You've Got Decisions: Did Cheating in High School Ruin My relationship?

Summary

Episode Overview

Podcast: Decisions, Decisions
Episode: You've Got Decisions: Did Cheating in High School Ruin My Relationship?
Date: March 4, 2026
Hosts: Mandii B & WeezyWTF
Main Theme:
Mandii and Weezy dive into a listener's dilemma about a long-term relationship dogged by betrayal in high school and complicated by modern non-monogamy (the “lifestyle”). The hosts bring their signature blend of unfiltered humor, empathetic advice, and personal anecdotes to pull apart what really happens when old wounds play out in adult dynamics.

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Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. Kink/Fetish Education: “Mother Earth” ABCs

Timestamps: 02:14–07:30

• Weezy introduces “kinks of the week,” focusing on fetishes related to nature.
• Actorasty: A sexual fetish where one is aroused by rays of the sun or being intimate outdoors.
  • Weezy: “Someone with this fetish would love being intimate outdoors or under a large window on a sunny afternoon.” (02:52)
• Brontophilia: Arousal by thunderstorms.
  • Weezy: “I think I’m a brontophiliac... When I hear that goddamn rain and thunder, my whole body shuts down and I just get horny.” (03:54)
• Chasmophilia: Attraction to crevices, caverns, and valleys.
  • Mandy shares an anecdote about sex in a cave in Jamaica. (05:35–06:10)
• Tactile Exploration: Using different textures in the bedroom, like silk sheets, to enhance sensuality.
  • Weezy: “Silk sheets a on your body, like, you slide a little bit more and you don’t feel like... it just doesn’t feel as rough. But also, it’s cold.” (07:17)

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2. Relationship Dilemma: High School Cheating & Adult Dynamics

Main Segment Starts: 11:43

The Listener’s Story

• 26-year-old woman, on-and-off with high school sweetheart.
  • She cheated in high school, admits it was “immature and selfish.”
  • After reconnecting, she became pregnant; he didn't want her to keep the baby, but now is “an amazing, active dad.”
  • They have broken up and reunited multiple times.
  • Three years ago, the boyfriend introduced the idea of “the lifestyle” (ethical non-monogamy with cuckold/hotwifing dynamics): asks her to sleep with friends or fantasize about others sexually.
  • He makes little effort romantically, citing her “cheating in high school” as a reason.
• Her questions:
  • Is he still punishing me? Is this sexual scenario his way of processing pain, or is it just about control and humiliation? Can this ever heal, or should I move on?

The Hosts’ Take

• Emotional Stagnation & Punishment (14:22–15:12)

  • Weezy: “I don’t think anybody should enter a lifestyle with a hang up of betrayal... The fact that he keeps throwing it in your face, he’s not over it.”
  • Suggests that his “kink” might not be swinging, but humiliating her as a form of retribution.

• Forgiveness is Fundamental (16:13–17:25)

  • Weezy: “You can’t control how he feels... he has to want to let it go. You could do everything right, but if he’s not doing the work to forgive you, the relationship is dead.”

• Triggers Last—Can’t Rush Healing (17:26–18:42)

  • Mandy shares a friend’s story about a cheating-triggered language insecurity:
    “Anything that’s about Spanish or translating... I be getting in my feelings. Bitch, that was the fucking joke of my damn marriage.”

• Boundaries in Non-Monogamy (15:12–16:13, 23:37–24:44)

  • Weezy on her own open relationship:
    “If one of us is having a bad day, the relationship is closed... We shut it down at any inkling of not feeling 100%.”
  • They stress that venturing into ethical non-monogamy without healing past betrayals is a recipe for further resentment and pain.

• Is the Motivation Insecurity? (23:37–24:44)

  • Weezy speculates: “Maybe he’s not over not being enough for you. Maybe he’s bringing up this lifestyle because he feels like that’s what you need, because he’s genuinely maybe also not secure enough in feeling like he is enough for you.”

