What if the biggest threat to families right now is something no one wants to talk about?

Boys and men are struggling - and the ripple effect is hitting homes, relationships, and entire communities. In this confronting and deeply important conversation, Justin and Kylie unpack what’s really going wrong, why it matters for every parent, and what we can actually do to raise boys who thrive.

KEY POINTS

Boys and men are overrepresented in violence, suicide, addiction, and disengagement
When men don’t thrive, everyone around them is impacted
Focusing only on “fixing behaviour” misses the deeper issues
Boys need a clear model of healthy masculinity: making others feel safe and strong
Key areas for change: mental health, education, fatherhood, and purpose
Ignoring boys’ struggles can lead to resentment, division, and long-term social consequences

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Help boys become men who make the people around them feel safer and stronger.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

Boys by Dr Justin Coulson

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

Talk openly with your son about emotions, purpose, and identity
Model and reinforce what healthy masculinity looks like at home
Prioritise connection - especially with fathers or father figures
Watch for signs of withdrawal, anger, or disengagement and respond early
Encourage pathways into education, skills, or meaningful work

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