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Mandy B
This is an I heart podcast. Guaranteed human.
Wheezy
This is wheezy. WTF from Decisions, decisions, ladies. Let's talk about taking control of our sexual health. That's grown woman energy. You may think HIV affects someone else somewhere else, but the truth is it's impacting our community. And some of us are being hit harder than others. Black women make up just 13% of the women in the US yet account for nearly half of new HIV diagnoses amongst women. Taking care of ourselves is community care. Know your options, ask questions, and protect your peace and your body. That's using your power. Sponsored by Care for the Culture from Gilead Sciences.
Timbo
Last night, a blown call changed the game. This morning, the Internet lost its mind and nobody's telling you exactly what happened. That's where Sports Slice comes in. I'm Timbo, and every episode we're cutting through the noise, breaking down the biggest moments in sports and giving you the real story behind the headlines. And we're going straight to the source. The athletes themselves, their locker room stories, their reactions in the moment, and the stuff nobody gets to hear. Listen to Sports slice on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. And for more, follow Timbo, Slice Life 12 and the TikTok Podcast Network on TikTok.
Robert Smigel
Another podcast from some SNL late night comedy guy not quite on Humor Me with Robert Smigel and Friends and hilarious guests from Bob Odenkirk to David Letterman help make you funnier this week. My guests, SNL's Mikey Day and head writer Streeter Seidel help an acapella band with their between songs banter.
Ebro Darden
Where does your group perform? We do some retirement homes.
Robert Smigel
Those people are starving for banter. Listen to Humor Me with Robert Smigel and friends on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
A King
What's up, guys? This is Clifford Taylor iv. And on my podcast, the Clifford Show, I'm bringing you conversations about all kinds of stuff like being an Internet referee. We're in the middle of a game. This linebacker. This linebacker walks up to me, he goes, hey, ref, my mom wants you to wave at her.
Ebro Darden
What?
A King
Time out. Look, quarterback on offense.
Ebro Darden
Blue 42. Hey, Rhett. My ma.
A King
I' ma want you to way better.
Mandy B
What?
A King
Where's she at?
Ebro Darden
Hey, Ms. Parker.
A King
Listen to the Clifford show on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.
Mandy B
Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. However, before we get to this week's episode, I want to Remind you guys to purchase my book, no Holds Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. So feel free to go to your local bookstores, preferably queer owned, black owned or woman owned, to support them, but also just click the button on Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, or wherever you read your books. Again, that is no Holds Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power written by yours truly and my co host of the Decisions Decisions podcast, Wheezy. Make sure y' all get that. Now let's get to this week's episode. This is Mandy B. Welcome to Selective Ignorance, a production of the Black Effect podcast network and iHeartRadio. All right, all right, all right, all right, all right, all right, all right. Welcome to Selective Ignorance, y'. All. I am your host, the host, that bitch. I, Mandy B. Here to be selectively ignorant with my guys. With my guys. Now, y', all, this week we are getting into all of the ignorant things. A king has a response at the top of this pod to Ebro and Peter. I'm gonna leave it there and I'm gonna let him speak his piece. I'm starting off the goddamn episode with a double down or take it back. Not sure if you saw my clip that went viral over the last week where I suggested that Monica Lewinsky was not a sexual assault victim. I am double downing on my take and letting you know why as well as leaning into the fact that, yes, there are power dynamics. We're getting into the conversation around JPMorgan exec who faces sexual misconduct, faced with a lawsuit for her inappropriate behavior with another employee. And then. And celebrities say the darnest things. We are giving our predictions and our talks about the biracial Canadian embarrassing. Drake is dropping Iceman. And y' all know I'm excited for Jesus Christ, who is about to take over the summer because he failed.
A King
Oh, my God.
Ebro Darden
That was going to happen.
Mandy B
He failed me last summer.
A King
Show you two summers, 2026.
Mandy B
Chill, chill, chill, chill. And y', all, we're also going to get into Ray J. I'm like, I wanna take a shower with y' all niggas too. At this point, he is doing it for the gram and for the Internet. Ray J recently said he has slept with 12,500 people. Did you know that is the same size as the Vatican City? It's bigger than the Vatican City. Well, we talk about body count for men. And then Stephen A. Smith also decides to share his preference and saying that he needs a woman who cooks. Now, why this pissed people off, I will never know. Because who wants to cook for Stephen A. Smith. Anyways, then we get into politics, which is very, very, very, very, very important. You want to stay with us all the way through the end because we are talking about the loss of voting rights now, not only due to red lining and gerrymandering. The Supreme Court has demolished the Voting Rights Acts. However, what no one is talking about is the SAVE act, which has actually also made it harder for certain women to vote. So we are talking about us losing our voting rights as far as black people and women. Then, of course, we have a response to where we are in terms of a socioeconomic standpoint in this country. And then maybe if we get into it. Did you know that Atlanta is the most surveilled city in the country? What does that mean? We're getting into it? And, guys, I am joined this week by my super producer.
A King
Yo, yo.
Ebro Darden
That's that. That's that. That's that second. That's that second espresso right there.
Mandy B
I know we probably shouldn't have had lunch first. I am on two espresso martinis and a tequila soda, thanks to yomi.
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
Mandy B
And I first introduced OG Pod legend, who coming to tell you who the fuck he is. We got a king in the building.
A King
What's up, y'?
Mandy B
All?
A King
How's everybody doing today?
Ebro Darden
You ready?
Mandy B
You cannot start off this.
A King
I should have had my cowboy hat.
Mandy B
You cannot start off this call.
Ebro Darden
Sound like Jerry Jones.
A King
What do you. Hey, I'm about to recolonize the podcast Americas.
Mandy B
That is crazy.
A King
Just in your opening. I just want to course correct as we get to go along. It's not a response. It's more the course correction. Oh, that's all it is.
Ebro Darden
You don't know.
A King
It's called course correct in 2026.
Mandy B
I like course correction over discourse.
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
A King
Because there's connotations involved when you say certain things, and I don't want people to say certain things.
Ebro Darden
Words mean things.
Mandy B
However, first off, you could respond. You have a response to them.
Yomi
I don't.
A King
When you say when you were speaking factual, I don't think that's just facts.
Mandy B
Ooh.
A King
You know what I'm saying?
Mandy B
Ooh.
A King
I'm with you. As my homie Robbie Digital would say, facts over feelings.
Mandy B
Facts over feelings. You know what I love?
A King
Yeah.
Mandy B
Facts over feelings. When a man brings the receipts. Cause normally it susses women, but when you got the receipts, well, unfortunately, a
A King
lot of men are. A lot of men are chatty Patty. So as Dame Dash would say, a lot of men are chatty Patties, you
Mandy B
are not quoting Dame Dash.
A King
Listen, I know Dame Dash is not
Ebro Darden
in favor right now with the community looking crazy.
A King
Shout out the camera. It is what it is. He got yo his. His memes is dancing the captions is insanity. But you know, every now and then you. You see things that come across the timeline.
Ebro Darden
Like hold the up.
A King
Especially when it's near and dear to you. You like whoa.
Ebro Darden
No, that's a fact.
A King
But yeah, but we here. Ja. We still celebrating Ja's birth year. You know what I'm saying?
Ebro Darden
It continues. It never stops.
Mandy B
Hold on. We got men with receipts and men celebrating their birthday all month.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, I'm the birthday. I'm the birthday.
A King
What's this? This is. Is this coconut water?
Ebro Darden
Oh, I should have drink mine so fast.
Mandy B
I would first start.
A King
Is this spring? Is this good old spring water?
Ebro Darden
Yeah, sure. Yeah, yeah. I don't know if it's cloudy.
A King
If you watching.
Ebro Darden
How about say it's like Flint water? I don't know.
A King
I hope Flint water don't look like this.
Ebro Darden
This little repo. A little repo. That's all.
Mandy B
By the way, for those of you watching, if a king is out of character, they did this on purpose.
A King
They did this on purpose because they know that this is what does it.
Mandy B
A king. You are also too as Russell martinis in and now tequila.
Ebro Darden
Listen, so there's that.
Mandy B
By the way, y'. All. It wouldn't be a pod without the king of headlines
Ebro Darden
pod blessing all the yap. What up, what up, what up, what up, what up? You know what I'm saying?
Wheezy
Period.
Mandy B
Poo. We have a quite a bit to get to. What's up?
Yomi
Sorry, we have to do the intro again because you were chewing on that orange.
A King
I just ch.
Ebro Darden
I just.
A King
But I just chewed it.
Mandy B
No, you look crazy.
A King
AK no, it's fine.
Timbo
I don't.
Ebro Darden
No, I'm good.
A King
I'm good. I don't give.
Ebro Darden
Yo.
A King
None of these people go outside. So it's okay.
Mandy B
So. So it's okay.
A King
We outside. This is me.
Ebro Darden
This is. I'm not.
A King
I'm not a fraud. I'm not.
Ebro Darden
I am who.
A King
This is who. If we didn't have the cameras rolling, I would do the same thing.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Who doesn't have.
A King
I ate the orange.
Mandy B
I ate the
Ebro Darden
orange. I am not by the way.
A King
Look, the people that be lying. The people don't eat. Don't know. You know.
Mandy B
Hold on, wait a second.
A King
They be lying about it. Jamaican dude like ah. Eating the boom boom. Yeah, you do.
Ebro Darden
Wait, that's A fact.
Mandy B
How did we get.
A King
Because I know that's.
Ebro Darden
I'm just.
A King
I'm trying to debunk all the narratives that might come all that wild. And he got some orange juice on it.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, I eat the orange.
Mandy B
I'm so confused how we got to eating the pooba.
A King
No, no, it's fine. I don't give a shit.
Mandy B
She doesn't need looked out for as he's about to let you.
A King
None of these people go outside, so I don't care.
Mandy B
First off, our audience does. Shout out to the court, see. Shout out to the class. Shout out to the problematics. Shout out to y' all that listen and understand that we are not a monolith. We come with differences of opinions.
Ebro Darden
That's a fact.
Mandy B
We have differences of life and experiences as to how we get to where
A King
we are three minutes late to press that button.
Ebro Darden
I know.
Mandy B
It's okay. I'm gonna do the math.
Ebro Darden
I'm gonna do the math.
Mandy B
I'm gonna do the math.
A King
But yeah.
Mandy B
But yeah, we're here to talk about some things. Last week, it got real. Real pedophilic.
A King
Yeah.
Ebro Darden
Last week was dark. It was dark.
Mandy B
We were talking a lot about the pedos. We was talking a lot about us caring way too much about relationships and cheaters. There was a lot of hypocrisy, a lot of contradictions. We were so upset at cheaters and liars with empathy for cheaters and liars. It was just a lot going on.
A King
Yep.
Mandy B
Um, and so this week, I did want to lean a little bit more into politics with also just a little bit of fun as well. You know what I mean?
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
Wheezy
This is weezy. Wtf? From decisions, decisions. You know, a lot of us grew up not fully trusting the healthcare system. And honestly, the system has given us plenty of reasons to feel that way. But now it's time for us to take control of the conversation, to take control of our sexual health, learn the facts, ask questions, and advocate for ourselves. That's how we start changing the story.
Mandy B
So let's talk.
Wheezy
We like to think HIV is something that affects other people, but it is hitting our own community hard. Black women make up about 13% of women in the US but account for nearly half of all new HIV diagnoses around women. And being proactive doesn't mean you just don't trust your partner. It just means you trust yourself enough to stay in control. So know your options, ask questions, and protect your peace and your body. That's real power. Because protecting yourself isn't embarrassing. It's responsible. Sex is normal. Protecting yourself should be normal too. Actually, it's kind of badass. Taking control of your sexual health is grown woman energy. Sponsored by Care for the Culture from
Mandy B
Gilead Sciences Another podcast from some SNL
Robert Smigel
late night comedy guy not quite on Humor Me with Robert Smigel and Friends. Me and hilarious guests from Jim Gaffigan to Bob Odenkirk to David Letterman help make you funnier this week. My guest, SNL's Mikey Day and head writer Streeter Seidel help an acapella band with their between songs banter. The worst singer in the group.
Ebro Darden
The worst. Yeah, me.
Robert Smigel
Is there anything to the idea that because you're from Harvard, you only got in because your parents made a huge
Ebro Darden
donation to the group?
Timbo
The Yardbirds, Right? That's the name.
Robert Smigel
The Harvard Yard.
Ebro Darden
But they're open. If you have a name suggestion, we're open.
Robert Smigel
Since you guys are middle aged one
Mandy B
erection,
Robert Smigel
listen to Humor Me with Robert Smigel and friends on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
A King
Humor Me. I need some jokes to make me seem funny.
Timbo
Last night, a blown call changed the game. This morning, the Internet lost its mind. Highlights are trending, opinions are flying, and nobody's telling you exactly what happened. That's where Sports Slice comes in. I'm Timbo. Every episode, we're cutting through the noise, breaking down the plays, the controversies and the stories behind the headlines. And we go straight to the source. The athletes themselves, their locker room stories, their reactions, the stuff nobody gets to hear. The laughs, the drama, the triumphs, the moments that never make the highlight reel. From viral moments to historic games, from buzzer beaters to controversial calls, we break it down, give you context, and ask the questions everybody wants answered. Sports Slice brings you closer to the action with stories told by the people who live them. Listen to Sports slice on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more, follow Timbo slice Life, the TikTok podcast network on TikTok.
Kier Gaines
Welcome to my new podcast, Learn the Hard Way, with me, your host and your favorite therapist, Kir Gaines. And in recognition of Mental Health Awareness Month, I'm bringing over a decade of my own experience in the mental health field and conversations with so many incredible guests. I'm talking Trip Fontaine, Ryan Clark. Sometimes, when we're in the pursuit of the thing, we get so wrapped up in the chase that we don't realize that we are in possession of the thing and we're still chasing it and we don't know when we done enough. Because people scoreboard wide life becomes about wins and losses. Steve Burns. Dustin Ross. Cause you find it important to be a good person while you here on Earth? Or are you a good person because you're afraid?
Ebro Darden
Because that's two different intentions, bro.
Kier Gaines
Absolutely.
Ebro Darden
And that's two different levels of trust. I want you to just really be a good person.
Kier Gaines
Join me, Kear Gaines, as we have real conversations about healing, growth, fatherhood, pressure and purpose on my new podcast, Learn the Hard Way. Open your free iHeartRadio app search learn the hard way and listen now.
Mandy B
But I guess to start it off, let's get into what we doing. You a king pause. Oh, we're not gonna. Wait a second.
A King
I ain't that.
Ebro Darden
Whoa, whoa.
Mandy B
He said, I am not Boston Richard.
A King
Yeah, yeah.
Ebro Darden
This ain't that kind of party.
Mandy B
Getting into me.
Ebro Darden
This ain't that kind of party.
Mandy B
Okay, you was quick on that. You're New Yorkers are the quickest with the pause, bro. Y' all make anything horny with you horny ass motherfucker.
A King
No, I think that the reason why the pause game didn't die is cause too many people was like, ah, yeah, yeah, Crying about it. It's like, yo, listen, it's just comedy.
Ebro Darden
It's just a good time.
A King
It's humor. Yeah, it's just a good time.
Mandy B
Humor.
A King
Girls do it now.
Mandy B
Humor.
A King
Think about women.
Ebro Darden
Let me tell.
Mandy B
We don't do it.
A King
They pause anything. Yeah, I think they like, oh, it's going to be raining today. Pause.
Ebro Darden
But no pause is mainstream. Like, pause used to just be. I felt like it was just internal hip hop culture.
A King
Certain people. No, it's transcended amongst the news.
Mandy B
You know why? Homophobia is vast.
Ebro Darden
That's true.
Mandy B
Have you seen, have you seen it stems from homophobia.
Ebro Darden
No, no.
Mandy B
Probably not a joke.
A King
A no.
Mandy B
But no, no ignorance here.
A King
Guys, I'm not gonna say homophobia. I think that there are. I think people who just identified. That was just their way of saying, I'm not. I don't participate that. And I just wanted to differentiate.
Ebro Darden
See, here's the thing.
Mandy B
Why is African gay?
Ebro Darden
Yeah, no, that's the thing.
A King
Yo, the African dude that say, why you gay?
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
A King
He's the modern era litmus test.
Ebro Darden
Every day he does.
A King
He does a podcast, too. He does mad content. If you go to his page. Wait, who is that? Is that Daryl, The African dude with the glasses?
Mandy B
Oh, no, that's that.
A King
Yo, every day he do content.
Ebro Darden
Oh, I didn't even know that why are you gay?
A King
And I'm like, yo, if they didn't cancel him, we good.
Ebro Darden
No, he's the wise barometer. Yes, he is.
Mandy B
He's the wise gay king says, why are you gay? If he's not canceled, we're good.
Ebro Darden
Well, here's what it is, right?
Mandy B
How does this work?
Ebro Darden
It is somewhat based in homophobia, but it also is a joke. But it's a joke. It's not making fun of gay people.
A King
No, it's not.
Ebro Darden
There's nothing wrong with being gay. Everybody's a little bit gay. Look, I will offer.
Mandy B
Everybody's a little bit gay.
Ebro Darden
I will offer. Hey, listen.
A King
No, I'm not.
Mandy B
I would.