• Cheating: Up vs. Down (25:19–27:41)

  • Humorous but real debate about whether it’s worse to be cheated on with someone more attractive (“cheating up”) or less (“cheating down”).
  • Weezy: “Cheating sucks both ways... I’d rather my nigga cheat up out of here.”

• Final, Straightforward Advice (29:07–30:24)

  • Weezy: “If he’s not doing the work to [forgive you], the relationship is dead sis. And you should move on and stop fucking your baby daddy.” (29:28)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On brontophilia:
  Weezy, (03:54): “The way I rub my pussy when it’s raining, I be like, oh, my God. Time to, like, go play with myself.”
• On swinging without trust:
  Weezy, (14:22): “I don’t think anybody should enter a lifestyle with a hang up of betrayal or dishonesty or lack of trust... the fact that he keeps throwing it in your face, he’s not over it.”
• On the impossibility of forcing forgiveness:
  Weezy, (16:13): “You can’t control how he feels. You can’t control when he forgives you. You can’t control his healing journey.”
• On being punished post-infidelity:
  Mandy, (29:07): “Whether the sex is good or not... there’s absolutely no way that you should keep bringing other people into the relationship without you getting that bare minimum of feeling validated or loved by him.”
• Advice boiled down:
  Weezy, (30:24): “If he’s not getting over it and he’s not doing the work too, the relationship is dead sis. And you should move on and stop fucking your baby daddy.”

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• Kinks of the Week: 02:14–08:05
• Listener Dilemma Begins: 11:43
• Discussion of forgiveness, triggers & non-monogamy: 14:22–18:42
• Insecurity & “cheating up vs. down”: 23:37–27:41
• Advice summary / closing words: 29:07–30:24

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Tone & Vibe

• Real, unfiltered, and playful—Mandii and Weezy weave explicit humor with genuine care.
• They don’t sugarcoat realities about romantic stagnation, emotional honesty, or the messiness of modern relationships.
• Plenty of laughter, personal revelations, and the signature blending of sexual education with advice for “unlearning patriarchal norms.”

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For Listeners:
If you’re juggling old wounds with new relationship dynamics, Mandii & Weezy drive home that the only true path forward is radical honesty and real healing—not just sexual adventures to paper over what hurts. If your partner’s kink is punishment and not pleasure, it’s time to reconsider what you deserve.

Transcript

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[Mandy]

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[Weezy]

let's get into our kick of the week y'.

[Mandy]

All.

[Weezy]

We are going to do the ABCs of Mother Earth. I looked up these kinks fetishes that I'm like damn. I don't know if we've ever talked about it because what the fuck? So the first One. And I want y' all to guess what y' all think it is based on. Latin roots and shit. So, actorasty fetish. What do you think that means? Actorasty. And I don't know if I'm saying it right, but that's how it's spelled. A C, T, I, R, A S, T, Y. Actorasty fetish.

[Mandy]

All right?

[Weezy]

Y' all hoes don't know.

[Mandy]

Yeah.

[Weezy]

So does the sexual fetish known when someone is aroused by the rays of the sun? Therefore, someone with this fetish would love being intimate outdoors or under a large window on a sunny afternoon.

[Mandy]

What is the sun connected to acti.

[Weezy]

I don't know. I just thought y' all might know Latin roots. I don't know this next one, though, mind you.

[Mandy]

The other A1, I like vitamin D.

[Weezy]

The other A1 was way too easy. Y' all would have got it.

[Mandy]

Aquaphilia, okay?

[Weezy]

Fucking in the water. Aqua, you know? All right, so this next one, brontophilia. And this has nothing to do with LeBron James. Damn.

[Mandy]

I've heard this one. It sounds too. It sounds too tough.

[Weezy]

Brontophilia.

[Mandy]

So that means there's some anal play going on.

[Weezy]

This. Actually, I think I'm a brontophiliac. I don't know if that's the word, but this is me. So brontophilia is the fetish when someone gets extremely aroused by thunderstorms. What the fuck?

[Mandy]

Yes.

