You've Got Decisions: Could Tattoos Be A Deal Breaker

Summary

Podcast Summary: Decisions, Decisions – "Could Tattoos Be A Deal Breaker"

Episode Information:

• Title: You've Got Decisions: Could Tattoos Be A Deal Breaker
• Release Date: March 5, 2025
• Hosts: Mandii B and WeezyWTF
• Description: In this episode of "Decisions, Decisions," hosts Mandii B and WeezyWTF delve into the complexities of tattoos within relationships. They explore whether tattoos, especially those bearing ex-partners' initials, can become significant obstacles in modern romantic partnerships.

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1. Introduction to the Topic

Mandii B opens the discussion by sharing a personal dilemma about her relationship. She has two discreet tattoos—initials of past relationships—that her current boyfriend finds troubling.

Mandii B [02:54]: "Could two tiny tattoos of 2X's initials be a deal breaker for you?"

2. Mandii B's Personal Story

Mandii recounts her year-long relationship, highlighting the depth of her commitment and the future plans she shares with her partner, such as engagement and children. Despite these commitments, the tattoos from her past relationships have become a recurring source of tension.

• Details of the Tattoos:
  • First Tattoo: Initials of a boyfriend she dated for five years, located on the back of her shoulder amidst other tattoos.
  • Second Tattoo: Initials of an on-and-off girlfriend, placed discreetly on her ankle.

Mandii emphasizes that these tattoos are small and not prominently displayed, and her boyfriend has never requested their removal, but they still cause him discomfort, especially during intimate moments.

Mandii B [04:31]: "He constantly uses the argument, what if I had my exes tattooed on me?"

3. Hosts' Perspectives and Discussion

WeezyWTF responds by assessing the situation from his perspective, expressing that while small tattoos may not inherently be problematic, the presence of exes' initials can symbolize unresolved feelings or a lack of full commitment to the current relationship.

WeezyWTF [07:55]: "She has to remove it. Valid."

Mandii B counters by reflecting on her background as a former polyamorous individual transitioning into a monogamous relationship, suggesting that her past may influence how she perceives the tattoos.

Mandii B [08:30]: "I think my leaning into being newly monogamous and a former poly person lets me know that I still have not let go of those feelings."

The hosts debate the balance between bodily autonomy and consideration for a partner's feelings, ultimately leaning towards the importance of prioritizing the current relationship's health over past associations.

Mandii B [09:42]: "You still hold those memories. You still probably have pictures and all the things with those people."

4. Advice and Conclusions

The consensus among the hosts is that if the tattoos are causing significant strain in the relationship, it's advisable for the person with the tattoos to consider covering them up or removing them to honor the partner's feelings and strengthen the relationship.

WeezyWTF [17:07]: "I agree. So our advice is if you really love this man, cover it up, not cheat."

Mandii B [17:24]: "You don't get a cookie for that. You should have been did that."

They further suggest practical steps, such as:

• Covering Up Tattoos: Using clothing or accessories to hide the tattoos during intimate moments.
• Open Communication: Encouraging partners to discuss their feelings openly to reach a mutual understanding.
• Reevaluating Commitment: Assessing whether both partners are fully committed to making the necessary adjustments for the relationship's sake.

5. Notable Quotes and Moments

• Mandii B [06:04]: "I have jokingly, like, been like, who is Marianne? Who is Antoinette?"

  Mandy humorously questions the presence of others' names on a partner's body, highlighting the absurdity in some tattoo decisions.

• WeezyWTF [08:10]: "I'm tightening."

  Weezy emphasizes the significance of the tattoos' locations and their impact on the relationship dynamics.

• Mandii B [12:03]: "I have a kiss on the back of my neck."

  This highlights the extent of personal tattoos and their visibility.

• WeezyWTF [17:58]: "They got daddy issues."

  Weezy touches on underlying emotional factors that may influence tattoo choices and relationship behaviors.

