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Thank you. Dr. Laura, I just want to tell you I love your wit and wisdom. Hello.
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Thank you.
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What can I do for you?
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Do you want. Okay, so I have a gentleman in my life. I'm 66 and he is 71 and I've been widowed three and a half years and he's been with a two and a half years. And he was my. My half brother's acquaintance and their neighbors. There was a common couple that recommended him to me, my bro, my half brother and their best friends. So he came well recommended. That was my point I'm trying to make. But I'm just. He's just so nice, so complimentary. He moved across the country from Washington state to Alabama or he went to the panhandle, Florida. But I'm there a lot and I'm just.
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Whoa, question. He moved to date you?
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Yes.
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Then I wouldn't trust him. Then I wouldn't trust him. Then I wouldn't Trust him. Third time, then I wouldn't trust him. So if you want to continue seeing him, take a good three years to see if he's really nice, really sweet. I mean, for a guy to make a leap like that, it's an unreal world. He doesn't know you.
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I will say this. We did well. We date. We talk for honey.
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I tell people who live in the same town to date them. Date two years before they make any decisions because it takes that long to really know somebody. So, ma', am, let me just finish and then you can defend yourself because you seem to be prone to that right now. So I wouldn't trust this. Wouldn't have sex, wouldn't give him money, wouldn't have him move in. Wait several years and see how this rolls.
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Okay, I get it. It's only been six months since he's been here and then a year before that, so. And I totally plan to do that. He does have a separate place, and I do not plan to let him.
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Do you understand the point I'm making? For a man to make a whole change in his life for a woman he doesn't know puts a burden on you.
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I told him that. I said, don't do this for me because I don't know he did it for you. I did tell him he did it for you.
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That does put a burden on you immediately, because you don't feel that way. You would not have moved to go date him, would you? Well, then don't you think there's something a little off that he was willing to do that it's not as though he traveled, spent several weeks because maybe he's retired and he did that many times a year and then said, you know, I like where you live and I like you. I'm ready to make this commitment of moving that I would respect and admire. This I don't trust.
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We did spend seven weeks at different times, like seven different times a week together the first year before he made that decision. But still, to me, it's just pretty crazy.
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I can do two out of the three. I've already messed up the other.
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Am I supposed to guess?
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No?
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Podcast Summary: The Dr. Laura Podcast — "Learning to Love Again" (June 24, 2026)
This episode of The Dr. Laura Podcast centers on a heartfelt call from Julie, a 66-year-old widow navigating the complexities of entering a new relationship after loss. Dr. Laura offers her signature blend of directness and tough love as she guides Julie (and listeners) through important considerations about trust, caution, and self-respect in later-in-life dating. The conversation provides valuable advice for anyone facing similar situations, emphasizing thoughtful boundaries and the wisdom gained from life experience.
“He moved to date you? ... Then I wouldn't trust him. Then I wouldn't trust him. Then I wouldn’t trust him. Third time, then I wouldn’t trust him.” (Dr. Laura, 02:48 – 02:55)
Dr. Laura advises a minimum of two years of dating (especially when in the same town) before making life-altering decisions:
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“So if you want to continue seeing him, take a good three years to see if he’s really nice, really sweet... So, ma'am, let me just finish and then you can defend yourself because you seem to be prone to that right now. So I wouldn’t trust this. Wouldn’t have sex, wouldn’t give him money, wouldn’t have him move in. Wait several years and see how this rolls.” (Dr. Laura, 03:13 – 03:40)
"For a man to make a whole change in his life for a woman he doesn’t know puts a burden on you… You would not have moved to go date him, would you? Well, then don't you think there's something a little off that he was willing to do that?" (Dr. Laura, 04:13 – 04:32)
Julie admits to having already helped her partner financially:
“I can do two out of the three. I’ve already messed up the other.”
“Am I supposed to guess?”
“No.” (Julie & Dr. Laura, 07:52 – 08:00)
Dr. Laura maintains her stance:
“Yes, it is. So take your time. Don’t have sex. Don’t give him money. Don’t move in.” (Dr. Laura, 07:43 – 07:52)
For listeners seeking trusted, tough-love relationship advice, Dr. Laura’s wisdom in this episode is a strong reminder of the value of patience, boundaries, and honest self-reflection in late-in-life romance.