[Weezy]

Oh, I ain't gonna hold you. Okay.

[Mandy]

But I do, bitch.

[Weezy]

The way I'm bad. The way I rub my pussy when it's raining, I be like, oh, my God. Time to, like, go play with myself. When I hear that goddamn rain and thunder, my whole body shuts down and I just get horny. Why? Because you. Your body knows there's nothing else you

[Mandy]

can do right now, right?

[Weezy]

You can't go outside. You can't go.

[Mandy]

You know what I just said? So I went to Mexico to get this dental shit done. Long story short, one of the days, it was crazy thunder. So my nigga wakes up and he's like, damn, that sucks. And I was like, bro, we're on vacation to do nothing. And now rain is actually in the best place. So we come outside and it's an all inclusive reward. And you could tell they stress and they'll know what activities to do for people. They're like, you know, you guys having a good day? I'm like, we are having a fucking. I had that sex blaze on my face, you know, the little dried up come. It Look a little white. It looked like I had some eczema flakes.

[Weezy]

Just semen. I love when it rains. Give it to me. All right, and now for C. Let's see if y' all could get this. This one was strange. Chasmophilia, by the way, that's something to do with voice. You did so you did rain. It's all about mother Earth. Uh, chasmophilia, by the way, I love that there's kinks that we still don't know that I saw. And I was like, what the fuck? I don't think we ever talked about the ground. Other kinks close.

[Mandy]

What'd you say?

[Weezy]

No, I'm just saying. No, Weezy was closer.

[Mandy]

I'm thinking of something like feeling the ground, like, grounding close.

[Weezy]

Chasmophilia is an unusual and interesting fetish. What it means is that one is aroused by crevices, caverns, and valleys.

[Mandy]

Oh, wow. Okay.

[Weezy]

Literally, maybe a bitch want. Which, to be fair, I did fuck in a cave in. In In Jamaica. Now, I don't. I haven't been to Grand Canyon yet, so I don't know if my mind would be turned on by wanting to fuck in the canyon.

[Mandy]

Were other people in the. Like, how big is the cave? Like, the cave is wet.

[Weezy]

The cave is, like the size of this room that we're in. And there was a waterfall, like, blocking it. So it's a really dark cave. The waterfalls coming down. And we had. We bats in it. We. No, no bats. We was the only ones in it. It's like a man made one. It was at the nude pool. Oh, so it was like a fake cave.

[Mandy]

So it was a clean cave, but

[Weezy]

it was giving cake.

[Mandy]

No, because, like, you know when you go on vacation, you start walking with them pool shoes.

[Weezy]

Yeah. No, no, no.

[Mandy]

It wasn't giving that cave scared.

[Weezy]

It was given a cave in a pool.

[Mandy]

A sexy.

[Weezy]

A built a built cave. All right, so for the H, this one I found online, and I was like, never thought of it this way. This is called tactile exploration. So this is when. And this is a real vanilla tip, by the way, for y'. All. So when I read it, I was like, oh, I. I never thought about that. But, yes, this is great because I feel it when I'm in other people's bed. So tactile exploration is the introduction of varied textures in the bedroom where you would have sex. So you could either do this through bedding, you could do it through clothing or even accessories. So for. So, for example, silk sheets. I ain't Gonna hold you Gives a way different thing, a way different feeling when you're having sex on your body. Like silk sheets. I had a nigga with silk sheets. And I was like, this nigga is a. Because it felt like I just knew. I said, oh, you have to be a slut. First off, what nigga has silk sheets? But also, it made me feel like, why the fuck don't I have silk sheets? Because silk sheets a on your body, like, you slide a little bit more and you don't feel like. Mind you, it. It just doesn't feel as rough. But also, it's cold.

[Mandy]

I'm, like, wondering right now if those silk shit she things was recent, right? Somebody listening to this, like, hold on. Ain't Mandy living Atlanta, bruh.

[Weezy]

Yeah, silk sheets. I was like, oh, I need to do this.