6. Additional Insights

Throughout the episode, Mandii B and WeezyWTF intertwine humor and candidness to address sensitive topics surrounding modern relationships. They emphasize the importance of mutual respect, open dialogue, and personal growth in navigating the complexities that tattoos and past relationships can introduce into new romantic partnerships.

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Conclusion: In "Could Tattoos Be A Deal Breaker," Mandii B and WeezyWTF provide a thoughtful exploration of how personal symbols like tattoos can influence relationship dynamics. They advocate for introspection and honest communication, urging individuals to consider how their personal choices impact their significant others and the future of their relationships.

Transcript

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[Mandy B.]

That's right.

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[Mandy B.]

If you would like to have us answer your questions. If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or a terrible thruffle, guess what? You've got decisions. You've got decisions. Baby, look at me. I'm always gonna try to find a way to start a goddamn episode. But welcome to Hump day. Welcome to youo've Got Decisions. Cause, baby, if you ain't got nothing else in this world, you got decisions. And I'm joined by Eden today.

[Weezy]

Hi.

[Mandy B.]

Hello. And we about to give y'all some advice. If you want your question, read on youn've Got Decisions. Make sure you email [e-mail] um, I guess Eden is going to put a graphic at the bottom. Yeah, I was going to say right there on video. If you want to see the full video of this episode, make sure you join our Patreon. That's patreon.com horrible decisions. And as always, we're going to let you motherfucking pussy assholes know we got a book coming out, so no holes barred. A dual manifesto on sexual exploration of power written by myself and Wheezy. We'll be out June 24, 2025. However, y'all, we would love to make New York Times bestseller. And in order to do that, we need your help. That's right. We need your help. I was looking into the wrong camera one.

[Eden]

I was just assuming you was rocking with the Y. I was walking.

[Mandy B.]

Okay, I'm gonna rock with the Y. We need your help. Make sure you order our book not only on Amazon, but make sure you support your local bookstores. Black and brown owned preferred.

[Weezy]

That's right.

[Mandy B.]

All right, well, let's get into this one. The subject matter for today. Could a tattoo be a deal breaker?

[Weezy]

Oh. What?

[Mandy B.]

All right. Hey, mommies and poppy.

[Weezy]

Thank you.

[Mandy B.]

This might be lengthy, but it's worth it, I promise. I've been dating my mans for almost a year now. We're fully in love, have plans to get engaged, kids, the whole damn thing. We've both made a lot of sacrifices and compromises for each other and have done the work to show up as the partners that we need each other to be. But there seems to be one hurdle that we can't get past. And it has been the only thing in this relationship that makes it hard for us to see us crossing the finish line together. I have two tattoos of two exes, initials on me.

[Weezy]

Oh, God damn it.

[Mandy B.]

One of my ex boyfriends who I was with for five years, and one of an ex girlfriend who I was with for two, on and off. Before y'all start giving your piece, I wanna give you guys some backstory. Both my mans and I are fully tatted. And to be honest, you'd have to go on a whole ass scavenger hunt to even find those two tattoos on my body. They are initials, not full names, and Both are about 1 inch by 1 inch and in discreet spots. One is on the back of my shoulder surrounded by other pieces, and the other one is down on my ankle. They're not all up in your face. He's never asked me to get them covered up, but he has communicated to me that seeing them, especially when we're being intimate and having sex, makes him feel uncomfortable and as if I'm holding onto those X's. And although he sat it up throughout his whole body, he constantly uses the argument, what if I had my exes tattooed on me?

[Weezy]

Terrible argument.

[Mandy B.]

