EP 478: Going On A Side Quest (feat. Kyle Dion)

Summary

Decisions, Decisions – EP 478: Going On a Side Quest (feat. Kyle Dion)

Release Date: June 22, 2026
Host(s): Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Guest: Kyle Dion
Main Theme: Exploring non-traditional relationships, candid sexual stories, queer identity, and the concept of "side quests" in life and sex.

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Episode Overview

This episode dives deep into the concept of “side quests” — literal and metaphorical detours that happen in parties, dating, and sex lives. Mandii B and WeezyWTF are joined by R&B singer Kyle Dion for an open, no-filter conversation that explores wild party experiences, non-traditional sexual relationships, queer men’s safety, bisexuality’s double standards, and the joys and hazards of pursuing pleasure "off the beaten path."

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Shame, Sex, and Scent

• Opening Banter: The episode kicks off with a frank discussion about sexual hygiene — specifically stigma and double standards around body odor for men and women.
  • Quote: “We always want to talk about how women smell like fish… we gotta sit here and shame dick and balls — everything can stink, everything can stink, thank you!”
    —Kyle Dion ([00:05])

2. Introducing Kyle Dion

• Who is Kyle Dion?
  • Rising R&B/soul-pop artist, openly queer, known for his individuality and viral moments.
  • New track, “Nature’s Perfume,” is all about pheromones and the rawness of sex ([04:17]).
  • Candidly admits it’s about “pussy and everything… it’s about human, you know, it’s about pheromones” ([04:32] - [04:46]).

3. "Side Quests": Sex, Parties, and Danger

• Defining 'Side Quest':
  A detour from the main path, often leading to hilarious or hazardous adventures.
• Stories of Side Quests:
  • Mandii’s London story: Ends up in a car headed the wrong way, realizes it’s a drug run, is terrified, gets pulled over by police in a foreign country ([08:24]–[11:38], [12:27]).
  • Weezy’s Compton pick-up: Going to a sketchy location with pit bulls to buy molly for a festival ([13:00]–[13:56]).
  • Kyle in Barcelona: Wakes up with a stranger, can’t recall how he got there, admits the dangers, especially under the influence ([15:03]–[16:43]).
• Reflection on Safety:
  • Discussion about the risks men and women face in these situations, with Mandii noting, "We as women constantly talk about the dangers of leaving with men..." ([16:46]). Kyle acknowledges danger exists when substance use is heavy, but the threat dynamics differ for men and women ([17:15]).
  • Weezy shares her method for staying safe: Facetiming friends before hookups so someone knows their whereabouts ([18:28]).

4. Navigating Queer/Male Sexual Safety

• Are queer men as concerned as women about encountering danger when leaving with strangers?
  • Kyle: “It’s different... a man walks throughout the world a little bit less feeling unsafe” ([17:57]).
  • Still, men also need to be careful when “not really yourself” due to substances ([17:25]).

5. Modern Bisexuality & Double Standards

• Discussion on bi men in dating and music:
  • Still a double standard: It’s glamorized for women but taboo for men ([43:36]).
  • Kyle’s openness about being bi is a recent shift: “...I’ve realized there is this whole community... that want to support people that are queer” ([46:24]).
  • On telling women about his bisexuality: “Any circumstance where I had a sexual experience with a woman she kind of knew my story...” ([41:04]).
  • Quote: “If you’re going to go on a date with someone... want to pursue them in a different way other than just sex... I think it’s worth the conversation letting them know who you are.”
    —Kyle ([41:04])
• Music & Sexuality:
  • Writes songs that ambiguously reference both he/she as lovers (e.g., “XYXY,” “BRB”) and doesn’t want to “wear” his sexuality as his only artistic identity ([47:09]–[48:38]).
• Societal Progress & Barriers:
  • Weezy notes: “...in one era we can get married, celebrate trans rights, etc., and then... in our own communities we know we could be killed for it” ([44:17]).
  • Discussion about open-mindedness in creative fields and geographical differences — LA vs. rest of the country ([39:37], [43:58]).

6. Hilarious, Gross, and Sexy Sexcapades

• 15-Second Stories: Last Sexual Experiences
  • Kyle: First time coming twice in a row ([27:14]).
  • Weezy: Story about her boyfriend feeding her cum as “medicine” after sex, dubbed “fed cum is cum” ([28:38]–[31:17], [70:21]–[71:00]).
  • Mandii: Role reversal/empowerment in the “Amazon” sex position in a hotel room with the curtains open ([31:29]–[33:46]).
  • Memorable quote:
    “Did you come in that position?”
    “Yes. Did my legs hurt? Did I feel every bit of 35? Yes.”
    — Mandii ([33:12])
• On Squirting and Car Seats:
  • Kyle shares how a woman squirted so much it stained his car’s leather seats. Mandii jokes, “That was acid, babe!” ([35:02]–[35:53]).
• On Threesomes and Bisexual Fantasies:
  • Mandii wishes for a bi m/f/m threesome — “Just hasn’t happened” ([55:15]–[56:21]).
  • Kyle’s threesomes and group sex often happen spontaneously at parties/afters; teaching a friend how to go down on women ([61:11]).
  • On preferences: Kyle and the hosts discuss attraction, navigating race and queerness in threesomes, and preferences (or blocks) around white women ([57:22]–[58:58]).

7. Afterhours (Afters) Party Culture & Etiquette

• Afters/Side Quest Culture:
  • Afters as a catalyst for group sex, exploration, and, sometimes, regret or “cringeworthy apps.”
  • Smoking circles and social cues as key parts of hookup culture ([63:03]–[63:20]).
  • The hosts agree that wild experiences are almost a rite of passage:
    • Crying to a stranger in a bathroom
    • Performing oral in a bathroom
    • Getting your ass eaten by a stranger ([67:58]–[69:13])

8. Notable, Wild Party Stories

• Amsterdam Sex Party at “De School”:
  • Kyle describes an abandoned-school-turned-sex-club: DJ in each classroom, people having sex in dark corners, outdoors in the recess area — wild, unapologetic freedom ([71:19]–[73:35]).
  • “Me and my friend are in the corner... these two girls roll over to us, start making out, fucking each other right next to us... She’s eating her coochie, going wild!”
    —Kyle Dion ([72:03]–[72:44])

9. Dating & Relationship Dynamics

• Who’s Harder to Date: Men or Women?
  • Kyle: “I think men is harder… sometimes men give me… I could just go mess with a woman” ([54:15]).
  • Who pays? Kyle says it often depends — has had men insist on paying because he’s assumed to pay as the famous one ([54:46]).
• Setting Up Threesomes:
  • “Never done a threesome where we set it up prior, it just happens at the club, at the afters...” ([59:15]–[59:32]).

10. Partying for Pleasure and for Work

• Networking or Pleasure?
  • The hosts discuss how going out, partying, and even the wildest side quests can double as career networking in creative industries ([66:05]–[66:38]).

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Notable Quotes & Moments

• On safety and hooking up:
  "When it gets too late and you're by yourself—and you and I talked about this too—letting your homegirls leave alone...like, we are grown, we know we want some dick..."
  —Weezy ([18:38])

• On bisexuality’s double standard:
  “It's fantasized for women to play with women. I know... If we expressed our fantasy of men embracing their sexuality, there would be more.”
  —Mandii ([43:36]–[44:10])

• On party regret:
  “You ever had a sexual experience where you're just like—you think about it sometimes—you're like ughh?... It just come out in random... it's the person." —Kyle ([63:37])

• On being safe during a hoe phase:
  “To the up and coming whores...you know what I’m saying, because everyone should have one…be safe. There was a lot in that era—there’s a lot of things where it can go left.”
  —Kyle ([19:23])

• On unplanned afters: "We at the club, at the afters...and then it's just like boom." —Kyle ([59:32])

• On “fed cum is cum”: “Fed cum is cum. That should be the title of this video.” —Kyle ([70:21])

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• [00:01–00:14] — Opening shame/hygiene banter
• [04:17–04:46] — Intro to Kyle Dion and nature of his music
• [06:04–08:24] — First meeting stories; intentional “hoe phase” and mindful ho’ing
• [08:24–13:56] — Mandii and Weezy’s wild side quest stories (London drug run, EDC Vegas molly pick-up)
• [15:03–16:43] — Kyle’s side quest in Barcelona
• [17:15–19:22] — Queer men & sexual safety
• [27:14–33:46] — 15-second sex stories (cum stories, new positions, “fed cum,” Amazon position)
• [35:02–35:53] — Squirting, car seats, “acidic” jokes
• [43:36–44:17] — Bisexuality double standard
• [54:15–54:58] — Men vs. women: who’s harder to date?
• [59:15–61:11] — Group sex/threesome setup stories
• [63:03–63:20] — Afters etiquette & party hookup culture
• [71:19–73:35] — Amsterdam sex club "De School" story
• [76:00–77:03] — Kyle reflects on feeling welcomed and podcast cherry being popped

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The Episode’s Tone & Style

• Unapologetically Candid: No-holds-barred sex talk, peer-to-peer stories, laughs about bodily fluids and risky situations.
• Inclusive & Reflective: Honest reflection on queer safety, sexual identity, and the importance of community support.
• Playful & Real: Animated storytelling, self-deprecating humor, and encouragement for safe and intentional exploration.