A King
I would offer. I have a friend of mine that thinks that everybody's gay. Everybody had a little bit of me. Look, me and yomi shout out to my homie June in Connecticut. He like, yo, everybody got a little bit of J.
Mandy B
You're not going to shout out to me.
A King
But you're different. You, you, you.
Ebro Darden
I mean, there was. There was an episode a couple weeks ago. My calf muscles.
A King
Yeah, but that's not gay.
Ebro Darden
That's not gay.
A King
That's not gay.
Ebro Darden
Is happy.
A King
That gay is happy. The definition of gay is happy. Ask your boyfriend.
Mandy B
Oh, Chad.
A King
I didn't say thighs.
Ebro Darden
I don't know. I had on 5 inch inseam and he was like, yo, those are nice. You know your brother got legs.
A King
I didn't say those are nice legs. I didn't say those are nice
Ebro Darden
legs. She thought he said, jive's in shape. I said, you know, I appreciate that.
Mandy B
Y' all don't understand. I have a little tism around people that are not on mics talking. And the way yomi.
A King
I know. Yomi pull up that mic. Yomi run that mic.
Mandy B
Yomi, you don't understand.
A King
I was trying to give it a mic.
Mandy B
Yomi be really joining the conversation. Bitch, you are not on the microphone. So if you not on the microphone on.
Ebro Darden
You wanna hear. Oh, oh, oh, yeah, yeah, there we go.
A King
Finally.
Mandy B
Now the audience can hear you because the way you direct our attention to you. Look, you are a star participant.
A King
Yes, you are. She's a. But I would offer homosexual people. What are you offering to do the opposite. Straight. I am not straight.
Mandy B
Do it.
Ebro Darden
But what would be the term? Anything straight. Like, what would be the thing? They needed something that represents them that they can call out when they see something.
Mandy B
Yellow light.
A King
No, that's too long.
Mandy B
Pause. Oh, we gotta be that quick.
A King
Stop it gotta be.
Ebro Darden
Oh, stop, stop. I gotta be Like a S T, H, A A. Stop.
Mandy B
Like, why. Is that the gay voice?
Ebro Darden
Yeah. Stop.
A King
So here's the other part of it. Not to get too deep.
Ebro Darden
That's got to be.
A King
There are. I know, homosexuals. That chicks. But they don't say that they bisexual.
Yomi
Okay. Land the plane.
Mandy B
Is that.
Ebro Darden
Is that. Is that. Is that. Is that gay?
Mandy B
No. Fuck women or not. DL, what are you sexual?
A King
But they don't. They don't say that.
Ebro Darden
No, they be like.
A King
They just have the ability to do that. The daggering.
Ebro Darden
The daggering.
Mandy B
You know what?
A King
Hold on. This episode is sponsored by somebody.
Mandy B
Tequila.
A King
I don't know who's but somebody's Tequila.
Mandy B
Oh, wait. Cause you had the espresso with the tequila, too.
Ebro Darden
Yeah. You got the caffeine and the alcohol going on.
Mandy B
Maybe.
Ebro Darden
So it turned all the way up.
Mandy B
Listen now real quick, because we're gonna start the episode. Into you. You got Pod Legend.
A King
She's still with the. Into what?
Mandy B
I'm sorry. Go ahead. Pod Legend.
A King
Yeah. Shout out to the. To our lovely fans of the scenario inspired this.
Ebro Darden
That is the inspired decision.
Mandy B
How you just flicked.
Ebro Darden
Great team.
A King
Yeah. What we doing? What is this up on the street?
Mandy B
Okay, so basically, y'. All. Y' all don't know we have this landed in the group chat.
A King
Yes.
Mandy B
And it took a King a couple weeks, but he said, yo, I'm gonna respond now.
A King
Well, context.
Mandy B
Go ahead and give the context. You introduced this.
A King
I'm not gonna say who. Someone text this to me anytime these people talk. Who. So let me go back a little bit.
Mandy B
Just so you know.
A King
Make sure you clean.
Mandy B
Cause this'll be the clip.
A King
Shout out to Marvelous Mo. When Dallas Penn passed away, she told me, king, you've suffered some losses that near and dear to you. She's like, the legacies of both of these men stand on your shoulders. And I was like, don't do that. That's a lot. These guys name these men Combat Jack, Reggie Ose, and Dallas Penn. And just the origin stories of who they were and their contributions to not just hip hop, but the culture, ushering, creating platforms to usher in people they fuck with. They were very adamant about not just being about themselves. They're very adamant about helping the people around them and ushering new voices as they were. They were oldest. They were elder statesmen, so they already knew that. Obviously, people didn't look at them in age. Cause they were very youthful in their content and their contributions. But they always adamant about supporting the ones behind them. You know what I'm saying? They were very And I took that, you know? But when she said that, I was like, you know, I can't fight everybody's battles either. Especially in our culture, where we do more revisionist history than giving each other flowers. Like, nobody should ever talk crazy about. I know they talk crazy about Mandy because she talks crazy. But in terms of her contributions and almost a decade in and the decision that transcended from horrible decisions, this is a different conversation now. We're past the conversation of, you know, getting in her personal business. Let's look at the. She's a New York Times bestseller, nigga. Yeah. You know how hard that is? That's not easy work. Just attached to. I don't care about the affiliations. I do. Cause that's important. But I'm saying in terms of. You still gotta do the work. There's a certain intentionality. There's certain effort, and it has to be respected. Sleepless nights that go into this work. Right. So when people get on platforms and they. Then they have the ability to give flowers rather than revise history. That's a problem for me because they say if you tell a lie long enough, it becomes what, the truth? Yep. So I would be remiss to not respond when I. My text message. My text messages is like, I'm almost to the point where I'm like, damn, if I'm one more person. I wouldn't be mad if they were like, yo, you ain't. Because you not saying nothing to these niggas, Right?
Mandy B
So right quick.
A King
But I'm not a pussy nigga. But I'm not a pussy nigga, though.
Mandy B
So basically, I'm not.
A King
Oh, she's.
Mandy B
She.
A King
Hold on. Let me see how much she's 50% into this tequila drink. So Ebro, shout out to Ebro.
Mandy B
Yeah, you're being too nice.
A King
But you got to respond. I'll tell you why I shout out Ebro in a second. I'll tell you why I shout him out.
Yomi
Hold on.
Mandy B
Tell her why.
A King
I'll tell him why.
Mandy B
Specifically, y', all, Ebro addressed the narrative that he's a hater. Y' all know they took their little show from the radio, and now I got a YouTube special.
A King
But they didn't take it from the radio.
Mandy B
Well, they got their YouTube page.
Ebro Darden
It was sent away from the radio.
A King
Right.
Mandy B
Basically, a king is responsible.
A King
I'm not listening. Everything is respectfully. Everything is respectfully.
Mandy B
Disrespectfully.
A King
No. Everything respectfully. I'm not. No, I'm not. No.
Mandy B
So this. He's white, right?
Ebro Darden
This white Man, I did.
A King
You said it.
Mandy B
I did. This white man. Well, we know Ebro, not Ebro Mulatto or something. Anyway, Peter said that he reached out to academics early in his career. Go back, girl. We about to play this clip of this nigga talking shit.
A King
Yo, yo, I'm gonna be honest, yo. Mandy don't. One of the things I will say is that Mandy never got to get the. I wish Mandy and Combat Jack got together. Cause they're more alike than not.
Ebro Darden
I know people.
A King
He got two. He got a Harvard degree, Cornell University degree. But they're more alike than we think. Bro, you know this. You know this.
Ebro Darden
Cause Reggie was a nigger.
A King
Oh, my God. He was. He was a nigger. Me, too.
Ebro Darden
Yes, me, too.
A King
Yo, but yeah, go ahead, go ahead.
Ebro Darden
Go off, go off, go off, go off.
Mandy B
Cause white men say trying to steal shit from us. So Ebro addressed the narrative that he's a hater while saying he reached out to academics early in his career, that he let Combat Jack produce his show at the station.
A King
That's crazy.
Mandy B
That he helped Joe Budden start his morning show. And he also went as far as to say Charlamagne. The God.
A King
Not him.
Mandy B
Calmed down.
A King
Well, not him. The other one.
Mandy B
Peter.
Ebro Darden
Oh, Rosenberg. Yeah, that was Rosenberg.
Mandy B
Peter. That was all different.
A King
I'm not saying. I'm not calling his name. Cause the last time somebody called his name, he said that, it was an anti. You know what? So I.
Ebro Darden
What is.
A King
Nigga, no, no, no.
Ebro Darden
You.
Mandy B
Peter Rosen.
A King
I'm not doing it. No, I'm not.
Ebro Darden
I'm biased.
Mandy B
So I feel like I could say half the name and be on the podcast. Got. Got a half Jew. I could say half.
Ebro Darden
That's true. That is true. I know it till last week.
Mandy B
We good. All I got.
A King
I don't know what it is.
Mandy B
This white man said this white man.
Yomi
I'm scared. I'm scared.
Mandy B
Play the clip.
A King
Hey, this is what we do.
Mandy B
Play the clip.
A King
Is that is the guy who put
Ebro Darden
me and Scythe together. And we then were like, hey, you should do some extra time. This is in the origin days of podcast. And we decided to do what became the first rap podcast ever. As credited by even Academics himself by Nori Combat Jack, God rest his soul, Juan Epstein. The first hip hop podcast came from Ebro, putting us together to do this thing.
A King
Like, we used to have Combat Jack
Ebro Darden
up to the station to record the podcast. Yeah, you did his show at our station. I did Combat Show. We used to bring podcasters up to use our facility to help them record Elliot Wilson was the first guest on Juan Epstein. He'll tell you he started Rap Radar because of Juan Epstein. Quest Love. Only does Quest Love supreme because he
Mandy B
was into Juan Epstein.
Ebro Darden
Like y' all are.
A King
How about this, yo? And how about this, this? And you guys could ask Joe Button about it, but Joe, I used to
Ebro Darden
have produced Joe button on the Hot 97 Morning Show. I helped DJ Envy learn how to do mornings.
A King
Like, I physically gave birth to Charlemagne, okay?
Mandy B
Out of my vagina.
A King
And I. I held little baby Leonard. And I said, you're gonna. But this is why we can't have do anything.
Ebro Darden
Because they're gonna clip this up and it's real, a real conversation where we're trying to like really give people insight.
A King
They're gonna take that little clip and they're gonna say, look, Rosenberg has a vagina and he says he's having a black baby. And a white man wants nobody credit for Charlemagne's blackness.
Mandy B
Oh my God.
A King
It was just. Because we were just listing off all the people we birthed. So I just take it. I didn't say birth. I said, no, no, no, this is different. Listen, you.
Ebro Darden
Ebro and I both always believed a lot in Joe. Ebro produced on my morning starts o'.
Mandy B
Clock.
A King
I can't speak to none of that.
Ebro Darden
What is the part of this that you take most umbrage with? Like, what is the part that makes you feel.
A King
I can't speak to the. As a fan of media. Fan of. So when I left college, one of the things I wanted to get into was radio or being A and R. Cause I'm a very. I'm a musical dude. And you know, shit, I can't say on record who, but I've definitely contributed to the success of some very prominent rappers that we all love in this space, right? Because these Ars, they. I guess I'm a self proclaimed AR whisperer, right? You know this? Yeah, of course. All right, so I know exactly what you're talking about. So that was my early foray into wanting to be in, contribute to the culture. When we started out this thing called the Combat Jack show, it wasn't. There was no podcast that we was inspired by. We were doing Internet radio because we always wanted to get on radio, right? We always wanted to get on the box. As we developed, whatever it was, it was very organic. It wasn't like the box was even. One time, I remember Dallas would say, Dallas Penn would say, we're gonna stage for our promo. We were gonna stage a protest outside of Hot 97 because we were tired, just like millions of people of what they were contributing to the culture at the time. Right. We was gonna use that for fucking content. We didn't do it. But it took a minute before we developed the thing that we now know today as podcasting. You know, so as we assume.
Mandy B
Cause y' all knew it went also beyond satellite, right? The Internets.
Ebro Darden
Right, Internets.
Mandy B
The Internets.
A King
The Internets. And if you don't say it with an S. So basically what happened was as we ascended and we was having these conversations, we were all talk about us being the little pod that could. Yeah, we were getting notoriety. We wasn't just an interview podcast. We didn't have the luxury of being on a radio station and pulling a list celebrities.
Mandy B
Y' all were the first ones with
A King
a rotating cast in the back room.
Ebro Darden
Yep. And the cast of characters. A cast of universe.
A King
We didn't have the luxury of pulling people from the backside pause and into the back room.
Ebro Darden
Solid pause. Damn. I was the last solid pause.
A King
See, that's why we say what we say. Cause if we don't say it, somebody
Ebro Darden
out there is gonna.
A King
Anywho, I'm waiting for you to resp the luxury of having an A list celebrity and pull him in the green room and then do 30 minutes and put it out as a. We didn't have that. We had to show and fucking prove this shit. So as we did that and we ascended, we had those conversations. Now, somewhere along the line, we had Ebro on as a guest of the show. Right.
Mandy B
This is the response.
A King
This was him. This was. This is. Yes, go ahead, Ebro. As I remember, these are the facts. He didn't want to come to our station because of his schedule. So us being the fucking thirsty workaholics was like, we'll come to your shit. Right. Cause we wanted to get the shit done and have this discourse and good conversation. Cause ultimately we respect those guys.
Ebro Darden
So it's not a matter of when he says, we had the Combat Jack show come up here and record. It's not a matter of produce giving you access to our resources.
A King
The reason my fucking attention was you have a generation of new Internet people that will see that shit and they would take this as. Oh, shit. These guys helped produce the fucking Nick.
Mandy B
No.
A King
Absolutely fucking not. Right? No. No way. No how. What happened was we went there to have a conversation about the major leagues and minor leagues in media, because that's
Ebro Darden
how Ebro was positing it. At one point, FM radio was the major league.
A King
Trying to figure out FM was And was not.
Mandy B
But also this was on the back end of the blog era. So we were in this.
A King
In peak blog era.
Mandy B
Well, this was what, 2016.
A King
So we had him on. This was 2016. No, 2013.
Ebro Darden
13. 13, right, yes.
Mandy B
Right before the demise of blog era then.
Ebro Darden
Correct.
Mandy B
This is peak block.
A King
Right. So we had him on the show to have this conversation.
Mandy B
2013.
A King
So I'll get to that in a second. So we started the podcast in 2010. Officially, 2013 is in my. That's in my own. No, look, look. But we didn't know we was potting.
Ebro Darden
We were potting.
A King
The people was telling us that. But we was like we trying to get to the box. Meaning radio.
Mandy B
Let's be clear. Podcasting is not new. But in terms of our culture, we looked at AM radio. Who wants to listen to people talk? Right? Yeah, we're tuning into daytime television. Like a Oprah Winfrey. Or that.
Ebro Darden
Right, A talk show.
Mandy B
A talk show Or. Or espn. Right, Correct.
Ebro Darden
You had that.
Mandy B
Other than that, we didn't believe the entertainment involved just listening to people talk.
Ebro Darden
Listening to the. In a 2010 that felt like an old set.
A King
So Here's a caveat. 2010, we were doing Internet radio. It's just that we were taking the audio and posting it on SoundCloud, which went out to itunes.
Ebro Darden
Right.
A King
We were participating in activity, which is podcasting. But we did not get any inspiration from anybody. We didn't know that that was even a thing.
Mandy B
By the way, I do wanna ask
A King
you, I promise you that.
Mandy B
And as black people who are sometimes behind the cusp because of resources and reach, you started this in 2010. The term podcast was coined in February of 04 by a British journalist. So who knows when it fucking made it to America. But it was created as a thing of the ipod and broadcast.
A King
That's right.
Mandy B
Yes.
A King
The RSS and all that. Right. Audio blogging.
Ebro Darden
Yes.
A King
Ooh, there we go. So Dallas, if you go back to his old. Well a few tweets before he passed away, unfortunately, he talks about how he was audio blogging and this guy, executive at Apple said he was actually one of the first. He co signed it today. Well, meaning before he passed before. But I don't know. That's nuance, right? Listen, we never argued that we was one of the first podcasts. What we did argue was that we of our culture, we broke the door and the barriers down to allow other creative podcasts. And we produce and helped willingly, intently, other voices outside of our own because we knew that we weren't bigger Than the program. Can you share the whole.
Mandy B
Can you share the link between then Combat Jack Show, Reggie and Loudspeaker?
A King
Oh, before we even get to that. Right. Before we even get to that. So we went up there, we did the episode that he claims that we produced. And I know it's nuanced, but like I said, I'm concerned that people will see that and read that and be like, what? These guys? I have a problem with that. As the executive producer and co founding member. Absolutely not. No. We went there because you didn't want to come outside. The way we recorded an engine room audio in Financial District, and that's which should be considered the second hub to what we know in our culture in black podcasting. Right. Now we get to your question.
Mandy B
Yes.
A King
So 2013, which I call in my own professional. You know, your perspective on how perspective is. Really? That's when we got our feet wet. Cause now we were. Just Blaze became a part of our show. Right, Right.
Ebro Darden
It was organized.
A King
Just Blaze became a part of our show.
Mandy B
Who was the ensemble?
A King
The ensemble of the Combat Jack show. So this. And I know the Combat Jack show had about three or four iterations. Yes.