[Mandy]

I actually thought men were whores for having silk pillowcases. Cause I'm.

[Weezy]

That's for that. No, that's you. Well, unless he got dreads or hair, then it is for him if he got braids or dreads. I'm not even thinking it's for a bitch. I'm thinking, this nigga cares about his locs. I hope so.

[Mandy]

They do.

[Weezy]

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[Mandy]

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[Weezy]

You've got decisions. You got decisions, pussy hole. Get it together.

[Mandy]

Okay, that wasn't bad. People laugh when you pass them out.

[Weezy]

I know y' all like when I say puss the hoes. So I know. Let's just combine the two.

[Mandy]

The pussies and the hoes.

[Weezy]

We going to combine the two.

[Mandy]

Do you know someone asked me if you were saying recently, pussy hole.

[Weezy]

They must be from middle America.

[Mandy]

She's definitely white.

[Weezy]

Yeah.

[Mandy]

And she was like, it's so crazy, because I've never heard hole.

[Weezy]

And I'm like, why would I call someone up now? Maybe because there is a. There is an no. And maybe she's. I think they do say that now that you said it. They definitely said that in Jamaica.

[Mandy]

Now she was a Jamaican, because where she got.

[Weezy]

Yeah, but no, it's a hoe pussy, asshole. Oh, but maybe do that too. Cause I say pussy asshole, so maybe it was a pussy asshole.

[Mandy]

Well, okay, maybe not squeaked out too.

[Weezy]

Nope. Because this video is only available on Patreon, So go to patreon.com and on the feed, y' all gonna get these curse words, bitch.

[Mandy]

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[Weezy]

But if you aren't on Patreon and you also want to send us your dilemma, make sure you email us decisionspodmail.com. you know what?

[Mandy]

I just wondered, looking at you, how

[Weezy]

come you never did your eyebrows?

[Mandy]

Platinum bond.

[Weezy]

I have. I've done it with makeup, but I haven't done it permanently. I definitely want to, but, girl, I just be like, do I really want to go that route right now?

[Mandy]

Why not? You already was a skunk.

[Weezy]

I did it. I did it with. First off, don't do it like you was already a skunk. That's crazy.

[Mandy]

You're like, well, do I want to go that radical?

[Weezy]

Yeah, Do I want to be that edgy? Like, I already stand out when I'm out. Like, I think that would, like, just bring too much attention to me. And I'm already a fine ass bitch. Bitch, I'm already fine as fuck. So, you know, I'll be like, let me not give it all to them. And then I'm not into like radical artsy niggas. Y' all know I like niggas with like, PhDs and like, nerds and lames, and I'm already a lot for them. So like, bitch, I gotta. I don't want an artsy nigga. I want my little smart asshole. Yes.

[Mandy]

Okay.

[Weezy]

Yes. Anyways, let's get into this one. Did cheating in high school ruin my relationship? Let's get into it. Hey, y', all, I'm a 26 year old woman in an on and off again relationship with my high school sweetheart. In high school, I cheated. It deeply hurt him, and I fully owned that. I was immature and selfish. Not long after reconnecting, I got pregnant. He initially didn't want me to keep the baby, but said he'd support me if I did. Oh, and he's been an amazing, active dad ever since.

[Mandy]

Okay.

[Weezy]

We've broken up and gotten back together several times over the years. About three years ago, he brought up entering the lifestyle. He gets turned on by cheating scenarios and asks me to sleep with his friend or talk about being with other men while we're together. I agreed because I thought it would strengthen us. Here's where I'm confused.

[Mandy]

That was not wrong to laugh.

[Weezy]

He rarely makes romantic effort. No flowers, no real intentional work in our relationship. When I bring up feeling unloved, he says he tried for years and I still cheated in high school, so why should he now? Sometimes I feel like he resents me. Sometimes I even wonder if he resents women in general. But then he. He sexualizes the very thing that broke us up. My cheating, and uses the swinger dynamic against me later. What starts as consensual ends up feeling humiliating. I can't tell if this is unresolved pain showing up sexually or if he's punishing me while keeping me around so he doesn't have to be the one who leaves. Am I trying to fix something that's already dead? Or is there a healthy way to rebuild trust after this long? Thanks for any advice. I love y'. All. This is a. This is a sticky one. I. Okay, okay. Right? I'm not gonna hold you. I was like, how old they are,

[Mandy]

though, for the cheating?