But here's the thing. I've been with people who had their exes tattooed on them, but I've never felt a kind of way. I know that's an unpopular opinion, but tattoos aren't that serious to me, and I'm not about to be erasing my partner's past. Unfortunately, this opinion is not the same on his end. I think where the barrier comes from is that this is my first monogamous relationship in almost 10 years, and he has always been monogamous in his past relationships. I'm a retired poly person, and I think that might have a role to play in me being someone who wouldn't be bothered by a tattoo of another partner or ex partner on my person. I am 1000% fully committed to being in something monogamous. I just didn't think this would be a sacrifice that came along with it. We keep revisiting the conversation every few months, but it just turns into a whole argument, and it becomes the one argument we can't seem to move past or shut the door down on. I know he would drop it and feel safer about our future if I were to just get them covered up, but for some reason, that feels like I'm erasing my past or oppressing my bodily autonomy, brother. Another part of me is like, girl is dying on the hill for too tiny tattoos of X's initials. Really? That serious? I'm scared this might be a deal breaker for him to stay in this relationship. Should that fear be a deal breaker for me? So I'm asking y'all, would two tiny tattoos of 2X's initials be a deal breaker for you?

[Weezy]

You want me to be a devil's advocate? You want me to, first off, tell you how I feel? Like, what you want me to give you?

[Mandy B.]

First, I want both of y'all to say how y'all would feel, and then we'll get into the crutch of the matter. So I'm not gonna lie. I have jokingly, like, been like, who is Marianne? Who is Antoinette? Like, I've seen women's names tatted on niggas, and it's never. They'll be like, man, that's my mama. Man, that's my grandmama. Man, that's my child.

[Weezy]

What are you.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, my bad.

[Weezy]

What are you trying to say here?

[Mandy B.]

Like, I've, like, jokingly been, like, who that woman name on your body?

[Weezy]

Okay.

[Mandy B.]

But it genuinely, after a while, like, I don't think it would bother me if someone had their ex's name tatted on them.

[Weezy]

Where.

[Eden]

Right?

[Mandy B.]

So that is the thing. The Nick Cannon, Mariah Carey full back tat.

[Weezy]

Right? Crazy.

[Mandy B.]

Especially because, nigga, you might be doing the bending, and now I gotta see that.

[Weezy]

Oh, my Lord.

[Mandy B.]

I'm just saying that tattoo is too much. I think also, if it's your closet chest tattoo.

[Weezy]

Yeah.

[Mandy B.]

However, names and initials I wouldn't be mad at portraits.

[Weezy]

That portraits is insane.

[Mandy B.]

Might have to go initials. Initials I wouldn't be bothered at, especially if you're a super chatted person. One inch by one inch, however, she's like, they're not in big places. She said her shoulder blade. Come on, G. If you taking back.

[Weezy]

Shots, I'mma see it.

[Mandy B.]

She sees the tattoo.

[Weezy]

If y'all taking those panties off, I'mma.

[Mandy B.]

See it is up by his. By his face, which baby, that's where the ankles go.

[Weezy]

I'm be tight.

[Mandy B.]

And now he gotta look over and see your ex's initials. To me, though, if this is your person, right, and you super tatted, you're dying on a hill that makes me believe this relationship isn't that serious or you haven't fully stepped out of your poly ways and you're still in communication or love.

[Weezy]

Previous ex Shorty is definitely talking to them, though.

[Mandy B.]

You think so?

[Weezy]

She knows that they're gonna feel some type of way if she takes any one of them off, Especially the ankle one. Because the ankle one's the worst one. To me.

[Mandy B.]

The ankle one is worse than the.

[Weezy]

The shoulder. Yeah, absolutely. Put a shirt on. Like, I'm chilling the ankle.

[Mandy B.]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

For the ankle. I'm like, now I'm taking your panties off and I'm gonna see this tattoo. I don't care if it's 1 inch by 1 inch. It looks like a 10 foot tattoo every time I see it, and I'm gonna be sick every time. That being said, she could just put some socks on and we could really just resolve like that. But the principal. The principal tells me that you could take. If you have so many tattoos, that means that you could get. You could do that also.

[Mandy B.]

I think her leaning into sharing the backstory of her being newly monogamous and a former poly person lets me know that she still has not let go of those feelings and those relationships with those exes. Because you're not erasing a past by covering a tattoo.

