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A Sapphire Reserve story from the Foster sisters.
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Me Just today Teddy had a friend who just bends over backwards six days from Thursday doing stuff and getting invested in other people's situations and being helpful. And I said there are a couple of ways you could look at this. If they have a healthy self respect and live what they preach and talk and advise all these other friends and family, then they're a caring person. If they seem not to take that much attention to themselves and you want to look at that as sacrificing, it's not. Life is now a distraction. It is not easy nor comfortable to get to know yourself. Which is why a lot of people don't want to be alone because then they'd have to know themselves. So you notice they get involved in other relationships real fast because that way they can complain about the other person causing them misery rather than exploring how they approach life, how they approach living. I got one letter overnight, it went on. I'm not going to read it to you. I'm just going to describe the experience of reading it to myself. It went on at great, painful, painful descriptions of her adult son committing suicide and people who didn't let her know things and how she could have done something and people kept secrets and it went on for about five or six paragraphs. It was painful to read. Being a mother, I can get the sense of a mother in terrible pain. This was not yesterday, this was quite a while ago. And she was really angry at all these people and trying to learn more and more and understand why each of all these people did what they did. It just went on. My way of looking at situations like this is the going on and on about it sounds like. It sounds like you're really suffering and you are, but that's just part of the story. Because perpetual suffering over something over which you have no control it's history is a distraction. From what, you may ask? Well, you know, when people kill themselves, it's rarely that anybody could have done a damn thing about it. Truthfully. When people are determined to kill themselves, they find a way and they make it happen. One of the most awful things about when people commit suicide is the damage they do to other people. The guilt, the fear, the loss, the hurt, the missing, all of this. Committing suicide is really a very hostile act to everybody around you. Think about it. There's nobody on the face of the earth who hasn't heard about somebody dying or killing themselves. And they've watched how everybody feels guilty and awful and terrible and they have a hard time going on with life. So there's. There's a hostile part of it which makes it all the more sad. But it's all a distraction. Who did what? What could have done that? What could. How they didn't. I don't understand why all that is a distraction from accepting the person is dead. Now you might say to me, that's the nuttiest thing I've heard you say. They know the person's dead. There's a difference between knowing somebody is dead and accepting the finality. It's a different psychological experience because part of accepting it is letting it go. And we're committed now to this because it's a distraction again from what am I going to do with the rest of my life? What am I going to do with the feelings of sadness, feelings of guilt, feelings of discomfort, feelings of missing, feelings of loss, not having that kid in my life, the family got destroyed, destruction. I mean, there's so much that's been happening. So instead of confronting all of that and coming up with solutions, we obsess.