I delete it?

[Weezy]

How do I delete it? So we get on the train and we're at Central Park. And I just want to say, my man hates the subway. He'll take the city. Bike or drive his car. He does not like the train for whatever reason. I don't know if it's some PTSD from him living in the Bronx or whatever. We get on a train, we make it two stops. So we are at a halt for about. I would say about 25 minutes. That's very long. But then we're like, you know what? It's like, hey, we're having a good day. Then finally, we were having an issue on with someone on the tracks at West 4th Street. I'm at Central Park. I'm back. I'm about a museum of Natural history. Okay. It's going to be another 30 minutes underground. So anyway, luckily, it opens, we jump out. There's so much congestion from people running out. Now I'm at Herald Square, which is already a shit show. If you live in New York, you know where that is. We get out. As we're getting out, it's been about 30 minutes. The locksmith came. Locksmith told us he would be 150. How much is he? He's like, hey, I'm here. And this is how he said it. I'm here in the house with your mom. It's now open. It'll be 275. So now I'm freaking out. I'm like, this man went up on the price, and he's in the house. My man grabs the phone. He's like, this is disgusting. This is scamming business. You never said this to us. You said 150. You should be sticking by your way while he's on the phone going off on a locksmith. Because I want to cuss him out, but he's, like, trying. My man is very calm. All of you have met him. You know this. He's not someone who gets hyped like I do.

[Mandy B]

Like you do.

[Weezy]

You. You. I know you get a little. So, bitch. While he on the phone with a locksmith, a homeless man, I swear to God, is literally doing this. And I'm like, so now other people. You're lying, Mandy.

[Mandy B]

I'm not.

[Weezy]

I cannot wait for him to tell you this. This is not an exaggeration. This has never happened to me.

[Mandy B]

I've had homeless people approach me.

[Weezy]

I've never.

[Mandy B]

You've lived here for, like, 15 years now, bro.

[Weezy]

I've never.

[Mandy B]

Are you kidding me?

[Weezy]

Mind you, I don't. It's so right. Bitch, you was crazy. We get in the car and we're just sitting there like this. It's only been an hour. False engagement. And so he's like, let's just go to our favorite restaurant, right? So we go there, we're eating, we're decompressing, and they bring us champagne. And I'm feeling good and I'm like, oh, I'mma suck that dick tonight. I'm a fuck. Because he's so exhausted. Knock the fuck out. I don't know if it was the emotion, like when they say people don't fuck on a wedding day. I don't know if they fuck on an engagement day either. Maybe they didn't get chased by homeless people, but it was crazy, my bruh. It was intense. So there was my engagement. I get to la, he doesn't plan on coming while I'm there, I'm like, you know what? I would like to do a shoot because the one you guys got to watch before this video because if we're going to tell it at the live show, someone's going to post it somewhere. Let's. I want to spill my own tea. So he's like, I'm sending pictures. He's like, this is corny. I'm like, oh, my God, New York pizza. I love it. Let's get the pizza. Let's do the hot shots. Let's go to our favorite bars. And he's like, well, I don't feel like this is screaming us. Like we don't really. Like, I don't know, something about it isn't clicking for me. I was like, well, what's the most us thing? He said music, and I don't know if we could depict that. And he was like, and the only thing we've ever created is our house in la. So he flies to la and the day before the shoot. Oh, no. It was the day of him leaving. Yes. Like, I wake up looking at my ring. I'm playing Always and Forever. And I'm like, oh, my God, I want to put my ring over the dress like a movie. And then I'm like, oh, it's not here. Dress isn't here, huh? Where the fuck is the dress? So then I'm going through the hanger piece by piece. I'm like, okay, I would have had it hung up, right Maybe. Now I'm checking the laundry, bitch. I've never worn the dress, girl. So I started freaking out.

[Mandy B]

Where did this dress come from?

[Weezy]

The dress I ordered for my birthday. And it was not supposed to be in white. It was supposed to be in black.

[Mandy B]

And it came in white.

[Weezy]

It came in white.

[Mandy B]

Look at the fucking universe.

[Weezy]

And I was like, what am I going to do with this? And then it was too late to return. It was a seven day return. I was like, fuck it, I'll just keep it one day, maybe I'll use it for an engagement photo. And then boom. So now I'm freaking out and I realize it's not in LA like I thought because that's where my birthday was. It's in New York. Must have brought it back to New York. So I called Simone was my assistant and I want to say it's maybe nine in the morning, I don't know what time, what time was it? It was early, like. So my man has to catch a flight at 2, no, 3. He's upstate. Ish. Like that's Westchester upstate to me.

[Mandy B]

Y'. All.

[Weezy]

Okay.

[Mandy B]

Above the Bronx.