[Weezy]

Right.

[Mandy B.]

You still hold those memories.

[Weezy]

Absolutely.

[Mandy B.]

You still probably have pictures and all the things with those people.

[Weezy]

For sure.

[Mandy B.]

You, out of the respect of your partner, if it's bothering them, you should care about your current partner's feelings, not what your exes may think. It's not erasing the past. I think that a part of you may actually be doing this. The fact that you brought up bodily autonomy makes me feel like you're resenting the power dynamic that you know is or the possessiveness that's associated with monogamy.

[Eden]

Monogamy. Yup.

[Mandy B.]

That's what it sounds like to me. I feel like you're rebelling against the possessiveness of monogamy and that's why you want to keep those tattoos, because you are a former poly person and you.

[Weezy]

Don'T have to get him removed. I had a friend who. His girlfriend. His current girlfriend now. Right. Right when they started dating, she knew that she had a tattoo. I think it was on her arm. Right. And it was a tattoo that an ex desired. Right. It wasn't even that big, so it was like a little figurine. Right. She got it covered up, but it was for her and for who? Her partner. Like, she knew, like, you know what, he might feel some type of way. So let me just do something real quick to make it a little easier. Now, that being said, if it's the principle. The principle is I'm not going to want to see initials of another partner on you. It don't matter right now. Can I put some socks on? Yeah. Can you put a shirt on? For sure. Girl, just take that tattoo off or cover it with something nicer.

[Eden]

Get it removed valid.

[Mandy B.]

Get it removed valid. Yeah.

[Weezy]

Now she'll probably. She'll probably cover it. Compare, like, knowing, like, maybe. Plus, they both tatted, right?

[Mandy B.]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

So I feel like something like this, right? And what I tell a lot of my friends is that you have to establish, like, the base of your relationship. So if you just started. If that's your man for real, right. Now you guys are starting. Let's start a little honest and with, like, good principles, which is. Yo, I'm going to be honest. Do you really feel some type of way about this tattoo? Yes or no? Like, tell me yes or no now, and that way you're not. I don't know. Okay. They feel some type of way. For sure. I might have to get this.

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[Mandy B.]

Would you guys get matching tattoos like.

[Weezy]

Me and Wolf together?

[Mandy B.]

No, not you. A wolf together.

[Weezy]

Okay, first of all, what's wrong with that?

[Mandy B.]

Yo, shut up.

[Weezy]

A lot. A lot.

[Geico Voiceover]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

I'm sorry.

[Mandy B.]

I mean, yeah, we could actually put bananas on both of you first.

[Weezy]

Why Would I want a banana?

[Mandy B.]

First off, you have.

[Weezy]

That's half racist right there.

[Mandy B.]

Don't you have a money bag and an orange tatted on you?

[Weezy]

That's not the point here.

[Mandy B.]

Talking about damn.

[Weezy]

Actually, you know, that's actually a great point.

[Mandy B.]

What are we talking?

[Eden]

That's a great point.

[Weezy]

I'm not gonna lie. And that is not one inch by one. Just like kind of two inches.

[Mandy B.]

You have a five by five ab. Your knee.

[Eden]

Yeah, check me.

[Mandy B.]

Like, you already have a stamp of two tatted on you. Of course. Wolves coming next.

[Weezy]

First of all, it's an orange and you got two. I can't say anything about that.

[Mandy B.]

Damn, that is crazy.

[Weezy]

Worth the commitment. It's a great. It's a great tattoo.

[Mandy B.]

You might actually.

[Weezy]

Girls love it.

[Mandy B.]

Align yourself as being poly. Having Rory Mall. Rory Mall is tatted on you, bro.

[Weezy]

I'm branded. I accepted that when it was happening and I knew I was gonna do. I was like, I'm accepting this fate. I don't care.

[Mandy B.]

I can't believe. Okay, so you broke up with Rory and Ma. Have you ever considered.

[Weezy]

Technically, they broke up with me.