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Summary Verdict

"Going On a Side Quest" is a rollicking, honest exploration of sexual detours, queer identity, and living (and loving) outside the mainstream—from wild afters, jaw-dropping kink stories, and the logistics of bi threesomes to surprisingly sweet takes on respecting and communicating about sexual fluidity. Kyle Dion’s openness, matched with Mandii and Weezy’s signature irreverence, makes for an episode that’s both hilarious and deeply human.

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Listen If...

• You want to laugh at wild party, hookup, and “side quest” stories.
• You’re interested in candid talk about sexuality, queerness, and the double standards facing bi men.
• You enjoy raunchy, honest, and shameless banter—but with a reflective edge.

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For the full scoop, including the notorious "fed cum" story and the Amsterdam sex club saga, check out the episode and the Decision Decisions Patreon!

Transcript

[Mandy V]

we always want to talk about how women smell like fish we gotta sit

[Kyle Dion]

here and shame sticking balls be stink stick and balls everything can stink everything can stink thank you everything can stink

[Mandy V]

i just don't like the shame on women in their vaginas no there's no

[Kyle Dion]

shame that's why when you said that i know the camera got me i was like it's not trying to shame them i'm just like damn they're taking

[Mandy V]

balls though no because after after you

[Kyle Dion]

go crazy all night sometimes you be sometimes people get a little i'm trying to tell you i have had such a like you ever had like a sexual experience where you're just like you think about it sometimes you're like ugh oh yeah yeah oh my god it just come out in random and you just like you driving just like it's

[Mandy V]

the it's the person i hate that it's the person it's the person not

[Kyle Dion]

really what happened how did i do

[Weezy]

that i have a lot of cringe

[Kyle Dion]

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[Mandy V]

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[Mandy V]

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[Mandy V]

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[Weezy]

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[Mandy V]

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[Mandy V]

decisions decisions hey guys welcome to another episode of decisions decision woo okay you like the vocals i figured you was here i got a vibrato what the fuck deep boys bitch we back in chorus i thought i was a baritone is that a word it is okay that's what i thought i was anyways y' all welcome i'm your

[Weezy]

girl mundy b hey everybody i'm weezy and by special request we have our guest in the building kyle dion he is an amazing singer he has a new song by the way called nature's perfume and i thought it was about

[Kyle Dion]

now why it's about yeah it's about pussy and everything it's about pussy and

[Mandy V]

everything and everything so the buddha ho

[Kyle Dion]

too it's about human you know it's

[Mandy V]

about pheromones pheromones hello exactly there we go it's just about pheromones it's about

[Weezy]

pheromones welcome to the pod let's pop it up every time i see you online you done sang in some bar it went viral and i was just like oh is that him or someone trying to cosplay him because you really

[Kyle Dion]

got your own look i love a karaoke too that's what i feel and you love a matcha love a match

[Mandy V]

you love a match you said that

[Kyle Dion]

in my comments why are people sing when you can sing you don't need to be a karaoke stop it no

[Mandy V]

it's not for you it's fun don't go back on tour yes what don't get your ass on a karaoke i'm

[Weezy]

over here drunk you know that the pages always laminated and sticky i'm going

[Mandy V]

to do des trial what are you going to do desi show i'm in

[Kyle Dion]

a

[Weezy]

every time every time at first we started

[Mandy V]

that's what you do taking me places that's the song you put

[Weezy]

i don't need the screen bitch you

[Mandy V]

need the microphone though y' all know we look denisha do you see you don't even know we had to deal with this shit yesterday look let me

[Weezy]

i'm a free float anyway yes okay let me tell you how we know

[Kyle Dion]

each other we i'm scared you have

[Weezy]

no idea where we met for the

[Kyle Dion]

first time i feel like it was in new york okay you know how i'm scared i met you in my whore days for real that i believe that i'm like i don't wait wait

[Mandy V]

wait you're not a whore anymore i

[Kyle Dion]

am a whore but i'm a more mindful whore me too you get what

[Weezy]

i'm saying okay wait wait wait intentional hoenn i like it i like where we go with it yeah so rory invites me i knew it to a

[Kyle Dion]

new york fashion week i know yeah

[Weezy]

yeah and he was like i have these friends da da da he's like oh do you know with my friend cali and my friend kyle you know kyle dion and i was like the instagram because i didn't realize he was you know when you see someone's aesthetic yeah yeah he walks in doesn't talk

[Kyle Dion]

to me he was just like now i remember it was raining they were

[Weezy]

very frustrated we were in your house yes okay popped up at my house

[Mandy V]

wait you ain't talked to her and you wouldn't i don't know i didn't

[Weezy]

talk to her i'm going to tell you how you started talking so this is the part i said you might want to cut out so rory was like he knew i lived close to the fashion week party and so they ran to my house this was twenty

[Kyle Dion]

twenty three it was no earlier earlier no it's definitely twenty twenty three new year fashion week okay yeah yeah so

[Weezy]

they come in and everybody's soaked kyle's annoyed to be fair everybody's like ugh and so callie i just met rory who does not do drugs callie's like i was like oh not the ones i do okay so basically we're about to step out but i didn't know i was stepping out and i was like you know what let me get dressed let's all do a bop here goes kyle hey i'm kyle

[Kyle Dion]

and where

[Mandy V]

is it i said wait he did speak before i didn't talk to you

[Weezy]

before no it's okay that's fine maybe

[Mandy V]

you said hi maybe you was really

[Weezy]

funny because i said to you i said oh now you want to talk to me and you literally said because

[Kyle Dion]

she brought out the party favors he

[Weezy]

said i know i know he said i'm not like this i know i

[Mandy V]

know that wasn't right but anyway it was raining you were so i get

[Kyle Dion]

it no i was yeah you were

[Mandy V]

in your in your like let me calm down let me cool off i

[Kyle Dion]

think i remember that too though the vibes were good though but also you

[Weezy]

know what if somebody's like we're going to stop at my friend's house before we're going to a fashion party yeah

[Kyle Dion]

right i was kind of just like i don't remember too much but i remember like the vibes were good i remember seeing your house i remember like yeah i just i don't remember too much i'm sorry i didn't say hi

[Weezy]

to you no but it was my favorite story and you know what you cleaned it up after okay but to be fair i do not like when there's like a not the was it not the word detour detour that's what i was gonna say a side quest don't put me on no side quest

[Kyle Dion]

to a house it's raining i probably requested honestly to go to go to

[Mandy V]

your house or something i don't honestly i don't like side quests i've only been a part of one side quest and it ended really poorly i was in london i've shared this story my friend was like oh i got these guys so they came and picked us up next thing we know we're going away from the party we were supposed to be going to i as an american knew exactly what was happening they were going to pick up drugs or drop them off regardless i felt like we were on a drug run i said bitch i live in america no pick up drugs i'm okay regardless it was either they were picking drugs up picking drugs up or they were they were dropping them off it was there's

[Kyle Dion]

something going on there's something going on

[Mandy V]

i said we will not be a part of this this is another country get me away okay take us back to the party sometimes no bitch hold on it gets worse it gets worse it gets worse you remember so i'm like i'm american take me i know what this is and i start being real american in the car mind you these are like the innit niggas yeah but they're african the innit niggas the

[Weezy]

innit niggas hot boy innit yeah they're

[Mandy V]

the innit in it niggas they're the in it niggas i love the innit ah so anyways i'm like now being real like nah nah yeah take turn around turn around to the point where i put the address of the clerk we supposed to go to in the gps so i know that we going in the right direction i've done that

[Kyle Dion]

before gotta make sure you know what

[Mandy V]

hear me out and i told this girl i said i felt it we was on a drug run so we get literally in the vicinity of the club we are two minutes away mm we could have hopped out and walked we didn't what happens wow wow sirens bitch we get pulled over no by the cops i said i knew this car was hot so we get pulled over in london by the way this is hype blm so bitch and we in the car with nick it's like

[Kyle Dion]

twenty twenty this is probably twenty twenty

[Mandy V]

two okay twenty twenty one twenty twenty two twenty twenty was height so twenty twenty one twenty two i'm in london anyways we get pulled over next thing bitch i know another car pulls up i'm like why are there two police cars and so we get pulled out they ask for id's bitch i'm in another country yeah she's in she just moved there from another country bitch they take our passports and at this point bitch i'm about to start ey she's supposed to start cisco we both have jobs i need to get back to so then i'm lying this is twenty nineteen twenty eighteen twenty nineteen oh we

[Kyle Dion]

just jumped okay but this is so

[Mandy V]

trayvon martin hype got it hype so this is pre pandemic so bitch we get out this car they have our passports don't know why the inner niggas bucked up mind you at this point they have dogs they're sniffing the car oh my god they're sniffing the car i have dogs i said bitch if we let them get they were gonna pick them up or drop them off i don't know but they gonna find something bitch we're gonna go to jail they have our passports next thing i know these motherfuckers start yelling at the cops and i'm like i just start busting out crying i said y' all gotta stop they kill people mind you i'm in another country right apparently they