[Weezy]

And so I call him and I'm like, I don't think the dress is here today. He's like, I'm not gonna be able to make it. I'm work, you know, I'm doing shit with the properties in Connecticut. How the fuck is this gonna happen? Brianda's gone, she's not in New York. So now I'm like, holy fuckin shit. Unlike Simone, who's also never been to my house by the way. I call her and I'm like, I'm not trying to freak out, but I need you to go to my apartment, get the key which that trap house, go into Trapp, get the key, go in my apartment, find this dress, then put in an Uber to send him. She's like, okay, it's not going to be a big deal. And I'm like, we're doing good on time. She gets to trap. She's like, what should the key look like? And that's when I knew the key wasn't there. Oh shit. I'm like, it's there, it's. Look for two keys. She's sending me big ass keys that open storage. You this bitch.

[Ryder Strong]

Okay, super.

[Weezy]

And I'm like, right, what the fuck is going on? So the super is not answering the phone. Now I'm having a panic attack, mind you. I'm not on the first floor or anything. You can't get into my apartment even through a ladder or some shit. I'm just like, oh my God, this bitch is gonna have to. So maybe I'll call the second locksmith now. So Brianda moved the key because she believed people would take the key from Trapper or something. But I guess she put it in a safer place and was like, the key to your house shouldn't be a trap, which is smart, really.

[Mandy B]

Fair, Valid.

[Weezy]

Really, really fair. So I called the super who's like, huh, Okay, I guess I'll look. He's a super for five buildings. He's like, yeah, it's not working. I said, I need you to go back and double check your work. You're telling me that a super to the building doesn't have a key to every unit? I think you need to start putting

[Mandy B]

the keys in the hole, sir.

[Weezy]

And bitch, I was right. My key was mismarked. Okay, so Simone gets to my apartment and then this bitch said, it's not here, Weezy.

[Mandy B]

Why was it not there?

[Weezy]

Why was it not there?

[Mandy B]

Because. Okay, so Wheezy doesn't have a lot of white clothes, right? It's a lot of like colorful black.

[Weezy]

So like, if I'm looking for a

[Mandy B]

white dress, if I'm looking for an

[Weezy]

important dress, you would think it would

[Mandy B]

be out in the open.

[Weezy]

Like it would be where you could see it.

[Mandy B]

If it's my engagement dress, I want

[Weezy]

it to be where I can see it.

[Mandy B]

But it wasn't an engagement dress. It was just a white birthday dress that came in the wrong color.

[Weezy]

Okay, that's a fair point. It was not my engagement dress at that moment. That's fair.

[Mandy B]

At that moment.

[Weezy]

That's fair.

[Mandy B]

But okay, more of the story I'm looking for. I'm picking up everything white. It's like one white dress, but it's a little dingy. So I'm like, this is a little.

[Weezy]

No, it is. I know what you're talking about. So. So I call her boyfriend.

[Mandy B]

I'm like, hey, like what does the dress look like? He's like, oh, I don't know. Cuz why would he know?

[Weezy]

But Weezy just. Weezy's instructions were very vague. She said, just get the white dress.

[Mandy B]

She just said the white dress. Wait a second.

[Weezy]

She didn't even. That sounds about right though.

[Mandy B]

She didn't send you a screenshot. I don't know what the dress looks like. I don't know where the dress is.

[Weezy]

I had to go shoot on. She just said, that's about right. But I just knew I don't have white dresses. I was like, she gonna find it, right?

[Mandy B]

Get the white dress.

[Weezy]

And then she found it.

[Mandy B]

I did. Because at this point I'm panicking, cuz it's almost like 12:30. I'm like, oh my gosh. Like it's not gonna make it to la. He gonna miss his flight. So I'm taking all of her clothes out. You know, we have clothes in the like, closet for a long time. They, like, start drooping off the hanger and they start falling. So I'm just throwing clothes. The dress finally falls. I'm like, look at God. Like, it was a sign from God.

[Weezy]

Then it looked like an engagement dress.

[Mandy B]

Yes. I was, okay, this is it. Like, this has to be it. She only has a couple white dresses.

[Weezy]

Like, this is it.

[Mandy B]

She finally gets out of class. She's like, la, la la la. Did you find the dress?

[Weezy]

I'm ready right now.

[Mandy B]

The la la la la la. Very accurate.

[Weezy]

That is, baby.

[Mandy B]

Very on the phone talking to somebody

[Weezy]

like, hey, what's up?

[Mandy B]

Y' all having a good day? I'm like, weezy. Like, I'm over here panicking. Like, you're not about to get this dress. Like, answering the phone.