Mandy B
As most pods do.
A King
Well, not most, but some. But again, a lot. This is not a shock.
Ebro Darden
Right.
A King
But it's lovely to see that. Yo, this is what it is, bro. Even this show we've gone through, you know, because Jason parts, we're still trying to.
Mandy B
We're bringing Jamila.
A King
Hey, Jason got a new bag with the new Hot 97. The new Hot 97. But I say this to say once we were just. Wait. Oh, it's the cast of characters. Let me go back to that. The original show was myself, Reggie, Dallas Pen. Dallas Combat Jack. Which we don't get Combat Jack without Dallas Pen. Cause he's the one who introduced Combat to me. Not knowing who Reggie was as a blogger under the pen name, Combat Jack under the platform called DailyMathematics.com. right. I didn't know who that nigga was. Me and Dallas had a meeting. He's like, y' all wanna bring my man Reggie? I'm like, who the fuck? Whatever. I thought it was his cousin. So he's sitting there through the meeting. He's like, yo, I wanna. I wanna.
Ebro Darden
You know.
A King
I said, yo, I wanna bring you guys on and do some content. He's like, yo, how much? I was like, well, we ain't got no money. We a startup. He's like, well, we can't do no show. I was like, all right. But we. We Established a relationship. You wanna. You wanna go. You wanna go down a rabbit hole a little bit?
Mandy B
Why not? I mean, Ja's the one with the heart out.
A King
So look, we had a year that we would develop in this relationship, right? So me being. I was the program director of a very dope establishment at the time. A startup called PNC Radio. Internet online radio.
Ebro Darden
That was the first.
A King
That was kind of the first, you know, blueprint to what this is without knowing, right? So at that time, Starr, starring Buck Wild Star, he was doing Vlad tv. And we had established all these relationships. And I think I met one of his co hosts, well, former co hosts at the time, DX21. And I was like, what's Starr doing? And then, you know, we had a meeting, he came up and I'm like, yo, I want to potentially talk about bringing you on as a talent at PNC Radio, right? Remember Combat Dallas? We were still formulating a relationship because we couldn't do the show cause we had no money, right? So we was trying to bring on Star, right, the pnc. And Combat was doing the legal work, right?
Mandy B
That's what he did.
A King
It didn't work out, right, but we maintained a relationship. But then one summer, we say, yo, you know what? We gonna do this event called a Bring youg Own Blogger Barbecue, right?
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
A King
Crazy. We had. Listen, listen. And this is fact. This is. This segment of this fucking selective ignorance show is called these Are the Facts. So we did this. We did this show called. We did this event called the Bring your Own Blogger Barbecue. You know, bring your own BYOB barbecue, but Bring youg Own Blogger, where we were highlighting and celebrating all the niggas in blogosphere that was popping. So for the first time, we had miss Info. Nah, right? Low key. Karen Civil. Anybody who was doing anything on these fucking Internets, we had them in one space. A free, free joint, 600 people. It was amazing.
Mandy B
It was the White House correspondence dinner. Without the White House.
A King
Without the guns. Yeah, without the guns. Or maybe there was guns. Hey, listen, you know how many goons I met after? Oh, yeah, I've been knowing you for like, y' all didn't run down the pockets of this, right?
Ebro Darden
That was dope.
A King
But anyway, it was after that that Combat had an epiphany. He's like, yo, I want to do this shit now.
Mandy B
Okay?
A King
It, let's do it. And then that's when we developed the show. It was August 20, 2010. Now, yes to the. His co host point. They were the first rap podcast, right? No one ever argued That I don't know why he goes on a tirade every day. Like we were the first pick me. It's like, yo, bro, you was. Nobody argued that.
Mandy B
Who was them?
A King
Listen, you say, I don't want to say these guys names because there's more. This rabbit hole goes deep. I promise.
Mandy B
I get that. I get that. I will. I do want to disagree real quick to stick up for somebody who they said that they're the reason behind Rap Radar. Elliott Wilson. Da da da da da. A Rap Radar was a blog before Cool. It was a podcast. However, Elliot had the Crown series. Like the way he was doing. So he did. He was the first person that I knew that was literally the sellout was there was no opening performer. The artist didn't perform. Elliot sold out theaters, thousands of people to sit and talk to an artist live. So in 2010, he sat with Cole in New York and he did this with multiple people far before even we as podcasters started doing live shows. And so when Peter sits here and says they birthed who they birthed.
A King
Hold on. You know where Elliot. It's documented. You could just pull this up. Yomi, if you go to Rat Radar Combat Jack, you'll see Elliot paying tribute and how he got his inspiration from what he deemed the podcast Avengers, which was the Combat Jack Show.
Mandy B
Hello.
A King
To your point, who? The cast of characters, myself, Combat Jack and Dallas Penn. That was the first iteration. Dallas brought on Premium Pete and Matt Raz, right?
Ebro Darden
Yep.
A King
Shout out to Premium Pete and Matt Raz. DJ Ben Amin. Because at the time we were still playing.
Mandy B
Just Blaze was like, that was after.
A King
But we were still playing music in our shit. Right. Once we figured out, oh, we can't play music, unlicensed music. Then Ben Amin became talent Shout out to fan bros. We had Just Blaze as a guest on the show one time and just was like in his busy schedule producing for HOV and Beyonce and God and everybody else. He's like, yo, I fuck with y', all, I wanna fuck with this. He was like, you. Why would you. Because it represented something that he felt was needed. The lunchroom.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, he understood it.
A King
The conversation that he gets.
Ebro Darden
Right.
A King
So he became a part of the show. So we was like, shit. We got just blazing the show. We gonna now press the gas a little bit. Cause now we got, you know. And then that was the final form or that was the peak form of the show in terms of numbers. Correct. There was a reduction at some point, but that's. We don't have to talk about that. That's. Whatever. You know what I mean? But the whole point of the matter is, y' all was the first. We broke the doors and we ushered in people. What I ask people that do this online content. When you look at those who are grabbing for legacy positioning, ask them, who have they helped? Ooh, right. Culturally, individually.
Mandy B
Can I be honest?
A King
Who have you helped?
Mandy B
Because you can't ask they whether they were the first or not. The difference is they have been nothing but. And it's what we're seeing now, nothing but employees for the last two decades.
Ebro Darden
Right.
A King
And that's fine.
Mandy B
And so. But. But I'm an employee.
A King
I mean, shit.
Mandy B
No, no, no.
A King
I'm just saying what you created was.
Mandy B
Was a part of your ip, was a part of your labor, your blood, sweat, all of that. It's hard to usher in people when you're an employee unless you give.
A King
You can still do it, but it's intention. It's intentional, really. We have. And I won't put this out there inside ball shit. Right. We know that a particular radio personality was looking to bring on other women personalities for their new venture in radio. We know that. Without even getting on the microphones.
Mandy B
Oh.
A King
Without proving that's intent. Right. That's the want. That's the. The figuring out that, you know what, I can help using my leverage to help others get in. Right, Right. And that's been always the narrative. You know, when Mouse Jones shout out to Mouse Jones, he used to always go on a tirade against. I was like, damn, Mouse, like you fighting a battle. That I understand it, but I don't think you should do it. But him, why does he have the fire to do that? Because they identified as something wrong with this. Why are they not platforming? New York City folks won or just talent in general. That's what we did. Shout out to. Going back to what you said before, right. As we were moving along, we figured this out and we was, all right, we making strides. Let's produce podcasts. So we created a motherfucking network called the Loudspeakers Network and shout out to the Goat. I mean, shit. The Goat podcast, in my opinion, is the read.
Mandy B
Yeah.
A King
They don't do no video content.
Mandy B
None.
A King
And they do half a milli Every week.
Mandy B
A week.
Yomi
Yeah.
Mandy B
Huh.
A King
We don't talk about that. Right. They done. I'm not gonna put
Mandy B
audio.
A King
You know how they say, yes talking. You know how they say, everybody got a price? Yo, I done seen these turn down deals that I would have been like, like, what the.
Mandy B
You want my soul?
A King
You Say what? So.
Ebro Darden
So.
A King
So when we talk about that, we. We created the Loudspeakers network. Shout out to Chris Merrow. Shout out to Reggie Ose, AKA Combat.
Mandy B
Shout out to Charlamagne.
A King
We get. We. Oh, we. We get to that. So, hey, I know we got topics.
Mandy B
Nigga, I. I loved. This was great. Is that a bogus.
A King
This is why. This is why you don't do this.
Mandy B
I ain't gonna hold you.
A King
So, look, I'm gonna wrap this up. Allegedly. Maybe look, another clip Last.
Ebro Darden
Last.
A King
I'mma just say that. I'm going just say, we, we, we, we Spawn.
Mandy B
Yo, a said he got a history lesson for you.
A King
Yeah, because. Because you know why? This. This conversation happens a lot and we don't say nothing.
Mandy B
Facts.
A King
And it's not just them. It's other poc. I'm gonna be honest. I'm gonna be. No, I'm not gonna do that right now. But I'm just gonna say every six months to a year, if you bookmark this. Let's see the next. It's probably from the same ecosystem. They'll have something to say. But I just want to declare that all that shit don't go to them for that. Anything concerning the Combat Jack show, anything concerning loudspeakers, anything concerning black don't go black effect, don't go to them. They have no. No knowledge of it. Right? But this shit spawned a whole ecosystem economy for podcasting. N. Are you shitting me?
Mandy B
Made us millionaires.
A King
So rather than try to revise his
Mandy B
last listen, by the way, I've said it enough, too, when I say OG Pod Legend, if I haven't said it enough, episode three of Horrible Decisions. Yeah, preach.
A King
As this shout out to preach, my nigga. Preach.
Mandy B
To come into the studio. Because Weezy and I were only on
A King
episode three, Fresh Meat, literally.
Mandy B
And our episodes were only one hour
A King
trench coat raining, literally. Facts.
Mandy B
So the owner of the studio literally reached out to Aking and was like, yo, you gotta come see these girls.
A King
He didn't reach out today. They would have ignored it.
Mandy B
He didn't tell us one day we come in, this nigga is just watching us. Hey, I have my friend Facts. Is it cool? He listened.
A King
These are the facts.
Mandy B
We're like, cool. This is episode three. No lie, y'. All. Horrible decisions. He comes in at the end of the episode, he introduces himself, comes in, lets us know how dope we are, and it's like, I'm gonna be watching for y'. All. We were only three episodes in podcasts don't last Facts. When I tell you less than a year later.
A King
Was it politics? Was there any politics involved?
Mandy B
Y' all still here. Y' all still good. He brings us into the ecosphere of Charlamagne and Chris Brown.
A King
Facts. Shout out to Charlamagne and God.
Mandy B
Charlamagne liked what we were doing, but Tricky we weren't. It was a lot on the back end, however. Okay, let's bring them on to Brilliant. See how they do that. Got us out of here.
Wheezy
We killed it.
Mandy B
But had it not been for Preach, bringing a king to sea and a king being like, these girls got it. Me and Weezy are not here.
Yomi
It sounds like he birthed y'.
Ebro Darden
All.
Mandy B
Yo, chill. Yo, chill.
Ebro Darden
Out of his own vagina.
A King
Hey, I'mma land. I'mma land this plane. I'mma land this plane. I think we got a clip.
Ebro Darden
You want to play.
A King
Shout out to Black Effect podcast network. Shout out to Charlamagne, the God. Ain't no way he's your son. You can't claim his. You can't claim that when he's ushered in and helps so many people in the culture. Yeah, I know y' all had y' all back and forth and all that shit on when y'.
Mandy B
All.
A King
When y' all was on the box. But y' all not on the box no more.
Mandy B
Y' all not.
A King
He's platforming people until you guys do that shit. Y' all can't. Y' all can't just fall back, bro. Shout out to Charlamagne. Tha God. Shout out to Black Effect. Shout out to Dolly. Shout out to the whole team. And I'm gonna end with this. Cause there was a bunch of narrative, but Combat kind of said this stuff back in 2013. Yomi, play the clip.
Mandy B
Play the clip. Run that clip.
Ebro Darden
Of course, since the heat is on right now.
Mandy B
Tss.
A King
Listen, the smoking section, if we gonna play in the league with them.
Ebro Darden
No, the smoking section just dropped a post today about which is the best hip hop podcast. And they were basically saying that it was between us and Juan Epstein. And what they did say is Shots
A King
Fire didn't get named shots fired. Now, there was a couple of other ones. No, no.
Ebro Darden
I mean, it was
A King
in Combat Jackson.
Ebro Darden
And they said, at the end of the day, you got to give the utmost respect to Warren Epstein for doing this shit since 2008. We've been doing this shit, what, since 2010. So they get my respect for doing that shit.
A King
But have they been steady since 2008?
Ebro Darden
No, they. But they were like, it. It started with them, it ends with
A King
us I gotta tell you something. You know what? The Mets have been playing baseball since, what, 1962. They suck since. Okay, So, I mean. Yeah, yeah.
Ebro Darden
All right.
Mandy B
No, no.
Ebro Darden
I mean, listen, Let me stop.
A King
No, no, no, you can't right now.
Ebro Darden
I don't give a fuck what the fuck you doing right now. If it's Sunday and you cleaning your apartment or your house or whatever, or if you're in a job right now ducking your stinky boss, go to themidroll.com backslash survey.
Mandy B
Look, y' all was really trying to get them dollars fill out.
A King
Oh, no. We threatened to quit this shit. Like, yo, if y' all don't answer these surveys. And. And later in the episode, if y' all want to catch.
Yomi
This was November 19, 2013, right?
A King
And that was a TY$sign episode. The first time Dodd.
Mandy B
TY$sign is on this episode.
A King
Oh, no.
Ebro Darden
He. He.
A King
He felt like he. But if you listen to that. Go back to the episode, he goes in and he said, yo, man, listen, the Reid, they running this shit right now. Like, we need y' all to fill out this mirror. We quit. We gonna let them run it. But that's the love, right? And the. And the acknowledgement of what was going on in the podcast space. These niggas been trying ever since this nigga died. I feel like there's been an ecosystem of people who've been just trying to just rewrite this fucking narrative, and I just. I can't do it anymore. Yeah, man. And just listen.
Yomi
This is podcast selective ignorance.
A King
No, there's more, though. The rabbit hole. Oh, yeah, there's some funny duddy in there that.
Yomi
No, we might have to bring this to Patreon.
Mandy B
No, no, no. Only Patreon. Real quick, I would love. We gonna do a bottle of repo. We gonna sit up here.
A King
I could tell you.
Mandy B
And real quick, I will allow you edit rights to bleep, but I want you to talk freely.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, I want you to. That's actually what we need, though.
Mandy B
Put your mess.
A King
You wanna know? You wanna know? I could tell you. I could tell you n. That almost squabbled up. I could tell you who was smd. Ing and who was.
Mandy B
Wait, niggas was sucking dick?
A King
No, no, no. I mean, who was saying smd. I don't know if they were doing it, but I know they was. Look, listen, what I mean, yo, never have tequila on this podcast. Yeah, we 40 minutes in.
Mandy B
You are.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, you're 40 minutes in. We not 40 minutes in. You're 40 minutes.
A King
You're 40 minutes we're never drinking this.
Mandy B
We're never doing this pod now.
A King
Yo, we should do overnight pod. Like the night cap.
Ebro Darden
Like, how to do one with us
Mandy B
on shrooms one day.
Ebro Darden
No, we got to go to sleep.
A King
We're going to have to have a boom mic. A boom mic available. We can't have, like, concentrated mic. Who shows the loudest?
Mandy B
Naomi gonna bring her team in
Ebro Darden
like this.
Mandy B
Oh, my God.
Ebro Darden
Here's what I say. And I appreciate that. I appreciate that.
A King
That hat you're wearing is prestigious.
Ebro Darden
Yes, yes. Yeah.
Mandy B
Another 10 more minutes, guys.
A King
All right, go ahead. I'm shut up. I'm gonna shut up. I'm shut up. I'm shut up.
Mandy B
Final thoughts, Final thoughts. Yes.
Ebro Darden
Reggie Osei did hand me this hat out of his own hands.
Yomi
Beautiful.
A King
You the reason why in Atlanta, nigga.
Ebro Darden
Right? So. So this is what. So go ahead.
Mandy B
Your history to it.
Ebro Darden
So even though I brought these niggas
A King
to the man, too.
Ebro Darden
Yeah. Yo, no, I consider Reggio say my brother.
A King
No, I mean the other nigga.
Ebro Darden
Oh, oh, the other.
Yomi
Oh.
Ebro Darden
Oh, yeah. Hey, look. No, no, no. Me and Ebro have a good relationship. I want to be clear.
A King
I don't have either your brother.
Ebro Darden
No, no, not that. No, no. He's talking about who is your brother. No, no. He's talking about me and Ebro's relationship.
Mandy B
Y' all friends. Yeah.
Ebro Darden
Have a good relationship with.
A King
Yo, listen, outside of the bullshit that he does with people, no problem with him other than the. That he's doing.
Ebro Darden
No, but here. But here's the thing, though. Here's what I'm saying.
A King
I should say have that sense.
Ebro Darden
I am. I am. As much as you like, your passion, I think, is spilling through the microphone.
