In this episode, therapist and host, Malisa Hepner, explores the quiet intensity of overthinking and what it's really trying to protect. Through a blend of lived experience and practical tools, she walks you through how to interrupt spirals, reconnect to your body, and create space between you and your thoughts. This conversation isn't about controlling your mind—it's about understanding it, softening it, and learning how to come home to yourself when everything feels loud.

The next time you notice yourself spiraling, pause and ask: "What am I actually feeling underneath this?"

Then do three things in order:

Name the feeling (not the story—just the emotion).
Place a hand on your body where you feel it most and breathe into that space.
Remind yourself: "I can feel this without solving it right now."

This shifts you out of the loop of thinking and back into the experience of being—where regulation actually begins.

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