[Weezy]

I just felt like it was really gonna happen. You know, it's funny what you said to me that I actually think is funny. I was like, I'm panicking. I'm like, are you? And you're like, no, it's going to be okay. And then once I heard her panic, I was like, oh, wait, hold on. I have to be the anxiety. But she was about to go to the airport for me to meet him. It was a whole thing. So I was really grateful for that.

[Mandy B]

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[Mandy B]

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[Ryder Strong]

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[Mandy B]

And he's doing that. And I think his teammates follow him

[Weezy]

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[Weezy]

is the moment we really did get to have with my dad. We get there to tell my dad, and I actually told my dad on his birthday when I was there with him solo. And it was really cute because I'm starting to notice how my dad's dementia affects. I had to tell him a few times, and he was just like, this is a very interesting thing. I actually talked to my therapist about it. His first thing he said when I said, daddy, I'm getting married was, you know, and he was talking about, oof. This makes me very emotional. My first boyfriend that I moved out with put his hands on me and I never told my dad. However, after what my dad said to me, I know my mom must have told him. Years later, he said to me when I said, I'm getting married, he goes, you know, I'm not so strong right now, but if I would have known, like, I would have taken care of you. And then he said to me, you don't need any other man to take care of you. I'm gonna live to be 120. I'm gonna see your children.

[Mandy B]

I'm.

[Weezy]

I'm. I'm a very strong man, you know, my very Strong man. My dad can't walk, by the way, or barely push his wheelchair. And I'm like, I know, Daddy. That's his reaction to me getting married. The second time I try to say it to him again, he says the same thing to me. You never need to leave us. You know, men are going to treat you good and. Or men are supposed to treat you good and like, reinforcing to me this thing that I realized. Bitches back in the day had to get married for money. They had to get married for security, protection. And that is what is going to his brain. Like, oh, you must think you need to be safe with a man, and you don't. And I really appreciate that because I don't know if a lot of us perpetuate that in society there is so much conversation about marriage being safety.

[Mandy B]

We have.

[Weezy]

We have protecting you from being a baby mama. You gotta be married. You know, it's bullshit. I'm happy to be married because of love. What the fuck? Protection. If anything, marriage could put you at risk. You know what I mean? But I do think marriage is beautiful for the act of love and what it can honor. But the idea that we are better, and that's my one promise to the whorehive. I do not think marriage is a status symbol of place in life. I don't think it makes you better. And I actually really feel that more right now. Maybe because I realize I'm not like other.

[Mandy B]

Uh, don't be talk.

[Weezy]

No, I'm not talking about Dr. Sarah, actually.

[Mandy B]

Oh, okay. I didn't even say. Did I say a goddamn.

[Weezy]

Oh, wait, who are you talking about? You said, don't be talking mad people. Because they do.

[Mandy B]

They do.

[Weezy]

To the point where one of my homegirls literally told. Asked me for advice and they said I wasn't married, so I wouldn't get it. Like, this is just so stupid. We've all dated in our lives. Just this idea that you're better is, like, really fucking dumb because behind every single person is a bitch who really didn't take nothing. Yeah.

[Mandy B]

You know what I'm saying?

[Weezy]

Like, I didn't take shit from a nigga. What I can't see in your relationship is that your nigga could be beating you, hurting you, mismanaging your money. All reasons to lose a nigga. Fudge. The fact I'm sorry you mismanage our funds to the point where you put me in the hole and ruin my life. Fudge. You were out here and my man should feel the same if I did some shit with his property.

[Mandy B]

What if I put his laying of hands? There's certain things that like I'm out.

[Weezy]

He should be out too. Like, hello, we should not do that. And when I say do not like be scared to lose somebody is because what's for me is for me. And I really don't think sticking by someone for the sake of it being marriage. Please. If I was ever truly in pain to the point where this man ruined me, this would turn into a five carat necklace.

[Mandy B]

Oh, you keeping it.

[Weezy]

You know, oh, if he did something wrong to me, girl, that's not going to happen. But all I'm saying, if I did

[Mandy B]

something wrong to him, she got my finger off that. You give it back.

[Weezy]

I think that's when you're like a. You cheat or something.

[Mandy B]

No, if the engagement, like if it's all wedding and engagement, you're supposed to get the ring.

[Weezy]

Yeah, well, I think if a nigga fucks up, well, it doesn't matter because

[Mandy B]

you're not even gonna get no, but,

[Weezy]

but I just really think that.

[Mandy B]

No, wait, wait. But now just like generally you think

[Weezy]

that that rule is wrong, bro, good question.

[Mandy B]

Like, generally, I think a woman should keep the ring.

[Weezy]

I think if the nigga cheated on you, you keep the ring. I think if the nigga lied, you keep the ring. I think, I think if you a hoe and you ain't shit and you done fucked up on that nigga. I think if you were unloyal, I think if you did some shady shit,

[Mandy B]

I think then you give it back.