A King
Not enough. This is to keep. I know if I had some spring water, it'll be a lot more bipartisan.
Ebro Darden
We have a whole outlier. I know, right. But I understand. Like, I am protective over the legacy of the Combat Jack show as well. Because of what.
Mandy B
Who platformed you?
Ebro Darden
Yeah, right, right. Because of what? Well, here's the funny part about it. You were the first person. Not directly because of Dallas, but your PNC radio show was the first time I ever talked on the Internet microphone. The second time I ever talked on the Internet microphone was the Combat Jack show.
A King
Okay.
Ebro Darden
During the Foxy Brown episode.
A King
Shout out to. Yeah, shout out to Foxy.
Mandy B
You was on the Foxy Brown episode.
Ebro Darden
Yeah. If you go back and listen to the Foxy Brown episode of Combat Jackson,
A King
you couldn't put out no video. Cause she shout out to Foxy she was like, yo. She made Combat sit in her Range Rover three hours and listen to the episode to pick out parts.
Mandy B
Wait, what she didn't want.
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
A King
She was like, yo, she loved it. She was crying.
Ebro Darden
But here's the thing.
Mandy B
Yeah.
A King
No, she broke down several times. She changed her hair.
Mandy B
But can I just also say how for people who are listening to this, who are here from the other podcast, I don't know if they know the lore or relationship as to why I love you two on the mic, but for y' all to just subtly drop. You know, when we had Foxy Brown on the.
A King
Hanging with Foxy Brown, and Foxy wasn't doing interviews with nobody.
Ebro Darden
Right.
A King
But she had a relationship with Reggie because of her brother. The legal side of the. Right. Right.
Ebro Darden
The funny part about it is, is that I had this whole. Even though we went into it, I had this whole outline set up for everything black because I wanted to have y' all on it to go through some of this history. We'll get to that another time.
Mandy B
We have to do that.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Because I have a whole episode, like, everything.
A King
Yeah.
Ebro Darden
But. But no, but I'm protective of the Combat Jack show legacy and. And. And Reggie and Dallas because of a lot of stuff that you're saying, because it's really. At the. At the end of the day, there's nothing new under the sun.
A King
No.
Ebro Darden
And it's not about who did it first. We can respect who did it first and all that, but it's not about who did it first. It's about who did it.
Robert Smigel
Right.
Ebro Darden
It's about who did it the best. It's about who did it with enough impact to where you can see the lineage and the DNA of what a legacy that somebody created and what that trickled down to. And the day that Reggie passed, there was everybody's story, who I saw on Twitter talking about their experience with Reggie. Ose was all about how he helped them.
A King
Yep.
Ebro Darden
Even if they weren't podcasters at the point, journalists, anybody in the industry, how he reached out to them, how he looked out for them, how he helped them, gave them opportunities, pointed them in the right direction, gave them mentorship. And to your point, God bless what Epstein, what Juan Epstein was about and what they were doing, for sure. But, like, I'm gonna just keep it a buck with you in the same way that Jamila said off camera before he checked out here. Like. Like, I am going to lean toward the black people and whatever they. Homegrown home. Yeah. And whatever they did is great. But Rosenberg ain't black. And Cypher sounds ain't black.
Mandy B
You know, it's established in financial district.
Ebro Darden
No disrespect.
Mandy B
This should also say financial district.
A King
Well, this is more so pertaining to me, because I'm from Brooklyn. So if I'm part of the source of the breakthrough.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, that's where it comes from. Basically.
Mandy B
In summation. And John wants to know, Peter, what the fuck did you do and who the fuck did you help?
A King
And I just wanna.
Mandy B
Who did you help, Peter?
A King
Because these niggas, he gonna say Joe Budden. Shout out to Joe Budden, too. He gonna say Joe Budden.
Mandy B
But I'm about to talk about Joe. Peter, Peter, Peter, who did you help? Peter, Peter Akbar. If you didn't help anybody, Peter, shut the fuck up. When it comes to talking about black
Ebro Darden
culture, lastly, and help is great, but help is not. Every help ain't the same. Okay, you had somebody come up to the station. Okay, cool. We're not talking about. You had someone come up to the station one time. We're talking about establishing platforms and putting people in positions of. Not just. I let you use my studio. I am trying to make you bigger than me. And that's not the same thing. We're not talking about the same thing. So I feel everything that you're saying and I respect it and I'm glad that you said it. And I think that anyone who is in this podcast space right now needs to be praying to the altar of the Combat Jack show. That's just how I see it.
Mandy B
I ain't gonna hold you too. I think I'm finna get flower petals in here.
A King
I got you.
Mandy B
Cause a part of me wants to just throw flowers.
A King
But hold on, I just wanna add one more thing.
Mandy B
One more thing.
A King
Lastly, I just wanna.
Mandy B
Just one more thing.
A King
This is a flex right here. I just wanna end this on this footnote. Combat Jack was inducted. Thank you, yomi. To the Podcast hall of fame in 2018. And more recently, he was. He was honored with the Impact award for the 2026Ambies Podcast Award.
Ebro Darden
Yes, sir.
A King
For his pioneering role in hip hop journalism and podcasting. You don't get those. You don't get those accolades and acknowledgements without fucking contributing.
Mandy B
Hello.
A King
Not just out here being, pick me, pick me. Happen the first.
Ebro Darden
I'm in the first.
A King
Fuck that first shit, nigga. Break the.
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
A King
Help somebody.
Mandy B
He's not a. He's Peter.
Ebro Darden
You can't.
Mandy B
You can't. Peter, do some.
Ebro Darden
You can't. You can't give yourself credit.
A King
People People give self praise is no praise.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, yeah, yeah. People give you credit.
A King
Self praise is no praise. Now let's get to the show,
Ebro Darden
which is actually very
A King
to bring.
Mandy B
Maybe we can add an ad break in here.
A King
I know we got him.
Mandy B
Shout out.
A King
Shout out to Black Effect.
Mandy B
Gang, gang, gang.
Wheezy
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Mandy B
So let's talk.
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Robert Smigel
Another podcast from some SNL late night comedy guy. Not quite on Humor Me with Robert Smigel and friends. Me and hilarious guests from Jim Gaffigan to Bob Odenkirk to David Letterman help make you funnier this week. My guest, SNL's Mikey Day and head writer Streeter Seidel help an acapella band with their between songs banter. Who's the worst singer in the group?
Ebro Darden
The worst? Yeah, Me.
Robert Smigel
Is there anything to the idea that because you're from Harvard, you only got in because your parents made a huge donation?
Timbo
The Yard Birds, right? That's the name.
Robert Smigel
The Harvard Yard.
Ebro Darden
But they're open. If you have a name suggestion, we're open.
Robert Smigel
Since you guys are middle aged, one
Mandy B
erection,
Robert Smigel
listen to Humor Me with Robert Smigel and Paul friends on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast.
Ebro Darden
Humor me.
A King
I need some jokes to make me seem funny.
Timbo
Last night a blown call changed a game. This morning the Internet lost its mind. Highlights are trending, opinions are flying, and nobody's telling you exactly what happened. That's where Sports Slice comes in. I'm Timbo. Every episode we're cutting through the noise, breaking down the plays, the controversies, and the stories behind the headlines. Headlines. We go straight to the source. The athletes themselves, their locker room stories, their reactions. The stuff nobody gets to hear. The laughs, the drama, the triumphs, the moments that never make the highlight reel. From viral moments to historic games, from buzzer beaters to controversial calls, we break it down, give you context, and ask the questions everybody wants answered. Sports Slice brings you closer to the action with stories told by the people who live them. Listen to Sports slice on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. And for more, follow Timbo Slice Life and the TikTok Podcast Network on TikTok.
Kier Gaines
Welcome to my new podcast, Learn the Hard Way, with me, your host and your favorite therapist, Kier Gaines. And in recognition of Mental Health Awareness Month, I'm bringing over a decade of my own experience in the mental health field and conversations with so many incredible guests. I'm talking Trip Fontaine, Ryan Clark. Sometimes when we're in the pursuit of the thing, we get so wrapped up in the chase that we don't realize that we are in possession of the thing and we're still chasing it. And we don't know when we done enough because people, scoreboard wide life becomes
A King
about wins and losses.
Kier Gaines
Steve Burns. Dustin Ross. Cause you find it important to be a good person while you're here on Earth. Are you a good person because you're afraid?
Ebro Darden
Cause that's two different intentions, bro.
Kier Gaines
Absolutely.
Ebro Darden
And that's two different levels of trust. I want you to just really be a good person.
Kier Gaines
Join me, Kear Gaines, as we have real conversations about healing, healing, growth, fatherhood, pressure, and purpose on my new podcast, Learn the Hard Way. Open your free iHeartRadio app search. Learn the hard Way and listen now.
Mandy B
And we are by first commercial break.
A King
Oh, man.
Mandy B
By the way, I love what is the goddamn what? Peter? It came from the white guy. No, not that Peter.
A King
The yo.
Mandy B
The fire. All the kids that had to fight each other.
A King
Hunger Games.
Mandy B
Hunger Games.
Ebro Darden
I know you knew the p I
Mandy B
was talking about it.
Ebro Darden
I honestly don't.
A King
Cause I never watched Hunger Games at all.
Mandy B
Right, well, I'm gonna do a very brief now.
A King
Don't do that. Don't do that.
Ebro Darden
Don't do that.
Mandy B
Double down or take it back. Yomi, if you could pull up my clip from my episode with Decisions Decisions. I briefly spoke about this as well.
A King
I think on here Mullet mandy was a time 27 piece.
Ebro Darden
Lemon pepper.
Mandy B
This was Pixie.
A King
Pixie. Mandy is A time.
Mandy B
Calm down this pixie girl.
A King
Don't ever do that again.
Mandy B
This is 27 piece lemon pepper. She a victim of. She's also said publicly she wanted to do it.
Wheezy
There's a lot of context to that. I don't believe in any normal world. Monica Lewinsky and Bill Clinton would meet in a bar and she would do this thing.
Mandy B
Genuinely feel like she saved the dress that that nutted on. Who does that? Monica was tore up by the world. She was slut shamed. But she was not a victim of a sexual act. If her career advanced and nothing got out and she didn't get slut shamed by the world, she would have never been a victim.
Wheezy
Do you think Monica was that at 20 years old walking around the office
Mandy B
doing all of that or do you
Wheezy
think a grown man probably made her feel that way?
Mandy B
There's a reason that men are the larger like makeup artists of this assault. Numbers. Numbers are also skewed because there's so many men that don't know that they've been sold by women. When I look up in the news, it is nothing but female teachers touching boys.
Wheezy
One in four women have been assaulted.
Mandy B
You and I are two. What do I care?
Wheezy
They're scared. Yes, be scared. I want my daughter's male teacher to be scared. She'll say something.
Yomi
I want every to be scared.
Mandy B
I'll be honest with you. If I can think of 10 of my homeboys, 7 out of 10 have been touched.
A King
Now I got that was heat right there.
Mandy B
I got dragged a couple weeks ago for this take and I wanted to double the fuck down that yes, Monica Lewinsky was a victim of being slut shamed. Blame misogyny and the patriarch she may have have been a victim of put no, she wasn't groomed. I'm sorry. Let me get into the definition of sexual assault and why I am double downing on this. Okay. In a world where not only do words mean things, but we are in a world of ever evolving education, nuance and resources. Oh, Gregory, girl, I gotta pull it up right here. It's pulled up on the big screen too. I have brought up that in the past eight years. I learned of the word stealthing last week. You heard Jamila say niggas are just learning the definition of non monogamy. Now, sexual assault is any type of forced. Forced or unwanted sexual contact, act or behavior that incurs without voluntary, enthusiastic and ongoing consent.
A King
Yep.
Mandy B
Monica Lewinsky has already admitted that the sexual engagement between her and Bill was consensual. That she wanted It And I was just put onto a new term as well this week. Yomi, could you look up the definition of honey pot? Was unaware. This is a term that I just learned.
A King
Isn't honey pot a brand?
Mandy B
No, it is real coochie, but that's not in this context. So a honeypot is a decoy system, resource or person designed to lure, detect or counteract malicious actors. Da da da da. That's in cybersecurity. But I want you to look up the honeypot in terms of sexual dynamics or gender dynamics. Look up gender dynamics.
A King
They know some people.
Mandy B
Here we go, Here we go, here we go. Because allegedly her mother or honey trap.
A King
Honey trap.
Mandy B
Honey Potter, Honey trap. Allegedly Monica Lewinsky's mother. Was this the honey trap? Apparently her historical nature was this. So a honey pot or honey trap is a tactic using romantic or sexual relationships to lure a target into compromising situations, often for espionage, blackmail or information gathering.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, it's fine. Essentially.
Mandy B
And I also said in no instance ever has a bitch saved nutted clothes from an from an oral sex engagement. For whatever reason, she hung up that fucking dress with the dried nut to keep for later on.
A King
Crazy.
Mandy B
And so where the Internet thought that they could inform me about grooming, about power dynamics, about the fact or the idea that almost in any engagement between a man and a woman that the woman is always the fucking victim. It bothered me.
Ebro Darden
Why does it bother you?
Mandy B
It bothered me because a, it takes away the autonomy of women that are naturally choosing to be this way. There are women as myself who I've vouched in power of choosing to be either sexually promiscuous or to engage with men in which you benefit in other ways outside of a romantic relationship. And so whether that be sex work, whether that be going after men who can pay your bills or get you on a nice vacation that otherwise you wouldn't have been able to afford. There are women who do seek out high earning, high profile men. And to me there is a world where if you are looking specifically to be with those type of men, those men are also being preyed upon. Can those men also be monsters? Yes. Can those men abuse their power? Can people in that position use their power? Let's go there because we about to bring up the Morgan Chase exec.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, okay.
Mandy B
To me this idea, which also let's be very clear, we just had a conversation too about someone else in a power dynamic that just immediately made a woman a victim. If women within the lane and realm of patriarchy are leaning towards high earning powerful men, that can provide and protect and do these things. It's not right where we're actually caring about the safety of women to conflate where women who are seeking those men also immediately become victim because of the power dynamics when things don't work out in their favor. It's a weaponization of sex. It's a weaponization of. If we are in a sexual revolution of women having autonomy, women being able to choose the men that they sleep with, women going after certain men because of whatever social or financial benefits that they may get out of this relationship to when it doesn't go their way, we as a society automatically view them as the victims and the man as the predator. Now. Yes. Has Bill Clinton had other things said about him? Yes. If we're not gonna do it for Meg being a liar and a cheater, let's not umbrella the thing for everyone else.
Ebro Darden
That's not the same thing. Okay, but I'm gonna let you finish. That's not the same thing, but I'm gonna let you finish.
Mandy B
But has Bill been a predator, allegedly in other aspects of his life? Yes.
Timbo
Yes.
Mandy B
Has. Was Monica Lewinsky sexually assaulted by Bill? No. And that's where we have to be able to draw the line. Has he abused his power and raped or sexually assaulted other women in his past? Yes. But when the woman comes out and says it was consensual.
Ebro Darden
Mm.
Mandy B
When the woman says she found the Bill attractive when it all came out and she held the evidence of the sexual act even taking place, and she knowingly chose to sleep with a married man, no one ever wants to talk about that bitch at 20. You know, if a nigga married or not and what that means. Sure.
Ebro Darden
He's the president of the United States. Hello.
A King
Yeah, you're not.
Mandy B
But not only that, yes, you're the president of the United states, but you're 20. You're not 16, you're not 17. The idea. My God, the frontal lobe, cortex, whatever. Didn't form at 20. Y' all are okay with women having children, getting married, having sex, but for whatever reason, they deal with a man of power. And now their frontal cord, low text in whatever form. What are we talking about? If a fucking woman at 20 can start a family, get married, have children, and she can make that sound decision, but when it comes to dealing with a powerful man, that's where we want to now treat a 20 year old like a fucking adolescent. Suck my dick from the back. I'm upset with the Internet.
A King
Why do you say suck my dick from the back? Is that a Bad thing.
Mandy B
That's the best way to get your dick sucked. So I hear.
A King
Yeah, but that also is like. It's kind of toeing the line of why you just getting suck the dick regular. Like, why you just gotta go, why you gotta bend it back.
Yomi
He's done the research.
Mandy B
Did you not?
A King
But also, what about if you leaning forward and then.
Mandy B
Did you not hear my response to the spectacular video? I'm fucking disgusting. Okay? I like to bring out the tricks. What is it? The universe soul circus. That's me in the bedroom.
Ebro Darden
The universal sucking circus.
Mandy B
The universe soul sucking circus. To me, there's a double down, ladies. If we want justice for other women who are actual victims, we cannot continue to blur the lines of what sexual assault, what sexual assault means. Now, there's also a difference between sexual assault and sexual harassment. Then you have grooming, you have rape, you have molested. There are words that mean things. And so, yes, Monica Lewinsky was a victim of being slut shamed. Ooh, she may have been a. And that's the victim. That's where it ends for me.
Ebro Darden
So what I say about Monica Lewinsky is this. I think that a. I don't think these things should be looked at, and these things shouldn't be, like, dissected in A or B01 binary terms. Right. Because, yes, to your point, Monica Lewinsky did come out and say, this is a consensual relationship. You know, he didn't, like, force himself upon me. Like, I was going along with the thing.