[Weezy]

They're 26.

[Mandy]

Oh, okay. 26. That's right. So I mean, it's. You better not bring up nothing I did in high school. You better not bring up

[Weezy]

tricky, because not only do they share a kid together, they're high school sweethearts, they've been together for however long. And now at 26, the fact that they're also now introducing lifestyle. Before, there's been a level of forgiveness

[Mandy]

with the cheating, for the cheating. Right.

[Weezy]

I don't think anybody should enter a lifestyle with a hang up of betrayal or dishonesty or lack of trust, even when y' all were in a monogamous sense, because the fact that he keeps throwing it in your face, he's not over it. And it's. It's crazy that you brought up that you feel humiliated. I wonder if he's not into lifestyle at all, but he's into humiliating you and making you feel like shit the way that you did to him years ago. Like, the kink here may not be the swinging, or it may be like the payback. It might just, in his mind, humiliating you after you show up to be who you were when y' all were in high school may be what's getting him off because he's not over it. So maybe he's trying to find a way to get over it and it's not working for him.

[Mandy]

I don't think that he's trying to find a way to get over it. I mean, maybe he is enjoying it during the sex talk, but as far as you may not think you're diving into non monogamy territory, but I just want to say you actually absolutely are. And what Mandy's saying about, like, there has to be a place of forgiveness, just for context, in my open relationship, if one of us is having a bad day, the relationship is closed. If this is having a bad day, I'm not just going to say, well, hey, I'm going to go out tonight and meet so and so. That's not how it works. We literally shut it down at any inkling of not feeling 100%. So knowing there's previous and past shit, but y' all somehow sexualize it. I think, like, maybe you're just enjoying pleasing and being kinky and it can be fun, but, oof, you've got to resolve that. Yeah,

[Weezy]

the question she asked to, is there a healthy way to resolve this or is the relationship dead already? I think for me, that's not an actual answer that you can answer. If he's still, you know, bringing up what you did years ago and using it against you. You can't control how he feels. You can't control when he forgives you. You can't control his healing journey. So it has to be, is he willing to let it go to form a more healthier bond with you? And if he's not, there's literally nothing you can do, bro. Like, like that's the thing that's, that's interesting. Like, yes, it takes two to tango, but when it comes to someone genuinely feeling betrayed or like they can't trust you, it has to be their journey and their desire to overcome that in order to make the relationship healthy. You could do everything right. You could never cheat on that man again. You could give him every fantasy he wants. You could cook him dinner every night. You could rub his feet when he get off work. If he's not doing the work to forgive you, the relationship is dead.

[Mandy]

And also, here's the other thing too. I'm saying, like, oh, my God, it's fucking high school. Get over it. But at the same time, I know that we can't rush anybody's process on how things make them feel.

[Guest or Additional Host]

No.

[Mandy]

Like, I have a friend of mine that's been married for, I think they just hit their 15 year anniversary. Whatever they're black couple. And whatever he did, he cheated. Years ago, I had no idea that Spanish, literally the language, is their trigger. Here's why.

[Weezy]

Bitch not they can't ever go to the Bronx together.

[Mandy]

Oh, Bishop. We were all talking about the Bad bunny thing. I FaceTimed her after the Bad Bunny joint, and we laughing about it. And I was like, bitch. So she was like, I'll call you later. So I was like, okay, why she acting funny? Hits me later and she's like, girl, I almost said his name. So and so cheated on me for like a year because he spoke Spanish to this bitch. And I thought he was on work calls. And I had no idea what they were saying the whole time. So anything that's about Spanish or translating or. Or whatever, like, I be getting in my feelings, bitch. She was like, so you was making a joke? Like we needed subtitles. And she was like, bitch, that was the fucking joke of my damn marriage.