[Weezy]

Yeah, but like whoever's at fault, if

[Mandy B]

it just doesn't work, but sometimes it just doesn't work.

[Weezy]

Melt it down. But that idea of losing nigga right. To me it has to be equal in not being scared to lose somebody. And I think the idea of being scared to lose you stop honoring yourself. And. And that's the shit I had did and no holds barred shout out to paperback. That just came out last week. Period. When I know I stayed too long. I will never do that again in my life. I am going to absolutely uphold my marriage honors. Keep our weekly check or our bi weekly check ins. Be a loyal person. Be honest. I think because we're non monogamous it makes it a lot easier to be open and talk and always be there to support each other. But I. I think the idea that we have to stick through marriage when it's bad and someone's painting you is awful. And that is why I don't believe it is a status symbol. Because marriage can be a really bad place for some. If 40% of marriages end up in divorce, I think it is, like, who is to say that we are holding that status in a high regard? Single people generally have left a situation that wasn't good, and we don't get a fucking, you know, pat on our back for choosing ourselves. Yep. So, like, to me, me getting engaged is literally because I embodied choosing myself. Like, I remember how it felt, by the way, before I got here, old Bae's sister left a comment saying, I am so happy you found your person. And when.

[Mandy B]

I'm not gonna lie, you know, we just talked about it. Family members will tell you exactly who someone is and the way they. That. I'm just saying, okay, family.

[Weezy]

Mandy got a deep cut right now, but that ain't a word like family. You know what she wrote from me and then put, like, her son's name, and I was like, wow.

[Mandy B]

But family, like, the way someone shows up in their family or for their family or says a lot about a person to me.

[Weezy]

So I told my piano. That sounds so ridiculous.

[Mandy B]

You could say, I told my man, no, we not going. My man, my man, my man.

[Weezy]

Okay. I told my fiance. So I told him, and he's like, why? Why did she leave? What did she say? And when I said it to him, I was like, listen, I spent time with her. I spent holidays with her. I've shared, like, sisterhood with her. And he doesn't have a sister. You know what I mean? He's sister in laws that I get to share love with. But I said, literally, she knows I'm a good person and, like, that I didn't deserve to be in pain or be hurt. And he was like, damn. I don't know how I would feel if that was the opposite. Like, if my family member was like, yay, go you. Like, damn, Just be happy as Silas.

[Mandy B]

No.

[Weezy]

And I was like, nah. But when your brother.

[Mandy B]

Fuck.

[Weezy]

If you watched it. If you watched your brother fuck somebody over.

[Mandy B]

But also, like, that's the thing about family members. A lot of the times I don't

[Weezy]

think she was being phony.

[Mandy B]

No. But it's not that she's being phony, but a lot of family members, women included, they. They ignore and kind of like shelter men who treat other women bad if they just. Because of just who they are as a family member. Right. So, like, there's moms who know that their sons are cheaters. There's sisters that meet all the girlfriends and stay quiet. Like, a lot of women family members kind of don't hold men accountable for how they actually treat other women.

[Weezy]

My first boyfriend ever that put his hands on me, I told his mother what he was doing to me, may she rest in peace. I swear to you. She said this to me. I said, how do I make him stop? And she said, I don't know why he's like this. I don't know if it's a Napoleon thing, cuz he was short. I don't know where he gets this from. I'm so sorry, but that was it. I think she was so uncomfortable in acknowledging that. And she's such a good woman. I'm not just saying that because she passed like she was a great woman. I genuinely think it's a hard thing or a pill to swallow when your kid is fucked up or someone you love is fucked up. One of my homeboys recently really did his girl dirty and I was like, oh God, it was breaking my heart when like I was hearing the details from him, not her.

[Mandy B]

Did you see the Crash documentary? Yes, bro. Sometimes parents don't take. I mean, and sometimes they don't feel like they have to take accountability because humans are humans and maybe they don't feel at fault for their children being evil, fucked up, manipulative, all of those things. Right? And I just think that parents have a hard time taking the accountability that they're the reason this person is the way they are.

[Weezy]

I don't think that's always true.

[Mandy B]

You don't think so? I mean, maybe not always, but I won't say always, but no, no, no.

[Weezy]

Yeah, you're not the reason, but you're just like, how did this happen? We could raise great people that could do bad things. Like he came from a good. She was a good person, I think, really in her head and soft. Like a very soft, huggy, loving type of mom. So to see that was so weird. And that's why I felt comfortable enough to tell her.

[Mandy B]

But see, even stuff like that, maybe it wasn't her fault. And I don't know, there's a lot of times with upbringing where the men in the picture were this example. So it's not always on the woman, you know what I mean? Maybe she endured abuse, he saw it from a man and that was the way that men were.

