Dinner’s on Me with Jesse Tyler Ferguson: Bridget Everett on Saying Goodbye to "Somebody Somewhere” and Avoiding Auditions at All Costs

In this heartfelt and engaging episode of Dinner’s on Me, host Jesse Tyler Ferguson sits down with the multifaceted performer Bridget Everett to delve deep into her acclaimed HBO series Somebody Somewhere. Recorded at Salt's Cure in Hollywood, California, the conversation spans Bridget's illustrious career, personal struggles, and the profound impact of her latest project.

1. Introduction to Bridget Everett

Jesse Tyler Ferguson warmly welcomes Bridget Everett, reminiscing about their first encounter at a karaoke night in New York's East Village. Jesse reflects on Bridget's meteoric rise in the entertainment industry, drawing parallels between her early performances and iconic figures like Bette Midler.

Jesse Tyler Ferguson [02:51]: "Bridget has always been a true original...I remember her early success being compared to the rise of Bette Midler."

2. The Creation and Impact of Somebody Somewhere

Bridget shares the genesis of Somebody Somewhere, emphasizing the show's autobiographical roots and its reflection of her personal experiences. The series, which recently concluded its third and final season, has garnered critical acclaim, including a Peabody Award and a perfect score on Rotten Tomatoes.

Bridget Everett [02:31]: "I felt like what I was doing was trying to tell a human story, not like exploit myself."

Jesse elaborates on the show's significance, highlighting how it serves as a narrative marker for Bridget's life and allows her to express her vulnerabilities authentically.

3. Navigating Personal Loss and Grief

A poignant segment of the conversation revolves around Bridget's personal losses, including the passing of her sister and father. The discussion delves into how these experiences shaped her portrayal of grief in her show and her coping mechanisms.

Bridget Everett [12:38]: "Most of us just sort of fade away. And, you know, and... there's nothing like it."

Bridget poignantly describes a scene from Somebody Somewhere where her character grapples with her sister's death, mirroring Bridget's own journey through grief.

Jesse Tyler Ferguson [42:05]: "It's like you gave your sister the most impressive...in a really beautiful way, in a very nuanced way."

4. Relationships and Support Systems in the Industry

The episode highlights Bridget's close-knit relationships within the entertainment world, particularly her mentorship under Michael Patrick King. She credits him for his unwavering support and pivotal role in her career.

Bridget Everett [31:21]: "Michael...he has been instrumental in my life. He saw something in me before anybody else did."

Bridget also touches upon her interactions with other industry figures like Cynthia Nixon and Howard Stern, illustrating the network of support that has bolstered her career.

5. Challenges with Auditions and Career Choices

Bridget candidly discusses her aversion to auditions, describing them as nerve-wracking experiences that undermine her confidence. Despite her success, she finds the audition process daunting and prefers roles to seek her out rather than pursuing them.

Bridget Everett [34:01]: "I can't do it. I'm too nervous. I'm just not. I can't do auditions."

This vulnerability adds depth to her persona, showcasing the human side of a celebrated performer.

6. Reflections on Somebody Somewhere and Personal Growth

Bridget reflects on how Somebody Somewhere allowed her to channel her personal struggles into her art, fostering a sense of authenticity and connection with her audience. She expresses gratitude for the opportunity to tell her story in her own way, free from exploitation.

Bridget Everett [40:11]: "I feel so lucky that I got to do something and express it the exact way I wanted to."

Jesse draws parallels between Bridget's experiences and his own, particularly in how both have used their platforms to explore and express personal narratives.

7. Conclusion and Final Thoughts

As the conversation winds down, Bridget and Jesse share personal anecdotes and express mutual admiration. Bridget humorously recounts her creative approach to handling her mother's ashes, highlighting her unique perspective even in moments of sorrow.

Bridget Everett [47:26]: "She likes to be left alone."

The episode concludes with Jesse teasing the next guest, Kathy Bates, promising another insightful and entertaining conversation.

Notable Quotes:

• Bridget Everett [07:15]: "I was on stage for 90 minutes to two hours, sweat my tits off, and Nicole just comes out there and steals the whole show."

• Jesse Tyler Ferguson [19:13]: "It's one of the reasons I think you resonated so deeply in that character. I think there was just an undercurrent of understanding..."

• Bridget Everett [37:28]: "What a mistake."

• Jesse Tyler Ferguson [44:24]: "Grief is hard."

Dinner’s on Me with Jesse Tyler Ferguson offers an intimate glimpse into Bridget Everett's life, showcasing her resilience, talent, and the authentic storytelling that has endeared her to audiences worldwide. This episode is a must-listen for fans seeking to understand the depth behind Bridget's captivating performances and her journey through personal and professional landscapes.

Production Credits:

Dinner’s on Me is produced by Sony Music Entertainment and A Kid Named Beckett Productions, with executive production led by Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Jonathan Hirsch. Special thanks to Joanna Clay, Angela Vang, Sam Baer, Hansdale, Sami Allison, Tameka Balance, Kolasny, and Justin Makita for their contributions.

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