A King
Right.
Ebro Darden
The question. The reason that it becomes blurry as to why people would. I think. I don't. And I don't know if sexual. I don't know. I'm not going to pretend to be an expert on the dynamics of what words should be used, but I understand the idea of why people would maybe say sexual assault or say. Or paint her assignment.
Mandy B
You don't hear the definition?
Ebro Darden
No, I heard the definition. What I'm saying is that I understand why people would say that. Because even though you can pooh pooh the power dynamic, she can call it a consensual relationship. The same way that a man who, like Charlamagne, has been very open about him being sexually assaulted by his babysitter, where he was like, I didn't even know that that was the thing. I just was going along with whatever the thing was at the time and whatever. And then later on I realized, oh, this was fucked up. That's very. That's just as much applicable to a woman who is in a situation Where? Okay, yeah, she did. She wasn't pressed upon, like, Bill Clinton just took it from her or physically accosted her. But maybe she felt like, okay, me and him have this little flirty relationship or whatever, but he's the President of the United States. If he pushes the line, I'm not in a position. I don't want to say no to this man, even if I want to do it, Even if I think he's cute, even if I'm not into doing this. I feel like, what a position am I supposed to take with the President of the United States? If he wants to. To come on to me, he wants more than just our floaty relationship in the office. Okay, I'll just go along with it and it's fine at the time. I'm not tripping until it becomes an issue. And then at some point you realize like, oh, shit. Even though I was going along with it, I was still being taken advantage of. It's like a woman that promotes patriarchy. She thinks that. I'm just saying what I think is the truth. But also her truth is being influenced by toxic thought processes that she thinks is just regular. That's not regular. That's not okay.
Mandy B
If you don't think anything is right, why do you save the dress?
Ebro Darden
Well, no, I get that part of it. And here's my answer to that.
A King
Maybe this is the levels.
Mandy B
Yes. There's layers to grooming, to power dynamics, to sexual assault, to all the things.
A King
Sure.
Mandy B
We are only talking about this relationship in this context.
Ebro Darden
Sure.
Mandy B
And so when the lines get blurred, what was the reason? Like Cardi B.
A King
Said, we don't know.
Ebro Darden
But that's where it's two things.
A King
It could be a cultural thing too.
Mandy B
It could be a element. You knew something was wrong. You knew something didn't make sense, or you sought to benefit from this sexual relationship.
Ebro Darden
Well, here's the thing about it.
Mandy B
And if you didn't benefit, you black women.
A King
So yomi just pulled up. Monica Lewinsky originally kept the navy blue gap dress. That's crazy. It's a gap dress. Shout out to gap. At the urging of her then friend Linda Tripp, who advised her to save it as. So wait a minute.
Ebro Darden
But hold on. Let me just say this.
Mandy B
Linda Tripp, an insurance policy that was
A King
her advisor in this.
Ebro Darden
But here's what I'm saying. Like, of course you fucking save it. He's the goddamn President of the United States.
A King
He's not a regular.
Ebro Darden
I don't care what the situation is. If I think this might could go Even if I don't think he's gonna go left, if I have this, even if I'm not using it to blackmail him, I'm keeping that fucking evidence. Because if it comes down. Because if it comes down to me versus him, I'm going to be able
Mandy B
to say, not being on a dress don't save nobody. But it was.
A King
I think we gotta come back to the scenario too, right? Cause this was a while ago. So according to what Naomi just pulled up. Right. Wow. Hold on. The second. Don't read the second paragraph.
Mandy B
No, I'm gonna read it.
A King
No, no, no. Let's go to the third and fourth before we.
Ebro Darden
No, no, no.
Mandy B
Let's give them all. At first, Lewinsky didn't because I didn't get to go into this depth with Weezy, so. Fuck that. We staying right here.
A King
All right. All right.
Mandy B
At first, Lewinsky didn't even notice the stain and simply put the dress back into her closet after wearing it. Also, nasty white women bitch, clean your dress.
A King
No.
Mandy B
When she eventually planned to wear it again for Thanksgiving.
A King
That's crazy.
Mandy B
And noticed the color come stain.
Ebro Darden
Them don't wore the same dress.
Mandy B
Yeah, but not with come stains, bro.
A King
You got to notice it to know
Mandy B
when I or party hard.
Ebro Darden
Them clothes getting washed, you better know it's there.
A King
I've never even finished articulating again.
Ebro Darden
Now, look, hold on.
Mandy B
When she planned to wear the dress again and noticed the cum stain, she initially thought. She initially thought it was just spinach dip or some other food stain from dinner.
A King
No. Now, protection against the stalker. Here's why she didn't clean.
Mandy B
Tripp warned Lewinsky that if the affair ever became public, the Clinton administration might try to paint her as a stalker or liar.
Ebro Darden
Of course, like, to me, it's very obvious why you keep the dress. Like, I don't think that lamonica Lewinsky was a honey pot like she was. I don't think she did that to necessarily.
Mandy B
Because you know why? She actually said somehow and bitches like ugly niggas every day. She said she was attracted to Bill.
Ebro Darden
That's something that we can't take account for. She thought that nigga was cute or whatever. Whatever. Their relationship was great. But like, if. If the president of the night. Yes. I'm keeping all the evidence. There's not going to be any question about what the fuck is going on.
A King
It's forensic evidence.
Mandy B
Yeah, like I ain't even going to hold you. Pause. If I got to suck Obama dick, which I would have.
A King
Hey, hey.
Mandy B
Now pause. Because I'm being respectful. He married. Yeah. Yes. But if I.
A King
You said you would have. I mean, you basically said, okay, fine,
Mandy B
I have sucked a mini famous dick. Did I save a souvenir of them
Yomi
dating the President
Ebro Darden
of the goddamn United States?
Mandy B
Life are better than the President of the United States.
Ebro Darden
Well, that's you. They're not the goddamn President of the United. They're the most powerful person in the world. Like, it's a totally different thing if. Listen, if I was in a situation with.
Yomi
You can't. It's.
Mandy B
It's the.
Yomi
It's like there's nothing to compare it to.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, there's nothing to compare. It's like saying, oh, there's another Michael
Mandy B
Jackson make 200,000 a year.
Ebro Darden
They're not.
A King
That don't matter. That don't matter. But guess what they got. They got the power to drop a whole bomb on somebody real quick.
Ebro Darden
And guess what? If the President of the United States, like he tried. Like he tried to. Is he tried to act like, oh, I did not have sexual relations with that woman. No. Are you fucking kidding me? Listen, I would never leave myself out there in that kind of situation to just be. Anything can be said about me, and I don't have no verification to back it up about what it is or nothing. You goddamn right I'mma keep that dress. Hopefully I don't have to use this dress, but if I do, nigga, the dress is coming out.
Mandy B
So here is my thought on that. And we could wrap this up because
Yomi
you think she kept it for like, here's my problem. She liked him so much.
Mandy B
Here's my problem.
Ebro Darden
But yeah, let's say, like, what is a perfect.
Mandy B
Here's my problem. If a woman seeks out a man, knows the risks of dealing with that man, especially if said man is not only powerful, but married to where you have to keep something like that. At what point do the women not become the predators of these men?
Ebro Darden
No, no. I'm the type of nigga who like people like. And we didn't get into this. The weakness of it.
Mandy B
Mind you. Mind you. Mind you. Let's even. Let's take this away from the President. Let's take this away from celebrities. No, no, no. We can. I want to bring this. Because I love to bring this down to regular people. You're not going to tell me that there's not women in certain cities that are making sure. One moment. That are. Hold on. No, of course. What? Can I finish my goddamn stage? I know where you going, so say it. What do I say?
Ebro Darden
You're talking about women like you said, who are seeking out the rich and powerful men to do xyz. Great. We all know that that doesn't make. That doesn't change.
Mandy B
So. But you're saying that women aren't predators though. Women are seeking out. Hold on. Even in a club, seeking out. Not even if you're a CEO. It could be the drug dealer, it could be the nigga with a nice car, it could be the nigga with the nice watch.
A King
It could be the basketball player, it
Mandy B
could be the basketball player in the club, it could be the club owner. There are women that seek out these men that have money that either want to have sex with you to set you up, to rob you, to do that and. Or blackmail you to be where? Okay, you fuck me now, you gotta give me this.
Yomi
So you think she was blackmailing him?
Mandy B
Yes.
Ebro Darden
No, no, no, no, no.
Mandy B
Trump told her to advise an insurance policy as a blackmail.
Ebro Darden
No, it's not. An insurance policy says this nigga is the president and this shit becomes public. He's not gonna admit to it. He's gonna throw you under the fucking bus. I know. He's gonna throw you under the fucking bus off the Grand Canyon. Set that bitch on fire. Dr. So the only thing you have to protect yourself against him potentially lying on you. And no one ever believe women. Niggas don't believe women anyway. They damn sure not going to believe the word of you, 20 year old white girl against the president of the United States. You better have something that can show this is what was going on.
A King
You better have something though.
Mandy B
You give a fuck about your career. How about you try not fucking the boss?
Ebro Darden
How about if you're a nigger who you think is getting preyed upon and some women are just throwing her pussy at you so freely. How about, you know, hey, hey, this might be suspect. I'm not the type of nigga who is.
A King
I'm not the type of Bill ain't a nigga.
Ebro Darden
Fair enough. But I'm not the type when niggas talk about accountability. The problem with the accountability conversation is the accountability in niggas minds Nowadays accountability means 50 50. It's half your fault and half this other person's fault. Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah. I'm the type of nigga who, if someone violated anybody, if you the violator, 99.9% of the blame goes on you. If you want to say this, whoever the violator is, whoever the violator is,
Mandy B
who makes them the violator, if you're
Ebro Darden
the rapist, if you're the robber. If you're the shooter, if you are the abuser, if you're the beater, whatever it is, that's 99.9% your fault.
Mandy B
If you want to say none of those titles align with Bill.
Ebro Darden
Correct? Well, he was a manipulator. He wasn't an abuser.
Mandy B
He wasn't abuser, person, manipulator.
Ebro Darden
But that can't be the standard, man. That can't be the standard of right and wrong. Everyone does it, so there's no right and wrong. Let's look at people as there's right and wrong.
Mandy B
Let's look at people as humans.
Yomi
In no part of this human was the United States.
Mandy B
Well, not only human. Our president is human. Monica was human. So let's go into 30 years later, the fact that there is no story of the fact that Bill said, if you don't suck this dick, I'm gonna, you'll never get a job, you'll never get a job in the USA again.
Ebro Darden
Is that the only standard of manipulation?
Mandy B
But my point is, listen, we have a lawyer, a Lorna Hadini. She was an executive at JP Morgan Chase. She's accused of turning a married male employee into her sex slave.
A King
Turning into. Wow.
Mandy B
Now he is now suing. Basically, there were racial implications. He was black, he was Indian.
Ebro Darden
Oh, the brown boy.
Mandy B
The brown boy.
Ebro Darden
He's my brown boy. Fucking sicko.
Mandy B
So, Hadini, y', all, basically, and I wanted to bring this as a take because we do this when we talk about these contexts, right? Men and women. Men can't be predator, can't be preyed upon by women. Cuz women can't be predators.
A King
Well, well, they can, but they just don't talk about it a lot.
Mandy B
And this is the fucking problem, mind you. All these goddamn high school teachers, I'm
A King
gonna be honest, are women.
Mandy B
Fuck.
Ebro Darden
But that is a clear cut case of sexual abuse, predatory behavior, all that kind of shit.
Mandy B
Because there is an age dynamic.
Ebro Darden
There's an age dynamic, there's a power dynamic. This bitch was alone. That doesn't mean she can't be manipulated.
Mandy B
So at 20, let me ask you. So at 20, any woman who is married, engaged, with an older man, has children, all these things, because they are 20 years old. Old. Are they manipulated by their partners to do so? Because at 20, you're not old enough to make every time you're gonna have
Yomi
to say the president, bro.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, you can't. That's what I'm saying, you can't. You're trying to put this in A vacuum and.
Wheezy
Yeah.
Ebro Darden
And pull those parts out and just be like, well the mechanic and the pool girl all fucked. And it's all. That's not the. You can't. It has to be a one to one and there is no one to one for the President.
Mandy B
To me though, when we're talking, this is why I brought this up because. Because power dynamics is the one thing that constantly gets brought up as if when there's power dynamics at play, the person that's more powerful is automatically the
Ebro Darden
predator 99% of the time.
Mandy B
Yeah, well in this case there's a woman. So if you guys haven't seen a lawsuit against JPMorgan executive is now going viral. But really because the details seem to be raising bigger questions, I'm gonna read off some of these things that are within the lawsuit. Hadini allegedly removed her shirt, began fondling her breasts and racially insulting the man who is suing. And she said, mind you, this Asian man is married to an Asian woman. I bet your little Asian fish head wife doesn't have these cannons.
Yomi
Fish head. Wood head.
Mandy B
Fish head.
Ebro Darden
Oh wow.
Mandy B
That's kind of crazy. So the complaint says that she also repeatedly reminded him that she owned him and that she controlled his promotion and bonus which he understood as a threat that she would block both if he refused twice. Doe claims that Houdini propositioned him for oral sex on the office on one occasion asking birthday BJ for the brown boy. My little brown boy.
A King
Jesus Christ.
Mandy B
She went further to say, I fucking own you. I will make you pay. Do you think that you're going to be in good standing if you do not have me in your corner? You really think management wants some round boy Indian leading originations? If you don't fuck my brains out tonight, I'm going to sabotage your promotion.
A King
Now I want to preface this hold. I see something right here. Oh, it said. These are allegations.
Mandy B
These are allegations.
A King
Proven facts.
Mandy B
Yes.
A King
I think she don't. She didn't have to do all of that.
Ebro Darden
Hold on.
Mandy B
If she was saying this.
Ebro Darden
She's sick.
Mandy B
She's a sick.
Ebro Darden
Those are texts or those are like internal like messages or like what are.
Mandy B
Those are all in the moments of intimacy that the claims was saying.
A King
You know what sucks about that?
Mandy B
This. This is why sexual assault is not often. Ew, look at this. What?
Yomi
What's wrong with men these days? They're so soft. Every man's dream.
Mandy B
Well, can we be clear? And this is why I brought up what I brought up in terms of sexual assault. Men don't come Forward because men believe they should be happy, that men want a. Women that want to fight them.
Ebro Darden
Or they're shame even at an early age.
Mandy B
Or they're shamed. Like, what do you mean you wasn't ready? Made that dick hard for that woman, Right? Right.
Ebro Darden
Oh, you evicted.
A King
Like, she.
Ebro Darden
What you mean? She raped you, nigga. Nigga, you can't get raped, nigga. You got some pussy, right?
Mandy B
I say all of that to say in closing. This is not a gender war conversation. Sexual assault is not specifically leaning towards one gender or the next because both experience it. Anything against your consent experienced by both genders.
Ebro Darden
Yep.
Mandy B
And if we want to move forward with actually seeking justice for crimes of sexual assault, we cannot blur the lines of what these mean. And words mean things. And so if someone says, I consented, I pursued, I enjoyed it, and at no point did I say no or stop. It is not a sexual assault. Because I want to make it clear, you can consent and change your mind. Yes. But if that did not take place, both parties enjoyed it. And in hindsight, you regret it. You feel uncomfortable. There was a power dynamic. Now your friend is saying, save the dress for insurance policy. You're not the victim of a sexual assault.
Wheezy
You're not.
Ebro Darden
It's. It's dicey. Cause, like. Okay, so let's. Let's.
A King
Let's bring up.
Ebro Darden
Let's bring up this dynamic.
A King
She called him brown.
Ebro Darden
You say again, the person consents to it, goes along with it, doesn't fight back against it. Who is it, by the way?
A King
I said she called him a brown boy, y'.
Mandy B
All.
Ebro Darden
He is not. There's nothing about that man Brown. Extending this meaning of the word brown.
Mandy B
Let me tell y' all real quick.
Ebro Darden
He's very whiter than her.
Mandy B
You edit the video, yomi. You edit the video. If you could just drop this photo. The reason why we just got blindsided is because yomi pulled up.
A King
I don't know what this is a photo of.
Mandy B
Of Doe, essentially, in this.
A King
Yeah.
Ebro Darden
Technical looks like.
Mandy B
And they're saying he doesn't look brown enough to be called brown boy.
A King
Yeah.
Mandy B
Y' all are so petty.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, Brown boy.
Mandy B
Y' all expected someone to look.
Ebro Darden
I thought. Yeah, I'm thinking, like, welcome to seven. I think I'm thinking Muhammad, like, real, like brown.
A King
Yeah.
Ebro Darden
Brown like that is passing at.
A King
I'm not. Listen. I'm not. I'm not trying to be insensitive.
Ebro Darden
He could be Mexican. He could be Armenian.
A King
He can be, like, Armenian.
Ebro Darden
Look at him, though.
A King
Turkish.
Ebro Darden
That's racially ambiguous. If I ever seen racially ambiguous, but fine. His name is. Whatever.
Mandy B
He is still brown.
A King
What would you tell you anyways?
Mandy B
No, no, no, no.
A King
Y' all force me to eat her pussy.
Mandy B
It's gonna be another two hour episode and we just. We are not the JBP here. Okay?
Ebro Darden
I'm just saying that they got over
Mandy B
two hours last week.