[Weezy]

Now that I can see, maybe.

[Mandy B]

So that's what I'm saying.

[Weezy]

Like now this is also 17 years ago, right? So maybe he's become a better person. I hope so. But the thing that I would acknowledge as a parent is checking your child and that crash Documentary disgusted me, bro. Oh, the moment where she was like, she didn't even really. She wasn't even really close to the other one, bruh.

[Mandy B]

It was. No, it was disgusting. But also, I think that that's another thing. Even in that documentary, right? The relationship was really toxic. And again, people view like, obsessiveness and toxic behavior like that as love. And so to say that you're even in a relationship where you haven't been hurt, A lot of people assume that love has to hurt.

[Weezy]

Yes.

[Mandy B]

And it doesn't.

[Weezy]

Like, I do think love has embodied itself for me as recovery from pain. When I have overcome something with a partner that was tough, I thought, wow, we really love each other. Really. I just didn't put up a boundary. Now, I will say this. I have a friend of mine that went back to an ex and her and I were having a conversation where she told me she thought I was being shady for saying that my man had never caused me pain. They had been separated for a minute, and one of the things I said to her was like, hey, I think that if you both take the time to, like, it's not like you stuck through. You dated other people, you tried. If you come back together, like, things can happen. This isn't by no means me shading that. I was like. But I think the reason I'm really not shading it is because, bitch, you at least left, right? You know what I'm saying? You at least left and you set your boundary and sometimes we find our ways back to people. That's just fortunately not part of my story in this moment. But what I can say for previous relationships, I never broke up with him. I just kept going through the cycle, you know what I mean? I think the best breakup I ever had with scissors. Because we were never intentionally hurting each other. We were mismatched in that moment. And we broke up at a great time to where we love each other so much, 100%. Inviting her to the wedding, by the

[Mandy B]

way, I know you are. Because you wanted the invite to the baby show. I think that's a little crazy. And I think. I think you overlook things because it's same sex. In no way would anyone think it's okay to invite an ex to a wedding.

[Weezy]

Absolutely not.

[Mandy B]

I think that you look at it because it's same sex, bro. Like, you're doing a double standard thing. Yo. Nigga could not invite any of his exes to Yalls wedding, bro.

[Weezy]

Well, I brought it up this morning and oh, by the way, so to know when we're taping this? We read the live show last night.

[Mandy B]

Oh, thank you. You see what I mean?

[Weezy]

That shit be crazy, but we're also so fluid, bro. It doesn't matter. He was like, oh, no. He didn't even bat an eyelash. He was like, yeah, of course. Maybe because we fucked other people at the wedding.

[Mandy B]

But you wouldn't invite Beard bae because he's a man, right, bro? You see what I mean? Like, the double standards. You inviting an ex to a wedding is on some real poly shit that I shouldn't be judging. But that shit is weird.

[Weezy]

Okay, let me tell you what else we talked about. There's a girl he fucked that I'm a fan of a little bit. And I was like, damn, she would be great entertainment at the wedding. She would be a great dj.

[Mandy B]

Bitch, if it ain't Rihanna.

[Weezy]

No, but one of the things we said was, like, if we're gonna invite someone we slept with, there's gotta be someone we fuck together. Except four scissors. That's my one. And if he wants to have one, it could be that DJ bitch. Cause she 5.

[Mandy B]

You can't pick which ex he wanna invite.

[Weezy]

Hell, I can't. He could pick mine.

[Mandy B]

You did. You just said.

[Weezy]

You know what? I'm being honest with y'. All. I think. Cause Sizzler's so fine, and he never met her. He's probably like, yeah. I think it's like, damn. And also, look at you.

[Mandy B]

You just. Bro, you are so.

[Weezy]

I'm 100% making out with people at my wedding.

[Mandy B]

No, I didn't say none of that. You're bringing an ex. That's crazy. I'm sorry. That's crazy. And we have a podcast where. Bitch, I'mma call it out.

[Weezy]

She's just the one that everyone knows.

[Mandy B]

You literally wrote a love letter in the book.

[Weezy]

I wrote that in his bed. He didn't care. He gets it.

[Mandy B]

And now she get to come to the wedding. Bitch, she drew the boundary. Her nigga ain't let you come to the baby shower.

[Weezy]

Man is fatty as fuck.

[Mandy B]

I'm just saying that's inappropriate.

[Weezy]

Well, let me see if I had another dope. All this shit to tell y'. All. Oh. The one thing that I thought was cool and funny before we close out was he asked his parents not permission. Well, maybe he did. He called them both separately and said, what do you think of Gila? I want to ask her to marry me. And one of the questions his dad asked him was so funny. He said his dad got real serious. I was like, does she like African food? And you don't bitch at all?