[Mandy B.]

Okay. First off. But then actually, they're double back.

[Weezy]

Well, thank God.

[Mandy B.]

Do you think they would have felt away if you covered the tattoo?

[Weezy]

No, but when they, like when they had to drop me and I understood everything, I was like. I was like, I got to say something to make. Say something.

[Mandy B.]

Because that was like a poly relationship. Yeah, pretty much. You laid hands on their other part.

[Weezy]

And I shouldn't have done that. And then next thing there, they were like, we have to drop him. I was like, I get it. Right? But the funny part for me was when I was like, I got to say something about me getting dropped. I was like, does anyone have a good cover up artist? Because that was my. That's the only way I got to approach it. I still have it. I'm all like, damn. But now. Now I'm her first. Now I'm sure I got to put pants on.

[Mandy B.]

You're shorty because you in a whole nother relationship. You know what's crazy?

[Weezy]

Oh, no. You know about to ask me.

[Mandy B.]

Let me turn this into a relationship.

[Weezy]

If you pay for it, I'll do it.

[Mandy B.]

What's crazy is. Oh, nigga, we got it in the budget. You want to know what's crazy now? I would feel away if I was in a relationship with someone who had their ex's something tatted on them. And I'm like, yo, when you gonna get an MB tatted on you? And he's like, yeah, n. That's crazy. I would feel away. If I'm in a relationship with someone and they go from having their ex tatted on them but not wanting me tatted on.

[Weezy]

Damn. So should she ask him to. No. Should she? Should he ask her to get his name tatted on her?

[Mandy B.]

But to me, because she already has two exes tatted on her, it probably doesn't mean nothing to him.

[Weezy]

Third time's a charm, yo.

[Mandy B.]

Third time's a charm. Is crazy. Have you ever considered matching tattoos?

[Weezy]

No. Fuck, no.

[Mandy B.]

So what's crazy is me and my ex did. Of course I. Of course we thought initials at one point.

[Weezy]

Damn.

[Mandy B.]

Because I could have, like, bodied that and changed it something else. But then what we wanted to do was get, like. He would get, like, the. Like, the spades. So, like, the king of spades and queen of spades type of dynamic. Shut up. First off, I'm a ghetto. Busted, baby. Y'all are so lucky. Y'all are so lucky. Back in the day, I wanted a cupcake tatted on my ass.

[Weezy]

Oh, boy.

[Mandy B.]

And y'all know I wanted to laugh now, cry later.

[Eden]

You almost got the paw print on the chest.

[Mandy B.]

I wanted the paw print on the chest.

[Weezy]

No kiss on the neck.

[Mandy B.]

I have a kiss on the back of my neck.

[Weezy]

Oh, what the fuck you. Oh, I've never seen. I've never looked at the back of.

[Mandy B.]

Your neck, and it hurts so bad. It's like.

[Weezy]

I'm sure it did.

[Mandy B.]

It looks like it covered when I tell you. I don't know how I don't have a fucking yin and yang tatted on me somewhere. I am the OD. 100% original millennial. Y'all are lucky I ain't got a tramp stamp. Like, I'm surprised you don't. I was here to get all of them tattoos.

[Weezy]

You have an ass tattoo?

[Mandy B.]

Do I have a what?

[Weezy]

An ass tattoo.

[Mandy B.]

What the.

[Weezy]

Is that an ass tattoo? Like, on your cheek?

[Mandy B.]

No.

[Weezy]

Oh, I do.

[Mandy B.]

You have an ass tag.

[Weezy]

Yeah. It's a long story.

[Mandy B.]

And you do not have an Aztec.

[Weezy]

I would show you two, but we don't have HR Patreon. It's. It's. It's. Hey. Right. It's a. Ever heard of Side Talk nyc? I have their little logo.

[Mandy B.]

You have a tramp stamp on your ass.

[Weezy]

It's basically. It's like a one inch. It's a one inch. Well, that's the only one inches clean close to my butt, but that's the one inch that I have on My cheek.

