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Dr. Laura Schlessinger
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Caller (Morgan)
Hello. Thank you so much. It's such a gift to be able to have somebody to call like this. So thank you.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Thank you. How can I. Well, let me do my job then. How can I help you?
Caller (Morgan)
I am a tad bit nervous, I'll be honest with you. So I wrote out what I wanted to say. May I read it to you?
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Of course.
Caller (Morgan)
Thank you. Let me. Let me pull back up to the beginning. So before I do anything stupid, I wanted to reach out to you for your counsel. Navigating a family situation for context and clarity. Almost a year today from the state I called you frustrated and befuddled at my family, particularly my mother, whom when I ended a two month relationship, which I'll just side note, we didn't do anything morally apprehensible so it was easy for me to let him go and I realized it was not a smart choice. That guy freaked out, contacted my mom's gossip buddy and ended up talking with my parents over the phone, which I did not share many details with him, but he knew I was not close to them and I had made a healthy Distance for a reason. My mom sent him someone she never talked to or seen before, her credit card, to fly out and meet them after I head into the relationship.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
God. Oh, my God. Go ahead.
Caller (Morgan)
Thank you. She hid this fact and that she was also talking to him. I didn't need that. Just like you just did in this call. I didn't need to share any other details. You immediately got the picture?
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Yes. Thank you. Your mother's a bit of a wacko, isn't she? All right, go ahead.
Caller (Morgan)
Exactly what you said in the other call.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Well, at least I'm consistent.
Caller (Morgan)
You are. And to hear your words, literally to say that I was not crazy was so awesome. And a little follow up to that. My mom's friend heard our call, became very angry, she messaged me, told me how wrong you were, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Threw in a few Bible verse about honoring my parents and all of that.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Oh, man.
Caller (Morgan)
Yeah.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Birds of a feather.
Caller (Morgan)
All right, go ahead, lock together. Then more drama and insanity ensued from my family's inner circle. I ended up blocking a few of them because of that. And I'm assuming this is. This is probably good basis for the background of my current dilemma and reason for calling you my dear cousin. Thank you. My dear cousin, with whom, as far to my knowledge, is unaffiliated with this drama, invited me to her wedding. We were close growing up. Despite our parents contentions, I'm not. I have. I've not visited that state since I moved out. And I'm struck between wanting to be there on her big day and not want to interact with my family. I can tolerate my mom and my sister. I'm undecided about my grandma because I took it very personally when she viciously attacked my dear friend who helped me to find a safe place when I moved out for the first time. Just not sure how to talk to her. And most of all, my concern is encountering, as I, as you have said many times, my sperm donor. He hurt me in many deep ways.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Morgan, I have more than sufficient background to make a recommendation.
Caller (Morgan)
You.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
You call your cousin, tell her the truth to explain why you're not going. And tell her when this is all over, I'm going to visit and celebrate with you your special day.
Caller (Morgan)
Beautiful. Oh, man. Thank you.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Otherwise, it's just going to be. I mean, you're going to have a panic attack. You might never come back for them. Come on.
Caller (Morgan)
You're right.
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Dr. Laura Schlessinger
By the way, what Your barely boyfriend, the guy you dated for a few minutes and how did he spend the money of the credit card to get there? Did you hear anything along the grapevine of what that relationship became?
Caller (Morgan)
So he ended up non stop calling me, texting me stuff and I had blocked his number and eventually a stupid kitty got me and I answered a phone call and he ended up confessing to me that all of this and his friends held him back from doing that
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
well, you had good sense because he was a wacko, and wackos are birds of the feather. So is he still in communication with your mom?
Caller (Morgan)
I don't know. I would hope not. And she said otherwise, but she's lied before and I don't trust her, so it very well could be. Yeah, because they're still on Facebook.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Let's get back to your question. Please don't go.
Caller (Morgan)
That's what I needed here. Thank you.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
I'm worried about you being abused when you get there.
Caller (Morgan)
I'm taking this all in.
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
So call your cousin, tell her the truth of what's going on. Keep it short. Let's say you're concerned that you will be abused and that will be nice for the wedding. So you're not going to be there, but when they come back from their honeymoon, you'd like to perhaps make a trip, then spend a day or two and, you know, bring a gift and celebrate it with her privately. If she is a nice person, she'll be very gracious about it. If she's not a nice person, we have another person to block. But I'm hoping that will not be the case.
Caller (Morgan)
I hope so, too. Your. Your advice and your books have been so fundamental in my life. I started listening to you at 19 when my friend told me about you and when everything kind of fell apart. You have been a sounding block and have helped my little Swiss cheese heart. So thank you.
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Date: March 30, 2026
Host: Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Caller's Name: Morgan
In this episode, Dr. Laura Schlessinger counsels Morgan, a regular listener, on navigating family drama centered around an upcoming wedding. Morgan struggles with the desire to support her cousin while avoiding toxic family members, reflecting broader issues of boundaries, self-care, and honesty in difficult family situations.
Quote:
“She hid this fact and that she was also talking to him. [...] You immediately got the picture?”
— Morgan (03:00)
Dr. Laura's Response:
“Your mother's a bit of a wacko, isn't she?”
— Dr. Laura (03:10)
Quote:
“My mom’s friend heard our call, became very angry [...] threw in a few Bible verses about honoring my parents and all of that.”
— Morgan (03:35)
Dr. Laura:
“Birds of a feather.”
— Dr. Laura (03:50)
Morgan:
“I’m struck between wanting to be there on her big day and not want to interact with my family. [...] My concern is encountering, as you have said many times, my sperm donor. He hurt me in many deep ways.”
— Morgan (04:40)
Dr. Laura’s Recommendation:
“Call your cousin, tell her the truth to explain why you’re not going. And tell her when this is all over, I’m going to visit and celebrate with you your special day.”
— Dr. Laura (05:08 & 09:20)
Quote:
“You’re going to have a panic attack. You might never come back for them. Come on.”
— Dr. Laura (05:29)
Dr. Laura:
“Please don’t go.”
— Dr. Laura (09:01)
Quote:
“If she’s a nice person, she’ll be very gracious about it. If she’s not a nice person, we have another person to block.”
— Dr. Laura (09:40)
Dr. Laura skillfully guides Morgan to honor her boundaries and prioritize her mental health, even if it means missing an important family event. The episode underscores the importance of clear communication, self-respect, and the courage to choose emotional safety over appeasing others.
Useful For:
Anyone navigating difficult family dynamics, setting boundaries, or seeking guidance on handling social obligations amidst toxic relationships.