[Mandy B]

Oh, no. Oh, when I went to LA last time, he got.

[Weezy]

Shut up. He's been bringing you up, Mandy, bruh.

[Mandy B]

So I go to la, right? And this is like a couple weeks, maybe a month or so, Black Market Flea. After I come back from Ghana and I've been to Nigeria. I've been to Ghana twice. Anyways, I love African food, but I went to the African truck at Black Market Flea. They didn't have okra soup. So I was like, man, I ain't getting this shit. He went to the African truck and got jollof rice and, like, chicken. And so we get goat. So we get back to the house, he heats it up, and he asks if I want some. And I sit at the table. He's sitting at the end of the table. I'm sitting right in front of him. I'm fucking that food up. And he said, do you see how easy this could be, Weezy?

[Weezy]

She's eating my food. My hands is crazy. No, no, he did. Yeah, I know.

[Mandy B]

He was like, and you like it, right?

[Weezy]

I can see it.

[Mandy B]

I said, oh, I love this shit. He's like. And he's like, bro. You know, she don't like my food from my country and starts saying, bro.

[Weezy]

I just brought this up, bro. A little too much. We were on the plane, he literally looked at me. I'm holding our child, Nina, and my hands. And he's like, I love you. I was like, I love you too, man. I cannot believe Mandy was dogging that up.

[Mandy B]

I ate that. I said, damn, I should have got this.

[Weezy]

What is the issue, though?

[Mandy B]

All right?

[Weezy]

I'm scared. Yum. T, He's. Well, it's called palm oil. No, I realized there's only certain foods. I'm like, it's got this scent. It's almost fishy. And they have a lot of fish stock in Nigerian food. Yes, I like it.

[Mandy B]

They do.

[Weezy]

Fish stock is, like, way too intense.

[Mandy B]

But you like Asian foods. They do the same thing.

[Weezy]

No, I don't like the oyster sauce. Sometimes I don't.

[Mandy B]

It ain't oyster. They use a lot of fish.

[Weezy]

Well, I don't need that one. All right. I don't like the old smelling fish. Sometimes it's too intense for me. But anyway, he said he. He caught the plea and told his dad, oh, she just can't handle the spices. He's like, I couldn't. I couldn't bear to tell him it was the taste. So he said that both of or no. His brother and his mother said the thing that they love about me the most is how I take care of my parents. And that let me know. That's also a cultural thing. Very close.

[Mandy B]

He's like.

[Weezy]

They both brought it up. And he said his dad was like, are you sure this is serious? Marriage is serious. Da, da, da. He said his dad was super serious. He said the questions that his mom and his dad both asked him to see if he was sure were the exact same.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

And he's like, I could tell that values must be important to them both because the things they asked specifically, going through a tough time together, et cetera. And I think also my family dynamic is one too. Hey. Like, her parents are older or maybe

[Mandy B]

you're an only child.

[Weezy]

I'm an only child, you know, So I think it's great to have this blended family now. And, yeah, it just was a dope experience in seeing how non traditional people do shit. Right? Cause literally, he was just. He did tell his parents, I think for a few days after that, really wanted to soak in that, like. Which, by the way, everybody keeps saying wedding stuff. Next. Bitch, I ain't gonna hold you. I wanted to get married at a warehouse, and I looked up 99 Scott and added everything I want up. It was about $100,000.

[Mandy B]

Yep.

[Weezy]

Nope.

[Mandy B]

Get out.

[Weezy]

All I could think of.

[Mandy B]

Nope, that's a house.

[Weezy]

That's not a house, but that's the thing. So we did do it a little backwards. We got our house first. But I was sitting there and I was like, damn, for 99 Scott. But $100,000 for a wedding is no amount. No, you know, Hell no. So this is what I'm looking for. If anybody work at one. Y' all want to sponsor a wedding? Y' all want to do shit.

[Mandy B]

Ah, ah.

[Weezy]

This what I want to do. And the reason it's expensive is because of the shit I want.

[Mandy B]

She said she'll give you a Bravo special.

[Weezy]

I want a warehouse rager.

[Mandy B]

Wait, what do you want?

[Weezy]

Warehouse rager. Rager in suits, suited gowns. We're fucking partying hard. Literally, a musical sonic journey. This is the one thing we agree on. Probably like a mix of 8 to 10 DJs. Because we like so many different genres of music. If you want to go to Durban and here, Guam. If you want to go to South Africa, near Amapiano, Chicago, and House Detroit and techno atl. And get, you know, Southern hip hop. Like, I love neo soul. If you want to go to Philly, like, I really want to take people on that sonic journey. However, I also need caviar as well. And that's.

[Mandy B]

I love caviar.

[Weezy]

Cause, bitch, I'm not going to go to a warehouse wedding and not class it up somehow sounds a good Caviar and Jolaf. Literally. That's.