Ebro Darden
I'm just saying if you go through something because you don't want to stir any feathers or you're scared, that does not mean that you were not sexually assaulted. Resulted.
A King
True.
Ebro Darden
If you. If you. If you went through a thing and you felt like.
Mandy B
She did not say that she was coerced.
A King
No, she did not hit another.
Ebro Darden
No, she did not say that.
A King
Hold on.
Mandy B
Oh, now look at his family. He burned.
Ebro Darden
Oh, yeah, that's
Mandy B
his wife. No, he is. Wait, is that his wife?
Ebro Darden
No, that's mom, I think.
Mandy B
Is that the fish head?
A King
No, no wife. No, that's his.
Mandy B
That's.
Ebro Darden
I think they look the same. He looked just like his mom.
Yomi
No, it's his mom.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, everybody said they look just alike. Like she definitely. Like she contributed DNA to that. Damn.
A King
This shit might have. Damn.
Mandy B
Damn, bro, I'm not gonna lie. If you out here abusing your power to get pussy or dick, shame on you. It's easy out here.
Wheezy
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Mandy B
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Robert Smigel
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Ebro Darden
The worst? Yeah, me.
Robert Smigel
Is there anything to the idea that because you're from Harvard, you only got in because your parents made a huge donation?
Timbo
The Yardbirds, right? That's the name.
Robert Smigel
The Harvard Yard.
Ebro Darden
They're open. Do you have a name suggestion?
Yomi
We're open.
Robert Smigel
Since you guys are middle aged, one erection. Listen to Humor Me with Robert Smigel and friends on the hand other my heart radio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast.
A King
Humor me. I need some jokes to make me seem funny.
Timbo
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Kier Gaines
Welcome to my new podcast, Learn the Hard Way with me, your host and your favorite therapist, Kier Gaines. And in recognition of Mental Health Awareness Month, I'm bringing over a decade of my own experience in the mental health field and conversations with so many incredible guests. I'm talking Trip Fontaine, Ryan Clark. Sometimes when we're in the pursuit of the thing, we get so wrapped up in the chase that we don't realize that we are in possession of the thing and we're still chasing it. And we don't know when we've done enough. Because people, scoreboard wise, life becomes about wins and losses. Steve Burns, Dustin Ross. Cause you find it important to be a good person while you're here on earth. Are you a good person because you're afraid?
Ebro Darden
Cause that's two different intentions, bro.
Kier Gaines
Absolutely.
Ebro Darden
And that's two different Levels of trust. I want you to just really be a good person.
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Mandy B
Anyways, let's get into Celebrities say the Darndest Thing.
Ebro Darden
Celebrities say the Darndest Things.
A King
Here we go.
Mandy B
Not anything that was said.
A King
Yeah, but, you know.
Mandy B
But I am really excited.
A King
Of course you are.
Mandy B
Iceman drops this Friday, y'.
Wheezy
All.
Mandy B
May 15th.
Ebro Darden
More MID Music coming out. More mid Music getting ready to drop. More mid. You ready for that mid? You ready for that mid?
Mandy B
Are you serious right now?
Ebro Darden
Sticks and seeds and stems.
Mandy B
Wait, where is this coming from? What do you mean? Just the last year of the beef. Because.
Ebro Darden
No, not even.
Mandy B
Like, Drake has.
A King
Has given us 550 records.
Mandy B
Beautiful music shouting out mid.
Ebro Darden
His last three albums have been midsummer. Everything after Scorpion has been super mid. Everything after Scorpion has been super mid.
Mandy B
Her loss was great.
Ebro Darden
Her loss had it.
Mandy B
Didn't even have enough. 21.
Ebro Darden
The biggest song. I'm about to say the biggest song off Her Loss was the one. Was that one record. Like, there was no.
Yomi
You can't even name them.
A King
I know.
Ebro Darden
That's what I'm saying. Like, it's not these records.
Wheezy
Did not.
Mandy B
He has so many. He has so many. How do we just pinpoint certain songs?
Ebro Darden
He had so many. He had so many.
A King
Her question was spin.
Ebro Darden
That was the word. Yeah, Spin. Body. You're right. That was the one that early words.
A King
The early word is listen.
Ebro Darden
What other Drake song album?
A King
You know, this is the problem.
Ebro Darden
Had one song that people like, she said.
A King
She said.
Mandy B
Oh, no.
Yomi
There was a lot off that album,
Ebro Darden
though, off of her loss.
Yomi
Yeah.
Ebro Darden
I don't recall any conversation, any cultural movement, any.
Yomi
For me.
Ebro Darden
Wasn't that Spin?
A King
Oh, that was.
Ebro Darden
Oh, no, that was the last. That was the one rap song, right? Oh, was that what? So look, I'm thinking Jimmy Cooks. So here's the Jimmy Crooks. What was that on? That was on. Honestly, Nevermind. The last song. That was like an actual rap song.
Mandy B
He has so many fucking hits.
A King
She asked, why the face? Why the reaction?
Ebro Darden
Right?
Mandy B
Are y' all not excited about Iceman?
A King
I. I'm. I won't say I'm excited. I won't say I want to see.
Ebro Darden
I want to.
A King
So I want you Drake fans to understand this.
Mandy B
Here we go.
A King
Do not be upset. See, this is the thing. You can't have a cause, by the way. Huh?
Mandy B
Rich Flex Rich, Flex, can you.
Ebro Darden
Oh, do something for me.
A King
That was off. Her loss. That was. All right. But look, the thing is, don't be. See, you can't shoot a BB gun at somebody and then they hit you with a round with an AK47. And you say, you cry foul. Do not be surprised. Look, I'm here for the Drake records. I'm here for the hit records. I'm here for it. But if he goes down that pathway again, y' all can't complain when there's a response to it. Cause this is how it started before. And then what happened, what I saw, I'm like, why y' all mad that Kendrick? He violated.
Ebro Darden
Oh, no, they won't be mad. They'll champion that shit.
A King
This guy said, he told this dude, don't take it. Don't keep. Let's keep a friendly fade. Let's do the competitive shit. And your man said, no, I want to be. I want to be. I want to be late. So when he violated, he violated harder. And then they were like, oh, my God. Oh, my God. So what I'm saying is now he had a clean slate. Conda. He has an opportunity now, so. But I anticipate that he's not. He just can't help himself. He's going to disrespect. Of course he is. This guy that's been quiet, that never did a rollout for gnx. He just dropped that shit in the middle of the weekend book. Boom, here we are. So now he's quiet again.
Ebro Darden
He's wanting his again.
Mandy B
Honestly, do not think he's going to shoot at all.
A King
Oh, Kendrick. I'm hearing word that he really. Shooting, shooting, shooting.
Mandy B
He's gonna shoot at LeBron.
A King
No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
Ebro Darden
He's definitely gonna shoot at LeBron. He's for sure gonna shoot at LeBron.
A King
But those are gonna be light jabs. The tar. He's still targeting.
Mandy B
He's not gonna. No, that's done. He's not.
A King
You wanna bet again?
Mandy B
What are we betting? What we betting on? She wanna do this on air. What are we betting? Hold on, hold on. Because it drops this Friday. What are we betting? I guarantee you.
A King
Hold on.
Mandy B
There are not gonna be any shots to Kendrick on this album.
Ebro Darden
However, any.
Mandy B
Hold on. None.
A King
Got it.
Mandy B
There will be shots on this album to possibly other TDE people.
A King
No, no, no, hold on.
Mandy B
There may be shots. Hold on, Let me finish. There will be shots to the blogosphere that don't count.
A King
That shit don't matter.
Mandy B
Yeah, sure. That don't count maybe that he genuinely thought were his friends that did not
Ebro Darden
show up that would for sure be nice to him.
Mandy B
We do know Lil Baby just stood in front of like he chose a side. So he still got Lil Baby. He still got 21.
A King
He still even Game is on the album.
Mandy B
Who? Who?
A King
Game. J.C. i'm telling you, the early. Listen I have.
Mandy B
Why?
A King
You know why.
Mandy B
Why?
A King
I promise you he's dissing Kendrick on the album.
Mandy B
Drake is not.
A King
Yes, but let's do.
Ebro Darden
Let's.
A King
So look, I got the best.
Ebro Darden
Why you.
Mandy B
You know, for facts. That Game is about to be on ice.
A King
I am 98. Oh, about game.
Mandy B
Game is on ice cream.
A King
I'm 95% sure he's on the album. I'm 99% sure Drake is going to diss Kendrick again.
Yomi
Why are you confident that he wouldn't text my obo? Resources.
Mandy B
I got resources.
Ebro Darden
Well, why are you convinced that he wouldn't? Cuz I don't understand why he wouldn't.
Mandy B
Meezy got in my ass. So we were in Ghana.
Ebro Darden
He was in Ghana too.
Mandy B
There was a track list that came out and I just reposted it. Cause I be doing my re quote retweet hand is real quick on the Internet facts.
A King
It sure is.
Mandy B
And it's before I know this shit is AI and fake. So man, I retweeted a Drake track list.
A King
Oh, that shit.
Mandy B
And Meezy had Michael Jackson.
A King
Beyond that.
Ebro Darden
That's the one that had Kendrick.
A King
They said, oh, Kendrick.
Mandy B
And no, Kendrick wasn't on it.
A King
No, there was one that had.
Mandy B
Oh, no, I retweeted the. With Michael Jackson and Beyonce.
Ebro Darden
Beyonce featuring Drake featuring Michael Jackson and Beyonce. That sounds crazy.
Mandy B
Nah. So I retweeted it like ooh, not ooh. Hey, hey, nigga. Meezy was like, meezy hit me so motherfucking quick. Meazy was like, your voice is too goddamn big for you to be retweeting these fake Instagram.
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
Mandy B
Of this bullshit. And I was like, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.
Ebro Darden
So all right. So what you're telling me is that
A King
I got the bet?
Ebro Darden
Since what's the bet?
Mandy B
Hold on real quick.
A King
Your ass got an email. Your ass got an email day free for a PG Lang. And if I lose, I'll buy. I'll purchase a OVO sweatshirt and a hoodie and I'll wear it.
Mandy B
That's absolutely.
A King
Yeah, that is cuz.
Ebro Darden
I would never do it.
Mandy B
Now, first off.
A King
All right, so what's enough?
Mandy B
You saying I gotta hit up day free? I don't know them.
A King
Exactly. That's the whole point.
Ebro Darden
But they know you bet.
Mandy B
First off, them responded to my email.
A King
Don't worry.
Ebro Darden
They don't.
A King
We don't respond to this one. I tell you that.
Ebro Darden
Oh, the Manny B. Oh, is she the one that. Oh, yeah, yeah.
Yomi
If she's hitting up PG LAN camp, you got to hit up OVO camp.
A King
I could. I could. I hit up Mr. Morgan. Like, yo, Mr. Morgan, first off, right
Mandy B
across from Fish Cheeks is the OVO store, right on Lafayette and Bon's.
A King
Yo, you could take your Osmos 3 and you can record me going, I will buy that shit.
Mandy B
We going straight to the OVO store in SoHo in New York, and you going to buy up.
Ebro Darden
Hold on.
Mandy B
One. They got everything.
A King
No, wait, wait, wait, wait.
Wheezy
Hold on.
Ebro Darden
The whole thing.
A King
One item. Not socks, big owl, the knock, the yeah, yeah, yeah.
Ebro Darden
Huh, huh. All of that.
A King
He can't help himself. That's why you think it's called Iceman. He's gonna be. He got a cold heart.
Ebro Darden
So wait, okay, so here's. Here's where I'm at with it. Here's where I'm at.
Mandy B
Okay, real quick. Fine. If you lose, if Drake does not shoot at Kendrick, you have to come in here dressed like an Eskimo,
Ebro Darden
no
A King
matter what the temperatures outside.
Ebro Darden
What's going on?
A King
Can I get dressed?
Yomi
Do y' all think this is, like, a no skip album for you, or do you think. How many bangers do you think?
A King
I'm hearing that he's back with 40, so. I love 40. Production is 40 is back. But that. That. Listen, this is not shout out. Listen. Damn, everybody's sensitive. You can't even.
Yomi
Just answer my question. We don't gotta get.
Mandy B
Do you think it's a no Skip album?
A King
This is not the battle he won in the past. This is a different tip situation.
Ebro Darden
But if it happened, I do think
A King
that they're gonna have the chemistry. Of course I think we're gonna have the records. Right? But according to people that have been online in his camp, they got him to scrap the club records, and they want him to be more lyrical. So when you're more lyrical, how do you not address the elephant in the room?
Yomi
Yeah, like 6aM In Calabasas type.
Mandy B
Yeah.
A King
Like, bar down, drink more, more, more bar down type. But I will say, though, all jokes aside, look, I'm gonna be honest. Look, we. We all be drawing the line and saying, look, I am. Yes, I'm here for the new Drake album. I want him to do well. I do want him to stay out of. He's. He's at Disneyland with his family, minding his own family business. Business. Please, please do not ignite this nigga again because y' all are not gonna like it. All right, fair enough. That's all. So I am anticipating it for. And I want people. I do want a win for the Drake fans. All that ice melting shit. He could have helped Flint Mitch. Nah, I'm joking. But he. I love it. I love the attempt. I love how he got the streamers behind. I love how he got the streamers behind. He's participating in the modern day era of content.
Ebro Darden
I'm with it. Here's why. I don't expect much.
A King
Much who much as in just the totality of success.
Ebro Darden
I'm not like.
A King
No, no, no, no, no, no.
Ebro Darden
I. No, I expect him to have at least a song or two.
Mandy B
A song or two.
Ebro Darden
But yes, that's probably because.
A King
Listen to me.
Yomi
No, I'm tell you how many's in the album. You think, oh, I'm sure this is
Ebro Darden
going to be at least 16, 17 songs at least.
Yomi
Out of one. Out of six.
Mandy B
He said one or two.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, one or two.
Yomi
Okay, because.
Ebro Darden
Because I'm going Tell you what. Hold on.
A King
Another certified lover to understand what's happening in the room.
Mandy B
That's crazy.
A King
Let's get the complexion of. See, you got the light.
Mandy B
The lighty not making this.
Yomi
I barely know English, y'.
Mandy B
All.
Ebro Darden
He hasn't not had an album that was like full of bangers. Like Scorpion was the last time. There was like a good amount of bangers that came out of a Drake album. And even on Scorpion, it was starting to get like, enough is enough. Like, all right. Certified lover boy. Boy, I'm looking at the track list right now. I don't see one song on here that was like the banger that took over everybody. Champagne, poetry, Poppy's home girls want one.
Mandy B
One, right?
Ebro Darden
No, no, no. This is certified lover boy. This is the album did it.
A King
Hold on, hold on. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I'm glad you said.
Mandy B
I don't know.
Ebro Darden
I'm looking at this checklist. I don't see.
Mandy B
She went uptown.
A King
Hold on.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, in New York.
A King
In one city that had numbers, yomi. But I want you to understand something. Numbers don't make the thing, the thing. Numbers.
Yomi
You talking about impact.
Ebro Darden
I'm talking about a song that's undeniable across the culture. There was none of those songs.
A King
All certified.
Ebro Darden
Hold on, I got more. Hold on, I got more. I got more.
A King
I got More.
Yomi
Which album is this?
Ebro Darden
This is Certified Lover Boy. There is no. There is no song on Certified Lover Boy. That took over.
A King
That's hard.
Ebro Darden
7am on bridal path was the.
A King
It's at the top.
Ebro Darden
Champagne, Poetry.
A King
Yeah, that was hard.
Yomi
Way too champagne.
Ebro Darden
Poetry is hard.
Yomi
Way too Sexy was everywhere.
Ebro Darden
Way too sexy.
Yomi
Knife Talk was everywhere.
Mandy B
Oh, knife talk.
Yomi
Way too sexy. We couldn't even go anywhere with that.
Ebro Darden
Okay, right. So that was the white. That was the one song.
Yomi
It was like, it was out there, but it was like, I feel like way too sick.
Ebro Darden
I mean, you can say that these songs that other people like. I think girls want girls.
Mandy B
Oh, no, that's everywhere.
Ebro Darden
Everywhere where? Like they.
Mandy B
In the club.
A King
In the club.
Mandy B
In the club.
A King
See, that's. See that? That's.
Ebro Darden
Rodriguez was dancing to these songs.
Mandy B
Hold up, yo.
Yomi
You go to a places where meek. Do you hear Kendrick all the time at the club?
Ebro Darden
No, but guess what?
A King
Wait, there's a hold on. There's a hold.
Ebro Darden
Wait, but that's not the standard.
A King
I'm glad you said that. I'm glad you. Let's bring.
Mandy B
Hey, guys. One at a time. This is the awful experience.
A King
Let me answer your question. Do you hear Kendrick in the club, that narrative? I've heard some, but there's a narrative there. Kendrick doesn't make records for the club, however. Yeah, that's not what people say. But he was challenged to do so. So in the battle, right?
Ebro Darden
Because Euphoria.
A King
Euphoria was really the, The. See, what happened was when they told him to drop.
Yomi
I like Euphoria.
A King
Remember when his mascot. When Drake's mascot was. Oh, he dropped 18 days. Whatever the countdown. And then when he dropped, like, then it was a narrative like, oh, well, damn, he.