[Kyle Dion]

gonna put me in jail no i

[Mandy V]

don't know how to at home apparently it's pellets in the guns in london they ain't even got bullets so here i go telling the indian to stop they're going to kill us so american crying honey i know i'm american and literally that's the last side quest i ever ever was a part of but literally i'm crying thinking who is the friend luckily adriana i go i'm with adriana i funny enough funny enough and i know that he's not popular but all i know is that trip i literally was very i don't think it's called racist but i said we're not hanging around any more locals because they're gonna they're taking us on drug runs i don't know your local friends but i can't get us out of this yeah but so here's the thing so guess who was in town i do wanna be with the plug no not

[Kyle Dion]

me but we don't need to do we don't need to go on that

[Mandy V]

rhyme you don't need to be i don't need to be plugged at this time i wasn't even doing drugs bitch i am an alcoholic get me vodka

[Kyle Dion]

soda please right right right you're just

[Mandy V]

out of your scope way out of my scope so i was like okay so anyways the rest of the trip we end up hanging out with like americans that are in town drake is in town so i know his dj and we hang with nothing but americans for the rest of the trip that's it we ain't shit either we're not but i at least know how to navigate but you know what though a

[Weezy]

drug run also depend recently not recently

[Mandy V]

etc vegas okay go ahead go ahead

[Weezy]

so i was like we gotta get

[Mandy V]

molly recently recently like two weeks so

[Weezy]

they had their african stage bitch it was uncle waffles it was fucking guam i was ready so i'm like we gotta have molly for edc vegas but my plug was out of town whatever so i'm like okay does anyone have a place for me to go i get in the car with my homegirl who doesn't do drugs and what was so funny was everything she was saying was true but i realized damn i'm in a crunch so we started driving right and i look up the address she was like bitch that's in compton i'm like no no no no he said we're gonna meet at a restaurant nearby so we're like thirty minutes in the car she like weezy how good could the white drugs be in a hood ass neighborhood if the niggas got guns do we really want to buy it from here right you know what i do go to luxury apartments when i pick up a little bit of

[Mandy V]

cocaine maybe this ain't it i'm not

[Weezy]

doing it bitch we get outside there's six pit bulls i'm not joking no way i only remember six because we counted them out for fun i said oh my god it's like ten pit bulls she goes no it's six though

[Mandy V]

it's six he came out he went to pick up drugs with pit bull

[Weezy]

guard dogs here's the problem once we

[Kyle Dion]

got there i got some stories i

[Weezy]

didn't even know what to do you're

[Mandy V]

next what's happening you're next babe i need to hear yours i need to hear your side quest it ain't like

[Kyle Dion]

this yo y' all awesome you've never

[Mandy V]

been brought on a side quest by a friend where you were like we gotta turn around whether it be sex yeah it could be a sex side

[Weezy]

quest it could be a athys i

[Kyle Dion]

mean i've got some stories but i don't know if they side quest i think i'm willingly doing it you said i think i'm like i'm part of

[Weezy]

the advent sketchy aft y side oh

[Kyle Dion]

my god or a place you pulled

[Weezy]

up to fuck and you were like

[Mandy V]

what what a tough by the way these stories only become funny because we survived we survived we survived we survived wait wait when i go on and it sucks because rip to all of the sad stories we've heard recently but literally me and my friends have been like bitch we could have been goners

[Kyle Dion]

and we haven't been i'm telling you there were so many dangerous like shit

[Mandy V]

is real go give a flood we need to hear a side quest story

[Kyle Dion]

um fuck i mean i got so many what city was it i got one that comes to mind is like i think barcelona okay whoa side quests

[Mandy V]

out the that was where vinny and

[Weezy]

i where we found out they were doing meth wait what oh vinny and i went to a gay club and the guy was like you want to get high with us we were like yeah and then he started smoking it and he goes okay we have to back out slow we don't want them to do anything to us we got to act like we were down but we need to make a quick call i was like yo i realized in other countries they don't have access to the shit we got oh yeah they

[Mandy V]

don't they crack out of it that's the thing yes bitch oh but not your story go you're in barcelona i'm

[Kyle Dion]

in barcelona you just had paella i'm barcelona no we went to we were like we're doing the aft thing and i ended up with a stranger waking up a stranger describe the stranger i'm like i don't want to go too deep okay okay but i did you

[Mandy V]

remember how you got there i did

[Kyle Dion]

but i can't believe i got there like i walked with them were they

[Mandy V]

ugly

[Weezy]

did you fuck no was it a man was it a woman were they queer were they not binary i

[Kyle Dion]

think i think no it was a guy yeah i don't remember i don't remember i was just like i can't believe i that's why it's so crazy to me that story because i'm just like i can't believe that i got to that person's place were they awake

[Mandy V]

when you they didn't speak no english

[Weezy]

oh no that's hot no not at

[Mandy V]

all i was like i don't know what the fuck how do we even communicate for me to go home i

[Kyle Dion]

don't even i don't know how that i don't know how we got there

[Mandy V]

not to make it too dark but i am curious being queer yeah we as women constantly talk about the dangers of leaving with men now outside of dahmer i don't know of many other scary stories of gay men leaving with strange men we don't hear it much in the news but is there any sort of fear that men have when leaving with other queer men you know what are you scared of in that

[Kyle Dion]

i don't know i feel like yeah i think there is like especially when you're coming from places like an afters or like some like weird like you know afters are weird well because you've

[Mandy V]

been doing a lot of things you're

[Kyle Dion]

not really yourself you're not really yourself and you can be you can be taken advantage of and stuff like that so i guess it's the same in a sense of just like being under the substance and not you know being fully there and like doing shit that you wouldn't naturally do but like you

[Mandy V]

guys don't have the fear because it's interesting that there's and maybe it's a heterosexual thing but like you guys don't have the fear that these men that you leave with will kill you like why i'm just curious as to why that's not a thing often talked about within men leaving with men i think

[Kyle Dion]

because it's different from like a man leave a woman leaving with a man i feel like because just the physical bill like you know the size like it's like another man like i guess you can it's like how you walk a man walks throughout the world a little bit less you know not not feeling unsafe more than you know are

[Mandy V]

there any safety precautions you take though

[Kyle Dion]

outside of like i feel like again when we're talking about my like this is like a crazy era like the era that we're talking about oh yeah you're confident i'm saved i'm a saved

[Weezy]

tour the only one i had was location on and i would do this thing when i was in that same era yeah i would facetime was out

[Mandy V]

you're out of that era too it's

[Weezy]

like it's like so i would facetime with the person yeah yeah and all my friends knew if they were getting a call at that time imagine now facetime with voicemail but i would facetime no matter what time it was and made sure they saw and they knew that way that person knew with me that somewhere else knew what i was and they remember what you looked like and i would describe it not in a way where they even clocked it one guy did he was like oh yo you really keeping yourself safe i wasn't even fucking i was just like i'm going to this guy's house and i was like this is mark we are going to da da da where you at again okay we're gonna meet williamsburg if you wanna come like i was just chatting it up because i really was worried when it gets too late and you're by yourself and you and i talked about this too letting your homegirls leave alone like we are grown we know we want some dick

[Mandy V]

but oh that's the thing bitch and

[Kyle Dion]

i literally and let me tell you that's what i'm saying that that era is like you gotta be really careful and i and all to the to the up and coming hoes you know up and coming whores that are about to have a whore era you know what i'm saying cause everyone should have

[Weezy]

one a divorce out of colle yeah

[Kyle Dion]

so i just want to like be safe i feel like there's a lot of like i feel like there was a lot in that era there's a lot of things where it can go left and you can you can be in a lot of you know in

[Mandy V]

danger i'm not gonna lie the the be safe thing if you leave with a serial killer you just it's unlucky like i don't like if you leave

[Kyle Dion]

with a nigga to say not even that like a nigga that's not a serial killer but a that's like or aggressive or like kind of like assault or like whatever like that's a good

[Mandy V]

point but that's the crazy thing too for the most part the women that are being assaulted abused or killed oftentimes are that's happening with people that they

[Weezy]

actually know so the most aggressive i'd ever experienced something with a man i did not know and i remember clocking when it was gonna happen it was declining sex and it was actually me thinking i would have sex i was in miami went back to his apartment i think i was at the a g five at office and i remember something just felt a little off and i thought you know what i kind of want to be back in my hotel so i told him i didn't want to have sex and he actually started yelling at me see so you wasted my time you playing games see you play games he started getting louder and louder and literally i think i left my shoes or something i was very young like a twenty or twenty one and i remember thinking like holy if i didn't walk out of that door and walking out of the door you know those luxury buildings where the hallway's long i remember getting as far as i could to the elevator he's like so you gonna be act like this you gonna be tripping i was terrified yeah but i think today luckily we have so many women talking about it that's all over my timeline right now a bitch calling out a nigga i know think i know follow like it's something that the more we have conversations like this when we're about to talk about the fun shit yeah yeah

[Kyle Dion]

it is impactful it's impactful okay so

[Weezy]

let's go for the fun shit

[Kyle Dion]

all

[Mandy V]

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[Kyle Dion]

pinky toe into my thirties and my sex is a man and my location i live in la okay you are

