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Angie
Hi Dr. Laura. Thank you for taking my call. I really. I really value your advice and I've been listening for quite a while. I don't know exactly where to start because there is some backstory. So maybe I'll just ask my question and then if you have any other questions for me, I can answer them.
Dr. Laura
Okay, good.
Angie
I've made the decision to cut ties with my. My oldest child, my son.
Dr. Laura
And how many kids do you have and how old are they?
Angie
I have three. The oldest is 35 and then I have one that is 32 and then one that is 29.
Dr. Laura
And what are the major differences between them all? Characterize them.
Angie
My son is. I truly don't know where he starts and stops and where his dad. They're so much the same person to me.
Dr. Laura
Okay, different question. Angie, you have three kids. I just want you to describe their similarities and differences. Leave out other people.
Angie
All right. The oldest and the youngest are More alike. They. More. Not as gentle or as kind or as, you know, they're just all about getting what they need and what they want, kind of. And then my middle child is more. Sweet and forgiving and a really good parent.
Dr. Laura
And how do the three get. And how do the three get along with each other?
Angie
They don't very well. My two daughters actually work for their dad. And then my son is also a businessman partner with him. And so. But they. I don't know why they keep staying. I don't know why they keep working for him because they. They don't have anything nice to say about him. And so I, I don't understand that, but I can't change that either.
Dr. Laura
I. I just want to make sure I understand what you're saying. The youngest and the oldest are not kind to their dad who employs them, sort of.
Angie
No, they're not. They're not kind to like each other. They're. They. They're really kind of angry and there's a lot of. There's a lot of.
Dr. Laura
How did they get to be that way? How did the oldest of the.
Angie
How.
Dr. Laura
How were they parented that they got to be the way where they could express that kind of bad behavior and get away with it? How were they parented by you and their dad?
Angie
We got divorced when they were very young and we had three custody. We would. He would, he would sue for custody or. Yeah, he wanted full custody. And we would go through the hearing and there would be a guardian outlight him. And the guardian Litemor would be like, no, they're too young. They need to stay with their mom. And then literally within two or three weeks, he would file again. And on the third time. His family is. Very, very wealthy and they just. I think they got tired of messing around with it and they wanted what they wanted. And so, so my attorney, this is 25 years ago, it's a tiny little town. He said, there's a rumor going around that your ex husband uncle bought the guardian at Litem a boat. And we went from the same ruling two times in a row to all of a sudden, within a year and a half, he changed his mind. And he said, you know, their dad can now have primary custody. And so my three children, sorry if I get emotional, went to live with their dad. It was hell, basically.
Dr. Laura
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Angie
She didn't. It was really hard on her. She wanted to come and live with me when she was in high school and her dad said, if you go, your brother and sister are dead to you and you will never be welcome back in our home. And I. It was. It was just crazy. It sounds so crazy to even say out loud, but he's just. He just had a lot of Money and a lot of power and a lot of. Was never told no. And I'm talking, like, millions and millions and millions of dollars where they could fly their own plane and a company plane, and it was just. I couldn't. I couldn't fight that I didn't have millions of dollars to throw it at this place. I was tired. I was tired of fighting.
Dr. Laura
Yeah, I can certainly see that. So your question today is what?
Angie
Yeah, well, I got diagnosed with cancer. And my kids wanted. Long story short, they wanted access to all of my personal medical records, and I told them why.
Dr. Laura
Why? What do they want to do with your records?
Angie
I guess they didn't like the diagnosis that I told them. I think what they wanted is they wanted to make sure that they could do anything possible to not make sure that they got cancer. I mean, I think they just wanted access to everything that I was medically going through. And when I told them no, my son forged a document pretending to be a. A doctor in Denver.
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Did you.
Dr. Laura
Did you give this over to the district attorney and have him arrested?
Angie
I did give it over to the hospital because. And they legal did get involved, and it was my choice to either push it forward or let it go. And.
Dr. Laura
And you caved.
Angie
No. Well, I. I gave it to them. And I. I told my son. I said I'm. That I'm done. I don't want you to contact me. I don't want you to.
Dr. Laura
Andy, as sad as this all is, how can I help you today?
Angie
I just want to make sure. Because he'll reach out and he'll.
Dr. Laura
One question. He's a manipulative shit. He got away with it. You already know who he is. I don't even know who he is. And I know from what you're saying who he is, so. You know who he is. So I know he's your son, but you have to be truthful with yourself as to who.
Angie
Shh.
Dr. Laura
You have to be truthful with yourself as to who he is. So if you're going to take this moment to be truthful with yourself as to who and what he is, tell me, who and what is he?
Angie
He's a narcissist. He's. He's. He's a bad person. It's. It's the grandkids. That is my. Is my grandkids.
Dr. Laura
Okay, then stop crying. Stop. If you want to eat shit so you can see the grandkids, eat shit. Give them the records and move along. Because I just needed to know what your priority was. If your priority is the grandkids, then you're going to have to eat a lot of shit and be okay with that because you want to see the grandkids. And if it really means you can see the grandkids, then it's a good deal for you.
Angie
I'm not okay with that. I'm not.