[Mandy B]

That's the name of the wedding. Ooh, Caviar jar and Jolaf. Bitch, if I see it on a flyer, I want 10%.

[Weezy]

Bitch. Shut up.

[Mandy B]

Charge. I want creative direction. Why is that Mandy B. Let me go ahead and ask.

[Weezy]

Wait, you know what's crazy? Shout out to Sheck Das, music director of trap techno DJ that I'm a real big fan of. We raided him the other day out at Elsewhere, and he was like, warehouse rager.

[Mandy B]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

So you're gonna charge. You're gonna, like, do tickets? And I was like, no, I want it to feel like that. So you know what?

[Mandy B]

Mandy did not charge tickets.

[Weezy]

No. That's so tacky.

[Mandy B]

It's so tacky.

[Weezy]

No, no, no. But I was like, now I see what he means, because I keep saying warehouse rager, and I'm like, oh, maybe it really looked like.

[Mandy B]

Can you just say wedding, caviar and Joe love. I love it.

[Weezy]

I also have this idea. You want that 10%, huh? Sometimes talk too much. Everyone, I'm gonna have a buzzer or I'm gonna ask Amir to do the drums to, like, get people off stage. Give them 90 seconds. Like the Oscars.

[Mandy B]

Get the motherfucker out. I don't like that you told everybody. I don't get why Mandy don't get to do a speech. Huh? I don't even get. She already told everybody last, man. I don't get to do a speech?

[Weezy]

No. Mandy's gonna go on speech. You give her a one minute set.

[Mandy B]

What set? Thank you. I'll have it scripted.

[Weezy]

All right? And you guys say that same Clit joke.

[Mandy B]

The clit joke.

[Weezy]

Dick joke. Whatever. The joke.

[Mandy B]

I'm doing a dick joke at a wedding, bro.

[Weezy]

When was my wedding?

[Mandy B]

First off, New material, babe. I'm a professional, okay? It'll be an exclusive set. Oh, I.

[Weezy]

Do you know what?

[Mandy B]

I want to walk down the aisle to what? Sh. No, you're not queen. You can't because he's actually African. E. What?

[Weezy]

He want it.

[Mandy B]

You can't do that. You cannot do coming to America, girl.

[Weezy]

You know my man love me Danny

[Mandy B]

said, oh, my God.

[Weezy]

Literally, one of my favorite. I'm going be honest. His parents are chill as fuck, but the aunties don't hate us. Probably his Parents are very. I think they already know we're a bag of wackadoodles. So I did they just like, whatever. These kind of crazy. And then that day his mom was on the YouTube then watches this. I just want to see how YouTube. I just want to see how I walk. I think she's already figured out something's off. So, you know. But I will do another episode of Wedding later. Lex said her and Jason could we be on the bachelorette committee. And then I was like, you know what? I kind of imagine this small bachelorette party.

[Mandy B]

It can't be like Vegas with Monica, bitch. Not the. It was all going to find.

[Weezy]

Oh, y' all go to Patreon to hear about this shit? Yeah, that was.

[Mandy B]

It can't be like Vegas.

[Weezy]

Okay, this is what I'm gonna tell you this. I want to go to my homeland. Where is that?

[Mandy B]

You can't go to Israel.

[Weezy]

No. Ew, yuck.

[Mandy B]

What? Your homeland. Oh, my God.

[Weezy]

Fucking Gwyneth Palant. Have you seen Gwyneth Paltrow fucking doing Israeli luxury ads? And let me tell you what really pissed me off. I already can't eat chick fil. A goop kitchen is the best takeout. And now you're a fucking Zionist. I'm an independent.

[Mandy B]

Do not talk about doing a bachelorette party in Orlando. So what is homeland? I don't know what you talk about.

[Weezy]

One more guess, bitch. Where do I always go?

[Mandy B]

Mexico?

[Weezy]

Yes, bitch.

[Mandy B]

Oh, my God.

[Weezy]

And I want you guys to get me a little Mexican small man stripper. That sounds kind of lit.

[Mandy B]

A Mexican small man stripper.

[Weezy]

I didn't want to say the N word, but. No, here's what I'm thinking. We're all gonna do a little ayahuasca seance.

[Mandy B]

Oh, yeah.

[Weezy]

Oh, hell.

[Mandy B]

Hell, no. Hey, no. We're going to that shit.

[Weezy]

What?

[Mandy B]

You gonna come back a new person and you about to get. No, you can't do that.

[Weezy]

No, no, no. We'll do it right before the drugs and alcohol because you have to cleanse.

[Mandy B]

That's before the drugs. That's the drugs and alcohol. Drugs and alcohol.

[Weezy]

I don't think so. Fine. We could just do.