[Weezy]

a florida boy i'm a floater that

[Kyle Dion]

threw me florida boy florida i said this is broward county nine hundred and

[Mandy V]

fifty four four hundred seven chapel city

[Weezy]

blah blah blah something's in the water

[Kyle Dion]

that made us queer something's in the

[Weezy]

water head off his head in the

[Kyle Dion]

florida water in the florida water i'm

[Weezy]

telling you we seen zola the crazy

[Mandy V]

the whole something she drove down from detroit she wasn't a florida girl the bitty just got trafficked in florida it

[Weezy]

pulls it's a grav what's it called gravitational pull okay so as a catch up i thought it would be really fun yeah we all talked about our last sexual experience in fifteen seconds okay

[Kyle Dion]

go me first yeah you're the guest okay my last sexual experience it was crazy i i had like i i came and it was just like i came twice in the in the sexual

[Mandy V]

that was your first time coming twice

[Kyle Dion]

back to back back to back so i was like afterwards staying hard staying hard and i was like i i i called my my my friend like like maybe like the same day and i was like have you ever came twice in the like in the five minutes yeah i was that means you was connected that's what i'm saying some good shit and i was like and then he was like yeah that's happened to me before i'm like nah that's never happened to me before like once i come it's just like a rap but i came twice yeah mandy's pussy

[Weezy]

does that apparently yeah i get a

[Mandy V]

nigga to come eight times okay yeah

[Weezy]

wait hold on wait what's back here

[Mandy V]

if you're still in it and you

[Weezy]

fucking me with the cum in it

[Mandy V]

this was yeah i've done that okay i've done that my shit to say

[Weezy]

is actually filthy my last so you

[Mandy V]

guys can pick mine no mine is

[Weezy]

filthy too do you guys want the plan b story from last night or

[Kyle Dion]

the story plan b i was gonna say oh fuck let's do rock papers

[Mandy V]

to shoot cause plan b is just but plan b is just he nutter than you you don't want a baby you take a plan b i want to hear the okay let's plan b ain't much you had unprotected sex boring

[Weezy]

okay it was funnier that it was nasty okay okay yeah so i've been

[Kyle Dion]

saying that looks so funny during sex

[Weezy]

where i'm like this is very horrible i've been like oh i want you to feed it to me now i don't know if i described the feeding but this is how disgusting my boyfriend is okay so the house that you came to my birthday party in when we moved in with my mom it's

[Kyle Dion]

such a beautiful home thank you and

[Weezy]

it feels warm and it's sweet it's a small home but it's a lovely home mama's right there we thought she was gonna move into the guest house

[Mandy V]

she never did wait you did this

[Weezy]

with your no no no she left

[Mandy V]

jesus christ i'm like i know you not being no but your mama's at

[Kyle Dion]

the door is going in a different

[Weezy]

place the plan b mom was there woke up talking about who's at the why is uber eats at the door anyway okay so basically my mom she's now clocking that we need our solo time and she goes send me on a trip you guys give me a few hundred dollars i'll go to marshalls burlington whatever you guys want whatever you guys want me to go and we was like okay bitch get the fuck out so we sent her to burlington

[Kyle Dion]

she's out okay he looked at me

[Weezy]

and was like bitch get your ass on the bed we're fucking it's nasty it's great whatever love it he's like you know i'm gonna come in this pussy right and i'm like so finally he tells me to turn around he's fucking me from the back he lays me on my back and he tells me to lay down and put my feet up and he was like hold it squeeze it use them pussy muscles i hear the door bitch put the under my vagina tell me to push

[Kyle Dion]

it out what you mean put like

[Mandy V]

a real i'm never eating at your house again what does that do nothing

[Kyle Dion]

just be nasty just like you just wanna do something it's swallowing you just

[Mandy V]

wanna do something you done did so much goddamn nasty shit yeah it's like

[Kyle Dion]

i figured i don't know what else

[Mandy V]

to do what else cause what is

[Weezy]

that so anyway he basically oh my god my man is a nasty nigga he be getting creative bitch okay and he was sitting there with the he's like push it out and i was like oh my god so then he's

[Kyle Dion]

holding the and wow what he ate he he he he fed it to

[Weezy]

me no he fed it he fed

[Kyle Dion]

it to you see i'm trying to

[Mandy V]

figure out why would it say so much you should have saved this for

[Kyle Dion]

the patient okay so now i know what so now i know what's happening

[Mandy V]

so he look at her face this is bad this is how people are going to look at you wait no

[Kyle Dion]

this is good

[Weezy]

no we have to cut this and put it behind now we are about we are gonna you

[Mandy V]

already said it no no we already

[Kyle Dion]

said it and fed it to you like a medicine yep yes it was the same thing you took it down you took it down i did okay

[Mandy V]

so mine wasn't that nasty you are nasty mine was that up no no you ny so my last exposition or my last making it up for me mine is i guess basic i feel

[Kyle Dion]

like my shit is basic from that shit yeah i gotta go i gotta come back i'll give you another i came twice i know i was like what like let me like let me let me go back and like say something else hold on you go say

[Mandy V]

something i wasn't too crazy mine was like just the first time for a position okay and we were fucking in a hotel so we opened the windows because i could see into like two other hotel rooms okay so we were like if we could see into there

[Kyle Dion]

don't you like that though do you like that though yeah i love that i love it like only fear because

[Mandy V]

n be recording and zoom ins work

[Weezy]

good now and bitch they know your

[Mandy V]

ass so we just we dimly lit the room wasn't fucking with the lights on because my fear is someone's gonna record it exactly so we had just the tv on not the lights cause i was like nah nigga things got

[Weezy]

foamy so did someone come look so

[Mandy V]

we don't know but it was the excitement that someone maybe was watching us okay so we did a position what's

[Kyle Dion]

the position i'm about to show you okay ooh you about to show me

[Mandy V]

uh huh about to show us okay show us so y' all know i don't ride but this was kind of a ride in a different type of way and it was fun okay so if you're watching on youtube i'm gonna show you explain the position so weezy you are him okay so you are laying down you were yeah act like you're laying in a bed take off my picnic shoes act like you're laying in a bed just lay like that

[Kyle Dion]

this is so however okay you want

[Mandy V]

me to do yeah so lift your legs up like this he was doing this and i was on the bed and i was the amazon i love that and his legs so actually wait i'm lying after he i was holding them up so move your hand so i was holding him up and going

[Kyle Dion]

like this you was topping him i topped him you topped him and it

[Mandy V]

was just a fun time and i haven't done that before did you come

[Kyle Dion]

did i yes in that position were

[Mandy V]

my legs in pain did i feel every bit of thirty five yeah yes did i need i hate when i'm

[Weezy]

floating did i need to feel like

[Mandy V]

literally the next day i was like i was like listen yeah we might need a spa or something tomorrow like

[Kyle Dion]

let's let's yeah is that your new

[Mandy V]

favorite position though it's given so anal sex once a quarter that one twice a year it worked like it felt maybe this is what pilates every muscle that i didn't know existed it was

[Kyle Dion]

hurting oh baby i was like because

[Mandy V]

i was lifting up the legs i was bouncing on a dick yeah yeah he was going in and out of me it was a lot i was abs was staying in fitters was bouncing it was just a lot i love that but it was cute i love that it was cute it felt powerful cause like i peg but i don't peg him oh you peg okay i'm a peg okay and now it's like a common term since now everyone wants to talk about it it's about it but yeah so it was it was cute i had a great time you

[Weezy]

know what's crazy i am still feeling the shame from telling y' all what

[Kyle Dion]

i just you should you shouldn't it's

[Mandy V]

okay it's gonna be the you know

[Weezy]

what's crazy when my mom came back from being out i couldn't even look her in the eye i was like

[Mandy V]

hey just no no no can i ask you a question okay did you

[Weezy]

throw this away oh no in our room now it's not even just in

[Mandy V]

your room i clean the cleaner comes they're gonna see feel they're gonna put

[Weezy]

it back underwear drawer they're gonna put

[Kyle Dion]

it back that's you guys now yeah nobody else wait so y' all are

[Mandy V]

gonna do this again you should yeah

[Kyle Dion]

i think are you guys are you guys do you guys squirt i'm not a squirter that i have so i've i've had i've had an i've had many experiences of eating and just squir and yeah but the squirting a lot

[Mandy V]

wait they squirt without you doing oh yeah so see for me the only way i squirt is with no no

[Kyle Dion]

no a lot of you gotta get the right nigga with the right mouth with the right tongue okay you know what i'm saying don't he look like

[Weezy]

he got right with the zip and glass talking about the combo kick that cowboy boot up i know that so

[Kyle Dion]

yeah i've had many experiences with that and i've one in particular stayed with me for a while because it ruined my car it ruined my car in

[Weezy]

my car seats you ate pussy in

[Kyle Dion]

the car it had to have been club pussy it was an afters pussy

[Mandy V]

wait what do you mean it ruined

[Kyle Dion]

your car seats cause details it was it it came she but but squirted all over my face the parting is clear but it stained my my seats