[Mandy B.]

It's on your cheek?

[Weezy]

Yeah, on my left.

[Mandy B.]

I'm not going to hold you. This is going to be very problematic of me. I am questioning the sexuality of any hetero man.

[Weezy]

So does. So does everybody with an ass cheek. Understandably. I get it.

[Mandy B.]

Just saying, like, even when I watch gay porn, I'd be like, now why you got to have an Aztec? You look so masculine. I need this big energy ass. That is just not kind of wild, right? It's really wild. So like, you be doing the bending now?

[Weezy]

Do I. Do I do the bending? I will. I would normally want to do the bending.

[Mandy B.]

By the way, if you do not know where that's from, get off this podcast, yo.

[Weezy]

That's just hilarious.

[Mandy B.]

And go watch that goddamn. Why did I get married? I guess why did you? You said you've never even considered a tattoo with an.

[Weezy]

Imagine that like, even when you were.

[Mandy B.]

Drunk, you never considered it.

[Eden]

Bro, I'm the same when I'm drunk.

[Mandy B.]

You know what's crazy?

[Weezy]

I always used to be like, you're just more excited.

[Mandy B.]

We're gonna blame liquor.

[Weezy]

Yeah.

[Mandy B.]

Every time we left the bar. Let's go get matching tag.

[Eden]

Right?

[Weezy]

Only because I feel like that's a girl thing for sure.

[Mandy B.]

I've never done it with a man. Never wanted to. Well, I clearly wanted to, but I'd never done it. I had never loved anybody like the way.

[Weezy]

So you gotta love them to do it obsessed.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, no, you gotta be you.

[Weezy]

This is why she should take those tattoos off. Oh, yes. Okay, Valid.

[Mandy B.]

So I'm not gonna lie.

[Weezy]

However.

[Mandy B.]

No, I had a third part. You either. You either are in love obsessed or delusional.

[Eden]

Or is that.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, wait, delusional is another one. So four or come from a broken home and have some. You have some sort of like co dependent like you never felt love.

[Weezy]

All these factors sound like she gotta remove and or cover this tattoo.

[Mandy B.]

It sounds like your daddy didn't sign your birth certificate. So now y'all gotta. You gotta get back to with the wrong name with a nigga. You got daddy issues.

[Eden]

She gotta cover it.

[Mandy B.]

I agree. So our advice is if you really love this man, cheat on cover it, not cheat.

[Weezy]

She don't.

[Mandy B.]

You don't. You said she don't. I thought you said cheat on him.

[Weezy]

Oh. Oh, my God.

[Mandy B.]

No, I agree though. I agree. I think that if you truly love the relationship dynamic of what this looks like and what it should be, you should just get it covered.

[Eden]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

Plus now there's more tats. So you wanted another tat Right, There you go.

[Mandy B.]

You a tatted ass bitch, girl. I know you created shouldn't be nothing. Cover that shit with some cherries or some bullshit.

[Weezy]

I think his, I think his feelings are very valid. He should also just make sure that he's like very straightforward about like, yo, this does not make me happy. Like, I'm not a fan of this. Like, what can we do about this?

[Mandy B.]

And I think you may also need to dig deeper into if you are really fully ready for what? Monogamy? Because I, I, I personally don't think you are. And I do think that you're harboring feelings comes with sacrifice into those things, into those tattoos. Yes, that's what I feel like. Right.

[Eden]

Yeah. She already made the worst mistake ever.

[Mandy B.]

So you telling me that what's the worst mistake ever?

[Eden]

The worst mistake ever is you going to tell me there's remnants of another man present and you going to tell me you not going to get rid of it because of your past.

[Mandy B.]

Hold on. You know what? That just sounded like. Wait, you know what?

[Weezy]

That just sounded like another man tatter her.

[Mandy B.]