[Weezy]

Oh, I ain't gonna hold you.

[Mandy]

Can you imagine?

[Weezy]

No. First off, you know, I don't really date niggas with accents. But now, in the most ignorant, probably right leaning fucking opinion I could ever say, bitch, if we go together and you speak another language, not in my house, not under my roof, bitch, you better speak English.

[Mandy]

I was with a Latvian. And every time he got on the phone and it felt a little too tricky, I'd be like this with Google.

[Weezy]

Yeah, I. To know that this man was having phone calls in another language with another around you is, oh, my God. No, that would be a.

[Mandy]

She didn't know it was another. And so she's like, yo, but that's

[Weezy]

what I'm saying to know hindsight.

[Mandy]

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[Mandy]

Everybody has their little tick I actually, I don't have a tick in my relationship and we recently had this conversation because I cussed out a guy like a business dealing, right?

[Weezy]

Okay.

[Mandy]

I, I cursed this dude out and he was like, yo, you ain't never talked to me like that. And I was like, I know we never got no crazy blow up fight. And he was like, I pray to God we never do. He's like, but if we did, it would be something that would probably last forever. Like, we would probably always talk about that one incident and we don't have at the moment in our relationship the, the, the rock of that thing from the past that we always bring up. And he's like, I hope it never happens. But a lot of people do have that. And I say all that to say in your particular case. I think it's this thing from high school and, you know, it's gotta go.

[Weezy]

It. Not only does it have to go, I just, I just had another, another thought with this. Right? Super interesting. And I know you're probably enjoying yourself with the lifestyle aspect of this relationship because it's fun, but I also wonder if him seeing you be able to fuck these other men, whether it be a friend or whoever else, I wonder if that's also making him more hesitant to believe that you would ever be just his. You know what I mean? Like, he may also like you to an extent or love you to an extent to where maybe he's even opening or bringing up this lifestyle element in these fantasies because he feels like that's what you need because he's genuinely maybe also not secure enough in feeling like he is enough for you because you cheated on him, which is even a deeper layer that I was like, damn, maybe this is for you. And he humiliates you after because there's an insecurity in himself that doesn't feel like enough. Like, that's why I'm saying that would

[Mandy]

make me feel so sad, right?

[Weezy]

Like, but I'm, I mean, and I, I brought that up because a lot of times, right, people assume that women have the threesomes with other women because they figure their man is going to cheat anyway. Let me just do this. I might not be what he wants. Let me just. And so what if it's in reverse the other way and he's not over not being enough for you. The fact that you said he removed the romanticism from the relationship and he brings up that he gave you all the romance and you cheated on him, that's why he don't do it no more you know what I mean? Like, you probably really scorn that nigga

[Mandy]

who the fuck you cheated with, ho. Cause now I want to see the

[Weezy]

N. You always want to see what somebody look like. That don't ever even matter. Okay, wait, hold on. It do come when you're in high school. What the motherfucker look like in high school don't matter.

[Mandy]

He might have been the young jock. And you know what? That nigga might have been fine, bitch. If you was cheating with a captain of the team. Like my homegirl recently said she found out and let it go. By the way, this is a mini. Listen to me, judge. So she found out her nigga was fucking somebody else and saw what the girl looked like and decided not to bring it up because she went through his phone and she was like, I gotta save like this, like the. Going through the phone for like a bigger thing. She was like. But I saw what the girl looked like and she was so whack that I know he was just horny that night. And I was like, damn.

[Weezy]

Okay.

[Mandy]

But she's like, I'm like, so what would you have done if the bitch looked better than you? Like, she said, I would have lost it. She was like. But I was just less jealous because I really.

[Weezy]

Oh, no, no, no, no. I sit with the fact that I felt away that my ex cheated on me with some bum bitches. No, I.