[Mandy V]

wait it comes stained it it stained the leather yeah no that was acid

[Kyle Dion]

babe it was something because it was

[Mandy V]

a it had to be a little acidic because leather it's like calm like

[Kyle Dion]

it's like it's like it's like i think it's like that stains it's like

[Weezy]

you get a little i was thinking to myself yeah because we left love looking back at it and being like that was a fun night or i

[Kyle Dion]

thought it was fun i thought it was great but like i was like damn i just it's my new car you know but i love i loved it and i loved it was it was a good time do you know

[Weezy]

what's crazy now this one's gross this is taking a gross turn i was in the car with my boyfriend in

[Mandy V]

one of our homegirls only a homegirl or one of your lovers no we

[Weezy]

weren't fucking her okay just a girl we'd be partying out with we weren't

[Mandy V]

fucking her and now we know why

[Kyle Dion]

yeah why what happened so we're in

[Weezy]

the car and we was leaving in afties and we are we always see her out so whatever and he was like you want me to take you home she was like yeah thank you so much he drops her off i'm in the passenger seat he drops her off closes the door and he went leans over to me wow it was her she smells that bad no he goes i never he said i wait wait and i was like and you thought it was me he's like i honestly thought it was something else i thought it could have been he's like

[Mandy V]

coochie stain yes oh but like bad bruh well and to be fair we did just have on you got decisions did you see so many people in the comments were just like you just got a ghost like it's hard to tell someone when they smell bad yeah

[Kyle Dion]

it is it's hard but it's like it has to be done i think

[Mandy V]

you know what's crazy have you ever

[Kyle Dion]

done it oh yes and we don't

[Mandy V]

shame enough we don't shame enough that

[Kyle Dion]

balls be stinked no balls be stink

[Mandy V]

bro we always want to talk about how women smell like fish we gotta

[Kyle Dion]

sit here and shame dick and balls be stink dick and balls everything can stink everything can stink thank you everything

[Mandy V]

can stink i just don't like the shame on women in their vaginas no

[Kyle Dion]

you just think paying attention to the there's no shame that's why when you said that i know the camera got me i was like like because it's not like a it's not trying to shame them i'm just like damn they're

[Weezy]

dicking balls though let's smell the must

[Mandy V]

hold on we hear one of the

[Weezy]

best episodes of all time of the read smell and taste no cause after

[Kyle Dion]

you go crazy all night sometimes you be sometimes people get a little and

[Mandy V]

some people like a little must but there's a different smell when dick and balls stank no it like i have

[Kyle Dion]

a dick and ball i have a dick and ball it could stink why'd

[Mandy V]

you say like i got a dick

[Weezy]

and ball it reminded me of sex and the city when steve had one

[Mandy V]

ball and it now let me ask

[Kyle Dion]

you then i love sex and are

[Mandy V]

you able to tell men when their dick and balls stink absolutely because as women there's a there's it's it's difficult yeah like weezy and i were going back and forth we were like we don't know how to tell especially we just probably won't fuck them yeah but it's hard to tell a bitch like some ain't right down there is it

[Kyle Dion]

hard for you guys to tell a woman a woman yeah harder for a

[Weezy]

woman and a man and i could

[Kyle Dion]

tell but i feel like maybe i feel like same sex is not as

[Mandy V]

hard no that's what we're saying yeah

[Kyle Dion]

that's what i'm saying so it's not oh it's harder it's harder to bail

[Mandy V]

a woman it's not hard it's harder

[Kyle Dion]

for me to for a woman yeah it's hard for me to tell a

[Mandy V]

woman so maybe it's just women are sensitive about this that's why i'm like

[Kyle Dion]

i feel i feel like it's more sensitive i'm more sensitive to women okay and then for men i'm like you snake like what's going on you know

[Weezy]

what i want to ask you that it's like totally off topic but i just saw this clip yesterday i'm scared isaiah no no it's not even crazy okay because you just said women and men i know isaiah rashad i was obsessed with him at one point just kind of fell off from listening but i saw him on the breakfast club because you remember when the video of him came out and he was like just talking about like no examples of being bi like we don't talk about it there's no bi niggas like we

[Mandy V]

just talked about it don't even allow men to be bi yeah yeah like

[Weezy]

is it because i'm curious is it more digestible because you sing like is there a world of if you were a rapper where you know it'd be a fuck no for being queer i

[Kyle Dion]

feel like nowadays no i feel like nowadays queerness is so maybe i'm in a bubble because like again artists like and i live in la right and everyone's by here everyone's something yeah everyone's something so i feel like yeah in this day and age like it's everybody it's definitely way more accepting than it was back in the day but yeah you may have a point i mean

[Mandy V]

because can i ask you i'm a

[Kyle Dion]

singer you know it's a little bit more yeah i'm more in touch with my my femininity and like i'm i'm

[Weezy]

and people compare you to prince a lot they do and that was the only one where men didn't care even though i actually do now i'm starting to really think prince was straight they say he was but the energy of and i only am getting that from people back in the day sharing stories like no it was really women yeah yeah but we just associate it because heels aesthetic whatever and i wonder if that's really it we've seen something that sounds bad to say seen something like you before but you know what i

[Kyle Dion]

mean no no no i know what you're saying yeah it's just can i

[Mandy V]

ask you when you deal with women do you feel the need to lead with the fact that you also deal with men is that something that you share out the gate or no and i think just for the listeners there's a lot of women that feel like entitled to know if a man has dealt ever with a man like they feel like it's something that should be openly discussed like if you're trans yeah and i don't feel the same necessarily but like do you feel the need to say hey i deal with men and women nice to meet you monica

[Kyle Dion]

um i feel like any any circumstance where i had a sexual experience with a woman she kind of knew my story okay so it's there was no kind of like you know front but if i'm like hooking up with a woman like after like a club or something i don't feel like we're talking about each other's bios so we're just like okay we're just going in and just having fun right so it's like i never really had but i think if you're going to go on a date with someone or like going to like you know want to pursue them in a different way other than just sex too i think it's worth the conversation letting them know like who you are you know like i don't have i don't have anything to hide really so i just i think that's actually

[Weezy]

the perfect answer you know it is

[Mandy V]

that was literally the perfect answer if

[Weezy]

i'm on a date it's probably coming up yeah for sure i think because of the surprise too like i wouldn't want to be surprised actually i really wouldn't care but i i actually would feel just because i know how men feel about sleeping with men and women sleeping with men period i would be like oh if he didn't tell me he doesn't he's actually not feeling comfortable

[Mandy V]

i would think that i mean i

[Kyle Dion]

feel like would that turn you off yes cause i wanna know you want him to be confident but i'm also

[Weezy]

in my bubble too i mean i

[Mandy V]

found out and i shared on this podcast i was casually having sex with a guy and i found out that he did gay porn oh wow but after we had already you know yeah

[Kyle Dion]

fucked around done a couple things you

[Weezy]

know he'd done any on onlyfans anything

[Mandy V]

this was before onlyfans existed did you feel deceased he wasn't an only fans thing he was on like something blue ryan bleu there's a randy blue i think that was the porn company how did that was i think we were just talking about it and he maybe he felt safe with telling me and i was like and bitch you know i wanted to see it did you

[Kyle Dion]

feel deceived or did you feel like did you feel hotter like did you get more hot the dick was good

[Mandy V]

so it didn't bother okay okay i think if the dick was bad yeah you'll be like like why would you

[Kyle Dion]

go why would you yeah in twenty twenty three that's when we met that's when i like this i have way more experiences sexually with women but in twenty twenty three i think twenty twenty two twenty twenty three is when i started messing around with men and i feel like it's like we wear it on your sleeve like you know what i'm saying i don't feel like don't tell nobody and if if you i feel like you two are women that you wouldn't give a fuck if a guy is bi obviously like you guys

[Weezy]

are cool i'm like i told him

[Kyle Dion]

that you're looking for do you feel like women should let men know it's

[Mandy V]

easier for us okay like and that's the double standards specifically in bisexuality we are it's fantasized for women to play with women i know and so wheatley even just said on another episode it was patreon she encouraged like if we as women expressed how much we get off on gay porn and how too

[Kyle Dion]

much i was talking about this with my girlfriends too it's the same as much as we love women on women love men on the sleeve and so

[Mandy V]

i think if we express our fantasy of men embracing their sexuality if there

[Weezy]

were more women doing it there would

[Kyle Dion]

be more yeah so you think for my job it's easier i do because

[Weezy]

one wearing it on your sleeve you dress sexy you're in you're almost in both energies at the same time which is also why you have men and women on your team but singing is easier also the type of music you make if it was isaiah rashad i see why he didn't want anyone to know i just am disappointed by how far we've come as a society where in one era we can get married we can celebrate trans rights et cetera and then on the other end in our own communities we know we could be killed for it and i just don't know if it's to me almost worth it in your forties to expose yourself to a point where it's different if you're younger sure yeah but i i i don't think so especially athletes like i i really understand why they want to hold it because honestly if you come out as an athlete you're only a martyr for the community you're not doing it for yourself it's going to be more difficult for you heated rivalry was really important i don't know

[Kyle Dion]

if you watched that i love that

[Mandy V]

i think that i can't stop watching it because i'm like in the white space they're allowed to be gay so it's different but for and not even

