"I WANNA BOOTY EAT… MY MANS… BUT HOW!!?"

Podcast: Decisions, Decisions
Hosts: Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Date: February 4, 2026
Producer: The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts

Main Theme & Purpose

In this episode, Mandii and Weezy dive into listener questions about pushing sexual boundaries in relationships, specifically tackling the taboo and often awkward topic of women wanting to “eat” their boyfriend’s ass. With their signature candid humor and real talk, they break down communication challenges, share personal stories, and offer step-by-step advice for navigating desires in the bedroom—without TMI from past partners getting in the way.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Vanilla Sh*t + Neighbor Nudity Debate

[02:03–09:20]

• The episode begins with a playful intro and segues into a discussion about a news story out of LA: a mother and son distressed by their neighbor being naked with the blinds open.
• Both Mandii and Weezy debate personal responsibility versus public decency, recounting their own stories about being loud or naked in private spaces.
  • Mandii: “If it’s disturbing you that much, close the blinds.” [03:42]
  • Weezy: “Being naked in your own home is not a crime.” [08:41]
• They agree that filming someone in their private space, even if they're naked, is a bigger violation than the nudity itself.

2. "You Got Decisions" Letter: The Booty-Eating Question

[10:34–31:32]

• Introduction to the listener letter from a Latina woman (“natural, needy, curvy,” age 30), monogamous, who wants to introduce ass-eating into her current relationship, inspired by great past experience.
• The crux: Her boyfriend ("Dee") is great in bed but sensitive about exes, and she's unsure how to bring up her desire without making him uncomfortable.
  • Letter Excerpt: “I want to booty eat my mans… but how!?”

Key Tips & Real Talk:

• Don’t Frame Desires Through Exes’ Experiences
  • Weezy: “You can’t be bringing up past experiences with someone thinking that’ll make somebody else be like, ‘oh, sure.’” [15:47]
  • Mandii endorses introducing fantasies as fresh desires, not “ex comparisons.”
• How to Start the Conversation
  • Use the “Group Chat Trick”: Bring it up as something the girls were discussing. Example:
    Mandii: “Say that, ‘Man, my homegirl just talked about how she ate this nigga ass and it turned him out. Have you ever had that done to you?’” [17:08]
  • Send Relevant Porn: Mandii recommends sending a porn clip featuring the act (“Type in chudai or wata on X”) to gauge his reaction. [18:31]
• Pick the Right Moment
  • Have talks in positive, intimate moments—not during conflict or in a tense ‘We need to talk’ scenario.
    Weezy: “There is something to be said about having conversations when no one’s angry or not on the defense.” [19:18]
• Physical Testing the Waters
  • The “Graze Test”: While giving oral, use a hand to gently touch/graze the area near the ass.
    Mandii: “If he jumps… that’s your gauge. If he’s comfortable, maybe you have the conversation later.” [22:38]
  • The Shower Move: Suggest showering together and see if cleansing him builds intimacy and brings comfort with ass play.
    Weezy: “My first time touching almost 90% of the asses I’ve been in is in the shower.” [26:11]

Dealing With Rejection/Discomfort:

• Mandii shares a personal anecdote about a partner who was not into any “freaky shit” and how that’s a dealbreaker for her.
• They both stress: Some people just have boundaries, and you should ideally be compatible enough to talk about kinks before things escalate physically.

3. Memorable Moments: Nasty/Funny Anecdotes

• Unexpected turn as Weezy tells a story about a guy who wanted to help her “push out her shit” (literal defecation), tying into how far certain kinks can go.
  • Weezy: “You know when you take a shit that’s so crazy you gotta tell somebody? He was like, next time I want to help you.” [28:10]
• Discussion about “fart queens” and kink—for comic relief and to highlight how everyone’s boundaries are different.

4. Final Takeaways & Listener Advice

• Recap to the letter-writer: Don’t overshare about exes, introduce ideas with care, and test the waters both physically and emotionally.
  • Mandii: “Hopefully you write back in and let us know how you get to booty eat your man—because I’m here for it, hon!” [31:16]

Notable Quotes & Timestamps

• Mandii: “If it’s disturbing you that much, close the blinds.” [03:42]
• Weezy: “Being naked in your own home is not a crime.” [08:41]
• Mandii: “Don’t even bring up that you was like trying to gauge. But this is your gauge.” (on grazing during foreplay) [22:38]
• Weezy: “Some of the best chats happen in the high moment.” [19:18]
• Weezy: “You can’t be bringing up past experiences with someone thinking that’ll make somebody else be like, ‘oh, sure.’” [15:47]
• Mandii: “Say that, ‘Man, my homegirl just talked about how she ate this nigga ass… Have you ever had that done to you?’” [17:08]
• Weezy: “My first time touching almost 90% of the asses I’ve been in is in the shower.” [26:11]
• Mandii: “Hopefully you write back in and let us know how you get to booty eat your man—because I’m here for it, hon!” [31:16]

Timestamps for Key Segments

• [02:03–09:20] – Discussion on naked neighbor news, privacy vs. decency.
• [10:34–13:26] – Introducing the “You Got Decisions” letter.
• [13:26–18:57] – Listener’s dilemma and communication tips.
• [18:57–20:45] – How to find the right moment for tough conversations.
• [22:38–26:02] – Physical “tests” for comfort with anal play.
• [26:02–30:51] – Intimacy in the shower & personal (hilariously gross) anecdotes.

Summary

This episode is classic Mandii and Weezy: raw, real, boundary-breaking, and laugh-out-loud funny. With empathy and practical wisdom, they offer real talk on sexual communication and exploring kink, all while dropping gems on intimacy, comfort, and emotional safety in partnered sex. If you’re looking for advice outside the “vanilla” box—and a reminder that it’s OK to laugh about your quirks and desires—this is the perfect listen.