[Mandy B]

Bitch, we're just doing.

[Weezy]

We were just doing Shroom. No, we'll just do Molly.

[Mandy B]

You have to do Molly.

[Weezy]

We did Molly on that.

[Mandy B]

Let me go ahead and say the edit because we paying for clips that's getting taken down.

[Weezy]

What?

[Mandy B]

No more drug clips, Aden. I saw she took it down.

[Weezy]

No, no, no. It wasn't me who took it down. It was one of the names I said in the clip. I'll tell you later.

[Mandy B]

Oh, shit. But.

[Weezy]

Oh, I don't give a fuck, bitch. But what else? I'll say. No, no, no. Let's do Molly like we did on that one cruise.

[Mandy B]

Remember how much fun, bro, that the. The one cruise that we were too young to order liquor first. So all of the liquor we drank tasted like shampoo. Cause we stuck it in fucking shampoo bottles, bro. We were drinking soapy tequila for a week.

[Weezy]

And guess what? It worked. Additionally, you've done Molly.

[Mandy B]

I didn't do Molly until we got back from the cruise.

[Weezy]

Well, you do Molly now. So we doing Molly at my goddamn bachelorette party.

[Mandy B]

No, it's too much fentanyl going around. I just want shrooms.

[Weezy]

Mandy. Hello? Do you think I don't get from the best dealers at test? I have the test kits. I've actually tossed out drugs before. When they're coming inconclusive, but anyway, that's beyond the point. So I was thinking about Big Villa. Get my gays, get my girls.

[Mandy B]

We only have gays and the girls.

[Weezy]

Let's do four days. I'm gonna do seven. That's too long.

[Mandy B]

That's too long for her. Oh, I actually want one.

[Weezy]

She got a three day limit.

[Mandy B]

I got two and a half.

[Weezy]

Two and a half.

[Mandy B]

Not on the third day.

[Weezy]

I want party on the first night, relax the night party again.

[Mandy B]

No, no, I like Sunday 3. Let me party for two nights and then go.

[Weezy]

That's what I'm saying. But I want to get one of those nice ones. I want to get, you know, a good little shift. I want to get fucked up. But we do need a Marlee night. I really want to do some weird, like, I love you.

[Mandy B]

Okay. All right.

[Weezy]

What?

[Mandy B]

I hear you. Well, do the relax day on day three.

[Weezy]

And then, Mandy, you have to vlog. Cause I don't know how to use the dji.

[Mandy B]

You don't? Oh, my God. Well, y', all, if y' all want more vlogs, somebody send Weezy how to work the dji. So you mess me up. And she was like, no, we have

[Weezy]

a one content day and no more. So there's the story. I hope you guys are happy. And to the bitch named Nysha.

[Mandy B]

Damn.

[Weezy]

You know what I bet she's saying now? Well, she's not married yet. You'll never get married. You're still not married.

[Mandy B]

It's more than just Nisha. It's the whole Internet.

[Weezy]

Yeah, I know. And guess what? The second you guys see a photo of Me, my nigga, and a kissing on us at the wedding. You're gonna be like, oh, it'll never last. Oh, my God, this is disgusting. And then when I'm fucking pregnant and. And I get on this podcast and say, we brought them.

[Mandy B]

Oh, my God.

[Weezy]

You're inviting people into the womb. Your another.

[Mandy B]

How about that? How about that? And on that.

[Weezy]

And you don't even know you invited him in the womb. At least I brought the in there. I was about to say. Yeah.

[Mandy B]

Wow.

[Weezy]

Sorry.

[Mandy B]

You have anything else to get off your chest?

[Weezy]

Congratulations. Thanks. I cannot wait to. To talk shit about married people once I'm married. They're all weird except for me.

[Mandy B]

Well, if y' all want to hear the birth of everything you just heard today because you haven't read no holes barred. It is now available paperback, babe. Only $20. Hey, go out and get it on this.

[Weezy]

No holz barred. Appear here now.

[Mandy B]

Look at you, Donnie. You making the TV wolf.

[Weezy]

It was here the whole time.

[Mandy B]

Look, see, the book is.

[Weezy]

It's being held out.

[Mandy B]

It's being. It's. Our book is holding up the monitor.

[Weezy]

Oh, my God.

[Mandy B]

Using our book to raise the monitor at WTF is kind of crazy.

[Weezy]

It's a metaphor, really, because it's holding the production, you know?

[Mandy B]

Anyways, guys, no holds barred. Available now paperback. If you want some bonus content where we talk more, give y' all all the sex, all the nasty, head on over to patreon patreon.com backslash Horrible decisions. Until next time. Until next week. Puss a hoe we are.

[Weezy]

Bye, guys.

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[Mandy B]

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