[Kyle Dion]

not even allowed to be gay but like allowed to express like be fluid with their masculinity there you go white men fluidity in masculinity in the white world is way different than in the

[Weezy]

black world where's your family oh florida

[Mandy V]

florida i just don't like the where we're at certain jobs roles ages whatever the case i think i would like to get to a place i think it becomes safer i think we as black women become safer in our health and everything for everyone if you're if you're a woman dealing with women if you're a man dealing with man if you're dealing with both there should just be a conversation absolutely if you are dating anyone and i don't think at any point you should keep that you're dealing with both sexes like i her

[Weezy]

sexuality dating intimacy i agree i'm on the team that kyle mentioned but you're

[Kyle Dion]

saying as far as as far as

[Weezy]

public publicize no like no no no

[Mandy V]

no no but i don't think everyone has to lead with their sexuality either

[Kyle Dion]

there's a lot of let me say i i have recently just like i've always been messing with like i said twenty twenty three has been like a few years now but i've been very private about my sexuality not in a sense of like shame or being dl or anything but just like i don't want it to be the forefront of why you follow me or why you listen to my music i feel like for a long time i was just like yeah i just want i want to be like known for like my music and not like oh but then as i've like for the last year i've realized that like there is this whole community the queer community obviously that they want to support people that are

[Weezy]

queer who are some queer artists that are on your mind kehlani that you say kehlani's a big one kehlani's a

[Kyle Dion]

big one and i've known her for like ten years when we were like

[Mandy V]

teenagers conrad because i'm thinking about duran bernard duran bernard but i thought he was gay i'm curious i mean gay queer same thing i'm curious with this new shift kehlani's new album she's k one as well they openly sing to women have you found yourself in your songwriting going back and forth to who the song is about yeah absolutely i

[Kyle Dion]

have songs that are i have one song called xyxy that i dropped in twenty twenty two come on chromazole ooh

[Mandy V]

i love it that's hard come on

[Weezy]

sony i wish we could put music

[Kyle Dion]

on our youtube but we can't but that was my song to let my fans know i've had this first experience with this guy and all this stuff so i was like xyxy that was on my first ep and then i dropped a single called brb which was written i don't know in the summer or something of twenty twenty four and then that says like it says she in the beginning and the first verse and it says he in the second verse so it's like i kind of just dabble it and i'm again like i said i'm not i'm not like trying to not say what i mess with and what i do but it's more so like i i like to be intentional and i don't want to like like i don't know i'm very i don't have as many experiences too like i'm still learning and having more experiences as i get older and as i do things so i i tread carefully and i i see the the community and how beautiful it is and i just want to make sure that i'm you know representing it right

[Weezy]

all

[Mandy V]

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[Mandy V]

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[Mandy V]

you're single and dating right

[Kyle Dion]

now right i'm dating yes so curious

[Mandy V]

victoria monet just said that dating women is actually so much fucking harder than these niggas so i'm curious with you which do you find more difficult time dating is it women and why or is it men and why i think it's men okay yeah and why because is it lack of commitment is it lack of communication like you even having both experience it was really i loved hearing victoria monet talk these bitches ain't shit you know so i think men is harder too with men women i

[Kyle Dion]

think men is harder i don't know i think there's like an ego thing too i think sometimes that gets in the way think like i don't know i feel like when i'm like going towards the men's side i kind of want something that obviously i'm not gonna get from a woman but sometimes men give me like i'm like i could just go mess with a woman how

[Mandy V]

do you decide who pays for the date you act like a bitch start crying like a bitch pays for the

[Kyle Dion]

date well you're the famous one yeah

[Mandy V]

i know they expect you to be the rich one so you gotta pay

[Kyle Dion]

for the price no actually actually i've had dates where like one in particular where they're like you i'm you probably pay for all your friends all the time you got i'm paying for this i like that i love that it

[Mandy V]

was you thought to them yeah okay i know you do so have you

[Weezy]

brought two into the bedroom at once

[Kyle Dion]

oh yeah he's like how do you

[Weezy]

do it how do you do it

[Mandy V]

i'm jealous that is that's up there

[Kyle Dion]

i've done that for me i want i want two men you want two

[Mandy V]

men i've done two women women more i'm putting up ray j numbers with the threesomes with women okay okay okay it's a lot okay that's a joke i have not reached a twelve thousand number no because when we say it is a joke but the amount of women i've had with threesomes very high cannot get two men especially on the bye vibe how do you really even

[Kyle Dion]

buy like i don't meet them i

[Mandy V]

don't meet them you want and then i feel like i'm trying to turn straight you say you an atf i

[Weezy]

am

[Mandy V]

way all over there i haven't met bi men in atl i mean and so for me too not that i want trade but if they're bi they have to be very masculine i don't want i don't like all that atlanta has all that you know i

[Weezy]

actually find that super femboys are not

[Mandy V]

the bi ones yeah but that's what i'm saying i ain't met a mask buy man i just haven't i mean i'm also not or one that looks good enough yeah yeah it's a good so yeah it just hasn't happened but how do you set it up or have you been brought oh is it

[Weezy]

friends and they're like it's been it's

[Kyle Dion]

been some yeah is it the friend

[Weezy]

that i know that was on my birthday and she look like now she

[Mandy V]

look like who does she look like

[Kyle Dion]

chloe no no no oh no no

[Weezy]

she looked like every time i see

[Kyle Dion]

her she's like yeah yeah yeah she

[Weezy]

doesn't look okay well now i can

[Kyle Dion]

bring up who it is no no

[Weezy]

our homegirl callie she has a really dope brand sorry dad yeah sorry dad and she makes like really dirty like t shirt because she's a great artist every time i see cali she ready and i told andrey you haven't bugged

[Mandy V]

her yet no but because she be

[Weezy]

ready with me she i said doesn't she be ready i have a crazy sexual energy i'm telling andre this he's like oh yo kylie just be dancing she's fun i'm like i don't know if she's into me or she's fun every time i see her she's like and it feels like she tits up when i see her like it's just

[Kyle Dion]

she loves her she embraces her tits

[Weezy]

she really does she just has the but i feel like you're asking her

[Kyle Dion]

on a date right now oh no

[Mandy V]

you're not single no right she's what

[Weezy]

wait yeah wait a second she dates

[Kyle Dion]

bitches oh yeah yeah did she bring

[Mandy V]

them in with a man he would

[Weezy]

ask cali on a date okay you know i actually don't know how my boyfriend would feel about a white woman

[Kyle Dion]

oh oh see that's the thing for me too it's hard for me to do white women ooh they gonna love

[Mandy V]

you now come keep talking okay i'm

[Kyle Dion]

being honest okay i'm being honest you know what's crazy i don't need black

[Mandy V]

women same so i had one threesome with a white woman and i literally had to tell my boyfriend you just made me fuck a white girl white girl like i literally was like i've never done a white girl before so he made me a lace wig and a white girl and i was like but the white girl so i like

[Weezy]

my white girl like a cali i don't like them wigger white you know that what's the girl to do the new show that she got all the niggas on the russian girl les oh yeah we just had a little conversation in the chat anyway i don't like

[Mandy V]

i don't like that type i don't like white women parading themselves around that i only fuck niggas yeah i don't like that and i just think it could go without being sued personally i think it's bad content but you you don't fuck white women i have well then i'm curious it's gotta be like a french one but you've engaged then i love you saying this because most people would assume as a man of

[Kyle Dion]

color as a nuggle i'm a nigger as a niggle as a nigga that

[Mandy V]

you that you would as a bi man begin getting white women to partake because black women just are anti bisexual

[Kyle Dion]

men no i mean again maybe i'm in a bubble and maybe because maybe i'm in a bubble you know what it is because i'm an artist like you said or whatever but i'm around a lot of cool people and really open minded people i know you or

[Mandy V]

whatever but it is black women that you're doing this so back again yeah black women how do you sell up the bisexual threesome oh yeah with two

[Weezy]

men one woman teach us listen that book behind you new york times bestseller

[Mandy V]

we ain't got no buy threesome we need that stories to pocket threesome and

[Kyle Dion]

foursomes in there it ain't no honestly i have never done a threesome where i like we set it up prior it's been like we at the club oh like we at the club at the afters oh now we go into the crib and then it's like boom

[Mandy V]

it's not funny so picking up the girl is it a girl that you know is with it or have you been able to with a guy pick up a girl and say yeah who

[Kyle Dion]

does the leading is it you i've done okay there's so many experiences like oh stop this little flex i'm like okay so i've done it like where my where me and my where me and my guy friend were messing with two we brought two girls back and we all were messing so when you

[Weezy]

and him got to it were the girls like

[Kyle Dion]

we didn't get to it like that but like yeah okay we didn't get to it like that cause he was my friend so we didn't really like we didn't dale me nothing for me yeah i know but so

[Weezy]

what is friend a make out touching

[Kyle Dion]

like yeah i make out with my friends and stuff like that but yeah but but for that incident but then there's another incident where i'm like yeah where it's like me a guy and a girl and i think that that happened with the club scene like it wasn't like a pre call it was just like oh and then she was down and he was down and we