[Mandy]

Okay, I think there's two factors here with being cheated on. If you cheat on me with a bitch that looks like Beyonce, it's gonna bruise my ego, obviously. Right? Like, it's going to hurt a little bit, but also, like, I get why you had to fuck the bitch if you cheat on me. What a. That looks like RA Rachel Dole is all I'm going to be like, so that bitch thinks she's out here, wheezy. Oh, absolutely not. I mean.

[Weezy]

I mean, cheating sucks both ways. I did want to give a bit

[Mandy]

of advice for you, but which is worse?

[Weezy]

Cheating is bad all around.

[Mandy]

I don't care. Hold on, hold on.

[Weezy]

I'm not going to hold you.

[Mandy]

If he. If he cheated on a. That's so bad.

[Weezy]

I wouldn't. I wouldn't. I'm the opposite. I would feel a way that you cheated down like you cheated on me with that bitch with this couch surfing ass, homeless ass, bum ass bitch. Like, I would rather. Yeah, I don't care. I would rather be cheated on with a Beyonce or Rihanna or Salma Hayek than a motherfucking bum ass, couch surfing ass, bum ass bitch.

[Mandy]

Y', all, I just want to tell you that this homeless woman that Mandy, talks about her ex cheating on her work for years. She was like, yeah, and you follow the. And I was like, I follow her.

[Weezy]

Yeah. Y. Hold on. Let me tell y' all how. Let me tell y' all how this podcast actually be ruining lives and how some of you bitches are super weird. So not only did this bitch fuck my ex, knowing that he was my exact. Because she the one that let me know that that nigga was in there when I went to Jamaica. I found out later because Weezy didn't know who the bitch was that she was kind of trying to fucking fuck Weezy and her nigga and invite. No, baby, she's trying to fuck you, bro. You said she was you.

[Mandy]

I'm just. I'm just saying.

[Weezy]

I didn't. It was.

[Mandy]

I didn't.

[Weezy]

You didn't know. But she knew. She knew that you were my co host. She knew that she fucked on my ex, and now she was trying to fuck on y' all because you bitches are.

[Mandy]

I. When I tell you it was not that deep.

[Weezy]

Oh, no, no.

[Mandy]

You're talking about somebody else.

[Weezy]

Yeah, no, we not the bitch that wanted you to come to her little dancing class. Oh, my God, Mandy. I don't give a fuck.

[Mandy]

I'mma tell you the other girl. But it.

[Weezy]

Oh, well. Yeah. Anywho, I care that you cheat down. I'd rather my nigga cheat up out of here. Now, the last thing I want to say is.

[Mandy]

The last.

[Weezy]

The last thing. Well, this is the advice for the listener. We be giving up. We'd be giving away all of our business. But I want to give advice to. To the. To the listener person. So you said that you've entered this lifestyle with this man, but you no longer feel romanticized. He doesn't do anything nice to you for you. He doesn't court you. There's no flowers. There's no. And he almost is punishing you because of what you did in high school. I would say this. Whether the sex is good or not, if you guys are in a relationship or in some level of co parenting or situationship, whatever it is, there's absolutely no way that you should keep bringing other people into the relationship without you getting that bare minimum of feeling validated or loved by him. And if he's not gonna do the small things like make you feel loved, even if you don't love your ass, you shouldn't be out here giving him all of these fantasies and doing all of those things she already having a baby shit and in so honestly then if he's not getting over it and he's not doing the work too, the relationship is dead sis. And you should move on and stop fucking your baby daddy.

[Mandy]

Well that's what we're gonna go with every time. Stop your baby daddy. Stop your baby daddy.

[Weezy]

But it sound like Stop cheating down

[Mandy]

and thank you so much everyone for listening to another episode of this podcast. Whether you're on a couch, have a home or don't, we're so grateful you listen.

[Weezy]

Thank you so much y'.

[Mandy]

All.

[Weezy]

And again, make sure you send your letters to decisionspod gmail.com and to see the full video, subscribe to Our [e-mail] Forwardacityposition.

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[Weezy]

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[Weezy]

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