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Before we get into today's episode, we've got to celebrate the Black Effect Podcast network. It's turning five. Five years of powerful voices, unforgettable moments, and a community that keeps growing. This is the power of the platform. Now let's get into it. That's a stretch. What if he was like, baby, I just want to bend over. Not a finger, not a tongue, not a dildo. He just want a little chili pepper in his ass. I mean, we got it, but it doesn't mean that I'm necessarily going to. You are definitely not someone that I'm going to be in a relationship with. Wait a second. You draw a line judging. Wait, can we talk about that? Can we talk about then Is there because people ask me that about pegging, like, wait, you would be with a guy that lets you do that? I'm like, yeah, that would be nice. There are certain kinks that if a man brings up, makes him ineligible to be a partner to be with me. Why? Like what, What. What are some. I'm not. I'm not being with someone that I'm an ass. I'm just not. Okay, same. I'm not. I think one king for me, which is probably really strange for others, but I wouldn't be with someone who, like, I don't know what the name of it is, but the ones that want to be in, like, diapers and be on the floor and eat, I'm not. I couldn't. No, it's hard. It's a hard no, it's a hard. No. I mean, okay, I'm not going to that. But I wouldn't be in a relationship with somebody like that. And this is going to be y'. All. Y' all listening on you. You know, I could probably do that. I could, like, depending on the drunk night, like, how many shrooms, how many. Whatever I could do, I could do. I could do, like. I could do, like, scat, play, pissing, pegging, all that. I think for me, you know, we're not gonna get her face. She goes, you know what? You know, my line with draws draw at cross dressing. I don't think I could be with a. Because I like masculinity so much with men. I don't think I could be with a man who wants to put on fishnets and thongs and dresses. I couldn't do that either. I couldn't do that. Like, I think that that would actually make me unattractive to him. It's just so funny how, like, people create, like, where everyone's boundary is. You're like, he can shit on me, but he cannot wear pair stockings. Like, nigga. What? It's just so weird. I'm like, how you say. No, I'm just saying us as humans, we rationalize what is okay to us and acceptable to us. And then the other things is hard style comfortable with. I was just saying it's the same thing, right? As, like, what we're into, even physically, you know, like, it's our. We're willing to do sexually. It's the same concept. But it's just so funny how everybody has these different boundaries. And it's like, oh, no, I wouldn't. Yeah, but I would be turned off. I think that's when you get into, like, what turns you on and what turns you off. Yeah. Like a man in the diaper on the floor, and you got a bull iron. Nice and dragged. Yeah. Oh, yeah. No, straight racing. Straight racing Pussy. What are you doing? Pussy just not leaking. And I think that's what. How I would feel about a man wanting to dress up as a woman. Like, wearing a wig. None of that makes no. Which is crazy because I like very attractive men. Like, they be pretty. I like pretty niggas. Like, I said her. I thought she was scared to say that. I know. I like pretty girls. I call them pretty. I call them pretty. Cause it's funny. I sent her this nigga started liking my Instagram yesterday. I sent her her first thought. Yep, that's your type. Like, cuz, it's so different. But I like. I like a little pretty n. Oh, by the Way we're out the DMs. He didn't ask for my number. Moving fast here. Moving fast. I like moving fast. I like moving fast. If you know what you want, go for it. I like moving fast. All right, let's get into our vanilla shit. Vanilla shit. Y' all know, is our sex in the news and y' all the way. I might need an eye roll count from y'. All. I know this is gonna piss y' all off. So Gen Z's latest obsession, they are now coming out as gray sexual. What does it mean and how are they discovering they're gray? Let's get into it. They're not gay, they're gray. A surprising number of people are choosing to identify now as gray sexual, with many now sharing the moment they realized when they were gray. Gray sexuality exists in what many describe as a gray area between allosexual, which is experiencing regular sexual attraction, and asexual experiencing none. Those who identify as gray sexual may feel sexual attraction rarely, inconsistently, or only under specific circumstances. There's a growing community of over currently 8,300 members that are talking about them experiencing this. And I don't the size. They can hear y'. All. The mic one one user posted and explained that they had spent much of their life assuming they were just a late bloomer, saying that crushes came decades apart, rarely lasted long, and they often didn't feel sexual attraction even to their own boyfriend. Another person says, gray sexual is not. I just don't fancy it tonight. For me, it's being completely devoid of sexual desires in bouts which can last months. And then one day waking up and realizing they have the instinct that it returned that they want to fuck. And so it's like, I guess an up and down ebb and flow of having even the desire to have sex and not feeling the