[Mandy V]

were like yeah i want to find people that are down do you both

[Weezy]

eat the pussy like how does it

[Kyle Dion]

i was yeah no no no keep

[Mandy V]

going oh my gosh let's think about this do you have a song about this what i need a song about

[Weezy]

this yeah we need a song about

[Kyle Dion]

this about three a three way yeah

[Weezy]

and then we need you we need to come to the performance and open it up like this is our fantasy

[Mandy V]

and then can i direct the video yes you can and i'll keep it

[Weezy]

like thirteen the model in it listen

[Mandy V]

i am with over inside it ill

[Kyle Dion]

will i've done a thing where i've brought a friend in male or female friend male and it was two women this is another thing and i'm like he didn't really eat pussy so i'm there teaching him with the woman like

[Mandy V]

i'll be a canvas i was like i'll be a guinea pig i was

[Kyle Dion]

like i'm teaching him i'm like this is you know that's the clip and i'm like like all live and she's i'm like i'm doing and i'm like you try and then yeah that is

[Mandy V]

i would like yeah i would like

[Weezy]

boyfriend do that every single day but

[Kyle Dion]

again this is like this is like after the club we all drunk so

[Mandy V]

we did go out with the baby but i don't go to enough after

[Weezy]

two clubs is having that i got

[Mandy V]

to go to afters to get like

[Kyle Dion]

this is afters this is afters and like it's that under the bridge that

[Mandy V]

would say the freaks club no that

[Kyle Dion]

under the bridge that under the bridge

[Mandy V]

i thought so i wasn't under the

[Kyle Dion]

bridge they're not under the bridge in the bridge yes it's too much wait

[Mandy V]

it's under the a bridge that one

[Weezy]

where the recent link up was it's

[Mandy V]

not under the bridge it's under a

[Weezy]

bridge no i think it's called under

[Kyle Dion]

the bridge it's not called under the bridge but it's there's a bridge oh but i know exactly what you're talking

[Weezy]

about so i'm there it's maybe for something there's leather couches couches i just

[Kyle Dion]

want to say again i am delivered

[Mandy V]

not i've been delivered i've been delivered you said these are stories from two

[Kyle Dion]

years ago these are stories from two three years ago now let me tell

[Weezy]

you how the bridge spot seems like a threesome spot okay andrey did a daytime party here recently a week ago right i walk in and i didn't realize because of the daylight and i'm sober so cause after these you're already fucked up i walk in it's like three thirty and i said okay there was uno there was jenga there's connect four and there's cards in a circular

[Mandy V]

couch oh this is exactly how i've made out with three people that's how

[Kyle Dion]

it goes down that's it afti yeah

[Mandy V]

but i didn't hit me that all

[Weezy]

the extras was in there mind you you got indoor you got outdoor right so also another great way to like get it going at the halfbeast if you're not a smoker pick it up you gotta walk outside and the smokers

[Kyle Dion]

are the coolest walk outside that's what

[Weezy]

you do those are the ones who the freaks because the smokers need to you know have a little camaraderie so then you gotta be like kind of like and then it's a whole thing

[Mandy V]

but like cigarettes look at when the

[Kyle Dion]

actors educated okay after he's etiquette let's go one on one after one hundred

[Mandy V]

and one for real because even if

[Weezy]

you're not a smoker it's just like

[Mandy V]

you're in the crew that's where it goes down and now you're not real

[Kyle Dion]

shit up are you not an afties girl you're not i go to the

[Mandy V]

sex club and i'm there till and i fall asleep in the sex club

[Kyle Dion]

but you're not like a afties but

[Mandy V]

i'll be at the sex club at twelve and not leave till six seven

[Weezy]

am the afties turns into the shit

[Kyle Dion]

you do but like i'm trying to tell you i have had such a like you ever had like a sexual experience where you're just like you think about it sometimes you're like ugh oh yeah oh my god it just come out in random and you just like you driving it's like ugh it's the

[Mandy V]

person it's the person i hate that

[Kyle Dion]

shit it's the person it's the person not really what happened how did i do that i'm trying to say i

[Weezy]

have a lot of cringeworthy apps the

[Kyle Dion]

athletes stained me where i'm just like i can't i don't look at that place as like a good like there's some beauty in it but like most of it was just like what bad

[Weezy]

decision my worst one was the night before burning we went to an aftys in berlin and berghain is the one that we were getting ready for right now i'm like oh i'm getting ready for this night but i didn't know it was gonna take this much of a turn i'm in the aftys we're kicking in with these girls they're actually super cute and the funny part about it is my nigga was like look at these hoes bouncing around trying to get drugs ooh and what happened when they got to us cause they was kind of cute so we having a good time we're talking to them and shit and then i see them the next night the girls had on the same clothes smudged eyeliner and they're like on the same energy and i'm like fuck bro i'm a once a month at these girl these motherfuckers is partying for seventy two hours yeah maybe every day they're going the whole way through and it's just like this is their

[Kyle Dion]

life that was me that was me that was i'm trying to tell you you could do that oh my god i don't and i think it's because and that's why i keep saying like i'm i think it's because my whole life as a young young man and then you know thriving in my career at a certain like around twenty nineteen is when i like started thriving in my career and i started having access to all these things and i never did i never went out i never drank till i was twenty four whoa i never like i was so focused on my music since i was a kid i was like i'm gonna be a fucking superstar and i'm not doing any like people the things i was doing like three four years ago are what people did when they were teenagers

[Weezy]

now did indulging to the real questions

[Kyle Dion]

or just like indulging elevate nineteen twenty one twenty two you know what i'm saying like yeah it's like my sisters will be like yeah we was in you know they were doing when they were seventeen years old like i wasn't doing anything i was just completely focused on my music word is shocking that's what i'm saying so when i got the access in the last you know did it elevate your career it elevated my it it didn't elevate my career i'm saying it's more like i had access to a bunch of stuff because i was coming up in my career and i'm still coming up in my career so like there's a lot this access in this hollywood and all so

[Weezy]

is it true then that that the drinking drugs sex parties it kind of does get you up the ladder a little bit because i got my job my biggest hollywood job ever at a party like a covid party and it was mad famous people in there and the man whose house it was was like yeah i'm gonna hire you to run blah blah blah and i thought it was just drunk talk and then i'm still working for him today and i think to myself if i didn't get my ass up to go party

[Kyle Dion]

at midnight then you wouldn't have that opportunity yeah it's funny i be telling

[Mandy V]

people be like i be outside i'm like no guys it's work yeah i'm networking no this is me going to work which is why it might take me three or four times it's worked like even even literally i have an opportunity this summer for quite a just dope shit and literally i met the girl outside of a party in cannes period and when i was in cannes i said bitch you gotta be outside yeah and she was like like me running into you outside of that party can and we were drunk and we got the shawarmas i and we got the shawarmas now see that's level one

[Kyle Dion]

that's what i'm saying we were level

[Mandy V]

four yeah yeah i'm not gonna lie i don't go to the party so

[Kyle Dion]

that's what so but i'm gonna eat

[Mandy V]

the shawarma after the party though we gonna go to the to the waffle

[Kyle Dion]

house to my point i was trying to i was doing a lot and i just feel like it's because i had so much assets and i never was a really partier so when i was partying those three i was going hard as fuck so basically kyle i

[Mandy V]

have a lot of experience in order to be a hoe in order to

[Kyle Dion]

be a hoe and also you have to party because you have to let it out of your system don't let it out of your system when you're later in life let it out of

[Mandy V]

your system so we still letting it out our system yeah i'm still letting

[Kyle Dion]

it out my system yeah but not

[Weezy]

as hard now you know what you have to have a few moments as a hoe these are the moments you have to have we should all name one my one that i think comes from your partying too much phase used to cry to someone random in the

[Mandy V]

bathroom has to happen so i actually i'm gonna keep us in the bathroom keep us in the bathroom i think whole phase you have to eat coochie or suck dick in a bathroom i've

[Kyle Dion]

done both i've done miami i've done

[Mandy V]

a play i literally what you did

[Kyle Dion]

a threesome in a bathroom no i've done like a it's disgusting i'm not even gonna say it it's too much

[Mandy V]

well i'm just saying i ate coochie in a bathroom oh i know you took it too far too far just think nope okay and how are you

[Weezy]

even seeing it i'd have to it

[Mandy V]

was an afters oh i'm into that one you know what i'm talking about as a hoe what would you say someone needs to experience in a hoe phase she said you have to cry to a stranger in the bathroom i said you have to suck dick or eat coochie in the bathroom and what do you think someone has to do

[Kyle Dion]

you have to fuck there's so much there's so much etiquette here you have to get your ass ate by a random person and your ass ate by a person by a random person in

[Mandy V]

the bathroom we're keeping it all in

[Weezy]

the bathroom here yeah okay so those

[Mandy V]

are the three things everybody that you have to do get your ass ate in a whole face i've had that

[Weezy]

in a green room oh wait what

[Mandy V]

what not bitch do you guys eat

[Kyle Dion]

ass we were working on of course

[Weezy]

it'll be fucking junior high ass we

[Mandy V]

eat ass i actually spread it open and whole face is in the ass is this horrible decision we've been making

