Podcast Summary: "Dinner’s on Me with Jesse Tyler Ferguson"
Episode: Luke MacFarlane — on fixing broken things and being ‘dada’ to Tess
Release Date: May 13, 2025

Introduction and Friendship Origins

Jesse Tyler Ferguson welcomes listeners to an intimate episode of Dinner’s on Me featuring longtime friend and talented actor Luke MacFarlane. Jesse reminisces about their deep-rooted friendship that spans over two decades, tracing back to their early days together in Christopher Shinn's play "Where Do We Live?" at the Vineyard Theater in 2003.

Jesse (03:22): "We met in, I want to say, 2003. We were fresh face, 20-somethings cast together in Christopher Shinn's play."

Their bond was cemented through shared dreams and aspirations, despite Luke's subsequent move to Los Angeles for a television opportunity. The friendship endured as Jesse later relocated west, with Luke being among the first to be contacted.

Career Journeys and Growth

The conversation delves into Luke's remarkable career trajectory, highlighting his versatile roles in both theater and television. Jesse expresses pride in Luke's evolution not just as an artist but also as a dedicated father.

Jesse (04:15): "What's meant the most is watching him grow. Not just as an artist, but as a human and now as a dad."

Luke shares insights into his role as a lead in Hallmark's Home is Where the Heart Is, emphasizing his passion for woodworking and home renovation—a passion that seamlessly integrates into his professional endeavors.

Parenthood and Family Dynamics

A significant portion of their discussion centers around parenthood. Jesse and Luke compare their experiences raising sons, Sully and Tess, respectively. They laugh over their children's adorable attempts at language and the playful dynamics of naming parental roles.

Luke (24:00): "She started calling me Dada."

Jesse (25:31): "I was like, why did you have to share that? And...but they have to."

Their shared journey into fatherhood strengthens their bond, allowing them to find common ground in navigating the joys and challenges of raising young children amidst their busy careers.

Renovation Passion and Woodworking

Luke passionately discusses his love for home renovation and woodworking. He recounts the transformation of his Craftsman home in Los Angeles, a project that reflects his dedication to craftsmanship and design.

Luke (34:11): "I built something specific because I also think I kind of wanted to leave everybody with something that I actually really built."

Jesse appreciates Luke's hands-on approach, recalling moments where Luke's meticulous nature shines through, both professionally and personally.

Jesse (43:22): "The weights you lift are a tad heavier than mine, but there was a little shelf in the gym that was maybe a little crooked or a little wobbly. And you came in, your eye went right to it. The next day, you came in with your toolbox. You fixed it for them."

Coming Out and Industry Reflections

The conversation takes a poignant turn as Luke shares his experience of coming out during his early acting career. He reflects on the challenges and mental health aspects associated with being open about his sexuality in the entertainment industry.

Luke (48:35): "I really do think I was just trying to do it for my mental health."

Jesse relates by sharing his own journey of acceptance and the impact of portraying gay characters on Modern Family. They discuss the evolving landscape of the entertainment industry, noting increased acceptance and representation for queer actors.

Jesse (49:35): "I'm really glad that I started a lot of conversations or got to be part of starting conversations."

Their dialogue underscores the importance of authenticity and the positive changes occurring within the industry, fostering a more inclusive environment for future generations.

Future Endeavors and Closing Thoughts

As the episode wraps up, Jesse expresses heartfelt gratitude for Luke's enduring friendship and the shared experiences that have enriched both their lives. They look forward to Luke's upcoming home renovation show, celebrating the blend of his creative passions with his professional work.

Jesse (54:01): "I am so grateful to have you in my life. I'm so happy that we have this friendship."

Luke (54:47): "No, Jesse, the exact same to you as well. I don't have a ton of really super close actor friends, too, so it's really nice to know somebody for a long time."

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Jesse on Early Friendship:
  "We met in, I want to say, 2003. We were fresh face, 20-somethings cast together in Christopher Shinn's play."
  [03:22]

• Jesse on Watching Luke Grow:
  "What's meant the most is watching him grow. Not just as an artist, but as a human and now as a dad."
  [04:15]

• Luke on DIY Passion:
  "I built something specific because I also think I kind of wanted to leave everybody with something that I actually really built."
  [34:11]

• Jesse on Friendship and Fatherhood:
  "I am so grateful to have you in my life. I'm so happy that we have this friendship."
  [54:01]

Conclusion

This episode of Dinner’s on Me offers a heartfelt exploration of friendship, personal growth, and the intertwining of professional passions with family life. Jesse Tyler Ferguson and Luke MacFarlane share candid conversations that highlight their enduring bond, mutual support, and the shared journey of navigating love, career, and parenthood in the ever-evolving landscape of the entertainment industry.