desire at all in any capacity. And see, now you may think you gray sexual. Oh, sometimes I want to all the time, sometimes I don't. Yeah, I think they just trying to throw names on it. They're just trying to classify everything. If you're not here, you gotta be here and here. Like it's just like, I think that's normal. I don't, I don't think every individual wants to. Every day, all day. I think, yeah, but I do masturbate. Everything with not having sex, that's how I go to sleep. Okay, we not the judgment, but to me that's some level of sex. Masturbation is still a sexual desire. Or for me to just come in that way or release in that way? Or do you think that maybe you just got accustomed to it for so long that this. It could just be a habit. It could just be a habit. It could just be a habit. Very much so. Um. It's funny because I brought this up knowing that you were gonna come on the mic. Cause you be. So I'm gonna call you out. It's okay. She's my friend that hates all. All the terms of everything. She just don't like language expounding sometimes. Cause she's from Florida too. So I think she just wanted to keep it like, bitch, you're either gay or you're straight. There's nothing. Shit. Oh, you too? Cause what are we doing? I can't keep up. I know. And I'm not. I can't keep. You said you're not, and I'm not. Okay. So how do y'. All. I can't even remember all this stuff. You just identify as straight. Yeah. How do you identify? But I'm not. I don't feel like I'm bisexual just because I will have sex with a woman every now. Oh my. You catch me on a good night. Maybe you might come home. But. Or not now. Would you be in a. Really. Okay. Absolutely not. Okay. Absolutely. So I'm not. Question. Let's flip the script. Because love that you identify as straight, but may eat some coochie. So do you. Would you allow a man to identify as straight, but sometimes he'll suck some dick? And would you be fine with that? No. No. Girl, we used to debate this artifact. I don't care. I do. She'll come in my room with a strap on on and be like. Be so excited. And I'd be like, you know he's gay, right? He is not. Just because he might like a little ass play does not mean he's gay. Well, what does it mean? It means he's. He could be bisexual. Some. No, it means he likes his asshole stimulated the same way y' all would put a pepper in an ass. Now you judging if I want to put a dildo. Pepper in the ass is a sensation. That's not sensation. They're getting milk. No, milking is a thing. They get their prostate milked. There's a sensation there when anything goes into a man's ass. But they're doing it for the burning. That's why it's peppermint. They're doing it for the milking of the prostate. And it has to be touched to be milked. Are they getting penetrated with the Ginger or do they just place the ginger in so it's not spicy? Yeah, now you're getting real. Two different things. Now we're playing semantic. Two different things. Something is going in the ass. But it's hot things, so it gives. It's like the mint peppermint shampoo. It makes your scalp tingle. I can make the dildo hot with the hot and cold lube. I'm just saying it could bring sensation. No penetration makes. That's a whole different. That's a whole different world. Fine. Okay. All right. Anyways, the hors d' oeuvre, I want to do differently because I want us to share stories and I let y' all know what stories y' all gotta bring to the pod. But with it our hor d', oeuvre, we give tips. So within the story time, I want you to give a tip to the audience. So, like, I'll start off first. So for me, and the tips are going to be around dating and hoe trips. That's the hoarder. So I'll start off with my story so y' all can see how it goes. I'll make it quick. My tip is if you are invited on a whole trip or if you are set to delegate a whole trip to draw everything out before you get there by that, are you getting paid? Ask what the money or the rate is out the gate. It's also important to ask how many men are going to be there and how many women are going to be there. Because if there's more women than men, you may get off skate free and not have to do anything on the trip. Now why I say you need to know the ratio is because unfortunately the men on the trip are going to expect to be with women on the trip. And so say you're on a trip with the main boss guy who's paying for everything. Not all the girls are going to get to go with him. However, unless you're in my situation where that did happen, surprisingly. So you just got a little taste of the horrible decisions Patreon. But why stop there? Tap in for the full, uncut and way nastier episodes over on patreon. Go to patreon.com horribledecisions and unlock all the messy tea, wild stories and bonus content you won't hear any where else. And now here's you've got decisions. If you would like to have us answer your questions. If you have a terrible job, a terrible boyfriend, or a terrible thruffle, guess what? You've got decisions. Hey guys. Welcome to you Got decisions, and you do puss. And so even though you might make the wrong one. Welcome back. It's another hump day, and we are joined by. By Deonce from the Grits and Eggs podcast. He here to also help us help y'. All. Cause y' all be having some motherfucking issues. We are very tired of you hoes asking us about. He got two baby mamas, and, yeah, he's married, but I just feel like we have a connection.