Podcast Summary: Dr. Laura Call of the Day

Episode: "My Inheritance Was Stolen From Me"
Date: October 14, 2025
Host: Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Guests: Jay (husband/caller), Jay's wife

Episode Overview

This episode centers on a couple—Jay and his wife—seeking Dr. Laura’s advice after feeling “screwed over” in a complicated inheritance situation. Having recently lost both his father and long-time stepmother, Jay finds himself unexpectedly removed as co-trustee and effectively shut out of the estate process. The couple wants guidance from Dr. Laura on how to address the family conflict and pursue what they believe is a stolen inheritance. True to form, Dr. Laura delivers candid, practical advice rooted in her ethical, no-nonsense approach.

Key Discussion Points

1. Complex Family Inheritance

• Family Structure & Estate Setup

  • Jay’s father and stepmother (married 52 years) both recently died.
  • Estate split: Jay’s family (including kids) = 48%; stepmother’s siblings = 40%; Jay’s brother = 12%.
    • [02:16] Caller - Wife: “There’s an estate and my... family... get 48% and her side of the family... get 40%... an additional 12% goes to my husband’s brother.”

• Cleared House & Loss of Trustee Role

  • Upon stepmother’s death, Jay’s co-trustee (stepmother’s sister) called to announce the house was already cleared out.
  • Jay learns he’s no longer a trustee—wills were “redone,” which he says occurred without his knowledge.
    • [03:35] Caller - Husband (Jay): “I was a joint trustee with my stepmom’s youngest sister… She said, ‘We redid wills...’ So anyway, I’m not the trustee anymore. And they cleared out the house before she had even passed.”

• Confusion About Next Steps

  • The trust specifies personal belongings to be itemized, but Jay and his wife find themselves excluded.
  • They’re unsure if they should confront the family or seek another solution.

2. Dr. Laura’s No-Nonsense Approach

• Questioning Caller Motives & Clarity

  • Dr. Laura presses for directness, cutting through the story’s confusion.
    • [03:00] Dr. Laura: “I’m sorry, can you get to the question first and then I can ask you some background?”
    • [03:13] Dr. Laura: “First of all, why am I talking to you? This is his parents and his family... Your wife doesn’t have to speak for you right now.”

• Defining Her Role & Recommending Legal Action

  • Clarifies she is not an attorney and can’t offer legal solutions.
    • [04:25] Dr. Laura: “You do realize that I’m not an attorney.”
    • [08:24] Dr. Laura: "I’m not an attorney and I’m not a businesswoman. I’m a psychotherapist."

• Clear-Cut Advice: Call a Lawyer or Let It Go

  • Dr. Laura bluntly tells Jay to either hire an attorney to fight or walk away—there is no in-between.
    • [07:43] Dr. Laura: "Well, why are you asking me any question about the property? You've been screwed over. If you want to fight it, you get an attorney."
    • [08:03] Dr. Laura: “So sit down, Jay. Look at the sky, look at the clouds, look at the dog walking by and decide if you’re going to fight it or not. If you’re going to fight it, get an attorney. If you’re not going to fight it, go make lunch.”

• Discouraging Direct Family Confrontation

  • She strongly advises the couple not to try “talking it out” with the other side.
    • [08:55] Dr. Laura: “You don’t approach the family. That’s a silly idea... You get an attorney to fight it or you walk away. Make up your mind. Okay, but if you think you’re going to sit down, have a conversation with people who are stealing stuff, you. Your IQ points have dropped out your ankles.”

3. Closing Exchanges

• Acknowledgment and Thanks
  • The couple expresses gratitude, realizing the only productive paths are legal or walking away.
    • [09:24] Caller - Wife: “Yeah. Okay. Well, thank you. We appreciate it.”
    • [09:31] Dr. Laura: “Well, good luck with whatever you decide.”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Legal vs. Emotional Advice:

  • Dr. Laura: “You do realize that I’m not an attorney?” [04:25]
  • Dr. Laura: “If you want to fight it, get an attorney. If you’re not going to fight it, go make lunch.” [08:03]

• On Family Conflict:

  • Dr. Laura: “If you think you’re going to sit down, have a conversation with people who are stealing stuff, you... your IQ points have dropped out your ankles.” [09:06]

• On Self-Determination:

  • Dr. Laura: “Sit down, Jay. Look at the sky, look at the clouds... decide if you’re going to fight it or not.” [08:03]

Important Timestamps

• 01:28: Call-in starts—Jay's wife presents the inheritance issue.
• 03:35: Jay clarifies how he was removed as co-trustee and family cleared out the estate.
• 04:25: Dr. Laura reminds them she’s not an attorney, underlines her role as a psychotherapist.
• 07:43: Dr. Laura delivers her blunt core advice: "You've been screwed over. If you want to fight it, you get an attorney."
• 08:55: Dr. Laura explicitly warns against trying to mend things with the family directly.
• 09:24: Couple thanks Dr. Laura and the segment ends.

Tone & Takeaways

Dr. Laura’s signature directness and emphasis on personal responsibility shine through in this episode. She pushes the callers to act decisively and pragmatically—hire an attorney, or accept the loss and move forward—while cautioning against futile attempts to reason with parties who have already shown a lack of scruples.

Listeners seeking guidance in similar situations will find her advice stark but clear: emotional turmoil and family dynamics are valid, but legal matters require legal intervention, not negotiation or therapy.