So what about that remnants of another man that you can't get rid of. All I thought of is come, oh, your other baby daddy. You got to get rid of that kid because now I'm in here. I mean, that's other remnants of a man kind of.

[Eden]

Also the same tattoo is just like, that's, that's unacceptable. I can't do that.

[Mandy B.]

But a child like, okay, let me ask you, this kid, is the kid okay? And let's not be so dramatic and go all the way to kids. If, if a man gifted you something, like, so if, if you're wearing the necklace from an ex or a watch from an ex or anything like that, do you feel like when you get into a new relationship that those things should come off?

[Eden]

Wait, I'm not the right guy to ask.

[Weezy]

I might not be the right person.

[Eden]

Because I'm asking girls. I'm like, you wore that around him. Oh, I'm saying, I'm just, hey, I'm just keeping it a stack. I'm like, you wore that around him.

[Weezy]

Like I was fucking in this.

[Mandy B.]

You wore that around him.

[Eden]

Throw that away.

[Weezy]

Doesn't matter if it's a special night. Like, it means like in general.

[Eden]

Listen, whatever.

[Mandy B.]

Well, if you got the bread to change my whole wardrobe, let me know what we talk about.

[Weezy]

Lingerie, a little something.

[Mandy B.]

Nah, lingerie these nuts, nigga, I wore these pants around that same.

[Eden]

Lingerie these nuts. Yeah. 30.

[Weezy]

We go into possessions real Quick.

[Mandy B.]

Yes.

[Weezy]

Because I was definitely possessive. No, no, I mean. I mean possession. Okay, so let me ask you a question. Maybe this is my little quick ugd. If someone gave me a pricey gift.

[Mandy B.]

Okay, let's talk about maybe what's pricey?

[Weezy]

Let's say like over a thousand. Right?

[Mandy B.]

Okay.

[Weezy]

Right. And it's an everyday carry, so it's like, let's say a wallet. Right? And we're not. We're no longer a thing.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, this is real.

[Weezy]

Right? And let's say. And let's say I have a new significant other. Am I. Is it okay if I still have said wallet to be used every day?

[Mandy B.]

You know what's crazy about both of y'all bringing this up? Yes, it's okay to have the wallet. Because you know what? No nigga ever asks or says, hey, yo, we need a new mattress, and mattresses are expensive as fuck.

[Eden]

Oh, you think? I'm not asking.

[Mandy B.]

You are not making a bitch by you're asking.

[Weezy]

You're asking a woman to buy a mattress.

[Mandy B.]

You know how expensive mattresses are?

[Weezy]

A good one could be.

[Mandy B.]

Oh, nigga, I'm asking for tempur pedic if you think you coming in. And I want the shit that I got now that goes up and down because I got acid.

[Weezy]

I want the numbers.

[Eden]

She got payment plans. We gonna make it happen.

[Weezy]

Oh, okay. I feel. Oh, wow. Wow. You gonna make her do a beaming plan?

[Mandy B.]

No, no, no. He gotta buy it.

[Weezy]

Oh, you gonna buy it.

[Eden]

Paint a scenario. If we get. Let's say we get a new apartment. I don't got my mattress or whatever like that. But you got a mattress. You're not moving in the apartment with that mattress. I promise.

[Mandy B.]

No, but what about y'all get together, you both have your own separate apartments.

[Eden]

Okay, wait.

[Weezy]

What if it's a.

[Mandy B.]

You not buying her a new mattress that you knew she was just fucking her old niggas on?

[Eden]

What I'm saying is if it ever comes.

[Weezy]

No, I am.

[Eden]

What I'm saying is, if it ever come to a place where we like living together, you know, I mean, I know I just threw that in there.

[Mandy B.]

But if we living together. No, you're at it too much.

[Weezy]

That's when I would be like, keep your wallet, ladies.

[Mandy B.]

Keep your mattress.

[Weezy]

However, it's a nice wallet.

[Mandy B.]