Dr. Laura
You're not. I'm sorry. You're not okay with what?
Angie
I'm not okay. I'm okay letting. I mean, as hard as it is, I'm okay.
Dr. Laura
Finish one sentence at a time. Are you okay? Oh, my gosh. I can't do this. I can't do this. I can't. Do you hear you? Do you hear me?
Angie
Yes.
Dr. Laura
What is your priority? Is your priority because you just threw it in. It's the grandkids, so I assumed you don't want to lose your grandkids.
Angie
No, I said I am okay losing my grandkids. I am.
Dr. Laura
It was okay then. Then, yes, ma'.
Angie
Am.
Dr. Laura
Then, yes, you can cut him off.
Angie
Okay.
Dr. Laura
And I'm sorry you have to ask the question. It seems obvious, except emotionally, it's tough because you have to admit he's a shit, and that's the end of it. And that's hard for a mother to do.
Angie
It is.
Dr. Laura
It is. But it depends how much more beating up you want to get. My number. 1-800-375-2872. And she was very emotionally upset, so it was hard to go back and forth quietly. But let me just say, give a sample of blood, they'll check the DNA. They'll find out if there are genes for certain kind of cancer. I think it's a fine thing for everybody to do to hand over to their kids. They don't need all your health records of how many times you got STIs. UTIs. Sorry, UTIs. But give a sample of blood to here, check it, see if I have it. Check your own blood, see if you have it really doesn't. In the old days, they needed to see your information. They don't need to see it anymore. All they need is your blood. All they need is your DNA and they can see if you have a potential. My number, 1-800-375-2872. If you like this podcast, be sure to rate it on Apple podcasts or your favorite place to listen to my podcast. Of course, I'd love if you gave me five stars. And be sure to share this podcast with a friend on Facebook or your preferred social media platform,
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Episode: Seeking Validation Entering Estrangement
Date: June 21, 2026
Host: Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Caller: Angie
In this emotionally charged episode, Dr. Laura speaks with Angie, a mother grappling with the decision to cut contact with her adult son after a series of betrayals and manipulations. The conversation delves into the complexities of family estrangement, parental guilt, and the pursuit of self-respect when enforced boundaries come at a steep personal cost—potentially losing contact with grandchildren. Dr. Laura provides her signature no-nonsense advice, challenging Angie to confront uncomfortable truths and prioritize her own well-being.
Angie’s Family Structure:
Personality Differences:
Sibling and Parental Relationships:
"The oldest and the youngest are more alike. They... They're just all about getting what they need and what they want."
– Angie, [03:21]
Fraught History:
"He just had a lot of money and a lot of power... I couldn't fight that. I was tired of fighting."
– Angie, [09:46]
Impact on Children:
Angie’s Health Crisis:
Boundary Violation:
"My son forged a document pretending to be a... a doctor in Denver."
– Angie, [11:19]
Legal/Institutional Reaction:
Dr. Laura’s Direct Challenge:
"He's a manipulative shit. He got away with it. You already know who he is."
– Dr. Laura, [12:40]
Angie’s Internal Struggle:
"If your priority is the grandkids, then you're going to have to eat a lot of shit and be okay with that."
– Dr. Laura, [13:29]
Angie’s Decision:
"I am okay losing my grandkids. I am."
– Angie, [14:23]
Validation and Tough Love:
"I'm sorry you have to ask the question. It seems obvious, except emotionally, it's tough because you have to admit he's a shit, and that's the end of it. And that's hard for a mother to do."
– Dr. Laura, [14:39]
Pragmatic Medical Advice:
"All they need is your DNA and they can see if you have a potential."
– Dr. Laura, [15:54]
Dr. Laura Dismantles Denial:
"You have to be truthful with yourself as to who he is. So if you're going to take this moment to be truthful with yourself as to who and what he is, tell me, who and what is he?"
– Dr. Laura, [13:00]
Angie’s Painful Admission:
"He's a narcissist. He's... he's a bad person. It's... It's the grandkids. That is... is my grandkids."
– Angie, [13:14]
Dr. Laura's No-Nonsense Litmus Test:
"If you want to eat shit so you can see the grandkids, eat shit. Give them the records and move along."
– Dr. Laura, [13:29]
The Emotional Crux:
"It was hard to go back and forth quietly. But let me just say, give a sample of blood, they'll check the DNA. They'll find out if there are genes for certain kind of cancer... But give a sample of blood to here, check it, see if I have it. Check your own blood, see if you have it. Really doesn't... In the old days, they needed to see your information. They don't need to see it anymore."
– Dr. Laura, [15:02]
This episode is a case study in the agony of parental estrangement and the boundaries parents must draw with adult children when those relationships become abusive and harmful. Dr. Laura provides unwavering, clear-eyed advice—validating Angie’s pain, while refusing to sugarcoat the reality of her son’s behavior or the consequences of Angie's choices. The takeaway: prioritizing self-respect sometimes means accepting the loss of family connections, even (or especially) when it feels devastating.
Listeners are left with Dr. Laura's signature brand of “tough love,” encouraging them to face hard truths, drop denial, and draw lines where necessary to preserve personal dignity.