Ebro Darden
He killed him.
A King
But you can't do this. And then he drops. Not like us after the third time. Right? So it's like he can. But that's not. He hasn't. He's a cultural intentional natural.
Mandy B
She doesn't.
A King
The, the, the, the. The idea that the club is the defining moment of the success of a record. It's not
Yomi
social media. Way Too Sexy was all over social media. Knife Talk was all over social media because. Was all over social media. So for you to say that there's not one.
Ebro Darden
I don't consider it. I, I. The Way Too Sexy was a hit record. I don't consider any of them other
Yomi
songs and girls Want girls.
Ebro Darden
I consider those as album songs that people like. I don't consider those, like, culturally take over everything.
Yomi
I'm not talking about Culture. I'm, I'm, I'm. I'm not talking about culture. I'm talking about like his fans love those songs.
Ebro Darden
Sure.
Yomi
We're not, we're not talking about his reach. People were still listening to him.
Ebro Darden
People are never going to stop listening
Yomi
to Drake by Lover Boy. I don't think based of what you said.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Ebro Darden
I don't consider any of those songs comparison to like More Life and Views
Yomi
and the other albums miracle songs either.
Ebro Darden
No, you're 100%. But the songs how Drake used to come out with songs come out with albums and these things took over everything. Like those days kind of ended after Scorpion. Like there wasn't like you look at Honestly, never mind. First of all most people hated the fact that he was doing a house album. The songs that came off of that were Sticky and Jimmy Cooks and that was probably about as much as you're going to get knowing 2020 20. So then her loss comes out. Her loss comes out and people expected a thing spin by you was a thing for sure. What was the other one? Jumbotron. Shit popping. Okay cool. That took over and then that was kind of at the end of that album and those are two songs and it didn't dominate everything. It was just two popular songs. Okay great.
Yomi
Circle Loco was out here maybe a little bit.
Ebro Darden
But I'm talking about. But I guess what I'm saying is this is Drake. Drake is supposed to be the ruler of all things. He stopped being the ruler.
Mandy B
Ruler of all things. I hate that. Okay. Unfortunately because he was the ruler of all things. Y' all are holding him to this pedestal.
A King
Mind you that he put himself.
Ebro Darden
No no no.
A King
He did his work. And you know who else he gonna he. He's gonna diss Jay Z and that is going to be the episode.
Mandy B
Why do you think he's gonna dis?
A King
That's been brewing too for a little bit.
Ebro Darden
They've always had a. They've always had with each other that's been growing for each how much that will come.
A King
We'll see if he get froggy. Guess what? I I I I hope he go all the way cuz we got that September three day show.
Mandy B
You know what I think that he's going to dis hov all of you egotistical.
A King
Oh here we go.
Mandy B
Insecure.
A King
Really
Mandy B
Imposter syndrome. As Dave Free was a mother ass men I Drake is going to is gonna go back.
A King
Uh huh. Go back.
Mandy B
Go back to doing what we love. Marvin's room.
Ebro Darden
That's an interesting way to frame it. Because that's exactly how I feel.
Yomi
Mandy, what's your favorite Drake?
Mandy B
Probably. Take care.
Ebro Darden
Of course, nobody was. Nobody's favorite Drake came in the last five, six years. Nobody's. You're just a guy making songs.
Mandy B
Y' all are holding him up to standard.
Yomi
I think that's a better take.
A King
I'm holding him up to the standard that he set himself up for.
Ebro Darden
Like the favorite. If you ask somebody what their favorite Drake is, they're gonna name an album from a decade ago. Because nobody really likes the new shit.
Yomi
I think it depends on demographic.
Mandy B
Do like the new.
Yomi
I think it depends on demographic.
Ebro Darden
Well, he also started reaching out to the 19 year olds and 18 year olds to try to make them happy. And he's not talking to the grown people who were with him. Were so far gone. And take care.
Mandy B
Got mad that Andre 3000 did a flute album. Suck my dick.
A King
I didn't get mad. I didn't get mad.
Mandy B
He don't want to see all these niggas age. Because y' all aren't really upset, mind you. You got mad other old niggas right now. You got. First off, Jeezy's still rapping about slanging coke. He just doing it to a goddamn Monica.
Ebro Darden
And he's great, bro. That's what we want for.
A King
Just what we want for 12. Give me some more examples.
Mandy B
Hold on.
A King
Cause the 35 and up, we got
Mandy B
two chains, aka Titty Boy.
A King
Killing it. No, no, no, no, you're not. No, you're not gonna do this.
Mandy B
So the voice of my head is God. We still have him with. He has his bars and how he raps. He talk.
A King
Yeah, he talk his shit.
Mandy B
He talks his shit.
A King
But he also. But he gives.
Mandy B
You married n still talk about these hoes?
A King
No, no, no. But he also talks about his family. He talks about his wife, how his wife be keeping it.
Mandy B
Drake has always given us both.
A King
He never gave us. He never gave us the maturation of Drake.
Mandy B
One moment. Y' all are fucking selectively, fucking ignoring every chance.
Ebro Darden
He's a child. He's a child rapper.
A King
I can't wait till he disc Kendrick.
Ebro Darden
One moment.
Mandy B
There's more niggas, bro. First off, more motherfucking niggas. Can you look up?
A King
Don't do that real quick.
Mandy B
I need you to look up.
A King
Yo, Gotti, he gonna diss Rick Ross, too. You know that, right? He dissing Rick Ross.
Ebro Darden
Can you.
Mandy B
Can you pause right now? The floor is mine. Yo, Gotti is 44 years old.
A King
All these niggas are older.
Mandy B
My point so let me get my point on. Cause y' all are acting like this nigga gotta sit here and talk about praising the floor.
Yomi
Baby mama walk home.
Mandy B
One moment. Gotti is 44 years old.
A King
Still talking about working, being a businessman.
Mandy B
He ain't time today. Fuck it. I'm crossing the line today. Nigga. Chill go from Gotti. That's another. You told me to give you niggas, right? You told me to give you rappers.
Ebro Darden
I'm gonna tell you the difference too. Go ahead.
Mandy B
Who we have yet to hear really any good music from for years. If we're talking about N who fell off, who still get talked about. How old is Future?
A King
Ain't for fall off a little bit.
Mandy B
One moment. How old is future? 42 years old.
A King
He's an anomaly.
Mandy B
Let me finish. Let me finish.
A King
Look at his name. Not Davious. Come on, man. So because his name is Dabadius Damun.
Mandy B
Let's keep. Let's keep going. Who are main rappers right now? Because also, y' all didn't want niggas to really mature. Chance the rapper riped about how happy he was in marriage. And you y' all killed, cuz.
Ebro Darden
The album was trash. It's not about. It's not about him maturing. The album was bad. The music is bad.
A King
The new album was all right.
Ebro Darden
The new album is fantastic.
A King
Who so not the girl contributed to the demise?
Ebro Darden
Whatever it took. Chance is back. Like Chance new album is. They started fantastic.
A King
Yes, yes, yes.
Ebro Darden
All the album was trash.
Mandy B
I just hate this constant conversation around Drake is aging. And he not making music for his aging.
A King
You know, here's the barrettes in his hair.
Ebro Darden
I'm gonna tell you the problem. I'll tell you the problem.
Mandy B
You ain't been to Mck on a Sunday. These old niggas out here in Nike tech suits and barrettes.
Ebro Darden
Sure, but here's the problem, though. The Drake that everybody got, the bedazzled jeans too, the Drake that everybody fell in love with was the Drake who was the same sentimental, could talk about women, could talk about his heartbreak, could talk about loving women, could talk about how much he adored certain women, the strippers and everything else, and the women he had passed with and all that shit. And then Drake became a red pill nigga. Drake turned into Myron Gaines. Drake turned into Aiden Ross. Drake turned into all these fucking clown ass niggas who get on these podcasts and all this fuck shit. And that's why he lost a lot of his women demographic. Because you, Drake was supposed to be even certified lover boy. Wasn't about being a certified lover boy. It was the exact opposite. It was how much he was jaded, how much bitches he paid for and they didn't love him back and how much he tricked off and how much he didn't get that response, and how much people used him and the haters and all this other shit. Nigga, that's not what. Niggas love you so much. You know what the problem is?
Mandy B
That's not what women love is you, too.
Wheezy
You.
Mandy B
You and all of you black men out there.
A King
Black men is insane.
Mandy B
You are also a victim of patriarchy. Because unfortunately, when these men like a Drake, who are approaching or in their 40s and still unmarried and probably with baby mothers that they regret instead of maturing, you guys realize at 40, you're still not very mature. And so Drake is actually the mirror for most niggas. Because had.
Ebro Darden
For pussy niggas.
Mandy B
Hold on one moment. Because had Jay Z continued rapping instead of. Instead of going into the business route of becoming the billionaire and leaving music at a time where niggas was like, well, how are you going to grow? You're not slanging dope no more. You're married to the Beyonce. What are you going to rap about? Had Jay Z not left music at the time he did, we would have ended up having the same conversation about Jay Z.
A King
We don't know that.
Mandy B
But he went into music. One moment, one moment. Because that's why you niggas are all going to Yankee Stadium for the old ass reasonable out and the old ass blueprint or whatever.
A King
The why. Because this is classic.
Mandy B
It's legacy with music now. Because he also saw that when you reach a certain age, unfortunately, the things that move us in the club, the things that make us feel not responsible as adults, ain't rapping about bills and owing taxes.
A King
No, he did that.
Mandy B
Don't rap about 444.
A King
He did a whole album about that.
Mandy B
You ready? And no one likes that album.
Ebro Darden
Probably one of the most important albums ever.
Mandy B
Because you guys wish that y'. All.
A King
No, no, wait, wait, hold on. Reasonable Doubt.
Mandy B
He.
A King
Jay Z, from the inception of his. His career, has always told us what he was gonna do. That's why the.
Ebro Darden
That's why the. That's why the.
A King
The attempt of retiring was always there. He always told us what his plan was.
Ebro Darden
And since from day one, since he came back.
Mandy B
Wait, what? What. What plan? Why are y' all so mad at Drake?
A King
Evolution?
Ebro Darden
I'm not mad at Drake. I'm telling you, I was mad at Drake. This is what's been going on.
Mandy B
He is the mirror. Which is really what's upset.
A King
He's the mirror. So that mean he is the mirror? That mean he is.
Ebro Darden
That's what I just said. He's Myron Gaines. If you Myron Gay, if you love fresh and fit, you love Drake when
Mandy B
he's not Myron Gaye, who is he?
Ebro Darden
If you love.
Mandy B
He is the mirror. He rd 3000 for most n in they late 30s, early 40s who once again regret they baby mamas aren't where they want to be in life. Unmarried and out here dealing with the same bitches as the athletes, the rappers, and being upset that they feel like they are not good.
Ebro Darden
That sounds like the definition of a ass nigga. And that is exactly how Drake moves. That is exactly how Drake moves.
Mandy B
You're missing the whole premise. The niggas that hate him right now are mad at the mirror.
Ebro Darden
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's a miserable station.
Mandy B
Hold on.
Ebro Darden
The niggas that love Drake right now are those right there. The who champion Drake. Absolutely, thousand percent. Because the who there are no who are happy with they life, who are living good and living with their wife and living with their kids, who are representing Drake. There are zero people doing that.
Mandy B
Wait, wait, there are no.
Ebro Darden
There are no people doing that.
Mandy B
Is he not making my point? Is he not making my point?
A King
I will say this.
Mandy B
He wasn't. One moment, one moment. Pause. Because now emotions. I need you to listen very clearly on what I just said. Very clearly. So ja, breathe as actually all together, roll real quick. Hold on one moment. Because he.
A King
No, he got your cash app.
Mandy B
He just actually said exactly what I just said. But he's arguing against the point that I'm making. So. One moment. Woosa.
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Ebro Darden
The worst? Yeah, Me.
Robert Smigel
Is there anything to the idea that because you're from Harvard, you only got in because your parents made a huge donation?
Timbo
The Yard Birds, right? That's the name.
Robert Smigel
The Harvard Yard.
Ebro Darden
But they're open if you have a name suggestion. We're open.
Robert Smigel
Since you guys are middle aged. One erection. Listen to Humor Me with Robert Smigel and friends on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast.
A King
Humor me. I need some jokes to make me seem funny.
Timbo
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Welcome to my new podcast, Learn the Hard Way with me, your host and your favorite therapist, Kier Gaines. And in recognition of Mental Health Awareness Month, I'm bringing over a decade of my own experience in the mental health field and conversations with so many incredible guests. I'm talking Trip Fontaine, Ryan Clark. Sometimes, when we're in the pursuit of the thing we get so wrapped up in the chase that we don't realize that we are in possession of the thing and we're still chasing it and we don't know when we done enough. Because people, scoreboard wise, life becomes about wins and losses. Steve Burns, Dustin Ross. Cause you find it important to be a good person while you're here on earth. Are you a good person because you're afraid?
Ebro Darden
Cause that's two different intentions, bro.
Kier Gaines
Absolutely.
Ebro Darden
And that's two different levels of truth trust. I want you to just really be a good person.
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Mandy B
Now you said that there is no married nigga with his wife happy at home sticking up for Drake. I am saying the majority. Yeah, right now. Because unfortunately we were raised on hip hop. So the I get around the fuck bitches get money. All the millennials, unfortunately y' all want to blame.
A King
Come on, we can keep going. How come you don't say Miss Fat Booty or most deaf shit?
Ebro Darden
See, they taking a very.
A King
A very exclusive brand of hip hop.
Ebro Darden
No, but here's the difference. One moment. Let me finish, let me finish.
Mandy B
The matter is there are more drugs Drake's than Kendricks in our community. So what I'm saying is.
A King
Cause they're insecure.
Ebro Darden
Yes.
Mandy B
And so that's what I'm saying. So yes, where everyone sided with Kendrick, it's because Drake represents the lame ass nigga.
A King
That's not why.
Mandy B
But a lot of people are. Let me listen. Let me motherfucking land a plane. People are upset that yes, Drake is 40 still dealing with young girl bird bitches in the Club, which is NCK. A lot of these 35, 40 year old niggas with multiple baby mamas.
A King
Fair.
Mandy B
Hold on. This nigga had a baby by a porn bitch. You guys have babies by bitches y' all call ugly online every day.
A King
Why you go to McK? Why you still go there then who? Those are not people that fit your.
Mandy B
But what I'm saying is for everyone who wants to be online and hate that Drake didn't mature, hate that Drake operates this way. The mirror has been held up to them that they're not the esteemed nigga that a Kendrick is, who, yes, rocked with his wife that got his motherfucking Pulitzer Prize that actually has a vocabulary to say certain words and da da da da da.
Ebro Darden
They are actually. One moment.
Mandy B
No, no, but that's why they look to that nigga the same way mad niggas look to Martin Luther King. They weren't that nigga. So when Drake is getting shitted on, they're gonna side with the nigga they look up to, not the nigga. That actually reflects. A lot more niggas are Drake's out here than Kendricks. And so when it came down to it, then we made it a race thing, then we made it a country thing. That's a Canadian. He's Jewish. Can we keep that wait? He was raised privileged. He was a child star. He's biracial. The fact of the matter is, a lot of niggas that listen to hip hop are Drakes. They're out here fucking little 20 year olds. They don't have their lives together and they are red pill content ass niggas. So if Drake is Myron Gaines, unfortunately, the majority of hip hop consumers.
Ebro Darden
Not majority.
Mandy B
I'm not going for.
Ebro Darden
I'm not going for majority.
A King
Not hip hop. Those are not hip hop fans.
Ebro Darden
I would say there are a lot of ass music. But no, I agree with you that they're popular music. There's a lot of ass niggas out there. Right.
A King
I think there's a lot.
Mandy B
You feel what I'm saying?
Yomi
But you can be popular music fan and still be a rap fan.
A King
Yes, you can.
Ebro Darden
Sure you can. Absolutely you can. Like I get around, take care of you.
A King
Hey, I promise you. I promise you. Most of them people can't tell you
Ebro Darden
the albums that they can't tell you another man.
A King
Well, that ho ho.
Ebro Darden
That's one thing to like another copy.
Mandy B
He said it's a song.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, it's a song by another man. It's one thing to like a song. It's another thing to believe in a person.
Mandy B
Yeah. Which is crazy because these niggas believe
Ebro Darden
in what Drake is saying as like a ethos of how they live.
Mandy B
And they believe that Meg is everything. She raps too. And poor girl just wanted love rap. Rap women don't get to get away from their boss bars.
Ebro Darden
We're not misogyny. We're not.
Mandy B
That's a whole other thing to get away from their lines.
Ebro Darden
But both those are the same. The same.
A King
That hate Meg, love Drake, you know, they love that.
Ebro Darden
That's what Drake represents. Drake represents the like who free Tory and.
Mandy B
And.
Ebro Darden
And you shot him and represent this. Those are the same exact. That's why I'm saying what I'm saying. You. You're right. Drake does reflect one of these. No, Drake. What?
Mandy B
You're right.
A King
So look, I just want to. I just want to. If I may. This is the wild episode, and we
Ebro Darden
shouldn't be championing that.
A King
We started. We started. We started off the episode talking about biracials and we ended the episode talking about biracials. You know that, right?
