Podcast Summary: "Today's Kids Don't See Sex as Special"
Podcast Title: Dr. Laura Call of the Day
Host: Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Episode Release Date: June 23, 2025
Introduction
In the June 23, 2025 episode of Dr. Laura Call of the Day, hosted by Dr. Laura Schlessinger and broadcasted on SiriusXM Triumph 111, Dr. Laura addresses a pressing concern regarding contemporary youth's perception of sex and relationships. The episode features a call from Shauna, a concerned mother, and her 17-year-old son, Jet, who are navigating differing viewpoints on an upcoming family beach trip.
Caller Introduction and Issue Presentation (00:22 - 02:08)
The episode begins with Dr. Laura welcoming Shauna and her son, Jet, to the program.
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Dr. Laura: "Thanks for listening to my Call of the Day podcast... Mom and Jet, welcome to the program." (00:22)
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Jet: "I am 17 years old right now." (00:41)
Jet seeks Dr. Laura's advice on a disagreement with his mother regarding an upcoming beach trip. Jet and his girlfriend have been invited by his 21-year-old brother to join him and his girlfriend. Jet proposes bringing his girlfriend's younger sister to create a larger, more supervised group setting.
- Jet: "I believe that it would be appropriate for me and them to go to the beach." (00:48)
Shauna, Jet's mother, opposes the plan, particularly concerned about the exposure to her son’s brother and his girlfriend.
- Shauna: "Yes, that's exactly right. I don't support the sleepovers." (02:03)
Dr. Laura's Initial Response and Value Systems (02:08 - 06:15)
Dr. Laura acknowledges the generational differences in values, emphasizing the sanctity of sex and commitment.
- Dr. Laura: "Kids have lost their way with respect to making sex special... It's not special. I agree." (05:04)
She criticizes the casual approach Jet perceives, highlighting a lack of reverence for relationships and commitment.
- Dr. Laura: "It's very sad that Jet doesn't have a notion of women on a pedestal... I support you in holding to a value system that actually helped women be more special to men." (05:13)
Shauna expresses gratitude for Dr. Laura's support, while Dr. Laura reinforces the importance of maintaining ethical standards.
- Shauna: "Thank you." (06:15)
Jet’s Attempt to Mediate and Dr. Laura's Firm Stance (06:31 - 07:21)
Jet interjects, attempting to clarify his intentions and the practicality of the beach trip arrangement.
- Jet: "I mean, yeah, I can definitely see where you guys are coming from... It's a very small house." (06:36)
Dr. Laura remains steadfast, reiterating the moral implications irrespective of logistics.
- Dr. Laura: "It's morally wrong." (06:54)
Jet contends that his brother's intentions aren't malicious, merely social.
- Jet: "I don't think that's what his intentions are, to sleep with her while we're there." (07:15)
Dr. Laura dismisses Jet's rationale, emphasizing the moral boundaries.
- Dr. Laura: "Oh, you're out of your mind, dear." (07:21)
Discussion on Gender Double Standards and Moral Values (07:21 - 08:17)
Dr. Laura delves deeper into societal double standards, highlighting how males often perceive casual relationships without the associated responsibilities, affecting the respect and value placed on women.
- Dr. Laura: "If males can get some nookie without paying the price of commitment, it's okay. They don't think that girls... is any big deal because they benefit from it and they lose nothing from it." (05:04)
She continues to advocate for a value system that upholds the specialness of relationships and the respect of women.
- Dr. Laura: "I think it's very sad that Jet doesn't have a higher set of values about it all." (06:31)
Conclusion and Final Remarks (08:17 - End)
As the conversation wraps up, Dr. Laura reinforces her commitment to supporting listeners through her hotline, emphasizing the importance of adhering to strong ethical and moral values in relationships.
- Dr. Laura: "Life doesn't have to be so complicated... You're just a click away from some terrific deals being offered by companies that get the DRLaura stamp of approval." (07:03)
Key Takeaways
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Moral Integrity in Relationships: Dr. Laura emphasizes the importance of viewing sex and relationships as special and rooted in commitment and ethical values.
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Generational Value Disconnect: The episode highlights a growing disconnect between younger generations and traditional values concerning relationships and sexual conduct.
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Gender Double Standards: Dr. Laura addresses societal double standards where males may engage in casual relationships without the same repercussions or responsibilities expected from females.
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Parental Concerns: Shauna's concerns reflect a desire to protect her children from environments where moral and ethical boundaries may be compromised.
Notable Quotes
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Dr. Laura: "Kids have lost their way with respect to making sex special. Love special." (05:04)
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Jet: "I believe that it would be appropriate for me and them to go to the beach." (00:48)
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Dr. Laura: "It's morally wrong." (06:54)
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Dr. Laura: "I think it's very sad that Jet doesn't have a higher set of values about it all." (06:31)
Conclusion
In this episode, Dr. Laura Schlessinger provides a candid critique of modern youth's approach to relationships and sexuality, advocating for a return to values that honor commitment and respect. Through the dialogue between Shauna and Jet, listeners are encouraged to reflect on the importance of maintaining ethical standards in personal relationships and the impact of societal shifts on family dynamics.