[Weezy]

this very horrible we're gonna figure out

[Mandy V]

how to do this mind you mind you this is going against the argument i just had on black effect what black effect was like well your content's kind of the same i said no it's not it's so much calmer mandy

[Weezy]

and i did a name change i don't i don't know if most people some people notice that they don't listen we were horrible decisions for eight years and then we came out with this book here and said let's change the name to elevate and there was mad

[Mandy V]

ads that weren't fucking with us so we said it's the name let's change the name okay we also went through the last year and changing a bit of the content in the last couple

[Weezy]

months baby we're nasty once we had the girl that gets paid to shit

[Mandy V]

on n no you that was supposed to be horrible decisions and you said no we're bringing that to the main

[Weezy]

then i knew we were driving straight and then we you know she don't

[Mandy V]

want to say on straight and narrow okay she wants us to i want

[Weezy]

to look at me bro i'm taking it up levels that i didn't know

[Kyle Dion]

i will never come is crazy fed cum is cum that should be the

[Mandy V]

title of this video to be fair to be fair to be fair that is insane but i did squirt in a couple cup he mixed it with ciroc and drank it but i didn't

[Weezy]

do it you know what's crazy

[Mandy V]

that is bad cum thick sperm we we

[Weezy]

hold on did everyone not swallow she

[Mandy V]

swallowed oh yeah but okay yeah she

[Kyle Dion]

swallowed it's just the act of like let me go get a out of the middle and then let me go nut in the basically that is what

[Mandy V]

i'm saying should have had that thought before they

[Weezy]

but once you horny once you peaky you like fuck nasty nasty

[Mandy V]

nasty i mean that's what happened to me in jamaica i ended up fucking in a tree because there was a tree and he was like i've never fucked in a tree i said me either let's fuck in a tree what

[Weezy]

all inclusive cocktail did you have it was a heck did they say hey

[Kyle Dion]

i went to this sex party in amsterdam oh oh it changed my life

[Weezy]

forever really why close us out with

[Kyle Dion]

the sex party club yeah i'll close you off with the before we tell everybody to buy your yeah yeah this amsterdam this it's called i don't know if i should say the name no please should i be like it's called the school yeah it's called the school

[Mandy V]

speak english we don't know yeah yeah

[Kyle Dion]

we don't know what the okay so we we we go in and it's like this like abandoned kind of like it looks like a school and yeah and it's like mad classrooms yeah and let me tell you we walked in i loved it there was like a there was a thing before you go and it was like yeah there was a thing before you go in was like we accept everyone here everyone's privacy blah blah queer lgbtq you know everything and i was like okay cool we go in and it's like there's different dj's in different classrooms there's different things me and my friend are like in the corner in one of the classrooms like in this dark area where if you go into the corner like it's like a think of like a resort like where you could rent out those like bed kind of things there the it was like that in the corner of a place and it was pitch black me and my homeboy go over there we're chilling and these two girls just roll over to us it's dark right roll over to us start making out fucking each other right next to us and we're just like trying to i'm like i'm like i'm trying to get in there and she they don't give a fuck about me they just are she's eating her coochie she's like

[Mandy V]

i never ate coochie before she eat

[Kyle Dion]

it she eating her coochie that bitch was going crazy i'm like you never ate coochie before you had her crazy going wild she makes her come and they go and they run out into the party then there's like people having sex in like trees and like swings outside like at the recess area oh

[Mandy V]

i'm going i'll have to i'm trying

[Kyle Dion]

to tell you we're gonna put you

[Weezy]

on the business so patronautics can be in amsterdam with uncle waffles and i was like ooh which tour style should we do in milan paris amsterdam i'm

[Kyle Dion]

adding amsterdam go to amsterdam please amsterdam is one of my favorite places in europe desh school deschool i'm putting them i'm putting them like i don't know if i'm putting them on but like

[Mandy V]

they they put on no i'm going before the end of the year i'm going to make it a trip it

[Kyle Dion]

was definitely a world like it changed my my whole do you think it's

[Mandy V]

an actual school it is an actual school wait so during the day kids

[Kyle Dion]

are no no no no no it's abandoned it's not it's not it's not

[Mandy V]

like a oh yeah yeah he said

[Kyle Dion]

it's banded it's not like a real school right now but it's built like a school so it's oh that's dope

[Weezy]

amsterdam sex club school no it's an

[Kyle Dion]

after kind of thing so i don't know if it's like a came right

[Weezy]

up it came up oh it says to school and it's in the berghain

[Mandy V]

community reddit period this oh i'm going

[Weezy]

hold on fellow burgh hines i've never

[Kyle Dion]

been it was it was set out to the school and a beautiful i think a a beautiful black woman owns the whole thing i forgot her name support black business queer black woman i forgot her name but like shout out to her and yeah because that's creative

[Weezy]

as someone beautiful too never had an experience like this it is really a school it's really rooms like a class

[Mandy V]

see look i'm going it's fun it's

[Weezy]

the biggest potential to come the best club in the world but honestly in my opinion it just failed their music

[Mandy V]

program who cares see vertical shut the fuck no no no i'm not going to lie when i be in the sex club certain music has to be going in order for me to suck dick that's why when i went to tokyo valentino bro i don't want to hear swag surf while i'm trying to like play with some dick yeah like i don't want to hear trap music while i'm trying to suck i need

[Weezy]

a certain oh actually who's on your playlist if it's not you of course

[Kyle Dion]

who's on my playlist yeah for your sex playlist sex playlist fuck damn we have this i know i have this whole playlist actually let me just shut out my playlist so my playlist on spotify hello on spotify is called shit i like and it's just a massive amount of songs i like and i just run that bitch name like who

[Weezy]

we might now no maybe you're like

[Kyle Dion]

mainstreaming nor me baby probably snooze yeah mainstream yeah yeah and damn i wish i could just like look at it real quick i'm not good on the spot nah just go that just go to that playlist okay one of my favorite if you go on my spotify if you go on my spotify you scroll down you can see my playlist and it's just like that's my no

[Mandy V]

allegra daniel caesar no allegra and this is it's the daniel caesar i like

[Weezy]

k kaleila's up there for me naomi sharon kalali naomi sharon is good olivia

[Mandy V]

dean there's olivia dean really because when you in love you like that bitch when you in love when you in love you make in love now when you just fucking i need pretty ricky nasty shit okay but when you in love that's the snow allegro hon we

[Weezy]

saw y' all we want you to go and check out kyle please do yes understand that it is very important to support artists following them streaming them he blends r b soul and pop he is a dynamic artist one of the best of his generation we want y' all to really tune in enjoy you love his vibe now that you got to know him on the show so you're gonna love his music i

[Kyle Dion]

just want to say too i know i don't do interviews i don't have many interviews at all like really like podcasts kind of like i found that

[Weezy]

little ai thing of you i know

[Kyle Dion]

that's the only i really really haven't you guys have made me feel like so comfortable and i'm kind of just like this was like a perfect like you guys kind of popped my cherry on like the podcast you're my cherry was popped my cherry was popped i hope you guys think i'm cool i'm sorry for not saying hi to you at first that fucking stuck with me i'm sorry i love you no no

[Weezy]

no it didn't stick with me because i really thought it was kind of

[Kyle Dion]

funny okay because i was i'm moody too i mean fuck period maybe something happened i don't know no no no you were maybe i was drunk you

[Mandy V]

were wet you were wet i was

[Kyle Dion]

wet yeah i was pissed i'd be wet my hair my hair you know what i'm saying and it was fashion

[Weezy]

week fashion week no i'm not joking you guys were i have an old school new york building what's up the not the sc yeah you guys were under the scaffolding before i pressed the

[Kyle Dion]

button it was crazy my friend threw up that night like it was nasty

[Mandy V]

it was like a new york night

[Kyle Dion]

yeah i miss new york so bad

[Weezy]

now patreon dot com back horrible decisions

[Mandy V]

oh they get in the nasty here

[Weezy]

well if you guys want to hear where we did that little bleep and everybody went you can go on

[Mandy V]

and

[Weezy]

we're putting it on patreon why is

[Mandy V]

she no we're not watching we talked about multiple times i know they know

[Weezy]

know it's a but they have no idea what happened they want to hear the whole story just go on over to patreon dot com horrible decisions that little portion is going to be right on the feed don't play with me

[Kyle Dion]

you should name the video this we

[Mandy V]

just said it enough time well you i gonna be able to edit that to where no one's gonna know what

[Weezy]

happened it doesn't matter it's the whole

[Mandy V]

theatrics no there ain't no theatrics they know you gonna you eat and come out your look said it enough anyways thank you all for listening to another episode of decisions decisions bye it's mandy v from the decisions decisions podcast and my friends in the us virgin islands want you to experience the beautiful islands of saint thomas saint croix and saint john usvi is hands down one of my favorite spots and best the to part if you're traveling from the us you don't even need a passport i'm all about the food the people the culture and those beaches they are absolutely beautiful head to visit usbi dot com to start planning your next vacation that's visitusvi dot com usbi naturally in rhythm

[Weezy]

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[Mandy V]

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[Mandy V]

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[Mandy V]

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[Kyle Dion]

with who

[Mandy V]

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[Weezy]

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