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Now, basically, we're not supposed to shy away from their emotions. We're not supposed to squash them with threats or goodies. We're supposed to teach our kids how to deal with their feelings you don't say you're going to annoy me to death if you do that. We're not going to love you anymore. Emotional blackmail is a sick, vicious thing to do. We need to care for our kids feelings and help them transform anger, fear, sadness into words rather than bad behaviors like vaping, smoking dope, screwing around. And you wonder why your kids are doing all of that. Unless they were born with a brain disorder that made them have a psychiatric problem, they're reacting. When we offer them responsibility that they've earned and they earn more liberty. That's not when we're spoiling them. We're helping them to grow and take on challenges. So those first three years of attachment offer security to the child so that your kid can grow and discover the world hand in hand with you. Day by day, that little hand's going to pull away and you're going to let go. Little by little. Like helping them ride a bike. You're holding the bike and then hands off, hands on, hands off, hands on. Until all of a sudden they're riding and we're giving them encouragement.
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Episode: Parenting Spoiled Children
Date: March 29, 2026
Host: Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Platform: SiriusXM / DrLaura.com
This episode of The Dr. Laura Podcast is centered around the realities and misconceptions of "spoiling" children, particularly from infancy through early childhood. Dr. Laura passionately debunks myths about parental affection leading to spoiled kids, outlines the actual causes of spoiled behavior, and details healthy parenting practices that foster emotionally secure and responsible young people. Throughout, her trademark directness and tough love shine, making the advice memorable and actionable for listeners seeking better parenting strategies.
Affection Does Not Spoil Children
Developmental Needs in Early Childhood
Spoiling Is About Avoiding Parental Responsibility
Vivid Analogy
Managing, Not Suppressing Emotions
Rejecting Emotional Blackmail
Growth Through Earned Privilege
Letting Go, Little by Little
Daycare as a “Damaging” Influence
Emphasis on Parental Roles
Dr. Laura’s approach throughout is frank, direct, and unapologetic. She uses sharp, memorable language (“these are stupid people and you should never listen to them”) to break through misconceptions, encouraging parents to embrace nurturing rather than avoid it out of misguided fears. Her confidence in evidence and experience, alongside a dash of tough love, shapes the episode's emphatic, sometimes provocative, but ultimately constructive tone.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone wrestling with balance between nurture and discipline, or concerned about "spoiling" their kids through affection. Dr. Laura’s clear, research-backed perspective challenges common myths and empowers parents to lead with love and responsibility.