Remove your tattoo. That's where we're at. Possessions are not the same. I think covering a tattoo is fine. And here's what you can do. You ready? When you break up with this nigga, because nothing lasts forever. Go, go. Throw your ex's initials somewhere else on your body. Just go get the initials back again. Like tattoos. You could always just add them shits back to your body when this relationship ends.

[Eden]

Or just don't do it again.

[Weezy]

Or just don't do it again.

[Eden]

Just don't do it again.

[Mandy B.]

Cover it up.

[Eden]

Just wait until you.

[Mandy B.]

You know what? No, here we go. Ultimatum time. Oh, wait, they're already engaged.

[Weezy]

Who's engaged?

[Eden]

They're engaged.

[Mandy B.]

They're engaged.

[Weezy]

Oh, they're engaged.

[Mandy B.]

They're engaged.

[Weezy]

Girl, if you don't go cover up.

[Eden]

That damn tattoo before this wedding, she's super up.

[Mandy B.]

Wait, wait, wait, wait. My boyfriend and I have officially been together. Oh, I'm. No, no, no. That's. That's the last one. Hold on. I think they're engaged. I think they're engaged.

[Weezy]

Let's. Dramatic effect.

[Mandy B.]

No, we have plans to get engaged.

[Weezy]

Oh, yeah. Cover up that tattoo.

[Mandy B.]

Okay. I'm not gonna hold you. No, no, no, no, no. Cover up the tattoo. When he get you a ring. That's the answer.

[Weezy]

Okay, okay.

[Mandy B.]

I don't.

[Weezy]

I'm not mad at that.

[Mandy B.]

If he's making the commitment to really fuck with you, tell him you will get a cover up when you get that ring.

[Weezy]

What's wrong, Wolf?

[Mandy B.]

Yes. Fuck it. Should she do it before that to me?

[Weezy]

Honestly, Loki, she should do it before that too.

[Eden]

I think she. I think she should be open to doing it before. Especially if you're really. You sure that this is your person?

[Weezy]

Don't make it a birthday gift. Don't make it a Christmas gift. Don't make it a holiday gift. Just come in one day with her.

[Mandy B.]

Look at my ankle.

[Weezy]

And then. And you know what he's gonna say? What? Like he's not gonna notice. He's gonna forget.

[Mandy B.]

He might at this point be like, it's about time.

[Eden]

Yeah, it's about time. It's about time.

[Mandy B.]

You don't get a cookie for that. You should have been did that.

[Eden]

You can get a cookie now.

[Mandy B.]

And. And. Will you get down, baby? I did it all for the nookie.

[Weezy]

Come on.

[Mandy B.]

The nookie.

[Eden]

Come on.

[Mandy B.]

So you could say. Do you know that song?

[Eden]

No, I don't know.

[Mandy B.]

I didn't think so. You're a little young.

[Eden]

Florida.

[Mandy B.]

No, it's not. It's.

[Weezy]

Oh, got me there too.

[Eden]

I'm not. The demo.

[Mandy B.]

All right. No, the demo.

[Weezy]

Right now. You know where else they could spend their money? No Holds Bar.

[Mandy B.]

Y'all could spend your money. No holds barred, y'all. This is another episode of you got decisions. Again, if you want to see the full video, make sure you go to horror patreon.com backslash horrible decisions. And again, no holes barred. Available now for pre order. Help us get to the New York Times Bestsellers list. We need your help to do it, so make sure you go anywhere you purchase books, anywhere you listen to books. I believe our audio version is also pre sale. Make sure you cop that shit now. By the way, yes, Weezy and I are reading the book so you will get our voices reading out our book to you. But again, make sure you get them hardcovers. We need like 10,000 copies, nigga. So if just 10% of y'all a week can motherfucking buy that book, we can make it to that list. Help us make his story or her story. Eddie, you've been us too long.

[Weezy]

It's March.

[Mandy B.]

We can't wait to design that tattoo for your. All right, y'all. Thank you and make sure you stay subscribed and tuned in. See you guys next week.

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