Podcast Summary: "The Pee Pee Girls"

Decisions, Decisions — The Black Effect Podcast Network & iHeartPodcasts
Episode Date: February 2, 2026
Hosts: Mandii B and WeezyWTF

Episode Overview

In this candid and highly entertaining episode of "Decisions, Decisions," Mandii B and WeezyWTF unpack the realities of dating, relationships, and sexual boundaries – with a heavy dose of unfiltered humor. The hosts discuss societal expectations around relationships, personal evolution in dating standards, and the nuances of “dating up” or “dating down.” True to form, the conversation also journeys into taboo kinks (including watersports), the mythos around partner attractiveness, and self-acceptance in love and sex. This episode is a no-holds-barred, laugh-out-loud guide to unlearning “shoulds” and embracing authenticity—no matter how messy it might get.

Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. Dating “Types” and Modern Relationship Realities

• Choosing Partners with Open Eyes:
  Mandii and Weezy riff on the pitfalls of dating men based on potential or social clout rather than realistic compatibility.
  Key advice: “Why are you dating someone who is still going through a divorce with four kids and an unstable job?... The reality is, the girls that the guys are really dating aren’t the guys that everyone wants... They’re the more regular guys.” – Mandii B (00:39, 44:33)
• Weezy’s List of '10 Guys to Date Before Finding The One' (36:07):
  1. The hot guy
  2. The cool/trendy guy
  3. The ambitious guy
  4. The nerdy/smart guy
  5. The guy who’s had a crush on you forever
  6. The partier
  7. The ‘perfect on paper’ guy
  8. The musician/rapper
  9. The older man
  10. The “one” who’s a balance of all
  • Mandii: “Them the worst types. Them the ones that make you end up on motherfucking Lifetime movies.” (37:35)
  • Weezy: “You have to know how to move with that person... But really you gotta know how to move with yourself.” (42:33)

2. The 'Atmosphere' of Dating: Are Attractive Partners Social Currency?

• Carlos Miller Clip Discussion (10:53):
  • Miller claims that men are judged by the attractiveness of their partners in business/social settings: “You can get a lot more opportunities as a man from other men if they know that you're a guy that brings around a nice atmosphere…”
  • Weezy: “That is so Atlanta. Gross.” (11:34)
  • Mandii challenges the logic: “The idea that a man would think you're a bad decision maker because of the look of your partner, I think is false... Men will sit here and still cosign an abuser.” (12:00)
• Double Standards & Hypocrisy:
  • Rich, influential men often marry safe/“average” partners and cheat with “baddies.”
  • Weezy: “I actually think a lot of rich men have ugly wives.” (15:20)

3. Celebrating (and Roasting) ‘Taboo’ Kinks: Urine Play and “The Pee Pee Girls”

• My Strange Addiction Segment (22:13):
  • The hosts react to a reality show clip featuring people consuming urine, mocking the pseudo-science and questioning authenticity:
    “This is clearly a kink.” – Weezy (22:33)
    “If they die, I'm not going to be mad. I'm not going to be sad and I'm not going to say they deserve it, but bitch…” – Mandii (24:00)
• Personal Kink Confessions:
  • Mandii and Weezy playfully brand themselves "The Pee Pee Girls" after recounting various (consensual) pee-related sexual escapades, then roast each other for their history:
    • “You said...your pissy ass fucked up the hotel room… That was one time in the last three years. You had multiple pee stories!” – Eden & Mandii (26:43–26:49)
    • Weezy: “You was pee peeing. I remember… That was New Year 2024. We are literally in 2026... That was one year ago!” (27:07–27:18)
  • Social stigma, double standards, and “Nastiness thresholds” for sexual adventure are all joyfully debated.

4. Authenticity Versus Societal Milestones

• Choosing Happy, Not Just Conventional:
  • Mandii shares her preference for independence, resisting relationship milestones like cohabitation and marriage:
    “I want to create memories and be happy with anyone that's in my life… I don't want to live with nobody. No, never.” (53:24, 54:36)
• Self-Knowledge and Setting Boundaries:
  • The importance of knowing what you want, rather than subscribing blindly to ‘rules of dating,’ is a theme throughout.
  • Weezy: “There is advice that I really think I could give to people that are in the mix... but a lot of times, I put way too much effort into a thing that was already dead.” (50:44)

5. Relational Self-Awareness & Navigating Dating ‘Advice’

• Mandii’s 'Gum Analogy':
  • Eden: “You chew them up and then...you spit them out.”
  • Mandii: “Did you just call me a man eater?” (51:43)
• Coaching, Therapy & Growth:
  • “Dating advice does work. Dating coaching can work. A lot of people really don't understand how to navigate.” – Weezy (48:57)
  • “I think there's so many people that don't know themselves...there’s really no blueprint. You can't tell nobody how to do things.” – Mandii (48:24)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Mandii on Settling:
  “Why are you dating a guy who’s 23 years old and may be overseas next year when you want somebody serious?” (00:39, 43:32)
• Weezy, summarizing dating successful men:
  “Our dinner always consisted of someone else popping in...it never feels like privacy.” (40:41)
• On taboos:
  “You said a lot... but she's done it a lot. First of all, pee pee, girl.” – Eden & Weezy (26:29–26:37)
• Mandii on non-traditional relationships:
  “I want a healthy, loving relationship with someone that I could live life with, that I could create memories with… I don't want to be around someone who steals my peace.” (53:57)
• On advice and self-worth:
  “They're really not dealing with the super hot guy...They're dealing with somebody just...they gave them enough attention to make them feel wanted.” – Mandii (45:54)
• On boundaries and honest self-assessment:
  “You have to know how to move with that person...but really you gotta know how to move with yourself.” – Weezy (42:33)
• Roasting each other (the “Gum” moment):
  “You chew them up and then you spit them out...Sometimes you like new flavors.” – Eden on Mandii (51:38–51:55)

Important Timestamps

• 00:39: Mandii rails against unrealistic dating choices.
• 10:53: Discussion of Carlos Miller clip — social value of attractive partners.
• 22:13: “My Strange Addiction” segment on urine consumption; pivots to the hosts' own pee-related sexual confessions.
• 36:07: Weezy introduces “10 Men You Should Date Before 'The One'.”
• 42:33: Strategies for dating the “hot” or “in-demand” guy; boundaries and self-awareness stressed.
• 50:44: Weezy reflects on dating lessons and knowing when to walk away.
• 53:24–54:36: Mandii articulates her ideal relationship structure (happiness, autonomy, no cohabitation).
• 54:48: Weezy and Mandy share honest perspectives on relationship needs and fulfillment.

Episode Tone and Language

• Authentic, raw, and unapologetically candid: Just as raucous and explicit as their brand promises.
• Self-deprecating and playful: The “pee” stories serve as both comic relief and a lens for exploring shame/taboo.
• Empowering: Consistently encourages listeners to set individual standards, reflect, and avoid societal pressure.

Takeaways

“The Pee Pee Girls” is a quintessential episode, mixing insights on self-worth and relationships with the honest, hilarious messiness that makes Mandii B and WeezyWTF so relatable. Listeners leave with permission to define “happy” relationships on their own terms and reassurance that every dating “fail” is a stepping stone, not a life sentence.