Mandy B
We started this episode saying it was going to be political. I am so sorry. We're going to get into our voting rights next week.
A King
First of all, I just learned. I just learned something. So inside the studio, ladies and gentlemen, we have a clock that we monitor that is going. It don't. It don't go past 9, 9, 5 9, 9, 9.
Ebro Darden
That don't even tick no more.
A King
Nah. But listen, we. We. I just want to. Don't. Don't mischaracterize us. We don't hate.
Yomi
I just want to say I'm a fan of music.
A King
I don't know who. I don't know that enough to say hate. He. He is a great artist and I just hope that he continues to be him, whatever that looks like, and focus on that. Now, if he still wants to squabble what I ask of people and fans, if he says, hey, I still want to engage, don't be mad at the response of the engagement. That's all I'm saying.
Ebro Darden
Oh, no, they absolutely would.
Mandy B
You can't tell people how to feel. Yeah, but you can't be mad.
Ebro Darden
The Drake fans want him to respond. Respond because they want. They know that.
A King
They want to stand the comments.
Ebro Darden
They want to get back the same way people. Same way people get online. Oh, he cheated on me. I'm breaking up with him. These want. They lick back. These are angry and bitter.
A King
I think they'll want to him.
Mandy B
This is going to be the album of the summer.
A King
Oh, see that. That's what y' all gotta stop doing.
Ebro Darden
Just let. Let it come out. As far as I'm concerned, let the
A King
album come out and we listen to it.
Mandy B
The album is about to break records.
A King
Let's be clear. Hold on. Let's be clear. That album is going to sell. It's never. That's never. Because there's a lot of people that want to see where he's at. And if he's still with the boy, that's why it's going to go up. I'm going to.
Yomi
I have a question.
A King
I'm going to admit.
Mandy B
What.
Yomi
What's going to make this Drake? What's the criteria for this album to be successful to y', all, to me, as Drake Haters we're not Drake haters.
Ebro Darden
The criteria for me to enjoy this album is Drake was never supposed to go. The toughest that Drake was supposed to be was if youf're Reading this, he had just whooped Meek Mill ass and he had the license.
Mandy B
And then right after that March Madden, he did the Future.
Ebro Darden
The Future. Yeah. What a time.
Mandy B
What a time.
Ebro Darden
What a time. But on that he was. But he wasn't talking so tough. On what a time. He was doing a lot of like the Drake stu. We like the R and B stuff.
Mandy B
He talked about being a legend.
Ebro Darden
No. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I'm saying like that was the. After he whooped Meek ass. That was supposed to be the most gangster Drake.
Mandy B
When did that album come out?
Ebro Darden
2016, 2015.
Mandy B
Well, no, no, no.
A King
Go go one time.
Yomi
By the time it's not even in here.
Mandy B
It's not.
Ebro Darden
Yeah. It should have been after Views right before Views before. I think.
Yomi
I think Views is his most streamed album.
Ebro Darden
Yeah. Because yeah, that was. That was the album he probably teased the most because it took him building up.
Yomi
You just said what a time. No, wait, what did you say?
Ebro Darden
I'm saying the toughest that he was supposed to talk. When Drake was talking. The most like brolic. The most like nothing was the same. Was. Was if you're reading this. Oh, if you're reading this, he, he. He was just off like he was in the middle of like tearing Meek up and it was like, you know, you getting body by singing and it was like, oh, yeah.
A King
That was a moment, boy. It was like, oh, shit. That was a moment.
Ebro Darden
That was a moment. It was like, oh, shit. He was powerful after that.
A King
He was.
Ebro Darden
I want Drake to do more Nokias, more Passion Fruits.
A King
Introspective shit. More.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, introspective. Talk about his mom and. Yeah. And talk about women in a way that is flattering and charming and do that.
A King
I like Views.
Ebro Darden
All of the.
Yomi
That's his mainstream album views.
A King
And nothing was the same with my two favorites.
Ebro Darden
All of the. All of the Red Pill Drake. All of the I Hate these Bitches, I Can't Trust these Hoes and all of that dumb shit. And all of that. That like on all the tough talk
Yomi
and Mafio talking about if you're reading this too late.
A King
Yeah.
Mandy B
To me that was same year as what a time.
Ebro Darden
That was where he was as far as like his lyrical content. He was talking very spicy.
Yomi
Okay. But then the next year is his most streamed album, 2016.
A King
But that's.
Ebro Darden
But I'm not those two different things I'm talking about for me I'm talking about the Drake that I want is a lyrical Drake who's introspective. If you find a BlackBerry with the sky side scroll like.
Yomi
So that's what you're referencing?
Ebro Darden
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I want that version of Drake if he's going to come back and be on some.
Yomi
Okay, now it makes sense what you're saying. That was like 10 years ago. Yeah, it makes sense but your takes are not making sense to me because you're referencing everything to this Al.
Mandy B
10 years ago, 2015, 2016 to you, to him.
Ebro Darden
After Scorpion, Drake is just like. It got worse and worse and worse.
Mandy B
By the way, his most streamed was actually his album in 2021. Which album was that? Cuz I just saw it.
A King
Y. Can you open up the. The album cover? Cuz I didn't see what I'm saying.
Ebro Darden
But most stream isn't about what is going to make me like it.
Yomi
Is that the official.
A King
I'm assuming it is cuz that's the first.
Yomi
No, there's been a couple.
A King
No, but this is. But this is the. I never seen that one. So that's what makes me think that that's the one.
Mandy B
All I know is. Oh cuz it's up there.
A King
So look, I'm not going to lie. So look, the fact.
Mandy B
Why the. Did he not put the cornrows with Iceman? That.
Ebro Darden
That was his.
A King
Well, that's Cornrows.
Yomi
No, no, no, no, no.
Ebro Darden
He had Iceman in the corn roll.
A King
Well maybe, maybe, maybe.
Ebro Darden
But what I'm.
A King
But just think about this.
Ebro Darden
This whole rollout is confusing because it's doesn't seem to be about.
Mandy B
Well, no, it's because of AI.
A King
No, but look, check this out. So here's the thing with the.
Mandy B
Damn. That might not even be a real album.
A King
With the. With him naming the album Iceman. Right. It represents. He's definitely in a cold place and he's coming out and I think he's going. I think. No, I think he's going to be saying a lot of wild.
Mandy B
They said that Iceman is.
A King
Yeah, it was a Marvel character that was.
Ebro Darden
That was.
A King
Yeah, that was bisexual.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Ebro Darden
And it was. It was a lot of other nuances that relate and they've only been claiming
Mandy B
he's been bisexual for years.
Yomi
I will say if someone told me that Drake likes his, you know, to like dabble, I wouldn't be surprised.
Mandy B
I wouldn't be surprised.
A King
I don't think that that had anything to do. I think it's just he's. He's saying that that represents the way he's at as a cold hearted nigga right now.
Ebro Darden
But it was also.
Yomi
No, I'm going based off what she said.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, yeah, yeah. But Iceman is also a serial killer. And like there's various.
A King
I do want him to shed light on him and Rick Ross's relationship. Cause we don't know. And I think Rick Ross is going to do that too.
Yomi
In his eyes, I think Rick Ross look really cross. Neither in that process.
Mandy B
You know what? There's a. There's the verses that's happening between him and French and French Montana, even though we don't need it.
A King
That's more of a celebratory thing. I don't think they really going is.
Mandy B
There's a lot of hit records, a lot of hit records that Ross has with Drake.
A King
Wait, but there's also a lot of hit records he got without Drake. That's me.
Mandy B
To me, what you don't do, then
A King
he's gonna do the record.
Mandy B
If you beef with this nigga, you don't play any records with that.
A King
But he's done it already.
Mandy B
Look at that.
A King
That might be the album. Yeah, that might be the album cover.
Mandy B
I want this to be the album.
A King
Yeah, you want the barrettes? Can I put. Now, if I case in point, if I put them shits on the back of my. My shit, you think they gonna give me a pass? Yeah, get out of here. Mandy, come on now.
Ebro Darden
You.
A King
As soon as I walk in, yomi will be like,
Mandy B
than painting your nails.
A King
That's something else he does.
Ebro Darden
Yeah, he gonna do both. I mean, listen, ultimately, like, the music has to be good and not just like a one hit song or whatever.
A King
I think that might be. That might be.
Ebro Darden
This needs to be. This needs to be the album of his career. Like, this needs to be the one that really reestablishes Drake as a dominant thing. And if all he has is Nokia and it's just like, okay, I got one hit song that people like. And then the rest of the album is just like, ah, whatever. No one is paying attention to that shit. It's gonna look like, okay, this boy lost it.
Mandy B
The fact of the matter is, whether it's a great album or not, the Internet is gonna say it sucks.
A King
No, they're not. No, no, I don't. I think some people will. But here's the thing. This is why you fair.
Ebro Darden
People will listen to it and be like, it's either really good or fair. People.
A King
And that's what we have to everybody.
Mandy B
Gender biases.
Ebro Darden
I'm fair.
A King
I'm fair. He's fair.
Mandy B
Hypocrisy.
A King
Nah.
Mandy B
I don't like domestic abusers. And baby, I can't wait to go to Chris Brown and Usher's constant.
A King
Here we go. See? Moving to go for it.
Mandy B
There is no fairness. There's fairness.
A King
We all fucked up.
Ebro Darden
That's fair. If you ch.
Mandy B
Thank you.
A King
We all up.
Mandy B
We are.
A King
We all up.
Mandy B
P.
A King
I love her energy. I can't do it, cuz.
Ebro Darden
The Lord knows we going to find out. So far he hasn't put out a single. I thought we might have got a single.
A King
Well, maybe we'll get one by the time this comes out.
Mandy B
Comes out.
Ebro Darden
Or.
A King
Or I'm thinking if I'm him. Honestly, it y' all anticipating my. I'm driving. Dropping it. I'm not dropping a single. The single. The single will be determined. After we see what happens the first
Ebro Darden
two days, people will gravitate.
Mandy B
Hey, y' all be getting me, nigga. It was like this little clip on the Twitter of Justin Bieber. I ain't even noticed. The nigga said, nigga. And I was like, ooh, this sound.
A King
Yeah.
Mandy B
Said let me get off the goddamn
Ebro Darden
Internet with my own Bieber with the Hardy R. I retweeted.
Mandy B
It was like, oh, this sound good. Then I went through G O O D, T, T, big T, capital T. I put the comments and was like, this is AI not just a Bieber saying nigga and getting away with it. I said, oh, nigga. I went so quick and deleted that
Ebro Darden
they go back like, yo, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope.
Mandy B
But also this sound cute. I like this. So I'm looking forward to it, guys.
A King
We are looking forward to it.
Mandy B
I know I introduced this week. We will never come in here under the influence of Nah.
A King
Yes, we will. I like Tequila up like the ignorance. Hey, Discord, let us know if you like the Tequila version of the show.
Mandy B
Get to stick to my outline.
Ebro Darden
No, we did not do the outline at all.
Mandy B
I did research.
A King
Okay. We hold it like we've done before,
Mandy B
but then niggas is gonna jump in the comments. These old ass topics, bitch.
A King
No, they not listen.
Ebro Darden
If we talking about shit that matters to your life and politics, nigga. It's never old, nigga. Shut the fuck up. Hello. Get some information, nigga.
Mandy B
Say it again.
A King
They got other options. They can listen to the people who you said with some. What's his name? Who did you say it in the English accent?
Mandy B
Peter, right?
A King
You got Nah. It's all love, y'. All. Don't be sensitive, y'.
Mandy B
All.
A King
It's all love, fear.
Mandy B
No, it's not.
A King
And war.
Mandy B
Not if y' all lying out here. I'm a dog.
A King
And don't be lying. Shout out to Charlamagne. Shout out to Black Effect. Shout out to Selective Ignorance. That is true. Shout out to anybody in the culture who's moving the culture forward and providing platforms for other voices. How about that? That's what it's all a fucking bout.
Mandy B
And Ian. Say it again. Say it again.
A King
That is all it is.
Mandy B
To Charlamagne, the God. Shout out to Jason Jolly.
Ebro Darden
Yeah.
A King
Shout out to J Rod.
Mandy B
Shout out to J Rod, King OG Pod Legend. Shout out to J Rod who had to be a father and pick up his school. Shout out to Yomi who hopped on the mic. Y' all let me know if y' all liked her or not, because that's gonna depend if she gets on that shit.
A King
I like on the mic. I like on the mic. You know what? Hold on. I know I like. No, I like on the mic.
Mandy B
Talk to me.
A King
But she. Cuz she gets to give us, right. The other caveats to your life stories that we don't. You know, that's all off air.
Mandy B
She has not done that.
A King
Well, kind of kinda.
Mandy B
Nah, nigga, that's off mic. Anyways, guys, make sure y' all subscribe wherever you're listening to this episode. If you came here and thought we were going to talk about voting, Stephen A. Smith and others, I'm gonna leave that for the bonus episode. That's where y' all can hear that. Not the voting rights. We're gonna bring that. But I'll talk Stephen A. And Ray J and all that shit on that also. Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of Selective Ignorance, where curiosity lives, controversy thrives, and conversations matter. See you puss ass hoes next week. Bang.
A King
Puss ass hoes.
Mandy B
Selective Ignorance, a production of the Black Effect Podcast Network. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. Thanks for tuning in to Selective Ignorance with Mandy B. Selective Ignorance is executive produced by Mandy B. And it's a full Court Media Studio production with lead producers Jason Rodriguez, that's me, and Aaron A. King Howard.
Timbo
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Mandy B
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Ebro Darden
Make sure you're following her at Fullcourt Pumps.
Mandy B
Now, if you want the full video
Ebro Darden
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Mandy B
It's your girl, Mandy B. And you just checked out my new podcast, Selective Ignorance. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you head on over and hit that subscribe button. And check out Selective Ignorance every Tuesday and every Friday, wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.
Timbo
Last night a blown call changed the game. This morning the Internet lost its mind and nobody's telling you exactly what happened. That's where Sportslights comes in. I'm Timbo. And every episode we're cutting through the noise, breaking down the biggest moments in sports and giving you the real story behind the headline. And we're going straight to the source. The athletes themselves, their locker room stories, their reactions in the moment, and the stuff nobody gets to hear. Listen to Sports slice on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. And for more, follow Timbo Slice Life 12 and the TikTok Podcast Network on TikTok.
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Another podcast from some SNL late night comedy guy. Not quite on Humor Me with Robert Smigel and Friends. Me and hilarious guests from Bob Odenkirk to David Letterman help make you funnier this week. My guests SNL's Mikey Day and head writer Streeter Seidel help an acapella band with their between songs banter.
Ebro Darden
Where does your group perform? We do some retirement homes.
Robert Smigel
Those people are starving for banter. Listen to Humor Me with Robert Smigel and friends on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
A King
What's up guys? This is Clifford Taylor IV and on my podcast, the Clifford Show, I'm bringing you conversations about all kinds of stu being an Internet famous referee. We're in the middle of a game, this linebacker, linebacker walks up to me. He goes, hey ref, my mom wants you to wave at her.
Ebro Darden
What?
A King
Time out, quarterback. On off is blue 42. Hey R. My mama want you to wave at her.
Ebro Darden
What?
A King
Where's she at?
Ebro Darden
Hey Ms. Parker.
A King
Listen to the Clifford show on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast. What's up fam? It's Isaiah Thomas and I'm CJ Toledano. It's our favorite time of the year on our podcast point game, the Playoffs.
Ebro Darden
We're digging into the biggest surprises of the season and I'M looking back on some of my greatest playoff moments. If we didn't talk ever again, I was fine.
A King
You just understood.
Ebro Darden
That's how personal it gets.
A King
Wow.
Ebro Darden
Then after that Game seven, Marquis come to.
A King
He's like, you know I love you, dog.
Ebro Darden
You know it's all love.
A King
This was just playoffs.
Ebro Darden
This was just basketball.
A King
So listen to Point game on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Mandy B
This is an iHeart podcast.
A King
Guaranteed Human.
Release Date: May 12, 2026
Hosts: Mandy B and WheezyWTF
Guests: A King, Ebro Darden, Yomi
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, the Decisions, Decisions crew dives into the tensions and mythologies around podcast history, accountability, and gender dynamics in power, sex, and culture. Mandy B, joined by OG podcaster A King and industry voices Ebro Darden and Yomi, addresses viral online takes, “getting receipts” and challenging “revisionist history,” revisiting who deserves credit for podcasting’s Black cultural ecosystem. The crew also tackles hot-button cultural topics including the Monica Lewinsky discourse, gendered double standards in sexual assault, and heated predictions about Drake’s upcoming album.
The episode is infused with the hosts’ trademark humor, candid debate, and fearless opinions—an unfiltered roundtable pushing listeners to rethink widely-held biases about relationships, the media industry, and responsibility in both personal and public spaces.
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[21:02 - 58:51]
[64:16 - 91:56]
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This episode is a masterclass in candid culture commentary—pulling receipts, naming names, and refusing easy answers. Whether you’re invested in the business of hip-hop/podcasting, gender politics, or just a fan of unapologetic real talk, Mandy B and crew deliver a jam-packed, irreverent lesson in why “being first” means little if you don’t lift others up—and why grown conversation must leave space for mess, complexity, and, above all, truth.